Violet Evergarden: Why Gilbert "left" and Violet's emotion disability/growth

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  • @justmyedits6596
    @justmyedits6596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    He loved her and so does she, but she does not understand emotions because all she has been taught were orders and military-related things. He wanted her to be free so he left. I haven't read the novels yet but I guess that he must be hiding somewhere near her, watching her and waiting for the right time to show up again when she realised what his *I love you* was.

    • @akina01
      @akina01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      ส่อง อย่างเดียว Don't worry lol, he does hide in order for her to fully live without thinking all she's good for is orders. They eventually reunite and he confesses. He states that he'll wait for her until she fully understands "love" even though we're aware she feels the same. And he states he wants her to be by his side from now on.

    • @a.t.6649
      @a.t.6649 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Military always change people
      Especially kids

    • @potatocake7037
      @potatocake7037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@akina01 IS THAT TRUE?!?!?!?! OMGGGG PLS TELL ME MORE

    • @akina01
      @akina01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Potato Cake lolol yes it's true I've finished the novel of this anime. They reunite in the end. Throughout this time he was hiding from her all while rising up in the ranks. But he hid from her to allow her to grow as a human being and not as a weapon, but people like his brother, hodgins, etc. knew he was alive.

    • @potatocake7037
      @potatocake7037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@akina01 where was he hiding????

  • @neko-chan3302
    @neko-chan3302 6 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    This anime is one of the sadest animes i have ever seen

    • @indriwulandari2409
      @indriwulandari2409 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      looming with roxy sad really

    • @ashleyjones9787
      @ashleyjones9787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's a tie between this and clannad for me

    • @yourusernamehere4432
      @yourusernamehere4432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      R.I.P Aidan one of the saddest deaths in the show i felt terrible for him

    • @DK-qv4yj
      @DK-qv4yj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Although I love this anime the most yet I'd say that Tokyo Magnitude 8.0 is probably the saddest........it may not be as beautiful and gorgeous and lovely as Violet Evergarden, but according to me it's the saddest anime I've ever watched (through the harshness of nature)

    • @ingemar8123
      @ingemar8123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you've seen 'Hotarubi no mori e' and 'Banana fish' and 'Devilman crybaby' and 'Your lie in april' and 'erased' and 'i want to eat your pancreas' and 'anohana' and 'the promised neverland'

  • @lunabunny2913
    @lunabunny2913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    So Gilberts problem was that he raised Violet and fell in love with her. But because of her age and lacks of experience in life, Gilbert worries about Violet not beeing able to live in the "normal" world he and all soldiers are trying to built. He knows that she´s stronger than any other soldier, so she can "function" in war. But he´s afraid that she couldn´t handle living in an peaceful enviroment. And how can they live a "happy married life" together, when they actually don´t know much about each other. Gilbert really wants a relationship with violet, but he´s afraid that he might get into a conflict. Violet at that time didn´t know the difference between parental love and beeing a couple (violet was raised as an orphan). So it´s like violet has to do more "normal" experiences in life before she can handle complexe things as "beeing in love" with someone. That´s why travelling and meeting all the different people is so important! She should grow into the person she want´s to be (that´s probably why all the flower references are made) and than face him again. And after that they can have their happy end *-* beautiful story!!!

    • @marinamarina1400
      @marinamarina1400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Christophe Ducas Actually Violets age was unknown and still is - people only presumed that she was 14 when they found her but never confirmed.

    • @hafsakhan9021
      @hafsakhan9021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't think their love is romantic because the show is all about her experiencing different kinds of love. Idk about the movie but as of now i don't think that its romantic love. he loves her and that what it is.

    • @jhlen
      @jhlen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@marinamarina1400 it was kinda confirmed in the episode with the princess and the public love letters.
      The princess asked Violet what she thinks abt her marrying an older man and all that because she wants an opinion from someone that's her age. The Princess was 14 in that episode, if i remember right, so Violet should also be around that age.

    • @sidneyberjamin394
      @sidneyberjamin394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hafsakhan9021 I can say for sure that they have a romantic relationship.

    • @herablack4908
      @herablack4908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      he didn't fall in love with her? the first time he saw her he said.. "a child?" he was shocked by the way everyone treated her and then he pitied her. but gilbert's compassion was out of love and pity. it just wasn't romantic. he couldn't resist any of this because she was a kid.

  • @kramotakra
    @kramotakra  6 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    If you've read 4 love languages, you can understand where Violet is coming from.
    Even as she did not realize it, and Gilbert was too guilt-ridden to realize it as well, Violet's love languages are physical presence and act of service.....which ironically, is the Major's love languages too!
    "If I have your orders, I can go anywhere"
    She pretty much told the Major right there and then that she loved him with all her heart.
    In a way, both of them are idiots. Then again, a child with stunted emotional development and a military officer who only knows war and shuns love out of his heart (The novel described their unfortunate backgrounds in solid details), that's pretty much expected.

    • @moonlightstar3909
      @moonlightstar3909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey guys were could i find the novel?

    • @melodyssketchbook5703
      @melodyssketchbook5703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Search up ‘Violet Evergarden Light novel’ , and there should be one website called ‘Dennou Translations’

  • @greylarkspur
    @greylarkspur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    much like in real life, Violet's dependency on the familiar, dependency on something stable was sought after since she was traumatized so much.
    We burn all over. We burn and we don't understand why we're burning, but then it comes to a point where burning stops hurting and we have to ask if we are healed or just numb. Time does more than heal, sometimes it scars, and those scars are so dangerous if you hate them for what they mean. This show was one of the deepest I've ever watched with character development and realistic handling of depression, trauma, and waking up on the doorstep of you own life.

    • @lilyhuff3993
      @lilyhuff3993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow... that was deep...

  • @AfroTeeVee
    @AfroTeeVee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Violet in this scene was very young... But the Violet in the latest movie trailer has grown to such a fine woman and became adult. Their age gap is quite long but I still ship them.

    • @jamcoco6141
      @jamcoco6141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Their gap is just around 12-14 years, that doesn't reallt matter in old times

    • @em2843
      @em2843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      At that time around 1910-1910 it was normal especially with royals, people will say they have a daughter-father relationship, but they both love eachother romantically, as seen in their moves and what Gilbert said before he supposedly “died”, you also see in one of Violets Request all the Suitors are over 15+ years older then her, and she asked Violet if that was okay since they were around the same age, people need to realise it’s not like it is today, this was set in a time it was completely normal and not judged at all.

  • @pleasebemykaminari9281
    @pleasebemykaminari9281 6 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    He did not die guys. Gilbert is still alive 😭

    • @mcastillo830
      @mcastillo830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Usui Takumi ye he is

    • @pleasebemykaminari9281
      @pleasebemykaminari9281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@mcastillo830 nah his not die yet. the book did not mention gilbert dieeeeee. so he is not die yet.

    • @mcastillo830
      @mcastillo830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Usui Takumi ik,, oops prolly what ya meant in my past comment is hes dead,, oops sorri XDDD

    • @yourusernamehere4432
      @yourusernamehere4432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      can't wait for the movie and season 2

    • @yourusernamehere4432
      @yourusernamehere4432 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karen4554 no its release date is early 2020

  • @LittleClarinetPlayer
    @LittleClarinetPlayer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I hate the whole debate on if Gilbert has a father or a boyfriend type of love. You can just love someone without it being sexual damn it. There is a reason there are 7 types of love and this is closest to agape or philia to me. Gilbert can love Violet as a person and his wish for her happiness. Violet can love Gilbert and her need for familiarity around him. Obviously there is potential for romance, but I believe it is in the intent. Have they ever sexualized the relationship? I didn’t see it.

    • @seth5472
      @seth5472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not till she's an adult and much later in the light novel do they legitimately hook up

    • @zulaltoweczka
      @zulaltoweczka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      you can also love someone romantically without sexualizing it. i try to avoid the comments suggesting which type of love it is, because i understand it deeply without labeling it, but i think if we are going to explain it, i like to imagine that it was a caring, nurturing love just coming from a bond, eventually later blooming into something more romantic-based. not to spoil a movie, but i watched it, and while i know in the novels they are together, the movie does not strictly suggest it, just lightly hints, and i think it's the best way to take it. but still, as i said, it's understandable without labeling - a trait of well written story

    • @CommandaInChief
      @CommandaInChief 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But if it were to foster into a romance, in the real world, their relationship would be considered "grooming" which is a disgusting thing. But, she at least doesn't reunite with him until she's 18 years of age. Trust me, I really enjoy this anime, it's beautiful and reminds me so much of Call the Midwife TV show. There are messages in this that so profound and self aware but like most anime, it's best not to take it too seriously or personally.

  • @killuman637
    @killuman637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    50 year old Jellal makes full metal saber cry

  • @Karan-pn7xs
    @Karan-pn7xs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Cant wait for the movie. A big surprise :)

    • @Karan-pn7xs
      @Karan-pn7xs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Jose Morales my bad. Actually season 2 is not confirmed yet. But movie is coming out. :)

    • @aieshah8060
      @aieshah8060 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karan oh my god what! when??

    • @Mavis.Rosefield
      @Mavis.Rosefield 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I think it was January 2020. I hope so, because I can’t wait anymore shdhsh

    • @yourusernamehere4432
      @yourusernamehere4432 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Karan-pn7xs i think it's been confirmed

    • @someonewholovesanime508
      @someonewholovesanime508 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karan heeey~ i came from 2020 lmao. İts out two days ago :`>>>

  • @meganliu6274
    @meganliu6274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Honestly from the beginning I was so interested in her backstory and army experience. I wish they made a whole movie about her upbringing from the moment she was abandoned to when Gilbert "died" and she became.a doll. I actually really liked her military demeanor and how deep of a character she was. Since orders were all Violet knew, Gilbert decided not to go back to be the Major because he wanted Violet to experience life in a peaceful environment because war is all she knew. I think that's why Violets experiences with writing letters for others to learn feelings is so important for them to be able to live a happy life together.

    • @bhumikaagarwal7699
      @bhumikaagarwal7699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I wished for that too and I agree with you.

  • @gab6591
    @gab6591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Actually, from what I've seen in the Violet Evergarden movie trailers, Gilbert manages to survive. He lost one of his eyes and his right arm. Anyway, Gilbert, as karmotakra mentioned, chose to stay away from Violet after the war, thinking that she would be better off living without him.

  • @mythorganizer4222
    @mythorganizer4222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    *THINGS I THINK ABOUT AT 3AM*

    • @zarax5046
      @zarax5046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly same though 💀😸

    • @sh33w00h
      @sh33w00h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We're same

    • @sh33w00h
      @sh33w00h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We're same

  • @Rz-Kyzuto
    @Rz-Kyzuto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This anime made me cry and when I finished watching it the feeling really felt, and my chest felt tight seeing the sad scene

  • @breannamjelde2737
    @breannamjelde2737 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    i love this anime sm honestly

  • @em2843
    @em2843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    At that time around 1910-1910 (If you’re wondering how I know that it’s around that time, it’s said that it was in WW1 or around that time, also the fashion sense and style, and the cars, type writers were used with the lack of technology.) it was normal especially with royals, people will say they have a daughter-father relationship, but they both love eachother romantically, as seen in their emotions and physical moves and what Gilbert said before he supposedly “died”, you also see in one of Violets Requests (Charlotte) all the Suitors are over 15+, and she asked Violet if that was okay since they were around the same age, people need to realise it’s not like it is today, this was set in a time it was completely normal and not judged at all.

  • @sarahshaffer5121
    @sarahshaffer5121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Favorite anime of all time (I loved Gilberts and Violets story) 🧡 This anime is just amazing and I absolutely loved it. I really want to read the actual Novels 📖 so badly in English (not using online to read it). Hopefully one day it will be sold in English 😭

  • @sheebaverse
    @sheebaverse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    He’s alive, she has the same voice as the ruler in fate

  • @jareddebeast
    @jareddebeast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This scene probably brought me closer to tears than anything else in a very long time but still I can’t feel anything which is probably why I have been watching this to see if I would feel something

  • @mzhang9196
    @mzhang9196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm crying

  • @dullahandulla1796
    @dullahandulla1796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Just watched to movie
    SPOILER:>
    He was NOT in the movie. But Violet said something like: "I am not allowed to meet him" when she was asked if she missed anyone. So does she know he is alive or did she just say that as a metaphor to state that death ( if she thinks that he is dead) parted them.

    • @claudiamm7348
      @claudiamm7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But the movie releasse is I 24.4.2020

    • @dullahandulla1796
      @dullahandulla1796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@claudiamm7348 Nah, its on Netflix world wide. It came out April 2nd, so today. I watched it at like 4 am

    • @shazmeenkhan6977
      @shazmeenkhan6977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dullahandulla1796 That's just an additional movie. The actual movie that was actually meant to be S2 will be releasing this month on probably 24 or I don't can be next month too. You can Google it if you don't believe me. :)

  • @moved9822
    @moved9822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dang this is deep...

  • @kite4095
    @kite4095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why it hurts so much.. ... .. 🖤

  • @thomasroll8980
    @thomasroll8980 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel same way she does cause I don't understand what love means cause noone every show me love or kindness and I don't know what happiness is or how to find it I just listen to orders like her

  • @marjoriepulmones7786
    @marjoriepulmones7786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gilberrrttt😭😭

  • @hafsakhan9021
    @hafsakhan9021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    idk why but their love was never explained so idk why people just presume everything as romantic. I don't think of their love as romantic as the show is all about her experiencing so many different kinds of love. love with a sibling, with family, with a lover, with their work and so many more so their love also is one kind. i don't think its just as simple ans cliche as romance

    • @schizo_fren
      @schizo_fren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it's definitely not a cliche romance, but Gilbert is alive and Violet is his wife canonically

  • @natalieclark2100
    @natalieclark2100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes

  • @franklingua529
    @franklingua529 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ever since she left the island, she felt nothing in her heart and soul with the Major. However, she managed to express herself not as a subordinate but as a human being towards Gilbert. Regardless of the war, she still held dear to him all this time!!!!! 🤣😂

  • @kyliemorton3785
    @kyliemorton3785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    EVERYONE IS TALKING ABOUT A NOVEL!!! WHAT NOVEL AND WHERE CAN I FIND IT!?!

  • @micaelaquintero7176
    @micaelaquintero7176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't yell at him Gilbert🙊🥺😭

  • @sharltlove6685
    @sharltlove6685 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My heart is crying.

  • @baltazarai4317
    @baltazarai4317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hermosisisisisisima pareja como sé separaron 😭😭😭😭que tristeza ❤💋

  • @erculinal.60
    @erculinal.60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is an 14th Episode , but i am from germany and Here it does Not exist - so... somebody can tell me were i can find it this 14th Episode That is suscribed on the official side of Violet evergarden ? In any language it is equal. Please ! theIf somebody Knows can you answer me and Send The link or sone informations of the second Movie ?! The First i bought already a Bit ago

  • @IvanTheGhostboy
    @IvanTheGhostboy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don’t see Violets relationship with Gilbert being romantic, as some people would see. I mean, she’s a child, that’s kind of weird if it’s like that. I see it more as Gilbert being a Father to her

    • @anishabegum2056
      @anishabegum2056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      In the novel its explicitly explained they're romantically involved

    • @IvanTheGhostboy
      @IvanTheGhostboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anishabegum2056 Really? That's...no...

    • @christinatoo801
      @christinatoo801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ivan De La Garza I saw in another comment that this is like the early 1800s, where child marriage was fully legal and common. Kinda like with Princess Charlotte marrying a 24 year old prince. It’s common for that era so it’s kinda plausible. It’s true love anyways so I fully support it!

    • @IvanTheGhostboy
      @IvanTheGhostboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christinatoo801 That's true, but I never *ever* saw this as romantic *at all* . Not every guy and gal put on screen needs to be romantic. "I love you" doesn't mean "I want to marry you and bang you" all the time. Love is so many things besides that

    • @christinatoo801
      @christinatoo801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ivan De La Garza I know but them having romantic feelings for each other has been confirmed. It’s not like I shipped Violet and Gilbert. I thought they had a father daughter relationship until I asked my older brother, who said it is confirmed that it is a romantic relationship. I actually don’t really ship them, but it’s what the creators thought so we have to go with it. But it’s fine if you disagree with it or think otherwise.

  • @lokkj8570
    @lokkj8570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    She cries too much for a living weapon

    • @kramotakra
      @kramotakra  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      In the novel the only time she cried during the war was when Gil told her he loved her in his dying moments

  • @saruwatarimichiyo2665
    @saruwatarimichiyo2665 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this the new movie? Im sorryyyy im so confused.. where can i watch this

  • @zinzolin14
    @zinzolin14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel bad that your videos get so many immature comments that complain about the dub.
    Seriously, just leave and go read some subtitles =_=

    • @shadowninja1275
      @shadowninja1275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know, I hate the dub haters so much i wish they could just Shut up. 😠

    • @shadowninja1275
      @shadowninja1275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sick of it

  • @moonchild9703
    @moonchild9703 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone knows the song ?

  • @bof8oom
    @bof8oom 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The sub was sooooooo much better like fr

    • @xaincc
      @xaincc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't think so

  • @itsmeemohere
    @itsmeemohere 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    WWAIT BUT IS HE ALIVE IN THE MOVIE OR WHAT IS GOING ON

  • @marcellosantos1117
    @marcellosantos1117 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    While episode?

  • @pleasebemykaminari9281
    @pleasebemykaminari9281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now i came back just to tell you guys, Gilbert is still alive HAHAHAHA Cheers!✨ well obviously he still alive since you all erdy watch few in youtube 😂

  • @yukisaga6269
    @yukisaga6269 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Don't like the Dub voices....ugh!

    • @mk_nugget
      @mk_nugget 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      YUKI SAGA I do

    • @user-uf9xk1uv2z
      @user-uf9xk1uv2z 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This is one of the best dubs I've heard so far

    • @polarfirefox7528
      @polarfirefox7528 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      There are some anime’s that have great duds this is close to #1

    • @kixoxxx2138
      @kixoxxx2138 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's ok..... but I think the "Cheffs" (sorry forgot his name, redhead, ponytail...you know) and Majors should have swiched ....
      Btw. German Dub is amazing

    • @Andromeda-mz1qk
      @Andromeda-mz1qk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YUKI SAGA I literally clicked on the video, heard the dub voices and had to watch with captions instead of audio

  • @lonid7316
    @lonid7316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jesus clicked this dub on accident, weird.
    You guy need to watch sub

  • @imalittlefart8632
    @imalittlefart8632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    eeeeeeeeeeeew, sorry but the english dub is completely destroying the anime.