One Key To Having A Successful Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'One Key To Having A Successful Marriage'
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  • @koladeogundare978
    @koladeogundare978 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    Saturday morning in bed with my wife cudling, listening to this message, pausing at intervals to whisperingly discuss so as not to disturb our baby is divine. God bless you always PK.

  • @KnotEasilyBroken
    @KnotEasilyBroken ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I have been married for 28 yrs, and I never once told my wife to treat me like I am the man in the marriage. I know my responsibility to love, honor, and treat her with the utmost respect. I asked God to teach me how to love her as Christ loves the church. I study the book of Ephesians 5. Men must understand their biblical responsibility to love and honor their wives. First, you have to marry the right woman. A woman who desires to be a wife, not just a BRIDE.

    • @sarahabe1221
      @sarahabe1221 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @ponijada3697
      @ponijada3697 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @Agu-042
      @Agu-042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Am saving this comment for my future children..❤

  • @tivertonlove850
    @tivertonlove850 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just argued with my husband over these very points I pray he forgives me I wish I saw this video sooner

  • @toch8528
    @toch8528 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Kudos to the lady and gentleman who stood all through 🙂

  • @queenprettyjay2215
    @queenprettyjay2215 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Honestly speaking I can't stop watching pastor K's messages everyday... More grace sir

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have learned a lot from you sir keep up the great work you are doing!!!!! God bless you

  • @benjaminmorrisramnap275
    @benjaminmorrisramnap275 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This Pastor is too good...... hitting the nail on the head.

  • @iheanachoenyum4026
    @iheanachoenyum4026 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always learn a lot from your messages. Thank you, sir. But please, sir, don't stand a couple for that long, sir.

  • @oluwakemimary1159
    @oluwakemimary1159 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always a blessing listening to u sir/ma

  • @austinbetha19
    @austinbetha19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My wife nor dey ever agree oo she always say I must love her

  • @Official_diwa
    @Official_diwa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sir🙏

  • @latonyadampier9449
    @latonyadampier9449 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is so Good. Amen 🥳 🙏

  • @fums123
    @fums123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Sir.

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much pastor K. You are a blessing to this generation

  • @energix8579
    @energix8579 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a blessing

  • @trophy183
    @trophy183 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pr Kingsley God bless u sir

  • @franklynenahoro9540
    @franklynenahoro9540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you pastor

  • @augustinetv5735
    @augustinetv5735 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Weldon sir 🙏🙏

  • @nkechinyereukachukwu6699
    @nkechinyereukachukwu6699 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is for me and my spouse. God bless u sir

  • @fatunbisamuel7798
    @fatunbisamuel7798 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you sir

  • @Melissa_1st
    @Melissa_1st ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has taught me a lot about relationships.He is one of the balanced and sincere teachers of relationship I know.
    God bless you sir.

  • @abosedese_divaladejobi
    @abosedese_divaladejobi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful message. Always learning from Pst. K's messages. My question is, Isn't overlooking condoning misbehavours? How then do we correct each other?

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Overlooking does not mean that one cannot mention the behaviour but PK states that we should be discerning enough to talk about the behaviour when the atmosphere is not tensed up because we will create more damage.
      Correction must be done in love and correction in love means that I will wait for the time when the atmosphere is free inorder to discuss such issues
      This also applies to folks who have enjoyed years of amazing friendship with their friends

  • @analogymoment
    @analogymoment ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Sir for this message

  • @Snqobss547
    @Snqobss547 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen

  • @HelenKKitchen
    @HelenKKitchen ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you PK sir 🙏

  • @misparineyaa2027
    @misparineyaa2027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I me and my husband could meet u for counciling, my relationship is almost broken cause of all these things.

  • @ochudonobodo
    @ochudonobodo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Choosing the right person for marriage does not guarantee a successful life together. The so called compatibility marriage. No. You can choose a person who may not be up to your level but the person may have one singular thing you lack or need in life. Our Lord Jesus did not choose perfect men as disciples. But they became perfect over time, especially after Pentecost . I pray for healing in all broken marriages.

  • @danafrancis9646
    @danafrancis9646 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch this was a comprehensive talk real need for introspection pastor Kinsley

  • @godismyhelp6359
    @godismyhelp6359 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That room scatter issue it's only a few women
    Specially Melancholy, same with melancholy men as well
    Most women are more scattered than their husbands

  • @VicoOsita-re4op
    @VicoOsita-re4op 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    With all die respect I disagree on the issue of "women are not told to love their husbands"
    It's biblical that the elderly women was asked by apostle Paul to teach the younger women to LOVE their HUSBANDS
    I don't know how una dey see uma own bible

  • @934rex
    @934rex ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I’m not even married yet, but listening to this is a BLESSING ❤

  • @danvers2022
    @danvers2022 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The key to a successful marriage is choosing the right partner in the first place.

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic ปีที่แล้ว +28

    As a woman, this video is soooo trueeee. We always just want be loved by the one that we love. And we only feel like that love when he sacrifices for us. Sacrifice, time, money, attention or whatever. Because we are the church and Christ is the head, He showed the church love through sacrifice.

  • @ruthsilas4202
    @ruthsilas4202 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    PK! The lord increase the oil on your head beyond measure sir.
    Raw truth from the throne room.
    You shall not fall, you won’t be found wanting sir.
    The lord bless and preserve your own marriage forever.

  • @misparineyaa2027
    @misparineyaa2027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Relationship wizard. Chaiiiii pastor Kinsley. I respect u in this matter heyyyy

  • @wholeness-inChrist
    @wholeness-inChrist ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love her into submission and not subject her into submission.

  • @robertgentle5156
    @robertgentle5156 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Just feeling for the couple standing all through

    • @christianlady
      @christianlady ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅😂😂. Same here

    • @lyliesasakwa562
      @lyliesasakwa562 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I always have that thought when even choir is standing the entire service. I don’t know how they do that or why 😂

  • @graceirewale7023
    @graceirewale7023 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Salute to this couple, you did minister with pastor! Blessings on pastor Kingley.

  • @odusola-stevensonomobolanl6591
    @odusola-stevensonomobolanl6591 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like the way pastor K cast his old self just buy dog while passing 😂😂😂

    • @justechos
      @justechos ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was so random and funny. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove ปีที่แล้ว +12

    How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship.
    💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @chiomanj
    @chiomanj ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do you love me??? Pastor K don give expo o!!!! Thats how i sieved out a lot of guys in my single days.lol

  • @rutendo_commentary
    @rutendo_commentary ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is serious talk. Thank you Pastor K. You are changing lives.

  • @uchechiiyeghe1699
    @uchechiiyeghe1699 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pastor K is so humorous!!!😅

  • @faywhitemann6829
    @faywhitemann6829 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lord i open myself so that through me a Godly marriage will come forth..

  • @pelumiadewumi3879
    @pelumiadewumi3879 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's been a blessing to me and so many others, I'm sure, watching and listening to you over the years. However Pastor K, you seem to play a placation, the Bible never used the word "respect" for husbands but "submission" which is deeper in sense and value. I think it should be said just the way the BIBLE puts it.

  • @mhizkwesi1288
    @mhizkwesi1288 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My brother is here saying okpe men no do do work for woman a lot of men really need to hear this teaching they are so ignorant 😢

  • @tbjamztv
    @tbjamztv ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmmm beautiful message. Thankyou sir

  • @primrosefundai
    @primrosefundai ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a blessings into my life since l started to listen your teaching . Lot's of love for you guys from Zimbabwe ❤❤❤

  • @samuelafolayan7056
    @samuelafolayan7056 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you pastor, I really learn alot from you today and am blessed with your teaching; all the way from USA, am single and serving the LORD in the church and never been married also born again christian.

  • @perpetuaakpulu3343
    @perpetuaakpulu3343 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My husband told me that he is logical in thinking 🤔 and i don't know how to relate with him

  • @arnoldighiwiyisi
    @arnoldighiwiyisi ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always a blessing listening to Pastor K, thank you sir

  • @marywanjuku2804
    @marywanjuku2804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor Kingsley God continues blessing you........the gift of details in a woman comes with the gift of pettiness....😮😮this is directly to me 👂

  • @okiemutesonia9286
    @okiemutesonia9286 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pastor why did you open our secret like this 😂😂, but thank you let them learn

  • @johnadama9638
    @johnadama9638 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is beautiful. What a blessing!

  • @olaniranifeoluwa6978
    @olaniranifeoluwa6978 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my God, I’m so blessed as single. God bless you sir. More anointing in Jesus name

  • @flaviaejang3485
    @flaviaejang3485 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pastor Kingsley thank you so much for allowing God to use you and your beautiful wife to shape us in the line of relationship and marriage. I am forever a good student.

  • @lebeneahiabor6646
    @lebeneahiabor6646 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank so much for sharing this wonderful message with us Sir.
    Blessings.

  • @paparazicreations
    @paparazicreations ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you very Much Pastor. You're a blessing to our generation and generations to come. I pray for more wisdom, insight of the Holy Spirit with increase in Anointing continually to dish out the word of the Lord in Jesus name. Amen 🙏

  • @suzanpaul1860
    @suzanpaul1860 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so blessed.
    Thank you PK

  • @bhreand
    @bhreand ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wooooooowwww!!!!

  • @mercyanthony4165
    @mercyanthony4165 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In my issue, i am d man my husband is d wife , he nag, verbal abuse , fight and beat me anywhere and always sending me out of d marriage everytime , my inlaw hate me , as i am taking now he has pack my things and my kids to my parents house cus we have an issue
    What do i do

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God’s continuous blessings upon your life and your family’s life, my Pastor and relationship coach, Pastor K! ❤

  • @mrsSho_hearty
    @mrsSho_hearty ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is beautiful! Thank you PK!

  • @dianablessing8693
    @dianablessing8693 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happens when your husband insults you in every give opportunity?

  • @AngelleFabiano
    @AngelleFabiano 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sir.

  • @estheronoja4916
    @estheronoja4916 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, pastor, for these words of wisdom.

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh599 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These are words of wisdom. Thank you for the reminder and counsel.

  • @gertrudentiamoah9722
    @gertrudentiamoah9722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor Kingsley God bless you. This is so wonderful. I'm glad l came by it. Thank you.

  • @janetcobbinah6432
    @janetcobbinah6432 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is wisdom
    God bless you for the spirit of understanding for His word

  • @sandraezejianyaele8288
    @sandraezejianyaele8288 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love her into submission; this is so apt.

  • @anuOluwapoyimika
    @anuOluwapoyimika 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're on point sir 👌🏼 👌🏼

  • @davisjnr4739
    @davisjnr4739 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor this is my wife you are talking about

  • @Franklinodaro
    @Franklinodaro ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Your ministry is a revolution 🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤

    • @Folakanbi
      @Folakanbi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      More like a REFORMATION...

  • @bayoibrahim2825
    @bayoibrahim2825 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    pastor K, WELL SAID

  • @maryakabekwa7313
    @maryakabekwa7313 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wowww this is profound

  • @sammy180286
    @sammy180286 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you MOG. This is a huge blessing. God bless you sir.

  • @Chiomasignatures
    @Chiomasignatures ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you sir and your ministry……🙏🏾

  • @rahamaabah
    @rahamaabah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My God!!!!! This is just so powerful

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper3610 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    DIVINE WISDOM DADDY, LORD STRENGTHEN ME

  • @gt_n1722
    @gt_n1722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful message Pastor K.
    Glory to God!

  • @JanuaryOlayiwola
    @JanuaryOlayiwola ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! This was so insightful!!!

  • @Sassynurse14
    @Sassynurse14 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it proper to marry a guy you don’t give you money or show any financial concern towards you
    I am not talking about a state of entitlement

    • @Whoisthatgirl2121
      @Whoisthatgirl2121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As he’s doing is how he will continue
      So it’s for you to decide if you can live like that for the rest of your life

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you Sir. I am blessed by this word

  • @rachelowhonda2913
    @rachelowhonda2913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This message is great 👍. Thank you pastor K

  • @emmanuelogbu
    @emmanuelogbu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor, God bless you for this word.

  • @wisdomazeta5896
    @wisdomazeta5896 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God will continue to bless you sir👍

  • @AwesomeProf
    @AwesomeProf หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you so much Sir.

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wqs so much blessed.

  • @QueenZege
    @QueenZege 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God give you more grace sir

  • @toukampriscerezo2136
    @toukampriscerezo2136 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God Bless you abundantly Sir🙏🙏🙏

  • @daralabel2993
    @daralabel2993 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful message pastor K

  • @naamorosah
    @naamorosah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very educative, God bless you 🙏

  • @mariaamadi
    @mariaamadi 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Respect, discipline, love, patience, tolerance, self control, forgiveness etc are the many keys I picked from the message. 17years of marriage and your wife has never disrespected you, that's amazing. Thanks Pst

  • @tiwoaariane1695
    @tiwoaariane1695 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor you are blessed

  • @laurafelix4296
    @laurafelix4296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am blessed sir❤listening to u always

  • @orovwighowisdom3892
    @orovwighowisdom3892 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u for blessing my life with this msg sir.

  • @cindygarshong2091
    @cindygarshong2091 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m amazed ❤

  • @godwinaliekalu
    @godwinaliekalu หลายเดือนก่อน

    RAW TRUTH

  • @deborahjoseph7977
    @deborahjoseph7977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much sir
    More Grace sir