Your reaction to this situation is a testament to how much your sobriety means to you and how serious you are about staying that way. SO incredibly inspiring and I know you will help so many sharing your story. I pray that you don't hang your head about this and that maybe a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. Congratulations on 10 years girl! Love you!
@@SamK2525 I have to agree. This was painful to watch. Not because of a simple 1 sip accident, but all the drama over nothing and the long drawn out woe-is-me overreaction. This kind of shit is why I stopped going to AA years ago. I couldn't help but sit there and listen to the asinine crying and whining over what I consider insignificant or good problems to have. The very last meeting I attended was the final straw. A guy made it clear he needed to share something. 2 women took up the entire meeting, one complaining about how hard it was to be a mom. This is a rich, kept house wife complaining that a toddler takes up so much of her time. The other was whining about social injustice issues, which should be politics and not allowed. The man was left a quick 2 minutes to talk about his dad dying the day before.
Hi Liz! Fellow sober NHite here! March 22 will be 11yrs off heroin and alcohol. It comes down to intention and change. To thine own self be true is what they say. Your truth and intention seem aligned with what you have become, a changed sober human, and that is what you still are sitting there reading this comment. You've come to the conclusion for yourself I hope, that you are still the person with perseverance, integrity and honesty that left to go to California and you arrived home the same way, a sober alcoholic. Our minds will sometimes lead us astray from our balance beam, this is why we have other people that we love, value and trust. Like your mates, Luke and your client. No one is going to be able to change your emotions on this, but you know who you are after 10yrs and know your intent. Happy 10yrs Liz! Hug your friends and Luke.
Wonderful comment! I am 1 year and 3 months sober from alcohol and listening to her tell this story made me tear up as I know I would be just as hard on myself if I were in her shoes. However, what you said here is absolutely the truth - intention, change and being truth to oneself. I will tuck your words away in case I ever need them. Congrats on 11 years sober as well! We are all in this fight together and day by day we will continue to succeed! 💜
Liz, just the very idea that it bothered you so badly says a lot about you! YOU haven't messed anything up. You are a success...you can mentor others and help them ....I am sure it has happened to others so now you have had a new experience that will help others...SO proud of you!!! Your sharing this has already helped others I am sure and will continue to....sending love your way
This is the most authentic video I have seen about what it means to be human. It's so messy and complicated! When we want something, commit to it and then something so silly causes all that work to not seem like it meant anything or it was for nothing. Liz, you are going to help so many people with this video. Thank you for sharing.
You hold yourself to such a high (perfect) standard, Liz. It has served you well at times, obviously, because you are so driven and successful… but I wish you weren’t so hard on yourself. I’ve been a subscriber for years and I admire you so much. You are an incredible person, and a person that has more integrity in her little finger than many people have in their whole body. It really was an innocent mistake and does not at all diminish your ten years of sobriety. You should be so, so proud of yourself!❤
Hey Liz! As a fellow recovering alcoholic and addict... I have fell off the wagon a couple times. I'm much more proud of the fact I was able to go right back to being clean and not stress about the nullification of a "clean streak." Every day that's clean for me is the best win. I wish you all the positive vibes and strength in your journey.
Give yourself grace. Your reaction and actions after your honest mistake are your true character. You didn’t use the mistake as an excuse to drink, you held on to your commitment to yourself and your sobriety. Forgive yourself and don’t let one mistake tarnish all of your hard work. 🤗 CONGRATULATIONS on your ten years. Celebrate yourself. ❤
Oh Liz, bless your heart! You are so awesome and honest and genuine!!! I can honestly tell you that if you use mouthwash you've gotten more alcohol from that than from that half spit out drink! A fall off the wagon is intentional and taking that drink and then another and another toll the glass is empty and saying internally, "hello" and welcoming an "old friend" and embarrassing the moment. You were terrified! You are so tough on yourself which is who you are and I fully appreciate that part of who you are. And good for you for being who you are. We often are our toughest judge. So do what you have to to process this and use it as a learning experience and be at peace that you are Ten Years Sober! And a little info, whenever we eat fruit, while it's in our intestinal tract it produces alcohol. So in all likelihood in the last ten years you've had more alcohol in your system from eating fruit than from that little sip/spit. I hope you won't let this diminish the awesome accomplishment of 10 years sober! I adore you for being so honest and I adore Luke for being so supportive!! You Rock!❤
You said it at the beginig of the video......ON ACCIDENT !!! By the way it hit you and your reaction to it tells me and anyone bothering to listen, you have maintained your sobriety, PERIOD. I've been watching you since your AT hike and my opinion of you as a geniune, loving and virtuous soul has not changed, if anything it elevates you. Take care and God bless.
You did it, Liz. 10 years sober. You made an honest mistake while at dinner. It's no different than when I accidentally grab the wrong glass & take a drink of my husband's Pepsi (which I hate). You hold yourself to an incredibly high standard, which is admirable, but you didn't mess up your sobriety. Much love. ❤
Hay LIz in my book you have not ruined your sobriety in any way. Your reaction tells everything. Keep being honest with yourself. Been sober since 4-24-07.
I have just passed 5 months sober off substances, and I can tell you 10 years is a MASSIVE ACCOMPLISHMENT, and I really do find your story inspiring. This sounds like an honest mistake. I would try not to think of it and concentrate on all those years of sobriety you have achieved.
You are still sober. This feels like a video that was necessary for the folks in your presence the night it happened. It is done. It does not count. You are good. ❤
Do you need something to be disappointed in yourself about? Because this is definitely a distortion of reality and nothing to focus on. You’re doing great you’ve come so far .. don’t waste energy on this!
Mistakes happen. Accidents happen. The true test is how you react and move forward. You are 10 years sober and that is a wonderful thing. Don’t know you, only from what has been shared here, but you are amazing. Congratulations on 10 years.
I saw this happen to a friend. They had been so careful about it for years. According to them, it was a very uncomfortable moment and they forgave their inattention. Being so on guard, 24/7 is exhausting. I hope you stay kind to yourself.
Forgave their inattentiveness. This right here Liz. What would you tell anyone of us if it happened to us? Give yourself grace. And forgiveness. And tell yourself what you would tell someone else in your shoes. 🤍
You should be very proud of yourself for having 10 years sober under your belt! I am so so proud of you! Accidents happen, I know it's hard to accept but don't be so hard on yourself, you're doing amazing!! It doesn't throw your sobriety down the drain.
@@micheleinfelise9001It kinda is. If someone just takes an "accidental" sip once in a while, it can snowball into something very ugly. I understand how important these boundaries are. There's no shame in hitting the reset button, but calling it 10 years will always feel like a lie, and nothing will shake that feeling.
How wonderful! Like you, I did NA and AA for a while in the beginning of my journey. I'm not involved much now. I respect each and every person involved, so very much! Now... One nugget I remember is, we can only keep what we have by giving it away. You shared your experience so that, hopefully, someone else in this position can feel a sense of relief that they're NOT ALONE! 10 years babe! Such WONDERFUL news! Congratulations!
Liz, sometimes it sucks being human. But I can promise you that you have had a positive impact on a lot of people going thru tough times. This is the journey of life.
I feel for you. I don’t think you are not sober but that is for you to determine. Stay strong, stay sober, don’t throw out your sobriety over guilt for this accident. Thanks for sharing. I hope you find some peace with this.
Don't cry my dear. I'm so proud of how far you've come. And what you're feeling is totally natural for the journey you're on. Mistakes are bound to happen. Everything is going to be ok. Just celebrate when your 10 years comes! Please don't punish yourself. You are loved! Chin up!
So absolutely proud of you and your sobriety, I get how hard this is as I have been "sober" since 2017'. Liz now you have two things to celebrate. Not only 10 years of sobriety but also the fact that you are 💯% in control now. You didn't want more. CONTROL That's an enormous accomplishment. Congratulations on 10 years of taking control of something that is very difficult to keep on a tight leash. ❤️❤️💛💛🤘🤘🤘
I have friends and family, that struggle with sobriety and have broken their sobriety. And had to go back through getting sober all over again. From the outside it seems like a huge victory for you. Hang in there!! Good luck and good health!
My dad had a similar mistake. However his was intentional. He ordered a beer had a sip then realized it was a mistake. It was ten years in. He has been sober for 25 years now. You are not alone. You are doing great. Yours was an honest mistake. You are still sober in my book. ❤
Also, as someone who clings pretty tightly to my own sense of integrity, I think it's too easy to hold ourselves to nearly impossible standards. We don't give ourselves much space to make mistakes. The thing is, we're still human, and humans are not infallible. This doesn't change who we are at our core. Trust yourself.
Thank you for sharing this very personal story. As someone with over 7 years, I can relate to some of the emotions and questions you shared. You said “it might not be a big deal to other people” but it is for you. So I will agree with you that it is a big deal. Your feelings are valid and it’s okay to feel the entirety of them. In my opinion, that sip of alcohol does not negate your 10 years at all. Again, I appreciate that you shared your story. Please remind yourself to be kind to yourself if you are feeling down❤❤❤
There’s a whole lot of sips between your 10 year sobriety and a relapse. Give yourself some grace! It was an accidental sip that you spit out, not ‘Oh this is just too good to quit’ and you ended up tipsy at the least. You had a close call and it scared the shit out of you. Hugs to you girl! You’re much stronger than you’re giving yourself credit for.
just over 6 years for me. Don't beat yourself up...defiantly still 10 years sober in my book. hard boundaries are good but it's your reaction to the situation that proves you didn't mess up.
You did not minimize this episode- a sure sign that you take your recovery really seriously. No denial, no “budding” just an honest mistake and this video sharing from your heart. I was in Mexico on vacation several years ago. At the resort we were at, they had a 2 drinks for the price of one special. I ordered two virgin Pina Coladas. When they were delivered to my beach chair, I drank the first one down, being hot and thirsty. Then that old familiar warm feeling came over me and I realized the waiter who took my order mis-interrupted “virgin” Pina Colada. I went through a similar process- lots of second guessing, feeling guilty, telling myself that what happens in Mexico stays in Mexico. Ultimately I did what you did. I shared it with friends in recovery. I got much the same responses you have received. I have been following your channel for quite a while and really respect your straight edge approach to life, your honesty and wearing your heart on your sleeve. Many years ago, watching an episode of Hill Street Blues, Captain Furrillo was at a captains retreat and was asked what the hardest thing was for him. He responded, it is the eternal vigilance that goes with being in recovery. I’m not hearing any complacency with you Liz.
Sending love to you Liz, it’s heart breaking to see you so upset and disappointed in yourself, but I think the universe was sending a hint to you and what your message on 10 years needs to be. You just shared something with everyone so real and so raw that it perfectly highlights what many others have possibly felt at some point in their lives as well. What seems like a simple excusable sip to someone can be a damaging and devastating sip to another. You are ten years sober only by willpower and dedication but it proves that it wasn’t by chance, it wasn’t by accident, it’s only by hard work and determination that got you all this way. And i feel like this will be inspiring to others that may be feeling the same way about an honest mistake they have made at some point, that the emotions are real and it’s justified to feel this way as well. Your emotions prove how much pressure you put on yourself and it’s that pressure that will get you another 10 years and beyond. Proud of you!!!
Hugs, handstand! One year in over here and about to start the AT in two weeks. Congratulations on ten years. Throw down some self love and props for being so honest and transparent with your struggle, I appreciate the hell outta that. We love ya and I hope you can feel that.
It is a big deal to you and I think that shows just how committed you are to your sobriety! We all make mistakes, it's what we do after that makes us who we are. Your commitment to your sobriety, your willingness to be open about and share your struggles, shows just how strong your character is. Congratulations on ten years! :)
Liz, you only have to answer to you! Don't worry about what others think. You are still 10 years sober and kudos to you! One accidental taste isn't going to undo all you have accomplished. It was just a mistake. Go easier on yourself. Hopefully it doesn't happen again but it might in your lifetime and now you can plan on what to do if it does. Peace be with you and thanks for sharing!
You're not stupid. I Love your story and your channel. Congrats on Ten years sober. My hope and prayer is that you will find the kindness within yourself to focus on the three thousand and however many days and not the 3 or four seconds and ounce or two of alcohol that was mistakenly ingested.
Truly….the only one you need to answer to is yourself. You can tell people if it makes you feel better but no one is going to beat you up any more than you. This is not a relapse… it’s an unintentional sip….it’s not like you even took a second sip or wanted to swallow it….the fact that you are so upset about it, says something in itself…. You’re fine…. Be proud that you can’t emotionally dismiss it. Wishing congratulations on your 10 Year Sobriety…..one more step in being stronger ❤❤❤Big Hugs!
Thank you for sharing and being so honest. It's quite evident that this was a mistake, based on the fact that you're completely distraught and upset about it. Be easy on yourself...they are called mistakes for a reason. Congratulations on 9 (soon to be 10) years of sobriety. 💪🏻🙌🏻👏🏻🖤
I’ve been struggling with alcoholism for years, had 100 days sober this time last year and since then it’s been a damn rollercoaster. As much as you’re stressing over this, you actually inspire me to want to do better. Seeing how strong you are, not only to have TEN years, but to be strong enough to make this video…makes me want to be that strong. Thank you. For being an inspiration. For my dreads and my sobriety.💛 One week today…and this makes me want to get to 10.
Such a gift you are giving to your community with your honesty, authenticity, and integrity. I feel that one sip solidified your sobriety for once and for all. I’m proud of you. Clearly you are 150% committed. This might have been a way you proved it to yourself… we don’t know the why’s but it happened and look how it made you feel. You are completely over the world of alcohol. You are a completely different person. This is a testimony to your transformation. Love and hugs
Oh Liz, you are still so much sober. You are so strong and brave, don’t let this be anything other than another chapter in your book. A lesson in your story, a chance of growth. Happy Ten Years Sober you deserve that 🎉
Liz! You are a beautiful soul. Sobriety is a journey with ups and downs and curveballs being thrown at us that we don’t see coming. This was an honest mistake, how you have responded and how you care so much shows how much you have grown and that you are sober! Own and celebrate your 10 years sober!!! Lots of love to you!!!!❤❤❤ P.S.- you have been a huge inspiration to me in my sobriety and you still are girl!!!
Maybe this happened to prove to you that you truly have a handle on it. You are a bad ass to have made it ten years and I look forward to seeing your post at the next ten year anniversary. Congrats. Thanks for sharing!
Congratulations on 10 years! That is so awesome! I still want to see the celebratory video. I think you genuinely deserve to do what you were so looking forward to doing. I’m in awe of your accomplishment.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and congratulations on 10 years of sobriety! We all need to forgive and go easy on ourselves sometimes - we need our strength for tomorrow's challenges. From what I've seen, life doesn't get any easier.
I say congratulations for making it 10 years being sober! Thank you for being so honest and RAW. We are our own hardest critics. I’m very impressed with your determination to quit. I have tried multiple times and not been successful.
Liz! Congratulations on your 10 years! Be proud. This same thing has happened to others. Forgive yourself. Your intentions are pure. You are definitely still 10 years sober.
25 years here. You know how to be gentle with yourself or you wouldn't have made it this far. Congrats on your ten years. Go celebrate knowing you'll never make a mistake like that again.
Oh sweetie, Liz, you didn't mess up at all. You're so true and incredibly honest. Thank you so much for sharing this. It's so authentic and human and inspiring. I'm sober for one year now and I will make your seriousness about soberty my own. Thank you so much, Liz, I really appreciate this. ❤❤❤
Congratulations on 10 years sober! Your dedication and self-discipline are inspirational. Intention is everything, and you put so much work behind it. Be sure to forgive yourself for accidents, that's why they are called accidents. I watch your videos for organization. I'm glad that this video shows your desk. I purchased a beautiful roll top some years back, but keeping it organized... is never going to happen. I wish that organization was as important to me as sobriety is to you, THEN I could get it done and keep it in order. You and Luke work so well together, you're both fortunate to be part of a great team. Thank you for all of the work, KM
Ms. Liz, I will be sober 30 years on 10 December 2024. I take Nyquil sometimes. I have taken a few sips when toasting folks. And I even drank a whole beer about 5 years ago. I think the threshold is drinking more than one whole glass of wine, shot, or a full beer and actually trying to get drunk. Don't beat yourself up. You are still a hero! I am proud of you. You inspire me to walk the AT.
I wish I could give you a ((hug)) I get that you are upset. And no, I don't know what it feels like. Only you do. But it was an accident. Please don't be so hard on yourself. 10 years!! Yay!! That is huge! Congratulations Liz!! Now on to the next 10. 🎉❤
So proud of you, Liz. Give yourself some grace and know that your friends, family, and TH-cam followers support you and have your back. You’re self aware enough that you know what you need to do to be (for yourself) a person of integrity and authenticity. Thank you so much for sharing with us - we’re here for you!❤❤❤
Liz!!!!! Congratulations on 10 years of being committed to YOU!! I am inspired by you. And even 10 years in, you are still being made aware of how important your commitment is to you. Fuck what other people think. And I’m glad you shared this because damn straight that there is someone watching who this will or has happened to. It may be me one day so I am grateful to see this real side of life. It’s not always going to be roses. And no rain = no flowers. Your truth is not all about what happens to you, but how you respond to it. I love you 🤟🏼
Thank you for sharing even so difficult and frightening. It is a big deal for us in sobriety. My heart goes out to you as you are processing this. Thank you for being authentic and transparent. You are providing strength and hope for us all! ❤️💜
What will people think?? We still think your awesome and how strong you have been for ten years. I too have dreams that i drank on accident and then remembered the next day. I feel your pain, its valid . None the less your sober.
Thanks for sharing, and I understand your reaction. I am the same way... Ten years is alot of sacrafices and torturing hardwork, you are allowed to let yourself... to let this go. But, you should be honest with yourself; and question the mockrail path going forward. Wasnt worth the hassle this time, and it might be the lesson you take from this. Just a little shock to the system. Congrats on the ten years, that is a lot of quiet suffering, to get to where you are. Happy you are free from it. Thanks for sharing... and its okay to let it go.
I really admire your courage in sharing the situation. I cannot fathom what you have overcome in the last 10 years but I am so proud that you have! I am praying for your forgiveness of yourself
Your are very inspiring. Your video made me cry for you. I am not in recovery but I feel for you. I think your 10 years is wonderful! You should be proud you didn't do anything on purpose a honest mistake when you were involved in conversation. Don't beat yourself up so much. Peace be with you! You are a wonderful person!
Just like you stated, Thru Hikers Hike their own hike and that’s great for them. So give yourself the Grace you need! Hike your own Hike, Live your own life, continue being Authentic (as illustrated in this Vlog especially). Living your life Sober, for the last Ten Years is a greater Journey than hiking the AT. It’s your Journey and yours alone to share or not. It’s your story perfect and imperfect, mistakes and glorious achievements! Like on the Trail, you can’t change the weather, the elevation for the day, the hunger or pain to get to Maine! All you can do is give yourself Grace and determine your response to what you are experiencing, embracing the suck! You can’t change what occurred in LA but you already are working on a glorious response that will enrich your life and help so many others. Celebrate this moment and this time just like the moment you touch the sign! Keep the Faith and Keep HikN the Sober Life! You should have ended the Video with a Handstand!! The way you always ended a hard Climb!
Liz, I just watched you on the A.T., and saw the surprise at the end when you and Luke got married. I entered your name, came across this video, and HAD to watch it. I have a different addiction I kicked. I have dreams about it sometimes, and have to convince myself I am still clean. Thank you for your terribly wrenching honesty. You have blessed ME by doing this. I agree with you about every single day having to be perfect. May the Lord bless and strengthen you. You are human like people around you.
Beautiful, so raw, honest, real and you. Hun you have completed 10 years even if you don’t believe it, you have been brave enough to share and own up to a mistake. That is worth way more than the sip you had. Hold your head high and now you can start planning the next 10 year milestone ❤ Kia kaha gorgeous xoxo we all love you xoxo
We all make mistakes and do things on accident. You are still 10 years sober girly. Plus you talking about everything related to drinking has been a huge help in my recent decision to stop drinking as well. So thank you ❤️
Dear Liz, I have followed you and your husbands hiking adventures for a few years now and admire your veracity and strength. Watching you do that headstand on that rock on the AT, a couple years back was nothing short of amazing! I hope you read this because I want you to know how much influence you have. You’re 10 years being sober is not an easy feat! I started my journey in sobriety over 40 years ago. I was 32 and loved to party and drink. I went to two rehabs over the next 5 years and did AA meetings, making coffee, coming early staying late, etc. I ran stretches of 5 years, 6 years but could never keep it going. The last drink I had was a horrible experience. I was getting married in two weeks and I guess I glamorized the drink to talk myself into one last time before the wedding. As a result, I woke up on the floor, busted ribs and an emotional hangover that lasted for days. I hated myself. But something very positive came from it. It took me all those meetings, all those relapses to finally convince myself…no more! I will not go into bars, it’s like telling myself “if I can’t box, why would I jump into a boxing ring?” Anyway, that’s my story. After seeing your video here, I had mixed emotions for you. Remember, this is a “thinking disease” it’s cunning, baffling and powerful. Please don’t beat yourself up over an obvious mistake. I’ve learned over the years it’s all about our INTENTIONS. It’s the same thing that kept me sober. I went from “who’s going to know” to “I AM GOING TO KNOW”. That’s what I saw in you. Your INTENTIONS are for you to be sober…period. Forgive yourself, and reach around and give yourself a pat on the back for all you are and all you have accomplished! You are a great role model to thousands of people out here. Bye the way, CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR 10 years sober❤ John Carr
I gotta be honest, Liz... you're thinking about this all wrong. You're an alcoholic...and in YEN YEARS... you've had this one mistake? That's beyond amazing! You've absolutely slaughtered it, that's Olympic, woman! You should be damn proud. I sure am proud of you. You discovered you're human. That's a good thing. We make mistakes. When you drop one egg, do you then just toss the rest of the dozen on the floor? Of course not. This 10 year anniversary is in no way leasened. 10 years ago you made a commitment to yourself to be more human, and you have genuinely achieved that. The mistake is the exception that proves the rule; you faltered, as all people do without exception, and you stood right back up, like a boss, and walked over that finish line. DO NOT....do not start playing the blame game. That is a distortion of reality. Be proud of your accomplishment. I insist you celebrate it without guilt and without self judgement! You've EARNED the right.
I've been following you on here for a few years now, you're such an inspiration to my sobriety journey. To me, it feels like the universe was trying to test you, especially so close to your 10 year anniversary and the worry you had going into it. Weird how these things happen, but you handled it well. I would've been devastated myself, and it would be very scary having all these thoughts running through my head. I've heard a lot of stories of people accidentally picking up alcohol, but you're right. You know your intentions. You know that wasn't what was meant to happen and you absolutely are still 10 years sober. Restarting sobriety happens when you make the choice to pick up a drink. You did not choose that. So proud of you and feel even more inspired, especially that you let yourself be vulnerable enough to share this online. Keep trucking, you passed the test
❤ don’t ever for a second worry about what others would think. You can’t control how anyone else feels or thinks. Just how you feel and think. If anything, you’re stronger now. ❤ I’m going to give you the biggest damn hug ever when I see you in April!
I’m so impresssed by your character. Good job. I hate that this feels ruined for you. That’s so effing hard. I see you showing up as a human with every bit of the integrity you aspire to. That’s inspiring Liz.
Also, you donated your kidney bro. Like, that one accidental second doesn’t define you. The ten years of intentional seconds defines you. Your awesome Liz! Good on ya.
You are so brave for making this video Liz. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. Focus on those 10 years and not on that one honest mistake at that restaurant. You are amazing and are a big inspiration to others! Never forget that! Congratulations on 10 years! That is a huge accomplishment! You choose every single day to be sober, that is a big deal hun! Be proud of yourself!
Liz, I have followed your hiking for a couple of years. You are an outstanding lady. Please don't beat yourself up over this. It was an accident you have come so far and your reaction and feelings showing in the video show your commitment to your goal. You are still 10 years sober keeping on going forward with your head held high. You got this......🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
Congrats on your 10 years of sobriety! You are a rockstar for making it. I am really sorry this accident happened. Forgive yourself. You are strong. Your honesty and vulnerability shows your heart.
I completely understand why this is such a big deal for you and even though it hurt your heart and messed with your head, you're still doing so great. I love how genuine you are. You should still be proud of yourself. Go easy on yourself.
I have done same thing twice, once after 11 years and again after 5 years. It’s not about years collected but days collected. One day at a time. Put the bat away and keep your feet moving forward 🙏🙏🙏
Congratulations on 10 years of sobriety Liz alias handstand! in my humble opinion you have nothing to worry about. i’ve rarely gone a day without a few drinks in 55 years. One little sip by mistake is in no way falling off the wagon. God bless
Liz, even extremely strong people have weak moments. You had ONE in TEN YEARS, and t wasn't intentional. You are SO strong! You are more relatable and real than so many others who minimize their faults. You are AWESOME! ✌️💪👊
Happy 10years!!! Congratulations on your perseverance! Your self-awareness and vulnerability is inspiring. Please have more grace for yourself. You're still on track.🖤
Thanks for sharing, Liz. I love how open and honest you are. This situation might be hard for you to come to terms with, but I hope that over time you learn to understand that what other people think doesn't have to affect you.
As a former semi-professional drinker. The best times I had is when i was drinking and the worst times I had is when I was drinking. You stumbled but you are over the peak. The day you decide to not let it control you anymore (and that you are just tired of living this way), is a path you begin on that only ends when your life comes to a close.
Love you, sister. You are safe. You are sober. You are living your truth every day. Other people's opinions are irrelevant. Thank you for sharing your heart with all of us!
Sobriety is more than what you do. It’s who you are and how you think. So… 🎉🎉🎉Congratulations on 10 years, girl!! Thank you for sharing your heart and life with us. You make us better.
Congrats on 10 years! You’re very brave for sharing everything you have, I stumbled on your page like seven years ago, when I was just starting out dreads, but more recently I’ve been seeing your personal stories, and I am inspired by you, I just watched your kidney sharing video, followed by your five year, sober video and now you’re 10 years sober video. And I want to take more chances. And try new things, actually make a bucket list. Thank you for sharing 💜 keep going! I wanna see your 15 year sober vid
An honest mistake, dear. You didn't mess up. You didn't ruin your sobriety. Try to go easy on yourself. You are absolutely still ten years sober.
I agree❤
Your reaction to this situation is a testament to how much your sobriety means to you and how serious you are about staying that way. SO incredibly inspiring and I know you will help so many sharing your story. I pray that you don't hang your head about this and that maybe a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. Congratulations on 10 years girl! Love you!
Also a testament to how insane women have become.
@@SamK2525 I have to agree. This was painful to watch. Not because of a simple 1 sip accident, but all the drama over nothing and the long drawn out woe-is-me overreaction. This kind of shit is why I stopped going to AA years ago. I couldn't help but sit there and listen to the asinine crying and whining over what I consider insignificant or good problems to have. The very last meeting I attended was the final straw. A guy made it clear he needed to share something. 2 women took up the entire meeting, one complaining about how hard it was to be a mom. This is a rich, kept house wife complaining that a toddler takes up so much of her time. The other was whining about social injustice issues, which should be politics and not allowed. The man was left a quick 2 minutes to talk about his dad dying the day before.
Sirs, Both of you need to learn what I was taught a long time ago. If you have nothing good to say…say nothing.
@@Swearengen1980 lol you just complained about her “long drawn out video” then proceed to write a novel about some dumb crap. Get a life buddy
@@SamK2525 tell me you’re lonely and bitter without telling me you’re lonely and bitter.
Hi Liz! Fellow sober NHite here! March 22 will be 11yrs off heroin and alcohol. It comes down to intention and change. To thine own self be true is what they say. Your truth and intention seem aligned with what you have become, a changed sober human, and that is what you still are sitting there reading this comment.
You've come to the conclusion for yourself I hope, that you are still the person with perseverance, integrity and honesty that left to go to California and you arrived home the same way, a sober alcoholic. Our minds will sometimes lead us astray from our balance beam, this is why we have other people that we love, value and trust. Like your mates, Luke and your client.
No one is going to be able to change your emotions on this, but you know who you are after 10yrs and know your intent. Happy 10yrs Liz! Hug your friends and Luke.
Wonderful comment! I am 1 year and 3 months sober from alcohol and listening to her tell this story made me tear up as I know I would be just as hard on myself if I were in her shoes. However, what you said here is absolutely the truth - intention, change and being truth to oneself. I will tuck your words away in case I ever need them. Congrats on 11 years sober as well! We are all in this fight together and day by day we will continue to succeed! 💜
Beautifully said! Congratulations on your success as well!! HUGE accomplishment 👍
thank you @newplanet7! I agree with you. A lapse or relapse is about intention.
Liz, just the very idea that it bothered you so badly says a lot about you! YOU haven't messed anything up. You are a success...you can mentor others and help them ....I am sure it has happened to others so now you have had a new experience that will help others...SO proud of you!!! Your sharing this has already helped others I am sure and will continue to....sending love your way
This is the most authentic video I have seen about what it means to be human. It's so messy and complicated! When we want something, commit to it and then something so silly causes all that work to not seem like it meant anything or it was for nothing. Liz, you are going to help so many people with this video. Thank you for sharing.
You hold yourself to such a high (perfect) standard, Liz. It has served you well at times, obviously, because you are so driven and successful… but I wish you weren’t so hard on yourself. I’ve been a subscriber for years and I admire you so much. You are an incredible person, and a person that has more integrity in her little finger than many people have in their whole body. It really was an innocent mistake and does not at all diminish your ten years of sobriety. You should be so, so proud of yourself!❤
You are 10 years sober!
Forgive yourself, you’ve earned it! Congratulations!
Hey Liz! As a fellow recovering alcoholic and addict... I have fell off the wagon a couple times. I'm much more proud of the fact I was able to go right back to being clean and not stress about the nullification of a "clean streak." Every day that's clean for me is the best win. I wish you all the positive vibes and strength in your journey.
Give yourself grace. Your reaction and actions after your honest mistake are your true character. You didn’t use the mistake as an excuse to drink, you held on to your commitment to yourself and your sobriety. Forgive yourself and don’t let one mistake tarnish all of your hard work. 🤗
CONGRATULATIONS on your ten years. Celebrate yourself. ❤
Oh Liz, bless your heart! You are so awesome and honest and genuine!!! I can honestly tell you that if you use mouthwash you've gotten more alcohol from that than from that half spit out drink! A fall off the wagon is intentional and taking that drink and then another and another toll the glass is empty and saying internally, "hello" and welcoming an "old friend" and embarrassing the moment. You were terrified! You are so tough on yourself which is who you are and I fully appreciate that part of who you are. And good for you for being who you are. We often are our toughest judge. So do what you have to to process this and use it as a learning experience and be at peace that you are Ten Years Sober! And a little info, whenever we eat fruit, while it's in our intestinal tract it produces alcohol. So in all likelihood in the last ten years you've had more alcohol in your system from eating fruit than from that little sip/spit. I hope you won't let this diminish the awesome accomplishment of 10 years sober! I adore you for being so honest and I adore Luke for being so supportive!! You Rock!❤
You said it at the beginig of the video......ON ACCIDENT !!! By the way it hit you and your reaction to it tells me and anyone bothering to listen, you have maintained your sobriety, PERIOD. I've been watching you since your AT hike and my opinion of you as a geniune, loving and virtuous soul has not changed, if anything it elevates you. Take care and God bless.
You did it, Liz. 10 years sober. You made an honest mistake while at dinner. It's no different than when I accidentally grab the wrong glass & take a drink of my husband's Pepsi (which I hate).
You hold yourself to an incredibly high standard, which is admirable, but you didn't mess up your sobriety. Much love. ❤
Hay LIz in my book you have not ruined your sobriety in any way. Your reaction tells everything. Keep being honest with yourself. Been sober since 4-24-07.
I have just passed 5 months sober off substances, and I can tell you 10 years is a MASSIVE ACCOMPLISHMENT, and I really do find your story inspiring.
This sounds like an honest mistake. I would try not to think of it and concentrate on all those years of sobriety you have achieved.
You are still sober. This feels like a video that was necessary for the folks in your presence the night it happened. It is done. It does not count. You are good. ❤
Do you need something to be disappointed in yourself about? Because this is definitely a distortion of reality and nothing to focus on. You’re doing great you’ve come so far .. don’t waste energy on this!
Mistakes happen. Accidents happen. The true test is how you react and move forward. You are 10 years sober and that is a wonderful thing. Don’t know you, only from what has been shared here, but you are amazing. Congratulations on 10 years.
I saw this happen to a friend. They had been so careful about it for years. According to them, it was a very uncomfortable moment and they forgave their inattention. Being so on guard, 24/7 is exhausting. I hope you stay kind to yourself.
Forgave their inattentiveness. This right here Liz. What would you tell anyone of us if it happened to us? Give yourself grace. And forgiveness. And tell yourself what you would tell someone else in your shoes. 🤍
I’m so so so proud of you. You still have 10 years in my book. Stay strong. And forgive yourself. ❤
You should be very proud of yourself for having 10 years sober under your belt! I am so so proud of you! Accidents happen, I know it's hard to accept but don't be so hard on yourself, you're doing amazing!! It doesn't throw your sobriety down the drain.
Congratulations on 10 years. An accidental sip is not a relapse. I do appreciate the purity of your commitment. Much❤
@@micheleinfelise9001It kinda is. If someone just takes an "accidental" sip once in a while, it can snowball into something very ugly. I understand how important these boundaries are. There's no shame in hitting the reset button, but calling it 10 years will always feel like a lie, and nothing will shake that feeling.
How wonderful! Like you, I did NA and AA for a while in the beginning of my journey. I'm not involved much now. I respect each and every person involved, so very much! Now... One nugget I remember is, we can only keep what we have by giving it away. You shared your experience so that, hopefully, someone else in this position can feel a sense of relief that they're NOT ALONE! 10 years babe! Such WONDERFUL news! Congratulations!
10 years sober, girl. You're a rock star. Your intention is what matters here. Much love.🖤
Liz, sometimes it sucks being human. But I can promise you that you have had a positive impact on a lot of people going thru tough times. This is the journey of life.
I feel for you. I don’t think you are not sober but that is for you to determine. Stay strong, stay sober, don’t throw out your sobriety over guilt for this accident. Thanks for sharing.
I hope you find some peace with this.
Don't cry my dear. I'm so proud of how far you've come. And what you're feeling is totally natural for the journey you're on. Mistakes are bound to happen. Everything is going to be ok. Just celebrate when your 10 years comes! Please don't punish yourself. You are loved! Chin up!
So absolutely proud of you and your sobriety, I get how hard this is as I have been "sober" since 2017'.
Liz now you have two things to celebrate.
Not only 10 years of sobriety but also the fact that you are 💯% in control now.
You didn't want more.
CONTROL
That's an enormous accomplishment.
Congratulations on 10 years of taking control of something that is very difficult to keep on a tight leash.
❤️❤️💛💛🤘🤘🤘
I have friends and family, that struggle with sobriety and have broken their sobriety. And had to go back through getting sober all over again. From the outside it seems like a huge victory for you. Hang in there!! Good luck and good health!
My dad had a similar mistake. However his was intentional. He ordered a beer had a sip then realized it was a mistake. It was ten years in. He has been sober for 25 years now. You are not alone. You are doing great. Yours was an honest mistake. You are still sober in my book. ❤
Also, as someone who clings pretty tightly to my own sense of integrity, I think it's too easy to hold ourselves to nearly impossible standards. We don't give ourselves much space to make mistakes. The thing is, we're still human, and humans are not infallible. This doesn't change who we are at our core. Trust yourself.
Thank you for sharing this very personal story. As someone with over 7 years, I can relate to some of the emotions and questions you shared. You said “it might not be a big deal to other people” but it is for you. So I will agree with you that it is a big deal. Your feelings are valid and it’s okay to feel the entirety of them. In my opinion, that sip of alcohol does not negate your 10 years at all. Again, I appreciate that you shared your story. Please remind yourself to be kind to yourself if you are feeling down❤❤❤
There’s a whole lot of sips between your 10 year sobriety and a relapse. Give yourself some grace! It was an accidental sip that you spit out, not ‘Oh this is just too good to quit’ and you ended up tipsy at the least. You had a close call and it scared the shit out of you. Hugs to you girl! You’re much stronger than you’re giving yourself credit for.
just over 6 years for me. Don't beat yourself up...defiantly still 10 years sober in my book. hard boundaries are good but it's your reaction to the situation that proves you didn't mess up.
We love you hand stand hang in there! I been sober for almost 39 years! One day at a time doll!
Happy 10 years sober! You did it and don’t forget that!
You did not minimize this episode- a sure sign that you take your recovery really seriously. No denial, no “budding” just an honest mistake and this video sharing from your heart. I was in Mexico on vacation several years ago. At the resort we were at, they had a 2 drinks for the price of one special. I ordered two virgin Pina Coladas. When they were delivered to my beach chair, I drank the first one down, being hot and thirsty. Then that old familiar warm feeling came over me and I realized the waiter who took my order mis-interrupted “virgin” Pina Colada. I went through a similar process- lots of second guessing, feeling guilty, telling myself that what happens in Mexico stays in Mexico. Ultimately I did what you did. I shared it with friends in recovery. I got much the same responses you have received. I have been following your channel for quite a while and really respect your straight edge approach to life, your honesty and wearing your heart on your sleeve. Many years ago, watching an episode of Hill Street Blues, Captain Furrillo was at a captains retreat and was asked what the hardest thing was for him. He responded, it is the eternal vigilance that goes with being in recovery. I’m not hearing any complacency with you Liz.
Sending love to you Liz, it’s heart breaking to see you so upset and disappointed in yourself, but I think the universe was sending a hint to you and what your message on 10 years needs to be. You just shared something with everyone so real and so raw that it perfectly highlights what many others have possibly felt at some point in their lives as well. What seems like a simple excusable sip to someone can be a damaging and devastating sip to another. You are ten years sober only by willpower and dedication but it proves that it wasn’t by chance, it wasn’t by accident, it’s only by hard work and determination that got you all this way. And i feel like this will be inspiring to others that may be feeling the same way about an honest mistake they have made at some point, that the emotions are real and it’s justified to feel this way as well. Your emotions prove how much pressure you put on yourself and it’s that pressure that will get you another 10 years and beyond. Proud of you!!!
Hugs, handstand! One year in over here and about to start the AT in two weeks. Congratulations on ten years. Throw down some self love and props for being so honest and transparent with your struggle, I appreciate the hell outta that. We love ya and I hope you can feel that.
It is a big deal to you and I think that shows just how committed you are to your sobriety! We all make mistakes, it's what we do after that makes us who we are. Your commitment to your sobriety, your willingness to be open about and share your struggles, shows just how strong your character is. Congratulations on ten years! :)
Thank you for sharing your story. You are such an inspiration!
Congratulations on 10 years today!❤
Liz, you only have to answer to you! Don't worry about what others think. You are still 10 years sober and kudos to you! One accidental taste isn't going to undo all you have accomplished. It was just a mistake. Go easier on yourself. Hopefully it doesn't happen again but it might in your lifetime and now you can plan on what to do if it does. Peace be with you and thanks for sharing!
Congratulations on your 10 years. I don't think an accidental sip is a relapse. Your commitment to purity in your journey is commendable. Much❤
Oh for a heart so pure - beauty on beauty.
You're not stupid. I Love your story and your channel. Congrats on Ten years sober. My hope and prayer is that you will find the kindness within yourself to focus on the three thousand and however many days and not the 3 or four seconds and ounce or two of alcohol that was mistakenly ingested.
Hugs! Please don’t be so hard on yourself. It was an accident! Congratulations on 10 years sober!
You have a lot of fans for a reason! 🙌🏻
Truly….the only one you need to answer to is yourself. You can tell people if it makes you feel better but no one is going to beat you up any more than you. This is not a relapse… it’s an unintentional sip….it’s not like you even took a second sip or wanted to swallow it….the fact that you are so upset about it, says something in itself…. You’re fine…. Be proud that you can’t emotionally dismiss it. Wishing congratulations on your 10 Year Sobriety…..one more step in being stronger ❤❤❤Big Hugs!
23 years clean and sober. I promise you you did not loose 10 years in fact it proves you commitment to sobriety. You are strong
Thank you for sharing and being so honest. It's quite evident that this was a mistake, based on the fact that you're completely distraught and upset about it. Be easy on yourself...they are called mistakes for a reason. Congratulations on 9 (soon to be 10) years of sobriety. 💪🏻🙌🏻👏🏻🖤
I’ve been struggling with alcoholism for years, had 100 days sober this time last year and since then it’s been a damn rollercoaster.
As much as you’re stressing over this, you actually inspire me to want to do better. Seeing how strong you are, not only to have TEN years, but to be strong enough to make this video…makes me want to be that strong.
Thank you. For being an inspiration. For my dreads and my sobriety.💛 One week today…and this makes me want to get to 10.
Such a gift you are giving to your community with your honesty, authenticity, and integrity. I feel that one sip solidified your sobriety for once and for all. I’m proud of you. Clearly you are 150% committed. This might have been a way you proved it to yourself… we don’t know the why’s but it happened and look how it made you feel. You are completely over the world of alcohol. You are a completely different person. This is a testimony to your transformation. Love and hugs
Oh Liz, you are still so much sober. You are so strong and brave, don’t let this be anything other than another chapter in your book. A lesson in your story, a chance of growth. Happy Ten Years Sober you deserve that 🎉
Liz! You are a beautiful soul. Sobriety is a journey with ups and downs and curveballs being thrown at us that we don’t see coming. This was an honest mistake, how you have responded and how you care so much shows how much you have grown and that you are sober! Own and celebrate your 10 years sober!!! Lots of love to you!!!!❤❤❤
P.S.- you have been a huge inspiration to me in my sobriety and you still are girl!!!
Your sobriety belongs to no one but you. Intention is everything. Thank you for sharing
Maybe this happened to prove to you that you truly have a handle on it. You are a bad ass to have made it ten years and I look forward to seeing your post at the next ten year anniversary. Congrats. Thanks for sharing!
Congratulations on 10 years! That is so awesome! I still want to see the celebratory video. I think you genuinely deserve to do what you were so looking forward to doing. I’m in awe of your accomplishment.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and congratulations on 10 years of sobriety! We all need to forgive and go easy on ourselves sometimes - we need our strength for tomorrow's challenges. From what I've seen, life doesn't get any easier.
Intention is everything. You are still sober!
I say congratulations for making it 10 years being sober! Thank you for being so honest and RAW. We are our own hardest critics. I’m very impressed with your determination to quit. I have tried multiple times and not been successful.
Liz! Congratulations on your 10 years! Be proud. This same thing has happened to others. Forgive yourself. Your intentions are pure. You are definitely still 10 years sober.
25 years here. You know how to be gentle with yourself or you wouldn't have made it this far. Congrats on your ten years. Go celebrate knowing you'll never make a mistake like that again.
Oh, sweetie......don't let an innocent mistake crush you. Not only are you an inspiration, but we're all SO proud of you!
Oh sweetie, Liz, you didn't mess up at all. You're so true and incredibly honest. Thank you so much for sharing this. It's so authentic and human and inspiring. I'm sober for one year now and I will make your seriousness about soberty my own. Thank you so much, Liz, I really appreciate this. ❤❤❤
Liz, “Handstand” thank you for being so transparent and real…you got this, I am sure you are such a huge inspiration for those who share your fight❤
Congratulations on 10 years sober! Your dedication and self-discipline are inspirational. Intention is everything, and you put so much work behind it. Be sure to forgive yourself for accidents, that's why they are called accidents. I watch your videos for organization. I'm glad that this video shows your desk. I purchased a beautiful roll top some years back, but keeping it organized... is never going to happen. I wish that organization was as important to me as sobriety is to you, THEN I could get it done and keep it in order. You and Luke work so well together, you're both fortunate to be part of a great team. Thank you for all of the work, KM
Ms. Liz, I will be sober 30 years on 10 December 2024. I take Nyquil sometimes. I have taken a few sips when toasting folks. And I even drank a whole beer about 5 years ago. I think the threshold is drinking more than one whole glass of wine, shot, or a full beer and actually trying to get drunk. Don't beat yourself up. You are still a hero! I am proud of you. You inspire me to walk the AT.
I wish I could give you a ((hug)) I get that you are upset. And no, I don't know what it feels like. Only you do. But it was an accident. Please don't be so hard on yourself. 10 years!! Yay!! That is huge! Congratulations Liz!! Now on to the next 10. 🎉❤
So proud of you, Liz. Give yourself some grace and know that your friends, family, and TH-cam followers support you and have your back. You’re self aware enough that you know what you need to do to be (for yourself) a person of integrity and authenticity. Thank you so much for sharing with us - we’re here for you!❤❤❤
Liz!!!!! Congratulations on 10 years of being committed to YOU!! I am inspired by you. And even 10 years in, you are still being made aware of how important your commitment is to you. Fuck what other people think. And I’m glad you shared this because damn straight that there is someone watching who this will or has happened to. It may be me one day so I am grateful to see this real side of life. It’s not always going to be roses. And no rain = no flowers. Your truth is not all about what happens to you, but how you respond to it.
I love you 🤟🏼
Thank you for sharing even so difficult and frightening. It is a big deal for us in sobriety. My heart goes out to you as you are processing this. Thank you for being authentic and transparent. You are providing strength and hope for us all! ❤️💜
What will people think?? We still think your awesome and how strong you have been for ten years. I too have dreams that i drank on accident and then remembered the next day. I feel your pain, its valid . None the less your sober.
Thanks for sharing, and I understand your reaction. I am the same way... Ten years is alot of sacrafices and torturing hardwork, you are allowed to let yourself... to let this go.
But, you should be honest with yourself; and question the mockrail path going forward. Wasnt worth the hassle this time, and it might be the lesson you take from this. Just a little shock to the system.
Congrats on the ten years, that is a lot of quiet suffering, to get to where you are. Happy you are free from it. Thanks for sharing... and its okay to let it go.
Love the honesty. You have accomplished so much. That one slip does not annihilate 10 years of sobriety.
I really admire your courage in sharing the situation. I cannot fathom what you have overcome in the last 10 years but I am so proud that you have!
I am praying for your forgiveness of yourself
Your are very inspiring. Your video made me cry for you. I am not in recovery but I feel for you. I think your 10 years is wonderful! You should be proud you didn't do anything on purpose a honest mistake when you were involved in conversation. Don't beat yourself up so much. Peace be with you! You are a wonderful person!
Just like you stated, Thru Hikers Hike their own hike and that’s great for them. So give yourself the Grace you need! Hike your own Hike, Live your own life, continue being Authentic (as illustrated in this Vlog especially). Living your life Sober, for the last Ten Years is a greater Journey than hiking the AT. It’s your Journey and yours alone to share or not. It’s your story perfect and imperfect, mistakes and glorious achievements! Like on the Trail, you can’t change the weather, the elevation for the day, the hunger or pain to get to Maine! All you can do is give yourself Grace and determine your response to what you are experiencing, embracing the suck! You can’t change what occurred in LA but you already are working on a glorious response that will enrich your life and help so many others. Celebrate this moment and this time just like the moment you touch the sign! Keep the Faith and Keep HikN the Sober Life! You should have ended the Video with a Handstand!! The way you always ended a hard Climb!
Liz, I just watched you on the A.T., and saw the surprise at the end when you and Luke got married. I entered your name, came across this video, and HAD to watch it. I have a different addiction I kicked. I have dreams about it sometimes, and have to convince myself I am still clean. Thank you for your terribly wrenching honesty. You have blessed ME by doing this. I agree with you about every single day having to be perfect. May the Lord bless and strengthen you. You are human like people around you.
The way you are handling it seems to be the best therapy for you. If it matters, you are forgiven
Beautiful, so raw, honest, real and you. Hun you have completed 10 years even if you don’t believe it, you have been brave enough to share and own up to a mistake. That is worth way more than the sip you had. Hold your head high and now you can start planning the next 10 year milestone ❤ Kia kaha gorgeous xoxo we all love you xoxo
This has happened to a few friends. So easy to do. You handled it as well as you could and you're still 100% sober.
We all make mistakes and do things on accident. You are still 10 years sober girly. Plus you talking about everything related to drinking has been a huge help in my recent decision to stop drinking as well. So thank you ❤️
Dear Liz, I have followed you and your husbands hiking adventures for a few years now and admire your veracity and strength. Watching you do that headstand on that rock on the AT, a couple years back was nothing short of amazing! I hope you read this because I want you to know how much influence you have. You’re 10 years being sober is not an easy feat! I started my journey in sobriety over 40 years ago. I was 32 and loved to party and drink.
I went to two rehabs over the next 5 years and did AA meetings, making coffee, coming early staying late, etc. I ran stretches of 5 years, 6 years but could never keep it going. The last drink I had was a horrible experience. I was getting married in two weeks and I guess I glamorized the drink to talk myself into one last time before the wedding. As a result, I woke up on the floor, busted ribs and an emotional hangover that lasted for days. I hated myself. But something very positive came from it. It took me all those meetings, all those relapses to finally convince myself…no more! I will not go into bars, it’s like telling myself “if I can’t box, why would I jump into a boxing ring?” Anyway, that’s my story. After seeing your video here, I had mixed emotions for you. Remember, this is a “thinking disease” it’s cunning, baffling and powerful. Please don’t beat yourself up over an obvious mistake. I’ve learned over the years it’s all about our INTENTIONS. It’s the same thing that kept me sober. I went from “who’s going to know” to “I AM GOING TO KNOW”. That’s what I saw in you. Your INTENTIONS are for you to be sober…period. Forgive yourself, and reach around and give yourself a pat on the back for all you are and all you have accomplished! You are a great role model to thousands of people out here. Bye the way, CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR 10 years sober❤ John Carr
I gotta be honest, Liz... you're thinking about this all wrong. You're an alcoholic...and in YEN YEARS... you've had this one mistake? That's beyond amazing! You've absolutely slaughtered it, that's Olympic, woman! You should be damn proud. I sure am proud of you.
You discovered you're human. That's a good thing. We make mistakes. When you drop one egg, do you then just toss the rest of the dozen on the floor? Of course not. This 10 year anniversary is in no way leasened. 10 years ago you made a commitment to yourself to be more human, and you have genuinely achieved that. The mistake is the exception that proves the rule; you faltered, as all people do without exception, and you stood right back up, like a boss, and walked over that finish line.
DO NOT....do not start playing the blame game. That is a distortion of reality. Be proud of your accomplishment. I insist you celebrate it without guilt and without self judgement! You've EARNED the right.
Pretty sure she discovered she was human when she accepted she was an alcoholic.
I've been following you on here for a few years now, you're such an inspiration to my sobriety journey. To me, it feels like the universe was trying to test you, especially so close to your 10 year anniversary and the worry you had going into it. Weird how these things happen, but you handled it well. I would've been devastated myself, and it would be very scary having all these thoughts running through my head. I've heard a lot of stories of people accidentally picking up alcohol, but you're right. You know your intentions. You know that wasn't what was meant to happen and you absolutely are still 10 years sober. Restarting sobriety happens when you make the choice to pick up a drink. You did not choose that. So proud of you and feel even more inspired, especially that you let yourself be vulnerable enough to share this online. Keep trucking, you passed the test
❤ don’t ever for a second worry about what others would think. You can’t control how anyone else feels or thinks. Just how you feel and think. If anything, you’re stronger now. ❤ I’m going to give you the biggest damn hug ever when I see you in April!
I’m so impresssed by your character. Good job. I hate that this feels ruined for you. That’s so effing hard. I see you showing up as a human with every bit of the integrity you aspire to. That’s inspiring Liz.
Also, you donated your kidney bro. Like, that one accidental second doesn’t define you. The ten years of intentional seconds defines you. Your awesome Liz! Good on ya.
You are so brave for making this video Liz. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. Focus on those 10 years and not on that one honest mistake at that restaurant. You are amazing and are a big inspiration to others! Never forget that! Congratulations on 10 years! That is a huge accomplishment! You choose every single day to be sober, that is a big deal hun! Be proud of yourself!
Congratulations on 10 years! You did it and screw anyone that passes judgement!
Liz, I have followed your hiking for a couple of years. You are an outstanding lady. Please don't beat yourself up over this. It was an accident you have come so far and your reaction and feelings showing in the video show your commitment to your goal. You are still 10 years sober keeping on going forward with your head held high. You got this......🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
Congrats on your 10 years of sobriety! You are a rockstar for making it. I am really sorry this accident happened. Forgive yourself. You are strong. Your honesty and vulnerability shows your heart.
I completely understand why this is such a big deal for you and even though it hurt your heart and messed with your head, you're still doing so great. I love how genuine you are. You should still be proud of yourself. Go easy on yourself.
I have done same thing twice, once after 11 years and again after 5 years. It’s not about years collected but days collected. One day at a time. Put the bat away and keep your feet moving forward 🙏🙏🙏
Congratulations on 10 years of sobriety Liz alias handstand! in my humble opinion you have nothing to worry about. i’ve rarely gone a day without a few drinks in 55 years. One little sip by mistake is in no way falling off the wagon. God bless
Thank you for sharing Handstand.
Liz, even extremely strong people have weak moments. You had ONE in TEN YEARS, and t wasn't intentional. You are SO strong! You are more relatable and real than so many others who minimize their faults. You are AWESOME! ✌️💪👊
Happy 10years!!! Congratulations on your perseverance! Your self-awareness and vulnerability is inspiring. Please have more grace for yourself. You're still on track.🖤
Thanks for sharing, Liz. I love how open and honest you are. This situation might be hard for you to come to terms with, but I hope that over time you learn to understand that what other people think doesn't have to affect you.
As a former semi-professional drinker. The best times I had is when i was drinking and the worst times I had is when I was drinking. You stumbled but you are over the peak. The day you decide to not let it control you anymore (and that you are just tired of living this way), is a path you begin on that only ends when your life comes to a close.
Love you, sister. You are safe. You are sober. You are living your truth every day. Other people's opinions are irrelevant. Thank you for sharing your heart with all of us!
Sobriety is more than what you do. It’s who you are and how you think. So… 🎉🎉🎉Congratulations on 10 years, girl!! Thank you for sharing your heart and life with us. You make us better.
Congrats on 10 years! You’re very brave for sharing everything you have, I stumbled on your page like seven years ago, when I was just starting out dreads, but more recently I’ve been seeing your personal stories, and I am inspired by you, I just watched your kidney sharing video, followed by your five year, sober video and now you’re 10 years sober video. And I want to take more chances. And try new things, actually make a bucket list. Thank you for sharing 💜 keep going! I wanna see your 15 year sober vid