how starting a small business changed my life (& it can change yours too!) ✿ let's be vulnerable
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ค. 2024
- let's be vulnerable.... thank you, Universe, for supporting my channel! Get 25% off your first year of Universe Pro: web.univer.se/promos/uncomfy25
or try Universe for FREE: get.univer.se/UnpQ/uncomfy
✿ My art shop! uncomfy.store (currently on break)
✿ Supplies I Use (Clay Tools, Resin, Studio, & Beauty)!!!
www.amazon.com/shop/uncomfy.co
✿ Find me on Insta! @uncomfy.co
Business Inquiries: kyle@smallscreenmarketing.com
📬 Send me something!
Tammy Dinh
PO Box 13791
Denver, CO 80201
United States
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - 01:54 intro
01:55 - 04:20 prologue
04:21 - 07:51 courage
07:51 - 09:28 confidence
09:29 - 12:40 mindset
12:41 - 14:10 flexibility
14:11 - 16:32 discipline & self love
#polymerclay #studiovlog #smallbusiness #makingmoneyonline #youtube #contentcreation #onlinebusiness
![พรากรัก - เต้ย อภิวัฒน์ [ Official MV ]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/ShT2ltn8GBE/mqdefault.jpg)
from one uncomfy person to another, i hope this video brings you comfort. thank you so, so much for being here
🤎🫶🏼
❤🩹
🫶
❤
Oh btw when u have this hair u look like the queen of hearts actor in Alice in Bordeline!
I almost cried when you talked abou helping your parents with their trip and their health (teeth). You are really wonderful, and I'm glad you found your way to success and happiness.
Me too
nah, I cried
I definitely teared up
i didn’t expect staring a small shop would be so hard until i did it myself. it took me 4+ months to even post one listing/product and now that its been 7 months I only did 1 sale. However that one sale is what keeps me going. Awesome video!
I wish you success. Keep going, never give up. ❤
I'm literally at the start of starting my own business, I have dreamt about it so many times and after 9 years of already being self employed but not really doing what I love, this video helped me so so much to realise that choosing something you love can also trickle down to your core self, the ones you love and the best version of you in the future. "I don't have tobe the best" really clicked with me. Thank you so much and I wish you and all the people here who embark on their own little business adventure all the best ❤
@@Ethereal359 same for you!
where do you sell? what do you sell? website?
@@sweets3445 I am selling engraved silver necklaces. Idea started with engraving fingerprint on a silver pendant and now I am also considering other engravings like coordinates, initials, etc. I have started selling on ETSY and am considering opening a website.
"If you are nervous about something just find a way to be excited about it" - loved it
This video hit me hard. I'm a young father, broke with no parents so no support. Times looking bleak but I have to do right by my daughter and just start somewhere.
Every thing will get better don’t stop believing bro , sending prayers and love to you and your daughter 💕🫶🏽
@@cholav3341 Thanks for that. At least you find good people once in a while online
Keep going, man! ☀️☀️
th-cam.com/video/IJrcJUV8d20/w-d-xo.htmlsi=uL83rSRrCQ84cIt-
I cried with you... that line "If I mess up, who was gonna help my family" shook me for real. The pressure of being the eldest just hit hard. Even though there are 4 of us, I can't lean on anyone. Everyone has their problems, and it's tough for me to open up to any of them. But thank you, Tammy. I felt that I wasn't alone in my problems and was able to let out some steam. Much love
Totally. Eldest child pressures. Sending love and luck 💚❤️🍀
I'm not the eldest, but I have the same experience.
"I don't have to be the best. I'm still valuable". How healthy of a mindset. Thank you! I'll post it somewhere around the house to remember.
your point about "not having to be the best" really resonated with me because I recently came to this realization too!
I see people on Instagram all the time who are just so much more naturally artistic, who have more training, who are seasoned professionals, etc. And it discouraged me for years because I wasn't at their level despite drawing pretty much all my life and sometimes being older than these talented people!
One day I sat down and had this realization though: I'm good enough at art that I can draw pretty much anything that makes me happy. Anything I want. And for now, that's good enough. If the time comes that I can ever afford to go to art school then I'll take it, but for now, I study on my own schedule, improve at my own pace, and rest happy knowing that my childhood self would be really happy with what she can do now~
I think having technical skill doesn't need to be a hindrance. Quirky stuff that is authentic can resonate with people while technical skill but lack of authenticity can be uninspiring at best.
this !!!
This is so true, I started making jewelry but I was so scared, literally cried when I got a first order and then I didn’t have orders but a complete stranger gave me the motivation to keep going and now it’s my income, i do what i love its amazing, some stress of course but support really helps
Do you have an Instagram page??
I started my business in 2023 and have a year under my belt. 200+ sales with minimal advertising and no social media. Sometimes I get down on myself bc I can only work so much and also have to be available to help my kids in homeschool. I'm at the Sapling stage and I'm proud of it. I wonder what will happen this year when I create a Shopify and steer my sales funnel directly at it via Instagram and Pinterest. I struggle with balancing "me" time, "family" time and videogaming for relaxation and my burgeoning watercoloring hobby. Discipline, focus, balance, and Sleep. I'm adding in daily walks now for the endorphins. Loved your video. I heard "you", so thanks for sharing. It resonated w me. ❤❤
Good luck!
I started in 2023 also, and I JUST got my first sale! Feeling ecstatic about it honestly 🤩 You’re doing GREAT with 200+ already, and I’m so happy for you! Tammy inspired me to finally start my journey and it’s wonderful seeing so many people tell their success stories in her comments!
You totally got this ❤
I'm a Capricorn too twin where have u been
I reallly resonate with the thought that you "don't see self-employment as a risk -- people go through life working hard 9-5, being unhappy, and in the end they're laid off anyway". When you have the knowing that you have the skills to sustain yourself, it's a superpower. You don't depend on some X employer, it's just one of many options. 💪
As someone who is also pretty anxious I loved the idea you mentioned of turning that anxious feeling into a feeling of excitement. Changing my mindset is the first step!
Thank you for sharing. This is truly inspirational.
Things I am learning from this video:
- Take calculated risks (develops courage)
- I may not be the best in something, but I still can be valuable in that. (develops confidence)
- Be excited about what makes you anxious. (develops mindset)
- Set boundaries, improve yourself, forgive yourself, correct yourself. (develops discipline and self-love)
- Starting a small business is like planting a tree, it requires patience, hard work, and persistence on a daily basis.
Childhood trauma is real. Self care would include going to a supportive therapist so you can really work through what happened to you. I worked at Yale Medical school where so many young adults were healed. You deserve it. Everyone does. You rock!!! ❤❤❤🐶🐶🐶👁️🧬🌗🌷🌺🌋🎨🎨
I work for a corporate company currently and I hate it, I feel stuck to start my own craft business, I can make art and design art, still try to find my way to get there…that’s why I come here to see how you do it, you are doing great! Now I still think of what to make for sell and get it started. So happy for your achievement.
I am in a similar position, I'm feeling stuck with my art and something that has been unbelievably and ridiculously helpful has been reading the artists way, finding creators (like uncomfy co and gabriellarosie) who are trying to foster support for artistic practises. I hope you find what you want to sell 💜
@@ephemeral_artsI’ve started reading it and I really like it ❤ I definitely recommend it as well
thank you for showing that being vulnerable means being strong. and I also love names of the chapters, it's so poetic! ✿
Nice perspective! Although as someone more pessimistic I must say luck is often involved in the success of many businesses, even when it doesn't seem that way. I think the fact that your social channel grew so quickly in the beginning probably gave you a nice boost to keep pursuing your dream. And of course, your hard work and dedication also pays off. However, I've seen many people who have struggled for years to gain tractions on the things they love to make. Artists who make great art and yet their work never get picked up by the algoritum. And while I love seeing the success of your small business. I have seen so many other similar arts & crafts stores having to close down due to falling sales because of the recession. And it can be more soul crushing than doing a boring job that pays the bills.
I'm not suggesting that people shouldn't take risks in starting their own businesses. But I do suggest not entirely believing that hard work will lead to success. Luck is a very important factor. And it is often out of our control. We mostly hear from stories of sucessful businesses, but I think hearing the stories of how businesses went down can be beneficial too. And to build a more realistic picture of starting a business.
Your voice is so calming and very supportive, I quit my job 8 months ago and I don't ever want to go back! I want to work for myself at my own pace :) Thanks for sharing your journey!
Your journey sounds exactly like mine, which is incredibly encouraging. I grew up in a financial struggle too, went to university for fashion design for the exact same reasons. I didn't think taking the fine arts route was a smart decision in terms of risk. But like you, I never had that passion for what I did. I got my degree and went straight to working low skill, dead end jobs just to survive without grinding at something mentally exhausting that I wasn't interested in.
In May 2023 I started Coy Apricot. At 500 followers I also thought 'this could be something'.
I'm still small, but I really relate to you. Following your journey gives me a sense of comfort within my own.
Hi Tammy, I was also a graphic designer too. (The fact that I said "was"...) I actually yearn to be a fine artist and also produce my own merchandise. I really identify with the worry that no one would care about my art and that there are so many people out there who are already established and started way earlier than I had. I always wanted to be an artist and not a graphic designer. I went into graphic design because I was afraid I couldn't make a living from my art without someone else giving me a direction or purpose for my art. And yet while I was a graphic designer, I hated that I had very minimal creative freedom. In the end I was just afraid to stand alone and I severely lacked the confidence back then to pursue my dreams of starting my own creative business and expressing my creativity my own way. I felt like my creativity only had value if it was in the service of someone else's purpose because then I would get paid. It was such a unhealthy place to be in, now that I realise it.
The transparency and honesty in your sharing here in this video is so encouraging and refreshing to me. It gives me so much hope for my dreams because up til then I only found myself around very judgemental, negative people who made me feel like my art and my ideas and my voice were worthless.
Thank you so much for your video. It brought some healing and hope to me :)
Hell yes, Sarah. All of this. I’m in the same boat struggling as a pharmacy tech when I want to make art. It’s terrifying to start and to keep going.
@@MeghanHarker Hi Meghan, thanks for your reply
I always feel so warm and fuzzy after watching your videos, thank you for being you!
Wonderful to get a better insight into Uncomfy's initial beginnings.
Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring early small business owners like myself as we set out to forge our own paths.
This video popped up on my feed on my tv and I had to come to my computer to comment! I'm so glad at watched it! From one small business owner to another, I'm sooo proud of you! Thank you for sharing your journey!
i literally admire you! thanks for all the advices you encourage a lot of people 🙌🏽
Thank you for this video. Been watching for a while and your personality has definitely flowered and shines so much now. Wishing you all the best!
Thank you for sharing your experience, this video was so inspiring and warm and fuzzy to watch. I’ve been watching your videos for about a year and a half and it’s been so enjoyable to watch you grow through the ups and downs. You helped inspire me to start my own small business too. Thanks again for putting yourself out there, you and your art is a joy to watch!
Ahhh thank you so much for sharing, I relate so hard to everything you're saying. Also cried. Felt like I was talking to a friend who really understood what was happening in my head, and I felt really seen. Happy for you that you're seeing so much success after all the hard work, and thank you for giving us fellow small artists this pep talk. It is sometimes truly delusion that it'll all work out hahaha and I'm so grateful we have the internet to cheer each other on 💛💛💛
So proud of you and happy for you ❤ wishing you so much love and happiness!
I am grateful for you and your channel. Finding you a year or so ago was one of the biggest blessings. Keep up the wonderful work ❤
I've watched many videos on TH-cam, but Tammy it's really yours (and lofi music) that *truly* bring me comfort
This was truly so inspiring, I related to your story so much (being an introvert, having had to financially support my family, being hard on myself and almost letting this stop me from pursuing my dreams). I usually don't do this but I took so many notes so I don't forget the valuable things you shared on this video! I aspire to achieve this too one day. Thank you so much
Thank you so much for this video! I really love these kinds of videos where you’re kind of like a big sister giving advice to us newer artists who are still trying to figure themselves and their small business out. I feel like this came at a perfect time for me because I’m just starting out my small business since I’m in between jobs. I just got into my first small market, but as I’ve been prepping for it, I’ve been feeling a sense of imposter syndrome or even that maybe I would disappoint my parents if they found out that this is what I’ve been spending my time on. I’m also from a Vietnamese-American family, so I really relate to you and your story. But you’ve made me feel more optimistic, and I look forward to continuing to watch you grow❤️
I'm so proud of you! What a beautiful testimony of courage and faith in yourself. Very encouraging
I also started a small business where I design custom Lego models and sometimes 3D models. It's been 8 months or so since I started and it really pushes you to explore life in general, it makes you understand how money works and how selling / buying works, it makes you understand the value of money and so many other things and all of those things can actually be fun to explore. I think that for me the most important lesson I got from all of this so far is that peace of mind and satisfaction can come to us at any moment, but we delay that moment or think that it is somewhere else to be found. When I combined my passion and business together, I also found the satisfaction I was craving and I am more relaxed since I know I may be able to fully support myself in the future.
I should mention that it took me 3 years of trying and giving up all sorts of business ideas, first time I tried at 18
I appreciate this video so much. It’s been a dream of mine to own my own small business, even as just a side job and your stories really help seem like it’s possible. My family and I need a lot of support right now and I’m hoping I find a way. Love your comfy uncomfy cozy channel.
Hi Tammy, as a Vietnamese I do understand every thing you were going through with finalcial struggle and family expectation. I used to taking interior design as my major in university and was going to have a full time job in front of the PC for endless hours.
And at my internship time during 3rd year I also felt the need to pursuit other paths that would fulfill me more. And yeah, the pandemic hit and I got the chance to reflect so much and decided to go other way.
Now I am teaching art for kids to fill up the bills while doing handicrafts and study astrology to pursuit my dreams.
In Vietnam its kinda hard to sell handicrafts at its true price cuz people still not willing to pay higher price for "just a handmade stuff" :(
but your vids give me so much strength and compassion for keep going on w this path.
thank you so much & wish you peaceful love ❤
Thank you so much for this!’ It was much needed🥺💓
thank you a million times over for this video! as a 35y/o, I wish I had this a decade ago. however, getting it now will change the trajectory of my journey for the better!
Thank you for always sharing and inspiring me and others! As a small business owner (4 months in ) it really helps to hear that my hard work will be appreciated by others one day and that I just have to be me 🌷thank you
i love the way you talk! and it's amazing to hear that it's a self-taught skill. you are soft but assertive, calming but charismatic. you're a shining star💛
seeing your growth and hearing your story confirmed alot of the troubles i've been having when it comes to taking this kind of risk, much loves
Beautiful, glad I ran into this video. Best wishes and thank you for spreading your knowledge and positivity 💗
I love this so much - you're so inspiring! I had always wanted to start up my own business or side hussle, because I hate the drain the 9-5 has on me. After watching your videos (I only found you like three months ago), I've decided to take the leap! Thank you so much
you’re the last sign and confirmation I needed to really get started and stay motivated. You’re such an inspiration as a college student I think you’re bad ass for accomplishing so much. Today my boyfriend’s mom bought me a tripod for my phone to start making videos of my art making. And then I get home and watch your video and it’s just 🥹 I want this for me so much. I really can’t do 9-5’s and working for things I’m not passionate about/working in toxic environments solely for the money. I wish nothing than more successes for you and your business, fly high! And wish me luck! 😊
you are a massive inspiration. i've been wanting to change something in my life for a few months now and i think i've narrowed it down to a creative small business and watching you inspires me so much
I absolutely LOVE this video and all your insights!! Thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable about what prompted you to pursue your own business
Thank you for sharing! I'm starting to grow my small business this year and I always watch your videos for inspiration and a boost for self-confidence :)
You have inspired me so much. Thank you, Tammy ❤
Love your business journey and videos. You give us hope for our own business journey. Keep making great and inspirational videos! Thank You for sharing them with us, cause your voice is so comforting to listen too.
I feel so inspired and calm after watching this video, I'm graduating in the next few months and the anxiety of getting a job and becoming an entrepreneur simultaneously has been eating me alive, but now I realize that I've stopped believing that my dream future it's possible. Thank you so much for sharing your story, accepting that we will succeed is difficult when survival has always been difficult but now I see that it is NECESSARY to live a happy life.
Such a beautiful video! Hearing your whole journey and your bravery in taking steps towards being a business owner is very inspiring! I really respect the way you help your parents..I actually think a lot of people do this after I watched a video of secondary kids in NZ going to school then working 20 -30 hours pw as well to be able to help their parents pay for living costs. Love your content and hearing about your life journey, wishing you all the very best ☺️🫶🏼💚
You are doing so great and you should be very very proud of yourself! You are setting such a great example for all young artists and you are doing it even though most people would not have the skill and effort to pull it off!! You are doing amazing 👏👏 proud of you!! ❤
you’re an inspiration Tammy ❤ I’ve been feeling so disenchanted with my 9-5 design job and have always wanted to start something of my own. Feeling very anxious and scared so trying to use all the nervous energy into movement in the right direction ❤
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story! Being a 1st gen Viet, your story really resonated with me about growing up and seeing our parents go through financial struggles. Growing up, I felt as though I had to push away my artistic passions to pursue something more stable or better income, so I majored in computer science. And it took me a lot of courage these past few years to completely change course and start to pursue art again.
Everything you have said really resonated with me as I have been considering for the longest time to follow your path as an artist myself. I may not know you personally, but I'm proud of you and your achievements in life. You inspire me so much. Thank you!
You are def a very wise old soul…in a young form. Such wonderful advice. I am old enough to be your grandma (and would proudly take that honor) and see so much light in your face. Sharing your story is a gift to the universe. 🐾💕🐾
amazing dude! so happy for all your success, wishing you the best for your future
This video was so sweet! Thank you for the vulnerability, your journey is always inspiring to me
Hey! Happy for you! The part about growing skills that are good not only for business but life overall.. the mental resilience is so necessary today.
helping parents, being an immigrant kid - so cool!
good luck in your journey! ❤
I love this perspective so much! Thank you for sharing! May you continue to spread your light! 🤍
Needed to hear this, perfect timing, thank you so much for showing up so authentically
i love your videos so much. i have never been inspired to be me and do what i truly want this much before. thank you for sharing your journey.
This really touched me❤ I so needed this, thank you.
I am so happy for you, this video brought joy to me and tears to my eyes, I feel really related to it. We are moving our business from fairs and events to online and it has been quite a transition and journey for us, both professionally and emotionally.
ur so inspiring :(( i watched ur 24 hr clay & glaze vid and was mesmerized. all i can think of the entire time was "i want to live that life." as a creative, i relate a lot when you say you need to live a passionate life. in fact, it was what i thought of when i saw your studio vid for the first time: such a life of passion. i love it so much, and i hope someday, i can achieve that kind of life too! wishing the best for you, tammy
I cried while watching this. I also have a very similar upbringing. I am glad my parents are better now but the trauma continues to live in me. It’s a constant struggle to overcome everyday. I see you and I am so glad I came across your videos today!
as another person finding confidence in himself all.. i want to say thanks for sharing and i am proud of you.
One of your best videos yet. You're doing great, keep going and we'll keep watching and being inspired by you.
I'm SO glad the algorithm put this video in my recommendations. Chapter 3 made me want to cry...I'm on my business owner journey right now. It's more like a side hustle, but my dream is for it to grow and become my full-time career. But there is so much I'm learning-which is super exciting and rewarding, don't get me wrong-but this makes me feel like I'm behind and late to the game. I don't have much traction yet, but when I get out of my head I truly feel like I'm on the verge of something wonderful. Thank you for the nudge to keep going and for telling me to be open to the *inevitable* opportunities that will come my way. I just subscribed and I'm so excited to watch more of your videos and check out your store!
I’m so in love with your mindset and all the value that you put out here. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story so authentically. ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for being so open and honest!
Being very and I mean very introverted and being a capricorn as well I am so so SO proud of you! You've come such a long way! I appreciate you, your hard work, the inspiration and comfort you bring to all of us!
Loved the video! I can feel that you speak of a place of gratitude rather than "do like I did" which is very beautiful and made me realise that I'm in a similar place!
Thank you for this video. I am at a scary point in life where I can see my career is going nowhere and I’m not young enough to start all over with yet another thing that doesn’t fulfill my financial nor emotional needs- and it just feels right that I finally take care of my spirit by investing my time and care into my small business ideas, and make them real. Thanks for the added push and I wish you every success!
I feel like you're my best friend, thank you for being here and sharing your personal experience
Aww Tammy, I am so touched by how grateful you are with all that you've achieved. You are so thoughtful and mature at such a young age, and I am genuinely so happy for you! Glad that the algorithm had recommended this video to me
Listening to you talk about what you've been able to give back to your family made me BAWL! Congratulations on your hardwork paying off
What an amazing woman and daughter you are. I’m glad you found your light in the world and share with others. Thank you 🥹💖 so proud of you.
you have inspired me so much, thank you for sharing your work and life❤
This video is exactly what I needed to hear. I am a self published writer and translator I am disappointed that my books don't sell as I expected to make a living as a full time author. I thought to give up but I dread the idea to give my precious health sanity freedom and time to a boss and just on time I open TH-cam and see this! My biggest challenge now is consistency and confidence that I can make it. I promise to myself to do the best I can to build my financial freedom. Whoever reads this I say You are not alone! We all have the same worries about the future and money and benefits and all this things. Just Don't give up! Things always change! Wherever I gave up I lost many opportunities that I now regret . Keep going people! I'll do the same!❤
Love this, you put your authentic self out there and shared your gift wit the world @Uncomfy and I believe people are attracted to that which is unique and has a part of you that breathed life into your art and products. Wishing you keep being fulfilled by your passion!
thank you so much for this video and being so open and venerable it has come at the perfect time for me as l am in a difficult place at the moment and lost my sense of my place in the world and my purpose, today l am starting a new chapter to literally start over again and get my business back up and running but first doing creative things just for me, for all those that are also struggling never ever give up just open your heart to reconnect to your creative spark and shine x
I just started my business 4 months ago and resigned my full time job at 33. It’s scary, but I’m proud of you! You’ve got this.
I love the love you have for yourself 🤍 Amazing content as always
ugh Tammy you are such an inspiration! 💖
Youre a wonderful person and what you are doing is wonderful. Keep sharing your journey. I really love the analogy at the end of the video if the seed becoming a sapling and then a tree that can feed your family. 🌱❤
You spoke to my soul! Thank you so much for doing what you do 💜
❤the boost I needed today! 🙏🏼 Thank You so much
Such a sweet video.
I loved how compassionate and appreciative you are of your past and your growth.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Such a lovingly devoted video to the messy inbetween. Thanks for deep validation, witness and the experience of someone further along the path. It's like you reaching your hand out and saying, "come, trust yourself". Thanks for the beauty and grace
I literally love your content... Thank you for being yourself, Tammy!
Love ya
I've been with you since you had 7k subs. I have definitely seen your transformation. 💕
Thank you for sharing your journey. I appreciate your perspective and insights from the experiences you’ve had.
I truly enjoy watching your content.
It’s amazing to see how small, consistent efforts can grow into something so significant over time.
Thanks for sharing your journey and insights. it's super inspiring!
This is beautiful to hear about your journey and growth! Truly inspiring and I look up to you❤
I am a four kids Mom, your videos can give me the motivation to start my own business, love you! I can feel you how happy and enjoy your life now. Such as good example for me. You do what I want to do. Good Jobs!!
Listening to your story resonated with me very much, especially with family concerns and the load of anxiety to taking a leap of faith. Thank you for making this video - you inspired me a lot and I can't wait to get started on my new business venture (which I was reaallyy scared of) very soon
Hello my fellow earth sign ❤ (Virgo here ♍️🙋🏾♀️) First off I want to thank you so much for your transparency in your videos and overall on your channel. I personally think that 100% of the things you touched on and spoke about in this video really resonated with me because here lately I’ve found myself deciding to go on my own path by starting my own small business after completing school for Software Engineering and realizing that while it’s a cool skillset its not what will ultimately make me happy in life for a career. I think that seeing your video come up on my TH-cam feed is my sign to go for what I really want in life and I appreciate your encouragement. ❤ I love your art btw!
Thank you for sharing this Tammy! Crazy how we're countries apart but can't help but feel proud of you. Your gratitude really radiates throughout the whole video ❤
I think that this video came at the right time and that it is a sign for me to continue what I am doing. As a person who loves filming videos, I thought about opening a channel, but I had to study English as well. I combined them both together and it became very difficult to learn while making videos, but this is my passion and I will not give it up. ❤❤❤
I always feel so calm and relaxed when I watch your videos.
You’re truly amazing and wonderful. I wish I could improve myself the way you do. ❤️