I had a woman give me an ultimatum once. "We talk about it now, or forget it." I paused and then said, "OK, forget it," and I hung up on her. She couldn't believe what I did. She was stunned. Best thing I ever did.
Wow, I said something like that years ago at Uni. When I walked away I never looked back. A friend of mine, a bloke, was the one who came after me saying, “aren’t you going to talk to her, she’s pissed”. I told him my so called friend, it’s not worth talking about because it’s all about her terms and there’s never a compromise. Since then I also questioned my friendship with my friend since that day.
@divorcedme Completely, I did that way back then when this situation came up. This happened around 2008, haha! Yeah since then our friendship as two young men had a bit of a dent in it, as in the dynamic wasn't 100% the same. Plus he already had a girlfriend, a teenage school sweetheart kind of relationship. Since we've graduated from university all those years ago, I don't bother with them. He still used to keep in touch with me, and found a reason to make me attend birthdays and get togethers, it was always with his girfriend along with their friends and couples. I never felt like tagging along into that circle where I would be the "odd one out" as a single man, out of my choice. I completely cut off all communication in 2015.
Fuck that bitch. Never summit to anybodies ultimatums ESPECIALLY a females. The reality is that we MEN have the greater STRENGTH. They're weak. They'll always need us, and we'll never need them. We just WANT them. There is a very big difference. Master this and you'll never have problems out of females ever again.
My wife used to threaten me with divorce at least twice a week . seriously. I finally had enough...Ive lost my house and ended up broke but hell I was broke when I was married and playing the part of "Good husband"...never again.
My dude is telling my story here. Except, after all that, it was me who filed the divorce. And guess who cried and begged to get me back once I did? Yep. Going back didn't happen, and it won't.
Kevin R. I filed on June 8, 2018. Divorced by Dec. 16th of that year. It was quick and a necessary measure. After two months of silence, she instant messaged me on FB, saying she misses me. I could not get myself to go back to her no matter how I envisioned things being different. Here I am almost a year later, pretty much feeling like I made the right choice. I didn’t like the idea of being single again in my late 40’s, but when I considered the lack of joy I would experience regularly by staying in the marriage, I know I made the right choice 👍🏻
I was texting my girlfriend once while I was playing some call of duty with my friends. She always hated me doing somethings with my friends. She used the you love your games more then me trick. I told her yes I do because it doesn't complain about anything.
What men, women and society have forgotten is that chivalry, even romantic chivalry, was originally just for knights to follow, and that romantic chivalry was a two way street. For a women to be shown chivalry she had to prove that she was the fairer sex, not fair as in weak, but fair as in 'without corruption'; as in fair tactics or fair rules. She had to be a lady. If a women proved herself to be unworthy of chivalry the knight had the right to stop showing that particular female chivalry. That's the problem with it today it's just a one way street. One rule for women and another for men.
Yeah. It's dispicable that women expect that and think they are still deserving of a good man. Even in married situations, I see women say and do things to their men and all I can think is omg I would never dare talk to my husband like that.
Jas A Wrong! You need to read "The History of Romantic Love" . . . Chivelry was created by court ladies as a ego stroking construct. The night was never allowed to consummate his love as the "ladies' in discussion where the property of the Lord or Baron or squire.
Ironically my parents taught me that my values were going to attract women but in reality they made me seem sophomoric and unattractive to females who would say "You'd be a great husband." Society taught me that values don't mean shit...to most. I have not abandoned my values but I have abandoned the philosophy that they would earn me some type of merit. I hold true to my values because they matter to me not that they will get me anything other than self fulfillment. This change helped me to see things as they are and to approach them appropriately.
This was very deep and informative. I'm in my late 40s and have never married. Best emotional and financial move I've ever made. Never trusted marriage, never trusted women. Thank you Paul for sharing your hard won knowledge.
Ken Richard What happens next? I never married and some of my miserably married male friends and relatives accuse me of being immature or gay and act as though I'm incomplete as a human. I turn it around by asking with a bewildered smile "so how's that marriage working out for you"? The response is always silence with a clear look of someone who is getting ready to swing on me. But they don't because I'm looking directly at their bullshit, and an honest answer never follows. Or maybe I'm just an asshole?
I was married to a controlling woman 20 years younger than me, and have a daughter with her, I still left, maybe people thought I was a loser, but I walked out with my dignity! walking away shows more strength than a 10 ft bullet proof man. I'm proud of myself.
I was the exact man that Paul talked about in this video. I put up with an emotionally abusive woman, my wife, for 25 years. But one day I finally truly had enough and told her we were finished as a couple. I had said that before a few times but I always backed off. Her first reaction was always to threaten to leave there and then but this time I did not care.Anyway after a few days she realised I was serious and for the first time in our marriage she was the one living in fear of rejection.She did a complete 180 degree change in her attitude to me all of a sudden l was really important. She would do anything for me and sex got to porn level when before it was severely rationed.But it made no difference to me I had suffered too much in the 25 years and still wanted divorce. Anyway about a year later my wife got so depressed about losing me that she took her own life.The whole business nearly killed me as I descended into a deep depression myself. Now 6 years later I have rebuilt my life but I don't have a woman in it.
People don't know that manipulation is a drug too. It's hard to get over when you can't use people. Good on you for standing up for yourself. Well wishes on your journey!
As a woman I’m saddened for both,why after so much dedication did it have to come to this! She hurting for her loss of a good man, he left with a wounded heart to not want ❤in his life because of the pain it may bring! I feel sad for everyone 😢
@@person-ie1fe Oh I'm doing very well thanks. I have been getting better and stronger since those horrible times. These days I live for my family and overseas travel. In fact I have just come home from a trip to China Japan and Singapore. Life is good and I still don't have a woman in my life.
Just remember this, Woman Wed her soul to the Devil right from the start in the Garden she joined with Satan in his war against god and his creation, woman is corrupted, they are also the most deceitful an manipulative creatures on the planet and they have been oppressing men for Millenia
This is the story of my life. I am so glad I finally read the book Boundaries and started enforcing mine. WW3 broke out and the church excommunicated me for divorcing her, but I stuck to my values and am happily living a peaceful, stress-free life alone today.
Because men take the vow "For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, till death do us part" Literally. The woman's vows are more along the line of Michael Ironside in the movier "Starship Troopers" "You are it until you die or until I find someone better!"
Paul, every teen boy needs to see this! I once tried to live a life of chivalry, but now I understand that the only good relationship is one of full equality and reciprocation without stupid notions of romance.
Great information. Wish I knew this 45 years ago. Raised by single mom, never had a male teacher till high school. Fawned over women for decades and it cost me nothing but money, time. and more misery than a Shakespeare tragedy. There are no unicorns in a herd of swine.
Women these days take a man's devotion and affection for complete granted. Like it is entitled to them, and how dare you not worship her for all time... Whether she is worthy of it... Or not. Be aware of this, guys. The price of having a female companion is becoming too much for us. Freedom is literally priceless, but you will be lonely. I am trying to start a local MGTOW group for lonely men to fellowship, learn new skills, go on camping trips, hiking, shooting, etc. We need more groups like this.
Thanks! I stopped seeing a woman. I met her later and she seemed sad somehow. I thought maybe she missed me. But now, I think she was sad because her spells failed to work on me!
I was in a situation where the woman could not easily walk out on me without suffering major social and resource penalties. So what she did instead, was to intentionally drive me so completely insane that I had to leave her, which I did. It is very important to be cautious and patient in forming relationships, because the cost of extracting yourself from a relationship is extremely high.
Outstanding vid!!! I wish this sort of material had been around thirty years ago when I was a young man. This would have saved me from endless heartbreak. An Ear for Men is going from strength to strength.
No man on earth can afford to please most woman. Men make the mistake of assuming most women have the same standards of honor, duty, loyalty and sacrifice as many men. They do not. Honor, duty, loyalty and sacrifice are merely opportunities for a disproportionate percentage of women.
Right on target, Paul. Perfectly delivered and right on point. Gentlemen, keep your notion of your mother in check. She may have brought you into this world but her, or her kind, have no right nor deserve to take you out of it.
What every man fears more than death and taxes is alimony! Which is what often happens during divorce, and what every man should think about before getting married.
A man should never voluntary enter into a relationship with a woman that he is not able, willing and ready to leave and abandon in 30 seconds or less. Learning this keep me out of jail; mentality and phisically.
I'm 57 yrs old and I have seen the light because of you sir. I absolutely love listening to your thoughts thank you for what you have done and may God richly bless you and your family.
Outstanding video, Paul. Along with the many points you brought up earlier, I fully believe that the vast majority of men suffer from having a scarcity mindset (see oneitis) in terms of dating women. Despite there being tons of available women out here, the majority of men have been burned, friend-zoned, and outright rejected by so many women over the years going back to high school, that they honestly think that there aren't any women out there who likes them. So when they come across any (and I do mean ANY) female who halfway smiles at them, they throw every caution and waving red flag to the side to please them in hopes of getting with them. It doesn't matter if she's a neighborhood doorknob (everyone else has had a turn), a faded beauty from 1994 who's now 64 lbs. overweight, or a single mother of four kids (by three different dudes; two of them she still secretly sleeps with). Their hormones (see male thirst) gets in the way and the rabid fear of never being able to get another girl for the next 20+ years offsets any rational thought and well, you know how the rest goes... A lot of men, especially those who came from poorer neighborhoods, have their entire manhood founded upon whether or not they can get a girl to, well, insert your imagination. In most of these high schools, it didn't matter what grades you had, your plans for the future, or anything else. If you couldn't get a 16-year old chick to bend over for you, you were labeled an outcast, a social pariah. I've even seen teachers verbally crack on male students for their lack of dating success for as much as breathing hard in class. Sadly, a lot of them take the mentality of 'I gotta get a girl' well into adulthood, eschewing professional and personal goals in order to say that they have somebody who they believes 'loves' them. And when it comes crashing down (see divorce court), their entire world does along with it, which explains the suicide rates going through the roof for those who don't believe that they'll ever turn the corner...
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"If you couldn't get a 16-year old chick to bend over for you, you were labeled an outcast, a social pariah. I've even seen teachers verbally crack on male students for their lack of dating success..." So true! Boys are brainwashed, even by other brainwashed men, to become the drones that the government depends on to fund their power lust. It takes a very independent mind to throw off the shackles of the gynocracy.
The bit about the young woman rejecting her man's birthday present certainly stuck a chord with me, but in a kinda reverse way. Once I was earning reasonably good money, I always did my best to make sure I got my then wife really nice birthday presents. For one of her birthdays, I scouted all over town for something very special and after weeks of searching, I found a very expensive, but very beautifully hand-made all leather handbag. The woman who ran the shop I bought it at said she was a little sad to sell it to me and when I asked her why, she told me that she had decided that if someone didn't buy it by the end of the week, which was the Saturday morning when I bought it, she was going to keep it for herself because she loved it so much. Man, I knew I was on a winner! I had it gift wrapped, got a card, wrote some lovin' stuff on it and on my wife's birthday, I gave it to her. To be honest, I can't remember her demeanor when she got that present. I suppose I was too happy to have bought her something that looked so good, so I missed her reaction. Another time, I was walking past a gift shop with my daughter and saw this really beautiful perfume atomizer. It was in the shape of an middle eastern minaret and hand painted in a really beautiful swirling pattern of multiple colors. The price was pretty steep, but once I pointed it out to my daughter as a possible present for her mother, she was pushing me through the door of the shop to buy it. I was on another winner! Now to the reverse side of the birthday present thing and that is what she bought for me around about the same time as I got those presents for her. One year, I got a mobile. No, not a mobile phone - a mobile. ( mo-beel ) I think it's sometimes called an executive toy, except mine wasn't the executive version. In fact, it was just a cheap piece of chromed plastic shit that had rings revolving in rings endlessly..or until the batteries ran out. Another birthday present was three pairs of skin tight, thigh length lycra shorts in bright red, yellow and orange. Folks, I've been embarrassed hundreds of times in my life, so once more won't do too much damage, but the truth is, I truly thought I was missing something in the intent in these presents. I was sure there was a much deeper loving female sentiment in those presents and I was just such a dumb, thick headed man, I just couldn't see it! Fast forward a few years and we are moving to another city. My wife and kids have gone on ahead of me and I'm packing up the house, prior to moving myself. While moving the dressing table out of the bedroom, I find the perfume atomizer on the floor behind the dressing table, so covered with dust, it must have been there for years and has never been used. Then while emptying out one of the wardrobes, I find the handbag. It has been thrown into the bottom of the wardrobe and old shoes and clothes piled on top of it. It's been there so long, the leather is all dried and cracked. The handbag is completely worthless now. It's then that I realize that I had never once seen her using that perfume atomizer. It's then that I realize I have never once seen her step out of the front door, holding that handbag. It's also then that I realize that someone is to blame for this state of affairs --- and it must be me! I'm obviously such a dim-witted, knuckle dragging, Neanderthal fuckwit that I'm completely oblivious to the completely perfect wants and needs and desires of all women. In other words, I'm a failure. Well, a lot of years have gone by since then and as I like to say to young men, a lot of whom haven't the brains to take it in anyway, "There's no point in getting old if you don't get a little cunning." By that, I mean get a bit more aware of the world around you and the other 50% of the people who are women. The simple wash up of my story is: I bought my wife those presents because I loved her and I thought she deserved nice things. She bought me those presents because she secretly loathed me and thought I deserved nothing but shit. In the end, she deserted me and her children and left behind three severely damaged people, who, in my mind and my children's minds, had done nothing to deserve this. Her legacy in leaving was years of alcoholism, depression, eating disorders, inability to stay in a job, thoughts of suicide, low self esteem and a general feeling of being a complete failure. And just in case you think I'm talking about just myself, I'm not. There's a bit of me and both of my kids in that list. So, after all of those years, I sometimes wonder about how I feel about my ex wife and mostly, when I examine my feelings towards her, I find I truly don't give a shit about her. But other times I find myself hoping the bitch dies a long, slow, painful, lingering death and then, just before she finally expires, some one pours petrol over her and sets her on fire. But I don't get that feeling very often. It only happens when I'm in a good mood! lol So, don't read too much into it cos it's nothin' that a nice birthday present couldn't have fix!
@@DecodeHer-tm9yeterminally backwards. At this point, someone viewing the dynamics of modern relationships and marriage specifically for the first time would probably think it’s some kind of masochistic performance art, a social demolition derby. It’s been set up to fail.
Yes why wasn't I taught as a young man about female nature? I was raised in a traditional home. Why am I learning all this now? I'm now MGTOW. And scorned for it
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"Traditional" homes of the past are the petri dish for fostering and perpetuating the male subjugation narrative. Women and the government operate in a symbiotic maelstrom that consumes men for their resources. That your father didn't warn you is because he was a victim of that maelstrom. Don't blame him. He was taught that men (including himself and his infant boys) are disposable. Years of indoctrination are not that easy to shed, especially in his conformist times.
I consider myself pretty courageous. I'm generally not afraid of danger or injury or death. But, for whatever reason, I've been married twice, and both times I could not go through with the ceremony without getting totally wasted. I was gripped by overwhelming fear.
Where did this man come from? Ohmy goodness, this is pure truth! As I listen I could t help but just nod my head off. So good and refreshing to find a fellow man who is strong, insightful and is good at saying and putting words to things we all instinctively know is truth.
Paul, even though our video is from 11 April 2016 (I am listening on 09 November 2018), the subject matter is relevant and is spot on. I have been going through my past over the past two years, and when I traced the sole reason of the failures, insecurities mental problems of my life, the root of them comes from women, beginning with those in family.
I have been on the receiving end of an ultimatum one time in my life, I told her to be careful the door didn't hit her in the ass on the way out. You are an incredible MAN Paul, thank you for your efforts in helping men through their trials.
I remember coming across Karen Straughan a few years ago. After one or two of her videos, I tried listening to men talk on this subject and I went back to Karen. I then watch a video of hers where she said that men often prefer listening to women talk about anti-feminism or anything in general and I couldn't disagree. It'll take time for any man who has had years of listening to women at home, at school, and maybe through daycare or babysitting become comfortable with listening to what people reflexively call whining when men have legitimate complaints.
+marty4758934 Yep this channel deserves a million views but men are unwilling to share this video on fb or whatever because of the same fear that Paul talks about in this video.
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His message is mixed and his presentation is boring. If he refined his presentation and didn't mix his message he would get more exposure.
Life changing video for me. I was not facing the truth, beveling I was staying for the kids. Paul your my Personal HERO, I shared this with people who needed it.
Never allow a woman to give you ultimatums. Never! I worked with a 22 year old kid who was about to get married to this chick with "separation anxiety". We work on the road and are away 2 weeks at a time. Although the wedding was paid for, and everything was set, he let her threaten him with abandonment and quit a job he really liked just to satisfy her. I sat him down and had a talk with him since i'm older. I told him that he should never give in to ultimatums. That if you allow her to use it once, she will continue to use it more and more. Our crew boss sat him down as well and told him to drop her like a bad habit... he didn't listen of course and he is about to embark on a terrible journey. I hope he somehow learns before he dives in... He probably won't.
This was sobering. I will have to watch this several times as i cannot hardly focus...its soo true for me. Its like im an alcoholic that just found out. This is a real come to Jesus moment. I think my life will get better.
The thing about baseball reminds me of Marlins Man. Marlins Man is this guy who is a fan of the Miami Marlins, and you will see him sitting behind home plate wearing a Marlins jersey during recent World Series games. The Kansas City Royals were not too happy about it since the guy wears the Marlins jersey, sits behind home plate, and is seen by the camera (free Marlins advertising). They tried getting him to move because of his Marlins outfit, but he spent thousands of dollars to attend the World Series games and refused to move to another seat. The Royals, however, found out about his history. Marlins Man, according the Royals, is what we would call a Man Going His Own Way. In 1993, he decided never to get married or even be in a relationship with a woman. He was a big baseball fan and wanted to spend his life attending ball games. He felt that if he got married, he wouldn't have the money and freedom to attend ball games, or be a baseball fan. He decided never to marry so that he could save thousands of dollars to go to baseball games each year.
this seems a very critical look at a relationship dynamic. at times hard to listen to... but at the same time i could see some links to situations in my past. i think there are some situations where one simply needs to let them go when they storm out. why? sometimes it is manipulation. emotional manipulation... its a dirty trick... and it can be very hard to stand up against it. of course not every women is as he describes... but many do use this technique from time to time....
You sir are doing gods work.. love your book. Wish it was out and before I got hitched all those years back. You bet I am instilling this scripture to my son. Thank you
Fear of abandonment lies in almost every human, to various degrees. For many, it subconsciously means death. It is irrational yet powerful. Loving someone genuinely means becoming vulnerable to being rejected/abandoned. That's why many men and women limit themselves to superficial engagements. When this fear is so great that it dominates us, it does open the door to accepting all kinds of abuses and misbehaviors when dealing with the wrong individuals.
I know that alot of men are scared to be alone. Its just plain old insecurity. I got divorced 8 years ago from my 2nd wife,( it was bad), and I have never been more content and at peace in my life. I can truthfully say I have never felt lonelyness once in those 8 years. I have no desire to be with a woman. She ruined it. But looking back on it, us getting divorced was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm 60 now and the ol sexual desire ain't that strong anymore so maybe thats part of it. Do I miss the touch of a woman? Yes. But the price is just to high. But I think some of these men are just terrified of living by theirselves. Thats something they have to overcome and learn to be happy and content on their own. Get a hobby you enjoy, hang with your friends, but learn to be comfortable in your own skin and get out there and live life on your own terms. You'll be amazed at the results!
An outstanding editorial on very important to know issues. I thought your take and explanation on the example you gave starting at 9:48 was especially brilliant.
Love the video, brilliant stuff I wish I'd have known 20 years ago. My ex-wife used the "or I'll leave" nearly constantly, and like a sucker, I fell for that shit for years. Finally, after putting her through undergraduate and graduate school, after relocating across the country, after years of emotional abuse, after having a goddamn knife pulled on me, she finally played the "I'll leave" card one time too many, and I let her go. It was rough at first, but it's ended up being the best decision of my life! I wish I'd have opened the door and told her to GTFO the first time she threatened to leave, before we were even married. It would have saved me so much money, time, and pain. Guys, if a woman *ever* pulls that card, call her on it, and when she tries to take it back, stand firm and demand she leave. You'll be happier in the long run.
I swore long ago that I would not get together with a woman until I no longer "Needed " a woman. I have re recognized this as a prime directive for me if I'm to go forward with exploring a relationship with a woman. It took me many years to do this but I'm finally ready to do it but this guy will be a real help! I don't want to have a wreck in my little race car on the first turn like a rookie. I actually thought at one point in my life that I would go to a match maker. That would have been a real mistake indeed. I need to practice self support and rejection tolerance and judgement of who is worthy of my love. I'm a good principled man but I will not throw my pearls before swine. I want a partner and friend in this journey called life, not another jerk or hangers on who is incapable of really loving someone. I have learned to first love myself and that was the obstacle for me to overcome in life. My mother had all but crippled me in this without really understanding how or why. Funny but I rarely talk to her at this time in life and she still treats my brother John like crap and yet totally differently with me. I guess she realizes that I don't take her shit anymore. You see I have changed. But it has been with a price. I'm 63 and never been married. Hopefully I will accelerate my learning with practice now. I have the time now. I also must learn that some women actually think they know better than men about relationships. And some might. But the ones that I have met in the past who take this line are not experts at relationships at all.
I have always LOVED to "make it happen" for a woman. To come through and vin the day and see that ACTUAL relief in their eyes when I DELIVERED. Love it, love it, and then some.
I was raised to be the ultimate simpleton. It’s been years since I have been rewiring myself to become a man who thinks for himself and don’t pander to women.
There is one thing I secretly thank God for throughout the course of a week. Thank you God for NOT allowing me to ever get married or have kids. One more time for the road, thank you God almighty.
I had a woman give me an ultimatum once. "We talk about it now, or forget it." I paused and then said, "OK, forget it," and I hung up on her. She couldn't believe what I did. She was stunned. Best thing I ever did.
Arvid Noreen Bet you’d love to see the look on her face if you could. LOL
This is the way to go, men often believe they won't be able to get another girl like "her" that they are unworthy. A lack of self steam and love.
Wow, I said something like that years ago at Uni. When I walked away I never looked back. A friend of mine, a bloke, was the one who came after me saying, “aren’t you going to talk to her, she’s pissed”. I told him my so called friend, it’s not worth talking about because it’s all about her terms and there’s never a compromise. Since then I also questioned my friendship with my friend since that day.
@divorcedme Completely, I did that way back then when this situation came up. This happened around 2008, haha! Yeah since then our friendship as two young men had a bit of a dent in it, as in the dynamic wasn't 100% the same. Plus he already had a girlfriend, a teenage school sweetheart kind of relationship.
Since we've graduated from university all those years ago, I don't bother with them. He still used to keep in touch with me, and found a reason to make me attend birthdays and get togethers, it was always with his girfriend along with their friends and couples. I never felt like tagging along into that circle where I would be the "odd one out" as a single man, out of my choice.
I completely cut off all communication in 2015.
Fuck that bitch. Never summit to anybodies ultimatums ESPECIALLY a females. The reality is that we MEN have the greater STRENGTH. They're weak. They'll always need us, and we'll never need them. We just WANT them. There is a very big difference. Master this and you'll never have problems out of females ever again.
Because we teach our sons to "respect" women, and yet they don't respect our sons. Men need to focus on themselves at least a little.
My wife used to threaten me with divorce at least twice a week . seriously. I finally had enough...Ive lost my house and ended up broke but hell I was broke when I was married and playing the part of "Good husband"...never again.
Sorry
@Ashok Shah that's the understatement of the year brother
My dude is telling my story here. Except, after all that, it was me who filed the divorce. And guess who cried and begged to get me back once I did? Yep. Going back didn't happen, and it won't.
Kevin R. I filed on June 8, 2018. Divorced by Dec. 16th of that year. It was quick and a necessary measure. After two months of silence, she instant messaged me on FB, saying she misses me. I could not get myself to go back to her no matter how I envisioned things being different. Here I am almost a year later, pretty much feeling like I made the right choice. I didn’t like the idea of being single again in my late 40’s, but when I considered the lack of joy I would experience regularly by staying in the marriage, I know I made the right choice 👍🏻
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Paul, you're like a wise father-figure that every young man needs. Thanks for these gems of wisdom.
Jerry Robinson Just like Aaron Clarey.
True!!!
He should be treasured
True
I was texting my girlfriend once while I was playing some call of duty with my friends. She always hated me doing somethings with my friends. She used the you love your games more then me trick. I told her yes I do because it doesn't complain about anything.
Hahahaha
@ericspinball *_"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they HATE each other"._* -Al Bundy
They also have an off switch, pause button and a reset button.
What men, women and society have forgotten is that chivalry, even romantic chivalry, was originally just for knights to follow, and that romantic chivalry was a two way street. For a women to be shown chivalry she had to prove that she was the fairer sex, not fair as in weak, but fair as in 'without corruption'; as in fair tactics or fair rules. She had to be a lady. If a women proved herself to be unworthy of chivalry the knight had the right to stop showing that particular female chivalry. That's the problem with it today it's just a one way street. One rule for women and another for men.
Yeah. It's dispicable that women expect that and think they are still deserving of a good man. Even in married situations, I see women say and do things to their men and all I can think is omg I would never dare talk to my husband like that.
Jas A Wrong! You need to read "The History of Romantic Love" . . . Chivelry was created by court ladies as a ego stroking construct. The night was never allowed to consummate his love as the "ladies' in discussion where the property of the Lord or Baron or squire.
@d medina. So basically chivalry was dark age friend zoning of the betas.
Jas A thank you so much for explaining this! Valuable.
Daniel Medina thank you Mr. Medina, the truth needs to be told.
Ironically my parents taught me that my values were going to attract women but in reality they made me seem sophomoric and unattractive to females who would say "You'd be a great husband." Society taught me that values don't mean shit...to most. I have not abandoned my values but I have abandoned the philosophy that they would earn me some type of merit. I hold true to my values because they matter to me not that they will get me anything other than self fulfillment. This change helped me to see things as they are and to approach them appropriately.
This was very deep and informative. I'm in my late 40s and have never married. Best emotional and financial move I've ever made. Never trusted marriage, never trusted women. Thank you Paul for sharing your hard won knowledge.
Misery loves company. Old saying and it's true.
Ken Richard What happens next? I never married and some of my miserably married male friends and relatives accuse me of being immature or gay and act as though I'm incomplete as a human. I turn it around by asking with a bewildered smile "so how's that marriage working out for you"? The response is always silence with a clear look of someone who is getting ready to swing on me. But they don't because I'm looking directly at their bullshit, and an honest answer never follows. Or maybe I'm just an asshole?
I AM Z hahaha Awesome!
I was married to a controlling woman 20 years younger than me, and have a daughter with her, I still left, maybe people thought I was a loser, but I walked out with my dignity! walking away shows more strength than a 10 ft bullet proof man. I'm proud of myself.
I was the exact man that Paul talked about in this video. I put up with an emotionally abusive woman, my wife, for 25 years. But one day I finally truly had enough and told her we were finished as a couple. I had said that before a few times but I always backed off. Her first reaction was always to threaten to leave there and then but this time I did not care.Anyway after a few days she realised I was serious and for the first time in our marriage she was the one living in fear of rejection.She did a complete 180 degree change in her attitude to me all of a sudden l was really important. She would do anything for me and sex got to porn level when before it was severely rationed.But it made no difference to me I had suffered too much in the 25 years and still wanted divorce. Anyway about a year later my wife got so depressed about losing me that she took her own life.The whole business nearly killed me as I descended into a deep depression myself. Now 6 years later I have rebuilt my life but I don't have a woman in it.
People don't know that manipulation is a drug too. It's hard to get over when you can't use people. Good on you for standing up for yourself. Well wishes on your journey!
As a woman I’m saddened for both,why after so much dedication did it have to come to this! She hurting for her loss of a good man, he left with a wounded heart to not want ❤in his life because of the pain it may bring!
I feel sad for everyone 😢
I'm sorry to hear all that. I can relate and empathize.
@samnitro how you been?
@@person-ie1fe Oh I'm doing very well thanks. I have been getting better and stronger since those horrible times.
These days I live for my family and overseas travel. In fact I have just come home from a trip to China Japan and Singapore.
Life is good and I still don't have a woman in my life.
Your videos keeps my naive tendencies in check.
Same!
dude accurate
Here it is: happy wife....gone.... half you're life!!
Just remember this, Woman Wed her soul to the Devil right from the start in the Garden she joined with Satan in his war against god and his creation, woman is corrupted, they are also the most deceitful an manipulative creatures on the planet and they have been oppressing men for Millenia
This is the story of my life. I am so glad I finally read the book Boundaries and started enforcing mine. WW3 broke out and the church excommunicated me for divorcing her, but I stuck to my values and am happily living a peaceful, stress-free life alone today.
Because men take the vow "For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, till death do us part" Literally. The woman's vows are more along the line of Michael Ironside in the movier "Starship Troopers" "You are it until you die or until I find someone better!"
Pretty much.
And some of them additional want you to pay for that knife
Bernie EOD . According to the bible women are to listen to their husbands. Who listens today?
Or plan B, C D and the merry go round continues...but men do this as well
Paul, every teen boy needs to see this! I once tried to live a life of chivalry, but now I understand that the only good relationship is one of full equality and reciprocation without stupid notions of romance.
Great information. Wish I knew this 45 years ago. Raised by single mom, never had a male teacher till high school. Fawned over women for decades and it cost me nothing but money, time. and more misery than a Shakespeare tragedy.
There are no unicorns in a herd of swine.
I was raised by a single mother , I feel you brother 😊
@@paulbuckle8459 🙂
Women these days take a man's devotion and affection for complete granted. Like it is entitled to them, and how dare you not worship her for all time... Whether she is worthy of it... Or not. Be aware of this, guys. The price of having a female companion is becoming too much for us. Freedom is literally priceless, but you will be lonely. I am trying to start a local MGTOW group for lonely men to fellowship, learn new skills, go on camping trips, hiking, shooting, etc. We need more groups like this.
Probably the most important video for men on TH-cam ever !
Thanks! I stopped seeing a woman. I met her later and she seemed sad somehow. I thought maybe she missed me. But now, I think she was sad because her spells failed to work on me!
I almost got away but my insecurities took over the best of me.. the sex was soo good...
@@dradd1029 that's how they get you.
I was in a situation where the woman could not easily walk out on me without suffering major social and resource penalties. So what she did instead, was to intentionally drive me so completely insane that I had to leave her, which I did. It is very important to be cautious and patient in forming relationships, because the cost of extracting yourself from a relationship is extremely high.
Outstanding vid!!! I wish this sort of material had been around thirty years ago when I was a young man. This would have saved me from endless heartbreak. An Ear for Men is going from strength to strength.
No man on earth can afford to please most woman. Men make the mistake of assuming most women have the same standards of honor, duty, loyalty and sacrifice as many men. They do not. Honor, duty, loyalty and sacrifice are merely opportunities for a disproportionate percentage of women.
Colonel Neville thats not true. It depends on the woman. Not all woman are the same as not all men are the same.
Colonel Neville well said
There are good women out there, but men need to better select their mates....avoid the influence of TV, chivalry and self sacrifice
Honor is *_not_* inherent in women.
What about the French womans who fucks with the German winners in ww2?
Right on target, Paul. Perfectly delivered and right on point. Gentlemen, keep your notion of your mother in check. She may have brought you into this world but her, or her kind, have no right nor deserve to take you out of it.
What every man fears more than death and taxes is alimony! Which is what often happens during divorce, and what every man should think about before getting married.
Yikes, having to pay alimony (and child support) after he loses his ex’s love and approval is like adding salt to the wound, insult to injury.
Alimony still tax deductible...
Feels good to give money away sometimes....@@Hanna5859
A man should never voluntary enter into a relationship with a woman that he is not able, willing and ready to leave and abandon in 30 seconds or less. Learning this keep me out of jail; mentality and phisically.
I'm 57 yrs old and I have seen the light because of you sir. I absolutely love listening to your thoughts thank you for what you have done and may God richly bless you and your family.
Outstanding video, Paul.
Along with the many points you brought up earlier, I fully believe that the vast majority of men suffer from having a scarcity mindset (see oneitis) in terms of dating women. Despite there being tons of available women out here, the majority of men have been burned, friend-zoned, and outright rejected by so many women over the years going back to high school, that they honestly think that there aren't any women out there who likes them. So when they come across any (and I do mean ANY) female who halfway smiles at them, they throw every caution and waving red flag to the side to please them in hopes of getting with them. It doesn't matter if she's a neighborhood doorknob (everyone else has had a turn), a faded beauty from 1994 who's now 64 lbs. overweight, or a single mother of four kids (by three different dudes; two of them she still secretly sleeps with). Their hormones (see male thirst) gets in the way and the rabid fear of never being able to get another girl for the next 20+ years offsets any rational thought and well, you know how the rest goes...
A lot of men, especially those who came from poorer neighborhoods, have their entire manhood founded upon whether or not they can get a girl to, well, insert your imagination. In most of these high schools, it didn't matter what grades you had, your plans for the future, or anything else. If you couldn't get a 16-year old chick to bend over for you, you were labeled an outcast, a social pariah. I've even seen teachers verbally crack on male students for their lack of dating success for as much as breathing hard in class. Sadly, a lot of them take the mentality of 'I gotta get a girl' well into adulthood, eschewing professional and personal goals in order to say that they have somebody who they believes 'loves' them. And when it comes crashing down (see divorce court), their entire world does along with it, which explains the suicide rates going through the roof for those who don't believe that they'll ever turn the corner...
"If you couldn't get a 16-year old chick to bend over for you, you were labeled an outcast, a social pariah. I've even seen teachers verbally crack on male students for their lack of dating success..."
So true! Boys are brainwashed, even by other brainwashed men, to become the drones that the government depends on to fund their power lust. It takes a very independent mind to throw off the shackles of the gynocracy.
The bit about the young woman rejecting her man's birthday present certainly stuck a chord with me, but in a kinda reverse way. Once I was earning reasonably good money, I always did my best to make sure I got my then wife really nice birthday presents. For one of her birthdays, I scouted all over town for something very special and after weeks of searching, I found a very expensive, but very beautifully hand-made all leather handbag. The woman who ran the shop I bought it at said she was a little sad to sell it to me and when I asked her why, she told me that she had decided that if someone didn't buy it by the end of the week, which was the Saturday morning when I bought it, she was going to keep it for herself because she loved it so much. Man, I knew I was on a winner!
I had it gift wrapped, got a card, wrote some lovin' stuff on it and on my wife's birthday, I gave it to her. To be honest, I can't remember her demeanor when she got that present. I suppose I was too happy to have bought her something that looked so good, so I missed her reaction. Another time, I was walking past a gift shop with my daughter and saw this really beautiful perfume atomizer. It was in the shape of an middle eastern minaret and hand painted in a really beautiful swirling pattern of multiple colors. The price was pretty steep, but once I pointed it out to my daughter as a possible present for her mother, she was pushing me through the door of the shop to buy it. I was on another winner!
Now to the reverse side of the birthday present thing and that is what she bought for me around about the same time as I got those presents for her. One year, I got a mobile. No, not a mobile phone - a mobile. ( mo-beel ) I think it's sometimes called an executive toy, except mine wasn't the executive version. In fact, it was just a cheap piece of chromed plastic shit that had rings revolving in rings endlessly..or until the batteries ran out. Another birthday present was three pairs of skin tight, thigh length lycra shorts in bright red, yellow and orange. Folks, I've been embarrassed hundreds of times in my life, so once more won't do too much damage, but the truth is, I truly thought I was missing something in the intent in these presents. I was sure there was a much deeper loving female sentiment in those presents and I was just such a dumb, thick headed man, I just couldn't see it!
Fast forward a few years and we are moving to another city. My wife and kids have gone on ahead of me and I'm packing up the house, prior to moving myself. While moving the dressing table out of the bedroom, I find the perfume atomizer on the floor behind the dressing table, so covered with dust, it must have been there for years and has never been used. Then while emptying out one of the wardrobes, I find the handbag. It has been thrown into the bottom of the wardrobe and old shoes and clothes piled on top of it. It's been there so long, the leather is all dried and cracked. The handbag is completely worthless now.
It's then that I realize that I had never once seen her using that perfume atomizer. It's then that I realize I have never once seen her step out of the front door, holding that handbag. It's also then that I realize that someone is to blame for this state of affairs --- and it must be me! I'm obviously such a dim-witted, knuckle dragging, Neanderthal fuckwit that I'm completely oblivious to the completely perfect wants and needs and desires of all women. In other words, I'm a failure.
Well, a lot of years have gone by since then and as I like to say to young men, a lot of whom haven't the brains to take it in anyway, "There's no point in getting old if you don't get a little cunning." By that, I mean get a bit more aware of the world around you and the other 50% of the people who are women. The simple wash up of my story is: I bought my wife those presents because I loved her and I thought she deserved nice things. She bought me those presents because she secretly loathed me and thought I deserved nothing but shit. In the end, she deserted me and her children and left behind three severely damaged people, who, in my mind and my children's minds, had done nothing to deserve this. Her legacy in leaving was years of alcoholism, depression, eating disorders, inability to stay in a job, thoughts of suicide, low self esteem and a general feeling of being a complete failure. And just in case you think I'm talking about just myself, I'm not. There's a bit of me and both of my kids in that list.
So, after all of those years, I sometimes wonder about how I feel about my ex wife and mostly, when I examine my feelings towards her, I find I truly don't give a shit about her. But other times I find myself hoping the bitch dies a long, slow, painful, lingering death and then, just before she finally expires, some one pours petrol over her and sets her on fire. But I don't get that feeling very often. It only happens when I'm in a good mood! lol
So, don't read too much into it cos it's nothin' that a nice birthday present couldn't have fix!
It’s insane that they labeled you a hate group for helping men when women do the same thing to help other women and call it empowering women
Just goes to show how backwards our society is
@@DecodeHer-tm9yeterminally backwards. At this point, someone viewing the dynamics of modern relationships and marriage specifically for the first time would probably think it’s some kind of masochistic performance art, a social demolition derby. It’s been set up to fail.
@@DecodeHer-tm9yeit just doesn’t push the narrative.
Yes why wasn't I taught as a young man about female nature?
I was raised in a traditional home. Why am I learning all this now?
I'm now MGTOW. And scorned for it
"Traditional" homes of the past are the petri dish for fostering and perpetuating the male subjugation narrative. Women and the government operate in a symbiotic maelstrom that consumes men for their resources. That your father didn't warn you is because he was a victim of that maelstrom. Don't blame him. He was taught that men (including himself and his infant boys) are disposable. Years of indoctrination are not that easy to shed, especially in his conformist times.
Wow, interesting perspective. Thanks
OMG. Nailed it. "Rebuilding your self-image on your values, instead of your willingness to sacrifice them"
I consider myself pretty courageous. I'm generally not afraid of danger or injury or death. But, for whatever reason, I've been married twice, and both times I could not go through with the ceremony without getting totally wasted. I was gripped by overwhelming fear.
Where did this man come from? Ohmy goodness, this is pure truth! As I listen I could t help but just nod my head off. So good and refreshing to find a fellow man who is strong, insightful and is good at saying and putting words to things we all instinctively know is truth.
Paul, even though our video is from 11 April 2016 (I am listening on 09 November 2018), the subject matter is relevant and is spot on. I have been going through my past over the past two years, and when I traced the sole reason of the failures, insecurities mental problems of my life, the root of them comes from women, beginning with those in family.
I have been on the receiving end of an ultimatum one time in my life, I told her to be careful the door didn't hit her in the ass on the way out. You are an incredible MAN Paul, thank you for your efforts in helping men through their trials.
For such an articulate man with such a desperately needed message for men...... 2000 views and 1500 subs ??
I remember coming across Karen Straughan a few years ago. After one or two of her videos, I tried listening to men talk on this subject and I went back to Karen. I then watch a video of hers where she said that men often prefer listening to women talk about anti-feminism or anything in general and I couldn't disagree. It'll take time for any man who has had years of listening to women at home, at school, and maybe through daycare or babysitting become comfortable with listening to what people reflexively call whining when men have legitimate complaints.
better being subbed to kissing pranks then a channel which involves actualy using your brain.
+marty4758934 Yep this channel deserves a million views but men are unwilling to share this video on fb or whatever because of the same fear that Paul talks about in this video.
His message is mixed and his presentation is boring. If he refined his presentation and didn't mix his message he would get more exposure.
Gangnam style.. Says it all..
Was an eye-opener when I read that Prince Harry was "terrified" that Meghan would leave him.
Imagine an effin prince fearing that. Bruv, If If I was a Prince, I'd be kickin beeches to the curb every goddamn day. 😂
Hi there, just read your message, No he’s afraid the real prince will come out 🐸
Life changing video for me. I was not facing the truth, beveling I was staying for the kids. Paul your my Personal HERO, I shared this with people who needed it.
100% yet again!!! I hate this being true, but it is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL MEN LEARN THIS!!!
Please don't delete this. I am saving this to show to my son when I'll have one.
Dang Paul I’ve been fearing my mothers rejection my whole life, I’ve started to realize this at 40 but this one really hit home.
I am 53, never married, no children, and have apparently been blessed in life as I have never struggled with this.
You speak so much truth.
Never allow a woman to give you ultimatums. Never! I worked with a 22 year old kid who was about to get married to this chick with "separation anxiety". We work on the road and are away 2 weeks at a time. Although the wedding was paid for, and everything was set, he let her threaten him with abandonment and quit a job he really liked just to satisfy her. I sat him down and had a talk with him since i'm older. I told him that he should never give in to ultimatums. That if you allow her to use it once, she will continue to use it more and more. Our crew boss sat him down as well and told him to drop her like a bad habit... he didn't listen of course and he is about to embark on a terrible journey. I hope he somehow learns before he dives in... He probably won't.
How is he doing now 3 years later ?
@@cosminvisan520its the same old story, since the dawn of time, nothing changes. I will promise you he is not living happily ever after.
This was sobering. I will have to watch this several times as i cannot hardly focus...its soo true for me. Its like im an alcoholic that just found out. This is a real come to Jesus moment. I think my life will get better.
Paul you are so eloquent and speak the truth. Please don't leave us.
Excellent, great stuff here. So glad Ive taken the red pill,
I really needed to hear this, Thank you.
I married once,never again, that institution isn't for me,I take half the blame for not knowing what I know now .a 2nd time is insanity
Thank you so much for spending your time to try and educate men with truth.
took me 65 yrs to figure this out, but i did thankfully.
My greatest fear is being stuck on a small island with my mother in law!
I have listened to a lot of your talks and have profited from, and become more mentally stable. (Thanks) This one so far is the most insightful.
The nail on the head ! (my late mother knew this very well and used it very well too ...)
The thing about baseball reminds me of Marlins Man. Marlins Man is this guy who is a fan of the Miami Marlins, and you will see him sitting behind home plate wearing a Marlins jersey during recent World Series games. The Kansas City Royals were not too happy about it since the guy wears the Marlins jersey, sits behind home plate, and is seen by the camera (free Marlins advertising). They tried getting him to move because of his Marlins outfit, but he spent thousands of dollars to attend the World Series games and refused to move to another seat. The Royals, however, found out about his history. Marlins Man, according the Royals, is what we would call a Man Going His Own Way. In 1993, he decided never to get married or even be in a relationship with a woman. He was a big baseball fan and wanted to spend his life attending ball games. He felt that if he got married, he wouldn't have the money and freedom to attend ball games, or be a baseball fan. He decided never to marry so that he could save thousands of dollars to go to baseball games each year.
you have given a light to my life!! I have no words to thank you! you are a Gods sent!!
I feel so blessed to have never had to deal with this crap, thank you Paul, you truly are saving lives.
Paul is so full of wisdom.
this seems a very critical look at a relationship dynamic. at times hard to listen to... but at the same time i could see some links to situations in my past. i think there are some situations where one simply needs to let them go when they storm out. why? sometimes it is manipulation. emotional manipulation... its a dirty trick... and it can be very hard to stand up against it. of course not every women is as he describes... but many do use this technique from time to time....
Why do you only have 47k subscription? Your information is priceless. Thanks I really enjoyed this video.
I wish I heard this 20 years ago. Thanks for all your insightful content.
You story about the man and his baseball game is the same for me with my videogames and other stuff. Thank you very much for making this video.
You sir are doing gods work.. love your book. Wish it was out and before I got hitched all those years back. You bet I am instilling this scripture to my son. Thank you
Fear of abandonment lies in almost every human, to various degrees. For many, it subconsciously means death. It is irrational yet powerful. Loving someone genuinely means becoming vulnerable to being rejected/abandoned. That's why many men and women limit themselves to superficial engagements.
When this fear is so great that it dominates us, it does open the door to accepting all kinds of abuses and misbehaviors when dealing with the wrong individuals.
I was raised by a single mom, she emotionally incested the shit out of me and long story short this destroyed my life.
Thank you, Sir!
Truly enlightening! I have been awakened!
Man.....you are spot on.
For some reason unknown to me, I also needed to hear this from someone other than my conscious... thank you
Excellent, very helpful.
A very fine intellect. A gift to us...
I love your videos, Paul, because it reassured me that I raised my son right.
This video encapsulates all of your good work. If there is only one video every man should see, this is the one.
Dude, tnx man... you are something else.
I know that alot of men are scared to be alone. Its just plain old insecurity. I got divorced 8 years ago from my 2nd wife,( it was bad), and I have never been more content and at peace in my life. I can truthfully say I have never felt lonelyness once in those 8 years. I have no desire to be with a woman. She ruined it. But looking back on it, us getting divorced was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm 60 now and the ol sexual desire ain't that strong anymore so maybe thats part of it. Do I miss the touch of a woman? Yes. But the price is just to high. But I think some of these men are just terrified of living by theirselves. Thats something they have to overcome and learn to be happy and content on their own. Get a hobby you enjoy, hang with your friends, but learn to be comfortable in your own skin and get out there and live life on your own terms. You'll be amazed at the results!
So very true
An outstanding editorial on very important to know issues. I thought your take and explanation on the example you gave starting at 9:48 was especially brilliant.
Excellent, Me, Myself and my Crazy Mom, Dad and Family.
So true, very much true
My ex used to threaten me with leaving. I offered to help her pack.
You are spot on man. So glad I found this channel Life been rough as usual but this has been giving me hope!
Absolutely amazing. Thank you very much Paul.
Very helpful! Makes so much sense. It's validated and enhanced some of my thoughts and values!
Brilliant talk; as usual...
Thank You Paul - Your work is so important
That’s a more honest and sincere video, in comparison to others that I have come across from this channel.
great work sir-we need to get the word out
Good work brother Paul
Its sad that paul stopped doing this channel, my favorite episode of his was "the 7 deal breakers"
Love the video, brilliant stuff I wish I'd have known 20 years ago.
My ex-wife used the "or I'll leave" nearly constantly, and like a sucker, I fell for that shit for years. Finally, after putting her through undergraduate and graduate school, after relocating across the country, after years of emotional abuse, after having a goddamn knife pulled on me, she finally played the "I'll leave" card one time too many, and I let her go. It was rough at first, but it's ended up being the best decision of my life!
I wish I'd have opened the door and told her to GTFO the first time she threatened to leave, before we were even married. It would have saved me so much money, time, and pain.
Guys, if a woman *ever* pulls that card, call her on it, and when she tries to take it back, stand firm and demand she leave. You'll be happier in the long run.
Damn Paul, you made me cry.
I swore long ago that I would not get together with a woman until I no longer "Needed " a woman. I have re recognized this as a prime directive for me if I'm to go forward with exploring a relationship with a woman. It took me many years to do this but I'm finally ready to do it but this guy will be a real help! I don't want to have a wreck in my little race car on the first turn like a rookie. I actually thought at one point in my life that I would go to a match maker. That would have been a real mistake indeed. I need to practice self support and rejection tolerance and judgement of who is worthy of my love. I'm a good principled man but I will not throw my pearls before swine. I want a partner and friend in this journey called life, not another jerk or hangers on who is incapable of really loving someone. I have learned to first love myself and that was the obstacle for me to overcome in life. My mother had all but crippled me in this without really understanding how or why. Funny but I rarely talk to her at this time in life and she still treats my brother John like crap and yet totally differently with me. I guess she realizes that I don't take her shit anymore. You see I have changed. But it has been with a price. I'm 63 and never been married. Hopefully I will accelerate my learning with practice now. I have the time now. I also must learn that some women actually think they know better than men about relationships. And some might. But the ones that I have met in the past who take this line are not experts at relationships at all.
I wish you could like this more than once. THIS right here is the root cause, the source of everything else.
I have always LOVED to "make it happen" for a woman. To come through and vin the day and see that ACTUAL relief in their eyes when I DELIVERED. Love it, love it, and then some.
Thank you man.Please continue producing amazing material!
I was raised to be the ultimate simpleton. It’s been years since I have been rewiring myself to become a man who thinks for himself and don’t pander to women.
The fear and pain of humiliation are far greater.
There is one thing I secretly thank God for throughout the course of a week. Thank you God for NOT allowing me to ever get married or have kids. One more time for the road, thank you God almighty.
Wowowoow what a lesson on chivalry...I need to by heart it
spit the knowledge sir, a grey hair who is teaching the youth how to live , thanks n God bless u
This is one of the best you’ve done. Thank you.