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Oscar De La Hoya: Dad bred me to fight
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ธ.ค. 2016
- Oscar De La Hoya on how his father introduced him to boxing, then proceeded to fill Oscar's life with boxing until it was all consuming. De La Hoya shares the state of their relationship today and why he finally dropped the resentment for a lost childhood and forgave his father
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I feel so sorry for Oscar, there's so much sadness in his eyes...
Nima Akhtar Khavari are you a psychic? Yes I see that as well so much sadness and emptiness
Easy to see why. The situation with his Father and loosing his Mother to Cancer when he was still a Teenager. It's amazing he still won 11 titles in 6 weight divisions despite it all.
Yes he try’s sounding optimistic how he talks and smiles but he does look sad inside
that's how the eyes look when on coke.
Sadness when he was young but now that he's older and developed he thanks boxing and his father for everything he has today 🤷🏻♂️
I'm Mexican to and I'm 34, the first time my dad told me he loved me was when I was 32. And I don't hold it against him. That's just the Mexican way, always be tough.
orale carnal
True I was never told that by my dad, but I knew he loved me
EXACTLY BRO I FEEL YOUR PAIN MAN. IT'S LIKE WE HAVE THE SAME LIFE....
Paddle Tales that's just the ignorant Indian Aztec way,nothing to be proud move on
Pretty stupid, sounds like a lot of insecurities to me
Now that I'm a father myself, I understand my parents struggle. Some people just are not equipped to express emotions. I know your father loves you Oscar. I'm happy to hear you have matured to understanding and forgiveness
but there's still a hole in heart and hope in his soul that his father will say it...that's why he looks sad talking about it...it's like that "fight" that he never won
I tell my dad I love him, he’s like “Haste a la chingada wey.” 😂 gotta love Mexican dads.
But I tell my 3 boys I love them everyday. Even if it makes me a queer.
😂🤣😂🤣🤦♂️ aste a la chingada wey. I spit my drink 🤦♂️
I'm 32 years old in before I rest my head I tell my 74 year old father I love him and goodnight every day for the last 30 years
Omizzy Lizardi can you translate ?
@@danieltucker632 pretty much saying move out the way dumb ass.
@@robertohernandez-os3hm you mean git the FCK outahere
That’s how all Mexican dads are ... they show you in another way like putting a roof over your head ..food and the table...Oscar you the man you are because of your dad
My dad always tells me he loves me but only when hes drunk 😂
Drunks and kids always speak the truth.
Same then my dad died when I was 21 from drinking..
Yup a mexican thing bro that's the only time my pops says he loves us
Me too
My dad was like that. 😬
I fuken love my old man! Even in my darkest defeats my dad looked at me dead in the eyes and would tell me he loves me and hes proud to be my dad!
Maybe Oscar's dad will tell him one day that's hes proud of him and he loves him.
@@agag4866 not all dads do that lmao
@@joys8634 And that's a shame.
@@WeFreestyleForever no it ain't tf lmao
@@fxtalfr8735 Hopefully if you ever have a son you don't treat him like that. Tf outta here. You can teach your son to be a man and also tell him you love him at the same time.
I’m 34 years old and come from a similar background as de la Hoya, my dad never express his feelings he was real tough and strict. But I don’t hold a grudge towards him I actually thank him for that because I became a good man to society and now that I have my own kids I always make sure they know that I love them.!!!! but I guess you have to be Mexican really understand....
‘I’m still waiting’ that got me man 😭
he's a pussi lmao.
@@joys8634 Fuck you bitch :)
@@joys8634 bruh he was a world champ and Olympian, so what does that make u?
@@Saul1913 I'm a track and field olympic hopeful at 17. what are you?
Im 40 and i dont remember the last time my dad told me he loves me. I know he does, he just doesnt say it. I have a 7 year old son and i make sure to tell him that i love him with all my heart everyday.
I’m not quite your age, I’m 24 and it’s the same case for me. I don’t remember ever being told “I love you” or “I’m proud of you” and that’s that I have been a pretty good kid\young adult. I know he is, but I understand for them it’s hard to do so due to there upbringing. Maybe one day we will hear it. I am a soon to be father and while I do want my kid to be tough because that’s how I was bred (reasons why he/she is coming with me to the boxing gym lol) I do want them to let him/her know I love them.
@@Jose-vc2du i tell my son everyday i love him and i kiss him. That my champ and even though i am stricked with him, he knows hes loved
roberto hernandez that’s awesome to hear, don’t stop. Best of luck to you and your family.
Right..?? What fuck is wrong with showing love to youre kids..😩😩
I’m Mexican and I tell my son every day I love him .. being Mexican is not an excuse to not show love and gratitude!
Mexican or not you don't need to show love and or gratitude at all...
Soft
How do you not tell your Olympic gold medal winning, 10 time world champion, 6 division Champion son I’m proud of you.
Its a mexican thing alot of our dads who grew up in mexico in the Rancho back in the 60s who grew up poor never got the love and affection from they parents because they had to toughen up and work hard most of those dads didnt have a childhood themselves and were forced to leave the toys school and games and pick up a shovel.
@@tguzman7408 right bro, its almost normal. When I was young, my father didnt nurture us. He was there and thats about it. Many people don't understand.
I dont care what country you come from thst is messed up in so many ways. Man up and be a true man, I hate that macho crap. Saying its the Mexican way is just giving them an excuse for their poor actions. Nice to see he let that poor behavior go, good for him and his children.
Scott Gibson I agree
Scott Gibson I agree I don’t like showing my feelings but I have to admit if it came down to it I would tell them I love them I don’t want to get married or have kids but if I ever did without a doubt I would tell them I love them maybe not all the time but I will definitely tell them and yes it’s a Mexican thing but I’m breaking the habit it’s a sorry excuse we have all received tough love but I know why they do it it’s good and bad at the same time
Everyone had tough life growing up..... most of us don’t turn up being one of the best boxers in history
This is his story not yours.
I feel for him, it was the same for me my pops has already passed away and wish my father would of said I love you too. At least he still has time because his Dad is still alive.
Funny how so many of us who were never told by our fathers that they loved us, are so very different with our own kids. It would feel weird of my Italian/Sicilian father told me that he loved me. But his actions only ever proved that he did.
My dad died before I was mature enough to understand stand him and tell him how thankful inwas for him. We never hugged or told each other how micj we might have love each other.
I have two kids now and everyday they hear my love and appreciate for them. It’s possible to heal by being better.
Stay strong men stay strong ❤
No joke, my freshman year in hight school. I scores 36 points in our first basketball game. I would've been a million bucks that my pops was going to say good job. He said 36, jugaste con puras viejas o que 🤦♂️
You didn't score 36 points man, Its okay man, you dont have to lie, you probably got 8-10 points and it felt like you got 36... P.S. genetically Mexicans and all Spaniards can't hoop.
@@sjrilla3210 for your information i did score 36 and i pulled down 14 boards. Also thats a stupid thing to say, i was a freshman in high school. I never said i played in a division 1 university.
Hahaha your dads funny
@@baltazarresendez3990 its a little funny now. Not as a 14 year old that all i wanted to do was impress my dad.
@@sjrilla3210 you sound stupid af ha
My father isn't perfect and has many mistakes but I'm grateful to have him here with me he did the best he could
I wish I had someone push me everyday like a mentor someone that understands boxing and that corrects my every mistake
My dad was born in 1907 in West Texas to parents who were West Texas Indians.....my dad never hugged me or said to me "i love you" but i understood that he had a tough life and that in his way he DID love me. I tell my kids that i love them and hug them also.
How old are you
Graham is a GREAT interviewer!
I'm the youngest brother and even have nephews older than I. I understand what it's like to be bullied and scared. Facing fears is never easy
It's every Mexican/Hispanic Dad for their son to be champion of the world. My papa got me in boxing with the same dream.my dad has still not told me he's proud of me too lol.
Marco Martinez how long have you boxed?
Sharky since I was 13
Sharky what do you do? Where you from?
Marco Martinez nah I also box and from texas
Hey any footage of sparring? matches?
3:30, As a parent, as a father, he knows best. Like all champion athletes from all sport across-the-board, you will find a disciplinarian, supporting and loving father! God Bless every father who take on the Life of his child into his own!
I LOVE Oscar and his GREAT talent in boxing! To see him mature like he has is a real treat...My LOVE and respect Oscar!!! And for whatever it's worth!!! I'm PROUD OF YOU!!! MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE ARE PROUD OF YOU!!!
I’m proud of Oscar. Hes a mature man 👨. I’m not saying he’s perfect but he’s matured as a person. And that I do respect ✊🏾
3:55 "when was the 1st time he said he was proud of you"... those are the men that raise world class champions.......not 1 father has raised. a son babying them.
Yup u learn to appreciate very true
Great interview! Knows exactly where to take the conversation and get the most out of the interview. Now I know where the drug use and women clothing-wearing comes from
I Love Box and Oscar de la Hoya
I love you dad 💙💜😇🐾🙏he a great man
I told my dad I loved him and he cried and hugged me
I'm doing the same thing with my twin boys , I'm very strict with them but I tell my boys every day that I love them and our goal is to make them los 1eros gemelos mexicanos campeones de el Mundo
De la O’s family is from Durango. Same as mine. “Yo soy de la Tierra de Los Alacranes”
-Lorenzo de Monteclaro
My father never displayed emotional affection either and now that he is deceased i don't recall if he ever told me he loved me. I don't know Oscar's circumstances but this person has given back to his community which many people don't do once they become successful. Also i have never found Oscar to be arrogant in interviews and appears to be a humble person after all his successes. I'm sure Oscar would have not been this person without supportive parents...
I really understand were u comings frm
oscar father is great!
There's some people that don't know how to love .
same thing with my machismo dad... never gave me much love or much life instructions in general but i hold nothing against him whatsoever, we get along great and i tell my children i love them every day and i’m guiding them through life
😢☹Oscar ur father does love u
People who never grew up poor and boxed for a living or boxed period and was good at it wouldn’t know these struggles the life of a boxer from that age is very difficult. This is why you only ever know super star boxers like Oscar Floyd Pac look up their history poor and broken homes.
GOLDEN BOY a real warrior 🥊🥊
I'm proud of you oscar
Oscar cuídate yo estoy pidiendo por tus fuerzas tu fortaleza y salud así también por mi
Sacrifice is part of Greatness. Anyone great has this exact story
Papa 👴🏽.. lost mine at 8 to Parkinson’s. Even when I had him he was crippled n shook like crazy. I was the one looking after him.. walking him to the bathroom. Helping him shower. He was so fragile n skinny I could easily move him from a couch to a bed. Waking up in the middle of the night to help him to the urinal pot under the bed. Yet I miss him a lot and he made me what I am today. Not much but I work hard. We proud of u Oscar.😌
I concur with Oscar..
the doors wtf
Ooooossscaar "gooolden giiirl" delahuya
😭😭😭
Fuck me this is the story of many young men who grew up in East LA.
my dad never said those words..
Honestly I wish I had a father to push me to unleash my full potential.
Ironic..life can be to complicated sometimes.. 🤔🤔
But he said his father told him he was proud after the Trinidad fight 🙎🏻♂️
Freakzilladark man I was watching tht to
He also told him he was a bitch after the mayweather match 😅
La.Pantera Rosa🤣🤣🤣
Damn many in the chat got some type of daddy issues 😂😂😂
Wdym? Lmao
It's toughh for a Mexican father to show emotions we were just never brought up to be this way we hide our emotions we show it in different ways
👍👍
Mexican dads hardly tell their kids I’m proud of you. Good things are expected from you automatically without a pat in the back for every good thing you do that’s just how it is I guess
My dad was hard on me.. Now im a softy..and i hate that..🤔🤔😁😁😁
I'm 38 and Mexican and my dad never told me to this day. I love you son so to me not telling your kids I love you is so fucken SAD
I know..😢😢😞😞😩😩😫😫😭😭😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
My dad told me not to take shit from anyone, and told me to give a girl a rose .
My last name is Chavez when Oscar best the legend Julio Caesar it was a huge embarrassment kind of... i hated Oscar but I always respected him.
I remember the '90s. I'm Mexican-American and I was an Oscar fan but most Mexicans and even Mexican-Americans were against him. They called him a sellout. It was such ignorant thinking back then. I'm glad we've finally changed our ways a little.
Not me like when Oscar beat Vargas love it Oscar was a bad man
He lied he said his dad said he was proud when he lost a fight
I think it was the Trinidad fight
4:31
He looks luke Ryan Garcia as a teenager.
Something tells me he doesn’t talk to George anymore
yo creo que oscar es papa de ryan garcia... mirandolo bien, que ustedes piensan🤨🤔
Oh shit! It's possible
Quien es Ryan Garcia un boxeador?
La yo mire si se parece de lado el perfil muy parecido
😮🥹😕🥺😳😒😞😔😟😭😭😭😢
Oscar me gustas más español entiendo un poco pero para mi es mejor español
My dad taught me to box from the time I was a toddler, and growing up like that makes a man amongst boys. Because the stuff I know know I wouldn't believe, he literally saved my life by the things he taught me how t0 be a survivor and a warrior. And the main part I take away from all the life lessons is it's not the violence of man that is key but how far you will take the violence. My dad taught me how white hedro men can make it and still live a successful life, he taught me to read people and there mannerisms and that if I do that I can usually see there true intentions my dad is cut from a different different tree ima boss come see in hd.
IS A CULTURAL THING ABOUT MEXICAN MAN ..MY FATHER WAS EXACTLY THE SAME...😝😝😝😝
Respect to you Oscar for your accomplishments but please don’t say or generalize that all “latino” dads are macho and don’t express verbally that they are proud of say “I love you “ to their kids. I think your dad had issues but obviously he did something right but he was flawed like we all can be. Many blessings and you tell your dad you love him.
Did he bread you to wear high heels and fish nets too?
Did yours ever teach you how to write?
😁😁
You have to understand that machismo runs in our culture. It sucks but it’s reality. Deep down we know that our fathers r proud n loves us, they just won’t say it. N it’s ok we get it, hopefully we break that cycle someday
You can’t push kids like that nowadays
His father took a soft little guy and turn them into one of the greatest boxers of all time!!! Do not let the smooth taste fool you Oscar will fuck you up!!!!!!!
Well Im 28 and my father told me he loved since I was as young as I could remember. But idk
Let me guess...you have a beautiful family..wife and children..🤔🤔
The interviewer is too arrogant
You need Jesus Oscar, he’s the only thing that all your money cannot buy. Be grateful to your father or else you just would of been another Mexican that grew up in ELA
This is sad as fuck.
Come and live my life as an electrician for a month. Then you'll appreciate what your dad did for you
I call bullshit on that story
Oscar dela cheat boy
oscar mannys dad ate his dog so you are lucky
We know oscar is gay thats why he feels that way..he is more emotional than women..lol
Maybe..!!! Cuse im gay and i feal the same way about my father..😞😞😢😢😭😭
His cousin beat on him cuz they caught oscar wearing one of the girl's dress and make up.
😁😁😁 maybe.. But i know for sure hes not gay.. And belive me i know about being gay..🤔🤔
He bred oscar to fight and oscar ended up dressing up like a woman lol he disappointed him
What's up with everyone saying that Lmaooo inform a brotha of that?
Youre right..😁😁 he didnt say that on the interview..😁😁😂😂