Ladies, you can't just sit there...quit being polite, that's what they are counting on. You get yourself up, go to the waitress and cancel the order, if he waits till the food is served you, go to the "bathroom" don't touch your food and LEAVE. These men are in their princess modes, ditch them and move on. Stop asking for reimbursement, arguing with them, etc...LEAVE, LEAVE, LEAVE. The moment he says: I forgot my wallet. LEAVE.
For real!!! Yes there are times when you’ve got to just smile and nod if it means keeping yourself safe, but why are so many women just letting the disrespect drag on and on??? Get tf outta there!!
Yes!!! Fuck that. Especially the first woman. I would NEVER wait 45 min. They get 15 min maybe a little more if they communicate ahead of time saying they are stuck in traffic or parking (even then, it’s a point off for not planning correctly). I will and have left. One dude caught me in my way out and he’s like “wait, are you Becky. I was like I am, byyye!” 😅😅
Ladies stop drinking on dates or doing drugs with guys they’re banking on your vulnerability and dont ever go to a park at night with them either🤦🏿♀️…sidenote its okay to be sober when dating a clear mind can better help you discern them🫶🏾
The date at the restaurant : why would she proceed to order food when the beginning was so awful!???!!! What did she expect? 1. He does not acknowledge you 2. Doesn’t bother to put his phone down 3. Showed up with his baby without letting you know 4. You order ribs and he is low key telling you that salad wouldn’t hurt you 5. He didn’t even bother bringing his wallet 6. He has no intention on refunding you 7. He is gaslighting you Why stay? Is she that desperate????
Yeah that's why I say it's okay to get angry and show them what time you're on....because they always expect us to be nice....despite anything they do to us.... personally I decided I'm okay being the villain just don't let these dusty men play with you...keyword "dusty". ...have no tolerance level for BS...
I literally had a dude mansplain the Australian stock exchange to me when I just finished telling him my dad was a stock broker for 20 years and has an investment bank lmaoooo
Yes!!! Exactly my point. Fuck that. And ALWAYS meet at a public place and drive yourself there. Never accept a ride and have someone pick you up when you know nothing about him. I never let anyone know where I live unless they make it to the third date. Spoiler: 99% never make it past the first date 😅😅
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A few years ago, I was asked out on a date to KFC, 🍗🐔.. I thought okay KFC interesting .When I arrived at KFC, the dude had already ordered his meal and was eating .The dude couldn't even wait for me to arrive .. I thought to myself WOW..😮. BIG turn off 🚩.He asked me what did l want to order. I said l was Ok.. I watched him eat his KFC..,I didn't call him bk BLOCKED!!!!! ..
Yeah, I have room for dating on a budget, but that doesn't mean they can't follow basic courtesy. I wouldn't accept a fast food date, but I can overlook Chili's or Outback if they checked all the other boxes: 1) being on time 3) smiling to let me know your glad to see me 2) showing an effort to put me at ease 3) allowing me to order for myself ( they can offer recommendations, but ultimately my choice ❤) 4) maybe I'm old fashioned but I believe in dressing in Sunday best if I'm on a sit down restaurant date. I think both parties would be more inclined to act their best if they looked their best. 5) no complaining, trama dumping or over sharing of any kind. 6) and of course he pays
6:31 - Girls!!! Noooo. This is when you get up and walk out. You say “it was nice meeting you, this is clearly not working and neither of us is enjoying this. Good luck out there.” DO NOT take disrespect, DO NOT sit there when it’s clearly not going to work and the person is being straight-up rude and dismissive… just don’t! We need to send the message this is not gonna pass and we’re not going to take this kind of treatment anymore!!
I think the girl at the park might have just really sensed danger, taking her to a park at night and then move you from other people? Sounds a bit fishy
To the guy who went on a date with a "FISH" after 4 or 5 margharitas you need to have the guts to say no more!! Tell the waiter no more drinks. Pay the bill and take the FISH home!! Don't be afraid to shorten a bad date. Take the problem home and be done with it.🫡
Ladies, you can't just sit there...quit being polite, that's what they are counting on. You get yourself up, go to the waitress and cancel the order, if he waits till the food is served you, go to the "bathroom" don't touch your food and LEAVE. These men are in their princess modes, ditch them and move on. Stop asking for reimbursement, arguing with them, etc...LEAVE, LEAVE, LEAVE. The moment he says: I forgot my wallet. LEAVE.
For real!!! Yes there are times when you’ve got to just smile and nod if it means keeping yourself safe, but why are so many women just letting the disrespect drag on and on??? Get tf outta there!!
This
Yes!!! Fuck that. Especially the first woman. I would NEVER wait 45 min. They get 15 min maybe a little more if they communicate ahead of time saying they are stuck in traffic or parking (even then, it’s a point off for not planning correctly). I will and have left. One dude caught me in my way out and he’s like “wait, are you Becky. I was like I am, byyye!” 😅😅
Online dating really brings out all the weirdos. People are certifiably crazy out here.
Wierd men get on the app thiers woman in real life they can meet no need for a app
Fact babe! FACTS!!!
Who wears heels to a bowling alley? If he wanted her all glamed up, he needed to take her to a 4 star restaurant. What a weirdo
That second guy would be washing dishes.
Girl, exactly! I would've gone over to the waitress, paid for my half of the bill, and left.
Bro had one bad date and never got over it... maturity boy math lol
Ladies stop drinking on dates or doing drugs with guys they’re banking on your vulnerability and dont ever go to a park at night with them either🤦🏿♀️…sidenote its okay to be sober when dating a clear mind can better help you discern them🫶🏾
You said it 💯
This I tell men I rarely drink and they wierd behind will be like oh I will pay you need to have a good time … I already know that’s a 🚩🚩🚩🚩
And stop going to their place when you barely know them or their social circle.
The date at the restaurant : why would she proceed to order food when the beginning was so awful!???!!! What did she expect?
1. He does not acknowledge you
2. Doesn’t bother to put his phone down
3. Showed up with his baby without letting you know
4. You order ribs and he is low key telling you that salad wouldn’t hurt you
5. He didn’t even bother bringing his wallet
6. He has no intention on refunding you
7. He is gaslighting you
Why stay? Is she that desperate????
Yeah that's why I say it's okay to get angry and show them what time you're on....because they always expect us to be nice....despite anything they do to us.... personally I decided I'm okay being the villain just don't let these dusty men play with you...keyword "dusty". ...have no tolerance level for BS...
Did y'all see her ring though??? Looks to me like she already got someone
Low self esteem
I guess i feel a bit better that I cant even get a date lmao
At this point I really don’t want one.
THIS!! All this time I thought it was me, but I guess there are plenty of other women who have trouble too.
I literally had a dude mansplain the Australian stock exchange to me when I just finished telling him my dad was a stock broker for 20 years and has an investment bank lmaoooo
Ladies: feel free to get up and excuse yourself as soon as he is rude/lame.
Yes!!! Exactly my point. Fuck that. And ALWAYS meet at a public place and drive yourself there. Never accept a ride and have someone pick you up when you know nothing about him. I never let anyone know where I live unless they make it to the third date. Spoiler: 99% never make it past the first date 😅😅
You're doing so well! and putting in so much work. soon you're going to be at 5,000 subscribers, and before you know it ! you're going to be at 100,000! 😃🤞🏾 Keep up the great work 🎉
This is so sweet of you...I'm glad you enjoy my content😘😘
The one at the restaurant where the guy showed up with his baby was wearing an engagement ring. I don't think it was real.
Right! The salad line was too cliché.
That was clearly her husband and baby 🤣
I would’ve paid for my own food and left him there.
18:56 Alcoholic. This is why I never drink
I think mens were been like that Century ago !! Thank the social média ladies are awaking UP !! Spread the trurh you can save someone !!
The dating pool has turned into the dating septic tank 🥴
🤣 exactly
A few years ago, I was asked out on a date to KFC, 🍗🐔.. I thought okay KFC interesting .When I arrived at KFC, the dude had already ordered his meal and was eating .The dude couldn't even wait for me to arrive .. I thought to myself WOW..😮. BIG turn off 🚩.He asked me what did l want to order. I said l was Ok.. I watched him eat his KFC..,I didn't call him bk BLOCKED!!!!! ..
Also not you can’t afford a 5 star date but want heels
Just walk out, and never come back.
I wouldn’t have waited for a guy who was 45 minutes late!!!
Me too😂😂😂the man should be the one waiting for me...
Alot of these men cant even afford a $100 date these days 😢
Yeah, I have room for dating on a budget, but that doesn't mean they can't follow basic courtesy. I wouldn't accept a fast food date, but I can overlook Chili's or Outback if they checked all the other boxes:
1) being on time
3) smiling to let me know your glad to see me
2) showing an effort to put me at ease
3) allowing me to order for myself ( they can offer recommendations, but ultimately my choice ❤)
4) maybe I'm old fashioned but I believe in dressing in Sunday best if I'm on a sit down restaurant date. I think both parties would be more inclined to act their best if they looked their best.
5) no complaining, trama dumping or over sharing of any kind.
6) and of course he pays
@ my ex wouldn’t even take me on dates he was a very stingy man ! .it’s good to have standards these days for sure
6:31 - Girls!!! Noooo. This is when you get up and walk out. You say “it was nice meeting you, this is clearly not working and neither of us is enjoying this. Good luck out there.” DO NOT take disrespect, DO NOT sit there when it’s clearly not going to work and the person is being straight-up rude and dismissive… just don’t! We need to send the message this is not gonna pass and we’re not going to take this kind of treatment anymore!!
I think the girl at the park might have just really sensed danger, taking her to a park at night and then move you from other people? Sounds a bit fishy
I thought the same. It saved her life
17:40 .....do what now?
Not the breath from hell....lmbo!
I hate mixed signals why the flowers n shit then u ain't even paying for the food it makes no sense at all.
I would of been left at 5:20
Those poor cats shouldn't be around cigarette smoke at all and I don't like how she slipped in the company name.
The guy with the baby I have walked away and ordered the baby some warm milk.😐
I would’ve calmly paid for my meal and told the waitress he’s responsible for his meal with the 2nd guy
Ma’am why are you allowing a man to date you at a bar
I was married to a Lebanese chick they are absolute crazy compared to my white wife now😂
Can someone equality
To the guy who went on a date with a "FISH" after 4 or 5 margharitas you need to have the guts to say no more!! Tell the waiter no more drinks. Pay the bill and take the FISH home!! Don't be afraid to shorten a bad date. Take the problem home and be done with it.🫡
I’d need four or five margaritas to deal with that guy too 😂 so loud and annoying!