I was feeling low and lonely in life right now, I'm in Kota preparing for IIT and doing quiet good but still feel very lonely. suddenly found this video. It's like God just dropped this video for me. Thankyou so much Sir😊
Buddy sometimes competation makes us compare to others , but in reality you should be focused on yourself ...It's hard not to compare in such environmen , but remember it's a part of life there is more to it and focusing on yourself is the only way you can achieve your goals
Bhai mere mai bhi kota me tha aur bhut depression me raha. Tm jaha bhi room lo ek room partner rakhna aur aaspaas room me rehne walo se achi friendship krna bhut help milegi
I had just overcame this loneliness, 1 month ago i came to USA, for PhD degree at University of Florida, and went through intense loneliness. But what worked for me was food and music, i still cook something special every Sunday. On the top of it, have started gym which keeps me focused and have a daily schedule. Yes, keep interacting with more people and best thing is to call your childhood or school friend if any.
Im in the pain of heartbreak, she rejected me for some reasons and went off. But i have learned a lot after the breakup and now its time to implement in my life , slowly but definitely i will do. CB sir , you literally opened my eyes. CARRER , HEALTH, RELATIONSHIP is no more important than anything. Thank you sir, keep motivating us
I had a terrible break up in 2013 when I was preparing for competitive examination.I was in Delhi at that time. My one year preparation was wasted because of it. I faced hard days after break-up. But with passage of time ,the pain subsided and I too became a better person.
My 4yrs relationship was about to get the next step (engagement) but suddenly we fell apart due to family pressure from her side owing to the cast issue. It's been 9 months now, I can't sleep for 2 months after breakup but now it's fine. Sir as you said I also have a wound whenever I think that event I pained and then I say my mind "chalo yaar jane do, nothing is permanent, bhagwan jo karta hai acchai ke liea karta hai".
can a girl can go through this after 4 year of relationship breakup, she was getting to marriage after 5 months and this sudden breakup from her boyfriend.
I live alone in Noida in a small room with attached bathroom. I have a day time job & off on weekends. My parents are back in my home country, Nepal. After 8 years in job, still I couldn't progress much. I am 32 now with dependent parents. We are already from a lower middle class family - we have neither our own house, nor land or any other possessions. Currently, I keep preparing for better job in the weekend & at times, appear for few but still couldn't crack the interview. Just thinking about my current life situation & living throughout the lonely weekend times just seem so heavy sometimes. Basically, as on now, I have nothing left in my life but "Hope". My parents have sacrificed so much for my future but till now, I could not give them the happiness they deserved. I still have hope alive but don't know till when.
You, Premanand ji maharaj and CA Neha dutta aap logo ki baato se mentally, physically, spiritually bohot changes aagye life m kuch months mein . Thankyou Sir
Exactly Sir! I am passing through the phase as you detailed! I lost my only nearest and dearest one who was my sheltering friend philosopher & guide in my life! Thank you indeed for realizing the pain to some extent! Trying hard to find the way out! But seems very difficult!
Sir jab jab life me aisa phase aata hai aapki vedio bhe theek exact time par aajaati hai I don't know how but it's very helpful for me and everybody whose watching this vedio thankyou sir ❤️❤️
I followed your advice and focused on my exam i cleared the written part of the exam in between my patner told me that i was her time pass it was devastating for me i started blaming on myself but your videos taught me that there is nothing more important than your purpose waiting for my interview next year just wish me luck that i will give you good news ❤
Music and poetry sometimes helps. (If it is not just the sad kind) 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Encouraging others helps too. Sharing one's learnings too. Gardening and communing with Nature is perhaps the best. 🙏🏻 Being able to talk to someone who may care is most helpful. Working with one's hands helps.
I was shattered due to loss of my Mom's demise. Was angry with Almighty. Could not afford to be gloomy due to all kinds of responsibilities but it felt like nothing would help. Started learning music..... gradually it held my hand and made me come on track. This loss always pains and it will pain till my last breath but life has to go on... the right way is not sob sob, at least stay neutral.
Hello sir, I m a girl who has a son. My son has some problems. Like he has autism. Separated from my husband. He told me that ki ye pgl h.. mar jae and all. I m suffering also suffering from financial problems... My sister's divorce also happened.... Ghar se financial to chodo emotional support bhi nh h... Koi dhang se bt tk nh krta... But mne haar nh mani h... And na manungi.....sir I do listen to all your videos... Bht motivational h.... Bht himmat milti h ye sunke ki hamara bhi koi h... Koi h jo hame life me upar uthana chahta h.... Thanks
From last 1year I have seen many of your videos & that has helped me alot...I have also read many of your books in clg days... All of my college life graduation & PG I wasted due to a toxic relationship..I was unable to come out of that becoz everytime I feel alone & weak & like I have invested all of my time into him & why why I'm suffering all this...I had no answer & was totally broken & fedup up of my life I have never imagined a life without him..he ditched me several times in 6yrs of relationship...then at last I decided to quit at any cost...I have gone through severe pain in last one year life ko quit krne k khyal aate the startingme to...I studied only about 40-45% of my efficiency but now I'm ok that u said the phase ghaw rhta h but pain nhi hota ab...recently I qualified prelims of PCS exam appearing for mains...now i'm like workaholic..😊
Chetan sir, m huge fan of yours. I just finished reading ur novel 400 days, its was so beautiful, finished book at 3 days..i have read your other books as well. Plz keep updating us and waiting for your next book...love you from Sikkim
Sir how do you know what we exactly need to hear at a particular time.your timings of posting a video on a topic is always correct ,this is what I was dealing with right now ,it’s magical ❤
I am feeling so good now because I was overthinking for my future and because of it I was feeling loneliness... indirectly and directly help and mentoring karne k liye aapka bahut bahut Dhanyawad sir...
I am preparing for competative exam... my family always feeled me like i am valueless... i feel lonely isolated.. lives like i am in cage ... i joined joga which somehow gives me optimistic view towards life and i am moving further
I felt lonely and isolated myself.I was not feeling like going out, exploring, sports, talking ,watching anything and just i wanted to sleep. I didn't expected from my parents and siblings that they will betray me along with planning, dirty politics which they did again and again and that broke me badly. On face they behaved differently and off the face they did exactly opposite and purposefully. That made me feel like weather I am the stepson and a lot of feelings. This harmed very badly in my career progression and I stucked for 3 years .Then after the timed passed and I tried avoiding their behavior, dirty and conservative thoughts which made me calm slowly. Now I have moved .Now even after thinking about them i feel less stressed and emotionally stable.
Mujhe around 1 saal lage isko handle karne me. 😔 bahot Ganda time hota hai... kuch bhi achha nahi lagta. Na din na raat na padhna na baat karna na sona na jagna na job karna na movie na party kuch bhi achha nahi lagta You can't change others but you can change yourself.
Chetan ji you should speak about the loneliness n deep sadness that comes with losing a parent, especially in covid, when we were so helpless n couldn't even have a last look. I lost my most loving n beloved dad, a doctor himself in the second wave and believe me not a day goes by when that hollowness n sense of loss doesn't hit me. Yeh superficial relationships n break up ka loss kya loss hai... not even worth a penny.
loved how you picked up all the points of a state of mind when you are yourself not in that... maybe you encountered in the past. i am currently in this phase , this video and comment section seems very mature, it reliefs me, give ray of hope to do well
I was totally burnout for a reason and don't know how to overcome that i am not able feel anything in any kind of activities but sir you pin pointed the right solution to my problem. I can now start doing this to overcome my loneliness. Thank you so much Sir. ❤
Best Big brother you are so inspiring..The topic you touch are important but negligible by all. Never stop motivating us & make more content like this it is required in our society. people will watch you for generations ❤
Thanks chetan sir, handling our emotions over people is one of the the biggest learning we need in life. You proposed the most practical and real solution of the problem. This is eye opening, thanks
Go for a walk! Go to the gym. Listen to music. Go to the temple or other places. Watch TH-cam videos or a movie. Talk with fiends. Of course it takes time to heal.
I'm 21.went through depression for 4 months...i take a treatment ,read self help books and now i feel better... So,It's my humble request to everyone who feels sadness for continue more than 2 weeks please do counsel with psychiatrist... the treatment will definitely help you.
Rishi I am happy for you. I am 47 now but at your age I did not know I had depression. Only in 2017 consulted a psychiatrist who started my treatment for depression and anxiety. However in 2022 doc said I had bipolar disorder and earlier diagnosis was faulty.
@@DoorKaRaahi glad you happy for me sir...in early phase of my depression even I can't understand what's going on with me...then I watch a video of Dr vikas Divyakirti sir on anxiety and I understood I'm suffering with depression..then I consult with doctor,took a treatment,read how important positive thinking is and with the grace of God I recover from this disorder.
If we realise this truth that we are our own source of love and happiness..then major things in our life will sort out..generally we think that our source of love n happiness is our partner or any other individual
Currently going through this, I'm 21 placement is 9 months away, mistakes of the past haunt me and I feel miserable, wish I could talk to you, Mr. Bhagat. I am not mentally well and I have no one to talk to and no one I can trust.
Exercise .....Talking to people is just. An instanteous relief .... Conversation over.....Back to hell..... So when feeling low...Just try to be in touch of the nature and fix your routine and focus on self care.....
I used to be like you. When I was 22, I used to think alot about my past and didn't feel like doing anything and guess what, ended up wasted my couple of more years which whenever I look back, regret that I wish I wouldn't have wasted that time and instead learn something at that moment or be involved in something and started earning. The thing is, don't waste your time thinking what happened, what could've happened. Trust me, you keep going and everything will make sense to you why it happened and for what purpose. So what if you don't get placed anywhere, is that it? That'd be the end of you? Always think the worst case scenario and prepare for it. Think that you're not going to be placed anyway so you're gonna start learning new skills in these 9 months related to your field. Things that interest you and see the magic after 9 months. 9 months can get you in a good company in India if you honestly work for that particular job position which you desire.
Thank You Chetan Sir for this Informative Video❤Whenever Sadness and Loneliness Comes to my Life I just Sit in a silent place and Meditate for some minutes I often go to my friend house and Share about my Problem Sometimes I do Some push ups and take a cold shower I also Forgive about my Mistake I did in My Past And start to focus on Present Moment
Sir please make part 11 of long video series... What happened then? How u got ur ideas for other books and what happened in ur lyf after u quit RPG cables?...
I have realized that life is full of both good times and bad times.. We must be ready to experience both in a composed manner.. Then we can remain consistent in our creativity and life in totality.. I think to start the day with 1 hour yoga n then evening prayer n bed time 1 hour study can make great difference in our level of thinking n our accomplishments. We have to proactively deal with our sorrows..
I also gone through this..actually when our desires are not completed with time we feel like this..nothing works therfore there is no perfect answer..what motivates you have to find it..and keep working hard work with full devotion and feels satisfied what you get after it
Thank you sir for such a video. Thankfully I do not have a conservative family, yet if I had ever shared this with my parents they would be have been really worried for me and that would have a guilt for me and whenever I would say that now I am good, they wouldnt believe me. So thank you so much. I want you to make a video for JEE aspirants who are targeting top institutions like IIT/NIT/IIITs and share your journey of IIT entrance preparation with us
Sir, i have started my new jobs and suddenly i went medical surgery and because of this i did not went office one month. Recently i joined office but i can't feel good. Always think to leave job. But this i can not do because i don't have other source of income. Now this video will help for better to get back. Thanks for this video.. Sir.
what works for me is, going for a long walk, like i walk till marina beach if im sad and sitting at beach after long walk gives peace, i often workout during rain in park, i play with street dogs, i sit alone in park for a while till the feeling of loneliness or sadness subsides. It helps me to refocus on my stuff.
I went through this phase in my 2nd year, when my crush rejected me, it was my first time, I fell deeply with someone. For the first 15 days, I was not able to concentrate on anything, so what i did, just cutt off from internet spend my evening playing badminton with my friends, went for morning walks and set a clear goal to achieve within 2 month, for me it was Internship. So after that 1 month I still feel somewhat pain but not that much and after that I landed my internship or we can say goal. So thanking good for the same and forgetting about everything. So this things really work, with time everything is settled down. Just keep patience.
Sir ..many things is not im my favour now , my inner soul is not happy 1 year ago i had a broke up that's why i didn't focused on my studies so i didn't clear exams so i felt everything is over for me nd i did not like anything now ...i will surely try this nd really want to work hard thank u chetan sir ❤
After marriage i also feel lonely for year but after that i realise that overthinking kill my brain power so i put my brain into good things n reading books
I will share with you all one trick which is very fruitful to overcome when an thought disturbs us again an again in an pattern , think that you are sitting on a railway station and as if you are watching trains passing on one by one on station, same way think that thoughts come and go like these passing trains , we don't need to board the train we are just watching trains passing on , likewise we Don't need to stick to thoughts they will come and go like passing trains , Also think you are staring at the sky , and clouds come and go again and again likewise thoughts come and go again an again . In a nutshell Hume jese clouds and trains pass on hote hai wese hamare thoughts ko pass on karte rehna hai , problem tab hoti hai jab hum thoughts ko pass on nahi karte balki usee pakad ke Beth jaate hai. Mujhe toh bohot fayda huva hai iss trick se , dhire dhire apply karo isse aapki life mai, according to learning curve slowly slowly you will start getting results . Mujhe bhi slowly slowly results milne Shura huve the, but I am still applying it day by day in my life when some thoughts disturbs me in a loop or a pattern and improving and getting results day by day. Hope it is helpful. Thanks , One life Live it your own way, coz it's your life.
Thank u sir ....sir mey alone hu but i feel better in my life for struggling continue...and mey dekh shakta hu mere target goal ko..i am waiting that time.
after reading room no-105 ,Revolution 2020 and watching 2 states i am here to say thank you sir and sir please write more books like room no 205 this is my fav book when i started reading this book had been reading this book continously 18hours
I live in UK away from India so I made this channel with some light and sweet moments I capture around me. I try to spread few smiles through some ASMR videos. It does help me aswell. Kisi NRI se pucho loneliness and sadness being away from real friends and family 😊.
I have been facing lots of disappointments from last year in every field, every step still couldn't find any way to resolve the situations, just facing the phase and giving my best to come out from all the difficulties.
So i am very ambitious about my career but my Father force me to married i also became ready as my husband is ready that he will support me for pursuing my career to become Government employee but after marriage he denied to support me and put all the restrictions on me as of then i am staying in my parents house and giving all the papers from my parents house also..he is not supporting me and now he is forcing me to come back home but now i am thinking as enough is enough i will stand for myself and choose to be happy whether i have to leave alone i will leave without him but i will not sacrifice my happiness for anyone and i will choose myself over others❤
Thank you sir. You explained things so dearly that even if we think what keeps on tinkering, you make us think in direction which is way forward. Some of the times, life is like you were leading the wind and nowadays its like i am just trailing behind. But your thoughts clears everything. Hope to get more motivation from your views too. Just one thing i want to ask, is there any chance that with good technical knowledge of factory works can i grab good opportunity afterwards doing mba at this age of 34-35.
I was feeling low and lonely in life right now, I'm in Kota preparing for IIT and doing quiet good but still feel very lonely. suddenly found this video. It's like God just dropped this video for me. Thankyou so much Sir😊
Samartly kro yrr sab kuch
Buddy sometimes competation makes us compare to others , but in reality you should be focused on yourself ...It's hard not to compare in such environmen , but remember it's a part of life there is more to it and focusing on yourself is the only way you can achieve your goals
Lage raho chalte raho
You got this! Keep going!
Bhai mere mai bhi kota me tha aur bhut depression me raha. Tm jaha bhi room lo ek room partner rakhna aur aaspaas room me rehne walo se achi friendship krna bhut help milegi
I had just overcame this loneliness, 1 month ago i came to USA, for PhD degree at University of Florida, and went through intense loneliness. But what worked for me was food and music, i still cook something special every Sunday. On the top of it, have started gym which keeps me focused and have a daily schedule. Yes, keep interacting with more people and best thing is to call your childhood or school friend if any.
Im in the pain of heartbreak, she rejected me for some reasons and went off. But i have learned a lot after the breakup and now its time to implement in my life , slowly but definitely i will do. CB sir , you literally opened my eyes. CARRER , HEALTH, RELATIONSHIP is no more important than anything. Thank you sir, keep motivating us
I had a terrible break up in 2013 when I was preparing for competitive examination.I was in Delhi at that time.
My one year preparation was wasted because of it. I faced hard days after break-up.
But with passage of time ,the pain subsided and I too became a better person.
Are you able to love anyone else after breakup? Like do you belive in love
My 4yrs relationship was about to get the next step (engagement) but suddenly we fell apart due to family pressure from her side owing to the cast issue. It's been 9 months now, I can't sleep for 2 months after breakup but now it's fine. Sir as you said I also have a wound whenever I think that event I pained and then I say my mind "chalo yaar jane do, nothing is permanent, bhagwan jo karta hai acchai ke liea karta hai".
You are very strong bro
Right bro ❤
can a girl can go through this after 4 year of relationship breakup, she was getting to marriage after 5 months and this sudden breakup from her boyfriend.
I live alone in Noida in a small room with attached bathroom. I have a day time job & off on weekends. My parents are back in my home country, Nepal. After 8 years in job, still I couldn't progress much. I am 32 now with dependent parents. We are already from a lower middle class family - we have neither our own house, nor land or any other possessions. Currently, I keep preparing for better job in the weekend & at times, appear for few but still couldn't crack the interview. Just thinking about my current life situation & living throughout the lonely weekend times just seem so heavy sometimes. Basically, as on now, I have nothing left in my life but "Hope".
My parents have sacrificed so much for my future but till now, I could not give them the happiness they deserved. I still have hope alive but don't know till when.
Believe in yourself, work hard and you'll eventually attain success!
@@ChetanBhagat1 Thank you so much sir for your kind reply... means a lot ❤️🙏
just have faith in yourself .... and keep fighting ...
You, Premanand ji maharaj and CA Neha dutta aap logo ki baato se mentally, physically, spiritually bohot changes aagye life m kuch months mein . Thankyou Sir
Exactly Sir! I am passing through the phase as you detailed! I lost my only nearest and dearest one who was my sheltering friend philosopher & guide in my life! Thank you indeed for realizing the pain to some extent! Trying hard to find the way out! But seems very difficult!
You got this!
Went through multiple break ups.. The pain becomes more tolerable as time passes .. it is upto time and discipline
You got this!
Sir jab jab life me aisa phase aata hai aapki vedio bhe theek exact time par aajaati hai I don't know how but it's very helpful for me and everybody whose watching this vedio thankyou sir ❤️❤️
Happy to help!
Choice is yours !❤
Lonliness or alone .
It's a humble request sir please restart your "Dant series ".🙏
I followed your advice and focused on my exam i cleared the written part of the exam in between my patner told me that i was her time pass it was devastating for me i started blaming on myself but your videos taught me that there is nothing more important than your purpose waiting for my interview next year just wish me luck that i will give you good news ❤
All the best! You got this!
Speaking very honestly. You look super cool now. Initially u used to look uncle type but now u look much much better.
Music and poetry sometimes helps. (If it is not just the sad kind)
🙏🏻🙏🏻
Encouraging others helps too.
Sharing one's learnings too.
Gardening and communing with Nature is perhaps the best. 🙏🏻
Being able to talk to someone who may care is most helpful.
Working with one's hands helps.
The worst thing is to cry in front of a person, who is prepared already."Let it Go, Kings and Queens ".God has prepared something better for you
I was shattered due to loss of my Mom's demise. Was angry with Almighty. Could not afford to be gloomy due to all kinds of responsibilities but it felt like nothing would help. Started learning music..... gradually it held my hand and made me come on track. This loss always pains and it will pain till my last breath but life has to go on... the right way is not sob sob, at least stay neutral.
You got this!
It would be unfair if I say I understand, honestly I don't. But I strongly believe you'll pass this phase of life too. Power to you girl.
Jinka life purposefull hai......wo kabhi lonely feel ni karte.......
There is only way. To immerse completely in a good cause like you:)
Hello sir,
I m a girl who has a son. My son has some problems. Like he has autism. Separated from my husband. He told me that ki ye pgl h.. mar jae and all. I m suffering also suffering from financial problems... My sister's divorce also happened.... Ghar se financial to chodo emotional support bhi nh h... Koi dhang se bt tk nh krta... But mne haar nh mani h... And na manungi.....sir I do listen to all your videos... Bht motivational h.... Bht himmat milti h ye sunke ki hamara bhi koi h... Koi h jo hame life me upar uthana chahta h.... Thanks
You got this!
🙏
This is Gold. Thank you 🤗
From last 1year I have seen many of your videos & that has helped me alot...I have also read many of your books in clg days...
All of my college life graduation & PG I wasted due to a toxic relationship..I was unable to come out of that becoz everytime I feel alone & weak & like I have invested all of my time into him & why why I'm suffering all this...I had no answer & was totally broken & fedup up of my life I have never imagined a life without him..he ditched me several times in 6yrs of relationship...then at last I decided to quit at any cost...I have gone through severe pain in last one year life ko quit krne k khyal aate the startingme to...I studied only about 40-45% of my efficiency but now I'm ok that u said the phase ghaw rhta h but pain nhi hota ab...recently I qualified prelims of PCS exam appearing for mains...now i'm like workaholic..😊
Keep going!
@@ChetanBhagat1 yes sir😊
At first it seems like my story while I was reading.
Same happened to me.
And now preparing for civils but I couldn't clear even prelims.
Chetan sir, m huge fan of yours. I just finished reading ur novel 400 days, its was so beautiful, finished book at 3 days..i have read your other books as well. Plz keep updating us and waiting for your next book...love you from Sikkim
Thank you so much!
Sir how do you know what we exactly need to hear at a particular time.your timings of posting a video on a topic is always correct ,this is what I was dealing with right now ,it’s magical ❤
I am feeling so good now because I was overthinking for my future and because of it I was feeling loneliness... indirectly and directly help and mentoring karne k liye aapka bahut bahut Dhanyawad sir...
Always happy to help!
🔴🔴I AM JUST EXPERIENCING THIS... & IN THE VERY NEXT MOMENT YOUR VIDEO CAME ON THIS 🔥🔥
Sir, you pin pointed the reality of life. Thanks for coming up with practical solutions as well.
Keep sharing such thoughtful content ❤
Keep watching!
I am preparing for competative exam... my family always feeled me like i am valueless... i feel lonely isolated.. lives like i am in cage ... i joined joga which somehow gives me optimistic view towards life and i am moving further
Believe in yourself and keep going!
@@ChetanBhagat1 thanks sir🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Sir as these days I'm feeling very much lonely & unhappy but after this video I got motivated each & every time 🥺🤗😚😊
So glad!
I am 30 now . Unmarried.. looking for a partner and its such a struggle .. saw the title and opened it right away !!
Why so? I mean what issues are youn facing?
Unable to find
@@Its_sonarora what kind of struggle are you facing ? I mean you are not able to find as per your standards?
Yes . No decent guys
@@Its_sonarora I don't know what is the definition of decent for you.
I felt lonely and isolated myself.I was not feeling like going out, exploring, sports, talking ,watching anything and just i wanted to sleep.
I didn't expected from my parents and siblings that they will betray me along with planning, dirty politics which they did again and again and that broke me badly. On face they behaved differently and off the face they did exactly opposite and purposefully. That made me feel like weather I am the stepson and a lot of feelings. This harmed very badly in my career progression and I stucked for 3 years .Then after the timed passed and I tried avoiding their behavior, dirty and conservative thoughts which made me calm slowly. Now I have moved .Now even after thinking about them i feel less stressed and emotionally stable.
Love people for the sake of love and ur never alone and never expect other love u..
Mujhe around 1 saal lage isko handle karne me. 😔 bahot Ganda time hota hai... kuch bhi achha nahi lagta. Na din na raat na padhna na baat karna na sona na jagna na job karna na movie na party kuch bhi achha nahi lagta
You can't change others but you can change yourself.
I've been looking for this type of video for a few days now; some things just happen at the right time. Thanks you sir
You're welcome!
Chetan ji you should speak about the loneliness n deep sadness that comes with losing a parent, especially in covid, when we were so helpless n couldn't even have a last look. I lost my most loving n beloved dad, a doctor himself in the second wave and believe me not a day goes by when that hollowness n sense of loss doesn't hit me. Yeh superficial relationships n break up ka loss kya loss hai... not even worth a penny.
So sorry for your loss. You’re stronger than you believe you are!
Thank You
Sumup:
Thoda samay lagega dukh se nikalane mein par apna kaam ko nahin chhodna hain usko karna hain
loved how you picked up all the points of a state of mind when you are yourself not in that... maybe you encountered in the past. i am currently in this phase , this video and comment section seems very mature, it reliefs me, give ray of hope to do well
I was totally burnout for a reason and don't know how to overcome that i am not able feel anything in any kind of activities but sir you pin pointed the right solution to my problem. I can now start doing this to overcome my loneliness. Thank you so much Sir. ❤
You got this!
Best Big brother you are so inspiring..The topic you touch are important but negligible by all. Never stop motivating us & make more content like this it is required in our society. people will watch you for generations ❤
Thank you! Keep watching!
Thanks chetan sir, handling our emotions over people is one of the the biggest learning we need in life.
You proposed the most practical and real solution of the problem.
This is eye opening, thanks
Glad you think so!
I feel sometimes low, sadness, lonely 😢 . But from 17Nov 23 i am giving my feelings responsibility to make me Progress in everyday ❤❤❤😊😊
Usually relationship ke wajah se hota hai .... damn true ... trauma caused due to heartbreak 💔 is the actual depression
Thank you so much, Bhaiya❤
I'm preparing for the exam but I'm facing back-to-back failures 😔 even though I'm not ready to give up✊
You got this!
This is very practical way to come out from pain...thank you so much sir 🙏🏻❤️
Most welcome!
My mood and your video..☺️☺️thanks
Kitne din se aapke video ka wait kr rha tha,, 😮❤❤❤
I am preparing for IIT anf feeling sad . But now i will not care sadness , thanks sir ❤
Go for a walk! Go to the gym. Listen to music. Go to the temple or other places. Watch TH-cam videos or a movie. Talk with fiends. Of course it takes time to heal.
आप मन से अपने आप में व्यस्त हैं और अभी भी दुनिया के सामने अपनी योग्यता साबित करने की कोशिश कर रहे हैं
people who have mother alive are not alone.mother is every thing for me
Thank you🙏🙏 Sir for this.
Most welcome!
I'm 21.went through depression for 4 months...i take a treatment ,read self help books and now i feel better... So,It's my humble request to everyone who feels sadness for continue more than 2 weeks please do counsel with psychiatrist... the treatment will definitely help you.
try Rudest book ever by Shwetabh Gangwar
@@aryansingh-zc8wbhave started reading it. Thanks.
Rishi I am happy for you. I am 47 now but at your age I did not know I had depression. Only in 2017 consulted a psychiatrist who started my treatment for depression and anxiety. However in 2022 doc said I had bipolar disorder and earlier diagnosis was faulty.
@@DoorKaRaahi glad you happy for me sir...in early phase of my depression even I can't understand what's going on with me...then I watch a video of Dr vikas Divyakirti sir on anxiety and I understood I'm suffering with depression..then I consult with doctor,took a treatment,read how important positive thinking is and with the grace of God I recover from this disorder.
Mrs Rani Chand...very much understanding a video Mr. Bhagat. To get along , phasewise, indeed makes one wise and gives strength to rise...rgds
If we realise this truth that we are our own source of love and happiness..then major things in our life will sort out..generally we think that our source of love n happiness is our partner or any other individual
Currently going through this, I'm 21 placement is 9 months away, mistakes of the past haunt me and I feel miserable, wish I could talk to you, Mr. Bhagat. I am not mentally well and I have no one to talk to and no one I can trust.
Exercise .....Talking to people is just. An instanteous relief .... Conversation over.....Back to hell.....
So when feeling low...Just try to be in touch of the nature and fix your routine and focus on self care.....
I used to be like you. When I was 22, I used to think alot about my past and didn't feel like doing anything and guess what, ended up wasted my couple of more years which whenever I look back, regret that I wish I wouldn't have wasted that time and instead learn something at that moment or be involved in something and started earning. The thing is, don't waste your time thinking what happened, what could've happened. Trust me, you keep going and everything will make sense to you why it happened and for what purpose. So what if you don't get placed anywhere, is that it? That'd be the end of you? Always think the worst case scenario and prepare for it. Think that you're not going to be placed anyway so you're gonna start learning new skills in these 9 months related to your field. Things that interest you and see the magic after 9 months. 9 months can get you in a good company in India if you honestly work for that particular job position which you desire.
@@user-un1uk5fw3v sir,is there any way I can talk to you, preferably a discord voice call?
Thank You Chetan Sir for this Informative Video❤Whenever Sadness and Loneliness Comes to my Life I just Sit in a silent place and Meditate for some minutes I often go to my friend house and Share about my Problem Sometimes I do Some push ups and take a cold shower I also Forgive about my Mistake I did in My Past And start to focus on Present Moment
Thnku sir...m going through this phase thnks for giving this inspiration
Most welcome!
Sir please make part 11 of long video series... What happened then? How u got ur ideas for other books and what happened in ur lyf after u quit RPG cables?...
I have realized that life is full of both good times and bad times.. We must be ready to experience both in a composed manner.. Then we can remain consistent in our creativity and life in totality.. I think to start the day with 1 hour yoga n then evening prayer n bed time 1 hour study can make great difference in our level of thinking n our accomplishments. We have to proactively deal with our sorrows..
Writers stay alone
True lines sir
Thankyou sir for giving golden advice i using its for upcoming future thanks a lot sir you are great sir
Always welcome!
I also gone through this..actually when our desires are not completed with time we feel like this..nothing works therfore there is no perfect answer..what motivates you have to find it..and keep working hard work with full devotion and feels satisfied what you get after it
Your Videos have been the best Medicine for me. Thanks a lot.
It's my pleasure!
Comes at the right time😮
❤😊i am back to my mentor again.. Thank u fr sharing this video. Again eye opening
Always welcome!
Something comes at the right time ❤
Got a POV to sort many situations through this..thanks sir
Right advice at right time make a big difference 😃😃😃😃
Very good sir... Just to add... Its better to be alone than in bad company.
Thank you sir for such a video. Thankfully I do not have a conservative family, yet if I had ever shared this with my parents they would be have been really worried for me and that would have a guilt for me and whenever I would say that now I am good, they wouldnt believe me. So thank you so much. I want you to make a video for JEE aspirants who are targeting top institutions like IIT/NIT/IIITs and share your journey of IIT entrance preparation with us
Sir, i have started my new jobs and suddenly i went medical surgery and because of this i did not went office one month. Recently i joined office but i can't feel good. Always think to leave job. But this i can not do because i don't have other source of income. Now this video will help for better to get back. Thanks for this video.. Sir.
Enough is enough now i will not alow these feelings to impact my physical/Mental & professional life any more by stop thinking!😊😊
I connect your word with my life. I am continuously learning from you how to live the life.
I appreciate that!
Such a genuine suggestions, really grateful to you sir!! ❤
What a perfect timing... Undergoing the same.. Thank you 🙏
You got this!
Sir your words are very helpful...pls keep posting ..thankyou for giving us hope ki hum bhi life me kuch kr akte hain girne k baad
It's my pleasure!
what works for me is, going for a long walk, like i walk till marina beach if im sad and sitting at beach after long walk gives peace, i often workout during rain in park, i play with street dogs, i sit alone in park for a while till the feeling of loneliness or sadness subsides. It helps me to refocus on my stuff.
If words like practicality and rationale had a face, it would definitely have been CB
Thank you very much sir.
Most welcome!
Thanks sir
I went through this phase in my 2nd year, when my crush rejected me, it was my first time, I fell deeply with someone. For the first 15 days, I was not able to concentrate on anything, so what i did, just cutt off from internet spend my evening playing badminton with my friends, went for morning walks and set a clear goal to achieve within 2 month, for me it was Internship. So after that 1 month I still feel somewhat pain but not that much and after that I landed my internship or we can say goal. So thanking good for the same and forgetting about everything. So this things really work, with time everything is settled down. Just keep patience.
My current situation😢.....thnkuuu Chetan sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sir ..many things is not im my favour now , my inner soul is not happy 1 year ago i had a broke up that's why i didn't focused on my studies so i didn't clear exams so i felt everything is over for me nd i did not like anything now ...i will surely try this nd really want to work hard thank u chetan sir ❤
All the best!
After marriage i also feel lonely for year but after that i realise that overthinking kill my brain power so i put my brain into good things n reading books
I will share with you all one trick which is very fruitful to overcome when an thought disturbs us again an again in an pattern , think that you are sitting on a railway station and as if you are watching trains passing on one by one on station, same way think that thoughts come and go like these passing trains , we don't need to board the train we are just watching trains passing on , likewise we Don't need to stick to thoughts they will come and go like passing trains ,
Also think you are staring at the sky , and clouds come and go again and again likewise thoughts come and go again an again .
In a nutshell Hume jese clouds and trains pass on hote hai wese hamare thoughts ko pass on karte rehna hai , problem tab hoti hai jab hum thoughts ko pass on nahi karte balki usee pakad ke Beth jaate hai.
Mujhe toh bohot fayda huva hai iss trick se , dhire dhire apply karo isse aapki life mai, according to learning curve slowly slowly you will start getting results .
Mujhe bhi slowly slowly results milne Shura huve the, but I am still applying it day by day in my life when some thoughts disturbs me in a loop or a pattern and improving and getting results day by day.
Hope it is helpful.
Thanks ,
One life Live it your own way, coz it's your life.
i will follow this rule. thanks sir for a practical approach onto this
Most welcome!
Sir apki ghav wali line bhaut aachi thi i will remember it! I just needed someone to say this to me. Thanks, sir I hope I meet you someday.
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Ur words touch the heart sir totally agree.can u believe in Vaastu, kindly make a video on it plz
Just love these videos! Super insightful 🙏🏻
Glad you think so! Keep watching!
Thank u sir ....sir mey alone hu but i feel better in my life for struggling continue...and mey dekh shakta hu mere target goal ko..i am waiting that time.
All the best!
Yes literally subah se carrer ki wajah se loneliness feel ho rhi thi
Thank u sir
after reading room no-105 ,Revolution 2020 and watching 2 states i am here to say thank you sir and sir please write more books like room no 205 this is my fav book when i started reading this book had been reading this book continously 18hours
I live in UK away from India so I made this channel with some light and sweet moments I capture around me. I try to spread few smiles through some ASMR videos. It does help me aswell. Kisi NRI se pucho loneliness and sadness being away from real friends and family 😊.
I have been facing lots of disappointments from last year in every field, every step still couldn't find any way to resolve the situations, just facing the phase and giving my best to come out from all the difficulties.
Believe in yourself and give it your all, the rest will align! You got this!
So i am very ambitious about my career but my Father force me to married i also became ready as my husband is ready that he will support me for pursuing my career to become Government employee but after marriage he denied to support me and put all the restrictions on me as of then i am staying in my parents house and giving all the papers from my parents house also..he is not supporting me and now he is forcing me to come back home but now i am thinking as enough is enough i will stand for myself and choose to be happy whether i have to leave alone i will leave without him but i will not sacrifice my happiness for anyone and i will choose myself over others❤
Thank you Chetan your videos works as a tonic for me🙏🏻
Keep watching!
❤ i am going to this way, so this session is very helpful in my journey. Thank you, chetan sir ❤🙏
Always welcome!
That's why I do painting and photography..to overcome from longlines
Upsc and love for those three words ;
OMG! Thank you Sir!!❤😊
I needed this vedio... yesterday was sooo bad !!!😂
Thank you sir.
You explained things so dearly that even if we think what keeps on tinkering, you make us think in direction which is way forward. Some of the times, life is like you were leading the wind and nowadays its like i am just trailing behind. But your thoughts clears everything. Hope to get more motivation from your views too.
Just one thing i want to ask, is there any chance that with good technical knowledge of factory works can i grab good opportunity afterwards doing mba at this age of 34-35.