My mother raised me to believe that the way you wear your hair and clothing is a direct connection to the level of treatment you will receive from people.
Im Blasian with straight hair down to my hips and I get so uncomfortable when people tell me i have "good hair" to the point where i started to feel guilty to have my hair type bc i would get so much attention (good& bad) for having straight hair. My hair is also a gateway for people to question my ethnic/ racial background which also makes me very uncomfortable to answer. Also When certain people found out my hair is real & naturally straight I would get accused of texturism & being stucked up even though i never considered my hair to be better or good hair. I even had an incident where a women would act like my friend just to get close to me & find any small reason to fight me while threatening to cut off my hair and wear it as a weave! All my life i dealt with people trying to humble me bc of my hair 😢 i grew up hating having different hair than most people in the black& mixed race community bc i stand out & would get attention from creepy black men & mean black women I had to learn to love my hair type without feeling guilty!! I learned that my beautiful long straight hair and dark brown skin makes me unique so I shouldn't feel bad for my Exotical beauty ❤️ and yess i am blessed to have my hair bc women are paying hundreds- thousands of dollars just to have an indian 40 inch bussdown! Im very much blessed! I love my hair more than ever and won't feel bad ever again!
Type 3 here and yes, the "good hair" "I wish I had your hair" comments are so back-handed. It's a mental journey understanding when someone else's insecurities isn't your fault when these self-pitying parasites see you as a host to latch onto. Having to awkwardly comfort these people is a thankless burden especially when they do it repeatedly.
I once had a job where a Nigerian woman told me that my hair was a blessing 🤷♀️. I didn't know what to say, so I said thank you... My hair is 3C/4a and I don't have problems styling it... I get a lot of compliments from 4c people, 3a, 2a, straight hair 🤷♀️
Mine is mostly 3c/4a too (although I have a small section of 3b), and in my case its a lot of work 😂 maybe cause I have a lot of hair. I have to section SO MUCH to style my hair lol When I get tired of wash n goes, I just do dutch braids or one braid 🤷♀
I’m mostly 4a. I get compliments from everyone. I have also had someone in every category tell me they wish they had hair like mine. I have highly thick dense hair and people ask if I wear clip ins. I don’t.
@@anndeecosita3586 👍, 4a is especially sought after because it has a lot of curls even on your scalp when it's in a ponytail...looks really good and shiny😊
I literally feel like a unicorn in this “community”. I never get upset about anything the black community is in an uproar about. I remember when the controversy with Briana happened, I felt everyone was exaggerating. Hit dogs will holler!!
Right! I genuinely don’t think and influencer with a black identified mother and a blck audience, sponsored by a black hair care brand, would come online and talk crap about black hair textures.
I’m sure she was just repeating what she has heard her mother say her entire life. And honestly, natural hair is NOT difficult to “manage”. You will take care of your hair if you love and accept it for what it is. The self hate in a lot of ppl makes them view their own hair as a problem. The constant manipulation of it to make it look like something it is not is what’s difficult. 🤦🏽♀️ Trust me, the things I’ve heard black women say about themselves and each other is disgusting. Especially when it comes to hair, I know first hand bc I’ve worked in beauty supply stores. It’s sad and hypocritical
Right! This girl was literally just repeating what her own mother said. If she doesn’t have the same hair texture as her mom how is she supposed to know that she’s not allowed to use words like “naps” etc?
I don’t know what my hair texture is anymore- bc the natural hair movement always changes what type 3 hair looks like and what type 4 hair looks like 🤷♀️
I’m biracial. My daughters have 4c hair because their father is African. I struggle so much with managing their hair. I have worked hard to help them love their hair. And I’ve gotten so much better at managing their hair.
My mom is MLS with type 4 hair and she was the one who taught me to love my type 3 hair. She’s cut and grown her hair long multiple times. She does what she wants with her hair and doesn’t let anyone tell her what she’s supposed to look like 😂 sometimes I feel like MLS women handle type 4 hair better.
Eloho saying that while wearing South East Asian Woman hair it's a joke They valued other woman hair more than theirs own, then justify this by saying that WW wears weave too but WW wear wig who looks like theirs hair (exept when they MIXEDfishing bcuz they love claiming that ww blackfishing when they don't they want to looks racially ambigious notice the differences when WP trying to be racist when they do black face they use straight black paintings and use afro weave so we can tell that WP find golden skin more Exotics too) She sounded hurt for literally nothing, Brianna didn't talk bad about 4C hair. Imaging make a video just for that.
Everyone has hair issues. My Caucasian colleagues have shared that their daughters cry while getting their hair done, leading them to opt for haircuts instead.
Love it how you clarified and left room for people who do have type 4 hair that admit they prefer the looser hair look and those like their hair how it is. I get what you saying you just don’t like the hypocrisy of trashing something and copying it simultaneously
Exactly. SYNTHETIC CURLY WIGS LOOK BETTER THAN MY HAIR . But I don’t call girls with natural thick curly hair ugly or make fun of how they were born while simultaneously trying to Mimic thicker hairstyles .
As someone that has 3c/4b hair i agree with briana ! And have no problem admitting that the looser the texture the easier it is to manage your hair , you can actually just wash and go without needing all those gels and all that crap , i get hate for wearing my hair straight many BW tell me im self hating but its just so much easier to have it press and i would do the same if i had 4C hair I would probably use a relaxer 🤷🏽♀️
i am African with 100% 4C hair, and I loveeeeee this video. I love your honesty and insight. Thank you for this video and for being brave enough to stand up to all this self hate i see going on in Black women empowerment spaces.
My mom is mixed race with type 4c hair. I have type 3c hair that I got from my dad who is also mixed. My mom would always tell me that I had good hair.
All I hear is hatred from that woman and it's scary. I've had women be hateful to me and I've always wondered why they were so intense. She sounds hurt and I learned to distance myself from people whenever I caught even a whiff of jealousy because you never know what a person in that frame of mind will do...with every sentence she was getting angrier and angrier 😳
Nappy in my culture is an insult that means badly tangled, unkempt hair. We don’t use the word to specifically refer to type 4 hair or any hair type for that matter. I have heard it used against people with looser texture. I would never call somebody’s hair nappy because I was raised to see it as an insult but if others embrace it that’s their choice. In fact the time I remember someone calling me nappyheaded my hair was relaxed and straight because it looked a mess. For us “nappy” is something you correct with a comb not a relaxer. And I and others were not happy with Iyanla a black woman when she told a white German woman that black women have to go to salons every week because we have “nappy hair”. If you look at the comments section on that OWN video there are people who said they had a problem with her using this word. Iyanla may not have a problem with the word but telling this to a foreigner who might possibly say this to a black woman who does have a problem will it could get her slapped. Iyanla was wrong. My culture uses nappy the same way some people say “nappy weave”. As mentioned most people don’t wear type 4 weave. We are saying it’s badly tangled and has nothing to do with the extensions being a lose hype. I actually know white and other non black people who call their own hair nappy when it’s badly tangled
We watch a lot of the same videos. A LOT of the audio you’ve used in your videos.. I’ve seen them. I’m glad you’re sharing your experiences in life because your experiences are your own. NO ONE can tell you how to feel or tell you that “you’ve never experienced that.” Love your channel 💜 idk if I’ll ever stop saying that 🤷🏾♀️ but I’m a complimenter by nature 😊
I don't think what Briana said was meant in a bad way, she stated facts about her mom's hair and people shouldn't feel attacked. I think she was talking about management. My hair is 3c/4a and its long, when straightened comes down to my butt and when curly, it comes down to my breast.. However, even I find my hair to be a lot of work, that doesn't mean I don't like it (I LOVE IT), it's a matter of just acknowledging the reality. Some hair textures are easier than others and that's perfectly fine, they should not feel offended when they very well know it can truly be a hassle. I find my 3c hair a struggle too (at least for me), it breaks easily especially when you have way too much hair. I think she was just trying to empathize with her mom instead of criticizing her hair. I completely agree with what you say, we all have something that we wish to have when it comes to our hair. My son has long 3b curls, and I can tell you IT'S SO MUCH EASIER THAN MINE 😂 he has a lot of hair, his hair is normal porosity, and he can get away with just leave in conditioner. In my case, I also have A LOT of hair, its low porosity and needs warm water, I also have to section it into million pieces to apply products section by section because its thick. All hair textures are beautiful, but some are harder than others and that's perfectly fine. It's a matter of loving your hair no matter what, I get complimented a lot on my hair and I've heard some black women talk about 3c hair as if its "the goal", and me thinking inside "if only they knew its hard to manage as well 😂". I think 3b and bellow are the easiest to manage, (I have 3b in the bottom back of my hair, well I have 3 different hair textures and they all feel different when styling 3b,3c,4a) Anyways, I think we just have to accept reality.. as the hair type goes down, the easier it gets and since we all have a busy life, we all would love a manageable and quick way to do our hair. The girl felt attacked for no reason and added words that were not even mentioned.
Right! I have type 3 hair and I 100% believe that women with naturally straight hair can probably manage theirs easier than me. I’m not having an inferiority complex about it or accusing white and Asian girls of “thinking they’re better” than me. If an Indian woman said her hair is easily manageable and it’s easy to grow it down to her ankles I would not be offended.
Ive had both monoracial black men and women tell me that I'm lucky and that I have good hair. SO, she's probably just repeating what someone black with 4c hair told her, to be honest. I've even had asians, latinos and yes...white people tell me how beautiful my hair is. She probably gets the same compliments from every ethnicity too, I bet.
I've worn relaxers (light ones, of course); they save a ton of time. Politicizing (read: weaponizing) natural hair has backfired big time, as BM have really been 💨 to the nearest non-black woman within sight.
My mother is a biracial Latina, and my mother always told me I don’t need a relaxer based on my hair type. I used to get offended because I don’t think no one needs a relaxer. But to be honest my hair is easy to style most of the time.
That is why im glad we Exoticals dont have to deal with the hypocracy within the BC when it comes to our hair texture , and everything else under the sun . We have own personal exotical spaces to talk about issues that relate , or promblematic to us.
I’m here binge watching these awesome well thought out videos and I bumped into this one. Another great one Sis! 👑👩🏽❤️🙏🏼🙌🏽 I actually remember watching this woman’s video when it first came out and making the same points you were making. I was in total shock of how the woman in the video who was attacking the woman simply sharing how she felt about her own hair completely got blown out of proportion. Crazy! Thanks once again for your great videos! 👑👩🏽🙏🏼❤️🙌🏽🥰😘
Right! She clearly identifies strongly with her blackness which is why she even said that. I don’t think she would be sponsored by a black brand then come Online and talk shit about black hair and her own mother …
Wearing wigs, weave straighteners that’s what 4c hair ppl do to their hair what’s outside of the norm is accepting there born hair texture as beautiful and promoting wearing it that way that’s what I don’t see. Deep down we don’t want the hair we have. I’m very large busted I watched women hate on me for my size all my life. So I understand but loving myself if I was flat chested I feel I would absolutely do because I know it’s what is best for me emotionally. That’s how I see the hair issue.
My late mother who is biracial. Had curly hair.i share same texture as my mother.my father would say to hus friends.look at my daughters pretty hair.plus i do get some black women touching my hair.im humble.im sick of some of theses women attacking those who embrace their hair texture.
It failed cuz females started learning that just cuz your natural doesn't mean that it would grow...it can still break off...and be thin... So what I learned is you have to put the right oils in your hair to make it grow...whether your natural or relaxed
Oh they hate when we good hair people try to relate to them. Good hair has their issues to! Nobody has perfect hair… but Zoe Saldana 😭😭😭 Imo and even then Zoe might say otherwise. 😭 how come other people see dark skin nappy hair women beautiful but them? Smdh
I must say I was very disappointed in Eloho….. I like her a lot and I’m a sub and loved her content. This right here makes me feel that she is not in favor of people like and reminds me of the girls that used to bully me and beat me up in school. Yet none of them ever took the time to get to know me first before assuming I was a certain way or automatically disliking me and mistreating me. It’s wild……
I don’t have anything against ppl like Eloho uplifting and praising her African features and hair but she has a history of putting words in ppls mouths and instead of being positive it just feels like a lot of projection and putting someone down like she did with Brianna won’t get u anywhere I think u can feel beautiful in your skin without being petty and insulting ppl she lost me when she took it there just like u said if eloho can be proud of her hair texture I don’t see why Brianna can’t be proud and happy with her hair
I'm not black, but this video popped in my feed. I have many black friends so I'm aware that the term nappy is bad, but what bothers me about this video is that this woman is using that word to talk about her own mother? I think that's in poor taste. I wonder how her mother felt when she saw the video. That's just my opinion, but I could never do that if it was my mom.
She did it because she herself identifies with blackness and sees nothing wrong with naps. why would someone with a black audience and black identified mother come onto a video sponsored by a black hair care brand and diss all three ? It’s because she was not dissing anyone she was simply repeating what her own mother said about her hair. Black people call our own hair nappy all the time but now people are policing it as if you have to have nappy hair yourself to use the word nappy.
@@Music45387 Yes I actually watched it so control yourself. You sound like a crazy person. My comment still stands. It's her mother and she can say wants but ME personally would never use a word that has a negative connotation about my own mother. That's my personal opinion. If you don't like it maybe you shouldn't be reading comments.🙄
Why do they kee😊 calling women who clearly have healthy hair bald headed?! I can’t even watch a lot of black channels bc of how they bully and gaslight women who do not look like them!
My mother raised me to believe that the way you wear your hair and clothing is a direct connection to the level of treatment you will receive from people.
"This is war" is CRAZY. Like girl...just go moisturize and go bed🤦🏽♀️
Right! How did her loving her hair turn into us being in a war based on hair textures ?
😂😂😂 facts
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Im Blasian with straight hair down to my hips and I get so uncomfortable when people tell me i have "good hair" to the point where i started to feel guilty to have my hair type bc i would get so much attention (good& bad) for having straight hair. My hair is also a gateway for people to question my ethnic/ racial background which also makes me very uncomfortable to answer.
Also When certain people found out my hair is real & naturally straight I would get accused of texturism & being stucked up even though i never considered my hair to be better or good hair. I even had an incident where a women would act like my friend just to get close to me & find any small reason to fight me while threatening to cut off my hair and wear it as a weave! All my life i dealt with people trying to humble me bc of my hair 😢 i grew up hating having different hair than most people in the black& mixed race community bc i stand out & would get attention from creepy black men & mean black women
I had to learn to love my hair type without feeling guilty!! I learned that my beautiful long straight hair and dark brown skin makes me unique so I shouldn't feel bad for my Exotical beauty ❤️ and yess i am blessed to have my hair bc women are paying hundreds- thousands of dollars just to have an indian 40 inch bussdown! Im very much blessed! I love my hair more than ever and won't feel bad ever again!
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Threatening to cut your hair and wear it as a weave is nasty work 🙈
Type 3 here and yes, the "good hair" "I wish I had your hair" comments are so back-handed. It's a mental journey understanding when someone else's insecurities isn't your fault when these self-pitying parasites see you as a host to latch onto. Having to awkwardly comfort these people is a thankless burden especially when they do it repeatedly.
I can hear the hate and jealousy in Eloho's voice
Right ! The girl NEVER even said anything bad about type 4 hair ..
Eloho is just talking the truth
I once had a job where a Nigerian woman told me that my hair was a blessing 🤷♀️. I didn't know what to say, so I said thank you... My hair is 3C/4a and I don't have problems styling it... I get a lot of compliments from 4c people, 3a, 2a, straight hair 🤷♀️
Mine is mostly 3c/4a too (although I have a small section of 3b), and in my case its a lot of work 😂 maybe cause I have a lot of hair. I have to section SO MUCH to style my hair lol When I get tired of wash n goes, I just do dutch braids or one braid 🤷♀
I’m mostly 4a. I get compliments from everyone. I have also had someone in every category tell me they wish they had hair like mine. I have highly thick dense hair and people ask if I wear clip ins. I don’t.
@@anndeecosita3586 👍, 4a is especially sought after because it has a lot of curls even on your scalp when it's in a ponytail...looks really good and shiny😊
I literally feel like a unicorn in this “community”. I never get upset about anything the black community is in an uproar about. I remember when the controversy with Briana happened, I felt everyone was exaggerating. Hit dogs will holler!!
Right! I genuinely don’t think and influencer with a black identified mother and a blck audience, sponsored by a black hair care brand, would come online and talk crap about black hair textures.
I’m sure she was just repeating what she has heard her mother say her entire life. And honestly, natural hair is NOT difficult to “manage”. You will take care of your hair if you love and accept it for what it is. The self hate in a lot of ppl makes them view their own hair as a problem. The constant manipulation of it to make it look like something it is not is what’s difficult. 🤦🏽♀️
Trust me, the things I’ve heard black women say about themselves and each other is disgusting. Especially when it comes to hair, I know first hand bc I’ve worked in beauty supply stores. It’s sad and hypocritical
Right! This girl was literally just repeating what her own mother said. If she doesn’t have the same hair texture as her mom how is she supposed to know that she’s not allowed to use words like “naps” etc?
I don’t know what my hair texture is anymore- bc the natural hair movement always changes what type 3 hair looks like and what type 4 hair looks like 🤷♀️
Right 😂 they’re constantly moving the goal post
I’m biracial. My daughters have 4c hair because their father is African. I struggle so much with managing their hair. I have worked hard to help them love their hair. And I’ve gotten so much better at managing their hair.
That’s great !
My mom is MLS with type 4 hair and she was the one who taught me to love my type 3 hair. She’s cut and grown her hair long multiple times. She does what she wants with her hair and doesn’t let anyone tell her what she’s supposed to look like 😂 sometimes I feel like MLS women handle type 4 hair better.
Eloho saying that while wearing South East Asian Woman hair it's a joke
They valued other woman hair more than theirs own, then justify this by saying that WW wears weave too but WW wear wig who looks like theirs hair (exept when they MIXEDfishing bcuz they love claiming that ww blackfishing when they don't they want to looks racially ambigious notice the differences when WP trying to be racist when they do black face they use straight black paintings and use afro weave so we can tell that WP find golden skin more Exotics too)
She sounded hurt for literally nothing, Brianna didn't talk bad about 4C hair.
Imaging make a video just for that.
Your cursed …this war … why is she so angry she needs to heal
Right! How did “my hair is manageable” turn to cursing and wars? 😂
Everyone has hair issues. My Caucasian colleagues have shared that their daughters cry while getting their hair done, leading them to opt for haircuts instead.
Exactly. Idk where she got the stereotype that type 3 women act like our hair is perfect.
Love it how you clarified and left room for people who do have type 4 hair that admit they prefer the looser hair look and those like their hair how it is. I get what you saying you just don’t like the hypocrisy of trashing something and copying it simultaneously
Exactly. SYNTHETIC CURLY WIGS LOOK BETTER THAN MY HAIR . But I don’t call girls with natural thick curly hair ugly or make fun of how they were born while simultaneously trying to Mimic thicker hairstyles .
@@ExoticalsUnited facts
Eloho is the biggest MLS hater.
Yes how did it go from her saying she’s blessed with her texture to suddenly being in a war and she’s cursed? 😂
As someone that has 3c/4b hair i agree with briana ! And have no problem admitting that the looser the texture the easier it is to manage your hair , you can actually just wash and go without needing all those gels and all that crap , i get hate for wearing my hair straight many BW tell me im self hating but its just so much easier to have it press and i would do the same if i had 4C hair I would probably use a relaxer 🤷🏽♀️
i am African with 100% 4C hair, and I loveeeeee this video. I love your honesty and insight. Thank you for this video and for being brave enough to stand up to all this self hate i see going on in Black women empowerment spaces.
My mom is mixed race with type 4c hair. I have type 3c hair that I got from my dad who is also mixed. My mom would always tell me that I had good hair.
Yup my dad has 3C hair too!
All I hear is hatred from that woman and it's scary. I've had women be hateful to me and I've always wondered why they were so intense. She sounds hurt and I learned to distance myself from people whenever I caught even a whiff of jealousy because you never know what a person in that frame of mind will do...with every sentence she was getting angrier and angrier 😳
I'm so glad and BLESSED that l gave up on all those channels. Good riddance!!
Yes, my self esteem is flourishing again !
Same i 🏃♀️ away and never looked back.
Nappy in my culture is an insult that means badly tangled, unkempt hair. We don’t use the word to specifically refer to type 4 hair or any hair type for that matter. I have heard it used against people with looser texture. I would never call somebody’s hair nappy because I was raised to see it as an insult but if others embrace it that’s their choice. In fact the time I remember someone calling me nappyheaded my hair was relaxed and straight because it looked a mess. For us “nappy” is something you correct with a comb not a relaxer. And I and others were not happy with Iyanla a black woman when she told a white German woman that black women have to go to salons every week because we have “nappy hair”. If you look at the comments section on that OWN video there are people who said they had a problem with her using this word. Iyanla may not have a problem with the word but telling this to a foreigner who might possibly say this to a black woman who does have a problem will it could get her slapped. Iyanla was wrong.
My culture uses nappy the same way some people say “nappy weave”. As mentioned most people don’t wear type 4 weave. We are saying it’s badly tangled and has nothing to do with the extensions being a lose hype. I actually know white and other non black people who call their own hair nappy when it’s badly tangled
We watch a lot of the same videos. A LOT of the audio you’ve used in your videos.. I’ve seen them. I’m glad you’re sharing your experiences in life because your experiences are your own. NO ONE can tell you how to feel or tell you that “you’ve never experienced that.” Love your channel 💜 idk if I’ll ever stop saying that 🤷🏾♀️ but I’m a complimenter by nature 😊
I’m sure I sound like a broken record lol but I really am proud of you 🌹
Yay! Thanks
@@ExoticalsUnited yw
I don't think what Briana said was meant in a bad way, she stated facts about her mom's hair and people shouldn't feel attacked. I think she was talking about management. My hair is 3c/4a and its long, when straightened comes down to my butt and when curly, it comes down to my breast.. However, even I find my hair to be a lot of work, that doesn't mean I don't like it (I LOVE IT), it's a matter of just acknowledging the reality. Some hair textures are easier than others and that's perfectly fine, they should not feel offended when they very well know it can truly be a hassle. I find my 3c hair a struggle too (at least for me), it breaks easily especially when you have way too much hair. I think she was just trying to empathize with her mom instead of criticizing her hair.
I completely agree with what you say, we all have something that we wish to have when it comes to our hair. My son has long 3b curls, and I can tell you IT'S SO MUCH EASIER THAN MINE 😂 he has a lot of hair, his hair is normal porosity, and he can get away with just leave in conditioner. In my case, I also have A LOT of hair, its low porosity and needs warm water, I also have to section it into million pieces to apply products section by section because its thick. All hair textures are beautiful, but some are harder than others and that's perfectly fine. It's a matter of loving your hair no matter what, I get complimented a lot on my hair and I've heard some black women talk about 3c hair as if its "the goal", and me thinking inside "if only they knew its hard to manage as well 😂". I think 3b and bellow are the easiest to manage, (I have 3b in the bottom back of my hair, well I have 3 different hair textures and they all feel different when styling 3b,3c,4a) Anyways, I think we just have to accept reality.. as the hair type goes down, the easier it gets and since we all have a busy life, we all would love a manageable and quick way to do our hair. The girl felt attacked for no reason and added words that were not even mentioned.
Right! I have type 3 hair and I 100% believe that women with naturally straight hair can probably manage theirs easier than me. I’m not having an inferiority complex about it or accusing white and Asian girls of “thinking they’re better” than me. If an Indian woman said her hair is easily manageable and it’s easy to grow it down to her ankles I would not be offended.
Ive had both monoracial black men and women tell me that I'm lucky and that I have good hair. SO, she's probably just repeating what someone black with 4c hair told her, to be honest. I've even had asians, latinos and yes...white people tell me how beautiful my hair is. She probably gets the same compliments from every ethnicity too, I bet.
Yup same here . I’m pretty sure she didn’t log on to throw shade at her own mother and all of her subscribers especially if that’s her full time job
@@ExoticalsUnited Exactly!
I've worn relaxers (light ones, of course); they save a ton of time. Politicizing (read: weaponizing) natural hair has backfired big time, as BM have really been 💨 to the nearest non-black woman within sight.
My mother is a biracial Latina, and my mother always told me I don’t need a relaxer based on my hair type. I used to get offended because I don’t think no one needs a relaxer. But to be honest my hair is easy to style most of the time.
My late mom had hair much coarser than mine; some UDSBW seem to think that MLS women especially should be seen and not heard.
Yes!
That is why im glad we Exoticals dont have to deal with the hypocracy within the BC when it comes to our hair texture , and everything else under the sun . We have own personal exotical spaces to talk about issues that relate , or promblematic to us.
Yes! And I’m so glad we are celebrating ourselves and having more of a sisterhood over here
I’m here binge watching these awesome well thought out videos and I bumped into this one. Another great one Sis! 👑👩🏽❤️🙏🏼🙌🏽 I actually remember watching this woman’s video when it first came out and making the same points you were making. I was in total shock of how the woman in the video who was attacking the woman simply sharing how she felt about her own hair completely got blown out of proportion. Crazy! Thanks once again for your great videos! 👑👩🏽🙏🏼❤️🙌🏽🥰😘
Right! She clearly identifies strongly with her blackness which is why she even said that. I don’t think she would be sponsored by a black brand then come
Online and talk shit about black hair and her own mother …
Wearing wigs, weave straighteners that’s what 4c hair ppl do to their hair what’s outside of the norm is accepting there born hair texture as beautiful and promoting wearing it that way that’s what I don’t see. Deep down we don’t want the hair we have. I’m very large busted I watched women hate on me for my size all my life. So I understand but loving myself if I was flat chested I feel I would absolutely do because I know it’s what is best for me emotionally. That’s how I see the hair issue.
My late mother who is biracial. Had curly hair.i share same texture as my mother.my father would say to hus friends.look at my daughters pretty hair.plus i do get some black women touching my hair.im humble.im sick of some of theses women attacking those who embrace their hair texture.
It failed cuz females started learning that just cuz your natural doesn't mean that it would grow...it can still break off...and be thin...
So what I learned is you have to put the right oils in your hair to make it grow...whether your natural or relaxed
Oh they hate when we good hair people try to relate to them. Good hair has their issues to! Nobody has perfect hair… but Zoe Saldana 😭😭😭 Imo and even then Zoe might say otherwise. 😭 how come other people see dark skin nappy hair women beautiful but them? Smdh
Love the way you addressed this, and I agree!
Yay, thank you!
Agreed 👍 ❤
I must say I was very disappointed in Eloho….. I like her a lot and I’m a sub and loved her content. This right here makes me feel that she is not in favor of people like and reminds me of the girls that used to bully me and beat me up in school. Yet none of them ever took the time to get to know me first before assuming I was a certain way or automatically disliking me and mistreating me. It’s wild……
I don’t have anything against ppl like Eloho uplifting and praising her African features and hair but she has a history of putting words in ppls mouths and instead of being positive it just feels like a lot of projection and putting someone down like she did with Brianna won’t get u anywhere I think u can feel beautiful in your skin without being petty and insulting ppl she lost me when she took it there just like u said if eloho can be proud of her hair texture I don’t see why Brianna can’t be proud and happy with her hair
Exactly, and briana never said type 4 hair was ugly etc .
I'm not black, but this video popped in my feed. I have many black friends so I'm aware that the term nappy is bad, but what bothers me about this video is that this woman is using that word to talk about her own mother? I think that's in poor taste. I wonder how her mother felt when she saw the video. That's just my opinion, but I could never do that if it was my mom.
She did it because she herself identifies with blackness and sees nothing wrong with naps. why would someone with a black audience and black identified mother come onto a video sponsored by a black hair care brand and diss all three ? It’s because she was not dissing anyone she was simply repeating what her own mother said about her hair. Black people call our own hair nappy all the time but now people are policing it as if you have to have nappy hair yourself to use the word nappy.
@@Music45387 Yes I actually watched it so control yourself. You sound like a crazy person. My comment still stands. It's her mother and she can say wants but ME personally would never use a word that has a negative connotation about my own mother. That's my personal opinion. If you don't like it maybe you shouldn't be reading comments.🙄
This comments show why other races are ahead of blacks
lol the lady flipped it around and said a whole bunch of nonsence and lies like we didnt just hear what the woman actuly said..WOW!
Why do they kee😊 calling women who clearly have healthy hair bald headed?! I can’t even watch a lot of black channels bc of how they bully and gaslight women who do not look like them!
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Right if u have 3 hair y are u talking about type 4… worry about yourself!
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