love you love this love your baby birds. i still haven’t gotten over my friendship break from 2 years ago. i was friends with her for over 10 years and it destroyed me. she became egoistic and replaced me so quickly, she always wanted to prove she was better than me but all i wanted was a friend. i just wanted to be her friend. anyways thank you for this, this video was very much needed 🤍
Me too! My best friend cheated on me and now celebrates everything with her new replacement friend. She never competed with me but always thought she was superior because everyone around her would lie and say she was “hot”. Trust me… she’s not hot.
Thank you for this! I went through a friendship breakup around this time last year and I definitely struggled so I'm glad there is someone like you that is providing support for people going through one because I know it would've helped me in the past. ❤❤❤
Solidarity from a fellow recovering doormat. It has been so healthy to realize that sometimes I need to grieve friendship breakups, and also so healthy to realize that my meaning isn't wrapped up in them. Thankful for you talking about this,
shelly you are the best channel ever. I’ll be honest I saw your channel on my recommended and decided to subscribe due to the fact that I like your videos such as your shopping videos. Today while i was getting ready i saw this video and decided to watch it. this has touched me so deeply as i have just come out a friendship in the last 5 weeks and have been struggling so much. You deserve so much more love for how much you made me tear up. you’ll go so far please never stop ❤
let me grab the tissues oh my gosh!! so happy you love my other vlogs but omg. this comment has also touched my heart ❣️ you will get through this and come out on the other side stronger & wiser now!
Thank you so much for this video!, 😊❤ I recently (this Monday) went through a very life changing friend ship break up although I am sad (I’m really not) I’m also happy that I have this huge burden lifted of my shoulders they were a very toxic friend and they have left some damage wich I will probably never recover from. Guys sorry for yapping ❤!
This video was so helpful, thank you shelly. Even tho i have not recently been through a friendship breakup it is so helpful to keep in mind if i do experience one soon. Thursday and sundays are now my favorite days of the week ❤️
Thank you for this ❤ I started going out with my bf who my best friend (at the time) introduced me to and even went on holiday with her, thinking we were best friends. After coming back from our holiday, all our other friends started becoming distant from me and I noticed I was being left from the group. Then I found out my best friend had a notes page where she wrote down horrible lies about me and spread it to the friend group. It managed to get to my bf and he confronted me about it to which I told him none of it were true. I confronted her and asked her to apologise to my bf and the group and she did half-heartedly. I stayed friends with her for a little while after since I had no other friends and the group liked her over me but then she started speaking about someone from uni in a similar way so I decided to distance myself from her and the rest of the group as a whole cos I didn’t want to be friends with people like that. In the end I made new friends at uni and I’m still going out with my bf who has blocked them all as well. All this to say; take those toxic people out of your life! I still don’t know what I did wrong to make her do this to me but I think I just chalk it up to jealousy 🤷♀️
nope! never spoken to a single one of them and they're still in my blocked list 💅🏼 i've got so many amazing people around me now, their closure wouldn't mean a thing to me and that's the power of growth! i just hope that after all this time, they are better people for their own sake
@@saeshell I love this, how many of them were there? Have they ever tried to reach out to you? the only reason why I am asking is that I am currently grieving 10+ years group ending 1.5 years and have no closure. I know it's for the best but it's been hard. I've blocked 19 'friends' lol.
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there won't be a new video on sunday ( i'm super busy this week ) so give this one a little extra love for me
TYSM FOR THIS VIDEO I REQUESTED IT BEFORE!!!!
You should make a podcast- I would def listen to it!!
yes have to make one
I'd listen too
Shelly, I just went through a friendship breakup...THIS is exactly what I needed thankyou! you know us real well... :)
i just had the biggest urge to make this video so thankyou!! i hope it helps you on your healing journey ❣️❣️
love you love this love your baby birds. i still haven’t gotten over my friendship break from 2 years ago. i was friends with her for over 10 years and it destroyed me. she became egoistic and replaced me so quickly, she always wanted to prove she was better than me but all i wanted was a friend. i just wanted to be her friend. anyways thank you for this, this video was very much needed 🤍
Me too! My best friend cheated on me and now celebrates everything with her new replacement friend. She never competed with me but always thought she was superior because everyone around her would lie and say she was “hot”. Trust me… she’s not hot.
Friendship breakups can be so hard… I think I’ll always miss my old friends 🥺 Tysm for this! Get better soon 💕
Thank you for this! I went through a friendship breakup around this time last year and I definitely struggled so I'm glad there is someone like you that is providing support for people going through one because I know it would've helped me in the past. ❤❤❤
Woooooooo everybody stop what you’re doing the queen has posted❤❤❤❤❤
Solidarity from a fellow recovering doormat. It has been so healthy to realize that sometimes I need to grieve friendship breakups, and also so healthy to realize that my meaning isn't wrapped up in them. Thankful for you talking about this,
here's to the recovering doormat people 🥂
so happy you enjoyed this video & it aligned with you yaya!!
They do hurt so much more 😭😭 especially if its not anything bad but just life makes you drift apart
those hurt the most because it's like you don't have any anger or heartbreak to fuel you getting better, you're just lost and confused 🥹
It’s always a good day when you post
you've made my day omg
Just finished my test in school and now I can watch one of my favourite TH-camr what a good surprise 🌟
shelly you are the best channel ever. I’ll be honest I saw your channel on my recommended and decided to subscribe due to the fact that I like your videos such as your shopping videos. Today while i was getting ready i saw this video and decided to watch it. this has touched me so deeply as i have just come out a friendship in the last 5 weeks and have been struggling so much. You deserve so much more love for how much you made me tear up. you’ll go so far please never stop ❤
let me grab the tissues oh my gosh!!
so happy you love my other vlogs but omg. this comment has also touched my heart ❣️ you will get through this and come out on the other side stronger & wiser now!
This is literally so well-said! The tips were amazing, Shelly!
thankyou so so much!!
thank u sm girl! I am dealing with a lot of fake friends rn, this rlly helps.
so happy this video helps!!
Thank you so much for this video!, 😊❤ I recently (this Monday) went through a very life changing friend ship break up although I am sad (I’m really not) I’m also happy that I have this huge burden lifted of my shoulders they were a very toxic friend and they have left some damage wich I will probably never recover from.
Guys sorry for yapping ❤!
i soo needed this rn 😭
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This video was so helpful, thank you shelly. Even tho i have not recently been through a friendship breakup it is so helpful to keep in mind if i do experience one soon. Thursday and sundays are now my favorite days of the week ❤️
I loved this bc I had a breakup a phew days ago bc my other ex friend just like took my other friend, I was heartbroken
i hope this helps you on your healing journey ❣️ people can suck but there are some amazing ones out there!!
Loving the advice style videos during the week uploads 💗
that means so much to me yay!! so happy you're loving them
You’re my favourite Aussie TH-camr ❤ sounds like you’re the friend I need in my life 🥹
yes!! every person who subscribes to me is my friend 100%
You are honestly one of the most beautiful and adorable people I've met this year 💖 😊
so excited for this video. please do a grwm with a q&a!!!
you know its a good day when shelly posts
thursdays & sundays are the best days of the week fr ✨💅🏼
Love u Shelly
LOVE U!!
Omg thank you, I had the fallout breakup last year and the ghosty this year, this helps so much thank you Saeshell. 💕
That first speech is so true I’m only in grade 9 but I had a best friend all throughout primary school and we came to high school and got ditched.
Thank you for this ❤ I started going out with my bf who my best friend (at the time) introduced me to and even went on holiday with her, thinking we were best friends. After coming back from our holiday, all our other friends started becoming distant from me and I noticed I was being left from the group. Then I found out my best friend had a notes page where she wrote down horrible lies about me and spread it to the friend group. It managed to get to my bf and he confronted me about it to which I told him none of it were true. I confronted her and asked her to apologise to my bf and the group and she did half-heartedly. I stayed friends with her for a little while after since I had no other friends and the group liked her over me but then she started speaking about someone from uni in a similar way so I decided to distance myself from her and the rest of the group as a whole cos I didn’t want to be friends with people like that. In the end I made new friends at uni and I’m still going out with my bf who has blocked them all as well. All this to say; take those toxic people out of your life! I still don’t know what I did wrong to make her do this to me but I think I just chalk it up to jealousy 🤷♀️
wowee that sounded so exhausting, i'm SO happy you're out of that now & doing so much better!!
@ Thank you! Yh it was exhausting but I’m doing better now and I learnt a lot from it 💖
I know how your feeling 😢
i love your realness ahahha
love being real with you all hehe
Love youu🫶
"Trust with my birds"lol! I love that. Have you ever spoken to the friend group you had when you were 17? again or are they still blocked?
I'm just curious if you ever got closure?
nope! never spoken to a single one of them and they're still in my blocked list 💅🏼 i've got so many amazing people around me now, their closure wouldn't mean a thing to me and that's the power of growth! i just hope that after all this time, they are better people for their own sake
@@saeshell I love this, how many of them were there? Have they ever tried to reach out to you? the only reason why I am asking is that I am currently grieving 10+ years group ending 1.5 years and have no closure. I know it's for the best but it's been hard. I've blocked 19 'friends' lol.
Boyfriend break up . Friend meet a guy ! Her bf don't like BFF.
More cockatiel vids!!
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I just want to give you a hug and kiss cause I love you so much 💗 😊
i have a boyfriend
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@saeshell O no it's fine I'm just saying I love you lots 💗 😊
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