DAT IMMIGRANT PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED | Preach shows us Ethiopian Dances 😂😂

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  • @cf9844
    @cf9844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    Anyone else feel like we're leaning on the "Hyah hyah hyah hyah" a bit much? It's annoying. I get that's the point but it's every video and it's annoying.

    • @AbaNPreach
      @AbaNPreach  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3234

      Hyuck hyuck hyuck hyuck

    • @cf9844
      @cf9844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1526

      My bad, "hyuck hyuck hyuck"

    • @pelosuelto70
      @pelosuelto70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +847

      HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK!

    • @seniorsaddict2318
      @seniorsaddict2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +707

      HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK

    • @payso559
      @payso559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +592

      Hyuck ! Hyuck ! Hyuck!

  • @lovetolovelifeforlif
    @lovetolovelifeforlif 2 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    As a habesha, Preach is invited to all the functions. He’s one of us now😂👏🏾🇪🇹🇪🇷

  • @ChantelBMason
    @ChantelBMason 2 ปีที่แล้ว +923

    I told my grandmother I finished my masters and she responded with “ why don’t you hurry up and get married so I can die already “ 😒 I got married two years later. She died within months of my wedding. Gotta love immigrant families ❤️

    • @DearStephanieX
      @DearStephanieX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Damn girl 😔 that’s sad… but very immigrant-esque

    • @ChantelBMason
      @ChantelBMason 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      @@DearStephanieX you telling me. I was the last to marry so I got all the smoke

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow!

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      good job.

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@Fivetimesthree Many elderly know when they are going to die and hold out for certain family events.

  • @bdquest9
    @bdquest9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    This is so true of African and Caribbean parents. Soon as you bring someone over to a family function, they planning your wedding.

    • @gandomlee
      @gandomlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      My parents don't even like having boyfriend or girlfriend over unless you plan on getting married not dating.

    • @stevenbrown9212
      @stevenbrown9212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Right. Why bring around someone you not serious about

    • @ethaningoa7461
      @ethaningoa7461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@stevenbrown9212 maybe to see if they fit with your fam? Why get serious with someone that won’t fit?

    • @Abu-Caliber
      @Abu-Caliber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hhhhhh you should see arab families bro

    • @HappyDragneels_page
      @HappyDragneels_page 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@stevenbrown9212 so you decide if theyre "the one" or not before they even meet your family, yeah thats not insane lmao.

  • @branandknux
    @branandknux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Yo preach is killing me with the "AYYYYEEE ITS LIT" while he's dancing

    • @najm6483
      @najm6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s what Oromo songs and dances do to u! 🤣

    • @Nuka0420
      @Nuka0420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is a fucking dork and I love it!

  • @chillpill8607
    @chillpill8607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    I don't remember where I heard this from but it's stuck with me "Don't let good memories keep you in a bad place".

    • @pandarocka6615
      @pandarocka6615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Me: *Screenshot*

    • @bridgettedenise
      @bridgettedenise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Double screenshot

    • @mgarcia
      @mgarcia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What does that even means? Sorry English is not my first language or maybe I'm not that smart xD.

    • @SouthSideOdaiba
      @SouthSideOdaiba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@mgarcia I think it means not to get caught up in the past. If a relationship turned sour don’t stick around just because you have history together. The past is done move on for your own sake.

    • @tiffanykim2773
      @tiffanykim2773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truth

  • @joosejoose26
    @joosejoose26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1529

    Preach's laugh is something else, just brings joy to my day 😂

    • @pewped
      @pewped 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Always is 🤣 always does 💖

    • @u.s.atoday152
      @u.s.atoday152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      th-cam.com/video/jRMX-nIDsGY/w-d-xo.html unbelievable

    • @liliarosales1961
      @liliarosales1961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes! The laugh 🙌🏽❤️

    • @laurasmith7196
      @laurasmith7196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep it’s always the highlight for me hearing him laugh

    • @drums4metal
      @drums4metal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's contagious, gets me every time 😂😂😂😂

  • @alexutzcel
    @alexutzcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    try being over 30, female, not married, eastern European.... you NEVER hear the end of it! relatives, neighbours, aquaintaces, people you barely know, the shopkeeper, the bank teller, the doctor, the priest!

    • @crackhead4540
      @crackhead4540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Tell them to mind their own business

    • @aloowalia2849
      @aloowalia2849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@crackhead4540 yeah bruh🙄

    • @mark1h2023
      @mark1h2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yuuup

    • @z.k.7330
      @z.k.7330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I can tell you the nagging starts around the age of 24, personal experience lol

    • @aloowalia2849
      @aloowalia2849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@z.k.7330 😭👍👍

  • @celinaherrera5460
    @celinaherrera5460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    The audio, the edits, the zoom in & outs, the added clips (referring to what's discussed and the ones for unfamiliar topics), the upgraded crisp definition, does not go unnoticed. Keep up ever evolving, fellas!

  • @ladydimitrescu4746
    @ladydimitrescu4746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +846

    Whenever the video starts with Preach laughing, you know its gonna be good.

  • @NotAHooper3
    @NotAHooper3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1192

    I didn’t know it was physically possible to move your neck that fast 😭😭

    • @zamo1087
      @zamo1087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      Ikr! Sis is definitely stretching that neck daily😭

    • @itzizzle
      @itzizzle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Lol metal head aren't even close 😂😂😂

    • @tina4178
      @tina4178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I know right, oh my goodness!

    • @ghostdrew4887
      @ghostdrew4887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      The hair makes a good counter balance so she can.

    • @KM-yr3il
      @KM-yr3il 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      She needs to visit the chiropractor after all that..

  • @DesperationLasts
    @DesperationLasts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    My husband and I have been together 10 years. People make comments about how in love we are after so long. While cheating hasn't been a problem, we have been through the sh*t and it's been a rough road. But we're committed to growing and changing together and the hardships that entails. It's like social media, most of the time you only see surface level.

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true about social media.

    • @yoyo9winner
      @yoyo9winner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May u have a long and prosperous marriage inshallah

  • @anonnone8196
    @anonnone8196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Ethiopian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world.

    • @WAVYU5
      @WAVYU5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes

    • @humanoidfrog4645
      @humanoidfrog4645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Onna Sweet Ginger Rose i feel so dumb for not understanding what you mean with AA and DSP

    • @thezu9250
      @thezu9250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Onna Sweet Ginger Rose OMG. What a horribly racist comment.

    • @thezu9250
      @thezu9250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@humanoidfrog4645 Her whole channel is about comparing Black people to animals and saying how ugly their are… as a mixed person. She advocates for them to be breeded out with mixed marriages.

    • @rorisang88
      @rorisang88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed they are gorgeous!

  • @pheenobarbidoll2016
    @pheenobarbidoll2016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    I love being married. Could not have cared less about a wedding. Court house wedding FTW. We went to a bakery and had cake after.

    • @pleasedontlookforme8036
      @pleasedontlookforme8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      That is so sweet!! I wish I could do that but a lavish wedding is a cultural expectation in my family because our people generally have always had lavish weddings 😔 your parents will get pissed af and parents are important

    • @gandomlee
      @gandomlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Got married at my home church by the pastor who baptized me and he did our marriage counseling, and for free. only immediately family allowed to come cuz restrictions on covid. Cost us nothing for food and entertainment cuz family. supplies everything. What we spent on ourselves for the wedding we end up getting it all back and more in cash for the family. So simple and fun. Wife was very happy it was like that.

    • @gandomlee
      @gandomlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@pleasedontlookforme8036 hopefully they paid for it.

    • @thesjwkillerdanielle4030
      @thesjwkillerdanielle4030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Had thing in backyard under the stars with only parents and 2 very good friends. Had dinner and drinks after in our house. No government, no honeymoon, no stress, and We didn’t even do rings. You know though no debt. 11y going on 12y and happier every year. I think best decision I ever made.

    • @PhoenieFroe313
      @PhoenieFroe313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Got married at a registry office and went out for Chinese after.. my wedding dress only cost £100… I only care about the marriage tbh!

  • @abenezerabera6737
    @abenezerabera6737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I’m an Ethiopian Oromo, and I’d give Preach an A+

    • @captainsisko7629
      @captainsisko7629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want a ethiopian wife !!!!!!

    • @najm6483
      @najm6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Can’t lie he put some of us Oromo girls to shame 💀🤣

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yayyyy

    • @soromegetachew1868
      @soromegetachew1868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Oromo and I'm still trying to learn that head dance 😅 it's so difficult 😬

    • @soromegetachew1868
      @soromegetachew1868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@najm6483 Hahah shame??? I love all our different dances so not really 😁

  • @duke7794
    @duke7794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Thank Christ we moved on from F&F. This has brought joy to my morning esp how accurate Preach's dance was, had me googling that dance again. Welcome back, guys.

  • @bartrailblockett7458
    @bartrailblockett7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    We definitely need a Aba&Preach backstory. How did y’all grow up? We need a biopic

    • @thegreatgoddess9149
      @thegreatgoddess9149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!

    • @youtubestudiosucks978
      @youtubestudiosucks978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      They started as babies, grewup, and then they got older and are now full fledged adults

    • @bartrailblockett7458
      @bartrailblockett7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@youtubestudiosucks978 aren’t you the bright crayon 🖍

    • @youtubestudiosucks978
      @youtubestudiosucks978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bartrailblockett7458 no, my picture is a distorted black and white of my livingroom. I'm going for the creepy ghost on a shitty camera look

    • @itsmegiles
      @itsmegiles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They both have interviews on No Jumper.

  • @theothesir
    @theothesir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    If it ain't pressure to get married, it's pressure to have kids.
    Especially if you're entering your 30s without either thing.

    • @SuperOwned12
      @SuperOwned12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I don’t see any lies here just 💯 facts

    • @joeycognition8824
      @joeycognition8824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@weber1494 oh shut up with that noise already lol

    • @theothesir
      @theothesir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@weber1494 Your reality, not mine.
      Beat it.

    • @goodguy...badrep.
      @goodguy...badrep. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@weber1494 You all would rather carry than marry. Accountability.

    • @petereyegheleme1506
      @petereyegheleme1506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@weber1494 Africans are black men and we take marriage very seriously infact we love marriage sooo much we take multiple wives!!!!

  • @Rid4Z
    @Rid4Z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    Can we appreciate for a moment Ghen's singing? When that outro comes in, the moment just hits different

    • @trivanaburris2854
      @trivanaburris2854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Its so peaceful. I love it

    • @Afrimusican
      @Afrimusican 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The best I ever heard, best I ever heard, best I ever heard..🎙🎶

    • @ayay3428
      @ayay3428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don conectada

    • @NotAdultingToday
      @NotAdultingToday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I need to look her up on spotify. Her voice is so soothing and lovely.

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is beautiful

  • @i._.O
    @i._.O 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Abba's face while Preach's showing his best Ethiopian dance moves .....🤣😂

  • @blue...
    @blue... 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I want more stories about Aba's mother. With accent again possibly :)

  • @iamloved8985
    @iamloved8985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    Why do I love these guys??? They are great separately and even better together! I feel as if I am watching my brothers during a holiday dinner. Thank you for this, especially during a pandemic.

    • @whitneyj9513
      @whitneyj9513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Saaame, aside it's my cousins my family does nothing but roast and prank each other lol

    • @DearStephanieX
      @DearStephanieX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel the same 🤩

    • @Tam75Tam
      @Tam75Tam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts. They troll each other like family. 🖤

    • @soul7touch
      @soul7touch 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’re great man… and they have good chemistry

  • @Zezeon
    @Zezeon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +726

    LMAO Preach is right, Oromo weddings and dances are like that. You did really well Preach LOL

    • @shapirasa9472
      @shapirasa9472 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/jRMX-nIDsGY/w-d-xo.html🤣

    • @KayJay_
      @KayJay_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😂😂😂😂😂 he killed the shaggoyye lmao

    • @NoRockinMansLand
      @NoRockinMansLand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro is that pfp from Durarara?

    • @bobbyshewan4229
      @bobbyshewan4229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As an Amhara I feel like I’m missing out a bit

    • @haileyreign971
      @haileyreign971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got a headache just watching Preach 🤣

  • @pouchika5672
    @pouchika5672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My extended family members started asking me about marriage when I was 16. Now when they do, I just send them picture of myself and tell them to go find me a husband. It occupies them, and since I'm considered the "artist" of the family; also, a polite way of calling me the weirdo. They're having a hard time matching me. I also told them, that I'm putting my eggs in the fridge, so they don't ask me about kids anymore.

    • @pouchika5672
      @pouchika5672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Rizu's Best!🔥 Honestly, it's so important. I have cousins who got married to losers or incompatible partners, just because of the pressure.

  • @Ryuk84
    @Ryuk84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Man I want a friendship like these two guys.

    • @LaneWalkerz
      @LaneWalkerz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol they say they're not friends

    • @MILKWynn
      @MILKWynn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Friendship is both ways. You have to put in effort in any relationship to keep them. Friendship as well

  • @joshuabertrand9277
    @joshuabertrand9277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    The transition from just child to older child and friend is real. My family is Jamaican, and I don't ever remember the Patois being so strong and vulgar as a child. "Bomboclaat in Kingston Town" is my book. Haha!

    • @darrellmoore4615
      @darrellmoore4615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts that comes when they see you are an adult and are being sufficient. When they see the maturity in you, it comes out.

  • @tessfromtheu.s256
    @tessfromtheu.s256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    There is darkness to any human relationship... I think people overly romanticize romantic relationships, they are like all the other relationships in your life a labor of love and that's not easy and at times heartbreaking

    • @tessfromtheu.s256
      @tessfromtheu.s256 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @I care thank you :) listening now

    • @kchikwete
      @kchikwete 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hedgehog Dilema: we want closeness but the closer we get to each other the more we hurt each other

    • @tessfromtheu.s256
      @tessfromtheu.s256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@kchikwete Mya Angelou says there is a part of you, you must never share, I believe that is the way, a part of you is just for yourself. So when a partner breaks your heart that part of you is safe and you can rebuild. Never give all of yourself to anyone

    • @jollygoodgordon5580
      @jollygoodgordon5580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think something we never get thought about romantic relationship outside marriage, is that just like marriage, those relationships are also about duty. Loving each other in a serving/ sacrificial way, you serve each other, you give and you receive.

    • @FelixMuk
      @FelixMuk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tessfromtheu.s256 Patrice O'Neal says you should only love someone up to 90%. Essentially the same thing but less poetic.

  • @smellmyfingification
    @smellmyfingification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "If you were a high value man you wouldn't be doing anything wrong, you'd just be exercising your options 😒🙄."
    I love how yall are able to separate the wheat from the chaff instead of blindly subscribing to any and everything someone you deem to be a "guru" is saying.
    Big ups.

    • @thegamingkitchen8429
      @thegamingkitchen8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      People are starting to realize that these" manosphere" people on here are full of shit. Not naming any names.

    • @AJweathersby
      @AJweathersby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They’re taking shots at F&F over a DM
      Myron sent an IG model calling himself a “High value man”. They’re cool with Kevin Samuels. Did an interview with him and 2 videos on him.

    • @thegamingkitchen8429
      @thegamingkitchen8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AJweathersby you know who originally said all that shit right? Lol hint* wasnt f&f

    • @AJweathersby
      @AJweathersby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thegamingkitchen8429 What Kevin said is true. And there are plenty examples to back it up. I’m a pro kickboxer. It’s true that trained fighters are more likely to win a bar brawl than a untrained person. That doesn’t mean an amateur fighter with less than a few months of training and a few wins under his belt won’t get stomped out in the club by the local bouncer right after yelling “I’m a trained fighter!”.

    • @thegamingkitchen8429
      @thegamingkitchen8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AJweathersby listen, I have no issue KS. IDk the dude anyways. Although I agree with some of his stuff other shit is double talk.

  • @kennyabose960
    @kennyabose960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Being Oromo, I can confirm that Preaches dance is accurate😂😂😂

  • @kifleyohannes344
    @kifleyohannes344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    as an Ethiopian, preach's dance was on point lol

  • @pmorton7960
    @pmorton7960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The stuff you're mom tells you after the age of 32. That's what starts white hairs...real talk...

  • @matrixRule127
    @matrixRule127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    That's how healthy adults behave, they are decisive like her, and if they make mistake, they own upto it like him. They will find their peace, with each other or with someone else.

  • @kathyjarvis1745
    @kathyjarvis1745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    That fellows “ cheating” was his self issued “ permission slip” to exit the relationship.
    It was a maneuver ( maybe subconscious or conscious ) to make it happen.

  • @romaliwhispers
    @romaliwhispers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Weird to see how many people get into relationships without knowing what those are. They don't even know who they are themselves.

    • @CurlyFries120
      @CurlyFries120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're cute 😍☺️

    • @MadMaxJuggernaut
      @MadMaxJuggernaut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeha totally agree, I thought I did and I tried so hard to get into one. Then when a girl finally gave me the chance after a week I was like "fuck this is too much texting back and forth and hanging out with a person" had to cut it off. After hanging out 3 days in a row with the girl and being on 3 hours of sleep every day because I can't sleep well it became more of a chore to be in the relationship.

    • @MontamZoo
      @MontamZoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CurlyFries120 Thanks✊🏾

    • @1bossofbosses
      @1bossofbosses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MadMaxJuggernaut Exactly not worth the time just get the money. Value your time buddy.

  • @Octayvia21
    @Octayvia21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    My family wouldn't even let me date in high school, then my sophmore yr of college they started asking me why I had no man. Mfer's...I'm repressed🥲. Asking me bout a boyfriend and kids every damn Holiday😩.

    • @joosejoose26
      @joosejoose26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Lmao the audacity of them right

    • @Octayvia21
      @Octayvia21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@joosejoose26 My thoughts exactly😅

    • @rediettadesse2828
      @rediettadesse2828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same. my family moved us away from people of our own race and culture because they were scared of gangs. but didn't allow us to make any friends and when we did never supported our friendships because they were too bitch to learn a new language. and then expect us to fulfill their traditional expectations. they're lucky i don't cuss them tf out for their stupidity

    • @PrinnyOfodoks
      @PrinnyOfodoks ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s an African parent thing 😢. I went from “no bfs in my house “ to “ so how is your boyfriend” in less than 3 months

  • @mitchellthorp5711
    @mitchellthorp5711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    A snort every once in a while is cute and genuine. Snorting all the time is a turn off.

  • @memeicoxide7846
    @memeicoxide7846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ኧረ Aba ይመችህ preach ሀበሻ ሆነ አደል እንዴ!! Watching from back home we love you guys!! Teamግንባር 🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇷🇪🇷🇪🇷

  • @amoiravioli
    @amoiravioli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    "I WHIP MY HAIR BACK AND FORTH, I WHIP MY HAIR BACK AND FORTH"🤣 OMG! Our man Preach is always on point, making them song references and shit. And I ain't even mad, y'all. 🤣🤣💜💜💜

  • @NZuzo-zq3kg
    @NZuzo-zq3kg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Those examples of how men and women betray people's trust keeps reminding me how men and women go from caring to calous and cold almost instantly as each party can easily disregard the vulnerability asked from the other person while setting the expectation that they receive it.

  • @B_B-420
    @B_B-420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    A friend of mine married the daughter of a co-worker from Kenya, for $10k. His girlfriend didn't even care because of the $10k, and the daughter was super nice, just couldn't get a visa. They were "married" for like 5 years, passed all the immigration check ups that "make sure" you're not faking the marriage to get someone citizenship... Then got divorced, after almost 5 years to the day. They're still friends, and the daughter is loving her citizenship. Best $10k their family ever spent.

    • @YesiVDC
      @YesiVDC 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn, the family lucked out. They only paid 10k?

  • @michelleforte8669
    @michelleforte8669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I miss my Ethiopian dances! Happy upcoming New Year's next month to Ethiopian community in the Americas!🇪🇹

  • @zan6585
    @zan6585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    That dance looks like an attempt to severe your neck from your head using only momentum, I love it.

  • @88Marlo
    @88Marlo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    "Meaningless experience" yet still important enough for him to put his marriage on the line for it. I never understood that statement. So a cheater is willing to lose their partner for a "meaningless" experience. That kinda makes it even worse doesn't it? To throw something away for nothing....

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Exactly. People who cheat risk their personal morals, their marriage, their image in the eyes of their kids, their families for a piece of ass.

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Agreed. There is nothing meaningless about it. But they don't plan on being caught and if they are caught they plan to deflect, blame, lie, etc. Ultimately they figure that their partner is dumb enough to either believe them or to put up with continual deceit and betrayals. And unfortunately they're often right

    • @omega1231
      @omega1231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Maybe he wasn't meant for monogamy, who knows? Why people do things can probably be turned into a few hundred page dissertation, but it seems like the only reason you don't understand the statement, is because you're judging their actions based on your own standards, not everyone plays by your rules, a meaningless experience can certainly have consequences, and just because a meaningless experience has consequences doesn't mean it suddenly has meaning.
      Like just because you got thrown of the themepark ride, and got decapitated, doesn't suddenly mean that the themepark ride had more meaning to it than you wanting to take a themepark ride.
      We shouldn't sit here and tell him what he should feel, or should've felt in the moment. That's some egocentric shit.

    • @FBBReppCloud
      @FBBReppCloud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@omega1231 youre saying a whole lot of fake deep nonsense, you're definitely someone no one should spend any energy on in relationships because of the whole "your morals aren't the same as mine" nonsense, you KNOW most people play by the same morals, the ones that don't are sociopaths/psychopaths

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@FBBReppCloud exactly. It has meaning in the context of the relationship because being cheated on holds meaning for the partner. I could see that guy saying "well just because you think it's wrong if i kill you, doesnt mean i think it's wrong, don't be egocentric and tell me how to feel", as he's killing person. He is egocentric one, not considering morals and values of the other/partner

  • @KP-us5pq
    @KP-us5pq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think all great marriages have darkness and that’s what makes them great. You can keep choosing to love someone even through the bad stuff. But definitely pick the right person to walk through life with and chances are you can get through it all.

  • @STyler-lf2tv
    @STyler-lf2tv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’d seriously love to write a scripted series starting Aba & Preach as fictionalized versions of themselves.

    • @akiadima3814
      @akiadima3814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's fanfiction 😂 go for it

  • @meganreid7347
    @meganreid7347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    Popular Opinion: Every single one of y'all agrees Aba laughing so hard made our day🤭:

    • @michal31131
      @michal31131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yess

    • @medoma1000
      @medoma1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      don't you mean Preach?

    • @michal31131
      @michal31131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@medoma1000
      TBH they're both really funny

    • @medoma1000
      @medoma1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@michal31131 they are both very funny! I love them! But Preach got the sick laugh

    • @michal31131
      @michal31131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@medoma1000
      True

  • @egdapo
    @egdapo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    This is one of y'alls best videos I've seen in a while. I kept rewinding back some parts. Great work fellas!

    • @hlawulekanimangwani
      @hlawulekanimangwani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How is this comment 2 days old when the video just went up 7 minutes ago?

    • @SuperOwned12
      @SuperOwned12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hlawulekanimangwani exactly what I want to know

    • @gokulsiriah3642
      @gokulsiriah3642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hlawulekanimangwani Patreon

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      @u.s.atoday152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @w00tastic
    @w00tastic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    In many ways, I think cheating when it doesn't mean anything is a whole lot worse than cheating when feelings are involved. To ruin something important for something unimportant is all kinds of messed up.

    • @kamaraalya7607
      @kamaraalya7607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Dude that's a great point.. not many people see it that way

    • @w00tastic
      @w00tastic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@kamaraalya7607 Thanks. It really baffles me, too. If someone's gonna run the risk of ruining something that matters, at least make why it's being done matter as much as what's being risked.
      Alas, most people fail at logic.

    • @izayoisakamaki136
      @izayoisakamaki136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I mean.. someone that cheats on his partner doesn't care about his relationship. So in their eyes it is unimportant.

    • @w00tastic
      @w00tastic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@izayoisakamaki136 I don't think that's always true.
      There are varying degrees of caring. If X matters more, that doesn't necessarily mean that Y isn't important. It means that Y isn't important enough to forego X.
      There are also other factors that can result in exceptions to the rule, but that's a whole other conversation involving brain functionality, composition, and biochemistry.
      Overall, though, I think the majority of people cheat because they're some combination of selfish, insensitive, cowardly, and feeling entitled.
      I say this as someone who was cheated on and gaslit for months by an ex who viewed me as little more than a meal ticket.

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      cheating is cheating. just because you came up with this elaborate excuse doesn't make one better or worse than the other. you broke a trust and took the easy path

  • @Artbyoscar
    @Artbyoscar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "If he were a high value man it would just be exercising options and you would have never done anything that's wrong" -Aba 😂🤣

  • @yvonnet6399
    @yvonnet6399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Good for her she’s being honest with him and she is protecting her self worth. Her mother may have stayed with her father but that was her mother’s choice. Each person makes their own decision of staying or not in a marriage after an affair.

    • @espectrodelayautja6320
      @espectrodelayautja6320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Self worth, that means what to who, the self?

    • @tshilidzi1046
      @tshilidzi1046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👏🏾👏🏾exactly

    • @Trendnet18
      @Trendnet18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      unfortunately not everyone gets that choice. A lot will make you force you to get married weather you like it or not.

    • @jollofrice914
      @jollofrice914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lol, she’s just stringing the dude along now for comfort sex. She said she doesn’t like dating apps so now she’s giving this man a sliver of hope so she can keep him around while she knows she doesn’t want to pursue anything further. Dude looks like a puppy tryna please her while she’s on eBay looking for a cat. Man’s just too stupid to realize his attempts at winning her back are meaningless. She won’t trust him again, just likes the feeling of knowing he’ll always be there just in case

    • @The1980Philip
      @The1980Philip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jollofrice914 Depends. I think his odds are 49.5/49.5/1 It will most likely go one of two ways.
      She can indeed choose to be alone, or she can hit the wall and start being deafened by that ticking biologiocal clock, at which she will succumb to the biological drive (and given that she's Asian, likely also social pressure).
      There is a hypothetical third choice, but let's be brutally honest. Even in her prime she was, appearance-wise, barely a passing mark. To me the remark about the quality of sex suggests that she may have experienced a few higher ranked and physically more impressive men who were in an Asian phase and looking to quickly bust a nut without putting in too much effort to woo their target, but the odds that she'll replace the cheater with a better option are slim.
      In short, I don't think his chances are all that bad. Effectively 50/50. He can improve it to 70/30 by actually finding someone else and treating her right while keeping a friendly relationship with the ex. For some mystifying reason women tend to be more attracted to unavailable men. That's from both personal experience and second hand accounts.

  • @Forevermonet
    @Forevermonet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    You definitely made points about people putting their parents marriages on a pedestal when they don't know the truth. I fortunately watched my parents as a child and knew something was wrong when I was in the third grade and asked why they didn't just get a divorce. I know, cheating isn't acceptable for me in a relationship and when they do that I'm done. I let go before it ever gets to the marriage part. I also understand that marriage is not a bed of roses that people imagine it to be and there are hardships that happened, that you have to work through.
    I hate the pressure men get to be married early when it's not right for them. I know I hate people assuming something is wrong with me, because I chose to not be married/have children early. People choose different paths, that are right for them.

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      facts. that ring can become a nose if its from the wrong man. Marriage is not a badge of honor, peace is.

    • @thorfinnoars1443
      @thorfinnoars1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@weber1494 actually.... marriage us a badge of honor in th e sense that being in a healthy marriage is one of the best things humans can experience, there are alot of unhealthy marriages today hence the 63% divorce rate, so even ending up in a healthy relationship is somthing to be proud of because we all know they worked hard to keep it healthy because it's not by luck, its about hard work and love. If you didnt like the other person or vice versa as much, neither would care to put in the work to keep the relationship

    • @floridashottest2538
      @floridashottest2538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@thorfinnoars1443 *Drops Mic*
      I am married & I definitely get where the OP is coming from, but THIS.
      People look at marriage as a scary thing and would rather have casual sèx with randoms, risk STDs/children out of wedlock than have a lifetime partner because of trust issues. Marriage is such a beautiful thing. The thing is: some fools don't take it serious anymore so I don't blame marriage skepticism.
      However, There is such beauty with growing and accomplishing things in life with your marriage partner. I am married and wouldn't have it any other way. Every day is paradise & I wish that joy on other people as well.

    • @adrianna5378
      @adrianna5378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Marriage can be a beautiful but I know it requires work. Especially when I had to deal with me seeing my parents marriage. I know they should have tried harder or just gotten a divorce. It was a mess.

    • @NotAdultingToday
      @NotAdultingToday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Growing up, I always knew my parent's marriage was a little off. Just a vibe between the two of them. They didn't really talk to each other nor did they argue, which I found odd. My mother never believed me when I told her how much my dad cried with relief after she came out of surgery. Decades later, I found out my dad had cheated on her a couple years before I was born. She died hating him and hating her life for the last 40+ years. They really should have gotten a divorce and given themselves a chance to be happy. I'm glad my marriage is way different from theirs.

  • @Colechamdiceman
    @Colechamdiceman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Aba: 'We ain't friends'
    Preach: *Dancing friend-ily*

  • @SolomonKane66
    @SolomonKane66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    At 54 I finally got married so the pressure is at last off. lol
    My Mom was asked how long she had been waiting for this day and her facial expression spoke volumes while she said nothing :)
    Love you Mom!

    • @petermulinzi1288
      @petermulinzi1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wow at 54😳😳😳

    • @SolomonKane66
      @SolomonKane66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@petermulinzi1288 Well, I was planning on being the eternal bachelor. Once I met her that all went out the window. Much to my and my entire family's joy!

    • @petermulinzi1288
      @petermulinzi1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SolomonKane66 is she 54 too??

    • @SolomonKane66
      @SolomonKane66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@petermulinzi1288 She is a couple of years younger than me.

    • @petermulinzi1288
      @petermulinzi1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SolomonKane66 i don't know why for some reason I initially thought u're a woman dat's why I was surprised in the first place.

  • @andiemonterroso1959
    @andiemonterroso1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I can say it's not normal but my husband was right away telling me he wanted to get married with me after a couple months of dating. Happily married

    • @bigsmall2842
      @bigsmall2842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      From a man’s perspective, it’s honestly better to live with that type of upfront integrity. Better than finding a ton of relationships and putting a facade. Because as long as there is no commitment(aka marriage), there will be a facade. The relationship will be all about impressions. My dad always told me that you don’t truly know someone until you live with them. Which is true. If more people knew that then people wouldn’t have so many trust issues.

  • @fyro01
    @fyro01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    1. Ole Girl made my neck hurt 😂
    2. As an American born African, I can definitely back up the Marriage/Children talks from our parents 😅
    3. It's better to just leave that type of relationship if they're going to hold that over your head. Why would you want feel like you're held hostage in your own relationship?

    • @zachampofo4945
      @zachampofo4945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel that

    • @chelseae.6779
      @chelseae.6779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly! I’m lucky my parents want me to focus on school and don’t pressure me for a relationship. What’s sad is after the marriage they will expect kids at the snap of their fingers.🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @MichaelThomas-ec4dq
      @MichaelThomas-ec4dq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro I wasn't even watching that point of the video I just happened to l
      Look up while I was reading (1.) 🤣🤣🤣

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      @u.s.atoday152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @solomzitshiki6631
    @solomzitshiki6631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “all you broke people watching this isn’t for you” is straight fax, wanna know why, because a wise person once said “VALUE, VALUE!!!”
    Stay woke mah brothers

    • @himagain4274
      @himagain4274 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They were throwing shade at fresh and fit homie

    • @himagain4274
      @himagain4274 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U sleep let that shit right over your head homie

    • @mr1m020
      @mr1m020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah he got it, he was just doing a running joke from an older Aba and Preach video 🤣

  • @itzexotic_
    @itzexotic_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I could be feeling like crap and then preach's laugh would always kill me everytime.

  • @momcat2223
    @momcat2223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I swear, Preach got a laugh that just makes me grin. Can't help it. Not even three minutes into this & I'm wiping tears. You guys just slay.

  • @crsmyth4428
    @crsmyth4428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Voodoo Spell & Money sounds like a legit miniseries. Preach, you might wanna hit up Netflix or Hulu

  • @bongcountylounge3154
    @bongcountylounge3154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To think that my love for the two of you started all because of a Facebook recommendation.
    Thanks for the amazing content and laughs throughout the years! 💙

  • @salemluna9533
    @salemluna9533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Did you just compare cheating to gossip" that's a good point though. Betrayal is betrayal, regardless of the form it comes in. Nothing about it will change that you betrayed someone, crossed a boundary and broke the trust someone placed in you.

    • @Hoodeeman
      @Hoodeeman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      There is levels to it though, cheating being one of the worst. People literally have gotten seriously hurt/injured over it.

    • @salemluna9533
      @salemluna9533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hoodeeman This is very true.

  • @gokulsiriah7941
    @gokulsiriah7941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Mustafa needs to be aware of his profile pictures

  • @thehealthhybrid9554
    @thehealthhybrid9554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Preach's impersonation of the horn of Africa dancing, had me in STITCHES! 😂🔥

  • @LM-dx3yc
    @LM-dx3yc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The shit y’all say about relationships is so real. Y’all got words for everything I’ve felt that I didn’t know how to explain.

  • @stephaniaabrajan7822
    @stephaniaabrajan7822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly the video I needed today. Thank you guys for all that yall talk about.

  • @mharris4264
    @mharris4264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    05:07 Aba told no lies. I'm Liberian and since I was kid, when they called you in, it was like going up for auction. "Oh my God so handsome, what do you like? Would date my daughter? What do you want to go to school for?"

    • @simonkrayt1970
      @simonkrayt1970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Bro was going ask what kind of libraries you are going too. Until I reread what you typed. I am half Macedonian and the pressure from community and family to have a wife and many children is intense.

    • @godscroissant1539
      @godscroissant1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@simonkrayt1970 I hope to god you're not joking 😂

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    • @chick1800
      @chick1800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMAOOOOOO

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@simonkrayt1970 tomato, potato 🤣

  • @Cosmiccoffeecup
    @Cosmiccoffeecup 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bro, I'm so glad the relationship between me and my mom transitioned to friendship smoothly. I don't have to hide and neither does she. We eat, drink, cuss and laugh till we cry together. My dad now... always his little girl.

  • @bruhvaconteh8890
    @bruhvaconteh8890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for the subtitles been watinging for those. And ABA bring back the fro bro!

  • @aflyingstarly5535
    @aflyingstarly5535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I tell ya man aba and preach make ya feel like your in the room having a conversation with them. Keep up the great work guys!

  • @gabriellemartin5206
    @gabriellemartin5206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    That dance cracked me up Preach and the woman on the stage thrashing her head around made me dizzy 😵

    • @DeadpoolX9
      @DeadpoolX9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think I felt my neck stiffen

    • @cyndirankin
      @cyndirankin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was waiting for the crack when she broke her neck

    • @LightSilver7
      @LightSilver7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      lmao imagine if she flew away like a helicopter 😂

  • @othershadeofbrown9574
    @othershadeofbrown9574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    PSA
    Wait til the morning to watch ANYTHING these two do. Trying to go to bed with an elevated heart rate makes it difficult. 🤣

  • @soul7touch
    @soul7touch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:40 🤣😂 Peach: You think I don’t know about you MFKs 🤣😂🤣

  • @tizodd6
    @tizodd6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lmao, I thought Preach was exaggerating until @2:32 😂

  • @Little_Shadow_
    @Little_Shadow_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Last time my mother mentioned "I wanna grandchildren" I said I'm gonna tie my tubes, so yeah, never heard it again 😁

  • @terrootti
    @terrootti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    And the darkness that aba is talking of, isn't necessarily a bad thing, I'd even argue that it's necessary in "healthy proportion". Now what that proportion is depends on each couple

  • @bji9140
    @bji9140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Being let in on family secrets was the worst thing that could’ve happened. I can no longer look at certain people the same way. Ignorance is bliss

  • @marthasiabukandu3572
    @marthasiabukandu3572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😩🤣😂🤣I’m on the floor !! Preach is on point with that imitation dance

  • @damienlee54
    @damienlee54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Aba: "Why are you making it contemporary...?"
    😂😂😂😂

  • @AbsoluteJosephus
    @AbsoluteJosephus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Seeing Preach doing my country’s dances made my day. 🙏

  • @nellybarrett7
    @nellybarrett7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These vids are so informative I really love the discussions preach and Aba have at the end they speak true facts I wish both those people they interviewed a happy life

  • @Eliezer_maurival
    @Eliezer_maurival 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The “when are you gonna give me kids” is so relatable. 😂😂

  • @omgreenwellness
    @omgreenwellness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I love dancing skill, Preach surely will blend into Ethiopia and dance while they are clapping ❤️ Marriage is something to know that Africa mother will remind you to marry x

  • @ThatCho
    @ThatCho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The way I've been SCREAMING in laughter at this ethiopian dancing for legit 5 minutes.

  • @theronprosper6930
    @theronprosper6930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is without a doubt one of the best videos you guys have ever put out. I'm so glad I have been following you guys for years. Much love and respect to both of you! Cheers!

  • @josephmays8787
    @josephmays8787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    “Days of our Njeera” and “Voodoo Spells & Money” should go into production now! The titles alone are will sell them! I definitely tuning in. Mine would be titled, “Southern Heat : Alabama Summers”

  • @PhilDM
    @PhilDM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Preach imitating Ethiopian dances was funny af 😂😭

  • @dawgjee6722
    @dawgjee6722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    He sounded so depressing, he's really going through a tuff time because of a dumb mistake he made I actually feel the pain tho, my only advice is stay strong stay humble and keep your head up there's plenty of fish in the sea

    • @momcat2223
      @momcat2223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Also, remember your past lest you repeat it. Forgive yourself, for certain, and keep pushing, but don't forget.

    • @virtualnatureone
      @virtualnatureone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      If you wanna be stupid you better be tough. When you f up, you gotta pay for it.

    • @dimplekakade6545
      @dimplekakade6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know people do say plenty of fish in the sea but believe me the quality is missing .I've stopped using this line personally it's hard out there .

    • @nightfighter7452
      @nightfighter7452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My only advice is "hold this L, that's what you get for cheating, bitch"

  • @MATTPYTHON
    @MATTPYTHON 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanted to say you two are funny, reasonable and offer solid advice. Have no idea how I stumbled on this channel months ago but I’m glad I did.

  • @vertsabre7543
    @vertsabre7543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just love how you guys are having fun !
    Keep up the good work !

  • @ab-zg8pt
    @ab-zg8pt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love hearing Haitian Creole being spoken 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @joosejoose26
      @joosejoose26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🇭🇹 🇭🇹 🇭🇹

  • @felixsteele7
    @felixsteele7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Dude how good is Ethiopian music - love the fusion of african, jazz and contemporary sounds they use. Was in an Ethiopian restaurant in London one time and was shazzam'ing every song they were playing.

    • @carinadominguez22
      @carinadominguez22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who would you recommend?

    • @hide1396
      @hide1396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Currently live in Ethiopia, gotta agree

    • @u.s.atoday152
      @u.s.atoday152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/jRMX-nIDsGY/w-d-xo.html.m

    • @felixsteele7
      @felixsteele7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@carinadominguez22 Mulatu Astatke and the 'Ethiopiques IV' album would be a good place to start. For something more modern this song is ace: th-cam.com/video/QY5bZ9q5a3Y/w-d-xo.html

    • @carinadominguez22
      @carinadominguez22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@felixsteele7 Nice. Thank you.

  • @Ash-rf6dd
    @Ash-rf6dd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this content. I needed this to start my day. Thank you

  • @myflyingkidney
    @myflyingkidney 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two are hilarious, I don't think I ever laugh out loud at a youtube video ever, except your videos. When you start laughing and doing the stupid shit I die. You instantly make my day better and I am going through some shit in my life, so few minutes of laughter a day mean so much more to me than to other people.

  • @ibemanny99
    @ibemanny99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Fam when the aunties start it’s like they don’t stop unless you pattern them. I feel sorry for my female friends who go through this shit on a regular

  • @kapileshkothavale2165
    @kapileshkothavale2165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Been Watching A&P since when they had about 300k subs. It's so great to see them grow this big and enjoy the love and support of so many people. Such thoughtful and wholesome content coming from these guys. These boys seem like a couple of friends i'd get a beer with over the weekend. Grow big and Grow strong.

  • @sairaisabel5321
    @sairaisabel5321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really enjoyed this video!! Thanks y’all 🌻

  • @JCTheSniper15
    @JCTheSniper15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate the accountability and the honesty and how calm that conversation was.

  • @dogetaxes8893
    @dogetaxes8893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I fucking lost my shit when you said "when they snort instant divorce."

  • @tribetube105
    @tribetube105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +955

    If Preach's dancing didn't make you hit the like button, you're probably a F&F fan. #Lurking

  • @IAMONELUVNOW
    @IAMONELUVNOW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your so right Aba about what your willing to do for that person. You're also right that once a person decides that they are not going to put up with being trashed on, it is done. I mean it was a 1000 knives and it just deflated and for self preservation you move on. It looks like he did several things wrong and that one more indiscretion broke the camels 🐫 😳 back.
    There is a way, but he is not being honest nor will she tell him how to get around that wall that has serious wounds.
    He can start making an effort to show and tell her where he is at all times untill she can trust where he is going. Second, actually not put her on the shelf this time. Women are forgiving if your willing to show we actually matter. Sometimes you have to lose someone to actually see their value if your dense and selfish but know you risk not getting that person back.