I Crashed Hard and I Cried | Overcoming Fear & Anxiety on a Mountain bike

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  • @masterimbecile
    @masterimbecile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the precise reason I've decided to start MTB'ing. I'm probably the least confident person in my class, but I thought I'd use this as an opportunity to practice becoming more confident. Get battle scars, build skills, gain knowledge, increase confidence, repeat. We're in this together my dude!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heck ya! That is what it’s all about. Cheers!

    • @ItsKam
      @ItsKam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am the same way! I struggle with anxiety and ADHD and I feel that learning to conquer fear on the trails and killing the 'im not good enough to try this yet' mentality is gonna help me a lot. Good to see other people talking about MTB and anxiety.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsKam keeping fighting it! MTB is the best therapy you can find. 🤘🏼

  • @milktop1
    @milktop1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I commend your openness! You’ll only get stronger

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers man and thanks for the support!

  • @Daniel-vn6zr
    @Daniel-vn6zr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want you to remember that you are not alone and almost anyone would get frustrated and mad

  • @ChenzosWorld
    @ChenzosWorld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude that thumbnail is the best. Congrats on the progression

  • @Jetskir118
    @Jetskir118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bro, I have immense respect for you, keep it coming!

  • @mellatienza5708
    @mellatienza5708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Proud of you brother. You're an inspiration to a lot of us! Stay safe and keep biking!

  • @reginaspallone3416
    @reginaspallone3416 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found this vid. I also deal with anxiety - which comes out huge when mtb'ing. "Eyes up. Breathe. Pedal with purpose" (the last from another of your vids) - is now my mantra. Got me to clear a local trail feature recently that lived for too long inside my head. Thanks for this video!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  ปีที่แล้ว

      Great to hear that the video resonates with you and thank for you the support!

  • @DGK007
    @DGK007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All kinds of respect for you dude for sharing the mental struggles, You are not alone, but it's helpful when you share this. Keep up the awesome work bro!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the support man! 👏🏼🤘🏼

  • @GaryMaygeronline
    @GaryMaygeronline 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So timely kudos and thanks. Had my first Oscar Award "over the handlebar" moment recently onto a stone/mud landing zone here in the UK. It was a drop in my comfort zone but I totally mashed it up ! 2 feet or 10 I didnt want to do it again anytime soon. But I did with that feeling in your gut that you dont want. Appreciate the pointers will hit it again in a couple days with a smiley. Again appreciate the vid and pointers.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy to help man. We have all been there and if it’s within your limits, overcoming it will out weigh any mental damage that it has done. Be confident in your skills and ride on!

  • @ThaStonedGardner
    @ThaStonedGardner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel it man. Good shit.

  • @motodreddvlog7348
    @motodreddvlog7348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That what man should be conquer our fear untill we got it....salute brotha

  • @revelintheride2639
    @revelintheride2639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent advice and another awesome video!!

  • @TAC-hq3il
    @TAC-hq3il 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey man! I'm a beginner so pretty much everything still scares me and I find myself stiffening up quite often. I also deal with pretty bad anxiety and took up MTB because it helps me push my limits and deal with fear differently. I love that you were open and honest about your emotions - showing this type of vulnerability is a strength. Keep at it! I hope to be as good as you someday. Subscribed.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers man. Great to hear that you can relate and I appreciate the support! Mountain biking is the best therapy out there. Keeping riding and pushing yourself! 🤘🏼👊🏼

  • @FoCoFlowShow
    @FoCoFlowShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s OK to cry.... I shed a few tears watching Instant Family w Mark Wahlberg the other day 🥲 😃

  • @saitoyukio
    @saitoyukio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 45 years old, I started mtb to try to get better from a depression, I have a lot of anxiety too, and everything new for me, I'm overweight trying to lose weight, I hope I can walk a little like you do, I'll be happy, thank you for the videos, it has helped me a lot

  • @redbomberr4594
    @redbomberr4594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man, you are my hero 👊

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m no hero, but hope the video helps!

  • @tomacheteful
    @tomacheteful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was hard to watch but glad you didnt get really hurt man. I really identified with so much that you said.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All part of the game. Great to hear you can relate. 👊🏼

    • @tomacheteful
      @tomacheteful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MTBTravelReview I hope to overcome my own personal stuff and this has been a huge encouragement.

  • @morpheus6d9
    @morpheus6d9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥🔥, thanks for keeping it transparent with us

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheers man! Trying to keep it as raw as possible!

  • @ibanez2010
    @ibanez2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was a gnarly looking trail and you shredded it🤘

  • @onekgguy
    @onekgguy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was much more than a MTB video. Thank you.

  • @jayTmix89
    @jayTmix89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video man I do the same thing!!!! Its so hard sometimes when you get in your own head like that. And other times you dont have a care in the world. Thanx for the video man im glad im not the only one!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s why I shared it man! You are not alone. Glad I could help and keep at it brother!

  • @Guineson
    @Guineson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really goes to show how mental riding can be, i ate it hard a month a go where leading up to the drop i just wasn't feeling it and kinda knew i shouldn't have sent it, but i did 🤦 and I'm still hurting from it. Hopefully I'll get redemption this year if i can get past the mental block, Keep it up and enjoy the ride!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It happens to all of us man! You will get it when the time is right. Thanks for the support!

    • @Guineson
      @Guineson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MTBTravelReview i got a clip of it too, so if i post to social media I'll be sure to tag you in it so you can share the pain i felt as i had to sense the pain you felt 🤣

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Guineson if it’s not on camera it didn’t happen 🤣👌🏼

  • @gregbenson8094
    @gregbenson8094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a great video. Awesome job overcoming your fear and wow I’d buy 100 of whatever Willem is selling. Awesome words and great to see that encouragement.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! Definitely one of my most rewarding rides and videos and yes, Willem is very good at what he does! I am lucky to be able to ride with him and soak it all in.

  • @TomKennedyUSA
    @TomKennedyUSA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My own suggestion is pre-ride the trail, re-ride the trail, then free-ride the trail. For me, free-riding a trail 'blind' is danger. Anxiety is very REAL man, I can relate.

  • @cassysamel3914
    @cassysamel3914 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeeew! 🤙🏾 Good stuff man. This morning I crashed at a techy section after I was pushing myself to ride faster down a local trail. Was riding smooth and feeling good right before that. Was gonna head back to the car bc I lost my motivation, but was like F it...went back up for another lap. Nailed that section and felt good afterwards 🤘🏾

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes it just has to be done! Kudos to you for getting back up there and conquering that section! 🤘🏼

  • @BigMikeSRT
    @BigMikeSRT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean, this one is on the coach. You gotta walk your drops, you gotta see what going on before you launch your body off of something.
    It feels like Willem wanted to get back on his old horse and Jimmy ended up being the one that got bucked as a result.
    Stay safe and patient out there, great video as always!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I put zero blame on Willem. This trail was well within my riding abilities and I ride blind all of the time. Blind or not, this was my decision, not his.
      I do agree though, for bigger features and new trails it is always good practice to check before you send.
      Glad you enjoyed the video.

    • @BigMikeSRT
      @BigMikeSRT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MTBTravelReview Exactly, and obviously I'm being tongue in cheek. We are all making our own decisions out there.
      But I do know how I get when showing people a trail I love and just want to rip, always a good reminder to take it slow with new people and new features, especially as the weather starts to turn and new riders are popping up everywhere.
      Great vid, keep it up!

  • @allenkvextreme
    @allenkvextreme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    dude you're doing really good, based on your riding abilities you seem like anxiety is not even on your radar. keep your head up and stay a warrior!!!

  • @scottnormand5858
    @scottnormand5858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some days I kill it, other days I'm at square one. That's the part of riding at a "highish" level that puzzles me but keeps me coming back. I've seen many of your vids and you normally ride at a much higher level than that day. Brush off the dust and progress man🙏

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If it was easy it wouldn’t any fun right! Well said man. I appreciate the support.

  • @squirrelsmovingpictures
    @squirrelsmovingpictures 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good on ya man, you rocked it :)

  • @ljmimages5297
    @ljmimages5297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just want to say that your editing and overall video quality has gotten really good lately!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really appreciate it brother. I have to keep pushing and learning to keep up with your skills!

  • @MTBZenMaster
    @MTBZenMaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    its so amazing you let us see your process. Many of us can relate. Its why we enjoy riding, freeing us from our mental chatter. Helping us be present. . This must be your "clark kent" because i also know that you're an awesome amateur Enduro race champ. A race plate must be your version of a hero cape 😁💪🏽 great video.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheers brother! It’s great to see that my story resonates with so many and can help others. That always the goal! And yes, there is something about a timing chip that gives you super human powers. 🤣😁

  • @WildMeff
    @WildMeff 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Props to you for being transparent, sharing, and overcoming. I try not to put a ton of pressure on myself for progression but you're obviously at another level than I am. Sometimes i find it help to put down the MTB, go for a surf or a gravel or road ride or just ride some easy trails and have fun which is why I enjoy mtb in the first place. But that feeling of relief after you nail a feature or redemption is awesome!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate it man, and agreed, sometimes it’s good to take a step back and remember why we do this. Can’t be the feeling of redemption though! Just have to pick your battles.

  • @eskanderx1027
    @eskanderx1027 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great stuff!

  • @rpiian
    @rpiian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hah, this is exactly how I felt my first practice at Sugarbush. But you guys lifted me up, and I went out and cleaned my trouble spots, using the same techniques. Shred on buddy!

  • @pfoles2112
    @pfoles2112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cried too. Not because of this video, but because pine hills is getting destroyed 😭😭

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So I’ve heard... 😭

    • @pfoles2112
      @pfoles2112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MTBTravelReview it was my favorite spot on the south shore... have any recommendations? I know blue hills has some fun tech, and wompatuck is... there, but any other east coast mass spots you would recommend checking out?

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pfoles2112 Vietnam, Lynn woods, Harold Parker, Lowell Dracut, Bruce & Tom’s. There is stuff everywhere. Watch the MA playlist on my channel for videos.

    • @pfoles2112
      @pfoles2112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MTBTravelReview I’ll give it a look! Thanks for helping a new(er) rider out 🤟

    • @bobsmart567
      @bobsmart567 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s up with pine hills?

  • @DirtyPandaMTB
    @DirtyPandaMTB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Top video man! Kudos to you on speaking about your anxiety too bro. Good job on the drop!! You got good friends and good company to get you through life!! 🤙🤙

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers man! Wasn't easy to click post on this one, but it's awesome to see that it's helping others who have the same issues. The mountain bike community is filled with some awesome people! Keep riding!

  • @ijustchockedonmycheerios2959
    @ijustchockedonmycheerios2959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video man just subscribed

  • @michaelrogers9809
    @michaelrogers9809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A hard crash definitely shakes me! I don't think you should beat yourself up over it. You just need a bit to soak it all in.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn’t agree more, but that’s the funny thing about anxiety... nothing is easy. That’s why I keep pushing!

  • @bayani1977
    @bayani1977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's big drop but nice you bounce there

  • @bikesnboards91
    @bikesnboards91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah dude I've seen you send stuff like one love at Bolton, this stuff is a cake walk for you! I feel the same anxiety you get, just gotta keep pushing through it!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s wild how you can go so big one day, but the anxiety hits and you suddenly forget it all. Appreciate the support and totally agree man!

  • @oscarsandoval843
    @oscarsandoval843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep at it man!! Great job!!

  • @KolarStrengthClub
    @KolarStrengthClub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💪💪

  • @Projectnortheast
    @Projectnortheast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like Willem said man, half the battle is telling yourself, your good at bikes, you know how to do this. But, there are also those days on the bike that you gotta just not hit the feature. Progression and confidence come from babysteps not giant drops. I was scared outta my brains my first Enduro race in 2013

  • @seattlevkk
    @seattlevkk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can totally relate and great to see a video talking about fear and anxiety. Thanks for posting. Also were your rebound settings not dialed in either for that drop? Looked like you bounced.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks man and glad you can relate. Not many people talk about it, but many deal with it. My rebound is actually super low, just really bad form. Extended way out of my attack position, so it was more of a body bounce than the suspension.

  • @useport80
    @useport80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    must be awesome to ride with a friend thats a coach that can help you.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are only as good as the people you surround yourself with. Willem is one of the good ones.

  • @markhamlewis4929
    @markhamlewis4929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice one 👍

  • @South_Van_Ilse_MTB
    @South_Van_Ilse_MTB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey man, very relatable content! Subscribed! I'm kinda new and doing my best. You're videos look better than mine, good stuff!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers man! I appreciate the support Keep it!

  • @pikymalvo
    @pikymalvo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This does not apply very much for me, every time i crash i get injured 😂 so there is no way that i can hit the same thing straight after the crash, Usually is a broken bone so i have to wait like 4 (if i’m lucky) weeks to be back riding. This have made me feel very nervous and uncomfortable in the last year. I cannot be always broken, I need to work etc so to fix this i’m trying to follow some “how to crash techniques” and i hope that this can help my confidence

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that man. I highly recommend working with someone on your technique if you can. You shouldn’t be focusing on how to crash, but making sure you skills improve so you can focus on not crashing. Best of luck and thanks for the support.

  • @TomKennedyUSA
    @TomKennedyUSA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My own suggestion is pre-ride the trail, re-ride the trail, then free-ride the trail. For me, free-riding a trail 'blind' is danger.

  • @wiljaq2773
    @wiljaq2773 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should NEVER do anything that you’re not ready for. Guys can lead you off a cliff.

  • @austinnoll2869
    @austinnoll2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I suggest what your friend should've the 1st time you dropped... which is to do a couple roll ups to the drop and invision yourself doing it and choose your lines. Ride up to it until you feel comfortable then send send that shit. Confidence is key and you will be more confident if you take your time doing it for the first time. He said it was good that you didn't stop and just went for it. I disagree

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Normally, you are correct. You should always look before you leap, however, it was my decision to ride this blind as I knew Willem wouldn’t send me off of anything outside of my abilities. I’d do it the same way if I had to do it over. Always ride within your limits and at your own risk, but to be clear, Willem is by no means at fault here.

    • @austinnoll2869
      @austinnoll2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right on. If it was your decision. Happy riding!

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@austinnoll2869 cheers man!

  • @t.o.f.t.s.
    @t.o.f.t.s. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Along with proper technique. Sing a song when going over a feature. The point being its hard to think "OMG, this feature is so big"...You're to busy singing the words. I'm partial to anything Van Halen.😁...but I'm old.

    • @MTBTravelReview
      @MTBTravelReview  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha love it! It’s true though, if you think less and let your body do what you trained it to, you will always have better results on a bike. That’s the constant fight against my anxiety for me. It has a very loud voice and I can only turn the music up so far. 😬