When I cared too much about other people!

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  • @adityambaruah26
    @adityambaruah26 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I totally agree with you sir ❤❤❤

  • @ashishbist6371
    @ashishbist6371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Being THE G.O.A.T. and still making videos relatable to us and how we feel, you're truly an inspiration to us. The fact that you remember all these aspects of your journey shows your struggle. Hatts of to you Sir.
    "I am the GOAT!!" - Chetan bhagat

    • @sanjeevkumar616
      @sanjeevkumar616 ปีที่แล้ว

      GOAT at what?
      Stop using random stuff to sound cool.

  • @SSCCGL-ph9eb
    @SSCCGL-ph9eb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It takes gutts to tell your authentic story to such a large audience on d internet. I can relate to u sir. Thanks for this video 💯

  • @psn-ii1ri
    @psn-ii1ri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Can't believe that The Chetan Bhagat used to feel inferior to others and then imagine the plight of mere mortal beings like us. Glad and very grateful that you are talking about such issues and helping us by bringing out such content. 🙏

  • @ratindersingh1464
    @ratindersingh1464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yeah!!! You are right .Life is all about keeping yourself happy not others . we shouldn't feel ashamed of admiring our success .Ever since I started following you , my thoughts or way of life is being changed gradually just because of you.Thanks to share your precious thoughts with us and make our life ...

  • @deepajamwal1139
    @deepajamwal1139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 53 yrs old woman & like listening to u &feel u r way wiser for your age & live intelligently. Stay humble & keep shining. ✨️

  • @cricket.Insiders
    @cricket.Insiders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hats of to this man the way he is enlightening the society ❤️huge fan sir ji

  • @punyakakria5369
    @punyakakria5369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are my drive these days! I developed interest in reading via your books only. In my school days, when internet wasn’t much famous, your books were a big source of refreshing up the mood! I read them all, completed each of them within 2-2 days! Thankyou sir! Even being consistent on TH-cam isn’t easy! You are doing that! So proud!! Also I have read Revolution 2020 3-4 times :p it’s my personal fav!!
    Never imagined 7-8 years back, I’ll be watching you speak on TH-cam!! You goo sir❤️❤️🔥

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for your kind words!

  • @souravprosad2277
    @souravprosad2277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Knowing your worth is really important in life. People always try to discourage you even they are nothing. If you see their net worth, lifestyle, their health you will laugh. They are not concerned about themselves but yourself. Don't try to please everyone. Be yourself the right people will come to you and stay and the wrong people will walk away from you. Let people say what they wanna say, you just focus on yourself and do your work. Let success make the noise.

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true! Let success make the noise!

    • @souravprosad2277
      @souravprosad2277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChetanBhagat1 Thanks Sir.

  • @bishalsaha8354
    @bishalsaha8354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you sir ☺️

  • @Ciwamczack
    @Ciwamczack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I still remeber the days when I had travelled 27 kms just to purchase your book “One Night At The Call Centre” from a book shop in Railway Station...
    Later I had written my first letter confessing love to her and sent it placing between the pages of book.
    And after 7 yrs both these have been with me... The hobby of Reading and she....
    Thanks a lot sir ❤

  • @pushprajsingh6891
    @pushprajsingh6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If force is balanced motion is simple , efforts are balanced love is simple......Simple things we like more and lasts long

  • @managementguru7173
    @managementguru7173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A great quote from a wise guy "other people's opinions is just that ....their mere opinion"

  • @sohinisaha597
    @sohinisaha597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes, it happens with me too. We deal with self esteem issues in some phases of our lives. It makes us vulnerable to criticism and negativity and blocks us to see the obvious greater things happening for us. No this is no arrogance. It is discerning and judging yourself in positive light. This for me self care. Thanks for sharing your story. Everything you say is so relatable.

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. Glad you could relate to it!

  • @kiranchandola1732
    @kiranchandola1732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well you are right ..i'm 23 years old and mujhe abhi apna carreer bnana hai shadi nahi karni hai par log aa. Aa kar mese jbrdsti bolte ki isese shadi kro usese kro ye career lelo wo lelo .jabki wo nhi jante ki mko kya pasand hai mai kya nahi kar sakti or ye apne bhot acha kiya apna experience share kar dia kuki logo ne preshan kiya rehta hai ki ye kro nhi ye kro. Thanks a lot sir

  • @bariyaprahlad3576
    @bariyaprahlad3576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is real Chetan Bhagat unshakable confidence. I love your work sir really helped.

  • @_mana_
    @_mana_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Chetanji, thanks for sharing your story and ideas. It helped me personally to deal with my PTSD (from racist attacks) and encouraged me to start my channel much like your long-format videos. Keep 'em coming.

  • @dayasagarswain2566
    @dayasagarswain2566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you sir.... I am a mbbs student... I was currently going through phase.... Really it taught me a lot

  • @amanagarwal1308
    @amanagarwal1308 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Duniya ka sabse bada rog, kya kahenge log.
    Thankfully I have escaped that part of life.
    Well said .

  • @monikapal237
    @monikapal237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been watching your videos since long but never comment. But this topic is very fascinating and genuine to talk about. As thinking about what others will think limits your worth and only stop your growth.
    Keep uploading such videos. 😊

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So nice of you. Thank you!

  • @ajeyavikramsingh5682
    @ajeyavikramsingh5682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you sir for sharing your real life experiences. Don't follow the herd instead go where there is no path and leave a trail. No one knows us better than we do. Our lives should be governed by us and not what others expect from us at different stages of our life. We should follow the path carved by us and not the designed path even though it might appear to be an individual self centered selfish approach in the eyes of other people

  • @manojrrao9600
    @manojrrao9600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your talks and books are very engaging and relatable. Thankyou sir

  • @shrinivaskulkarni1565
    @shrinivaskulkarni1565 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great elderly advice for us..
    We will implement this in life..

  • @AshishGaikwad27
    @AshishGaikwad27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have genuine respect for u sir. Your words always motivate common people like me. Keep it up.

  • @imageofparadox
    @imageofparadox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your courage and ability to put yourself as an example for others to relate and to resolve their issues.

  • @dishadolphin
    @dishadolphin ปีที่แล้ว

    TYSM sir for sharing your story ❤️
    I was a people pleaser, but now I realised they give opinion according to their perception. They don't know me really & it doesn't matter now 😌

  • @aradhnatyagi4833
    @aradhnatyagi4833 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the way you inspire people,perhaps you yourself sometimes don't know,what change you're bringing in the lives of young aspiring people, God bless

  • @dhirajaspirant6229
    @dhirajaspirant6229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    मैं life कुछ भी अच्छा करूंगा तो आपसे आशीर्वाद लेने जरूर आऊंगा sir जी 🙏 your video totly change my life 🙏❤️

  • @sushantgupta1598
    @sushantgupta1598 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chetan Sir you made me cry 😢😢😢

  • @deepikajain552
    @deepikajain552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its all about us ... People giving us time... That is more important... They care us somewhere... That's why wo log kuch na kuch bolte hai... Kisko kitna sunna hai... Kitna dimag mein lena hai.. Ye hum pe depend karta hai... I think.. It's all about right and wrong. And mainly the circumstances... 🙂

  • @parulsrivastava8202
    @parulsrivastava8202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Totally agree with you Sir👍👍Always thankful to you for sharing your own life experiences and motivating us👏👏

  • @yashkachhadiya2325
    @yashkachhadiya2325 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 20 year old but i think your video is for everybody . You help us to avoid mistakes in our life . Thank you so much

  • @smc5312
    @smc5312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Chetan Bhagat : The Superman Of Storytelling.

  • @ArtSanjay2343
    @ArtSanjay2343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir I STARTed READING BOOKS BECAUSE OF YOU, YOU WRITE SIMPLE WHICH WE UNDERSTAND easily WE DON'T WANT HARDY WORDS WHICH CREATE MISS COMMUNICATION. THANK SIR TO DO REVOLUTION IN INDIA IN WRITING ✍️ 🙏 🙌

  • @preetiesingh3193
    @preetiesingh3193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chetan you are my super favourite. You speak in the same way as you write. Dil say......and it straight way touches heart. We all sometimes feel but cannot express to ownself but your power lies in your expression.

  • @jhololi
    @jhololi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb suggestion of all time.
    Thanks for the video, Sir.

  • @opcartoonst.v9828
    @opcartoonst.v9828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    sir when you said now i don't have to work for money , it hits hard.

  • @akankshaakanksha1798
    @akankshaakanksha1798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    people will be what they....
    we should all focus on what we feel and stick by it because inner instincts are always right

  • @PANKAJKUMAR-fe8zn
    @PANKAJKUMAR-fe8zn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the attitube toward himself. I came here to learn this attitude about myself.

  • @evergreen7781
    @evergreen7781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I learned so many things from so many inspiring people. And this topic is very well explained by you Sir. In one of your earlier videos you explained beautifully with the example of "Kisine laal Baal Kara liya" and then... From that day I stopped caring about what people would think about me.

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep it up! Thank you for watching!

  • @foodiepanchal
    @foodiepanchal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So humble of you to share these things. I can really relate a lot to it. Thank you for this perspective. It is not what you have in you by birth but it is what you see yourself as and what you work for. Thank you brother. 💛

  • @virendrapatil3676
    @virendrapatil3676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    TRUE FACT , PEOPLE CANNOT DECIDE OUR HAPPINESS NOR OUR LIFE PATH , ITS OUR JOURNEY . WE SHOULD BE CONFIDENT ABOUT OURSELF AND NEGLECT PEOPLE AND DONT CARE ABOUT THEM . NEGLECTING PEOPLE IS BEST WAY TO LIVE LIFE HAPPILY . SIR REALLY GREAT VIDEO🙏🙏.

  • @ritikraushan5456
    @ritikraushan5456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hats off🙌...my mindset changed by you thank you so much sir❤️🙏

  • @priyanshi5647
    @priyanshi5647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u❤️ same things happened to me few yrs back!! But now I realised my worth!!!❤️❤️ Thank u once again 😘 ur attitude is lit🔥

  • @mitaligupta4765
    @mitaligupta4765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What you said about yourself is right Sir ,your books are good . Because of your book I develpoed habit of reading books 📕📖😇

  • @bhanwishree6269
    @bhanwishree6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooo liberating...❤️🥹

  • @Abdur_Rahman_km
    @Abdur_Rahman_km 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir.

  • @harshpandey7605
    @harshpandey7605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video sir, I have overcome many self doubt issues in my life after watching your videos .They have made me believe I am more than enough.
    Thank you very much

  • @KM-lb2zk
    @KM-lb2zk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some worthwhile things he is delivering w taking money. Really great sir 👍👌

  • @parthapratimdas6283
    @parthapratimdas6283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read a lot of novels since childhood but "Five point someone" was the only one I couldn't put down and read it late into the night.

  • @rameshgaikwad532
    @rameshgaikwad532 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chetan your thoughts are very clear you are really gem Thanks for inspiration.

  • @avishekdubey5325
    @avishekdubey5325 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kaam hain kehna" 💯💯

  • @SanjayDas-yo3nd
    @SanjayDas-yo3nd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the greatest of all time sir 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 .

  • @shreyanandanwar968
    @shreyanandanwar968 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you so much sir , you have totally activated my mind

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are most welcome!

  • @tannukumari4394
    @tannukumari4394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a lot sir 💫🙏

  • @multiverseofarj8348
    @multiverseofarj8348 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am travelling now and listening ur - audio back to back on loop,superb real topics 👍

  • @bhavna297
    @bhavna297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Felt like this .watched the video now I don't feel guilty
    I understand the strategy of those who try to butcher my confidence to hide their mistakes

  • @DeepakKumar-id7ug
    @DeepakKumar-id7ug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's way I have to come after any notification of Cetan Bhagat
    Its totally change the way of thinking
    #goatchetanbhagat

  • @shreyarai1994
    @shreyarai1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️ what a courageous soul to put true feeling in words! ...and making it relatable to each one of us.... Kudos.... Very well said...

  • @Zenmuni
    @Zenmuni 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chetan Sir YOU'RE GOAT ❤❤

  • @sharadakulkarni8162
    @sharadakulkarni8162 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your every word is so right sir .. ya everyone relates to this

  • @HimanshuGrover01
    @HimanshuGrover01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your great words! Keep inspiring us & enhancing our mindset to right side. ♥️🙏

  • @Ali-wh7cr
    @Ali-wh7cr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir, Thank you very much for this civilised conversation.
    Ali

  • @user-hj1uf4gd7b
    @user-hj1uf4gd7b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you dear sir for this types of videos.
    You are youth icon and changing lot of indian youth.
    💕💕

  • @st4157
    @st4157 ปีที่แล้ว

    To say I look up to you is too much of an understatement ❤️

  • @student9137
    @student9137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Sir for your thoughts I was in the same phase few months ago but something was telling me just be yourself and don't overthink too much now today I got my verification thanks a lot once again!

  • @trishabhattacharjee753
    @trishabhattacharjee753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A much needed talk .....thank you sir.

  • @asha5201
    @asha5201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you sooo sooo much Sir....
    I really really love you sooo muchhhhh.....
    I have read all yr books and I didn't know that You have your own TH-cam channel.
    I really wanted to say that thank you soo much for writing because I love yr writing style and I was dealing through depression and all.
    And, I gave try to your books and I was highly addicted to your books.
    You are the best writer.
    You write in a simple way and I feel that someone my close one is narrating stories for me.
    Yoh are my inspiration and I love you soo much.
    Even, Idk. Why do people hate you? I sometimes believe that these people aren't able to do anything and now they are soo much frustrated with their lives that they can not see someone success.
    Keep going sir...
    Please write more books...
    And, Even I used to afraid from these hi fi english waale people but then I realised that they are just living on their parents money.
    Seriously, Then, I pushed myself that Asha You are good.
    F**k these people and I am gonna live my life in my way.
    And I am soo happy now...
    Thanks a lot sir...
    Love u🙂

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words!

    • @asha5201
      @asha5201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChetanBhagat1 thank you sooo sooo much for replying sir. You made my day 😍😍

  • @vetknowledge4929
    @vetknowledge4929 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are great sir....

  • @gul4470
    @gul4470 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for highlighting your insecurities as people look upto someone hailing from IIT-IIM background, who can also have this feeling. (Kyu na ho hum sab insaan hi hai)
    Also, the point in which you mentioned about kids who speak good English language just because their parents could afford them to send them in expensive schools compared to kids who do not hail from metro cities but earn higher than them. Speaking in English does open doors for you in certain opportunities. But if you just talk about financial success there are majority of people from non-English medium backgrounds who land up at top colleges in India (Correct me if I'm wrong in this part)
    I personally have met people who communicate well in English language despite hailing from Hindi medium school. On asking them they told me how much hard they have put on in learning English language. I have huge respect for them (two widely known examples are Mr. Mustafa (founder of ID Fresh) and Kangana Ranaut. There is a difference between such people and me...today I can speak in English because I had an access to a good school but that's not a big thing. Rather these people who didn't go to English medium schools but have worked hard and became examples before us to teach us Hard work and determination will make your aspirations come true :)

  • @laxminarayankr4609
    @laxminarayankr4609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sir for this video. I really think about people what think about me . After this content my perspective changed and i enjoyed my life without fear of people's perspective.

  • @nidhisingh8362
    @nidhisingh8362 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an honest talk Chetan , thank you for sharing this 🙏 i too had wasted years caring about other people's opinion, still i feel i haven't completely overcome this weakness, still working on myself, n i really want to be courageous like you. this video is truly thought-provoking. Keep motivating us😇🙏

  • @RS13363
    @RS13363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sir.

  • @rickyrahul17
    @rickyrahul17 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re awesome. You made me feel real and confident

  • @PatakhaGuddi09
    @PatakhaGuddi09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very few successful people tell such things about themselves. PLEASE KEEP UPLOADING THESE PRECIOUS THINGS💙❤

  • @gmwizz
    @gmwizz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really honest n helpful! Thanks Chetan

  • @chatraswargiary3093
    @chatraswargiary3093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bohot atsa video sir ji...pura Bharat Mai yeh video bohot jaruri hai.

  • @HimanshuKumar-oi8qh
    @HimanshuKumar-oi8qh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    kitna relatable hai yaarrrrr😣 Thank you so muchhhh sir.........!!

  • @jiyyadmohammed7604
    @jiyyadmohammed7604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nice video sir....
    I read books of various authors and each author has a speciality....Your books are simple and easy to understand....Have really enjoyed your novels💓

  • @kobinsadvance
    @kobinsadvance 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video touched me.

  • @mauliksadhu2217
    @mauliksadhu2217 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir I wanted to be like you , but I wanted to change this perspective that log kya sochenge , just by thinking of that life that now I don't care gives me enough relief ....

  • @penduludhianvi7151
    @penduludhianvi7151 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Chetan bhai. You have changed my perception towards life

  • @ravinderpanwar8176
    @ravinderpanwar8176 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video sir. I was very much depressed. But after watching your video i am feeling well.

  • @vishnusmart6803
    @vishnusmart6803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir I just recently started following you sir from the book 400 days. You're videos are more useful and you told how the life is and how can we enhance our self and how time more important I'm just Reached my 20's you're thoughts and videos are helpfull for career. I know English is but I'm keep trying to improve my self sir thank you. 💛💯

  • @hemanthchitneedi3179
    @hemanthchitneedi3179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Chetan, I rarely comment for a video on youtube. What you talked is something I could relate to. Thanks for letting me realize the trap where I shouldn't go.

  • @aspirant5040
    @aspirant5040 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is need of an hour.
    Super thanks sir for these type of videos....

  • @ShivamSingh-iy2vf
    @ShivamSingh-iy2vf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just fall in love with your thoughts Chetan sir, a very big ♥️ form me to you.

  • @pritamkumarjadhav6962
    @pritamkumarjadhav6962 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes sir this is known as highly sensitive behaviour.....we all need to lower this instinct to leave a peaceful life....

  • @saurabhraj5772
    @saurabhraj5772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate myself very much with it. First of all we read any book in any language for its good story and we should enjoy while reading it. It does not make sense if I am struggling to understand any novel, Which others say is very good. It's worthless for me. Since I am reading novel for enjoyment. I am not reading to do PhD in literature.

  • @amankatharia7032
    @amankatharia7032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Areee, Thank You Sir❤️

  • @priyambadakhatua5471
    @priyambadakhatua5471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love u so so so so so much sir..💝💝💝💝💝

  • @wanderingnomad1
    @wanderingnomad1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your experience Chetan bhai, very dangerous underestimating oneself.

  • @pampasingh1853
    @pampasingh1853 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeh mere sath bhi hota hai.. Par aapke videos se mujhe confidence milta hai.. Thank you Chetan Bhaiya ☺

  • @neyazahmad3288
    @neyazahmad3288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect video sir ❤️ i am your regular viwer of daat series and I realise that all things you say it is useful for my life ...

  • @prasenjitdutta288
    @prasenjitdutta288 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir for your great advice... It will improved my life alot... I have seen all of your videos and learn a lot and implement in my life

  • @gahuj1
    @gahuj1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for opening up like you did.. not easy to share vulnerable parts of your life.. 👍🏼

  • @cpmcs__sp6978
    @cpmcs__sp6978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Indeed Sir

  • @madhulinabhowmick4899
    @madhulinabhowmick4899 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been there....seen it...how I let people walk all over me....still learning to protect myself.....

  • @divyatyagi8206
    @divyatyagi8206 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right attitude. No matter what.❤️

  • @harsh-simplelife
    @harsh-simplelife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir great content....life is short....only 60-70 years ...then died...so do best you can in your life 👍👍👍👍