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Tattoos are unattractive on women. It’s a shame because it hides their true beauty. It’s difficult not to look at a woman covered in tattoos and not think that she has a lot of baggage.
Like rich said, a little something something on a discrete part of her body, yeah you can prob overlook it. For eg: I saw a tattoo a chick got of a little stick man pushing a lawnmower at the edge of her pubes, that's freaking hilarious. Or another one who had a little bumblebee tattooed on her nipple where the nipple was the bee's nose. That's freaking hilarious because I always refer to boobs as "boo bees". But tramps stamps, sleeves, or gynormous ugly skulls and snakes and dogs? F that.
@Killergamgam except if you can't grow hair...that's nature. Tattoos are on purpose. Not a good analogy. I suppose you've scarred yourself with tatoos?
Rich is 100% accurate on women with tattoos being crazy and undatable. These chick's can make them seem sweet and innocent and special but it just screams I'm gonna do what I want when I want with whomever I want.
@@melissasmess2773def sounds like an undiagnosed case of legitimate BPD. During my psychiatric rotations seeing some of these girls come in for their routine office visits with the psychiatrist was eye-opening in how blunt they were about their actions, thoughts, and how they would mentally “justify” why they would leave or were currently thinking about leaving their current bf/lover over the most dumbest shit. One told the Psy-D, “it’s just the way he re-racked the bar and let out a little grunt afterwards, that made me start to look for another guy at the gym.”
Umm sometimes. It doesn’t take Steve Irwin to tell you theirs many dangerous creatures that are plain colored 😂😂😂 Vast majority of venomous snakes are tan and browns and blacks. 😂😂😂 Some of you people just roll with these internet slangs as gospel
My wife’s best friend lost her husband to cancer a few years ago. She has remembrances of him in the form of photographs. She can see evidence of him everyday without having it permanently on her skin.
SOME women have soft and beautiful skin. But you're right, they want to feel special and different and unique but all they did was join another group of women who want to be special and unique and therefore, they aren't unique at all.
@@muskokamike127 hive mind, sheep herd behavior. Thats why they all feel unique with the same boring flower tattoos on the same spots... You can calculate the age and how insane they are by looking what tattoos and where they have it.
How else can u identify the red flagged woman at a glance? Tattoo s on women are a godsend to men because they let us know instantly who is the woman to avoid
As a women I would never put a tattoo on my body. They are trashy and low class. Not me. I wouldn’t have weird piercings or purple hair either! You will never catch me dressing slutty or twerking in public or private. Classy women don’t do those things period! Level up ladies.
No Tatoos here, no piercings. I miss the 70’s 80’s women they looked normal. I notice men with over weight women everywhere and women have no shame they look really bad and obese and they are proud of it. Gone are the days of Susanne Summers, Cheryl Tiegs and Farrah Faucet.
My brother in law married a widow with two boys and she was a wonderful woman. She didn't go on about her ex, and accepted he had three girls from his divorce. They were on equal ground and they didn't expect the other to do anything the other was not willing to do. It can work, but my ex sister in law didn't have a tattoo of her late husband on her and knew she had to get on with her life and she loved my brother in law right up to the end Cancer got her. She was old school and while she had a good job, she let him lead the family while adding her own flair. It worked. But they were/are from the end of the baby boomer generation. They still were raised with old values and that is a massive difference. Rich is looking at the tattooed Gen X and Gen Z women and he is right. They are screaming "Behold my alpha widow status"
@@1594simonsays I didn't see anywhere @libertas5552 claimed perfection, just shared an observation with which I generally agree. It is definitely the case in our family, the more tattoos the donner has, the more F'd up their head is. It's a reliable, valid observation. Ironically, only one of the men in our family has tats, but a bunch of the women do, and their lives are absolute clusters: you try to help them straighten in out, and they try to F up your life, too. They were enabled by our full-blown narcissist mother. They're doomed.
Did she say ‘that’s not fair’? Seems like it’s something she would say. She’s clueless even though rich stated his case perfectly. Lots of tats on a woman? Hard pass
The tramp stamp makes you wonder how many guys have had that same view. You can look past it for some fun, you just don't want to buy into it. I'm a gen x old man. When I was growing up, the only tatted women that were around were the biker skanks. Tattoos have only been popular with women for less than 30 years. They seem to fall in line with today's radical feminism, like skanky is sexy, which it surely isn't.
@@muskokamike127 Tattooed women benefit from most judgemental rejects of the Male population NOT finding her attractive, and as such…not desperately attempting to get into her panties like basic bacteria could!🤮💀💀💀 Tatts on women are awesome! Keeps💩out of their lives! 💀💀💀
My god, this just unlocked a horrible memory. I'm Gen X too. I remember this woman in our small town that was covered in tattoos. A Biker chick. She was nasty. She said something suggestive to me which REALLY enraged me b/c 1. I'm a woman. 2. I was 16!! This was in 82 I think. But yes, Kim, was nasty, and her tattoos were a warning
She is a classic! She’s not prepared to listen to a man’s reality. We don’t give a flying f*#k what the tattoo represents girlfriend, we are not interested in women with tattoos for any reason! Deal with it, or be an eternally single spinster thornback!
Getting your lover's name tattooed is one of the worst mistakes you can ever do. One of my friends ended a relationship with gal simply because she refused to remove the name tattoo of her first boyfriend. It was in one of her covered areas, so he only saw it with the relationship progressing. He asked her to remove it, but she has said she can't as she has a sentimental value with her first relationship. My friend has asked then why you guys broke if it was so sentimental, and she didn't have any proper answer for it. My friend said the first boyfriend's name tattooed in her skin reminded her like a cow who has been hot branded with the owner's name like his property forever. Overall getting tattoos are a poor choice. Many people who gets tattoos from their late teenage to all during their 20s, really regret about them as they enter in to 40s. As your skin getting older, heavy tattoos become really ugly looking.
Caitlin: "I don't think that should be a red flag for anyone." Caitlin gives herself away here by insinuating what men should think, or the opinions they should hold about the choices they make concerning women and relationships. Tells me a lot how she will treat her man and his opinions about anything. Has to go through her approval filter first to be valid in her mind. A form of female control.
Both Caitlin & Rich need to be held to account here... 1. Caitlin brings up it shouldn't be a red flag her friend got her late husband's name tattooed on her straight after Rich had said small/sentimental tatts shouldn't be seen as anything much, it's more so the heavily tatted women with random shit all over them which are red flags. She either wasn't listening to the conversation or the video has been edited to play in a different order than the conversation occurred. 2. That said, Rich then goes against what he'd just said, that a single sentimental tattoo IS a red flag & he would not have any sort of relationship with someone who had that. Whilst I agree with him, I'd be against partnering up with a chick who has an ex's name on her body, he'd literally just said the contrary moments before.
@@saulroberts161 I disagree with you on Rich's comments. Listen to him reply to Caitlin starting at 6:00. He concedes "it's noble" but follows up saying he'd use it to disqualify such a woman among other choices. Tell us where in this vid that Rich contradicts his thoughts on the subject.
@@saulroberts161 maybe I'll watch again. But...from the gist of what Rich has (pretty much) ALWAYS said - tats are are no, no. Less is ALWAYS desirable. None is ideal. A tat with an ex's name is ALWAYS an AUTOMATIC disqualification. A small one he might overlook - VERY small. In a nutshell - Rich, Moff & SEVERAL others on this channel have encouraged us: SEVERAL tattoos are an indication of (prolly?) emotional trauma...🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I'm really starting to see this. I'm dating a girl who's daughter is covered in tattoos and is only 21. She's a nice enough girl but acts tough to cover up her softer side, is already divorced and a single mother, new boyfriend right away that I assume started during the marriage etc. I don't know the whole story but I think she had a difficult childhood and struggled with her parents divorce.
Why just trauma? Women are whimsical, flighty, rebellious, childish, delusional, dramatic, attention seeking. Trauma is way over used, and an excuse for no responsibility.
No, some tatted ppl just love body art tattoos as part of their aesthetic. It’s not always that dark and depressive. …y’all reading too much into it…projecting your own issues, when there is no need to do so.
it's tragic and sad that women are degrading themselves with tattoos, not a lot of man would ever consider having a serious relationship with such woman.
Baldness is a red flag yet women have to accept that when they date & marry the abundant, incurably bald men out there! 💀💀💀 #sothere you & Rich! Just TRAGIC…
I've never seen a beautiful woman without tattoos and thought she'd be more beautiful with them. Women are better off without them. You don't put bumper stickers on a Ferrari for the same reason.
I've seen so many otherwise beautiful women completely wrecked by tattoos. Huge red flag that she's unhappy with herself and craves constant attention and novelty.
As a rule, tattoos are an outward expression of what's going on in her head and this goes for excessive bling and piercings and wacky colored hair and wacky hairstyles. It's literally a bundle of "scream for help a lack of respect for one's own body and lack of respect for those that have to watch the demise".
I once meta girl at a party that told me she was gang raped and she showed me tattoos of the dudes that did that to her. Her explanation was the weirdest thing I ever heard. "I'm taking the power back by putting their names on me so everyone knows what they did to me and to show them that they didn't break me". I'm still haunted by it and how much detail she shared. I hope she got the help she needed. I felt her despair and I think that's part of what she was trying to accomplish, a cry for help and a way to let the world know what she went through. I think a lot of women show their trauma through tattoos and there seems to be a correlation.
and in some cases, like putting graffitti on the Guggenheim musem or the Sistine Chapel. Howard Stern has become a D bag, but he used to have a contest where women came in and competed for breast implants. I saw a show where a woman won the contest, but when she dropped her top she had perfectly shaped 34C. I mean they were the epitome of perfection. He tried to convince her not to get them and then eventually refused to award her "the prize". I'm not going to let you ruin those.
My wife is a cancer survivor & she constantly shakes her head at women who make their past cancer stuff a part of their permanent identity, especially by tattooing cancer reminders all over their bodies. It's victimhood mentality to me.
No, it’s not. Let ppl cope the way that feels right to them…you cope the way you do with your own traumas…stop hating and thinking you are free from your own coping mechanisms!🤣Growup
@@Killersushiofficial You are anyone else is free to desecrate &/or victimhood yourself all you want, but others are not bound to ignore what we see with our own two eyes.
@@loseerich493 Remember that Pride in self and Wrath are Sins. Ink is a personal artful expression and not necessarily a show of trauma. The trauma you and everyone experiences is real but you just hold it inside…you are hurt by your past…the pain still exists within you…just the same as others buddy!
So this is interesting because if it ever recurs, it's actually more difficult, if not impossible, to get some treatments (ie, some immunotherapy) with tattoos. Not enough people know this!
Realizing it, is the first step. Build a strong mindset and don't fall into a victim role. Short term you won't get rewarded but the long run is on your side. Believe in yourself.
Caitlin’s friend getting a tattoo of her dead husband/lover covers something I recently read about avoiding widowed women like Caitlin’s friend for anything serious. This is what was said: “By any means avoid women who lost their lovers via death, they’re ALWAYS going to be tied to their dead lovers. And she will always compare you to her dead lover, you will be competing with a dead man and sadly you’ll never be enough.”
A tattoo in a woman is one of 3 things: 1 - She's basic and follows all kinds of trends. 2 - She has trauma 3 - She wants to show the world she's a bad girl. None of them are ideal for a long term partner.
To be honest it’s a hardwire for women to be followers. That’s why when you see personality, it naturally pops off just about every male. With women, they’re fairly bland, not the same but reminds you quite a few other women
I just loved how he deflected their shaming tactics sauced with exceptionally rare (and sad) stories, with such professionalism. This guy‘s debate skills and self-control at another level.
I was reading some 1800’s stuff when pictures were so rare and values, that asking for a photo in of itself could be a scandal. It was amazing to read about
I went on 2 dates with a woman who was a widow. Initially she said all the right things that made me think she was approaching her situation well. She had a very stoic, no nonsense attitude. But by the second date it was apparent she was not really genuinely ready, and still very much married to her deceased husband. At one point, I noticed she was still wearing her wedding ring. Beautiful woman, very intelligent, (no tattoos), but just not authentically ready to let go and move on to the next chapter in life.
That's why I didn't date after my partner passed away, because it still felt like we were a pair and it would have been cheating on her. Once I got over that feeling after about 4 years I'd seen to much of female nature from women my age to dare go near one again, then the solitude became addictive and I'm becoming a recluse and loving it.
This Caitlin woman just doesn't want to accept the idea of women being disqualified by men. she doesn't get that branding a past partners name of a woman's body shows ownership and that a new man isn't going to want to deal with that. To her, she's only seeing things from the sentimental side of the woman's perspective. If a woman wants to tattoo her former partner's name on her body, that's fine. she can mourn alone for the rest of her life. but if she wants another man, she needs to accept that man wants her completely all to himself and not share her with a ghost. if a woman insists on having that momento that's fine, but she should be alone, not fording another man to deal with those memories.
It’s all subconscious seeing a man’s name on a woman’s body, imaging sleeping together in bed and she rolls over….she has a tattoo of a man’s name on the back of her shoulder (for example) BOOM that’s staring you in the face and entering your mind sending it all sorts of places….
The woman who had her husband and daughter tattooed onto her body could have instead had shrines dedicated to their memory rather than tattoos. Caitlin defending it by thinking that it was a good idea is just nuts!
No she is a feminist (communist) who can't accept the hard truth and will fight against all the evidence in the world just to stick to her incorrect delusional beliefs. That's what communists do.
Problem is... Female friends of women will NEVER tell them the honest truth and by doing that she (Caitlin) starts believing her own nonsense & lies reinforcing the bad decisions... If women could only be honest to their friends.
Agree with Cooper 100%. Tattoo as a memorial is a very bad idea. I would not invite such a woman into my life either, for that baggage (probably good competition for an Amtrak baggage car).
@ minute 5:50.. completely an isolated example. Every girl I’ve ever interacted with who had more than one or two tattoos were severely damaged and messed up; Rich is absolutely and completely right. Excessive piercings and excessive tattoos on women are a huge red flag.
Personal freedom means individual responsibility for your actions as well. Surprising to hear her challenge the idea that seeing a memorial to another man on her body wouldn't be a massive turn-off to future men.
Surprising? Here's a cheat code to determine whether or not a woman will argue with literally anything: Does it make her feel good? Yes/no. If no? Then she will argue. Period.
Yeah, I tend to reverse the scenario back onto women like that. "why should it matter"? Ok, would it bother you if I had another woman's picture as my background on my phone, or photo on my bedside table, or kept a photo of her naked over OUR fireplace? "oh that's different" NO IT ISN'T. Men know another man's been inside you but we don't need a constant reminder of it and we sure as hell don't need a constant reminder that you were so in love with a man that you inked your body because of him. "here, you're my second choice and don't you forget it".
@@saulroberts161 I think you missed my point. It isn't different in the sense that we're both commemorating our greatest love and shoving it in the other's face.
Same…with younger Men NOT being BALD like #BALDIE over here. NEWS FLASH: NON BALD MEN ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE AND FREE OF TRAUMA and tragic pasts and baggage. #facepalm BALD MEN ARE WALKING RED FLAGS Mr. POOR POOPER! 💀💀💀
Caitlin has a strange solipsism about this: maybe the momento is poignant and loving in some way, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s not in her next lover’s interests to get with her. Caitlin, if you’re reading this then understand that successful men don’t live their lives in a way that would make for a poignant movie later: they live their lives in ways that build success and money
Totally relate to this, same thing when your on a date and a woman tells you my children will always come first , if you carry on from that point you realize you will be number two for the rest of your life. Don’t settle for being a pos in a relationship
exactly, and even the bird poop washes right off, unlike tattoos which are on there for life, unless she gets them lasered off, which is is expensive, time consuming, painful, does not always 100 percent get rid of it, and she is unlikely to do that
I love that Caitlin was sp blown away and Rich wasn't backing down but he doubled down. We get that she loved the guy and he died. It's tragic. Her tattoo is an external representation of her trams and baggage, just as Rich said It's fine for her but I don't want to take that on in my life. You'll forever be in that guys shadow. The guy is a martyr and can do no wrong. It's a lot like taking on a single mother. More risk than reward. There are other options.
My ex wife when I met her in 2001…. She had a few little tats. When we divorced in 2022… she had both arm sleeves front, back, neck, thighs covered in Tats. And the more I told her while married that I didn’t like them- the more she got. I wish I had this info back in 2001…. I really do. **Today I completely 💯-ignore females with tattoos.
Agreed... My ex didn't have any, but knew I hated them and during the divorce she ran out and got tats like... "Oh Yeah... I'll show you..." She did, and if there was the slightest hope of ever getting back together, she ended it with that decision... Well there was no chance actually.
Tattoos also show that the woman lives in denial: Nothing is permanent and yet she tries to make some part of our existence permanent. I won't ever live with a woman that lives in illusion, imagine the kind of drama you will have in your life.
When I see a woman working a minimum wage job with full sleeve and neck tattoos, I see poor choices and wrong priorities. I also see someone that feels the need for body modification to bolster their self image, and to put it on display for attention seeking.
Here is a study done on it: "Do young women with tattoos have lower self-esteem and body image than their peers without tattoos? A non-verbal repertory grid technique approach" Numerous empirical studies have shown that tattoos may be associated with changes in self-esteem [13] ....As reported in our previous study [48], univariate analysis did not show differences between groups in age (t = 0.11, df = 118, p = 0.91), but significant differences were found between groups in years of education (t = 2.60, df = 118, p = 0.01). Women with tattoos were less educated. A significant difference was also found in smoking habits (χ2 = 27.69, df = 1, p
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Yeah, but a bumper sticker can be removed... I go with the analogy of driving a brand new half a million dollar Ferrari into downtown LA and ask some graffiti taggers to paint graffiti all over that beautiful car
Tatted up women have always been a major turn off for me. When women started dirtying themselves with tatoos in the early 90's it disgusted me and still does. I see them as having some sort of emotional defect that prevents them from fully maturing. It's akin to poor impulse control. It's a huge red flag.
Yes, it definitely became a thing for women to have tattoos in the early 90's. The world seemed to turn into a darker place around that time with Grunge and alternative music taking over with Lollapalooza that actually had tattoo booths at the concerts. The fun party culture of the 70's and 80's seemed to go away overnight around this time and feminism and political correctness started to take over. Gangsta rap gained alot of traction around this time as well. The culture has slid further downhill ever since. Thirty plus years of degradation is in harvest and we're headed for destruction. The future does not look good.
Rich thank you so much for sharing all this valuable information. I don’t know if you know, but your content is spreading all over Latin America in Spanish, we are being red pulled and this is just for everyone here to know that Latin women can be the opposite of American women, but they are not immune. So thanks again!
At my age, the pool of available women for me is dwindling. But I would rule out any woman who has tattoos up and down her arms, legs, or anywhere else. I never understood why someone would put tattoos all over a pair of beautiful legs. And, frankly, for many of these women who do that, the money would be better spent on a spin class.
The reason people get tattoos is to fill identity crisis, onset by trauma. Not to say that all people go through trauma get tattoos, but it is consistent. When you date, you look for a daughter, subconsciously, which is why we don’t respect girls with tattoos because we know the attention it brings, therefore we don’t want our daughters to receive that. If you are casual enough with your body to get tattoos, you are casual enough to gain body count, because you do not respect your body enough. Stay away from girls with tattoos.
I would say you're right, but not always. A LOT of people get tats to signify a momentous occasion. Like if someone climbed Mt Everest, won the Indy 500, or something they strived for and finally achieved. But by the same token, you could get a plaque made and hang it on your wall lol. The ones that get me on guys is the morons who get a god awful portrait of their kid and it ends up looking like a drunk tried to draw a picture of a st bernard.
@@muskokamike127 i was talking about girls. It still applies to men as to why (identity crisis) and it is now known and acknowledged by psychiatry, but men have different driving factors regardless..
@@HungryMonkey1880and then there's hordes of you overly self assured clowns who feel entitled to treat everyone with some ink as pariahs and belittle them. You are no better
That ignorant Catlin needs to learn how to listen and stop interupting to make her insipid point. As for the tatoo issue, I agree with Rich, when I see a woman with multiple tatoos, my first thoughts after "yuk" is; damaged goods.
She’s like 95% of under 35 women in America today. They want to tell men how they should think and feel vs actually listening to what men really value in women. Women take advice about men from other WOMEN instead of going to the source. If I want to lose weight and improve my fitness, I take direction and advice from someone who’s in shape and will push me accordingly. Women on the other hand are ok with taking advice from other obese women who will tell them why being overweight isn’t their fault and that men need to accept them “as they are!”
You are a follower normie, who most likely also wear the uniforms of the masses and shows off his car and nice watch for attention also. You get off on judging others to feel superior
Caitlan proved the point. The other woman tattooed her trauma on her body as a memorial to her ex. Tatoos are compensation for something, whether a few or many, for both men and women.
I agree with Rich as that has always been my experience and observation regarding women with tattoos. Avoid them in personal situations and never enter into a relationship with any of them. It is like Nature's warning that some of the most venomous creatures in the World are also the most brightly colored and patterned like the Poison Dart Frog, the Gila Monster, the Coral Snake. Don't get bit or stung, keep your distance.😂😂😂
The chick arguing with you has the attitude that women can just do anything they want to do and men should be obligated to accept it. It’s very unrealistic. Almost every tattoo a woman has represents some sort of highly emotional experience. Sometimes good, like the birth of a child, but mostly bad. My ex started dating some loser after we broke up. She found him overdosed on the couch one night. She thought it would be a good idea to tattoo his name on her shoulder. So from now on, any man she wants to be with will have a reminder of her experience. Every. Single. Day.
Growing up in the seventies, the only rare females with tatts were biker chicks, butch lesbians, ex-cons or a few radical hippie chicks. All of them are in some way rebelling against or deviating from the norms of social order. In the eighties some punk rock and heavy metal chicks were also getting tatts. Again, the rebellious element a factor. In the early-to-mid nineties, many college-aged middle-class feminist females were getting low back tramp stamp and other tatts. Belly button and other piercings also took off. It would seem this was pushed in the media through movies, television and the music scene. The Lilith Fair concerts an extension of this collective commercialized feminist fashionist cultural Marxist push. Again, the spirit of rebellion. Later in the 2000s, shows like Miami Ink with the female Kat Von Dee and other tatt television shows would drive the fad even further into popularity and to extremes. Now it would seem the acceptance and normalization occurs for many with the extremes extending into degeneracy and sometimes even sadism. I just play the spectator in this regard and watch the circus clown show unveil itself over the decades.
Tattoos are a red flag period. A tiny discrete one may not be a big red flag, but any collection or series of randoms is surely cause for concern. No decent man wants a marked woman. When speaking with my friend group this question also comes up: Why would a well-adjusted decent woman go to a tattoo joint and have a bad boy " artist " permanently mark her body? Not only let this guy man handle her, but also pay for it? The whole concept is weird, but it seems as if every girl from 15 - 60 has a tattoo these days. Many have piercings as well in sexual places. Totally unacceptable to a good man. Social media and peer pressure has a strong force over these sheeple. They feel compelled to do it because everyone else is. Tattoos are not an accomplishment. They are a consumer product. Shows lack of impulse control and lack of concern for future consequences. The other thing I've experienced is women who had had prior boyfriends buy them a tattoo or multiple ex-boyfriends purchase one or more for them. One thing for sure is that a lot of it is trauma related as well(not all). Also an indicator of high body count and easy hook up.
Yea thank you I’ve always been outspoken on this that most men don’t realize…. There was loser badboy marking your woman’s body. Giving her pain and pleasure and then a memento to look at. Don’t let them fool you saying “this body is yours”. No it was chads through the 20’s on top of the males who permanently marked her skin as a “badge of honor” It’s quite disgusting really that people can’t even think about this because the level of delusion they keep to not go crazy. A guy was marking your woman’s skin causing her pain to forever be branded on there that he left his mark….. sick
My grandmother was married to my grandfather for over 50 years. When he passed away she did not get a tattoo. Her justification makes no sense. She would have been better off going to grief counseling.
Caitlin is outwardly confirming what I've always thought of people who get tattoos: A complete lack an abilitiy to consider the long term consequences.
I think it was Rollo that said that having a tattoo is a risky procedure. It's fine if guys have it because risk-taking should be in our nature in some degree in order to become successful. It's even considered attractive because it shows a degree of confidence. If a woman does it however, it looks bad because risk-taking is not be a feminine trait. Women with tattoos tend to prove this point by being more promiscuous, obviously not a trait you want in a wife.
I work with 6 guys in a group. 3 of them are tattooed, 3 are not. 2 of the "tough" tattooed ones are completely losers. So there is no link between being tattooed and masculine, strong or risk taking.
~6:00 she talks about her friends trauma tattoos and says that we need to reconsider what tattoos on women mean as she so effectively drives home the point that Rich is making and missing the fact that she just provided support for what he just said.
Nah. Her silence is cause he shut her down, by using ridiculous comparisons. If you're older than 30 and looking to date, you've got baggage. Full stop, regardless of tattoos, sex, race,sexual preference etc. Stop dividing people and causing less unity. And how come the double standards for men and women? Isn't that called sexism. Grow up
View these open warning signs, like excessive tattoos/piercings, wild colored hair, leftists bumper stickers, and all the other "red flags" as a gift to us so we can quickly identify and avoid the crazies out there. God bless them for showing up front how dangerous they are!
Her premise was they didn't get a chance to have that conversation because he "died suddenly" but they were married for 13 yrs, they had plenty of time to have it. He had epilepsy, he was taking meds to prevent seizures. It wasn't a question of IF he was going to have one, it was when. They chose NOT to have that conversation. I ride a motorcycle. I had a couple of accidents when I was in my teens 45 yrs ago. I don't wear a helmet and leather because I hadn't had an accident, I wear them for when I do. Dress for the slide not the ride.
Good on the 2 men who didn't fall for Caitlin trying to shame them into feeling 'so sorry' for her friend. They were respectful and stuck to the facts. Your choice to tattoo but there are consequences.
Totally agree with Rich Cooper on that. The most precious person in my life was my Mom, and sadly she passed on. But i wouldn't tatoo her name on my body. The same goes for girlfriends, wives partners and so on. Treat your body with respect, do not mutilate it unnecessarily. But it's just my take on the issue.
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Tattoos are unattractive on women. It’s a shame because it hides their true beauty. It’s difficult not to look at a woman covered in tattoos and not think that she has a lot of baggage.
**kisses you upon thy forehead**
True
Like rich said, a little something something on a discrete part of her body, yeah you can prob overlook it. For eg: I saw a tattoo a chick got of a little stick man pushing a lawnmower at the edge of her pubes, that's freaking hilarious. Or another one who had a little bumblebee tattooed on her nipple where the nipple was the bee's nose. That's freaking hilarious because I always refer to boobs as "boo bees". But tramps stamps, sleeves, or gynormous ugly skulls and snakes and dogs? F that.
I think that it tells my hindbrain that she's got a skin disease.
All obvious deviations in appearance point to a deviant personality (ie. psychological or behavioral issues).
Tattoos in women is rarely about art and it’s mostly about trauma and attention
@advancedapathy1531men with lots of tattoos look like human comic books. I always presume weaknesses being disguised.
@@Jughead24🤡baldness is weakness in their genetics! GAG💀💀💀
@Killergamgam except if you can't grow hair...that's nature. Tattoos are on purpose. Not a good analogy. I suppose you've scarred yourself with tatoos?
@@KillersushiofficialThe man can't help being follicly challenged
It’s completely about attention and validation in women.
Rich is 100% accurate on women with tattoos being crazy and undatable. These chick's can make them seem sweet and innocent and special but it just screams I'm gonna do what I want when I want with whomever I want.
The craziest chick I met had the most tattoos of anyone I ever dated
@@melissasmess2773def sounds like an undiagnosed case of legitimate BPD. During my psychiatric rotations seeing some of these girls come in for their routine office visits with the psychiatrist was eye-opening in how blunt they were about their actions, thoughts, and how they would mentally “justify” why they would leave or were currently thinking about leaving their current bf/lover over the most dumbest shit. One told the Psy-D, “it’s just the way he re-racked the bar and let out a little grunt afterwards, that made me start to look for another guy at the gym.”
#BALDNESS is a red flag for a trauma ridden, crazy drunked and undatable past!!!
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@@Killersushiofficial and Simping with a beta mindset is dangerous to any man. You’re sad dawg
@@ActionJacksonForeverok mr LION king!
#clown💀💀💀
In nature, poisonous animals will show bright colors to warn others about their toxicity
Wow what a great correlation. You couldn’t be more right. 🫡
@@slarsp2 I read it, but it remains true
So true!
Umm sometimes. It doesn’t take Steve Irwin to tell you theirs many dangerous creatures that are plain colored 😂😂😂
Vast majority of venomous snakes are tan and browns and blacks. 😂😂😂
Some of you people just roll with these internet slangs as gospel
It's called Aposematism
Deal with your grief in another manner. Do NOT get a tattoo.
Caitlin aspires to be a tombstone. 😂
@@andrew1717xx Buuhahhahahaa!!! Good one!!! 🤩💙👊🏾
People lose others all the time, so why not have a lovely photo......instead of a tattoo
As a woman I get what he's saying
My wife’s best friend lost her husband to cancer a few years ago. She has remembrances of him in the form of photographs. She can see evidence of him everyday without having it permanently on her skin.
Tattoos are disgusting.
Women have so unbelievable soft and beautiful skin, and then they ruin it bc they wanna feel trendy, special.
SOME women have soft and beautiful skin. But you're right, they want to feel special and different and unique but all they did was join another group of women who want to be special and unique and therefore, they aren't unique at all.
@@muskokamike127 hive mind, sheep herd behavior.
Thats why they all feel unique with the same boring flower tattoos on the same spots...
You can calculate the age and how insane they are by looking what tattoos and where they have it.
@@Ehrenfried2740 Yup, you nailed it.
How else can u identify the red flagged woman at a glance? Tattoo s on women are a godsend to men because they let us know instantly who is the woman to avoid
@@koma7778 or to not get serious with if you're looking for some short term fun.
As a women I would never put a tattoo on my body. They are trashy and low class. Not me. I wouldn’t have weird piercings or purple hair either! You will never catch me dressing slutty or twerking in public or private. Classy women don’t do those things period! Level up ladies.
Truth!!!
Thank You!
A real woman 👏👏👏💯👌
No Tatoos here, no piercings. I miss the 70’s 80’s women they looked normal. I notice men with over weight women everywhere and women have no shame they look really bad and obese and they are proud of it. Gone are the days of Susanne Summers, Cheryl Tiegs and Farrah Faucet.
Well said.
Rich didn't even mention the fact that she has 2 kids, that's a red flag for most men, as well as tattoos.
I bet she'd rail against that too. "how dare you not want to raise another man's kids". I'm going to watch the entire podcast to see if that comes up.
Having two kids as a widow isn’t a red flag. Kids out of wedlock, sure.
She makes bad decisions
That is what tattoos tell you
My brother in law married a widow with two boys and she was a wonderful woman. She didn't go on about her ex, and accepted he had three girls from his divorce. They were on equal ground and they didn't expect the other to do anything the other was not willing to do. It can work, but my ex sister in law didn't have a tattoo of her late husband on her and knew she had to get on with her life and she loved my brother in law right up to the end Cancer got her. She was old school and while she had a good job, she let him lead the family while adding her own flair. It worked. But they were/are from the end of the baby boomer generation. They still were raised with old values and that is a massive difference. Rich is looking at the tattooed Gen X and Gen Z women and he is right. They are screaming "Behold my alpha widow status"
The more tattoos, the more broken they are.
Hahah because you say so
...I'm sure you're so perfect
@@1594simonsays I didn't see anywhere @libertas5552 claimed perfection, just shared an observation with which I generally agree.
It is definitely the case in our family, the more tattoos the donner has, the more F'd up their head is. It's a reliable, valid observation. Ironically, only one of the men in our family has tats, but a bunch of the women do, and their lives are absolute clusters: you try to help them straighten in out, and they try to F up your life, too. They were enabled by our full-blown narcissist mother. They're doomed.
Broken people can become whole.
The more dudes.
This woman really can't accept that people are entitled to their own opinion. She wants everyone to run on emotions like her
Did she say ‘that’s not fair’? Seems like it’s something she would say. She’s clueless even though rich stated his case perfectly. Lots of tats on a woman? Hard pass
If it’s your preference how can you be wrong? Your preference is right for yourself. Not judgmental.
@@nagelbagel7937 women can not handle rejection
The tramp stamp makes you wonder how many guys have had that same view. You can look past it for some fun, you just don't want to buy into it. I'm a gen x old man. When I was growing up, the only tatted women that were around were the biker skanks. Tattoos have only been popular with women for less than 30 years. They seem to fall in line with today's radical feminism, like skanky is sexy, which it surely isn't.
BINGO trailer trash or prison chix.
@@muskokamike127 Tattooed women benefit from most judgemental rejects of the Male population NOT finding her attractive, and as such…not desperately attempting to get into her panties like basic bacteria could!🤮💀💀💀
Tatts on women are awesome!
Keeps💩out of their lives!
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There are more skanks around now than in any other time in human history!
My god, this just unlocked a horrible memory. I'm Gen X too.
I remember this woman in our small town that was covered in tattoos. A Biker chick.
She was nasty. She said something suggestive to me which REALLY enraged me b/c
1. I'm a woman.
2. I was 16!! This was in 82 I think. But yes, Kim, was nasty, and her tattoos were a warning
Concur, a skank is still a skank.
The generation is irrelevant. Only other skanks tell them how great their tattoos look.
Caitlin thinks she gets to make the rules for men...lol
She is a classic!
She’s not prepared to listen to a man’s reality.
We don’t give a flying f*#k what the tattoo represents girlfriend, we are not interested in women with tattoos for any reason!
Deal with it, or be an eternally single spinster thornback!
Yeah - it’s bloody hilarious. These delusional women are a laugh a minute.
Like 98% of women in America today.
women always do.
And there is no scarcity of women....
He thinks he can make rules for women . What’s the difference? 💁🏼♀️
Getting your lover's name tattooed is one of the worst mistakes you can ever do. One of my friends ended a relationship with gal simply because she refused to remove the name tattoo of her first boyfriend. It was in one of her covered areas, so he only saw it with the relationship progressing. He asked her to remove it, but she has said she can't as she has a sentimental value with her first relationship. My friend has asked then why you guys broke if it was so sentimental, and she didn't have any proper answer for it. My friend said the first boyfriend's name tattooed in her skin reminded her like a cow who has been hot branded with the owner's name like his property forever. Overall getting tattoos are a poor choice. Many people who gets tattoos from their late teenage to all during their 20s, really regret about them as they enter in to 40s. As your skin getting older, heavy tattoos become really ugly looking.
She was probably still in love with him and to her was the one that got away.
Textbook alpha widow.
Thanks for sharing this
Ewwwwwwwww
Hella no. Removed today or I walk right now
That otta be fun for Gerry the Simp to see as a reminder 😂
>>It was in one of her covered areas, so he only saw it with the relationship progressing.
Caitlin seems like a long day. It’s getting progressively harder to find women that are sweet, kind, & gentle.
Well said. I’d avoid her type at all costs
The day where you work overtime and come home to a blown freezer that’s dumped 100 lbs of mixed juices through 2 floors of your house.
Most women are on anti depressants. Changes their nature - makes them more aggressive unnaturally.
The ladies ALWAYS point up the excelptions of the rule. Dude, EVERY WOMAN I HAVE ever met covered in tatoo is a problem. 100%.
Caitlin: "I don't think that should be a red flag for anyone."
Caitlin gives herself away here by insinuating what men should think, or the opinions they should hold about the choices they make concerning women and relationships. Tells me a lot how she will treat her man and his opinions about anything. Has to go through her approval filter first to be valid in her mind. A form of female control.
THIS!!!
Exactly! Look at her expression at 8:37 as she is absolutely shocked and dismayed that Rich explains that men can and will think differently.
Both Caitlin & Rich need to be held to account here...
1. Caitlin brings up it shouldn't be a red flag her friend got her late husband's name tattooed on her straight after Rich had said small/sentimental tatts shouldn't be seen as anything much, it's more so the heavily tatted women with random shit all over them which are red flags. She either wasn't listening to the conversation or the video has been edited to play in a different order than the conversation occurred.
2. That said, Rich then goes against what he'd just said, that a single sentimental tattoo IS a red flag & he would not have any sort of relationship with someone who had that.
Whilst I agree with him, I'd be against partnering up with a chick who has an ex's name on her body, he'd literally just said the contrary moments before.
@@saulroberts161 I disagree with you on Rich's comments. Listen to him reply to Caitlin starting at 6:00. He concedes "it's noble" but follows up saying he'd use it to disqualify such a woman among other choices. Tell us where in this vid that Rich contradicts his thoughts on the subject.
@@saulroberts161 maybe I'll watch again. But...from the gist of what Rich has (pretty much) ALWAYS said - tats are are no, no. Less is ALWAYS desirable. None is ideal. A tat with an ex's name is ALWAYS an AUTOMATIC disqualification. A small one he might overlook - VERY small.
In a nutshell - Rich, Moff & SEVERAL others on this channel have encouraged us: SEVERAL tattoos are an indication of (prolly?) emotional trauma...🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Tattoos on a woman serve a young man as a lighthouse serves a sailor … DANGER!!! Stay away!
Only a fool would ignore the warning.
The woman, could get a T-shirt or jewelry of people who they lost
Tattoos are an external manifestation of internal trauma.
low iq
I'm really starting to see this. I'm dating a girl who's daughter is covered in tattoos and is only 21. She's a nice enough girl but acts tough to cover up her softer side, is already divorced and a single mother, new boyfriend right away that I assume started during the marriage etc. I don't know the whole story but I think she had a difficult childhood and struggled with her parents divorce.
Why just trauma? Women are whimsical, flighty, rebellious, childish, delusional, dramatic, attention seeking. Trauma is way over used, and an excuse for no responsibility.
@@docjnsn73a Trash 304.
No, some tatted ppl just love body art tattoos as part of their aesthetic.
It’s not always that dark and depressive.
…y’all reading too much into it…projecting your own issues, when there is no need to do so.
it's tragic and sad that women are degrading themselves with tattoos, not a lot of man would ever consider having a serious relationship with such woman.
Lots of men will, mostly heavily tattooed themselves.
Men will ALWAYS be idiots especially for women
Baldness is a red flag yet women have to accept that when they date & marry the abundant, incurably bald men out there!
💀💀💀 #sothere you & Rich!
Just TRAGIC…
Nope
@@robertbrandywinelots more don't and certainly don't want there women them or piercings 🤮🤮
I've never seen a beautiful woman without tattoos and thought she'd be more beautiful with them. Women are better off without them. You don't put bumper stickers on a Ferrari for the same reason.
Thought bubble on the Mona Lisa
Never putting bumper stickers on a Ferrari is a very good point. A very attractive woman would never mark herself up with tattoos.
I've seen so many otherwise beautiful women completely wrecked by tattoos. Huge red flag that she's unhappy with herself and craves constant attention and novelty.
Shallow normie, overly self assured. You think you're superior while you probably want some Rolex to get attention. Hypocrite
Nah , she’s happy . She just doesn’t care what you have to say .
As a rule, tattoos are an outward expression of what's going on in her head and this goes for excessive bling and piercings and wacky colored hair and wacky hairstyles. It's literally a bundle of "scream for help a lack of respect for one's own body and lack of respect for those that have to watch the demise".
Yea sure numbnuts, all clean skinned women are 💯trustworthy, totally respectful, perfectly level headed, faithful and honest.💀💀💀 #FOOL🤡
Desperate for attention as well.
To Caitlin, You can do whatever you want. It doesn't mean I have to accept it and invite it into my life.
I once meta girl at a party that told me she was gang raped and she showed me tattoos of the dudes that did that to her. Her explanation was the weirdest thing I ever heard. "I'm taking the power back by putting their names on me so everyone knows what they did to me and to show them that they didn't break me". I'm still haunted by it and how much detail she shared. I hope she got the help she needed. I felt her despair and I think that's part of what she was trying to accomplish, a cry for help and a way to let the world know what she went through. I think a lot of women show their trauma through tattoos and there seems to be a correlation.
OMG that is so embarrassing and I hate to say it, low class.
😳
Caitlin is clueless
And defensive & toxic. No thank you.
Noticed that right when she opened her mouth 👄. Correct!
No decent man wants to marry a woman with another mans name tattooed on her
No she's not. She has a 🐱& thinks because she has a 🐱 she thinks she can have whatever she wants
She’s still getting smashed enough by guys who are willing to look past the tattoos. She’s not wife or long term gf material by any stretch.
Who has ever looked at a tattoo and thought it looked beautiful? Tattooing your skin is like graffiti on a building.
and in some cases, like putting graffitti on the Guggenheim musem or the Sistine Chapel.
Howard Stern has become a D bag, but he used to have a contest where women came in and competed for breast implants. I saw a show where a woman won the contest, but when she dropped her top she had perfectly shaped 34C. I mean they were the epitome of perfection. He tried to convince her not to get them and then eventually refused to award her "the prize". I'm not going to let you ruin those.
Never thought of it that way, but exactly!
No it isn't stop being ignorant have you seen the guy who tattooed basically bikini bottom it looks amazing
@@perrycoffey5410 I take it that you are inked all over.
Yeah of course if you get a shitty $100 tattoo, I’ve been complimented at funerals by the fucking pastor on my tattoos so you’re def wrong lol
My wife is a cancer survivor & she constantly shakes her head at women who make their past cancer stuff a part of their permanent identity, especially by tattooing cancer reminders all over their bodies. It's victimhood mentality to me.
No, it’s not. Let ppl cope the way that feels right to them…you cope the way you do with your own traumas…stop hating and thinking you are free from your own coping mechanisms!🤣Growup
@@Killersushiofficial You are anyone else is free to desecrate &/or victimhood yourself all you want, but others are not bound to ignore what we see with our own two eyes.
@@loseerich493 Remember that Pride in self and Wrath are Sins.
Ink is a personal artful expression and not necessarily a show of trauma.
The trauma you and everyone experiences is real but you just hold it inside…you are hurt by your past…the pain still exists within you…just the same as others buddy!
So this is interesting because if it ever recurs, it's actually more difficult, if not impossible, to get some treatments (ie, some immunotherapy) with tattoos. Not enough people know this!
That’s a very important consideration that it seems many don’t know about.
Keep teaching, Rich. Especially for guys like myself who grew up without a father.
Thanks for being honest, brother. Need more young men like yourself to admit this and be open to receiving what was missed or denied by mothers.
Realizing it, is the first step. Build a strong mindset and don't fall into a victim role.
Short term you won't get rewarded but the long run is on your side. Believe in yourself.
Speaking to feeble-minded women takes great patience and restraint...
Catlin just proves the point with her story's coralating tattoos and trauma
She proved his point,
Caitlin’s friend getting a tattoo of her dead husband/lover covers something I recently read about avoiding widowed women like Caitlin’s friend for anything serious. This is what was said:
“By any means avoid women who lost their lovers via death, they’re ALWAYS going to be tied to their dead lovers. And she will always compare you to her dead lover, you will be competing with a dead man and sadly you’ll never be enough.”
Sounds like Will Smith's situation wirh Jada and her never ending desire for Tupac
I can’t see Tupac ever having had a thing for Jada…He prob. was indifferent towards Jada, while she was chasing him down, like a basic groupie.💀💀💀
That goes deeper than a mortal can fathom, brother.
Why do women think their anecdotal exceptions negate the rule? Caitlin did it and I see women doing it all the time.
All. The. Time.
Because accountability is like kryptonite.
They're solipsists. They only know how to think in 1st person.
Jenner?
Solipsism. Premium narcissism. Rules for thee but not for me.
A tattoo in a woman is one of 3 things:
1 - She's basic and follows all kinds of trends.
2 - She has trauma
3 - She wants to show the world she's a bad girl.
None of them are ideal for a long term partner.
agreed.
To be honest it’s a hardwire for women to be followers. That’s why when you see personality, it naturally pops off just about every male. With women, they’re fairly bland, not the same but reminds you quite a few other women
4. She is attention seeking - "look at me!"
Perfect for 5min partners
Nailed it.
I just loved how he deflected their shaming tactics sauced with exceptionally rare (and sad) stories, with such professionalism. This guy‘s debate skills and self-control at another level.
Tattoos are badges of dishonour.
😂
The more badges the more dishonour 👌👌💯💯
I am old enough to remember people just having pictures of loved ones.
I was reading some 1800’s stuff when pictures were so rare and values, that asking for a photo in of itself could be a scandal. It was amazing to read about
I went on 2 dates with a woman who was a widow. Initially she said all the right things that made me think she was approaching her situation well. She had a very stoic, no nonsense attitude. But by the second date it was apparent she was not really genuinely ready, and still very much married to her deceased husband. At one point, I noticed she was still wearing her wedding ring.
Beautiful woman, very intelligent, (no tattoos), but just not authentically ready to let go and move on to the next chapter in life.
How is she now? Does she feel better?
Did you bag her?
That's why I didn't date after my partner passed away, because it still felt like we were a pair and it would have been cheating on her. Once I got over that feeling after about 4 years I'd seen to much of female nature from women my age to dare go near one again, then the solitude became addictive and I'm becoming a recluse and loving it.
@@silverdale3207👏👏👏👏👏That was a great story. I wish you good health and luck moving forward.
She just wasn’t ready. Doesn’t sound like she had a lot of baggage
This Caitlin woman just doesn't want to accept the idea of women being disqualified by men. she doesn't get that branding a past partners name of a woman's body shows ownership and that a new man isn't going to want to deal with that. To her, she's only seeing things from the sentimental side of the woman's perspective. If a woman wants to tattoo her former partner's name on her body, that's fine. she can mourn alone for the rest of her life. but if she wants another man, she needs to accept that man wants her completely all to himself and not share her with a ghost. if a woman insists on having that momento that's fine, but she should be alone, not fording another man to deal with those memories.
It’s all subconscious seeing a man’s name on a woman’s body, imaging sleeping together in bed and she rolls over….she has a tattoo of a man’s name on the back of her shoulder (for example) BOOM that’s staring you in the face and entering your mind sending it all sorts of places….
Caitlin, like all women , thinks with her emotions. Logic is not in her tool kit
The best policy I have for women like Caitlin is “Ignore & Dismiss”
The woman who had her husband and daughter tattooed onto her body could have instead had shrines dedicated to their memory rather than tattoos. Caitlin defending it by thinking that it was a good idea is just nuts!
No she is a feminist (communist) who can't accept the hard truth and will fight against all the evidence in the world just to stick to her incorrect delusional beliefs. That's what communists do.
The daughter I could see.
Problem is... Female friends of women will NEVER tell them the honest truth and by doing that she (Caitlin) starts believing her own nonsense & lies reinforcing the bad decisions... If women could only be honest to their friends.
Agree with Cooper 100%. Tattoo as a memorial is a very bad idea. I would not invite such a woman into my life either, for that baggage (probably good competition for an Amtrak baggage car).
@ minute 5:50.. completely an isolated example.
Every girl I’ve ever interacted with who had more than one or two tattoos were severely damaged and messed up; Rich is absolutely and completely right. Excessive piercings and excessive tattoos on women are a huge red flag.
Personal freedom means individual responsibility for your actions as well. Surprising to hear her challenge the idea that seeing a memorial to another man on her body wouldn't be a massive turn-off to future men.
Not surprising considering female solipsism nature. Men are supposed to worship women like a princes no matter what
Surprising?
Here's a cheat code to determine whether or not a woman will argue with literally anything:
Does it make her feel good? Yes/no.
If no? Then she will argue. Period.
Yeah, I tend to reverse the scenario back onto women like that. "why should it matter"? Ok, would it bother you if I had another woman's picture as my background on my phone, or photo on my bedside table, or kept a photo of her naked over OUR fireplace?
"oh that's different" NO IT ISN'T.
Men know another man's been inside you but we don't need a constant reminder of it and we sure as hell don't need a constant reminder that you were so in love with a man that you inked your body because of him. "here, you're my second choice and don't you forget it".
@@muskokamike127 but it IS different.......the tattoo is worse, the other stuff is not permanent or a part of your body.
@@saulroberts161 I think you missed my point. It isn't different in the sense that we're both commemorating our greatest love and shoving it in the other's face.
Excellent conversation and why younger women are often more attractive: less baggage.
Same…with younger Men NOT being BALD like #BALDIE over here.
NEWS FLASH: NON BALD MEN ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE AND FREE OF TRAUMA and tragic pasts and baggage. #facepalm
BALD MEN ARE WALKING RED FLAGS Mr. POOR POOPER!
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Caitlin has a strange solipsism about this: maybe the momento is poignant and loving in some way, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s not in her next lover’s interests to get with her.
Caitlin, if you’re reading this then understand that successful men don’t live their lives in a way that would make for a poignant movie later: they live their lives in ways that build success and money
Totally relate to this, same thing when your on a date and a woman tells you my children will always come first , if you carry on from that point you realize you will be number two for the rest of your life. Don’t settle for being a pos in a relationship
I really really really don't like tattoos on women smooth silky skin. It's like bird poop on a clean car.
Exactly. It only disrupts the lines and contours of her shape.
exactly, and even the bird poop washes right off, unlike tattoos which are on there for life, unless she gets them lasered off, which is is expensive, time consuming, painful, does not always 100 percent get rid of it, and she is unlikely to do that
I love that Caitlin was sp blown away and Rich wasn't backing down but he doubled down. We get that she loved the guy and he died. It's tragic. Her tattoo is an external representation of her trams and baggage, just as Rich said It's fine for her but I don't want to take that on in my life. You'll forever be in that guys shadow. The guy is a martyr and can do no wrong. It's a lot like taking on a single mother. More risk than reward. There are other options.
My ex wife when I met her in 2001…. She had a few little tats. When we divorced in 2022… she had both arm sleeves front, back, neck, thighs covered in Tats. And the more I told her while married that I didn’t like them- the more she got. I wish I had this info back in 2001…. I really do.
**Today I completely 💯-ignore females with tattoos.
Every tatoo was an F You to you. Rough!
Ohh man, the majority of them Love to do things out of spite.
It’s the childish mindset of oh, ‘I’ll show him.”
Agreed... My ex didn't have any, but knew I hated them and during the divorce she ran out and got tats like... "Oh Yeah... I'll show you..." She did, and if there was the slightest hope of ever getting back together, she ended it with that decision... Well there was no chance actually.
Our culture makes the worst of every culture main stream here.
@@seanbond8075that happened to me. My mistake. I avoided the red flags
Tattoos also show that the woman lives in denial: Nothing is permanent and yet she tries to make some part of our existence permanent. I won't ever live with a woman that lives in illusion, imagine the kind of drama you will have in your life.
Simplicity is the key to happiness.
When I see a woman working a minimum wage job with full sleeve and neck tattoos, I see poor choices and wrong priorities. I also see someone that feels the need for body modification to bolster their self image, and to put it on display for attention seeking.
Here is a study done on it:
"Do young women with tattoos have lower self-esteem and body image than their peers without tattoos? A non-verbal repertory grid technique approach"
Numerous empirical studies have shown that tattoos may be associated with changes in self-esteem [13]
....As reported in our previous study [48], univariate analysis did not show differences between groups in age (t = 0.11, df = 118, p = 0.91), but significant differences were found between groups in years of education (t = 2.60, df = 118, p = 0.01). Women with tattoos were less educated. A significant difference was also found in smoking habits (χ2 = 27.69, df = 1, p
Wo findet man diese Studio sehr interessant....
@@Pollacek40 Mit der Startphrase suchen: //Do young women with tattoos have lower self-esteem and body image than their peers without tattoos?//
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www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6347139/
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You don’t see bumper stickers on a Ferrari. Women don’t need to ruin their bodies with tattoos in my opinion.
Yeah, but a bumper sticker can be removed... I go with the analogy of driving a brand new half a million dollar Ferrari into downtown LA and ask some graffiti taggers to paint graffiti all over that beautiful car
@@seanbond8075Well said!
The number of tattoos on a woman are directly correlated to the amount of pain inside. Tattoos are forms of SILENT SCREAMING!
I wonder if Caitlin refers to herself as a "feisty boss girl." 😅
Probably has it Tattoo'd somewhere, like the dozzy tramp in N-Dubs with "the female boss" down her arm.
Tatted up women have always been a major turn off for me. When women started dirtying themselves with tatoos in the early 90's it disgusted me and still does. I see them as having some sort of emotional defect that prevents them from fully maturing. It's akin to poor impulse control. It's a huge red flag.
Ignore & dismiss them instantly.
I didn't notice extreme tattoos, until after 2005 or so
@@kathleenking47, Thinking about it, it's more like 98. I was repulsed.
@@gusarmstrong563
I got in trouble...for saying something...
Yes, it definitely became a thing for women to have tattoos in the early 90's. The world seemed to turn into a darker place around that time with Grunge and alternative music taking over with Lollapalooza that actually had tattoo booths at the concerts. The fun party culture of the 70's and 80's seemed to go away overnight around this time and feminism and political correctness started to take over. Gangsta rap gained alot of traction around this time as well. The culture has slid further downhill ever since. Thirty plus years of degradation is in harvest and we're headed for destruction. The future does not look good.
I know a single mother that has INDEPENDENT tattooed on her chest.
That's comedic gold. 😂
And a bit sad too.
Rich thank you so much for sharing all this valuable information. I don’t know if you know, but your content is spreading all over Latin America in Spanish, we are being red pulled and this is just for everyone here to know that Latin women can be the opposite of American women, but they are not immune. So thanks again!
At my age, the pool of available women for me is dwindling. But I would rule out any woman who has tattoos up and down her arms, legs, or anywhere else. I never understood why someone would put tattoos all over a pair of beautiful legs. And, frankly, for many of these women who do that, the money would be better spent on a spin class.
The reason people get tattoos is to fill identity crisis, onset by trauma.
Not to say that all people go through trauma get tattoos, but it is consistent.
When you date, you look for a daughter, subconsciously, which is why we don’t respect girls with tattoos because we know the attention it brings, therefore we don’t want our daughters to receive that.
If you are casual enough with your body to get tattoos, you are casual enough to gain body count, because you do not respect your body enough.
Stay away from girls with tattoos.
I would say you're right, but not always. A LOT of people get tats to signify a momentous occasion. Like if someone climbed Mt Everest, won the Indy 500, or something they strived for and finally achieved. But by the same token, you could get a plaque made and hang it on your wall lol.
The ones that get me on guys is the morons who get a god awful portrait of their kid and it ends up looking like a drunk tried to draw a picture of a st bernard.
@@muskokamike127 i was talking about girls. It still applies to men as to why (identity crisis) and it is now known and acknowledged by psychiatry, but men have different driving factors regardless..
@@HungryMonkey1880and then there's hordes of you overly self assured clowns who feel entitled to treat everyone with some ink as pariahs and belittle them. You are no better
The thought of paying for the guys child support from previous relationship really triggered her 😂
That ignorant Catlin needs to learn how to listen and stop interupting to make her insipid point. As for the tatoo issue, I agree with Rich, when I see a woman with multiple tatoos, my first thoughts after "yuk" is; damaged goods.
She’s like 95% of under 35 women in America today. They want to tell men how they should think and feel vs actually listening to what men really value in women. Women take advice about men from other WOMEN instead of going to the source. If I want to lose weight and improve my fitness, I take direction and advice from someone who’s in shape and will push me accordingly. Women on the other hand are ok with taking advice from other obese women who will tell them why being overweight isn’t their fault and that men need to accept them “as they are!”
Caitlin: Argues the exception to discredit the rule.
Kevin Samuels (the Godfather!) described it as women needing to be right, always.
Yeah, she is full of female logic.
Caitlin adds nothing but comfortable couch.
full of cat and dog hair
I think many people are simply followers. Following what everyone else does.
You are not the first person getting tattoos …….you are following others.
You are a follower normie, who most likely also wear the uniforms of the masses and shows off his car and nice watch for attention also. You get off on judging others to feel superior
Totally true, you wouldn't want a woman with her ex's name tatoo'ed on her, just as much as a woman wouldn't want a man with the same thing.
I posted above: how would she like it if a man kept a photo of his first love on his nightstand or on the wall over your bed?
I have to side with Rich on tattoos
I don’t have any and don’t like being with women with tattoos
Its funny how they can have the highest standards for us, but we have to put up with and even support their bs
Caitlan proved the point. The other woman tattooed her trauma on her body as a memorial to her ex. Tatoos are compensation for something, whether a few or many, for both men and women.
I agree with Rich as that has always been my experience and observation regarding women with tattoos. Avoid them in personal situations and never enter into a relationship with any of them. It is like Nature's warning that some of the most venomous creatures in the World are also the most brightly colored and patterned like the Poison Dart Frog, the Gila Monster, the Coral Snake. Don't get bit or stung, keep your distance.😂😂😂
I’m glad women have tattoos because it makes it easy to avoid the crazy.
You’re so right, it really does help weed out the trash.
😂😂😂😂
These are the same people who complain they never have enough money for daily basic needs but always find money for tattoos cigarettes alcohol etc
The chick arguing with you has the attitude that women can just do anything they want to do and men should be obligated to accept it. It’s very unrealistic. Almost every tattoo a woman has represents some sort of highly emotional experience. Sometimes good, like the birth of a child, but mostly bad. My ex started dating some loser after we broke up. She found him overdosed on the couch one night. She thought it would be a good idea to tattoo his name on her shoulder. So from now on, any man she wants to be with will have a reminder of her experience. Every. Single. Day.
Growing up in the seventies, the only rare females with tatts were biker chicks, butch lesbians, ex-cons or a few radical hippie chicks. All of them are in some way rebelling against or deviating from the norms of social order.
In the eighties some punk rock and heavy metal chicks were also getting tatts. Again, the rebellious element a factor.
In the early-to-mid nineties, many college-aged middle-class feminist females were getting low back tramp stamp and other tatts. Belly button and other piercings also took off. It would seem this was pushed in the media through movies, television and the music scene. The Lilith Fair concerts an extension of this collective commercialized feminist fashionist cultural Marxist push. Again, the spirit of rebellion.
Later in the 2000s, shows like Miami Ink with the female Kat Von Dee and other tatt television shows would drive the fad even further into popularity and to extremes. Now it would seem the acceptance and normalization occurs for many with the extremes extending into degeneracy and sometimes even sadism.
I just play the spectator in this regard and watch the circus clown show unveil itself over the decades.
You nailed it.
Tattoos are a red flag period. A tiny discrete one may not be a big red flag, but any collection or series of randoms is surely cause for concern. No decent man wants a marked woman. When speaking with my friend group this question also comes up: Why would a well-adjusted decent woman go to a tattoo joint and have a bad boy " artist " permanently mark her body? Not only let this guy man handle her, but also pay for it? The whole concept is weird, but it seems as if every girl from 15 - 60 has a tattoo these days. Many have piercings as well in sexual places. Totally unacceptable to a good man. Social media and peer pressure has a strong force over these sheeple. They feel compelled to do it because everyone else is. Tattoos are not an accomplishment. They are a consumer product. Shows lack of impulse control and lack of concern for future consequences. The other thing I've experienced is women who had had prior boyfriends buy them a tattoo or multiple ex-boyfriends purchase one or more for them. One thing for sure is that a lot of it is trauma related as well(not all). Also an indicator of high body count and easy hook up.
All of the above plus poor decison making/promiscuity are a sign too.
Yea thank you
I’ve always been outspoken on this that most men don’t realize…. There was loser badboy marking your woman’s body. Giving her pain and pleasure and then a memento to look at.
Don’t let them fool you saying “this body is yours”. No it was chads through the 20’s on top of the males who permanently marked her skin as a “badge of honor”
It’s quite disgusting really that people can’t even think about this because the level of delusion they keep to not go crazy. A guy was marking your woman’s skin causing her pain to forever be branded on there that he left his mark….. sick
@@ssing7113 Interesting perspective, thank you.
I really enjoy this clip, always improving myself day to day.
I like your show Mr. Cooper, you really have good advice & help many men around the world to avoid bad women.
Women with tattoos are gross
Men also....Incarcerated men have tattoos 10 times over those who do not...
Finally years later after this horrific trend people are stating the truth!!!!
@@flowergarden1426I'm sure no one myself included would think people would go this far with body mutilation
In Thailand, the bar girls and strippers are covered in tattoos….it’s inevitable
My grandmother was married to my grandfather for over 50 years. When he passed away she did not get a tattoo. Her justification makes no sense. She would have been better off going to grief counseling.
Buy a freaking locket necklace or bracelet & put his photo in it!
She probably didn't have a granny telling her. It's not a good idea
@@pinnacle1717
Lockets are so cool☺️
They have them, with room for 3 or four pictures
“It’s not just trauma” then gives examples of the most serve form of trauma
🤣🤣🤣caitlin is so offended
Don't come between a Princess and her dream to become a tombstone.
🙂
Hitting the wall does that to females like her.🤣
I appreciate the wisdom, education, and simple message this man is saying .
I am a woman and I agree with him !!!!👌🏽
A mother who tattoos her kid’s name on her body is not a better mom. Same with a wife and her husband.
not better just stupid
Having sex with a single mother who had her degenerate kids name on her back is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever had to deal with.
Projection in permanent ink
Ran into one of those. She had her kidS(plural) tattooed on her AND their birthdates. 🤦♂️
lol
Caitlin is outwardly confirming what I've always thought of people who get tattoos: A complete lack an abilitiy to consider the long term consequences.
"Make your wounds your work". Yes! To imprint them permanently on your body is masochistic and self-perpetuating.
I think it was Rollo that said that having a tattoo is a risky procedure. It's fine if guys have it because risk-taking should be in our nature in some degree in order to become successful. It's even considered attractive because it shows a degree of confidence. If a woman does it however, it looks bad because risk-taking is not be a feminine trait. Women with tattoos tend to prove this point by being more promiscuous, obviously not a trait you want in a wife.
Tattoos are unattractive on men and women..
@@theresamcdonald-smith5046 I disagree but I was raised by a single mother; perhaps it's just my trauma talking lol
@@75SuperMario I should rephrase that. I just personally find them unattractive. To each their own..
I work with 6 guys in a group.
3 of them are tattooed, 3 are not.
2 of the "tough" tattooed ones are completely losers.
So there is no link between being tattooed and masculine, strong or risk taking.
@@EllHuron Anecdotal evidence
The rebels now have no tattoos.
Caitlin’s silence is a clear indication that she is ABSOLUTELY Butt hurt IN THIS CLIP 10:00
~6:00 she talks about her friends trauma tattoos and says that we need to reconsider what tattoos on women mean as she so effectively drives home the point that Rich is making and missing the fact that she just provided support for what he just said.
Nah. Her silence is cause he shut her down, by using ridiculous comparisons. If you're older than 30 and looking to date, you've got baggage. Full stop, regardless of tattoos, sex, race,sexual preference etc. Stop dividing people and causing less unity. And how come the double standards for men and women? Isn't that called sexism. Grow up
View these open warning signs, like excessive tattoos/piercings, wild colored hair, leftists bumper stickers, and all the other "red flags" as a gift to us so we can quickly identify and avoid the crazies out there. God bless them for showing up front how dangerous they are!
Exactly! I find them helpful. Glowing neon signs that tell me to avoid at all costs. 13:39
There are plenty of tattooed right-wing crazies skanked up with extreme tats & piercings.
Jessica (to Caitlin): "what was the question?"
Caitlin (to Jessica): proceeds to diatribe and no question.
I'm tired of stupid people.
Her premise was they didn't get a chance to have that conversation because he "died suddenly" but they were married for 13 yrs, they had plenty of time to have it. He had epilepsy, he was taking meds to prevent seizures. It wasn't a question of IF he was going to have one, it was when. They chose NOT to have that conversation.
I ride a motorcycle. I had a couple of accidents when I was in my teens 45 yrs ago. I don't wear a helmet and leather because I hadn't had an accident, I wear them for when I do. Dress for the slide not the ride.
They don’t even listen to each other.
Good on the 2 men who didn't fall for Caitlin trying to shame them into feeling 'so sorry' for her friend. They were respectful and stuck to the facts. Your choice to tattoo but there are consequences.
Thank God I married my wife years ago before all this nonsense. Sadly, I dont blame men who refuse to get married in today.
Catlin, the exception does not make the rule. As a rule, Rich is right.
Caitlin's not the sharpest knife in the drawer.
Agreed. Not the full quid.😁
I get it now, it has something to do with pain. It's pain that they have control over versus the emotional pain which they have no control over.
Totally agree with Rich Cooper on that. The most precious person in my life was my Mom, and sadly she passed on. But i wouldn't tatoo her name on my body. The same goes for girlfriends, wives partners and so on. Treat your body with respect, do not mutilate it unnecessarily. But it's just my take on the issue.
A man does not want another mans name on his wifes body. Not hard to understand.
Poor impulse control, a belief she's more interesting/complex than she actually is- oh, and bad long term planning skills.
Did I miss anything?
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Just about covers it.
Spot on!
Absolutely 💯
Absolute facts. My ex is a screaming example of this