Women these days are so used to dealing with weak loser dudes that when they encounter a guy who doesn’t deal with their nonsense and has a backbone their brain malfunctions
@@Smartbeautifulawesome Just don't try to make sense of it. Their brains are literally different.... Look into Cluster B's brain differences, they are simply stuck in the past, they are kids... Slight differences between all the of PDs tho...
@@Shelia-b3p thanks for the support. My ex is convinced that I'm the narcissist and I'm capital E evil, because I didn't meet her needs and expectations. Not affectionate enough, and the two toddlers and poverty is just "my excuse". Whatever. I can't handle being yelled at anymore and she wants to go find someone who will treat her right. Good luck Hon! Looking at narcissism content on TH-cam, since I'm accused of it, has been enlightening and creepy. Looks to me that it's the other way around and I've been the one being abused here. Never had panic attacks before she started that "yell at me for 12 hours while I beg forgiveness" routine. Pro tip, yell at me all night and I might seem more distant from you the day after. Sorry, I shut down and withdraw from people who hate me.
@ Be your own man take care of yourself or you can’t take care of family when right one. Eagles don’t hang out with chickens, and Eagles can fly alone or together. There a balance in life. It’s easy that way. Truth if your not saved life want work. Iam not going to be around negative people. It steals your energy. Men need quite coming home first few minutes sometime they need some of your time, then you need to unwind from your day. Home is a safe place from world. Jesus loves you completely others can’t even best will fail you so your not disappointed. There will be bad days kids sick, wife, or you as things happen you walk it out. Clean house, meals, clean clothes, and life simple joy with peace normal life blance your money. Life good that wisdom in time we live enemy will attack you in people close to you give enemy no ground. Fighting destroys your marriage. No women or man yells at each other talk work it out. Either leaves no man no leader in home no one protected. 12 hours no way I would walk go some where God forgives us. Those without sin cast first sin all have sin. Pray ask for wisdom whst to do get up take care of yourself. Satan comes to steal, kill, and destroy yet Jesus is way, truth, and life. Way is direction, truth is your answers, life is how to live have great life. God has a purpose for your life all of us. You only you will stand before Jesus. Are you saved. Ask Jesus to forgive you of your sin say I repent turn away I receive you into my heart as my personal savior, and my life in Jesus name. He changes us as we move forward some days are great some are challenging push through today. When you can’t take a test of faith tell God can’t take no more can you stop this test for awhile. We go into the world with Jesus not into the world. You have mind of Christ not ptsd. Don’t set there a man will get up, and leave.
If the love you're being sold leaves you questioning the person and leaves you serious looking yeah that's a red flag and all connection is off and no more
Now we know about narcissist we should never need a red flag now a quality person has there life in order job, place to live, responsible, clean, and a normal person not with issues or there family. Beside being single is only once being married is once hopefully. Men will go through slot of women before they meet right person. Truth be sleeping around is dangerous several years ago new virus causes cancer instant in women, because of sleeping with so many women only men carry it now a cancer virus no blood test or meds saves women lives now it’s full blown cancer kills a lot of women so it’s not safe to play around meeting right person you could give them cancer person you should waited for in real life. Guess God had enough of stuff. Head of OBYGN talk to me ask me told him no he explain new virus he said I have tell young women there not going to live it spreads fast from area it’s at how many women you date are seeing there Dr for check ups think about it how many partners that gross. Look across room next time your at think about who you see not cool. My mom in a home a narcissist with 2 women she a Christian. From time I was 12 saw people no respect no rules no honor aren’t hear anymore. Make wise choices with clarity.
I set this to loop and listened for an hour, never heard this broken down so well. Applies to gaslighters, abusive women, narcs, etc. Thank you TerryJoel.
Even if you block them, some will stalk you at your home. Cars, you've never seen before sitting in front of your house, week after week. They despise being irrelevant.
It's so true that once you see them for who they are, you can't unsee them. They also seem to get worse if you're still in contact. Go, no contact, i get it. But it's different when you have kids with her!
You have boundary’s if you leave when kids with you tell them this isn’t right there not well. Kids grow up will make there own boundary’s didn’t you with your parents.
exactly I didn’t know about narcissism and after her wrecking my life get me arrested taking my son I feel my son’s self either he’s free coming into for February. He just doesn’t see himself. She has in most of the time and exactly now looking back at everything there was so many red flags and she went straight to somebody else never dealt with the trauma the break up or anything. My life’s been ruined.
@jimscott-w1v don't worry, brother, they move on (if you want to call it that) quickly to their next victim, but never give themselves a chance to heal properly because they have no empathy or soul. They will do exactly the same to the new supply, and once she gets bored of him, she will move on again. Concentrate all your energy and love on your child, not her! She will never change and will be stuck in her own mind and never, and I mean never be happy! Doesn't matter who she ends up with! You're worth more and deserve better! 👍
@ yes truth if you look on line so many people go through this yet you won your free. None of us had a relationship that person was never there for any of us. As they age the mask comes off, and others see who they are for real. They end up alone. Some end their life. Did I share at conception part of brain that processes like ours isn’t there a personality disorder they say is mental illness. Most victims don’t get out till there destroyed or not hear anymore. Narcissist just repeat same cycle to another person. 1 - 6 are narcissist today. They are in every area make great CEO. Live your life like you did before this start there you have a son live normal as a man, and a father. You may not believe this yet Jesus loves you more than anyone others can’t love you like this even best will let you down there not him. So we are complete in him no matter what comes. You still are the same you have same talent people know the truth no one has power to ruin anyone we just begin again isn’t that what we do everyday in this world. God is greater than all things. He with you pick yourself up today is a new day. Don’t dwell on this to much it’s a dark place. Forgive move on let God let go move on in your new life. A father sets the standard for his daughter in a relationship, and a mother the wisdom of all life. You go through a lot of women before you meet someone who is normal. Yet your only single once or married. Love your son don’t say bad things about her just your mom not well. Set a normal life for you, and in front of him. Our society has changed. Yet there lots of great people. Do you see people for who they are before you meet them or work around them in real life? Take care of yourself eat, rest, and quiet time. If something happens in our life it’s to bring greater purpose. Jeremiah 29:11 his plans for you. Material stuff can be replaced set new goals. Look on line to understand children of narcissist a son loves his mother yet hopefully he has a grandmother or aunt someone set example whst a real mom would be. Only time you win in court with a narcissist is one tough attorney plus one who deals with narcissist most say this is going to get ugly. Don’t know if there video of co parenting with a narcissist. All I know this is worst test in all life. Darkest one evil one to take a person out or to think of how to destroy a person life for good a real control. That pure evil operating. So if normal process isn’t in there brain that opposite so evil operates in there brain. What doesn’t destroy you builds for greatness. Recreate yourself start over for the life that was always yours. Create the life you want to live. You know store Hobby Lobby. He worked a real job. Home, family, job, and bills to pay for years he hated the job yet it supported his family one day he had idea for frames stared building in his garage orders became so many he hired someone to sale frames next he open his first store. All products except frames are ordered from other sources. So he open one store after another in areas. Let this go heal to who you are. 🙏
Same here brother close to 3 1/2 years for me. I broke it off for about six weeks at the two year mark she Hoover the hell out of me. I thought she really love me and miss me. I took her back but this time it’s been about 15 months and then I could see her for all that she is. I see her at the gym weekly flirting with guys while she’s got a full-time living boyfriend. It’s just like that that was me while we were together. It’s really disgusting. Heartbreaking painful painful life lesson but you know what man we’re gonna be smarter wiser. We’re never gonna be in that position again we’re not gonna ignore the red flags in our gut. Thanks for that. We need to look at it for what it is painful lesson is meant to happen. Let them go live. They’re miserable lives be with other guys that are less than us. They live a lower lifestyle than us. We just didn’t know it. We want to put them on a higher level and they just never were there to begin with that all the best tea in your healing stay strong.
@JohnSzwed327 King, we got this. She spent the last 29 months of my life trying to convince me I was an emotional toddler. And that my reactions to her refusing to meet my needs were some how a sign that I had deep issues that made me seek fulfillment from my partner. The more I zoomed out though I see that she was only wanting to have male attention from a secure source. She told me negative things Bec I was actually the opposite. She needed me to feel bad about myself so I wouldn't realize how low value she really was. She was beautiful, and we had a lot of fun and I enjoyed her company. But that's not worth being priority number 27 in her life. I didn't give up. I decided that I was gunna be on my side Bec she certainly was never going to move away from being only on her side
@@Shelia-b3p thank you, and yes, it's hard to realize that everything I was shown was false. Besides when she would bare her fangs and snap at me. That was real
At approx. minus 10:00. That's exactly, what they DO. Lure you in, until you have your guard down... then they lay- into you. (i.e. Gaslighting, guilt tripping, blame- shifted projection. That IS their modus operandi... most of the crime!)
A lot of these toxic narcissist are so used to the toxicity and emotional turmoil and ups and downs I don’t even know if they have the ability to truly heal and understand how they are supposed to feel so that if they meet a man who isn’t toxic like this and can have something healthy with.
It’s a personality disorder from conception the part of brain that processes isn’t there from conception. There different areas of narcissistic goes into some serious stuff they can take there life or destroy others life to end it true.
I just cut my Narcissist Ex off starting the New Year. No contact what so ever if I see her at work I just look away or talk to someone else. She brings her new boyfriend to our job to hang out at the bar. I wanted to tell him thanks for his Service but I don't want hit with Karma. If you are Lucky enough to escape a Narcissist Do not Ever Go Back. Nothing Changes!!!!!.
Truth be if you read Psalm, Proverbs, and John little each time by 3rd chapter you will walk on wisdom your will see who people really are not going into something bad or narcissist. Wisdom is Knowledge is understanding is guidance is direction. You may need 2 or 3 keys maybe all keys. Eagles don’t hang out with chickens. There are with other Eagles or alone. As a chosen one I would want to be in a relationship with an Eagle or a chosen one the balance. One may bring a balance to each other. You can say hi to people yet not want no contact. Just sharing.
No contact since May 1. Left communication open. After 6 months, I blocked. I felt I gave her radio silence for reflection, correction, repentance, reconciliation. It seems to me that women, once monkey branched and or made a decision…they don’t come back. Men narcs come back, women narcs don’t. 7 year relationship. Like most narcs, blew it up when confronted about a narc abuse treatment on a vacation. There have been some online games to provoke but could also be interpretation. From us getting married, children, I love you to discarded in an instant like a used napkin in the trash with complete ease and comfort. They are masters at their mind control, manipulation of you and the ability to destroy with sadistic pleasure is face to face with evil and hell on Earth. A concentration camp would have been easier because they never claimed to love me.
That’s not love. Love means I support you in all, I am alway there for you, and love means so many thing in life. Love doesn’t act like that love yourself so one knows how to love others. There were many signs as you shared warning signs. That was no life. Life is your best life. If you have children when part of your life if you leave you share this isn’t how we live I want you to have a good life mom or dad aren’t well they will grow up set own boundary’s.
They chose not to heal but to hurt. They chose to be toxic. It's not as if they're not aware of what they are doing. They know exactly what they're doing 💯
No they don’t they mirror image. They have a personality disorder that a mental issue born from conception. Autism, ADHD, and others have issues. Plus if they had childhood trama it’s worst. There born this way. A set of twins can have it only one the other twin don’t it can be passed down from Great Great Grandparent into family line.
I was so tolerant with my ex I refused to believe she's this crazy lol. Felt like I escaped when we broke up. You gotta go no contact, I feel like me again ❤❤
Caught her cheating the day before Christmas. Blocked her and left to Oregon for the holidays. I came back and three days later she came knocking after being blocked. They always come back. Don’t fail the test.
@@eromero it’s ok to be worried and some of it may be valid but I’d have direct communication with people. You don’t know what’s really happening and if you get worried then talk directly to them. Have your gf avoid males or go to a real program/counseling if possible with a mature therapist. I don’t think people are just randomly looking to cheat most mature people want to buy homes experience life in a regular way
My covert narc mom is old and very weak...she might die any day. And I recently broke 5+ years no contact, had to. When I came to visit her, she acted like nothing ever happened, pushed my buttons like a pro and I reacted again the way I usually react. Drained like 6 hours of my time and energy with her dumb ass never ending stories and gossiping crap... this is a such fucking sad situation im in, man... I'm so fucked
Your dealing with mental illness part of brain doesn’t function part that process it’s like a replay over, and over pray there saved to be free when they leave this earth.
Thank you for sharing that. It must have been hard to break the no contact and then to see that nothing had changed at all. Your comment will help others realize that if they went back to their narc nothing would have changed. So you have helped me (only been almost 1 year no contact) and seem to remember only the good stuff, but in reality, it was very bad and nothing will have changed.
Hehehehe... of course. The point is, if you turn all this wisdom, the games, and manipulation into compassion and just accept it, it’s truly another level. I'm co-pareting so, all good for me, I see and keep flowing with respect... its easy flow - Check-Mate.
4:29 As a man we have to watch out, because if you tell them you just want some peace and tranquility, they FEEL you don't care about them, so their first reaction is not always going to be to give you peace and tranquility, their first reaction is to react to how they FEEL, and NOT give you peace, and the gaslighting, drama, soap opera, games begin. Women are not like us guys.
If she can´t respect your boundaries and don´t cooperate with you as leader and not bringing peace and tranquility when you say her directly, then she shouldn´t be there in first instance. Kick her, because you can´t fix her and live a life as a man, not as her puppy.
That’s not true a real home with real parents have normal children who want peace quit joy in there home real people are normal if you don’t have that well that’s selfish all about me. Plus a real person reads people to know your feelings understanding. That simple for great life.
I know what's up, however... I still wonder "Could this be just feminine nature?" because most women I dealt with (of course they might as well be narcs too) were doing the same trickery that my mother does to piss me off and watch me go mad with joy on their face. Could this be it? I have no idea.
They went no contact with me. Weird. Guess this is gray rock. True your hold life is back on track to normal. It’s a real darkness. Days better they’re out 👍. This narcissist shut down no contact. Like I’ve done it all my way no one can stop me I control everything with team, and money. Just wait till it’s over for them they will go through what they put you through not you want that it’s that how life works. Never seen so much outward stuff. It came to an end biggest payback was to destroy my mother, and that was to destroy me. Not happening to me. Yes true about abuse. If it benefits them there all in come over leave. When it don’t benefit them they say it’s over watch out they will destroy you take off with what would benefit them gone. Yet one last thing to destroy you take off. Man there abusive. They always had a trigger mood even as a child. Healed no more ever again. They destroy relationships, then older destroy there self end up all alone listen they will say this to you. Wow narcissist don’t heal wow they live in a narcissist world. I had one say to me I know why I never had children I would be abusive parent. Things they say to you unreal yet truth. Truth demonic. They will punish anyone. One year later said are you over being mad now. Wow she was feeling if mom died she have to live with that narcissist is always out for revenge. She goes through another person of family to share info on mom want talk to me. Like that trust broken. Thank you mental disorder. Terry do you think parents knew there was something wrong with this child yet not knowing they were narcissist? Truth well spoken. Living your best life is so important.
I went no contact a few weeks ago from a "friend". Blocked on my phone and on social media. Thankfully, she lives 2 hours away,but I'm stressing that I'll get a letter in the mail.... getting in one last lecture. 😆.
the healing is not linear. And new physical and mental symptoms can occur. this is also the case when separating from a woman with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)
@ don’t know we all had Facebook and MySpace accounts back in the day I think this is just people being crazy and not being held accountable. I don’t think it even has to do with social media I think that’s an excuse
Once I realized she was deliberately pushing my buttons, and I was reacting in a way that is so uncharacteristic of me and I was starting to feel like I was losing grips of my reality. I literally had to run from her and I’ve never looked back. I’ve since heard a lot about what was going on while we were together a little bit more about our past Literally a trail destruction, totally delusional as no shame or remorse for people that she’s done dirty in the past and is currently with the new guy and I see her flirting with others in the gym as if she’s completely single truly disgusting no morals no standards no boundaries no ethicscomplete degenerate sad that I ever stoop low to be with her
It is bad though lol why are they doing this to people? Should we let the violent stereotypes be together? I’m so confused it doesn’t improve they get worse…and what/why is this happening? They can’t be adults? I’m really lost in all of this
They have a part of brain missing from conception that cause processing not normal it’s mental illness. 1 out of 6 are narcissist study show yet think more 50%. They are dangerous. From children to adults you will see signs. There in all areas of life make great CEOs. There like hamster on a wheel 24 -7 it’s not there fault. Counselor move very slow they have to relapse bad behavior with building block of bad behavior you know how hard that is. Everything is everyone else fault plus total control others side either them they will destroy you. Mask comes off when older others see who they really are they end up dying alone or removing there life. They destroy there victim for real unless they find a better victim leave you. Yet it takes a lot to heal if done like this by a narcissist trap in there web.
Or stalk you just walking around but this person was in her car it seemed she flipped me off through the car(driver passenger side) mirror but not sure waving could be it while laughing what that mean I was homeless for a day maybe half a day nearly but not sure what id think about that one. Saddest thing I know its my next door neighbors daughter(s) crazy if they truly wanted help they would tried coming over when my family wasnt home or something like that
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
No there part of brain at conception isn’t there that process normal this is a mental illness. Whst would you call a person who has mental illness that destroys their life in-time with others. You have Austin, ADHD, and many others disabled young adults level 1 - 5. 5 is mental illness sociopath, and Physopath. You have those to in narcissist. This is serious stuff. Older end there life mask comes off other see who they are in real life. Go on you tube put in narcissist plus children of narcissist don’t read to much just get your insight.
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, when you go no contact, usually that escalates their behaviors. So I want you to think about stalking harassment and spying next. This is a normal cycle at the expiration of a relationship with the narcissist, even if they have new Supply they'll still try to do all these things to you.
He's the one that blocked me on everything and been in no contact for over 5 months so far. No hoovering or baiting this time from him. He made his profile private too.
The crazy part is they are surprised you don’t tolerate their bs
Women these days are so used to dealing with weak loser dudes that when they encounter a guy who doesn’t deal with their nonsense and has a backbone their brain malfunctions
😂 true their kinda "dumbfounded"
Yeah, quite an interesting experience with these demons...
How does this even happen
@@Smartbeautifulawesome Just don't try to make sense of it. Their brains are literally different.... Look into Cluster B's brain differences, they are simply stuck in the past, they are kids... Slight differences between all the of PDs tho...
They don't want commitment or give you closure, but they don't want to leave you alone either.
Sick! 😳
narss do they selves dirty being oblivious 2 knowing its inevitable that they run out of options.
Healing. Just need to find a place to live. God help my kids.
Your normal just keep showing them right life and explain the other person sick.
@@SocialStigma dam
@@SocialStigma I'm sorry brother
@@Shelia-b3p thanks for the support. My ex is convinced that I'm the narcissist and I'm capital E evil, because I didn't meet her needs and expectations. Not affectionate enough, and the two toddlers and poverty is just "my excuse". Whatever. I can't handle being yelled at anymore and she wants to go find someone who will treat her right. Good luck Hon!
Looking at narcissism content on TH-cam, since I'm accused of it, has been enlightening and creepy. Looks to me that it's the other way around and I've been the one being abused here. Never had panic attacks before she started that "yell at me for 12 hours while I beg forgiveness" routine. Pro tip, yell at me all night and I might seem more distant from you the day after. Sorry, I shut down and withdraw from people who hate me.
@ Be your own man take care of yourself or you can’t take care of family when right one. Eagles don’t hang out with chickens, and Eagles can fly alone or together. There a balance in life. It’s easy that way. Truth if your not saved life want work. Iam not going to be around negative people. It steals your energy. Men need quite coming home first few minutes sometime they need some of your time, then you need to unwind from your day. Home is a safe place from world. Jesus loves you completely others can’t even best will fail you so your not disappointed. There will be bad days kids sick, wife, or you as things happen you walk it out. Clean house, meals, clean clothes, and life simple joy with peace normal life blance your money. Life good that wisdom in time we live enemy will attack you in people close to you give enemy no ground. Fighting destroys your marriage. No women or man yells at each other talk work it out. Either leaves no man no leader in home no one protected. 12 hours no way I would walk go some where God forgives us. Those without sin cast first sin all have sin. Pray ask for wisdom whst to do get up take care of yourself. Satan comes to steal, kill, and destroy yet Jesus is way, truth, and life. Way is direction, truth is your answers, life is how to live have great life. God has a purpose for your life all of us. You only you will stand before Jesus. Are you saved. Ask Jesus to forgive you of your sin say I repent turn away I receive you into my heart as my personal savior, and my life in Jesus name. He changes us as we move forward some days are great some are challenging push through today. When you can’t take a test of faith tell God can’t take no more can you stop this test for awhile. We go into the world with Jesus not into the world. You have mind of Christ not ptsd. Don’t set there a man will get up, and leave.
If the love you're being sold leaves you questioning the person and leaves you serious looking yeah that's a red flag and all connection is off and no more
Now we know about narcissist we should never need a red flag now a quality person has there life in order job, place to live, responsible, clean, and a normal person not with issues or there family. Beside being single is only once being married is once hopefully. Men will go through slot of women before they meet right person. Truth be sleeping around is dangerous several years ago new virus causes cancer instant in women, because of sleeping with so many women only men carry it now a cancer virus no blood test or meds saves women lives now it’s full blown cancer kills a lot of women so it’s not safe to play around meeting right person you could give them cancer person you should waited for in real life. Guess God had enough of stuff. Head of OBYGN talk to me ask me told him no he explain new virus he said I have tell young women there not going to live it spreads fast from area it’s at how many women you date are seeing there Dr for check ups think about it how many partners that gross. Look across room next time your at think about who you see not cool. My mom in a home a narcissist with 2 women she a Christian. From time I was 12 saw people no respect no rules no honor aren’t hear anymore. Make wise choices with clarity.
I set this to loop and listened for an hour, never heard this broken down so well. Applies to gaslighters, abusive women, narcs, etc. Thank you TerryJoel.
I agree a lot of his videos are just broken records to me but this hit home like no other. Dealt with a woman like this for 6 years. Never again.
Abusive communities let’s be real it’s a big problem
Even if you block them, some will stalk you at your home. Cars, you've never seen before sitting in front of your house, week after week. They despise being irrelevant.
@@ms.k7487 wtf
@Smartbeautifulawesome Yeah, my thoughts exactly. Very strange. I'm sure it's the narcissist I knew. They are sadistic and enjoy creeping you out.
It's so true that once you see them for who they are, you can't unsee them.
They also seem to get worse if you're still in contact.
Go, no contact, i get it. But it's different when you have kids with her!
You have boundary’s if you leave when kids with you tell them this isn’t right there not well. Kids grow up will make there own boundary’s didn’t you with your parents.
You need to watch videos on children of narcissist.
exactly I didn’t know about narcissism and after her wrecking my life get me arrested taking my son I feel my son’s self either he’s free coming into for February. He just doesn’t see himself. She has in most of the time and exactly now looking back at everything there was so many red flags and she went straight to somebody else never dealt with the trauma the break up or anything. My life’s been ruined.
@jimscott-w1v don't worry, brother, they move on (if you want to call it that) quickly to their next victim, but never give themselves a chance to heal properly because they have no empathy or soul.
They will do exactly the same to the new supply, and once she gets bored of him, she will move on again.
Concentrate all your energy and love on your child, not her! She will never change and will be stuck in her own mind and never, and I mean never be happy! Doesn't matter who she ends up with!
You're worth more and deserve better! 👍
@ yes truth if you look on line so many people go through this yet you won your free. None of us had a relationship that person was never there for any of us. As they age the mask comes off, and others see who they are for real. They end up alone. Some end their life. Did I share at conception part of brain that processes like ours isn’t there a personality disorder they say is mental illness. Most victims don’t get out till there destroyed or not hear anymore. Narcissist just repeat same cycle to another person. 1 - 6 are narcissist today. They are in every area make great CEO. Live your life like you did before this start there you have a son live normal as a man, and a father. You may not believe this yet Jesus loves you more than anyone others can’t love you like this even best will let you down there not him. So we are complete in him no matter what comes. You still are the same you have same talent people know the truth no one has power to ruin anyone we just begin again isn’t that what we do everyday in this world. God is greater than all things. He with you pick yourself up today is a new day. Don’t dwell on this to much it’s a dark place. Forgive move on let God let go move on in your new life. A father sets the standard for his daughter in a relationship, and a mother the wisdom of all life. You go through a lot of women before you meet someone who is normal. Yet your only single once or married. Love your son don’t say bad things about her just your mom not well. Set a normal life for you, and in front of him. Our society has changed. Yet there lots of great people. Do you see people for who they are before you meet them or work around them in real life? Take care of yourself eat, rest, and quiet time. If something happens in our life it’s to bring greater purpose. Jeremiah 29:11 his plans for you. Material stuff can be replaced set new goals. Look on line to understand children of narcissist a son loves his mother yet hopefully he has a grandmother or aunt someone set example whst a real mom would be. Only time you win in court with a narcissist is one tough attorney plus one who deals with narcissist most say this is going to get ugly. Don’t know if there video of co parenting with a narcissist. All I know this is worst test in all life. Darkest one evil one to take a person out or to think of how to destroy a person life for good a real control. That pure evil operating. So if normal process isn’t in there brain that opposite so evil operates in there brain. What doesn’t destroy you builds for greatness. Recreate yourself start over for the life that was always yours. Create the life you want to live. You know store Hobby Lobby. He worked a real job. Home, family, job, and bills to pay for years he hated the job yet it supported his family one day he had idea for frames stared building in his garage orders became so many he hired someone to sale frames next he open his first store. All products except frames are ordered from other sources. So he open one store after another in areas. Let this go heal to who you are. 🙏
This hits differently. You got a 1:4 comment to like ratio. Obviously, you're putting out the realness.
I just broke things off with my narcissist girlfriend. Almost 3 years man, I'm a shell of who I was
Same here brother close to 3 1/2 years for me. I broke it off for about six weeks at the two year mark she Hoover the hell out of me. I thought she really love me and miss me. I took her back but this time it’s been about 15 months and then I could see her for all that she is. I see her at the gym weekly flirting with guys while she’s got a full-time living boyfriend. It’s just like that that was me while we were together. It’s really disgusting. Heartbreaking painful painful life lesson but you know what man we’re gonna be smarter wiser. We’re never gonna be in that position again we’re not gonna ignore the red flags in our gut. Thanks for that. We need to look at it for what it is painful lesson is meant to happen. Let them go live. They’re miserable lives be with other guys that are less than us. They live a lower lifestyle than us. We just didn’t know it. We want to put them on a higher level and they just never were there to begin with that all the best tea in your healing stay strong.
@JohnSzwed327 King, we got this.
She spent the last 29 months of my life trying to convince me I was an emotional toddler. And that my reactions to her refusing to meet my needs were some how a sign that I had deep issues that made me seek fulfillment from my partner.
The more I zoomed out though I see that she was only wanting to have male attention from a secure source.
She told me negative things Bec I was actually the opposite. She needed me to feel bad about myself so I wouldn't realize how low value she really was.
She was beautiful, and we had a lot of fun and I enjoyed her company. But that's not worth being priority number 27 in her life.
I didn't give up.
I decided that I was gunna be on my side Bec she certainly was never going to move away from being only on her side
You will heal keep doing things normal just know you had no relationship that person not there never was let it go live life.
@@Shelia-b3p thank you, and yes, it's hard to realize that everything I was shown was false. Besides when she would bare her fangs and snap at me. That was real
At approx. minus 10:00. That's exactly, what they DO. Lure you in, until you have your guard down... then they lay- into you. (i.e. Gaslighting, guilt tripping, blame- shifted projection. That IS their modus operandi... most of the crime!)
A lot of these toxic narcissist are so used to the toxicity and emotional turmoil and ups and downs I don’t even know if they have the ability to truly heal and understand how they are supposed to feel so that if they meet a man who isn’t toxic like this and can have something healthy with.
It’s a personality disorder from conception the part of brain that processes isn’t there from conception. There different areas of narcissistic goes into some serious stuff they can take there life or destroy others life to end it true.
@@drewbruns2895 that makes sense
I just cut my Narcissist Ex off starting the New Year. No contact what so ever if I see her at work I just look away or talk to someone else. She brings her new boyfriend to our job to hang out at the bar. I wanted to tell him thanks for his Service but I don't want hit with Karma. If you are Lucky enough to escape a Narcissist Do not Ever Go Back. Nothing Changes!!!!!.
I did the same thing 3 years ago. I know she took the rage out on the other dude caught in the triangle. I can’t imagine the heat he had to take.
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Wow bro your wise behind your years brother. Keep doin God's work 👍🏽
So true my sister never coming back plus they know it’s wrong in some way they can’t process how there wrong so they just see there right.
Good way to put it that there personality disorder only able to process there right it’s not there fault it happen at conception.
I'm forever having people hoover me I almost instantly know what I'm seeing and who's trying to hoover me it's absolutely weak on their behalf!!
Truth be if you read Psalm, Proverbs, and John little each time by 3rd chapter you will walk on wisdom your will see who people really are not going into something bad or narcissist. Wisdom is Knowledge is understanding is guidance is direction. You may need 2 or 3 keys maybe all keys. Eagles don’t hang out with chickens. There are with other Eagles or alone. As a chosen one I would want to be in a relationship with an Eagle or a chosen one the balance. One may bring a balance to each other. You can say hi to people yet not want no contact. Just sharing.
No contact since May 1. Left communication open. After 6 months, I blocked. I felt I gave her radio silence for reflection, correction, repentance, reconciliation. It seems to me that women, once monkey branched and or made a decision…they don’t come back. Men narcs come back, women narcs don’t.
7 year relationship. Like most narcs, blew it up when confronted about a narc abuse treatment on a vacation.
There have been some online games to provoke but could also be interpretation.
From us getting married, children, I love you to discarded in an instant like a used napkin in the trash with complete ease and comfort.
They are masters at their mind control, manipulation of you and the ability to destroy with sadistic pleasure is face to face with evil and hell on Earth. A concentration camp would have been easier because they never claimed to love me.
I totally agree with you..👏
That’s not love. Love means I support you in all, I am alway there for you, and love means so many thing in life. Love doesn’t act like that love yourself so one knows how to love others. There were many signs as you shared warning signs. That was no life. Life is your best life. If you have children when part of your life if you leave you share this isn’t how we live I want you to have a good life mom or dad aren’t well they will grow up set own boundary’s.
They chose not to heal but to hurt. They chose to be toxic. It's not as if they're not aware of what they are doing. They know exactly what they're doing 💯
They don’t though
No they don’t they mirror image. They have a personality disorder that a mental issue born from conception. Autism, ADHD, and others have issues. Plus if they had childhood trama it’s worst. There born this way. A set of twins can have it only one the other twin don’t it can be passed down from Great Great Grandparent into family line.
"Its a tough world."
Man i felt that
I was so tolerant with my ex I refused to believe she's this crazy lol. Felt like I escaped when we broke up. You gotta go no contact, I feel like me again ❤❤
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Caught her cheating the day before Christmas. Blocked her and left to Oregon for the holidays. I came back and three days later she came knocking after being blocked.
They always come back. Don’t fail the test.
Have her service your sausage!
Damn bro that's rough. One of my biggest fears when it comes to dating is being cheated on. Can't trust any of these 304s
@@eromero it’s ok to be worried and some of it may be valid but I’d have direct communication with people. You don’t know what’s really happening and if you get worried then talk directly to them. Have your gf avoid males or go to a real program/counseling if possible with a mature therapist. I don’t think people are just randomly looking to cheat most mature people want to buy homes experience life in a regular way
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@@LeeEverett1a normal person does same things in a normal day.
No contact, grey rocking or go completely silent on them that's what i do. Narcissist are waste of my time.
Thank you for the daily videos. You’re a friend to many that need one right now.
This is what need thank you bro. i will see you in a next one stay bless my boi
seriously, don’t pick up the book Magnetic Aura unless you’re ready to see things differently, no joke.
I been seeing this everywhere but I can’t find the book online to buy
@@stevenolove Scam comments bro lol
@@stevenolove he’s a scammer. That book doesn’t exist.
Literally what I'm going through right now.Word per word
My covert narc mom is old and very weak...she might die any day. And I recently broke 5+ years no contact, had to. When I came to visit her, she acted like nothing ever happened, pushed my buttons like a pro and I reacted again the way I usually react. Drained like 6 hours of my time and energy with her dumb ass never ending stories and gossiping crap... this is a such fucking sad situation im in, man... I'm so fucked
Your dealing with mental illness part of brain doesn’t function part that process it’s like a replay over, and over pray there saved to be free when they leave this earth.
@@pmf026 there is something deeply wrong with them just see the good in them and try not to be involved in their bad behavior. They won’t listen
Thank you for sharing that. It must have been hard to break the no contact and then to see that nothing had changed at all. Your comment will help others realize that if they went back to their narc nothing would have changed. So you have helped me (only been almost 1 year no contact) and seem to remember only the good stuff, but in reality, it was very bad and nothing will have changed.
Hehehehe... of course. The point is, if you turn all this wisdom, the games, and manipulation into compassion and just accept it, it’s truly another level. I'm co-pareting so, all good for me, I see and keep flowing with respect... its easy flow - Check-Mate.
Thank you for the video ❤ The manipulated man, just ordered the book. Terry you should read it live and do a breakdown of the meanings. ❤👍🏿
4:29 As a man we have to watch out, because if you tell them you just want some peace and tranquility, they FEEL you don't care about them, so their first reaction is not always going to be to give you peace and tranquility, their first reaction is to react to how they FEEL, and NOT give you peace, and the gaslighting, drama, soap opera, games begin. Women are not like us guys.
If she can´t respect your boundaries and don´t cooperate with you as leader and not bringing peace and tranquility when you say her directly, then she shouldn´t be there in first instance. Kick her, because you can´t fix her and live a life as a man, not as her puppy.
That’s not true a real home with real parents have normal children who want peace quit joy in there home real people are normal if you don’t have that well that’s selfish all about me. Plus a real person reads people to know your feelings understanding. That simple for great life.
All you have to do is come off of social media, change your phone number, and forget they exist... Pretty easy 👌🏾 😎 😏
I know what's up, however... I still wonder "Could this be just feminine nature?" because most women I dealt with (of course they might as well be narcs too) were doing the same trickery that my mother does to piss me off and watch me go mad with joy on their face. Could this be it? I have no idea.
That’s not normal who do that to a person.
They went no contact with me. Weird. Guess this is gray rock. True your hold life is back on track to normal. It’s a real darkness. Days better they’re out 👍. This narcissist shut down no contact. Like I’ve done it all my way no one can stop me I control everything with team, and money. Just wait till it’s over for them they will go through what they put you through not you want that it’s that how life works. Never seen so much outward stuff. It came to an end biggest payback was to destroy my mother, and that was to destroy me. Not happening to me. Yes true about abuse. If it benefits them there all in come over leave. When it don’t benefit them they say it’s over watch out they will destroy you take off with what would benefit them gone. Yet one last thing to destroy you take off. Man there abusive. They always had a trigger mood even as a child. Healed no more ever again. They destroy relationships, then older destroy there self end up all alone listen they will say this to you. Wow narcissist don’t heal wow they live in a narcissist world. I had one say to me I know why I never had children I would be abusive parent. Things they say to you unreal yet truth. Truth demonic. They will punish anyone. One year later said are you over being mad now. Wow she was feeling if mom died she have to live with that narcissist is always out for revenge. She goes through another person of family to share info on mom want talk to me. Like that trust broken. Thank you mental disorder. Terry do you think parents knew there was something wrong with this child yet not knowing they were narcissist? Truth well spoken. Living your best life is so important.
I went no contact a few weeks ago from a "friend". Blocked on my phone and on social media. Thankfully, she lives 2 hours away,but I'm stressing that I'll get a letter in the mail.... getting in one last lecture. 😆.
Don’t open it go on for what waiting for you real life.
They are sick. Period.
Magnetic Aura book by Takeshi Mizuki ain’t for everyone, it’s for people who actually want to get ahead.
This guy kills it with the content but the background noise in the audio kills me
Tell that to FB who keeps notifying me of the back up profile w pic as a "suggestion" 😐 5 times now and counting
Bro, you are on target. You described my ex wife to the letter.
the healing is not linear. And new physical and mental symptoms can occur.
this is also the case when separating from a woman with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)
🔥 "They are cooked!" 🔥
I’m so tired of all of this…everyone is going insane
A lot has to do with social media changing people to be self centered all about me.
@ don’t know we all had Facebook and MySpace accounts back in the day I think this is just people being crazy and not being held accountable. I don’t think it even has to do with social media I think that’s an excuse
@ study shows different have you people watched lately how can you say are society is normal
@@Smartbeautifulawesome normal will be who left standing
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Female arc don’t care and won’t come back. Ego big
Not right person real people don’t act this way.
Its called reactionary abuse...sick
Once I realized she was deliberately pushing my buttons, and I was reacting in a way that is so uncharacteristic of me and I was starting to feel like I was losing grips of my reality. I literally had to run from her and I’ve never looked back. I’ve since heard a lot about what was going on while we were together a little bit more about our past Literally a trail destruction, totally delusional as no shame or remorse for people that she’s done dirty in the past and is currently with the new guy and I see her flirting with others in the gym as if she’s completely single truly disgusting no morals no standards no boundaries no ethicscomplete degenerate sad that I ever stoop low to be with her
Interesting
I feel like me and this guy dated the exact same girl
Weird
Narcs are all the same because theyre all being evil.
She obviously found someone else so im lucky there I guess
Move on let go so the right person comes into your life.
you probably shouldn’t read the book Magnetic Aura if you’re cool with missing out on how attraction really works.
It is bad though lol why are they doing this to people? Should we let the violent stereotypes be together? I’m so confused it doesn’t improve they get worse…and what/why is this happening? They can’t be adults? I’m really lost in all of this
They have a part of brain missing from conception that cause processing not normal it’s mental illness. 1 out of 6 are narcissist study show yet think more 50%. They are dangerous. From children to adults you will see signs. There in all areas of life make great CEOs. There like hamster on a wheel 24 -7 it’s not there fault. Counselor move very slow they have to relapse bad behavior with building block of bad behavior you know how hard that is. Everything is everyone else fault plus total control others side either them they will destroy you. Mask comes off when older others see who they really are they end up dying alone or removing there life. They destroy there victim for real unless they find a better victim leave you. Yet it takes a lot to heal if done like this by a narcissist trap in there web.
Or stalk you just walking around but this person was in her car it seemed she flipped me off through the car(driver passenger side) mirror but not sure waving could be it while laughing what that mean I was homeless for a day maybe half a day nearly but not sure what id think about that one. Saddest thing I know its my next door neighbors daughter(s) crazy if they truly wanted help they would tried coming over when my family wasnt home or something like that
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Thank you. 🙏
Thank you bro good video
I blocked her.
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They can, and will destroy your life.
what games should there be if your no contact already? doesnt make sense
It’s like that till they find a better victim.
I went through this with a man bro no contact
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if you’re not ready for real change, skip the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s too much for most people.
What it’s about?
23:51 😂😭💀
Im a month no contact. When can i expect shit to go down?
Ittl happen when they see you doin good they'll try to run game again
If your waiting around your cooked
Stand firm go no contact it shuts them down trying to find your week point they study you when with you. Stand firm.
He lied to me he was suddenly moving to get me to see him as soon as possible. Be prepared for lies to play you again.....
I disagree: evil is a PERSONAL CHOICE, so you can’t just pretend that “they have a demon”. They ARE a demon BY CHOICE.
No there part of brain at conception isn’t there that process normal this is a mental illness. Whst would you call a person who has mental illness that destroys their life in-time with others. You have Austin, ADHD, and many others disabled young adults level 1 - 5. 5 is mental illness sociopath, and Physopath. You have those to in narcissist. This is serious stuff. Older end there life mask comes off other see who they are in real life. Go on you tube put in narcissist plus children of narcissist don’t read to much just get your insight.
Yes they chose to be evil. They can choose to repent to God.
don’t read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki if you’re fine staying like everyone else, it’s not for you.
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Bro is delusional
Can't heal of their is no one in the mirror 🧛♀️ 🎶18 years she got you for 18 years🎶
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, when you go no contact, usually that escalates their behaviors. So I want you to think about stalking harassment and spying next. This is a normal cycle at the expiration of a relationship with the narcissist, even if they have new Supply they'll still try to do all these things to you.
He's the one that blocked me on everything and been in no contact for over 5 months so far. No hoovering or baiting this time from him. He made his profile private too.