Teenager Is Cyberstalked by Unstoppable and Knowledgeable Mastermind | Kendra Licari Case Analysis
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This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Kendra Licari?
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Kendra claimed anxiety, depression and trauma. Doesn't she know her actions caused anxiety, depression and trauma in her own daughter? What a cruel woman.
Some personality types feel better when they make others suffer. They’re sadistic.
Mom was giving covert narcissism to me big time,
They do that, apparently it's more intense in the way you see here between a narc mother and the daughter that triggers envy and mirror reflections of traits
She is mentally ill, that's for sure, but on another level. Her actions are just extreme and psychopathic.
She has some other personality disorder and is trying to normalize her behavior by claiming legitimate illnesses
I agree with you👍
Doing that is creepy. Doing it to your own daughter is exceedingly creepy.
No wonder Kendra wasn't diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and trauma until after her arrest. That's probably when her depression etc. started while worrying about prison. Before that, she was probably "only" full of jealousy and dislike of her daughter, her daughter's best friend Chloe, and Chloe's mom; that's why she made some attempts to frame Chloe.
Scary woman. I sincerely hope her daughter heals.
"Getting caught was traumatizing".
I’m glad Jane’s father got custody, Kendra is mean. There are no excuses for her behavior. Thank you Dr. Grande for this strange case.
"mean" is putting it lightly. more like she's a deranged unhinged psychopath
Sounds more like she was jealous of her daughter than wanting to bond with her.
Yes, she is probably narcissistic. She liked to brag about her daughter when there was audience (other parents), but in private she was harassing her to put her down - that made her feel that she's better/prettier/more successful than her daughter.
My nephews late mother n law was that way with his wife.
Insecure mother
I remember that movie. Scared me to death for years, as a kid.
Exactly
Dr Grande, I saw a Dutch television program (translated "Stalked") where a young couple who just had a baby got stalked via text messages. The couple lived with the woman's parents. She got texts that said her man cheated again and again. Eventually it became too much and the couple broke up. The man moved back in with his own parents. The investigator brought to light that the mother of the man was the stalker. So she basically stalked her own child and his girlfriend, the mother of the baby. Turned out she felt very rejected that her son wanted to live with his inlaws. She wanted him near her again. The man was utterly heartbroken by this revelation.
Who needs an enemy with a mom like that
This reminds me of that movie from like the 1980’s or 90’s: “The calls are coming from inside the house!” 😮😮😮
Black Christmas, 1972
E.T.
When a Stranger Calls with Carol Kane from 1979!!! Super unnerving film based on real events 😱
@@revsymantix5429 Yes!!! I saw that film with my then boyfriend, now husband of 44 years! The twist caught me completely by surprise. And that sentence is still a catch phrase in our house when troubles seem to be home-brewed.
Omg! There is a sequel called When A Stranger Call Back and it is scary and edge of your seat. It's better than the 1st one, and it's got the original people too!
My favorite part of this story is Kendra losing custody.
My sister is a cyber stalker. She has stalked me for years, using similar tactics that Kendra did. It’s scary how technology helps create bigger monsters than what they already were prior to technology. My sister learned all kinds of tricks and ways of using technology to not only harass me, but, ex-boyfriend’s etc. No matter how much no contact I go with her, she would always find a way to get to me via technology and her devices.
Good thing you do not have a brother.
Maybe you aren't the only one victim of her stalking. If she is doing the same to somebody with authority over her (a boss, an uncle, or something similar) maybe you could have some allies with ways to correct her behavior. A friend enduring the same uses protonmail and so
Is there something about your sister that makes her vulnerable, in a way that makes her uncomfortable enough, to avoid contact with You?
I've roleplayed crazy a time or three.
@@8thhousemoonrabbit205 she is diagnosed with borderline personality and narcissism. Our mother is a diagnosed malignant narcissist and histrionic. She was literally a mommy dearest growing up. Unfortunately my sister developed many of our mother’s traits but worse. She’s spent her whole life jealous of me…she’s older. We’ve always been as different as night and day and felt my father favored me over her. Even felt out younger brother was favored over her…jealous of him too. She does the borderline splitting…you’re either all good or all bad. If you are on her good side, she can be ok to you…but still has to control you. It’s been a sad thing to watch her decline with her obsessiveness with people. She even broke into her ex’a house several years ago to steal papers to help her in her divorce from him. She stalked him and his new wife online and harassed the crap out of them for years! When I finally had enough of her behaviors and cut her off…she started doing that to me because she no longer had easy access to me. She tried breaking into my social media accounts, banking app, stole files out of my file cabinet….SS, bank numbers, medical records. It’s literally been like something out of a movie. Her login attempts on certain accounts were traced back to her IP address. She needs help but a narcissist never sees themselves as the problem. She’s apologize and say, “I’ve done horrible things to you,” then when forgiven, start right back. She tries to destroy anyone who crosses her. Quite dangerous
@@ReinoldFZ she has stalked numerous people…friends, exes, you name it. She’s quite scary. I’m sad she turned out that way but family can’t even help. My father is a physician and has tried convincing her to get help. She has to live with herself
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Scammers are numerous and global. It would be hard to put a stop to it. Title companies get scammed too.
Again, that is the responsibility of the title offices is it not?
@@tonyhoffman3309 it's the responsibility of the lenders. They loan money to buy a house from someone who doesn't own it. Now they want to charge homeowners for doing work to unravel a problem they caused
looks like a total scam and completely ridiculous, looking on planting a panic of an imaginary risk. How ironic this kind of scam in one of his videos, that are usually an example of rational thought.
What are you talking about? This is a mother stalking her daughter and boyfriend. This has nothing to do with banks, title offices or homeowners.
This case is so unreal. When it first broke and we didn't have all the details it was shocking enough but the things she said to her daughter are so unreal. Whatever this woman's problem is, she must be extremely unwell.
@lesliewoinarowicz7018 lmao how does it sound like that? I can't even kind of relate as I am not a lunatic and do not have children. Why do some people go out of their way to miss the point.
Yes! She is a malignant narcissist!
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018- How disgusting do you have to be to try to cover up the victimization of one’s own daughter!
I can’t even imagine doing that to any of my kids. There’s enough drama in high school and relationships without any type of stalking.
Hoping Jane is able to heal 🙏
As someone who has struggled with anxiety for as long as I can remember, I could never do anything even close to this.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018 what an odd thing to say 🤔
Actually, the comment you rightfully called out was mean spirited as well as odd.@jessicaj5917
@@jessicaj5917she already deleted it 😭 good job
Having Narcissistic Personality Disorder could possibly explain Kendra’s behavior. I’ve read that in narcissistic family systems a parent may identify a “golden child” that they desire to both obsessively control and live vicariously through.
Wow! You should start your own practice.
I think mom was jealous of her daughter, too, which seems like narcissism.
I wonder why she was fired so many times and didn't pay their mortgage????
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018you should try standup comedy!
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018 Sadly, I’ve seen this dynamic firsthand in our extended family, so Kendra’s behavior struck me as pretty familiar.
Why would a mother do this to her own daughter. Horrible
Does every person who does bad things need to have a metal disorder? Can’t a person just be an asshole?
Mental health professionals simultaneously warn against pathologising normal human behaviour while diagnosing everyone with some type of mental disorder. The bar to get diagnosed with a mental health problem is incredibly low. The whole t hing has become a bit of a joke.
No one said she had a metal disorder, silly girl.
Everything has a reason, root, or cause.
@@aaroniouse
Like being an asshole
Because why not call a thing a thing - 'Ebenezer Scrooge', was an asshole.
This is a narcissist.
Dr. Grande, it would be awesome to listen to You speak in person, like a Seminar or Lecture on cases, mental illness, etc
You should already know stuff you don't need to be a Dr.
@@lizb4156 You should know how to type a proper sentence, but here we are.
@@lizb4156 uh what now?
@@fkcoolers2669you should know how to be a proper, kind person, but instead you're a douche....soooo here we are.
I believe she’s was envious of her own daughter and perhaps had an obsession with the boyfriend!
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018wow you should try stand up comedy!
But if Kendra manifested this drama as a way to grow closer to her daughter or bond her daughter and Owen together out of concern as a parent, then why did she tell her daughter to kill herself?
feeding off the drama she caused ...what a horrible narcissistic mother.
A dramasite.
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That poor kid will be scarred for life. How will she be able to trust anyone?
Cool Mom, the worst kind of mother
Absolutely insufferable, especially the ones who actually call themselves the cool mom.
She probably knows how to party!
This is beyond creepy. It's outright scary and disturbing.
Wow. Poor young lady. Thanks Doc.
Kendra's face is perpetually trying to "figure something out"
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Edt: she was egregiously petty and jealous and caused her own depressive anxiety as a result....
It’s crazy and evil to do this to your own daughter.
They should have given her more time in jail. As the mother of a minor she had a responsibility of care.
In my mind it's the teenage equivalent taking a toddler to a park and abandoning them. Obviously a teenager is more capable of making their way back home from a park. What they aren't as capable of is making their way through abuse from their peer group.
There are folks who don't make it past this kind of stuff and are crippled by it for a very long time after leaving high school. The ones that do usually have solid support from friends and family. Now imagine if your high school abuser had more information about you, stuff that only your family knows.
All I'm saying is that she should have spent more time in jail.
I got off social media years ago after someone harassed me and my "friends"
Poor baby, can we help?
I can't find an excuse for this type of cruelty - I would be wondering if she had practiced it before - as a child, at school - sending out poison-pen letters with impunity or being a Trickster or nasty bit of work? Hard to believe this woman just woke up one day and turned into a wicked mother...
You should start your own practice, sweetie.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018you should try stand up comedy sweetie pie.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018 shut up leslie
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018 are you the woman featured, in this video because you seem very, very invested in the judgements made, of her.
Omg my daughter graduated from CMU! FIRE UP CHIPS🔥 ! Thank you for your informative analysis on this case, Dr. Grande!
Mount Pleasant isn't a bad little town.
All Munchausen by proxy is cashing in on the misery inflicted vicariously
I appreciate your work, Dr. Grande! Always very insightful!
Doesnt matter if she had a mental illness or not, what she did was horrible and inexcusable.
This happened in my sleepy town.
@ well you liked it enough to comment. I actually didn’t mean or realized I posted as I was going to write more.. 😑
Was going to add… while it’s a nice community based town.. there seems to be a lot of generational trauma passed down or just ignored as it’s a “who you know” type place. Too many open secrets
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018sweetie you should try stand up comedy!
Leslie you are showing scary mom red flags. Have you heard of the Church of Narcissism? It will save you...
Human Resources worker, guess I’m not going to be surprised
Human Resources, psychologists, teachers amongst others are careers vile people use as covers
@@PostClarity7 Do not forget the scum who post on DG. I hope you are not offended sweetie.
Clearly She's a borderline or narcissistic mother.
Please cover the case of Neil Gaiman!
He is doing him on Wednesday.
Based on the title, I feel sarcasm will be strong in this one 😂
Reminds me of Serial Mom.
Beverly Sutphin looked after her family though and went after anyone that tried to harm them in any way.
Though I don't understand why she went after Scotty as the only thing he did was refuse to wear his seatbelt.
We shouldn't need another monthly subscription to protect us from home title fraud! We need our elected representatives to enact laws that ends this as a possible hazard of contemporary life
Wouldnt you think the people who catfish their friends and family online are basically the same as this?
Agree
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Bad mothers are so destructive
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018so are people with overuse of sarcasm, which is often touted as the lowest form of intelligence.
“When you said teenage. How old we talkin’?” R. Kelly
I think you’re giving Kendra a bit too much credit here lol, she 100% did it for the attention.
I was waiting for him to call her “ extremely creepy “
This is soooo mean. She obviously hated her. There’s no reason.
Bizarre case 🤯. The only upside is that the daughter is protected from her overbearing and toxic mother
These off-the-cuff bonustracks after the official ending kinda work.
This is so sick .
Maybe the mom was jealous of her daughter and chose to do this out of spite and pure nastiness.
Will you be covering Neil Gaiman? He said he "can't get off any other way," apparently.
He is covering him tomorrow.
Isn’t this fitting the profile of a narcissist? She’s just getting supply through all of this and implementing triangulation, etc..
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Reminds me of my mother
Good lord what kind of mother is encouraging her 12 year old daughter to have a lover?
Thank you Dr. Grande.
This mom is EXCCCEEEEEEEDDDINGLY creepy
Lisa Renna is the perfect actress to play the demented Kendra. she, herself, is a whacko mean girl?
Reminded me a bit of Carrie.
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I don't normally get here within several minutes after upload. Good evening from London Dr Grande!
That's blanking fast
Greetings from London Ontario Canada
Good morning sweetie.
I can't imagine all the scams that are gonna happen with the l.A fires.
Wow, that sounds like something from the Movie 'Black Christmas'. Where the detectives trace the phone call & its coming from inside the victims home. CREEPY!
That poor girl probably has such trust issues now and always will.
Just checked out the Patreon for the first time. He saves some really interesting cases I haven’t heard of for the Patreon. And I’ve watched a ton of true crime the past few years
I haven’t stopped thinking about this case since the first time I heard about it
Another bit of evidence suggesting that, in our society, the difference between an adult and a child is limited to physical size. Nothing else.
Wow! You are truly a genius in your own mind.
Especially with adults wearing clothes their kids wear
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018 And you are so perceptive in noticing that, aren't you?
Piss off.
CONSEQUENCES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!
Wow! What a profound statement.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018Wow what an awesome response!
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018 You’ve been reported to cyber police.
What a weird case.
That's not all Kendra coached... 🙄 Poor Jane! How humiliating that must have been!
Poor Janey, I'm sure she will pull through this menagerie. Please take your meds as prescribed, sweetie.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018take your own advice but maybe up the dosage to 3 dozen pills.
What a terrible mother! AI IMO is kind of scary as its almost real but not quite right. My concern with technology is that it is moving at such a pace that very soon we may not be able to tell fact from fiction; also IP addresses can be changed and that's a huge concern for me as a mother and individual.
Terrific video. Thank you.
I’m guessing that the serial liar mom lacked better entertainment in her life.
Theres nothing like a mothers love.....apparently, she didnt get the memo!!
People do crazy things.
Definitely jealousy here somewhere. 😢😢Poor girl
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This is just nutty.
The most disturbing sing I saw in this video is Lisa Rinna's face! She used to be so pretty 😢
@@movingisliving Do not be so cruel, she is a doll.
Kendra was losing control - fired from her job, her home foreclosed. The only thing she could control was her daughter via text messages. She liked controlling the softball team and basketball team being 'the coach' and gossiping. It made her feel important. Kendra was the manipulative puppet master and Jane and Owen her puppets. Sounds like Kendra is a covert narcissist. Me. Me. Me. Control. Control. Control.
It’s hard for me to go get a pizza cause of all the steps and fears involved. So yea. Pretty sure anxiety ain’t her thing.
Just get a burger instead, works all the time for me.
Yes she was very cruel, agree with your analysis. Always nice to hear the breakdown & opinions, I learn something each video. Thanks Dr G😊💜❤
Keep learning sweetie. We are all proud of you.
@lesliewoinarowicz7018 That sounds a bit sarcastic lol. Just trying to be honest and kind. You keep learning too, sweetie.
I wonder if Jane knew it was her mom for a while, but didn't want anyone to know.. Kendra must have been jealous of her daughter's' life, and wanted to be able to control it.
Wow! You should start your own practice.
I thought it was Lisa Rinna in the thumbnail 😆
Plot twist it is Lisa Rinna ahhh Lifetime movies. LOL
Bottom line...she was simply jealous of her daughter.
Oh my GOSH!!!!!! She is the WORST!! I can hardly believe this!!!! I certainly HOPE Dr. G prediction that this is a one-off & likely will never happen again. But that's what I thought about the Columbine ordeal.
Oh great! Technology used in this way is terrifying! Never can escape it! All day, all night 24/7! And almost impossible to trace back!
What a effed up life she made for her daughter
Wow! What a deep thought sweetie.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018
Deeper than your response
My friend who’s a therapist calls this “psychopathy” 😢
I don't feel so bad now. When I was born, way back 65 years ago, my dad took one look at me in the hospital nursery and declared, "He'll never amount to anything." I took it kind of hard for a while.
I’m sorry that happened, you are so much more than those aweful words!!!
You can't be serious. What kind of father would say that about their newborn son?
I'm so sorry that happened to you. How do you know he said that?
So was he right?
I hope your father was joking but if he wasn't, he was a shithole! I'm glad you don't feel as bad about it - 65 years is a long time to feel bad.
Take care!
I suffer from anxiety, depression due to trauma. I see a shrink once a week and I take Lexapro. Seems like a better solution compared to cyberstalking.
My fiancé and I love your videos and dry humor!!!!
I hope you love your fiance'.
Kendra would have done better to use her time and effort in learning how to keep a job.
Wow! Now that is deep thinking.
@@lesliewoinarowicz7018something you are not capable of sweetie.
Very creepy/disturbing behavior...
I find much fault in parenting in our society. My family is full of very strange mothering. But nothing like Kendra.
You are living proof.
Wow, She really went buckwild there for a minute
Greetings from Germany
Dang. I wish my dad had written down everything he said so I had evidence. Born in the wrong era. Abusers be outing themselves now😮
I think Kendra is a malignant narcissist who wants attention and also finds joy in inflicting pain. Her daughter was an easy target. And she used her fake identity as the scapegoat.
Maybe you will be born a unicorn in the next life. I am rooting for you kid.