Talk About It: Alcohol and Consent

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ต.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 57

  • @FlexSZN23
    @FlexSZN23 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Guy can be hammered but he can give consent. A woman has one sip and now she’s unable to make a decision

    • @FlexSZN23
      @FlexSZN23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lanatiffany7599 That’s patently false.
      The law presumes the man gave consent even though intoxicated ppl can’t consent
      There’s a double standard under the law and in public perception.

  • @deydraniadiancecht8298
    @deydraniadiancecht8298 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Then women can be accused of sexual assault too, right? Anytime a guy has sex while under the influence, the woman can get accused and found guilty of it, correct? Consent goes both ways.
    Many men have had sex while under the influence. It happens all the time

    • @TA-vr5fp
      @TA-vr5fp ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who penetrates who?

    • @deydraniadiancecht8298
      @deydraniadiancecht8298 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TA-vr5fp It's who penatrates whom. Get it right. English is not that difficult.
      It doesn't matter who has the dick and who has the pussy. Who spread her legs? Who put it in? BOTH.

    • @JohnDoe-id5ih
      @JohnDoe-id5ih ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@TA-vr5fp It doesn't matter

  • @itskarl7575
    @itskarl7575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Usually, if she is hammered, then so is he. If her drunken consent must be disregarded because of her inebriated state, how can you justify holding the man to a higher standard? If she can't reasonably assess "am I too drunk", then how can you ask him to reasonably assess "is she too drunk"?
    If a guy is sober, or close to, then that is of course different. Then he is taking advantage of her. But if they are both hammered, both judgements are equally impaired. If one or both regret it the next day, tough shit - maybe you shouldn't drink so much when you're out.

  • @Ashclayton1994
    @Ashclayton1994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Being drunk dosent negate personal responsibility for your actions, i cant drink a 12 pack and get into a car accident and kill someone then claim im not responsible for my actions because im drunk can i? Consenting to sex when your drunk then regretting it later is not rape its having to deal with the consequences of the bad choices you made while under the influence

    • @alixtaylor1453
      @alixtaylor1453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Vaggod1 what if I'm 14 and I said it as a joke and I clarified it was a joke when I was semi sober and then I drunk like more than half a bottle of vodka and then he was like so u wanna do it and Im intoxicated and I can't talk at all I'm like mumbling and I say suuuuureee and then I do and now I feel dirty and sick and I want to fycking cry, is it my fault? I think it is but that's why I'm here

    • @VidWatcher01
      @VidWatcher01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Being intoxicated does NOT make you responsible for what is done to you by other people. A real person (man or woman) would not have sex with someone (again man or woman) who is heavily intoxicated while they themselves are sober or not as drunk even if the person does give "consent" under the influnce. Don't be sexual assault perpetrator ally. Just such a sick & disgraceful attitude. SMH

    • @alias_
      @alias_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@VidWatcher01 what if both people are drunk?

    • @Ashclayton1994
      @Ashclayton1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@VidWatcher01 learn to take accountability for your own actions and stop blaming your bad decisions on everyone else

    • @johndunsworth8963
      @johndunsworth8963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@VidWatcher01 key word there being "what is done to you by other people" if someone forces themselves on you then yes that's rape regardless of weather or not you are drunk, but if you choose to get drunk and decide to hook up with someone that's on you, having sex while drunk and regretting it later when your sober isn't rape and calling it rape is disrespectful to actual rape victims

  • @protonneutron9046
    @protonneutron9046 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes, when are women going to be jailed for rape when the man is too drunk?

  • @matgrafy6907
    @matgrafy6907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If the girl is tipsy and asks to have sex and she gives me her consent ? Is it ok

    • @TA-vr5fp
      @TA-vr5fp ปีที่แล้ว

      I would interview the girl and go from there. Word of advice, stop raping incapacitated women and you will not have to ask these ignorant questions.

  • @snowywinters2536
    @snowywinters2536 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try not to listen to college applications of law. They get mixed up between college policy and law.