Love is not a transaction; Sadhguru about Love

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  • @twoprayingbuddhas892
    @twoprayingbuddhas892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    That is why i have stopped being too desperate in everything. I just let everything flow and trust in the process

    • @positivevibe7684
      @positivevibe7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm on that path. I'm a work in progress 😊

    • @dailyvichar1706
      @dailyvichar1706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think it is very difficult

    • @haniyasiddiqui1634
      @haniyasiddiqui1634 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dailyvichar1706 very difficult

    • @dailyvichar1706
      @dailyvichar1706 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@haniyasiddiqui1634 You are absolutely right, to conquer mind it may take more than one life. May I achieve it in this life.

    • @maya1shandilya
      @maya1shandilya ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you better ?

  • @jenrapa4717
    @jenrapa4717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    Love is a state of being. Once you find that love in yourself, you can then share it out.
    It's not about another person. It's about connecting to you, you are love.
    You then gift love to everyone else.
    Then one day, if it's for you, a reflection of you will show up.

    • @danielb5171
      @danielb5171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Jen Rapa- Exactly! Wonderfully put!!

    • @SugaSuga008
      @SugaSuga008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This made my day❤️

    • @michaelredding1130
      @michaelredding1130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awesome that's love

    • @GROOVwithme
      @GROOVwithme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Actually, it's more than that, he is talking from a male perspective. In women, the feeling of love is produced by Oxytocin that guides the entire reproductive journey of a woman and her bonding with her child.
      Women chase Oxytocin and feel rejected when it's not reciprocated in a relationship. Men on high oxytocin have better erections but it's not as high in men compared to women. It's more than just a pleasant feeling - it's bonding for women, it makes her commit and start a family. It makes a mother love her child. Its right in our social fabric

    • @jenrapa4717
      @jenrapa4717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GROOVwithme what are you going on about?

  • @maritzasandoval7112
    @maritzasandoval7112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Basically, there is no love only a pleasant feeling within you. Others may express the pleasant feelings they feel towards you and call it love. It’s so simple yet we complicate everything.

  • @supnandandeep6480
    @supnandandeep6480 5 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    Love is unconditional
    Relationships are conditional

    • @sitibear
      @sitibear 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Supnandan deep Well said! That’s why it’s easy to love or fall in love but relationships are hard work!

    • @rivkacoverdale9672
      @rivkacoverdale9672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sitibear But they are worth the work. 💐

    • @narutouzumaki-sb9ke
      @narutouzumaki-sb9ke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sitibear love still need hard work

    • @sitibear
      @sitibear 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      naruto uzumaki Yes so true

    • @positivevibe7684
      @positivevibe7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 101%. However people put sooo many conditions on loving someone...which we know is not love.

  • @meletioleschuster1158
    @meletioleschuster1158 6 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Love is just the sweetness of your emotions. Love is not something that you do. Love is something that you can only become.

  • @nandhilumsden1348
    @nandhilumsden1348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    This is the best explanation I’ve ever heard in my entire life ......period!!!!!!!

    • @eminem13001
      @eminem13001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @TLPtransformlives
      @TLPtransformlives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      PERIOD! Him and Rumi have amazing explanations on true meaning of Love. So freeing

    • @positivevibe7684
      @positivevibe7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessss...I agree. If only people took the time to work on self.

    • @BacchizAdventures
      @BacchizAdventures 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please listen to Louise hay, I am curious if you like her videos

  • @sarahp.8420
    @sarahp.8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love myself so deeply that I know that loving others is essential to my well bring

  • @lilasfaves7846
    @lilasfaves7846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Yes, I see what he’s saying, prob is that it doesn’t help a traumatised person who has dissociated. I did a massive spiritual bypass for years and years. It wasn’t until I connected fully with myself with self compassion too rather than ONLY sending it to others, that I became spiritually whole somehow

    • @pug9431
      @pug9431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Very true. I believe Sadhguru is missing something in translation here. To love yourself means to accept yourself as one who deserves the compassion that anyone else does and act accordingly. If you do not love yourself in this way, you are unjustly depriving yourself of love.

    • @jacklynabalahin8899
      @jacklynabalahin8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for this

    • @JeffCaplan313
      @JeffCaplan313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We're "supposed to" love AND respect/fear our self/the Lord.

  • @JP-gf3fs
    @JP-gf3fs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I still believe that you can cultivate love within yourself. We dont have to experience it always from others, or from our surroundings.

    • @jordanferguson2254
      @jordanferguson2254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree 🍀

    • @1shu
      @1shu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Love can only be cultivated from within. It doesn't happen outside the body. Sadhguru meant you can fall in love with someone or something and can cultivate those sweet emotions within yourself but you can't love your own self cause love is something that happens between two people.

    • @JenniferEMasters
      @JenniferEMasters 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. Self-love doesn't "JUST HAPPEN." Not until we become enlightened. What about before that???? We have to wait on it? Not true. We can learn to cultivate self-love the unconditional love we didn't receive from our parents.

    • @JenniferEMasters
      @JenniferEMasters 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@1shu that simply isn't true.

    • @tonyamartin1425
      @tonyamartin1425 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      homeless people do it all the time

  • @nonilovechild5524
    @nonilovechild5524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    I love you and there is nothing you can do about it 😀

    • @astar9482
      @astar9482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Noni Lovechild 😂😂😂

    • @manafkamal3720
      @manafkamal3720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please make

    • @meydiaengka
      @meydiaengka 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMFAOOO I know right?

    • @mgrace10
      @mgrace10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So obvious, right ?! 😁

    • @gabrielegaven3094
      @gabrielegaven3094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wonderful - I am glad.

  • @saranyachimirala8351
    @saranyachimirala8351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Absolutely true that one thing used by everyone to make things happen for them is “I Love You”. Not to fall for this, because later consequences maybe unbearable😊✌️peace

  • @caribbeanqueen4535
    @caribbeanqueen4535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Isn't it so??. These simple words I ask myself every day when I feel unpleasantness that I cannot explain and It brings me back to Sadhgurus teachings that has such straightforward guidelines to living.

  • @AmyFerguson
    @AmyFerguson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You can love what you build with another person.
    There is something you get with others, with your relationship with others, that is not possible with yourself.
    We are social creatures.
    There is a flow, back and forth between two people.
    One builds on the other.

  • @samia1885
    @samia1885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I very often listen to sadguru. I find peace and clarity of mind.

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    If you don't mess with anything...everything will be well...it's simple 👍

  • @ii-yu8rg
    @ii-yu8rg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When another person loves you, it’s doubly pleasant. So it matters!

  • @tavoiaiono7885
    @tavoiaiono7885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Yes love yourself enough and you will find that you dont need anyone else.

    • @doroteotimtim8854
      @doroteotimtim8854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well spoken words....It's your life to do what is in your best interests.

  • @christineveazey4345
    @christineveazey4345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love myself, respect myself. I don't let others mistreat me. If someone doesn't love me I love me. I don't depend on love from outside or let others define me. I don't need a guru.

    • @mohinipanda253
      @mohinipanda253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U r a donkey

    • @christineveazey4345
      @christineveazey4345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@mohinipanda253 No, I'm a human. Anybody who casts others to subhuman level, it says a lot about the person who does that. It's not that I think animals are below me, don't get me wrong. I simply have no ideology or reason to look down on others. If you put me down, I consider your intelligence and love which is lacking at the moment, your judgment of me. I prefer not to fight about anything.

    • @thebigcountry8518
      @thebigcountry8518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you are saying that feeling you have had for someone. That feeling of love and bliss. You feel that way about yourself ? That is schizo !
      I will go along with having Self Respect, but loving yourself as we all understand the emotion to be..If you feel that way towards yourself..Please slide off the end of the bench and stay there !

    • @christineveazey4345
      @christineveazey4345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thebigcountry8518 No, you are seeing it from your perspective. I only mean that I love myself insofar as I respect myself as I would respect another person, love myself as I would love another person. I am not schizo, bro. I protect myself from abusive people just as I would protect another. Furthermore, when anybody puts an abusive person before theirself, they have no respect for theirself or love. They let bad people go on doing what they are doing. Until one can see theirself as worthy of the same consideration as one gives another, even if a stranger, that puts theirself of danger of abusive people taking advantage. Try it sometime. Move yourself out of the way of an abusive person by loving and protecting yourself as you love others. You will have no more problems from an abusive person. To continually forgive them and stay in the same situation is abusing yourself and helping them to continue abusing you.

    • @thebigcountry8518
      @thebigcountry8518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christineveazey4345 I know what you are saying, but as with most people. It's a misuse of the true meaning of the word. Love is an emotion towards something or somebody else. It's felt.
      When you hear the saying "You gotta love yourself,before you can expect someone to love you"..That's not meant in the literal sense of the true definition of love. Again, the misuse of the word is used there. We get the meaning. It's just misused !
      In the video he explains the TRUE meaning of the word LOVE.
      Then again, you may love yourself i dunno...oof

  • @pennyhynes5634
    @pennyhynes5634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm powerfully moved. Thank you Sadguru 🤷‍♀️💙

  • @Louffydances4life
    @Louffydances4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I kneww that this love feeling was more than just romantic and what society has put in our life

  • @karenlacy8950
    @karenlacy8950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    One can love many things in their life. It is a feeling that makes one happy or sad! I like what he had to say! Some people never experience love because they don’t know what it it is! They are unable to show their feelings or don’t want to express them.

  • @micheldisclafani2343
    @micheldisclafani2343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best friend in the world is your body and yourself!

  • @dll5472
    @dll5472 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Love makes the world go round isn't it so !!! 🤗😘

  • @joanlee5657
    @joanlee5657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love is not a transaction. Love is a beautiful thing that happens within you. It cannot happen outside of you. It may find expression outside, but it's something that can happen only within you.

  • @ወiኒ
    @ወiኒ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So wonderful to know love is my sweetness to share not to give!!! ❤❤❤ My sadhguru bless full!!!

  • @sivakarthiksiva4739
    @sivakarthiksiva4739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love sadhguru so much. Now I could study more things about myself. I hope that sadhguru speeches leading me through the right ways of everywhere

  • @numberseven4878
    @numberseven4878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I cant stop picturing his head moving when he speaks

    • @ashutoshsharmash
      @ashutoshsharmash 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ummm... That's the racist equivalent of "All Black people love Grape soda and Fried chicken." Are you white?

    • @ra1507
      @ra1507 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Frankie Knight lmfao 😂

    • @sarahcurnayn5928
      @sarahcurnayn5928 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      best pfp. i love tyler

  • @emydwi7441
    @emydwi7441 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very true, love yourself and don't care if someone loves us. just focus on loving yourself

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If u love the world...u will be in Bliss...nothing to do with others !

  • @dennissanchez1704
    @dennissanchez1704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Finally i know the meaning of love, thank you!

  • @michaelredding1130
    @michaelredding1130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't care what anyone say I love this guy!!

  • @balasiva3396
    @balasiva3396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Finally his speech is very logical.isn't it?

    • @ay-by9qs
      @ay-by9qs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello? it is.

    • @qdestinyx
      @qdestinyx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehe Yes 😁, isn't it?

  • @williamdiaz2645
    @williamdiaz2645 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Proverbs 19:8 To acquire wisdom is to love oneself; people who cherish understanding will prosper.

  • @bellabella4580
    @bellabella4580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So deep in meaning thanks it is higher level of spiritual perception

  • @Vera-dg3hf
    @Vera-dg3hf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "There is no need to love anybody either because you can't do that either." I really want to understand this.

    • @deborahbenjamin310
      @deborahbenjamin310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think this means you can't really love in and of yourself. You need a higher power to do that...to help you keep on loving. That higher power for me is Almighty God.

    • @joanmorgan9715
      @joanmorgan9715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Human love is fickle and conditional. No matter how hard we try, we can't love unconditionally. It's only by God's grace.

  • @khajiithadwares2263
    @khajiithadwares2263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Think he is talking from an absolute point here --- from the extreme of 'altruism' that a guru like him may reach, in other words, when you're interested in the wellbeing of every-thing, love is no longer necessary, since every-thing already includes that one person, the family, the nation etc. But on any other level people need to concentrate their energy on loving that one thing or another, is important. You can identify with everything and be on the right path, or identify only with yourself and be left behind; or somewhere in between, is the beauty of life.

  • @keirwilson5691
    @keirwilson5691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Understanding of self gave me enlightenment of everything else.

  • @Userienxlaopbd
    @Userienxlaopbd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love is not a transaction but relationship is. There can be love without relationship but not relationship without love.

  • @sjinzaar
    @sjinzaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This flips the script. Mind blowing…

  • @herstory1012
    @herstory1012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow...amazing perspective.

  • @stevecoley8365
    @stevecoley8365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Accountants think love is a business deal. But poets, artists, musicians, mystics, human beings and creators of joy do not.

  • @phylliskee6893
    @phylliskee6893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you 'Sadhguru'

  • @NickRyanBayon
    @NickRyanBayon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In a way a painful truth but we can only know for certain what we feel and experience. There is the only thing that matters and the only truth. Be in the moment and face yourself.

  • @francebignolas888lovelight
    @francebignolas888lovelight 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank You to Sadhguru for the very best truth about love ever heard... deep gratitude to Sadhguru...my heart and my whole being feels sooo much lighter now...

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even if someone loves you, then they will think of the worldly things and fear will erase the love.

  • @Aashnae
    @Aashnae 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love = Subject of Study.
    Love = Work.
    Love is the Peace which we achieve from good deeds.😊

  • @gabrielaraimondo2430
    @gabrielaraimondo2430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Many people don't know what love is! They just love themselves and do whatever to others and with their lives and other lives and keep saying they love you after they did whatever!🙄

  • @KantaraoJada
    @KantaraoJada 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    U love means u r happy... u no need to show it to others❤

  • @einareinarsson8662
    @einareinarsson8662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly. This is a great deception to think everyone should love and care about you. You will be very disapointed. Not many love you or will ever love you as you MUST love yourself. If you dont love and care and respect yourself and living with authencity no one could love you. You are stuck in misery. Just love yourself and then there is no issue. Not in a narcisstic way. Narcissistic love AINT love. Thank you sire

  • @angelinatesla8390
    @angelinatesla8390 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is perfectly on que... I love the serendipity let's me know the universe is always listening 🕉️🍁

  • @aloneboyvikki8835
    @aloneboyvikki8835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As u loved some one in ur life sadgru, yes i accept love is two people

    • @skywalker847
      @skywalker847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All is one, separation is an illusion.

  • @rosisunny9302
    @rosisunny9302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏💜🙏 He is so right,it’s happening in you!🙂🙂🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @GnanaprakasamDevdevan-lo4zc
    @GnanaprakasamDevdevan-lo4zc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isn't it true that my well being is always looked after by some portion of this beautiful universe of ours?

  • @AzulBlueQueen1944
    @AzulBlueQueen1944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much clarity

  • @swarnashanmugalingam6112
    @swarnashanmugalingam6112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sonebody loves you sweet heart don't you know. Longs to be bear you wherever you go.... Sweet song

  • @makysujo
    @makysujo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great piece of words ❤

  • @terrellwilliams5455
    @terrellwilliams5455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    SWEET EMOTIONS/pleasant EMOTIONS/

  • @carmen-sq2be
    @carmen-sq2be 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much Sad guru💚💓💕🎀💙💚💚💜💛

  • @We.Weaswe123
    @We.Weaswe123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The mantra is divine

  • @kenbehzadi1185
    @kenbehzadi1185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's entertaining and smart.

  • @terrellwilliams5455
    @terrellwilliams5455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE IS NOT A transaction

  • @meditation4099
    @meditation4099 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love is wonderful feeling in this world nothing can be like that

    • @BanarasiGuruMBBS
      @BanarasiGuruMBBS 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am sry Love is not a feeling its basically ur chemical hijack which u r to make a world in itself that why u r calling nothing cannt be like that

    • @joanmorgan9715
      @joanmorgan9715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love is not a feeling. It is a decision, a commitment, a powerful frequency. Detach from feelings and emotions and you will become strong. Love weakens evil.

  • @kritishaw3579
    @kritishaw3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️ peace of mind 💫

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome thankyou sadgharu ❤️😊

  • @sunithakrishnan9688
    @sunithakrishnan9688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadhguru has the answer to all the queries. ❤️ The way he answers

  • @kimduckworth5047
    @kimduckworth5047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Like the introduction music!

  • @marianeal3164
    @marianeal3164 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It makes a lot of sense. Thank you 🤗

  • @tracyjohnson3719
    @tracyjohnson3719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love does not always feel sweet. It can be a burden to some. So it’s more than a sweet emotion to me. like a woman trading her body to give her children food. Her emotions are not just sweet…love can not be out in a box & say …that is love. It means many different things to different people.

  • @masterofdesaster8610
    @masterofdesaster8610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That are great thoughts!
    Amazing.

  • @christineterry3079
    @christineterry3079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funny but true !love can be nuisance at times especially if its one sided ...you think why am i doing this too my self over thinking and wanting ,but its natural as well too want love is it not his words are very true though..like the music so peacful

  • @sumiviki2435
    @sumiviki2435 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very soft and light to hear...tnx guruji

  • @Maxp13579
    @Maxp13579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If anyone can help me find the name of the chant used in this video please let me know. It's really beautiful.

  • @cindypickymoon2161
    @cindypickymoon2161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    true always telling this to my clients . rare ppl know wat love is

    • @abdoul5176
      @abdoul5176 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh is that a recent picture? You look good!

    • @cindypickymoon2161
      @cindypickymoon2161 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abdoulhay Ceesay not recent lols yes i look good , that’s 4 years ago

    • @cindypickymoon2161
      @cindypickymoon2161 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abdoulhay Ceesay th

    • @abdoul5176
      @abdoul5176 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cindypickymoon2161 No need for thanks I just call it how I see it.

    • @cindypickymoon2161
      @cindypickymoon2161 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abdoulhay Ceesay thank u

  • @andylee7862
    @andylee7862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So profound but untill i got out of a toxic relationship i truely understand this now. Puhh, gosh.

  • @justmeonthebeach
    @justmeonthebeach 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very interesting, thanks.

  • @TheodoraKimmelHello
    @TheodoraKimmelHello 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadhguru, will you please do an installation for those of us who fear love? Could you please include when we are in a relationship? For example, there are expectations of how we express love.

  • @enimomani5525
    @enimomani5525 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for wisdom offering Love you Namaskaram

  • @videdalon3748
    @videdalon3748 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I still cant understand why it isnt possible to love myself... you said love, respect is between two. But lets say if i dont love or respect myself how am i gonna take care of myself. Idk its confusing cuz i see it with many poor people where i live it seems like they dont care about themselves, eating trash food, drinking, smoking and things like that. Like theyre destroying their body,mind and as i can see not living peacefully. And i always thought they need self respec. Cuz as you said love only "beneficts" the person who feel it, not the one who recive it and... even if someone loves you too much this person cant really take care of yourself as youll do...

    • @tweetyrocks7686
      @tweetyrocks7686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i dont think i need to love myself,so i think he is right,without loving myself i take care of myself,so its not imp

    • @nawthang6673
      @nawthang6673 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      If you were to love yourself, there would be a lover and a person who gets loved, isn't it? You would then split your consciousness, isn't it? Be love and you will sensate wholeness. By being love I mean: don't distinguish yourself from the experience of love, simply perceive it with all of you that can perceive. Now, if you are love and if you are one, there is no need for asking 'how to love people', isn't it? Continually, being love will always lead to self - respect. Don't mind if you aren't loving at the moment, embrace and be fully integrated in what you sensate now and you offer your lovelynes space to express itself.

    • @djsoto19
      @djsoto19 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Consciousness has to split to know what love is. If consciousness never splits, the gradient needed to distinguish love from not love never forms, that is to say when everything is being one thing, the varieties of emotions or feelings we experience don’t come about. Consciousness splitting is neither a good or a bad thing, just a thing that is ok if it happens or not.

    • @TheCycloneTrooper
      @TheCycloneTrooper 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@djsoto19
      But the consciousness must be experienced as one right? That's the whole point of enlightenment? I haven't experienced it myself, so I can't really speak in a generic sense. But from what I've come to understand about it, I believe that's where we should direct our efforts & focus towards.

    • @Omnivian
      @Omnivian 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Vide Dalon
      I agree. I think self-respect is important and necessary. Some people call that self-love. It is better to be "total" and avoid splitting oneself, as he is saying. However, I do believe there is such a thing as a relationship with yourself. Some people like themselves, some like themselves too much, some hate themselves, and so on. Some people don´t care about themselves, like the people in your example and that brings a lot of problems for those people and the people around them. So I hope you can show them the meaning of self-respect and self-care with your way of life.

  • @AquaAngel2101
    @AquaAngel2101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well said Sir 👍🏻

  • @remotelyfool-ish5073
    @remotelyfool-ish5073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This enlightened me, great perspective

  • @xxsadmittensxx4082
    @xxsadmittensxx4082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I felt asleep on this guy didn't overstand what he was saying much I woke up and now I overstand this message

  • @NotoriousBee82
    @NotoriousBee82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. This was deep

  • @slrdspirit
    @slrdspirit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5:55 "is it on push-start or self-start?
    If it was on Self-start, you wouldn't be asking all these questions, isn't it"?

  • @a.kshiddentalent7090
    @a.kshiddentalent7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE someone unconditionally but I am not getting same love back but still I want to stay with them because I feel so relaxed and happy with them . They respect me but they dont give me what I want from them that is only same FEELING OF LOVE IN THEM FOR ME
    PLEASE GUIDE ME 🙏

  • @ramchndrrju9594
    @ramchndrrju9594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very heart solacing.

  • @anaypandya9252
    @anaypandya9252 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make this fabulous video in hindi.

  • @santoshbehera1867
    @santoshbehera1867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🙏 🙏
    Love is not a transaction

  • @onkelzhamburg72
    @onkelzhamburg72 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is it really possible, that you can be completely Happy, by just loving yourself?!
    Is here anyone, who would say, yes, even when I stay on my own for my hole life - with nobody else -
    I would be just as happy as in a great, lovingly, sexy and exciting relationship! I cannot believe that!
    To love is nothing... to be loved is something... to love and be loved is everything!

    • @wallaceleewl9189
      @wallaceleewl9189 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allow it to happen naturally. Calm your mind slowly. Next let your intuition be your guide. Hope you found it.

    • @neelk18
      @neelk18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yourself means what?
      Ur body or soul?
      If it is limited to only ur physical body that means only u r caring for mortal ,but if it is ur soul then definitely u will find ur own soul in others & will understand what actually is the exact meaning of speech

  • @Optimistic-d3n
    @Optimistic-d3n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do love myself,bcoz if i don't who will take care of my family.Neglecting myself just looking loving all,means ur nearer to death,loving here means taking care of oneself.Why to run outside,that somebody will take care you love you,First love yourself,than others.pyaar ki gali itni sankari isme duja na samaye.Generally creative peoples talk alone,no mental diseases.Dont many people sing alone,specially in bathroom,are they mental.

    • @neelk18
      @neelk18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No

  • @StuTheKidUngar
    @StuTheKidUngar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly what i needed. Thank you ❤ Love

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love can happen only within u ❤

  • @susheeladevi7029
    @susheeladevi7029 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Namaskaram sadhguru Gaaru 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐

  • @shepompi
    @shepompi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sadhguru for “President”

  • @annnjeri9874
    @annnjeri9874 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every time I listen to Sadhguru it feels like being on my daddy’s lap

  • @unikacheck9240
    @unikacheck9240 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shankaran Pillai was a great Indian cartoonist. He has authored many books. Worth paging through them.

  • @vinstheboneful6844
    @vinstheboneful6844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is perfect.

  • @carmenonea3800
    @carmenonea3800 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    gorgeous and sheer clarity

  • @angelnomathamisanqa3887
    @angelnomathamisanqa3887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well explained, tnk u Mr Ghuruj.

  • @LukesLightsaber1
    @LukesLightsaber1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tips To Heal Your Energy & Raise Your Vibration!
    - Let go of your ego
    - Expand your consciousness & awareness
    - Keep your environment clean
    - Go outside & connect with nature everyday
    - Listen to music that heals your soul
    - Think before you react with emotions
    - Isolate yourself from people holding you back
    - Eat more healthy greens
    - Meditate daily
    - Love yourself more
    - Philanthropy!
    - Eliminate clutter from your life
    - Practice gratitude
    Hope you found this helpful!

  • @irenealomar5240
    @irenealomar5240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true so true❤️