Hey there new person to this situation. What this guy is saying is spot on. It IS hard to believe that this person that you loved, and thought loved you never did. Actually wanted to bring you down. Now that you know REALLY wants to bring you down. Trying to save you a tiny bit of time. So it goes...
It is actually VERY easy to "stop loving the narcissist", latest when she starts the devaluation and smear campaign. The REAL issue is: You cannot stop loving your children with the narcissist. Either the kids get torn apart or you sacrifice them completely to the narcissistic ex-wife. Worst dilemma to be in. Absolute hell.
Every time we would go out in public, they would stare at people in the most creepy way and if I brought it up they got angry with me for pointing out what they're doing is weird and the people around them are ignoring you but they're aware you're doing it. I mean obvious long stares and observation of other people with out caring that they're being disrespectful.
The way Terry puts the narcissist in words is one of the best I have ever came accross since I have been in two narcissistic relationships. Right now I am isolated because I have moved to another country. Also, I am much more cautious about friends. Narcissism has changed my life. Its like I have entered a new chapter of my life. A narcissist is an extremely dangerous individual who can inflict harm and abuse others by throwing an outburst of heated rage, anger and hate. Its like a superpower they have. As Terry said in an earlier video, you will get burned. I have experienced such an outrage from a narcissist friend just before Christmas last year.
Be careful of friends, they can be some of the sneakiest and covert kind. Turned out one of my best friends was a snake, took 20 years to figure that one out but the flags where there when I look back on it all.
I have been through this bro. You are spot on. My goodness. It’s a miracle I got out. Your advice is very wise and this is how I’ve learned to move. Only the Most High Creator can restore your soul. No more trauma bond. Broke free.
I caught her cheating Dec 23rd and since then she’s showed up to my house begging me to take her back. Just three days ago again and I passed the test. Told her kick rocks.
This is the type my dad was. Always play acting. Always acting like he's this nice, couldn't hurt a fly type of guy in public (unless he became really angry over some little thing) but behind closed doors this man was a bull in a china shop that you had to walk on eggshells around. He beat up my neighbor for absolutely no reason, and spent the night in jail for it. He was not hesitant to start fights at the smallest thing as long as there was no one around he wanted to give a good impression to. The threat of my butt getting laid out was always there but I was just very careful to not say or do the wrong thing. These narcissists are the hardest to detect especially as they get older and do the "feeble old man" act. But once you see the "nice guy" act, you can't unsee it
Another sign you are with a Narcissist is they do not like Kissing for a long period of time because Kissing is true intimacy and being able to be Vulnerable with another Human being
They say the narcissist is attached by entities i call it hijacked conciousness.they all react the almost the same to disruptive fears and get triggered. a tell sign is to test their reactions
You eventually find out everything of who they are after fighting them for years, including their Vampirism, deathtrap manipulation, and “sacrificial lamb” methods 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's the willingness to wear the mask for so long, sometimes even multiple years, to make sure they have you caught totally in their web before they really get going.
@@billthebutcher6873 when u are a real chosen one from god that is a threat to evil 😈 the attacks are alot harder then most ppl recieve in life it sux but im glad i know im that powerful!
okay so i used to think all these books about energy and attracting good vibes were a bit much, just another one of those ‘feel-good’ things that sound nice but don’t really do much. but after hearing a lot of my friends talk about this book called magnetic aura, i had to take a second look. at first i thought they were all just jumping on a bandwagon, but then i started seeing changes in them. they were more grounded, more confident, and honestly, a lot more likeable, without even trying. people gravitate toward them, and it’s not in that ‘fake it till you make it’ way - it’s more like they’ve tapped into something genuine. i finally decided to pick it up after hearing about how it helped them with their confidence and how they started dealing with stress better. it’s kind of like when you realize the power of a positive attitude but without all the clichés. doesn’t hurt to give it a go if you feel like your vibe could use a little lift. who knows, it might work for you too.
Terry whenever i watch your videos about narcissistic people, it reminds me of my past relationship and it makes me feel anxiety and i am genuinely see FEAR
Before watching 👀 this video 📹, I knew Covert Narcissists have ill intentions on their victims. I am currently helping an individual, of whom was involved with a Covert Narcissist! Thanks, for the video 📹, Terry!!!
My Ex created a false reality in my mind about our future. He was repeatedly disrespectuful, driving me close to insanity. When I told him I am done he begged his way back into my life promising to never do it again. But the thing is, he always came back with different ideas of how to be disrespectful in a whole other way. I have to question myself why I did not run at the first red flag. Why did I endure so much emotional abuse. I hoped for getting the version of him back into my life how he was at the beginning (sry my english is not the best I am from Germany). But the version of him from the beginning was a facade. He just was acting in a way to lure me into his false reality. Now I am stuck emotiinally after he did a reverse discard on me. It is a dark mental game that I have to exit and grow above all that. I really need to learn to set strong boundaries and follow through with immediate consequences when boundaries are breached. No second chances. If someone did something bad to you in the past in 90% of the cases this is a prediction for future behaviour of that person. I have to let go of the fantasy of a fulfilled realtionship with that man. It is not possible. He is malevolent. I Think he took pleasure out of abusing me emotionally. But I suffer and struggle to let go. I try to find a way to become strong, detached and emotionally indpendent (I dont know if thats even possible as a human we are social creatures after all). I wish that only once in my life I will meet a man that has a romantic interest in me while being honest, loyal, caring, straightforward, and secure in himself.
so i was talking to a few friends the other day and they all mentioned they read this book called magnetic aura. i didn’t think much of it until i realized how much more confident and magnetic they seemed. one of them got a job offer out of nowhere, and they didn’t even apply for it, the company just reached out. another started attracting amazing people into their life, like the kind of people who actually lift you up instead of draining you. honestly, it’s like something shifted in them after reading it. they don’t walk around talking about it non-stop, but it’s like you can feel it when you’re around them. i didn’t believe in that ‘energy attracts energy’ thing before, but after seeing them change, i had to wonder. if you want a little boost in your personal energy, maybe check it out. not that it’s a magic pill or anything, but it definitely made a noticeable difference for them.
I was with her for 15 years she discarded me and was with another guy in a month. I just seen her at my son’s game we had good energy at first and then the energy just switched and now I’m home and just so depressed and I don’t even know why… I’m Sitting here crying and I don’t know why.
so here’s a wild thought - have you ever met someone who just seemed to attract everything they wanted? i mean, the kind of person who walks into a room and you just know they’re going places? i asked a few friends how they did it, and almost all of them mentioned magnetic aura. at first, i thought they were just being dramatic, but the more i heard about it, the more intrigued i got. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about owning who you are, flaws and all, and not letting negativity pull you down. i’ve seen people go from feeling overwhelmed by life to totally in control of their own energy. it’s like you stop attracting the wrong kind of people and start bringing in the ones who match your vibe. i’m not saying it’s the only way to make that happen, but i don’t think it’s a coincidence that so many of them were onto this book. life’s too short to stay stuck in negativity, and if you’re tired of feeling drained or stuck, this might help shift something in you too. no pressure, just saying.
funny enough, i didn’t believe in this kind of thing until a friend handed me magnetic aura. she’d been telling me about it for weeks, and i kept brushing it off, thinking it was just another one of those self-help books that people overhype. but i heard so many people talking about it, and every single one of them seemed to change in a subtle way after reading it. they were calmer, more attractive in a subtle way, just… magnetic. it wasn’t like they suddenly became different people, but they definitely seemed more comfortable in their own skin. i guess i thought it was all just talk until i saw it in action, and after seeing those shifts in people i knew, i thought, okay, maybe there’s something to it. i’m not saying it’s the miracle answer to everything, but it seems to have a real impact on people’s energy. guess we all could use a little extra aura sometimes, huh?
I have restraining order and ex narc logged into my instagram account.. how ?? He literally got my password somehow and got inside my account and is attempting to go in my second account. I have a feeling he’s trying to see if any of his ex contact me ..again.. or why? To see who I’m talking to? Why be this desperate to hack my account? I’m trauma bonded it’s my birthday and I’m torn if I should tell the police . Also if I do this I think I will never get child support he may be risk of deportation. What should I do?
funny story, i was skeptical about this whole ‘energy’ thing until a friend told me about this book, magnetic aura. at first i thought it was just another self-help fad, all those books that say “just believe in yourself” or whatever. but something about the way she spoke about it made me curious, and then i realized a lot of people i know had read it too. they’ve been talking about feeling more centered, like they’re able to handle stress better and not get pulled into negativity the way they used to. i’ve been noticing people who’ve read it seem calmer, more at peace with themselves, even when things get crazy. at first i thought it was just coincidence, but now i’m starting to think it’s not. i’m not saying it’s some magic solution to life’s problems, but it seems to shift the way you see the world, and that can make a huge difference. if you’ve been feeling drained or stuck in a rut, it could be worth considering. it’s not for everyone, but it might be for you.
Bruh I'm following, liking all your Videos before watching it but breeeeh! Ya need ta chill. Forget about women in the first place thats the key. Bro be like he is still hurt
Terry you pissing off the demons spittin these truths
Yup
Hey there new person to this situation. What this guy is saying is spot on. It IS hard to believe that this person that you loved, and thought loved you never did. Actually wanted to bring you down. Now that you know REALLY wants to bring you down. Trying to save you a tiny bit of time. So it goes...
It is actually VERY easy to "stop loving the narcissist", latest when she starts the devaluation and smear campaign. The REAL issue is: You cannot stop loving your children with the narcissist. Either the kids get torn apart or you sacrifice them completely to the narcissistic ex-wife. Worst dilemma to be in. Absolute hell.
A narcissist will learn your patterns and try to take advantage of you and try to incriminate you and they’re also very nosy people.
Every time we would go out in public, they would stare at people in the most creepy way and if I brought it up they got angry with me for pointing out what they're doing is weird and the people around them are ignoring you but they're aware you're doing it. I mean obvious long stares and observation of other people with out caring that they're being disrespectful.
When a narc give you the silent treatment, prepare your escape plan.
exactly, your about to get blood sacfrice!
THIS!!!
Why
Why
@@VatoEsAlfred Why did they hang Jesus?
The way Terry puts the narcissist in words is one of the best I have ever came accross since I have been in two narcissistic relationships. Right now I am isolated because I have moved to another country. Also, I am much more cautious about friends. Narcissism has changed my life. Its like I have entered a new chapter of my life. A narcissist is an extremely dangerous individual who can inflict harm and abuse others by throwing an outburst of heated rage, anger and hate. Its like a superpower they have. As Terry said in an earlier video, you will get burned. I have experienced such an outrage from a narcissist friend just before Christmas last year.
Ask a narc to buy you something, or be there when you need them: 😂🎻👻
Be careful of friends, they can be some of the sneakiest and covert kind. Turned out one of my best friends was a snake, took 20 years to figure that one out but the flags where there when I look back on it all.
@@thereisnospoon3595 its sad but yeah it be your own family to do these things!
''They will murder you emotionally in the comfort of your own house''
~terryjoeljunior
I have been through this bro. You are spot on. My goodness. It’s a miracle I got out. Your advice is very wise and this is how I’ve learned to move. Only the Most High Creator can restore your soul. No more trauma bond. Broke free.
I caught her cheating Dec 23rd and since then she’s showed up to my house begging me to take her back. Just three days ago again and I passed the test. Told her kick rocks.
Don't let her in bro. Be strong.
This is the type my dad was. Always play acting. Always acting like he's this nice, couldn't hurt a fly type of guy in public (unless he became really angry over some little thing) but behind closed doors this man was a bull in a china shop that you had to walk on eggshells around. He beat up my neighbor for absolutely no reason, and spent the night in jail for it. He was not hesitant to start fights at the smallest thing as long as there was no one around he wanted to give a good impression to. The threat of my butt getting laid out was always there but I was just very careful to not say or do the wrong thing. These narcissists are the hardest to detect especially as they get older and do the "feeble old man" act. But once you see the "nice guy" act, you can't unsee it
My karmic psychopath father is a covert narc too. I understand...
I’ve seen that evil look in his eyes. It is unreal! Chills you to the core.
Leave, you really have to RUN and go through this dark force. This is one thing you really have to FORCE. Be strong brothers and sisters.
Another sign you are with a Narcissist is they do not like Kissing for a long period of time because Kissing is true intimacy and being able to be Vulnerable with another Human being
@@AquariusWoman32 You just described my ex
Yep it happened to me
Interesting.
My question is why should we have too many broken narcissist at this point???
@@amirafshar2580 because we're living in the darkest point in human history.
They say the narcissist is attached by entities i call it hijacked conciousness.they all react the almost the same to disruptive fears and get triggered. a tell sign is to test their reactions
You eventually find out everything of who they are after fighting them for years, including their Vampirism, deathtrap manipulation, and “sacrificial lamb” methods 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's the willingness to wear the mask for so long, sometimes even multiple years, to make sure they have you caught totally in their web before they really get going.
True.
malevolent is bad intent, or intentional harm wished onto another with absolutely no accountability = malice.
That's right; get out and save your life.
Exactly these ppl have already decided they're going to hell nothing more or less
Eight freaking year's bro! I went thru it all! And I'm still here and dealing with it!
30 years here im still going thru it!
My son has been missing 11 years bunch of Bums
Why?
@kisigma1011 why?
@@billthebutcher6873 when u are a real chosen one from god that is a threat to evil 😈 the attacks are alot harder then most ppl recieve in life it sux but im glad i know im that powerful!
Yep, pure evil.
okay so i used to think all these books about energy and attracting good vibes were a bit much, just another one of those ‘feel-good’ things that sound nice but don’t really do much. but after hearing a lot of my friends talk about this book called magnetic aura, i had to take a second look. at first i thought they were all just jumping on a bandwagon, but then i started seeing changes in them. they were more grounded, more confident, and honestly, a lot more likeable, without even trying. people gravitate toward them, and it’s not in that ‘fake it till you make it’ way - it’s more like they’ve tapped into something genuine. i finally decided to pick it up after hearing about how it helped them with their confidence and how they started dealing with stress better. it’s kind of like when you realize the power of a positive attitude but without all the clichés. doesn’t hurt to give it a go if you feel like your vibe could use a little lift. who knows, it might work for you too.
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@basicinfo2022 i got the book on Borlest! Manifesting Destiny it is a game changer.
@@basicinfo2022read above ⬆️
To the point 100% accurate information. Terry is a Narc Nemesis!
Terry whenever i watch your videos about narcissistic people, it reminds me of my past relationship and it makes me feel anxiety and i am genuinely see FEAR
No God = Know Fear
"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."
Know God = No Fear
Especially having narsassistic parents who hit your pets and if they can’t physically abuse there child they will take it out on the pets
Great video Terry
Don't drink alcohol if you going thru sucha breakup, it can intensify the emotional hurt.
True.
Agreed Terry 🥇... And they failed 😱
I left as soon as i seen that huge big red flags thank god! 🚩
My God, you are accurate 😮 You spoke my experience. Thank you very much.
Narc Squad ready to ///Go!!!
Before watching 👀 this video 📹, I knew Covert Narcissists have ill intentions on their victims. I am currently helping an individual, of whom was involved with a Covert Narcissist! Thanks, for the video 📹, Terry!!!
Oh i am ready to dismantle their genius play with my check mate 🦋🙏 thank you sir!
My Ex created a false reality in my mind about our future. He was repeatedly disrespectuful, driving me close to insanity. When I told him I am done he begged his way back into my life promising to never do it again. But the thing is, he always came back with different ideas of how to be disrespectful in a whole other way.
I have to question myself why I did not run at the first red flag. Why did I endure so much emotional abuse. I hoped for getting the version of him back into my life how he was at the beginning (sry my english is not the best I am from Germany). But the version of him from the beginning was a facade. He just was acting in a way to lure me into his false reality. Now I am stuck emotiinally after he did a reverse discard on me.
It is a dark mental game that I have to exit and grow above all that.
I really need to learn to set strong boundaries and follow through with immediate consequences when boundaries are breached. No second chances.
If someone did something bad to you in the past in 90% of the cases this is a prediction for future behaviour of that person. I have to let go of the fantasy of a fulfilled realtionship with that man. It is not possible. He is malevolent. I Think he took pleasure out of abusing me emotionally. But I suffer and struggle to let go. I try to find a way to become strong, detached and emotionally indpendent (I dont know if thats even possible as a human we are social creatures after all).
I wish that only once in my life I will meet a man that has a romantic interest in me while being honest, loyal, caring, straightforward, and secure in himself.
Do you know what ratioed and a death trap is? Acting on impulse is not a good Idea, than you’ll end up being missing 411 case
@@ShinobiShaw Ratioed death trap. No I never heard of it before. Can you pls explain?
so i was talking to a few friends the other day and they all mentioned they read this book called magnetic aura. i didn’t think much of it until i realized how much more confident and magnetic they seemed. one of them got a job offer out of nowhere, and they didn’t even apply for it, the company just reached out. another started attracting amazing people into their life, like the kind of people who actually lift you up instead of draining you. honestly, it’s like something shifted in them after reading it. they don’t walk around talking about it non-stop, but it’s like you can feel it when you’re around them. i didn’t believe in that ‘energy attracts energy’ thing before, but after seeing them change, i had to wonder. if you want a little boost in your personal energy, maybe check it out. not that it’s a magic pill or anything, but it definitely made a noticeable difference for them.
So if we know god loves us then the godless opinions dont matter and you can say thank you for their constructive criticism
Just be alone. What are you scared of? Peace?
Can't sleep
What are you afraid of?
To wake up and find this is what dreams are made of?
I always said about him, like in that movie, Die Hard with a Vengence, "Not even God knows what you're doing!"
I was with her for 15 years she discarded me and was with another guy in a month. I just seen her at my son’s game we had good energy at first and then the energy just switched and now I’m home and just so depressed and I don’t even know why… I’m Sitting here crying and I don’t know why.
so here’s a wild thought - have you ever met someone who just seemed to attract everything they wanted? i mean, the kind of person who walks into a room and you just know they’re going places? i asked a few friends how they did it, and almost all of them mentioned magnetic aura. at first, i thought they were just being dramatic, but the more i heard about it, the more intrigued i got. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about owning who you are, flaws and all, and not letting negativity pull you down. i’ve seen people go from feeling overwhelmed by life to totally in control of their own energy. it’s like you stop attracting the wrong kind of people and start bringing in the ones who match your vibe. i’m not saying it’s the only way to make that happen, but i don’t think it’s a coincidence that so many of them were onto this book. life’s too short to stay stuck in negativity, and if you’re tired of feeling drained or stuck, this might help shift something in you too. no pressure, just saying.
they can tip their nose & I'll tip my hat 🪄🎩👁
see things for what they are
Terry the Father and Saint !
Very true, everything!
funny enough, i didn’t believe in this kind of thing until a friend handed me magnetic aura. she’d been telling me about it for weeks, and i kept brushing it off, thinking it was just another one of those self-help books that people overhype. but i heard so many people talking about it, and every single one of them seemed to change in a subtle way after reading it. they were calmer, more attractive in a subtle way, just… magnetic. it wasn’t like they suddenly became different people, but they definitely seemed more comfortable in their own skin. i guess i thought it was all just talk until i saw it in action, and after seeing those shifts in people i knew, i thought, okay, maybe there’s something to it. i’m not saying it’s the miracle answer to everything, but it seems to have a real impact on people’s energy. guess we all could use a little extra aura sometimes, huh?
That was fire joe 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Seems these algorithms are narcs too, deleting comments! 😂😂😂
They are, many deleted.
If the person is shouting at you etc just leave the whole instead of crying about it.its quite simple if they no good leave.
Great information all true 😊
Their probably addicts
Generally alcoholic narcs are the worst.
@FrequencyOfThought i had to stop drinking myself because the devil energy was just uncomfortable
I only treated my ex with love and she treated me like her worst enemy
Terry share your opinion on their parents what was your observations on their parents???
9:51 true 😢
13:51 exactly
What are these concepts
I have restraining order and ex narc logged into my instagram account.. how ?? He literally got my password somehow and got inside my account and is attempting to go in my second account. I have a feeling he’s trying to see if any of his ex contact me ..again.. or why? To see who I’m talking to? Why be this desperate to hack my account?
I’m trauma bonded it’s my birthday and I’m torn if I should tell the police . Also if I do this I think I will never get child support he may be risk of deportation.
What should I do?
14:39bars? 😂
funny story, i was skeptical about this whole ‘energy’ thing until a friend told me about this book, magnetic aura. at first i thought it was just another self-help fad, all those books that say “just believe in yourself” or whatever. but something about the way she spoke about it made me curious, and then i realized a lot of people i know had read it too. they’ve been talking about feeling more centered, like they’re able to handle stress better and not get pulled into negativity the way they used to. i’ve been noticing people who’ve read it seem calmer, more at peace with themselves, even when things get crazy. at first i thought it was just coincidence, but now i’m starting to think it’s not. i’m not saying it’s some magic solution to life’s problems, but it seems to shift the way you see the world, and that can make a huge difference. if you’ve been feeling drained or stuck in a rut, it could be worth considering. it’s not for everyone, but it might be for you.
❤🎉!
Who hurt you?
who
Delete my comments if you want Joel...Christ knows everything about what you have done...
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Bruh I'm following, liking all your Videos before watching it but breeeeh! Ya need ta chill. Forget about women in the first place thats the key. Bro be like he is still hurt