Crucial Relationship and Marriage Questions Youth Ask | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

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  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    A man of God with a touch of burna boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @officialPeaceHappiness
    @officialPeaceHappiness ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm single, but I had issues with talking, I was using it negatively until I embraced Christ and he showed me my purpose, I realized I actually had so much to do with talking but not the way I was using it......
    Now, I'm living purposely, I can teach the gospel for hours without getting tired or bored, I enjoy talking scriptures.
    Pst k's advice is right 💯

  • @MhercieOnos
    @MhercieOnos ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pastor Mildred is loaded! Deep calls unto deep!
    Pastor K is an amazing teacher

  • @LearnwithUD1
    @LearnwithUD1 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Your wisdom in answering questions should be studied 💚💚

  • @tiygabaya1838
    @tiygabaya1838 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the soup licking issue got me rollling on the floor🤣🤣🤣

  • @dareelisha8673
    @dareelisha8673 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The Gift of answering questions, its always sweet listening to you both

  • @oyindamolaadeyanju4433
    @oyindamolaadeyanju4433 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow!
    I've been watching Pst Mildred's videos since morning,same as Pst Kingsley and it has blessed my soul.
    I'm not much of a commenter but when Pst Kingsley mentioned that he had just Ond as at the time he got married to pst Mildred i felt relieved cos I'll be getting married to someone who doesn't have a degree in few months and when i told my mentor she said I'll probably regret it in the future even tho i do not see it as a problem, he's doing great for himself,but what she said got me worried, but hearing that from Pst K has set me free from that fear. Thank you ma and sir for yielding to the call of God upon your life, you are a blessing to this generation.

    • @hannahsado5504
      @hannahsado5504 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's why the Truth is more powerful than knowledge or an ideology of men. So far your man fears the Lord, has a Vision, understands and is working alongside the purposes of God, he is ready and fit.
      See Dr. Cosmas MADUKA. There are boy and there are men - the difference BTW these two aren't gotten by degrees.
      May the wisdom of the Lord Jesus fill our hearts through His Spirit

    • @eldadenobhayisobo6300
      @eldadenobhayisobo6300 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am happy you were able to hear this truth that liberated you.This also shows we need to weigh some of the advice that our mentors give.Not everything is written on stone.God bless u.

  • @cutesnubable
    @cutesnubable ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “Don’t remove the ancient landmark.” Wisdom

  • @nantegorret7438
    @nantegorret7438 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Much love from Uganda 🇩🇪 Thanks pastor K and Pastor Mildred for the wisdom 🙏we are surely learning

    • @muwanguzibecky6226
      @muwanguzibecky6226 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬my dear thats our flag not that of Germany, unless your in german per now

    • @christinelihavi4068
      @christinelihavi4068 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@muwanguzibecky6226😂😂😂She forgot her own

  • @edidiongjeremiah1584
    @edidiongjeremiah1584 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    powerful words of wisdom

  • @dalisobanda318
    @dalisobanda318 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pastor M..be like she is a prayer Warrior 🏃

  • @wafulaaziza9610
    @wafulaaziza9610 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow what a Godly advice from Mr and Mrs pastor Kingsley ,God is never mocked He honors our desires

  • @patiencechimulu7219
    @patiencechimulu7219 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 22 and l watch your videos and,,,,,, your videos are helpful

  • @jackybabyj5824
    @jackybabyj5824 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kiiaaaa! I love these couple

  • @SuzetteKhiba
    @SuzetteKhiba ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow, I'm so blessed by this. Surely learned alot.. Love from Namibia 😇❤️🇳🇦

  • @zebulonanyanwu3955
    @zebulonanyanwu3955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Pastors Okonkwo for being humourous and yet having cutting edge answers to the questions posed.

  • @favourehineboh319
    @favourehineboh319 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmmm
    The word "Learn to live ready"

  • @officialPeaceHappiness
    @officialPeaceHappiness ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a list I so didn't want to give up on but when I Jesus came, I began to give into the word and prayer, a new list came, prayerfully and scripturally selected, I then knew that my own self made list was not just unnecessary but a bit selfish and not knowledgeable.....
    Now I'm glad Jesus came through, tho he did so much to convinced me that my self made list was bad😂....
    I'll have a great kingdom Marriage ❤️💯💃💃

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen sister
    Deep calls to deep
    By their fruits you shall know them

  • @OluwafunkeEsther-m6e
    @OluwafunkeEsther-m6e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm blessed

  • @yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey
    @yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you PM and PK🥰
    More grace and anointing 🥰

  • @winnieodhiambo2375
    @winnieodhiambo2375 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We are here patiently waiting. May God help us n open our understanding.

  • @agubalungozi2509
    @agubalungozi2509 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pastor Kingsley and Mildred okonkwo, You guys are full of wisdom and I love you guys

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmmmmmmm
    I have learnt a lot today

  • @Elohoralago
    @Elohoralago ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, it's a blessing to always listen to you both. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ.

  • @user-ch2fj3ct7x
    @user-ch2fj3ct7x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Sir/Ma , for your powerful teachings on Marriage. God bless you

  • @NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk
    @NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much love from Uganda.
    But I really like your teachings

  • @vickyrichie6211
    @vickyrichie6211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir
    Thank you ma'am.
    Am bless to have you close to me

  • @nyimbonizipendazo
    @nyimbonizipendazo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So much wisdom. GOD bless you pastor K and Pastor M

  • @blessingchukwu320
    @blessingchukwu320 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I just listened to this and I must confess have learnt alot and I say Thanks to you both

  • @olasupojumoke6388
    @olasupojumoke6388 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am so blessed with this question nd answer, , seriously to be sincere, my orientation, towards marriage change ❤️

  • @NNELISHALOM
    @NNELISHALOM ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Deep calls to deep!!! Ahhh Deepppp!!!

  • @okonkwoijeomaj838
    @okonkwoijeomaj838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing questions and answers
    God bless you Sir and ma

  • @mariamajoke817
    @mariamajoke817 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm blessed!

  • @damilolaadekanmbi2751
    @damilolaadekanmbi2751 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Wonderful couple are great gift to the body of Christ. God bless you and your ministry, and your home.

  • @goodnewstv7573
    @goodnewstv7573 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Blessed

  • @houseofellatv7115
    @houseofellatv7115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So insightful
    Thanks Sir and May
    More Grace

  • @misidee
    @misidee ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That first question about MIL staying “permanently” is a little tricky. If you have aging parents requiring extra assistance you will understand what I mean especially if she’s a widow. No caregiver on earth can ever take care of your parents like you can. What’s most important is that you cultivate a great relationship with your MIL even before aging sets in. While it’s always advisable she stays with one of her daughters in her later years but what if she has only sons and no daughters? I’ve no issues with my MIL staying over especially in the later years because she’s a woman of honor and has behaved herself as such.

    • @giftmuswema8111
      @giftmuswema8111 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think in this context the question was based on a newly wed whose inlaw has come to stay permanently

    • @officialPeaceHappiness
      @officialPeaceHappiness ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The context of this question is for a newly married, and the MIL is still young

    • @graceforalways6445
      @graceforalways6445 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great points and I agree but like the pastor said, your wife has to be on board or it's a bad move. You should look to honor your wife too.

  • @preciousmulenga2230
    @preciousmulenga2230 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Poweful questions and answers 💯

  • @iremiposiajayi122
    @iremiposiajayi122 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6:14-6:31 is so key!!!

  • @stephencatherine7997
    @stephencatherine7997 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great,I ve lent alot from you guys, so wonderful thanks 🙏 and more grace

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow hw I wish am here live thanks p k and p m this my generation we need help oooooo hmm

  • @gertrudentiamoah9722
    @gertrudentiamoah9722 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you PK and PM ❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @olawuyiabidemi8216
    @olawuyiabidemi8216 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed and learnt more from this session
    Thanks sir and ma

  • @justqueenlaney
    @justqueenlaney ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys! Your wisdom is overwhelming❤️

  • @sarahelemi7329
    @sarahelemi7329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the teaching Sir

  • @ezehjennifer324
    @ezehjennifer324 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing! Thanks pastors

  • @enochhossana597
    @enochhossana597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    really enjoyed watching this God bless you sir and ma'am

  • @tamara3825
    @tamara3825 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you to u all this was good.

  • @934rex
    @934rex ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SuperFANTASTIC 🔥🔥🔥…

  • @airstarbukki8829
    @airstarbukki8829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wisdom!

  • @okonkwoijeomaj838
    @okonkwoijeomaj838 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those are canopy brothers run for Your Life ooooooo

  • @Official_cupid042
    @Official_cupid042 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow.

  • @joymadu5036
    @joymadu5036 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please, what do you think about going back to a relationship you had left as a lady, the guy also wants you back?

  • @michaellageorge3181
    @michaellageorge3181 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You want a man of God with a touch of burna boy. Hahahah

  • @charlotteleeward1738
    @charlotteleeward1738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we also ask questions on the utube platform? Coz I have questions 😢

  • @parvinacouture
    @parvinacouture ปีที่แล้ว

    The first question... I tell you, don’t try it oo. It doesn’t work, another thing is that, if the wife doesn’t work from home, and it will work.

  • @QueenEsthersDiaries
    @QueenEsthersDiaries ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I receive and move!

  • @favourejumaoche8184
    @favourejumaoche8184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love u two very much ,please I want to be a marriage counselor and a relationship coach ,please how do I go about it?

  • @amaraubah9071
    @amaraubah9071 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please can someone help me with the first teaching he did before this video

  • @okaforpriscilla8512
    @okaforpriscilla8512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if a lady is in a relationship with someone that has vision and very okay to marry but is having financial issue making the marriage indefinite
    Does it mean she should move on since she isn't ready to wait for long..?

    • @joethedream1793
      @joethedream1793 ปีที่แล้ว

      No but of them need to work togather. 4get. about today. Think abt tomorrow.

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vision is one thing, but is the person.actively seeking to make that vision a reality? Also while they are getting to the vision both ppl need to do what they need to do to improve their finances. Maybe take on a 2nd job temporarily

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Them don finish lick soup 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Date definitely. Don't date in secret. Bring the man you're dating to your pastors and mentors

  • @jnralexander7913
    @jnralexander7913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do someone deal with a jealous spouse?

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If it's a spouse go to counselling. If not married leave

    • @princemichael2739
      @princemichael2739 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@snsn7251You have a point.
      But “jealous-loving” is not entirely bad. It can be useful in marriage. It can be a protective tool.
      I’m married. My wife is a jealous-lover, but not to a toxic extent. The jealous-love actually helps to protect our marriage.
      The problem is when it gets toxic.
      I think they should get more knowledge and counseling on the subject.

  • @aidaeritrin7944
    @aidaeritrin7944 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You want a man of God with a touch of Burna boy😅😅😂😂

  • @okonkwoijeomaj838
    @okonkwoijeomaj838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God forbid canopy brothers 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    10 waisted years
    Tufuiakwa 😱

  • @Queeneth_Jumbo
    @Queeneth_Jumbo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @akubuearinze577
    @akubuearinze577 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning sir
    I appreciate all your teachings on relationship and marriage but I think I got it wrong when you approved remarrying.
    According to the bible I understand that husband and wife can only separate as a result of fornication (fornication is different from Adultery)and either of the two would not go Scott free why;
    Because he or she has caused the other to commit Adultery

  • @medaiyesejanet203
    @medaiyesejanet203 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lord of the ring 😅

  • @nyimbonizipendazo
    @nyimbonizipendazo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor K, mouth kissing is not oral sex

  • @melodyraygospel3872
    @melodyraygospel3872 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please what do you do when your husband constantly denies my input to the family both spiritually and financially and he does these things infront of the family members and parents but when things get difficult he turns to you again. So what do I do

    • @ireenbwalya1923
      @ireenbwalya1923 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is not right. You are a team, he is supposed to discuss things with you and get your input. Seek God in prayer before discussing this with him. Then with wisdom, approach him and bring out your concerns. If he accepts he is wrong and changes, that's good . But if he does not, seek counsel of your Pastor and church elders

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seek counselling

    • @princemichael2739
      @princemichael2739 ปีที่แล้ว

      Communication is key.
      You must find a way to have a discussion with him about it. You must look for moment when he is calm and open for talk, then you respectfully and carefully present the matter to him.
      He may be doing it ignorantly, as most men do, based on ego. And if he continues, he may create problems that may be difficult to rectify.
      Pray about it. Let God order your steps.

  • @iremiposiajayi122
    @iremiposiajayi122 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The first question, I think it is okay for a mother in law to stay with the couple especially if she is widowed. She may not want to live alone or she may have health challenges. It really depends.

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @iremiposi Ajayi, the problem is that our parents will always see us as kids and Interference will always happen no matter how hard we try.
      This is why I encourge widows to remarry and not sacrifice their happiness for kids who will still leave

    • @enahorookhamafe2710
      @enahorookhamafe2710 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The most important factor is, are the couples agreed on this?
      If they are , then it's goes to no issue! If one is and the other is not, then it's best they work out a solution agreeable to both of them.

    • @couplesissues5150
      @couplesissues5150 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@enahorookhamafe2710 how about if the man is adamant that his mother must stay and the wife doesn’t want his mother to stay. No one wants to budge?

    • @enahorookhamafe2710
      @enahorookhamafe2710 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@couplesissues5150 Fact is, the couple are best suited to iron out the areas of disagreement and arrive at a resolution.
      Why is the man insistent on his mum in-law coming to stay, and why is the wife insistent on that not happening??
      That's where I think they can start the resolution from!

    • @nwadikechidinmaquinn1822
      @nwadikechidinmaquinn1822 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YOU DONT KNOW WHAT PEOPLE GO THROUGH WHEN SOME MOTHER IN-LAWS STAY IN THEIR HOUSE... TO AVOID UNNECESSARY ISSSUES. THEY CAN GET HER AN APARTMENT PLEASE. SHE CAN BE VISITING

  • @Ebeauty57
    @Ebeauty57 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please what church did this event take place?

  • @ishamunu1283
    @ishamunu1283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't remove the accient land mark wisdom
    deep calls to deep

  • @934rex
    @934rex ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 ปีที่แล้ว

    Madam
    To believe in submission
    The man head of the house is scripture
    Say you believe what the bible had to say about Marriage

  • @victoryakalazu758
    @victoryakalazu758 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏

  • @faithekwonwa6749
    @faithekwonwa6749 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this

  • @kenchuks9051
    @kenchuks9051 ปีที่แล้ว

    If mother in law is a widow nko

  • @imotumbokanaka4157
    @imotumbokanaka4157 ปีที่แล้ว

    pastor, i don't agree with you, interest cannot be compromised, you can get a Godly person that u will like, is better to be single than be with someone because of the biological clock, that is a marriage of convenience, ladies make choice from there options.

  • @mercyme811
    @mercyme811 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery." Luke 16:18.
    The scripture is plain. Remarriage is adultery. Period. There's nothing about if the divorce is because of abuse, immorality, or whatever. Only death warrants remarriage. And God's word is final.

  • @ayozievictoria7046
    @ayozievictoria7046 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @comforttitus8982
    @comforttitus8982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They laughing because of Buhari

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤