It was tearfully heartwarming when your baby came in and tried to lift your spirit. Children can sense our energy and you handle that beautifully. (I couldn’t deal) Also, this video is very informative for the ones who know nothing about hair care!
@@_belizeanperfection7563 it's not a negative comment. It's something that should be common sense. You can damage your head permanently. Chimical burns are no joke. Not to mention your hair might never grow back. It NEEDS to be said.
@@_belizeanperfection7563 Hunny these chemicals are very dangerous to combine. She could have seriously injured herself for life. We do not have time to sugarcoat or tiptoe around feelings. When children have access to this app and may think this okay to do. Someone needs to call BS on this.
as a cosmetologist, i just want to warn everyone here that perms and relaxers are NEVER to be done on color treated hair, ESPECIALLY bleached hair. the process of perming or relaxing hair is extremely harsh on your hair, because you are literally breaking down the structure of your hair and permanently reshaping it. color weakens your hair as it is, so anyone with colored hair or even super old color in their hair should not get a perm. your hair cannot handle it. if you are dead set on getting a perm, please just go to a salon and do a consultation. consults are usually free at salons, and they may even be able to do a test strand with perm solution for you to see how your hair would react.
Thank you !! I made the fatal mistake of bleaching and coloring my 4c on my own😭now I want to perm it and do finger waves … I was trying to find the easier way out but to the salon I go 😊.
Yeah! I do agree and I'm here also for Hair Buddha's new video! You're beautiful and this experience was for sure a hard one but as your son said: you're cute anyway! The final result fits you very well! Sending some L♡ve
I relax my hair and I have always been afraid to bleach it because it’s so many chemicals. As soon as I read “I bleached and permed my hair in the same day” my stomach went to my throat. I was cringing the whole time. But in the end, you came out of it stunningly! You look amazing bald.
You never do that..the bleach will straighten your hair itself, you could have just put gel on your bleach hair and still waved it...I was hollering through the TV Nooooooo don't do it
What does it being 2021 have to do with anything? Lots of ppl make this mistake for multiple reasons... She learned her lesson and is sharing this video in hopes to help prevent this for others. Try being more kind, it feels good 🙂
@@chunkychocolatechip1441 I’m saying 2021 we have way more access to information ... some people will do anything for views 🥱...just because I ain’t gullible like you doesn’t mean I ain’t kind ✌🏾
Awwwww your son is so sweet he said that that means he’s going to love his woman no what and not judge her you are raising him good sis you are beautiful no matter what you are a queen
Im here from hair buddhas channel and can i just say you are stunning. Your son is going to grow up to be an amazing empathetic beautiful man and that foundation comes from you! Your inner and outer beauty are dazzling queen. I know this would have hurt. A lot. But i wanted to give u some love. And tell u that a woman all the way from Australia can see how beautiful you are. Inside and out. Much love hun!
Your hair cut looked great; you have a great face shape for it. I think it was great that you posted this video despite how hurt you were in the moment. You, yourself, said there weren't many videos of people bleaching and relaxing their hair in the same day and now others can learn from you. Thank you for posting this. Also, your son was so precious. You raised a really sweet child. His encouragement warmed my heart.
I'm a licensed cosmetologist and these are two of the strongest chemicals you need to allow time in between to strengthen your hair back i would never do both same day
Hair Buddha sent me! You're absolutely GORGEOUS, you look truly AMAZING with that short hair! And please give your awesome Lil fella a big squeeze from me, he's such a gentleman trying to make his momma feel better! 💖🙏God bless y'all
Dang sis, I know you did this video at the beginning of the year, but girl. You where so ROUGH PUTTING IN THAT RELAXER THAT MY HEAD HURT FOR YOU. You rubbed that relax in your hair like it was conditioner OMG. Never been blonde do not know the process, but I am pretty sure you should have waited a couple of days or GONE TO A PROFESSIONAL that does coloring all the time and license. I know it's just hair but OMG :)
I feel for you. I did this year's ago, putting bleach and then bright red color on top, THEN 2 weeks later, I relaxed it😩. I thought my hair could handle it, but I was sadly mistaken lol. The WHOLE front of my hair fell out. I wore a hat or cap every day for over a year. You are a pretty woman and can rock the bald and short hair. We all live and learn🤷🏽♀️🧡
This beautiful human's video was in my feed this morning and I'm so happy that it was! Please know you put a smile on my face that was both needed and appreciated! Thank you, Lovely! 🌻💛🌻
It’s a spiritual journey sis! You’ll be okay I promise you!! You’re a strong woman, you’ve overcome a lot already as you mentioned in your video. Spiritual awakenings are rewarding…to know that that day God chose ‘you’! He loves and favors you! Take that walk with him on this journey and you will never look at this video as a ‘hair transformation’😉
I was going through anxiety as she was putting it in her hair because I’ve done the same thing and it happened to me I was like wash that of you now!!!!!!
@Lovely me If ya'll would just leave ya'll hair alone, and do simple styles are once in a while, I honestly believe that y'all wouldn't have so many individuals with bald edges, damaged hair that don't grow, alopecia, etc. That's why guys hair are in a lot better shape, and grow faster, and longer than most of the girls I see.
Beautiful black woman u are not your hair, and it does not define u, its apart of u! I ruined my hair twice, and I did what u did in my younger years and shaved it bald! Your hair WILL grow back, believe me! It's a learning moment and you will grow, wisdom and knowledge, remember sista u are essentially gorgeous with or without hair!
Girl I've been in this place, I went to the shop and needed a touch up for color and perm. The shop was like nope, color first and see you in two weeks. Welp I waited a week, went to a different shop, lied to the shop and got the perm. Hair started falling out when they were rinsing. Shop started crying, I felt like the idiot a-hole that I was and came clean on the situation. She bring the amazing person she is, cut my hair off and wigged me up. Girl when I say hardheaded.
@@gabriellesmith4552 I wouldn't do it, I strongly go against this, because once perm hit the hair, it will start shading and pop off. I'm speaking from experience, I put color in my hair once, waited and put perm over it, and yes it begin to break off
Your child is absolutely right. You are beautiful, with and without hair. You have a beautiful face and your head is very nicely shaped. You should absolutely not be self conscious about this end result. And now not only do you know better, but you've saved countless others from trying this. So thank you for putting this online, even if it was hard. I hope you feel better now, 6 months later.
I have to say, you really showed such grace in taking what happened in stride. I went to a professional and went back the next day with a gallon ziplock bag full of my dyed blonde hair that had fallen out. Turns out, a random person was going around to salons selling bleach powder from Germany(that doesn’t matter, I just remember that point). Needless to say, I didn’t know that until after the stylist ruined my hair and it fell off. You really have so much composure that many probably would not in the given situation.
Thank you so much! I learned to have more patience. Seek professional help, but I also needed this experience to shed some unknown feelings I needed to heal. So yes, I'll be doing an update soon. I'm so you had that experience, that be my fear too. It's not a fair game but we are here now feeling beautiful together! 💛🫂🥰 I hope you have an amazing summer and the rest of the year.
I did the same thing and got the same results last year and just shaved it all off and now my hair is flourishing..its ok, hair grows back and it will be beautiful. Your head shape is perfect and your face is pretty....hair or no hair, you are beautiful
I know this was 2 years ago but when you started crying I just prayed you are okay. You’re beautiful and I don’t know what more to say but you are in my heart I feel it.
Came here from Brad Mondo... and I just want to say that you look AMAZING bald! I have a giant bumpy head and I could never ever pull it off. You're gorgeous no matter whats on your head. Chalk it up to a life lesson. Bless! ❤❤❤
Your amazing! Thank you so much. It was definitely a lesson learned. Patient and professional support is the best decision. Wish you the best year of 2022. 💛🫂✨
Hi, Humble. I just caught your video on Hair Buddha and you touched me. I know so many people have been supportive, but I just had to join them. When you started to cry, I just wanted to hug you. You are so beautiful with, or without your hair, not to mention, you have a lovely shaped head. I also started following your on IG and I'm inspired by your journey. I wish you many blessings.
Hi Joy! Thank you so much for your support. This was a learning experience for me. I should have just went to a professional but I didn’t. I shared this video because I wanted to let people know like me ( Impatient ) to just wait. Go pay for it to be done the right way. I love my choice of having short hair. The freedom that comes with it, I wouldn’t change it for the world. Thank you so much for sharing your kindness. Thank you for the follow as well! 💛🫂✨
Hey mommy! You are gorgeous 🥰 You have the perfect sized head. This cut accentuates your cheekbones and glowy skin. I lost my crown 13 years ago and people were harsh, especially BM. I learned to embrace my new way of being and realize that their discomfort with my lack of hair is just that....theirs. When learning to show yourself grace and be kind consider this: would you allow anyone to speak to a beloved friend, child, family member the way you speak to yourself? Would you allow them to treat them harshly? Absolutely not! You'd be ready to throw those hands or whatever to remove those toxic people away from them. Take that stance with yourself and the negative self talk that may creep up. A challenge: for every negative thought or thing you speak about yourself, counter it with 5 positive statements. Speak them outloud. This helps to rewire the subconscious programming of the mind. Its a moment by moment process. Be gentle with self and flexible. Have fun with your new look. Long earrings or big hoops are popping on bald/short hair. As long as you don't have a chemical burn, your hair should be back within two weeks.
Your amazing!!! I appreciate you taking your time out to give me some advice. This will also help someone else who comes across my video. Sending all the love and support to you. 💛🫂🥰
I know this is an old video but I must say that you rocked that bald look! Your head is perfect for it and you looked stunning. Not everyone can pull that off and you killed that look. Stunning!
Ain’t no way you really thought yo hair wasn’t going to come out You’ll be ok it’s just hair every time I bleach my hair it always ends up fall out over time I be so sad too 🤦🏽♀️
Peace & blessings! My mama always told me if I don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Maybe one day you will learned this. Well carry on and have a better night. ✨💛✨
@@naturallyhumble5366 I actually changed my comment when I seen you was really hurt by this! I really thought you was playing in the beginning because MOST people would know that’s a bad idea because of how strong bleach and perms are but good night 😘
@@Schrodingers_Kat she deleted the comments before. So what she really said wouldn’t make her seems like a bad person that’s why I replied the way I did. I have a screen shot of what she said the first time. But hey have a good day
@@naturallyhumble5366 Hey it was a mistake, you still look nice. You live and you learn right. Don’t let the comments get to you. It’s a whole lot of people that deserve a whole lot of leave alone.
Wow! What an experience! I agree with someone who said you look stunning bald. By the way, you may have made it if you hadn't kept it in so long and used Olaplex. That stuff is the bomb!
God bless you. Almost every woman had been through something similar. It's big of you to swallow your pride and share because you may have stopped another woman from trying the same thing. You are beautiful either way.
Thank you! You absolutely right. I didn’t think this will get seen but it did. I’m grateful for all the comments everyone has shared. Everyone has been very nice and honest about my video. I appreciate you supporting me.🫂💛
First of all, thank you for sharing this moment with us. You didn't have to. Some of us are willing to try so many things with out hair but understand the consequences until the process comes out bad. So you sharing this video will be proof to others not to make this mistake. You look good with the bald fade.
You’re son is everything!! I love how supportive he was. I know it wasn’t what you wanted but you can rock a bald style. Most people can’t!! Sending much love!! ❤️❤️❤️
On your color sis, see a professional. Dig deep within yourself to learn why you don't like your natural hair color. When you do, those tears will go away. I'll be praying for strength for you to overcome whatever is troubling you. Thanks so much for being in the raw with this video.
Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice, I do have a Instagram account @maudes.vintage. On there I explained why I don’t like my natural hair color now. 💕🫂🥰
I know this is year old but I just wanted to stop by and say what an amazing beautiful Mamma you are! Truly your son is going to grow into a compassionate kind man because of you and we need that in this world. I have a son too and I feel like I’m trying my best to do the same. You’re an inspiration. It’s not just about the hair - it’s about your beautiful spirit! Thank you for sharing! Much love to you and your son.
Hi Nicholle, thank you for stopping bye. Your message came right on time. My goal as a mother is to teach my boys to be good person no matter what. Be brave enough to accept yourself for who you are, don't change to fit in. Keep being the greatest mother to your baby boy. Thank you for the push I need to keep going. only if you knew how my day went. Thank You soooo much!
@@naturallyhumble5366 awww we got this! It’s really hard some days, right?! Like I go to my room and just cry it out sometimes. But then I look at my son, as I’m sure you do yourself, and remember it’s so worth it. The world needs our kids to keep shining their light. I feel like we as mothers are guardians of that light. What an honour! So thank you again for being you, for being brave and for showing love. Hugs!!!
You look so beautiful without hair, you head shape is perfect. Dont regret your hair fail, is was just a hard way to learn. But i say it again, you look beautiful, and your boy is so sweet, he loves you very much, what matters what others think! WAY TO GO GIRL 👍👍👍👍
Aw this hurts my heart. Most people dont realize how incredibly delicate black hair is and that it should never be processed twice in the same day, or even the same week. You are SO gorgeous either way. 😊❤
I’m in shock (no shade to you, I appreciate you uploading this) dayum how you didn’t know that this is a complete NO NO in the hair world. Your baby is the whole truth though 😇😍🤗 don’t worry... thankfully it grows back 💜✌🏾🤗
It's 3 months later, so I am sure much of your hair has grown back by now. 🙂. Many of us have been there, or near there, with the relaxer/bleach combo. I learned that the hard way, and now embrace and love my hair colour. Well, I do use rinses sometimes too 🤣. I just want you to know that you are BEAUTIFUL with/without the hair..inside/outside. Not just saying that. I admire the way you self loved and self parented yourself out of the pain. Truly courageous. Blessings from Jamaica. Your son is a gem.
Thank you so much. I appreciate your support. 🫂✨💛 Healing yourself isn’t always easy but I’m glad I was able to share this experience to help others to not do this at all! Thank you so much Allison for sharing your own experience.
Hearing you be so honest and optimistic about your internal struggles was really really encouraging and refreshing!! Thank you for being here- new subscriber :))
I guarantee your natural hair color is light years better than that blonde shit. BTW: You looked better bald than being blond. You rocked that look! Hair Buddha sent me here.
You’re son is so sweet!!! Appreciate the real things in life that matter not the superficial!!! You have a beautiful family, that’s you! That’s a blessing, that’s all that matters 💕
also I was thinking about perming my hair and bleaching it today because i didn’t wanna wait a week or 2 apart to dye it but you just stopped me😂 THANK YOU!
I came here from Brad Mondo's video. I know this probably doesn't mean much, but you look amazing with no hair. I mean, you really look absolutely stunning. The style shows of your pretty face and really highlights your features. 🧡🧡🧡< From the UK.
Heya Chica, for working with naturally 1/2 inch curly course hair, you done well on the the bleach job, the perming process is so hard to do for anyone, you tried that all that matters, your positive attitude is very stoic and sincere, I would of shaved it off too, start over, yes ma’am we are women, we figure it out and move on, your an awesome inspiration to me and I’m sure of others that are watching that can also relate to you my dear! Stay kick ass!!! ~ love, love ~ xx 🇺🇸🇺🇸😉
You look beautiful without hair. Very inspiring. I’ve been wanting to cut mine short but scared to do it. You gave me the courage to go from almost waist length to a pixie cut Thank you for being so amazing!!!
I know that was bitter sweet, but I do have to say your beauty is shining through even more. I hope if there was anything you needed to let go of, it went with the cut too. Much love to you x
Wow you look gorgeous bald most women cant pull that off. My twin sister had hair down her back and just cut it low like you had it I love it 💖💖. You're so beautiful 😍😍☺️☺️
I think without having the hair it's easier to focus on how beautiful and expressive your eyes are. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'm sure it was very difficult for you. Appreciate you.
I agree with you. Short is better for me. I definitely had no idea that this was gonna happen as far as me getting emotional about it. I was shocked that is was happening. As far as my hair failing out I still felt like I had a slight chance to achieve my goal but hey I learned my lesson. 🙂
They literally tell you not to bleach your hair and relax It in the same day… I’m so sorry girl… I’ve bleached my hair off plenty of times and had to get it all cut off… I learned my lesson! It’s been five years and I haven’t died my hair at all. Now I’m embracing my natural color! Just rock what God gave you girl!
You are a TOUGH woman. I could not believe your composure through this, I would have been crying the entire time. And I get it- it's like piercing yourself versus having a professional do it, totally different and could bring things up emotuionally. I'm glad this video exists! People talk about how bleaching and perming your hair will melt it off but sometimes we have to actually see it to believe it. Maybe this will stop some young people thinking this is a good idea. You still look stunning and if I saw you in public I would think you looked awesome. Also, your son is amazing, he's so sweet! Says a lot about how you're raising him. Basically, you're awesome, this video is great, and I hope you're doing well!
Thank you for taking the time out to write such a beautiful message to me. I’m very thankful for this experience because if help me release something I didn’t know I was dealing with or paid more attention too. Yes, I definitely agree this can help others to get professional help period. My son and I bond a very close, he was definitely my strength that day for sure. Again Thank You ! for seeing me, pouring your kindness into my life. May you have a blessed month of may. ✨💛✨🫂
Girl the way you were "working it in" I just knew what was gonna happen. I know it fell out because you processed it twice in one day but you should NEVER massage a perm in.
Yes baby, I'm telling you the temptation to be silky and blonde is heavy. I too have been contemplating bleach and perm . To be silky smooth . I gamble each time. We struggle to change ourselves when we go through things . It feels good in the moment, but you are beautiful!!! Keep this going there are more of women than you know who identify with you
You can relax then bleach if you just can’t wait. But a super mild relaxer and 10 or 20 volume developer. Nothing stronger. But please be advised your hair could still fall out if it’s weak already. So yes please seek a professional before doing this.
It was tearfully heartwarming when your baby came in and tried to lift your spirit. Children can sense our energy and you handle that beautifully. (I couldn’t deal) Also, this video is very informative for the ones who know nothing about hair care!
Isn't he an awesome Lil guy💕
Yessssssssss
Yeah he is a sweetheart that little guy.
I want to know what research she did. You should never process you hair with two different chemicals in the same day.
Lesson learned. Thank you! Stay positive! 💛✨💛✨
And I want to know why you can’t leave negative comments to yourself 😐
* nobody asked you *
@@_belizeanperfection7563 it's not a negative comment. It's something that should be common sense. You can damage your head permanently. Chimical burns are no joke. Not to mention your hair might never grow back. It NEEDS to be said.
Everyone knows you can’t do this. Where have you been?
@@_belizeanperfection7563 Hunny these chemicals are very dangerous to combine. She could have seriously injured herself for life. We do not have time to sugarcoat or tiptoe around feelings. When children have access to this app and may think this okay to do. Someone needs to call BS on this.
as a cosmetologist, i just want to warn everyone here that perms and relaxers are NEVER to be done on color treated hair, ESPECIALLY bleached hair. the process of perming or relaxing hair is extremely harsh on your hair, because you are literally breaking down the structure of your hair and permanently reshaping it. color weakens your hair as it is, so anyone with colored hair or even super old color in their hair should not get a perm. your hair cannot handle it. if you are dead set on getting a perm, please just go to a salon and do a consultation. consults are usually free at salons, and they may even be able to do a test strand with perm solution for you to see how your hair would react.
What about no ammonia and no peroxide color on a no lye relaxer 2 weeks later
Thank you !! I made the fatal mistake of bleaching and coloring my 4c on my own😭now I want to perm it and do finger waves … I was trying to find the easier way out but to the salon I go 😊.
Just remember, you are not your hair, you are Naturally Humble. You have such a beautiful face to rock a bald head, so ROCK IT! 💇🏾♀️
Blessings to you !!! 💛✨💛 thank you so much 🥲🫂
You do have a beautiful girl face , don’t be insecure please. Your face fits anything
You look nice girl. You have a naturally beautiful face
@@naturallyhumble5366 Why did you even bleach your hair to begin with. You barley even had hair to bleach your lucky you didn’t get chemical burn
I am my hair... I got receipts!
Good news is it’s short so in three weeks you’ll be back to where you started with fresh virgin hair.
Oh my god😱 I wanted to hug you when you started crying 😟. You live and you learn. Stay positive you'll be ok 🙂👍
🫂🫂🫂 virtual hugs for now. 🥰🥰 thank you! I will and you do the same! ✨✨✨
I made a fatal mistake by putting a texturerizer in my hair one week after bleaching. My hair was gone. I got a natural fade.🤣
Love your natural fade now. It’s good on you. 🥰 lesson learned for me. I won’t do it again
A natural fade. 😆 I like that.
The hair buddha reacted to your hair perm video. I agree you are beautiful and even with very short hair. Your son is such a sweetheart
Yeah! I do agree and I'm here also for Hair Buddha's new video! You're beautiful and this experience was for sure a hard one but as your son said: you're cute anyway!
The final result fits you very well!
Sending some L♡ve
Thank you. I appreciate your support.
Thank you! I’m very grateful for him.
I relax my hair and I have always been afraid to bleach it because it’s so many chemicals. As soon as I read “I bleached and permed my hair in the same day” my stomach went to my throat. I was cringing the whole time. But in the end, you came out of it stunningly! You look amazing bald.
Thank you for your kindness ❤️❤️❤️... biggest lesson I learned about my hair journey.. ☺️ I won’t do it again
Don't ever bleach hair with in a couple of days of each other guarantee that your hair will fall out
You never do that..the bleach will straighten your hair itself, you could have just put gel on your bleach hair and still waved it...I was hollering through the TV Nooooooo don't do it
It’s the beautiful skin, perfect features, and can rock any hairstyle for me!! ❤️ You are absolutely stunning!
Thank you!!!! Your so kind. 🥰🫂
It’s 2021 who don’t know you ain’t suppose to bleach and perm your hair in the same day ... GOOGLE
What does it being 2021 have to do with anything? Lots of ppl make this mistake for multiple reasons... She learned her lesson and is sharing this video in hopes to help prevent this for others. Try being more kind, it feels good 🙂
@@chunkychocolatechip1441 I’m saying 2021 we have way more access to information ... some people will do anything for views 🥱...just because I ain’t gullible like you doesn’t mean I ain’t kind ✌🏾
@@Mika4205 ight. Have a blessed day🙏🏾
Awwwww your son is so sweet he said that that means he’s going to love his woman no what and not judge her you are raising him good sis you are beautiful no matter what you are a queen
Im here from hair buddhas channel and can i just say you are stunning. Your son is going to grow up to be an amazing empathetic beautiful man and that foundation comes from you! Your inner and outer beauty are dazzling queen.
I know this would have hurt. A lot. But i wanted to give u some love. And tell u that a woman all the way from Australia can see how beautiful you are. Inside and out.
Much love hun!
Your hair cut looked great; you have a great face shape for it. I think it was great that you posted this video despite how hurt you were in the moment. You, yourself, said there weren't many videos of people bleaching and relaxing their hair in the same day and now others can learn from you. Thank you for posting this. Also, your son was so precious. You raised a really sweet child. His encouragement warmed my heart.
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I'm a licensed cosmetologist and these are two of the strongest chemicals you need to allow time in between to strengthen your hair back i would never do both same day
Hair Buddha sent me! You're absolutely GORGEOUS, you look truly AMAZING with that short hair! And please give your awesome Lil fella a big squeeze from me, he's such a gentleman trying to make his momma feel better! 💖🙏God bless y'all
If he was my boy I would hug him and cry that was the sweetest thing ever
Exactly! I love my baby boy ❤️❤️
Dang sis, I know you did this video at the beginning of the year, but girl. You where so ROUGH PUTTING IN THAT RELAXER THAT MY HEAD HURT FOR YOU. You rubbed that relax in your hair like it was conditioner OMG. Never been blonde do not know the process, but I am pretty sure you should have waited a couple of days or GONE TO A PROFESSIONAL that does coloring all the time and license. I know it's just hair but OMG :)
I feel for you. I did this year's ago, putting bleach and then bright red color on top, THEN 2 weeks later, I relaxed it😩. I thought my hair could handle it, but I was sadly mistaken lol. The WHOLE front of my hair fell out. I wore a hat or cap every day for over a year. You are a pretty woman and can rock the bald and short hair. We all live and learn🤷🏽♀️🧡
Thank you for sharing your story. This was a lesson learned for but I’m glad I was able to share my experience. I appreciate your kindness 🥰🫂
This beautiful human's video was in my feed this morning and I'm so happy that it was! Please know you put a smile on my face that was both needed and appreciated! Thank you, Lovely! 🌻💛🌻
Hey Steph, I’m grateful my story was able to make you smile. May your smile last all week. Your truly welcome. ✨💛✨💛
My heart broke for you! You’re so full of grace though. So strong and beautiful!
It’s a spiritual journey sis! You’ll be okay I promise you!! You’re a strong woman, you’ve overcome a lot already as you mentioned in your video. Spiritual awakenings are rewarding…to know that that day God chose ‘you’! He loves and favors you! Take that walk with him on this journey and you will never look at this video as a ‘hair transformation’😉
Girl u got me crying 😢 aww u looked beautiful honestly 🥰 you’re beautiful you have a nice shaped head rock that shhhhat ❤
Thank you so much for your compliment. 🤗🥰💓🤗 I’m rocking it till the wheels fall off! 🦾😁🤗
Your son is adorable🥺😍😍, I loved that clip. You are beautiful with or without it, stay strong and powerful gorgeous🙌🏾💕
Thank you beautiful!!! I appreciate you. Thank you for supporting me. 💛🫂💛
You look amazing “bald!” 😍😍😍
Thank you ☺️!!!! ✨
Watching that perm go on freshly bleached hair gave me anxiety 😅
Your son is soo freaking cute!!! ❤️
Thank you, it will never happen again.
Same here , I cringed
I was going through anxiety as she was putting it in her hair because I’ve done the same thing and it happened to me I was like wash that of you now!!!!!!
OMG that brings back memories when I first relaxed my hair and thought I had enough new growth to relax it I was looking the same way never again
you have a beautiful face so you can literally pull off any look, accidental or intentional
Thank you for supporting me. Your absolutely right lady. I appreciate your kindness. ✨💛🫂
Ayo🤣🤣🤣🤣...... ya'll sisters gotta chill, and just be happy with what god gave you
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@Lovely me If ya'll would just leave ya'll hair alone, and do simple styles are once in a while, I honestly believe that y'all wouldn't have so many individuals with bald edges, damaged hair that don't grow, alopecia, etc. That's why guys hair are in a lot better shape, and grow faster, and longer than most of the girls I see.
So proud of you for getting rid of it, it was needed, because it's no longer hair. Some girls will try to hold on to damage hair. You did right
I was cringing while you were rubbing in that relaxer. It’s a lesson learned and you are still beautiful! As we know, it grows back
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Beautiful black woman u are not your hair, and it does not define u, its apart of u! I ruined my hair twice, and I did what u did in my younger years and shaved it bald! Your hair WILL grow back, believe me! It's a learning moment and you will grow, wisdom and knowledge, remember sista u are essentially gorgeous with or without hair!
Message Received Queen! 💛✨💛✨ Thank you for supporting me and giving me some great advice.
Girl I've been in this place, I went to the shop and needed a touch up for color and perm. The shop was like nope, color first and see you in two weeks. Welp I waited a week, went to a different shop, lied to the shop and got the perm. Hair started falling out when they were rinsing. Shop started crying, I felt like the idiot a-hole that I was and came clean on the situation. She bring the amazing person she is, cut my hair off and wigged me up. Girl when I say hardheaded.
Lmfaoooo hard head will make a soft ahh
😂😂😂😂 that’s some shit I’d do lmao I mean it’s just hair 🤷🏽♀️ ain’t no biggie i might do now actually I have a wig on standby and or clippers 😂
Sorry this happen to you, Yep never put a perm over colored hair, because it will melt off
@@tammanthashaw9299if you color your hair then wait will it be okay?
@@gabriellesmith4552 I wouldn't do it, I strongly go against this, because once perm hit the hair, it will start shading and pop off. I'm speaking from experience, I put color in my hair once, waited and put perm over it, and yes it begin to break off
Your child is absolutely right. You are beautiful, with and without hair. You have a beautiful face and your head is very nicely shaped. You should absolutely not be self conscious about this end result. And now not only do you know better, but you've saved countless others from trying this. So thank you for putting this online, even if it was hard. I hope you feel better now, 6 months later.
Came here after seeing your video on the Hair Buddha channel and just had to let you know you’re beautiful either way :) Have a brilliant day :)
Thank you so much! I appreciate you. Have a blessed week.🫂💛
You're so beautiful and sweet! God bless you and your son you're raising him right! This video took a beautiful turn and I love it!
Thank you so much. We appreciate your support. I’m glad you seen it in a positive way. 🫂💛
You look so good! I have a cousin that's bald and she rocks it proudly. She always says, "you'll never forget me" and men love it!
Awe ☺️☺️ she’s right. You get one in your life. 😁
Thank you for sharing your kindness. ✨🫂❤️
I have to say, you really showed such grace in taking what happened in stride. I went to a professional and went back the next day with a gallon ziplock bag full of my dyed blonde hair that had fallen out. Turns out, a random person was going around to salons selling bleach powder from Germany(that doesn’t matter, I just remember that point). Needless to say, I didn’t know that until after the stylist ruined my hair and it fell off. You really have so much composure that many probably would not in the given situation.
Thank you so much! I learned to have more patience. Seek professional help, but I also needed this experience to shed some unknown feelings I needed to heal. So yes, I'll be doing an update soon. I'm so you had that experience, that be my fear too. It's not a fair game but we are here now feeling beautiful together! 💛🫂🥰 I hope you have an amazing summer and the rest of the year.
I did the same thing and got the same results last year and just shaved it all off and now my hair is flourishing..its ok, hair grows back and it will be beautiful. Your head shape is perfect and your face is pretty....hair or no hair, you are beautiful
I know this was 2 years ago but when you started crying I just prayed you are okay. You’re beautiful and I don’t know what more to say but you are in my heart I feel it.
Thank you so much beautiful. All positive love from you I received it. Thank you for reaching out to me. 💗💗💗🤗🤗🤗
Came here from Brad Mondo... and I just want to say that you look AMAZING bald! I have a giant bumpy head and I could never ever pull it off. You're gorgeous no matter whats on your head. Chalk it up to a life lesson. Bless! ❤❤❤
Your amazing! Thank you so much. It was definitely a lesson learned. Patient and professional support is the best decision. Wish you the best year of 2022. 💛🫂✨
Hi, Humble. I just caught your video on Hair Buddha and you touched me. I know so many people have been supportive, but I just had to join them. When you started to cry, I just wanted to hug you. You are so beautiful with, or without your hair, not to mention, you have a lovely shaped head. I also started following your on IG and I'm inspired by your journey. I wish you many blessings.
Hi Joy! Thank you so much for your support. This was a learning experience for me. I should have just went to a professional but I didn’t. I shared this video because I wanted to let people know like me ( Impatient ) to just wait. Go pay for it to be done the right way. I love my choice of having short hair. The freedom that comes with it, I wouldn’t change it for the world. Thank you so much for sharing your kindness. Thank you for the follow as well! 💛🫂✨
Had to know it was going to fall out.yup Shave it and be start over sis. Good thing is hair was already short
Hey mommy! You are gorgeous 🥰 You have the perfect sized head. This cut accentuates your cheekbones and glowy skin. I lost my crown 13 years ago and people were harsh, especially BM. I learned to embrace my new way of being and realize that their discomfort with my lack of hair is just that....theirs.
When learning to show yourself grace and be kind consider this: would you allow anyone to speak to a beloved friend, child, family member the way you speak to yourself? Would you allow them to treat them harshly? Absolutely not! You'd be ready to throw those hands or whatever to remove those toxic people away from them. Take that stance with yourself and the negative self talk that may creep up.
A challenge: for every negative thought or thing you speak about yourself, counter it with 5 positive statements. Speak them outloud. This helps to rewire the subconscious programming of the mind. Its a moment by moment process. Be gentle with self and flexible. Have fun with your new look. Long earrings or big hoops are popping on bald/short hair. As long as you don't have a chemical burn, your hair should be back within two weeks.
Your amazing!!! I appreciate you taking your time out to give me some advice. This will also help someone else who comes across my video. Sending all the love and support to you. 💛🫂🥰
I know this is an old video but I must say that you rocked that bald look! Your head is perfect for it and you looked stunning. Not everyone can pull that off and you killed that look. Stunning!
Thank you so much. Your comment means a lot to me. Being bald has been the best decision in my life. I appreciate myself looks even more. 🥰
Ain’t no way you really thought yo hair wasn’t going to come out
You’ll be ok it’s just hair every time I bleach my hair it always ends up fall out over time I be so sad too 🤦🏽♀️
Peace & blessings! My mama always told me if I don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Maybe one day you will learned this. Well carry on and have a better night. ✨💛✨
@@naturallyhumble5366 I actually changed my comment when I seen you was really hurt by this! I really thought you was playing in the beginning because MOST people would know that’s a bad idea because of how strong bleach and perms are but good night 😘
@@naturallyhumble5366 btw you look really good with the 👩🏾🦲head 😍😘
@@Schrodingers_Kat she deleted the comments before. So what she really said wouldn’t make her seems like a bad person that’s why I replied the way I did. I have a screen shot of what she said the first time. But hey have a good day
@@naturallyhumble5366 Hey it was a mistake, you still look nice. You live and you learn right. Don’t let the comments get to you. It’s a whole lot of people that deserve a whole lot of leave alone.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVED YOUR REALNESS! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND THE EMOTION YOU SHOWED AND SHARED WITH THE WORLD IS SO WONDERFULLY HUMAN! ❤❤❤❤❤❤ U GO GIRL!
You are Beautiful and so is your smile. You have inspired me with this video. I hope you're doing well. God Bless you thank you
Wow! What an experience! I agree with someone who said you look stunning bald. By the way, you may have made it if you hadn't kept it in so long and used Olaplex. That stuff is the bomb!
Thank you! I’ve heard of the brand before. I was concerned on if it would work for my hair. I appreciate you for your help. 💚🤗😁
God bless you. Almost every woman had been through something similar. It's big of you to swallow your pride and share because you may have stopped another woman from trying the same thing. You are beautiful either way.
Thank you! You absolutely right. I didn’t think this will get seen but it did. I’m grateful for all the comments everyone has shared. Everyone has been very nice and honest about my video. I appreciate you supporting me.🫂💛
You really didn’t have to explain the tears. I’d still be crying but you rallied. Inspirational.
First of all, thank you for sharing this moment with us. You didn't have to. Some of us are willing to try so many things with out hair but understand the consequences until the process comes out bad. So you sharing this video will be proof to others not to make this mistake. You look good with the bald fade.
I like to work it in man 😂 “work it in babygirl” 😂😂😂 you not posed to rub no damn perm in
You’re son is everything!! I love how supportive he was. I know it wasn’t what you wanted but you can rock a bald style. Most people can’t!! Sending much love!! ❤️❤️❤️
Aww baby you still so gorgeous! We all have bad hair mistakes 🥺💕 you look foxy wit the low cut!!
On your color sis, see a professional. Dig deep within yourself to learn why you don't like your natural hair color. When you do, those tears will go away. I'll be praying for strength for you to overcome whatever is troubling you. Thanks so much for being in the raw with this video.
Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice, I do have a Instagram account @maudes.vintage. On there I explained why I don’t like my natural hair color now. 💕🫂🥰
I know this is year old but I just wanted to stop by and say what an amazing beautiful Mamma you are! Truly your son is going to grow into a compassionate kind man because of you and we need that in this world. I have a son too and I feel like I’m trying my best to do the same. You’re an inspiration. It’s not just about the hair - it’s about your beautiful spirit! Thank you for sharing! Much love to you and your son.
Hi Nicholle, thank you for stopping bye. Your message came right on time. My goal as a mother is to teach my boys to be good person no matter what. Be brave enough to accept yourself for who you are, don't change to fit in. Keep being the greatest mother to your baby boy. Thank you for the push I need to keep going. only if you knew how my day went. Thank You soooo much!
@@naturallyhumble5366 awww we got this! It’s really hard some days, right?! Like I go to my room and just cry it out sometimes. But then I look at my son, as I’m sure you do yourself, and remember it’s so worth it. The world needs our kids to keep shining their light. I feel like we as mothers are guardians of that light. What an honour! So thank you again for being you, for being brave and for showing love. Hugs!!!
You look so beautiful without hair, you head shape is perfect. Dont regret your hair fail, is was just a hard way to learn.
But i say it again, you look beautiful, and your boy is so sweet, he loves you very much, what matters what others think!
WAY TO GO GIRL 👍👍👍👍
Your amazing! Thank you. 🫂💕
I feel really bad for you 😭.. But I subscribed to ur channel because now I would love to see ur regrowth journey 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ BTW ur beautiful 💜
Thank you 😊
It’s look fine. Your head is perfect for no hair. You really pull it off! You’re beautiful!!
Aw this hurts my heart. Most people dont realize how incredibly delicate black hair is and that it should never be processed twice in the same day, or even the same week. You are SO gorgeous either way. 😊❤
I’m in shock (no shade to you, I appreciate you uploading this) dayum how you didn’t know that this is a complete NO NO in the hair world. Your baby is the whole truth though 😇😍🤗 don’t worry... thankfully it grows back 💜✌🏾🤗
It's 3 months later, so I am sure much of your hair has grown back by now. 🙂. Many of us have been there, or near there, with the relaxer/bleach combo. I learned that the hard way, and now embrace and love my hair colour. Well, I do use rinses sometimes too 🤣. I just want you to know that you are BEAUTIFUL with/without the hair..inside/outside. Not just saying that. I admire the way you self loved and self parented yourself out of the pain. Truly courageous. Blessings from Jamaica. Your son is a gem.
Thank you so much. I appreciate your support. 🫂✨💛 Healing yourself isn’t always easy but I’m glad I was able to share this experience to help others to not do this at all! Thank you so much Allison for sharing your own experience.
Hearing you be so honest and optimistic about your internal struggles was really really encouraging and refreshing!! Thank you for being here- new subscriber :))
Your welcome!!! ❤️🫂
On the bright side...You have a nice shape head and a pretty face, so You can get away with being bald, Your still beautiful !
Thank you ☺️
I guarantee your natural hair color is light years better than that blonde shit. BTW: You looked better bald than being blond. You rocked that look! Hair Buddha sent me here.
Thank you!!!🥲💛🫂 I did enjoy not being blonde until it grew back. I love both styles now.
You are beautiful no matter what. I also admire your courage to share this, knowing some people will only try to mock you. 💜🙏🏽
Thank you so much. Your support is very appreciated. 🫂💛🥰
when you kept "working it in" I was like Gurlll....
You’re son is so sweet!!! Appreciate the real things in life that matter not the superficial!!! You have a beautiful family, that’s you! That’s a blessing, that’s all that matters 💕
Awe thank you ☺️ ✨🫂 🥰
You have a GORGEOUS face !! And you are Rocking this new look even when happen by accident. You are stunning beautiful woman ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
THANK YOU!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕🫂🫂🫂🫂
also I was thinking about perming my hair and bleaching it today because i didn’t wanna wait a week or 2 apart to dye it but you just stopped me😂 THANK YOU!
Yesss don’t do it! Wait, please wait.
I came here from Brad Mondo's video. I know this probably doesn't mean much, but you look amazing with no hair. I mean, you really look absolutely stunning. The style shows of your pretty face and really highlights your features. 🧡🧡🧡< From the UK.
Heya Chica, for working with naturally 1/2 inch curly course hair, you done well on the the bleach job, the perming process is so hard to do for anyone, you tried that all that matters, your positive attitude is very stoic and sincere, I would of shaved it off too, start over, yes ma’am we are women, we figure it out and move on, your an awesome inspiration to me and I’m sure of others that are watching that can also relate to you my dear! Stay kick ass!!! ~ love, love ~ xx 🇺🇸🇺🇸😉
I just wanted to hug you when you started crying 😢..you are beautiful ,with or without hair..
6:31 😂😂😂 sorry,i just couldn't hold it😂😂😂😂😂😂
That’s fine. You are who are
Be encouraged your hair will grow back. Love you sis!
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Your son is a sweetheart
You look beautiful without hair. Very inspiring. I’ve been wanting to cut mine short but scared to do it. You gave me the courage to go from almost waist length to a pixie cut
Thank you for being so amazing!!!
6:32 had me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Girl I swear I was about to type this but I felt bad chilleee she beautiful but im weak af 🤣🤣🤣
I laughed too, but then I also cried when she cried. I've been bald too and it was a super depressing time. I didn't look as good as she does.
I just watched this video on Hair Buddha’s channel. I’m here to tell you that you rock the look! Just gorgeous.
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You’re so beautiful 😍
Thank you for sharing this video, your process, and your thoughts. I appreciate how open you were 🌹
Thank you so much. I know better now. I appreciate you for your kindness. 💛🫂😁
@@naturallyhumble5366 I just came back from watching your story on why you cut your hair. You are still here 🌹 I love that sentiment 💜
She did "research", but then proceeded to relax and bleach her hair on the same day. .. *Kevin Samuels voice* you can't make this, shoooot up"
Wow you are one of those women who can wear their hair bald and still look great new to your channel and looking forward to seeing more
I’m so grateful for you! Thank you ☺️ your beautiful too
Exactly, she's gorgeous. Just draws more attention to her beautiful face!
i mean u rlly had it coming 😭🤣
I know that was bitter sweet, but I do have to say your beauty is shining through even more. I hope if there was anything you needed to let go of, it went with the cut too. Much love to you x
Wow you look gorgeous bald most women cant pull that off. My twin sister had hair down her back and just cut it low like you had it I love it 💖💖. You're so beautiful 😍😍☺️☺️
Wow, I am also a twin. 😁 we have so much in common. ☺️. I thank you for your kindness Queen. 💛✨🫂
@@naturallyhumble5366 absolutely love I definitely subscribed ☺️ and your baby boy is so cute I couldn't stop smiling when he came in 😆😆
Your little guy is so sweet. I can feel the love from him. You look beautiful
He’s definitely a big part of my why I keep going. He always so positive about my appearance. ☺️ gotta love him... I appreciate your support. ✨🫂💛
I think without having the hair it's easier to focus on how beautiful and expressive your eyes are. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'm sure it was very difficult for you. Appreciate you.
I agree with you. Short is better for me. I definitely had no idea that this was gonna happen as far as me getting emotional about it. I was shocked that is was happening. As far as my hair failing out I still felt like I had a slight chance to achieve my goal but hey I learned my lesson. 🙂
You look really good though! Not everyone can pull this off! Like me, I’m wearing a hat for the next 4-12 months 😂😢😮😅😊
They literally tell you not to bleach your hair and relax It in the same day… I’m so sorry girl… I’ve bleached my hair off plenty of times and had to get it all cut off… I learned my lesson! It’s been five years and I haven’t died my hair at all. Now I’m embracing my natural color! Just rock what God gave you girl!
You look absolutely stunning holy crap. I could never
You are a TOUGH woman. I could not believe your composure through this, I would have been crying the entire time. And I get it- it's like piercing yourself versus having a professional do it, totally different and could bring things up emotuionally.
I'm glad this video exists! People talk about how bleaching and perming your hair will melt it off but sometimes we have to actually see it to believe it. Maybe this will stop some young people thinking this is a good idea.
You still look stunning and if I saw you in public I would think you looked awesome. Also, your son is amazing, he's so sweet! Says a lot about how you're raising him.
Basically, you're awesome, this video is great, and I hope you're doing well!
Thank you for taking the time out to write such a beautiful message to me. I’m very thankful for this experience because if help me release something I didn’t know I was dealing with or paid more attention too. Yes, I definitely agree this can help others to get professional help period. My son and I bond a very close, he was definitely my strength that day for sure. Again Thank You ! for seeing me, pouring your kindness into my life. May you have a blessed month of may. ✨💛✨🫂
Girl the way you were "working it in" I just knew what was gonna happen. I know it fell out because you processed it twice in one day but you should NEVER massage a perm in.
So glad you popped up in my feed. We’re all connected. Thank you for the encouragement 💚to be kind to yourself.
I love your positive attitude Queen. Just hurt to watch this video because I know how damaging those chemicals are to us internally.
Thank you so much!!!! I’m way better today. 💛
Yes baby, I'm telling you the temptation to be silky and blonde is heavy. I too have been contemplating bleach and perm . To be silky smooth . I gamble each time. We struggle to change ourselves when we go through things . It feels good in the moment, but you are beautiful!!! Keep this going there are more of women than you know who identify with you
Thank you so much! I appreciate you for understanding. 🫂💛🥹
I cryed when your son said you still look beautiful 💜💜
You’re still really pretty!!! I’m sorry that happened to your hair but never forget you’re a gorgeous queen!!!
Thank you 😊 🫂
As a professional hairstylist never ever do 2 chemicals on the same day it’s way too harsh
hair doesn’t make or define us and beauty can be only skin deep!! God has blessed you with a beautiful spirit and cheers to new beginnings (:
You can relax then bleach if you just can’t wait. But a super mild relaxer and 10 or 20 volume developer. Nothing stronger. But please be advised your hair could still fall out if it’s weak already. So yes please seek a professional before doing this.
Thank you so much for this. I’m not ready to revisit this yet but when I do. I’m going to a professional