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Story #2. She needs to ask him if his cheating happened. Then proceed with breaking up or not. It's not for his mom to decide.
I thought the same, like what if she lied cause she wants him with someone else?
@@AlphaGametauri I really doubt she'd take the time to lie about it while he's in the hospital, possibly dying. She would've told her that lie literally any other time than him being hospitalized. And she wouldn't be trying to convince her to stay.
And if anyone would lie about it when asked, it'd probably be the fiance.
I'm so glad the business owner was given a huge fine. The world doesn't need people like her.
That business owner probably lost or had their Cosmetolgy license suspended. The state issues those, but it is needed with the local business license which also could have been suspended or pulled.
Im done in this world
@@Automaton_unit most people are normal
@@lenoxpI some people are not
@@Automaton_unit Indeed.
And it's not just the fact that he cheated it's that his entire family knew about it and we're OK with keeping it from her until they got worried about his soul when he was about to die. I'd straight up tell the mother maybe if he had just cheated I could have forgiven him but now I can't trust your entire family so why would I want to become a part of it.
Story 1: Not the jerk. That karen totally deserved what was coming to her and she could've have just left well enough alone. But then she had to do what all karens do and start up pointless drama. Personally thinking; if her business took a big hit and an even bigger L after she tried attacking OP's family salon, then nothing of value to the community was lost.
Story 2: OP you gotta give your fiancé's ring back to him and tell him regardless if he's still healing that "it's over", cheating is cheating and if he was willing to go through with it while your engaged then imagined what he'd do when you two are LEGALLY married. And to the mother of the cheating S.O.B PISS OFF! If you didn't want your son to cheat to begin with, then you should have raised him better to begin with, especially considering your family's supposed to be religious!
Story 3. The selfish neighbor got what he deserved. Should've listened to the OP when he first asked to move his vehicle when they were trying to help someone in need.
Story 4. OP Do what you wanna do. Unlike the government here in the states, I always believed in "my body, my choice." Heck it's what your husband did, and even though he got snipped you still got pregnant in the end. It'll be tough to explain to your child why their biological father wasn't in the picture, but I know you'll find a way to do so when the time comes.
The whole my body my choice shits just a load of bs. Abortion is murder. Don't want the kid? Put it up for adoption
The 2nd story i agree with mostly but the mom can not control their child when they are older and children don't always do the right thing. Even if they are taught to. The mom should have told the OP at the beginning but the mom is mostly not to blame its the OPs fiance for being the one to cheat. (Just my opinion)
@@sukistorm7151 i think that op of the second story should talk with their fiance, for one, we have no idea if the mother is telling the truth or not and for another- the fiance did seem very regretful which makes me think that the story may be more complicated- i.e drugs or alchohol were involved- which- while it may not entirely excuse his actions- atleast makes it apparent that its an issues that needs to be resolved and not necessarily an AH behavior, especially with the complicated emotions that go on with someone who meets their ex.
all in all- i think communication is important
All though I agree whole heartedly with what you said about: my body my choice, I would not recommend keeping the child though. Its possibly the worst outcome for the husband, cause he did everything he could to prevent this but will now be punished for something completely out of his control (if hes even the Father we don't have the Full context for that assuming the worst scenario) because by divorce he needs to Pay up. Second of all, like he Said they are to Old for it. even if this child is born with no issues, she alone can't fully support the child's needs if something happens to her.
The the 3 red flag is they hate children? Just not this particular child? Doesn't really matter your Gonna force this child to have No friend's he can bring home? Or Will the OP hold in her animosity for children?
I doubt it Will be a Very happy ending.
The cheating story. Op needs to discuss the cheating with her parents. Once she knows that they will support her decision to call it off, it will be easier for her. She can’t marry into a family that are able to hide something like that. What else are they hiding? She not only can’t trust the fiancé, she can’t trust the whole family. The family is freaking out because she knows her son is going to be unbelievably pissed for telling the secret to op and her son will never trust her again with any confidences
I think she should also talk to the fiancé himself. She only has a second hand story and should really get his side of what happened. Since they have been together for six years she probably knows him well enough to judge his reaction. Maybe his mother exaggerated what happened or misunderstood something. I agree that she shouldn't marry the guy if in fact the story of his cheating on her is true, but it would be a shame if she dumped him after six years and it turned out that the incident didn't actually happen the way she thinks it did.
I saw this Story on another reddit video. Op posted an update. She went with her mom to break up with her fiancé. I don’t remember many of the details but she did say she cried on the way home after breaking up with him. I’m glad she was able to break up with him before it was to late
@@Miss_GenGen I’m glad she made the decision on her own and not get pressured to stay with him by his family. The fiancé’s mom should never have guilted her into staying in a marriage knowing what he did. He was going to go through with the wedding as if nothing happened. He was able to tell his family but not the person he supposed to share his life with. Perhaps down the line they could work it out with therapy but she’s hurting and he deserves to feel pain (if he ever loved her)as well
@@ARKdeEREH If He didnt cheat she should still dump him. He was more willing to tell the whole family the story than to her. There is no bigger disrespect to someone you plan to marry.
He expected her to marry him without knowing about it also which doomed the marriage before it started.
That's what I thought. Nobody knows what really happened. Fact is: the family is something I wouldn't touch with a 10 meter pole (sorry... Metric system rules). And the communication culture between those two must also be bad. Not a good foundation for a long term relationship. Also: this sounds conveniently dramatic, like a bad TV show. Not saying it's a lie, but the likelihood is not very big.
I want to say you are right about what the fire trucks did. To access a fire hydrant blocked by a car, if there is a fire or a medical emergency, they don't even have to ask, they will either break your windows or use their trucks to ram the cars out of the way. No financial compensation will be given. In this case, the firemen were nice enough to ask but when they were told no, they would most likely have rammed the cars anyway.
And they weren’t even told no, he told them to “do one” which is Brit-Speak for “eff off”.
When someone keeps stealing a parking spot or even parking in handicap spots when their not disabled, you just let all the air out of all of their tires every time they do it. They steal your spot because it is more convenient for themore convenient for them to inconvenience you, so start inconvenient sing them every time they do it and they'll stop doing it. Then if you really want to get some payback call the tow truck after you let the air out of their tires so they can't leave before it gets there to take their car.
The Firetruck in my state shows up with the ambulance. They don't waste time.
"HEY HEY WHY ARE YIU TOWING MY CAR CAN YOU HEAR ME STOP TOWING MY CAR!"
Dam talk about revenge.
*writes it down*
@@pineappleb122fligerhorst4 i got a car towed that was wrongly parked in a handicapped spot. We only left the situation, and the individual that was blocked from the space after it was fully dealt with
OP cousin should have unblocked the karen and messaged her back and said " hey i heared you were fined $10000 also i reported you
That would have been satisfying but then it risks retaliation just for the sake of saying, "got you!" I think it played out about as best as it could have. OP got her revenge and didn't risk any kind of retaliation.
@@JonPoncho How is there any risk making her revenge sweeter. The cousin could have easily admitted what she did and the karen couldn't have done anything. IF she did just report her and brag more about her loosing $10,00
@@LolLol-nn8td the other lady seems to know where OP's cousin's business is, so they could have vandalized it, or put out lies online about OP's cousin (which she already showed she was willing to do). OP already got their revenge, no need to risk further escalation IMO.
If your response is going to be, "then she would have payed for that as well." That may be the case, *if* you can prove that it was her who caused the vandalism, or if you're willing to fight defamation in court. But she could get away with vandalism as well. It's a risk. Those are just 2 examples of retaliation I could think off of the top of my head, but the possibilities are endless. The point is that there's a balance between coming out on top and making sure that you don't go so far as to risk unnecessary further battles.
I love his female Karen voice it always cracks me up lol😂😂
Reminds me of marge Simpson
Story 2: don’t get taken in by the “Sunk Cost Fallacy”. If the entire family is complicit with a fiancé’s cheating and trying to make it “her fault for stressing him out”, then I think OP would be doing them a mitzvah by removing herself from the equation. They’re a bunch of manipulative people. They are gaslighting you. OP, you deserve far better.
The officers should be fired, they had no reasonable cause to enter private property or a warrant
In the US, at least (which I doubt this is) homeowners can let the police in. This does smack of taking advantage and manipulation, but you need more than a suggestion of impropriety to fire someone.
A police report isnt a reasonable cause?
@@soyilai no it's not a reasonable cause there needs to be proof and evidence for it
@@stadot1427it was in the us.
@@stadot1427in the US they DO need a warrant to search a house, and if the owner does not let the officers in, the officers can't keep asking to search the house unless they have a warrant
I used to be a part of the fire service. They had something that was life threatening ones. I was the passenger inside there when they watch commander told us to move those vehicles. I jumped out, and I was the one that had to direct the fire truck to back in to those when I mean back into those I mean, like they were pushed clear down the road, a lot of damage was done to those cars, but you don't mess around when the patient's life is on the line, he made a full recovery
Cheating story: maybe dont get married to a cheating guy whose parents are complicit to the cheating.
Fully agreed, my ex wifes family made our already miserable relationship a living hell. When a family will side with their family member NO MATTER WHAT that is a dangerous situation. If someone is wrong they are wrong, if someone is right they are right. You shouldn't stick up for the wrong person, that is demented PERIOD family or not. IDGAF. They were all nuts, I should have seen it sooner LOL
@@OpenCarry2024 damn you should post that on the reddit you would get a video title because that sounds crazy lol
As a child whose parents were around their late thirties, mid forties, yea I kind of understand why the husband is having doubts as he knows deep inside that he may be to harsh on the kid or they even wont be able to cope with his energy at all.
Also I believe all parents want to stay as much time as possible with their childs. So its hard for them when they see their life ending while one is starting
Not only that, but that will be a lot to put on the child's shoulder, taking care of their aging parents when they're themselves still young. I really don't know how I would have been able to take care of my parents at 20 if they had had me so late. ANd I'm the fourth child. This one would be a single child!
Not juging, ultimately o each their own, but I don't think parents of late age really think about that. It's not just about if YOU will have the energy to take care of your child(ren), it's also will they be mature and financially independant enough to take care of YOU. (Or handle your detah while they're still a young adult.)
@@Meanne77 it's tough like really really tough and leaves you fucked up.
The lady in the last story has a difficult decision to make. I get where the husband is coming from but there is still almost a 10 year age gap between them. My dad remarried so was in his early 60s when I was born and passed away in his 80s. My mum was in her mid 30s when I was born and is in her late 60s now. I was 19 when he passed away and my sister was 17. Yeah it's sad having lost a parent so young, but I hope the husband reconsiders and decides to support his wife's decision. I'm not planning on having kids either but having to choose between your husband or your kid is quite harsh. Assuming that he will live until his 70s or 80s, the husband may still be around for a long time yet :)
@@bigkirbyhj666 It is pretty stressful being in that exact situation but luckily my dad works out and my mom works regularly so they definiatly are not completely out of shape.
@@ESparkAster I watched my mom pretend to OD (and had no disbelief she has died) and my dad pretty much had a heart pump in a bag around his shoulder
“Before the kid is born, he’ll be 50
By the time he’s 10, he’ll be 60
And by the time he’s 20, he’ll be 80”
THAT MATH AINT MATHING 😂
In the story about her boyfriend cheated on her, she needs to talk to someone she trust about her feelings before she does anything she may feel different after doing so.
Second story: It's not like just the fiancee has been cheating, but his entire family was into it as well, they were all hiding it from OP. If it had just been the husband-to-be who cheated on her, it might still have worked, if she learned about it in another way, maybe if he told her himself, they could have talked about it and if it really was just a one-time event they could could have come to terms with it and still gone through with the wedding. But when the entire family knew about it and is keeping it from her until the worst possible moment, that's way too much, at least for me.
My dad was 50 when I was born and we had challenges, but it worked very well for us. I was a daddy’s girl at the end. I’ve known a few women who had babies after their 30’s and the pregnancy was extremely hard on their bodies - way more than expected. The last OP really needs to determine her energy levels at her current age. Has she already started slowing down? Or is she still running marathons? If her pregnancy causes lasting changes, does she have a support network she can rely on to take up the slack? I know what I’d do, but that’s a choice she’ll have to make.
Story 2: I wouldn’t care if they were recovering. We would be done right then and there
When the beauti parlors closed things got ugly.
😂😂yea they did
All of these stories have one thing in common...the OPs are not jerks!!! Story #4: I would truly like to know how this one turned out, because in my opinion, despite this couple's long-time agreement to not have children, we are talking about a child. She obviously has not violated their agreement on purpose! She didn't just bring home a puppy after having promised to never have pets! Sweetheart, your love for your child is so very strong and obvious. Whatever your decision was (is), let it be YOUR decision. Please don't let anyone pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do. I understand your dilemma because you have loved your husband so much for so long. But, I can guarantee that you will NEVER regret becoming a mother. Don't ever second-guess yourself regardless of what you chose (choose) to do. And all those feelings of love, protectiveness, and joy you feel are not just hormones. I wish you and your family all the best that this life has to offer! ❤️
Cheating fiancé story: I hope that you followed your instincts and left this man and his family. You have nothing to feel guilty about. He, however, does. I know how it feels to be the last one to know that your man has cheated. Been there; done that! I felt completely humiliated that everyone knew and so angry that no one told me! Your fiancé or ex-fiance has plenty of support from his family. Wishing you Love and Peace!
It doesn't matter if the fiance almost died, he cheated. You can't have a good marriage if its built on betrayal, lies and secrets. Also if his family is protecting him, when he is clearly at fault, imagine what'll happen if he cheats again or if ever becomes abusive. Maybe the guy after a near death experience will rethink his life but the woman need to let him do it in his own. She is worth having a faithful, loving and honest husband. She doesn't need to settle.
i think the op needs to talk with her husband before making ANY decisions.
its important to get the whole story and like i've said before if the decision was made whilst inebriated and possibly being convinced by said ex it would make sense why he came to his family for advice and seemed regretful of it from how it was described- we don't know the story so it's important to get the full picture before thinking he's a horrible person.
It did not accure to the mother, concern with the state of his soul, that this accident was a punisment from God for his sins?
For the second story, my opinion is that the mother could have been lying? Like, why would you tell someone that their SO is cheating on them, then suddenly start panicking when they consider telling their SO that they know about it, and consider it a mistake that you told them? It doesn't make any sense to me.
I don't blame religion, I'm sure his parents pampered this guy a lot and always protected him from being in a bad spot, my aunt does the same with one of my cousins, she lies in order to "protect him". That and this girl ex mother in law is really stupid.
I do feel like it could be that the mom was lying because she really doesn't want her kids relationship to be happier than her relationship with her son.
There are some moms who would do weird stuff like that.
There are also moms who know that their son is an entire dog and a half, and want somebody else to help take care of him.
That's unfortunately a thing too...
@@nailynntynette maybe mom never liked her but her son doesn’t want to leave her so she’s making the girlfriend leave instead.
@@MarkMiller304 sounds possible
The best thing is that the neighbor legally needs to pay for the repair of the firetruck
The Guy should consider himself lucky if the OP who found out he cheated once wants out of the marriage. She doesn't seem like a worthy partner.
I don't think you understand what you're talking about. The S.O.B cheated and his ENTIRE family knew but only told her when he was in critical condition. If he's lucky, then OP is good luck incarnate
Those cops should had minded their own business especially with no warrent
Cops don't really respect Constitutional rights, especially when it comes to minorities. Most are just thugs with the authority of the State behind them and little/no accountability.
Whoever commented try again youtube censored it
For the second story I would demand answers from the guy and saying something like "I heard XYZ, I need to know if the rumours are true or not" not mentioning who have said it and getting the answers from him and after that making mind up if it's worth fixing if it's true or not
The cheating story: i think she should just talk to him first and if she doesn't feel comfortable around him anymore then should call of the marriage since it will just end in divorce 🙇
Straight to the point. I like your style. Simple and uncomplicated. I looked at another post and she actually broke up with him and cried all the way home. At least she dodged a bullet.
Making public threats is not only foolish its also criminal, and should have consequences
The large guy story. First didn't expect the ending of what happened to him. However serves the neighbor right. Neighbor doesn't own everything.
She didn't mean her love for her husband has actually faded rather her love for her future child has grown to such an extent that her love for her husband seems to have faded in comparison.
You're a saint for actually having full vids in desc
Former paramedic here. I have ran into this problem a few times. One of the best things that can happen is the fire truck moving vehicles out of the way. They do not take the time to take care of the vehicle they are moving. A fire truck is very durable it has one heck of a front bumper. And I don't know what state this person or country this person is in but the two states where I was a paramedic any damage done to your vehicle because you refuse to move it you pay for. Any damage done to the fire truck because they asked you to move your vehicle and you didn't you pay for it. It is not cheap either.
My dad was 50 when I was born (mom was 32). It was very difficult for us to get along during my teen years - he knew everything as a senior citizen and I knew everything as a teen. But he was always there for me and when I hit my 20’s, he became my best friend. So it can be done, but it takes hard work from both the parents and the child. If OP’s husband isn’t on board before the kid is even born, he won’t magically get there after birth. And OP won’t just be facing single parenthood like everyone else, she’ll be doing so while also facing getting older, declining health and energy, etc. I wouldn’t recommend, but that’s just my opinion. I’ve never been pregnant, never wanted to be, and I’ve never felt a connection to something growing inside me.
Good on the fire truck lol!! in the UK with were roads are narrow and they park bumper to bumper on both sides with just enough space for a car to go down! Its told if the ambulance needs to go down they will not be asking people to move and any damage is tuff luck! Parking in a disabled spot is disgusting and on top of that blocking the drive! The should have towed them and crushed them! (while sometimes have to wonder how people ended up with a disabled cards, one never knows!!)
I'd leave him too.... Not sure I'd wait until he was healed either..
There's a million ways to relieve stress that don't include dipping your wick. Everytime something like that happens, "It was only once". Yeah. Sure.
If he cheated before getting married he's 100% going to do it again multiple times after marring her like it's obvious.
I have only one response to the final story, Adam Ruins Everything you can still have children after 35.
Adam combover (misspelling intended) is a bad reference however
Yes women can get pregnant after 35
for men there’s a less than 1% chance after having a vasectomy
It’s the vasectomy that really makes this story interesting
It’s so rare it’s more likely she had an affair than him fathering a child
That last one is sad
Being hateful will cost you so very much. Wasted time, loss of energy and a life. Money and peace of mind. 🤦🏽♀️ *Don’t be hateful. DON’T BE A KAREN*
Sounds like hubby didn’t go back for checkup to make sure his VS took. Being a single parent is better in some ways-you don’t always have to discuss or compromise on child raising. But, it can be hard being the only one. As long as you consult with your doc about having a child late in life and also consider genetic testing, and have supportive friends and family, you might enjoy being a mom.
The karen on the 1st story shud of had 1 yr of prison time
I think the medic did the right thing.
To the 40 year old mother to be. Children are a blessing and I know of many parents who had children at your age. Being a single parent is very difficult but if you have a strong support system you can do it! Baced on your previous disdain for children make sure that you are really in it for the long haul if you decide to become a mother.
What you said in your last sentence 💯
My sister had a baby at 42, she is going to be 11 in July. She was daughter number 4, her sisters are 11 and 14,14 yrs older then her. She isn’t a burden by any means.
This is a masterpiece channel
About story #2, didn't the mother in law say that the fiance felt horrible? If you're engaged, you should be able to forgive you future spouse of something that they feel horrible about....
But also, the fiance should have told her when it happened and the family shouldn't be secretive about stuff like that. Really a tight situation.
I’m writing this before listening to the third story, both my parents were over 40 when they had me, even older when they had my brother, they are the best parents that I could have ever asked for, they have the best marriage that I have ever seen, plus they have so much life experience so I get a much better perspective on things that my peers do not, however this is a decision that you and your husband have to make and I am simply stating how grateful I am for my parents
If someone tried to shut down a business that someone in my family runs, that person would get put in they’re place. For Karen’s that place is H E L L.
Me when I don’t look at the window:
No you're not a jerk you did your due diligence and she had to pay for breaking the rules
for the last story, the husband is the biggest jerk, and the wife should keep the baby I say this because I'm a 13 year old my my father is 62 which means he was 49 when I was born and the husband in this story is 50, and in my opinion you are never too old for anything
story 1: i would probably have done the same, since even if she maybe didn't see the date on the post and thought it was recent, you can't accuse someone of something you are doing too, expecially if the other person turns out to not be actually doing it
Actually I think you did the right thing, it's people like her that doesn't care about the covid that is spreading the disease, she deserves everything that was done to her, don't let her racist actions worry you, not everyone feels that way, that's her problem not yours
OP should still send the screen shot of the threat to the police even if they don't think there is a chance of her finding out who they are. That threat could be considered witness tampering and obstruction of justice. Those are serious additional charges she could face.
i love this channel its so comforting hearing these revenge stories
@@AmItheJerk 😻
@@AmItheJerk there is a channel that takes your audio called cakes 4 u
It makes me want to hate but also love this world
Never marry a cheater
"How do you do it Holmes"
The salon story. That's what I was thinking. That Karen was trying to take out the competition. Its kind of smart to try to do whatever to take out the competition. Don't get me wrong racist Karens do what racist Karens do.
When something isn't ethical, it shouldn't be done.
I’m not backing up the Karen, but how was she racist? That’s only mentioned in the start, with no proof or evedince, and wasn’t brought up.
4:50 the karen sounds like marge simpson but older
Wow that shut her down
My first thing would be to talk to the fiance and ask him about it. I would look into it more and reveal that his mom told me. This can set dominos to fall and reveal the truth
Firemen are like farmers and marines: they've got a job to do, screw anything and anyone in their way.
If there isnt a hole where they need one, they make it.
Wait, how would the father be in his 80s when the boy is 20 years of age if he’s in his 50s when the baby is born?
Because he is 49
20 years is 79 which is just almost 80
@@rangerjackson843 oh yeah, that’s right (just became confusing when he mentioned being in his 60s when the boy is 10 and being in his 80s when the boy is 20 (wait, why am I assuming the baby will be a boy)
@@rangerjackson843 49 + 20 = 69
math Hard ;)
@@rangerjackson843 uhhh..49 to 79 is 30 years not 20🤦♀️maths hard for you too apparently huh? Jesus Christ the worlds in trouble with this generation. Take a math refresher course k?
second story: shame on the whole family. shame on them all. throw the whole thing away and move on. you cant trust any of them, they all lied and conspired behind her back. they took advantage of her.
Turnabout is fair play
It seems that everything in the US is only about money, everyone only looks out for and cares about themselves. There doesn’t seem to be any solidarity among people and little community spirit. Everyone has to fend for themselves even when they are not able to do so.
I find it amazing that small gestures of generosity or helpfulness towards seem to get huge media attention in the US when in many other countries helping others and being generous is a natural thing.
Because the us is the third largest and largest non homogeneous country in the world. We tend to be individualistic and despite seeing blue hair people screaming at universities, we tend to wanna keep to ourselves. Government sadly doesn't follow along.
Damn how does this Guys get in so many weird situations
My parents didn't hesitate to have my little brother on their 40s and i see nothing wrong with it
Karen lives everywhere, she may be next door to you... stay updated on Karen.
Story 3
Honestly what do you expect ? If you refuse to move your vehicle for emergency vehicles/personal it will be moved in the most convenient way for them not you. Person should be glad that they were not arrested for endangering the life of the neighbor.
I don't think she is the jerk In the last one and neither is the husband, they have both set healthy boundaries that have been clearly made. There doesn't always have to be a bad guy, but sometimes two people just don't work out
It’s tough having an unwanted pregnancy but unfortunately for the OP and her husband accidents do happen and there is actually even an increased chance of multiple birth after 40 as your body essentially thinks it’s doing it’s last viable runs at conceiving and releases multiple eggs. Thing is she is pregnant now. They both had the sex, they both made the baby.
What happens after a woman finds out she is actually pregnant is a bit of a roll of the dice no one can control when it comes to the hormones and feelings that can come. Sometimes the dad is the one blown away and wanting the pregnancy and the mum is the one wanting to terminate - it’s an u known that can affect either party.
Realistically OP has no choice. The question isn’t whether she could cope having a baby the question is more could she cope terminating. If the answer is no, then regardless of her worries she only has one option.
Being a single parent is HARD and you do find yourself saying to yourself “what have I done??!!” at times, but if she terminata she’ll be left with the dubious luxury of only entertaining the thoughts she would have of what keeping the baby might have been like. That’ll only lead to grief over what she will imagine the baby would have been like.
If I hadn’t had a child, I would have been left with that grief. That’s lifelong. Whereas ha I g a child you have your ups and downs but it gets easier as they get older and are at school etc.
OP is stuck where the feelings are already there. Terminating won’t free her from those feelings.
I think it is a miracle and I would keep the child
The only thing I would counter is that you said they both had sex, as if they knew the risks. He made himself sterile. There should have been no risk.
@@drako8343 There is always risk. No method gives you 100% protection... Not even vasectomy!
Story 4 keep the baby because it’s gunna be worth the work trust me my mother is a one mom it’s worth it your kids will trust you and when ur husband is in need for money your kid might be rich so the father will ask you will have an amazing life and ur husband will suffer for trying to make you terminate
I was 48 when my (only) son was born. I had before 2 fosterchildren with my first wife.
My second (and last) wife was 24 when my son was born. I always wanted children and am glad with my son.
If OP can reconsile with her husband (being her pregnancy unexpected) I would advice her to go on with the pregnancy, as having a child (by itself) is very rewarding. Even if it jeopardizes the marriage (after 9 years my marriage failed). Luckily my ex and I arrived at an understanding and we became co-parents.
All in all I wouldn't want it to be otherwise.
Off topic..but I find it absolutely disgusting that you got with someone so young. You couldn’t possibly have ANYTHING in common. Just my opinion sorry. No need to come at me people…I don’t need or want the bs from any of you. There’s no way an almost 50 year old could have ANYTHING in common with a..pretty much..child of 24.
@@heathermarriette5415 so there’s no need for anyone to come at you like you just came at him? You must be super special to have that kind of internet immunity
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With the last story. To me what it sounds like is that the marriage was staggering on its way out before she became pregnant.
I am a little confused as to how she got pregnant in the first place? Doesn't a visectomy on his part mean that he is sort of... *infertile* ...?
@@Thanathos1991 yeah however I remember hearing that having one sometimes doesn't take.
At 66, the thought of having a 16 yo right now is more than frightening. Trust me, you may believe you are healthy enough for this, but you are not. Think of how their life would be and choose their happiness over yours.
@@TheDarkLink7 they also say you should get re tested periodically afterwards because they can reverse themselves sometimes
Final story maybe he dont wan to pay for someone else's child
Vasectomies aren’t 100% effective..I know a few women who got pregnant after their husbands got snipped. And yes the kids are the husbands
e, you’re not a “jerk”. If I came into a large amount of money the id say nothing to ANYONE’ including best or close friends.
Why does the Karen voice sound like Marge Simpson? I’m dying 😂
on the racist karen story i wonder what happend before last time karen saw a black person?
I have a question is my sister the jerk for making me talk a certain way?
So basically like early in the morning in my sister comes up and text says you better treat your girlfriend right and everything and know all the basics and she said that in public too so everybody could see in that group on discord and then after she said that two people were ganging up on me so I had two people lecturing me about relationship and how I should do this do that and all the basic relationship stuff and then the other person that was left for me that was not my sister put a picture of 25 ways to be the best boyfriend or something like that number one be patient number 2 so your best interest number three pay attention to Little things number 4 put your her needs first number five provide her emotional security number 6 make her laugh number 7 give her love at tough times. Like they acted like I was nothing like they didn't care about how I felt and it felt like I was just getting targeted like it's my first relationship you can expect me to know everything like you have to understand that I'm not going to do all the things you say and making me speak a different way it's like not cool I hate it how she said that in public like you could have private message me that but no to decided to freaking talking server where there's full of people are you nuts like bro she made me felt like I was just nothing like complete nothing like like trash like bro you got to get help other people feel too like some people will act a certain way because of their dad or Mom cuz some of us take the example from our moms and dads but I didn't really see my dad a lot cuz you work too late so I didn't really take them into the example from him so I come just looked up to my sisters but to just mean most of the time at that one day I just wanted to kill myself but I didn't care that happened I texted my friend and I told him everything he was very supportive he said she was in kinda a****** but you can expect a person to be perfect but other person but that's all I got so is my sister the jerk?
Don't ever believe a cheater, it's never just a one time thing, especially when their family are enabling them.
The longer you have a vasectomy the better chance you have of getting pregnant. Also 40 isn’t that old. My sister had a surprise baby at 42. She is now 10 and there is no big deal. I’m with the wife on this one. You can’t force someone to have an abortion.
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You can see Karen wow
When you're watching this on the August 20th
I like the fact that this dude has made a living reading posts from social media, (mostly reddit) saying his opinion and playing the most random games you can find
This isnt supposed to put hate on this guy. Its just funny to me
I think its dumb that He takes stuff like this Story from Pro revenge and put an "am I the jerk?" AT the end like OP asked but its just him asking this because who knows why
I can't believe she complained to the point of wanting someone else fined and then complains when it happens to her
For stiry three the firemen probablt just pushed the car. It is not really hard to push a car that is in neutral, and they probably put it in neutral, or the obnoxious neigbor was stupid enought to leave it in neutral.
If i was the op in story two i would break up with him but still help him recover maybe be on friendly terms it depends if hes changed
The last story, I hope she keeps the baby. He may not want to be a parent but it’s clear she does. It’s ok to let him go bc you’ll have a baby that will the mom unconditionally. This baby was no accident, this was meant to be. Maybe later on the father might come around once he sees the child, babies have a way to give you a look that’ll melt your heart. Anyways good luck
"the time the kid is 10 this guy will be 60 and obviously by the time the kid in his 20's, the dad will be in his 80's" Umm.... did we just skip 70's? Math is hard.
53rd comment lets go also I can’t believe people would do that.
What he says about parking in front of a fire hydrant is 100% true.
the fire service doesn't fuck around.they will do what they need to to get the job done.because as a firefighter literally every second counts. even that two seconds it takes to break your windows to get the hose in could be the difference between life and death for the people trapped in a burning building. They will not hesitate to do whatever it takes to save lives. and if that means damaging an expensive or rare car to get the fire hose plugged in then so be it. and they will have zero sympathy for the person who obstructed their job.
and frankly neither do I.
To the lady having the child it's better to be a single parent then have worry & regret about if you made the right choice or not to stay with him. Yes it will be hard & will have it's challenges but the love from your child is gonna make it all worth it❤️❤️. Go with your ♥ & you will make it through this!!
Who wants to bet that the Karen from the first story also collects red hats and conspiracy idiocies?
story 2, you should confront you're fiancee about this, if he truly loves you he will make his love for you well known to all & by none more than you, all i'm saying is if you move on to quickly, you may never find another person again....AND one last thing, who the FU-K thinks that marriage isn't stressful, even if you don't have the financial burden of a wedding you are still going into what may be the rest of you're life with another person & to the idiots who just can't understand that then you can't possibly be married or probably can't ever get married until you're SMALL, ATOMIC-SIZED BRAIN could understand
For the older Mother. I became a parent for the second time when I was almost 40. When my son was 5 I also ended up getting custody of my grandson, who was 3. I will be 54 this year and both boys are now in their teens. Only you can decide if the risk outweighs the benefits. I was told by almost everyone to have an abortion. Halfway through the pregnancy their were indicators that the child might have Downs Syndrome. For me, it didn't matter. I wanted him. End of story. All I can say is this. If you want the baby, then have the baby. Everything else is secondary. This is your decision. It will be tough at times, but you will find a way to deal with it. I've never regretted either of my boys. I've been tired for a long time. But they make even that enjoyable. If you do keep the baby, know that parenting knowledge doesn't come just because you are one. Get help. Get support. Get a therapist. And get lots of naps. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
I’m trying to imagine actually living in a state that closed businesses for the vid.
Literally no one closed where I live because everyone found a loophole.
Home Depot? Sells food at the cashier so considered essential.
Vets? Open.
Target? Open.
Walmart. Open.
Hotels. Open.
Restaurants, just sat outside.
Maybe salons closed but that’s about it.
This just goes to show that what a person accuses one person of is exactly what they/accuser do. Hopefully that came out right