Home sweeeet home, didn’t just teach us how to survive they taught us how to thrive ❤ Thanks to Avi and the entire HSH gang, not only my wife and kids are proud of me, my parents and siblings are proud too, and of course I couldn’t be more proud of myself! Thank you Avi for seeing the diamond in me and help me polish it ❤❤❤❤❤
Avi Fishoff brought me to real Yiddishkite through the holy Rebbe Rabbi Sholom Noach Berezovsky ztl and his chavrusa (at least at the time) Yaakov Shain and translating a piece of Nesivos Shalom. Every book written by Avi Fishoff has brought me closer to Yiddishkite. 🙏
I’m not a very emotional person and I cry very rarely but I don’t know why I teared up several times during this episode. There’s something about the way he speaks that brings up emotions. Thank you so much and I hope that you’ll indeed do a part two.
Unbelievable episode! Words of powerful truth! Thank you R' Fishoff for sharing such depth and heart and light in the world and thank you Meaningful People for bringing on such a special guest!
Avi is a professional par excellence. He’s a tzadik who saves lives and brings love and peace to families. Everything he says is backed by Torah sources and Daas Torah. Thank you Avi for sharing your wisdom.
awesome episode, as someone who suffered a little growing up and a relatively new father this gives me hope that I can raise my children to be happy. it took me 15 years to realise my parents loved me but didn't know how to deal with me.
Very special to hear these ideas, they help for all kids! There's always a struggle a challenge - the sooner we learn to respond with love and true Rabbinic guidance, the sooner we help our kids to thrive.
I am so so proud to say that this is my uncle Avi. Avi, you’re an inspiration and thank you for working so doggedly to spread these incredible messages.
Loved this episode! Blew me away! Everyone knows Avi as someone who deals with severe crisis - but everything he said was SO applicable to regular parenting! We all need to twist and re-learn how to love & like!!!
I’m so happy you interviewed him! Was waiting for this one! Avi is a tzaddik I personally know many ppl he’s helped & saved… the world needs more ppl like him:) PLEASE DO A PART 2!!! ❤
Excellent episode. Avi Fishoff is amazing. I’m in the middle of the book about his father & now look forward to reading Avi’s book as well. His father was also amazing. As they say: The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
If you check out the version of this podcast which was uploaded to the podcast streaming sites, the first 20 minutes of this podcast isn’t on TH-cam and they discuss his father Benny Fishoff A”H and the Artscroll book. Very interesting part of the podcast which isn’t here.
Gevald! What a fantastic episode! So much to absorb... This will be the 1st time that I want to listen to this podcast again. Thank you! Hatzlacha Raba to all of you for the future!
Kol Hakavod this may be the most meaningful interview yet. May Hashem bless you and your families with continued success everything good pleasant and plentiful.
I truly truly love your podcast. Every guest inspires me to be the best version of myself, to do the best I can in all areas of my life, teaches me something and inspires me to bring light into the world no matter where I am or what I’m doing. Nachi and Momo, you truly are amazing in every interview with all the insightful questions and wonderful guests ❤
I have the book Raising Royalty and I've been learning it for about 5-10 minutes every night with a friend. Loved hearing how Avi started HSH and how he put this book together. Every parent should read this book!
When you listen to this you realize that there is always hope to be able to raise your kids to be happy responsible people. Avi is a great guide of how to change your own perspective and become a better person , and by extension teach your family to be better people.
Such a great episode! I did listen to this while driving, and I looked up the “Raising Royalty” book cover at a red light :) Avi seems like an amazing person with so much wisdom. I also appreciated the Torah that Avi brought up to discuss his approach. Wonderful content!
Important for every parent to watch this to learn how to raise and treat our children - and buy the book Raising Royalty. It's a sefer you will reference over and over again.
Wow truly amazing!!! Avi is a real inspiration for how to live a happy life! Loved all the points he made stories he told a breath of fresh air in all that he said!!
PHENOMENAL episode. I have been listening more and more regularly but this one made me stop in my tracks and stop,listen and absorb. Thank you so much for this. Please give a part 2, 3, 4.... 🙏
Hi from Israel 😃 Loved this interview with Avi and was very suprised to hear and find out he is such a Mechanech. Is it possible you got him to talk next time more about his musical years as Mr. 'Solid gold'?! I mean that is something I believe many would love to hear about from his past years as a composer and music genious. Thanks for your amazing work with all the beautiful interviews always! Kobi
Wow, Best episode ever!! There have been many great episodes, but often it's about the meaningful people, their background and upbringing, what prompted them to do things, etc. But this episode, while so enjoyable to listen to, was jam packed with serious, critical information and practical advice on how to raise children today. Avi also has the many years of experience and the stats to prove its success! As the Noviminsker Rebbe zt"l always said when these kinds of issues came to him "Halacha k'Reb Avi"! It's not only a good way to raise children, it's the ONLY way!! And this interview is just a tip-of-the-iceberg insight into what these amazing books are about..
One very important thing which wasn’t mentioned: How much does Avi Fishoff charge for his 24/7 support that he gives to the parents under his guidance? All of Avi’s guidance is FREE of charge. $0! This includes his training process which takes up many hours and his phone calls for advice and his support groups for the parents under his guidance.
The version of this podcast which was uploaded to the podcast streaming sites are longer then the version posted here. Highly recomended to go listen to the beginning of that version of the podcast (the first 20 min aren’t on TH-cam) where they also discuss Avi’s father, Benny Fishoff A”H, who a book from Artscroll was just released about, so much to learn from that part which isn’t the same topics as the rest of this podcast. They also discuss Avi’s Music side to him and the albums he composed and produced, Solid Gold, and his very famous song “A Shabbos in Mezbish” with the story behind the song and other fascinating parts.
BH If HaShem wouldn't have put Avi Fishoff in my way (as for many others) i would not wanted to continue living. BH Ishtabach Shemo Laad. Thank you very much H" and Avi. Kol haKavod. H" should bless him, his dear ones and all in Avodat H with lechaim tobim arukim umetukanim ulshalom to 120 years meatah vead olam. . BH leolam vaed amen ken Yehi Ratzon.
Thank you for this... I told my son I think today what's lacking is parental honesty. Growing up I also wanted things my parents couldn't afford. Today's parents borrow to buy for kids so חו''ש they won't feel different. Parents are in masses of debt because of their childrens' feelings. My parents couldn't afford & said, ''No. I don't have the money''. I hated not having, but I didn't hate my parents for not giving!
By the way nachi, when it comes to nature vs nurture. The thing they don't take into account is the fact that one or more were adopted. Pointing to the core issue in the first place.
OK so they were cars but you’re talking about the 30s 40s and 50s and I don’t think fathers both cars at that point for their children. I’m not trying to be a cynic. I’m just trying to make sense of it and I really want to understand what he’s trying to say here I understand that he is saying something that’s contrary to regular belief of not enabling.
Can u explain, how is it possible that he is talking about the chazon ish and referring to a father and a son, with the father, buying the sun, a car, even though he was mechalel shabbos. Can he bring a credible source because forgive me for this comment I don’t think there were any cars when the chazon ish was alive
The story is brought down in SEFER MASEH ISH. Also Rav Gershon Edelstein ztz"l brings it down many times in his weekly sichos - he knew the story when it happened.
He seems sincere and authentic, but...I don't get it. He does not explain the process he uses with the young Jews he treats. What is revolutionary about his approach? We don't know, because he does not explain. Also, what are his credentials? I am not saying you need an MSW or other psychology degree to help, but it makes me nervous when someone does not ground his practice in some kind of foundation. I mean, would you trust a rav to psokin for you if he didn't have smicha?
If you listened to the podcast you would understand that all of his guidance comes from his dealings with the kids first hand and how he realized that the world didn’t fully understand what these kids are dealing with because they didn’t feel safe to open up, so he took that approach to teach the parents so the kids can have the full effect - a person to trust and a home to return to - which is the most important part. The best training is what you see first hand. Not what is written in a book or taught in a classroom.
@@hananbenariliveconcert Oy. Why do you assume I did not listen to the podcast? Because I offered a criticism of it? I listened to it, which is why I felt it was "off" in some way. Everybody knows that troubled kids and troubled adults are troubled because they do not feel loved or seen or appreciated for who they are. But I felt that his success stories seemed too pat, too linear, and life does not work that way. And for individuals who have felt unloved their whole lives, it is not going to be easy for them to believe they are loved. So I wanted to know the specifics - how did he make them feel loved, and most importantly, how did he help them continue to feel loved even after they left his place. I felt Momo and Nachi could have pushed him harder here, so we can learn more about his method and practice.
@@roblebo905the keyword you are looking for - and missing in this podcast is 'structure'. All HSH members had to get a 'job' and obey to the house 'rules and schedule'. I've had the privilege to place some of those kids into the workforce. Which was one of conditions prior to moving in. the results I've witnessed was amazing.
@@roblebo905 very delicate subject. As you can see from other replies it is very easy for people to misinterpret and misunderstand Avi’s methodology. All that I would say is that if you are in the Parsha he is THE ADDRESS and he can send you a PDF with Hamlatzos from virtually every Godol in our generation.
@@msfuerst1 Thanks for your reply but I feel like everyone else is either seeing something that I am not seeing or else I am asking basic questions that for some reason no one wants to address. Did I miss something about where he talks about his methodology? As for the hamlatzos from the gedolim, this makes me even more confused, as what are the hamlatzos for? I can understand them vouching for his midos, but for anything else, it seems outside the scope of their expertise. It's like giving hamlatzos for a medication. Ok, but I would rather hear from a pharmacist or the FDA than my rebbe. I will listen to this again because it seems like I heard a different podcast than everyone else on here...
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This was amazing, every parent Jewish or gentile (like me) can learn from listening to this gentleman. Thank you.
Home sweeeet home, didn’t just teach us how to survive they taught us how to thrive ❤
Thanks to Avi and the entire HSH gang, not only my wife and kids are proud of me, my parents and siblings are proud too, and of course I couldn’t be more proud of myself!
Thank you Avi for seeing the diamond in me and help me polish it ❤❤❤❤❤
MY ABSOLUTE PLEASURE AND ZCHUS!!!
I'M SOOOOOOOOOO PROUD OF YOU!!! ❤
We're so glad you had Avi's guidance when you needed it!
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Avi Fishoff is amazing, saving lives on a daily basis.
Klall yisrael needs a podcast series with avi. He's truly one of this generation's greatest tzadikim.
Avi Fishoff brought me to real Yiddishkite through the holy Rebbe Rabbi Sholom Noach Berezovsky ztl and his chavrusa (at least at the time) Yaakov Shain and translating a piece of Nesivos Shalom. Every book written by Avi Fishoff has brought me closer to Yiddishkite. 🙏
I’m not a very emotional person and I cry very rarely but I don’t know why I teared up several times during this episode. There’s something about the way he speaks that brings up emotions. Thank you so much and I hope that you’ll indeed do a part two.
We are touched that you experienced the podcast like this!
Unbelievable episode! Words of powerful truth! Thank you R' Fishoff for sharing such depth and heart and light in the world and thank you Meaningful People for bringing on such a special guest!
Avi is a professional par excellence. He’s a tzadik who saves lives and brings love and peace to families. Everything he says is backed by Torah sources and Daas Torah. Thank you Avi for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you for being here
awesome episode, as someone who suffered a little growing up and a relatively new father this gives me hope that I can raise my children to be happy. it took me 15 years to realise my parents loved me but didn't know how to deal with me.
Very special to hear these ideas, they help for all kids! There's always a struggle a challenge - the sooner we learn to respond with love and true Rabbinic guidance, the sooner we help our kids to thrive.
I am so so proud to say that this is my uncle Avi. Avi, you’re an inspiration and thank you for working so doggedly to spread these incredible messages.
You should be very proud!
awwww thanks!! ❤
the best!
Loved this episode! Blew me away! Everyone knows Avi as someone who deals with severe crisis - but everything he said was SO applicable to regular parenting! We all need to twist and re-learn how to love & like!!!
So true! His words really are infused with so much experience and wisdom!
I’m so happy you interviewed him! Was waiting for this one! Avi is a tzaddik I personally know many ppl he’s helped & saved… the world needs more ppl like him:) PLEASE DO A PART 2!!! ❤
We would love to!
What a great combination of humility and healthy self esteem!! A gadol in Chinuch!! Lucky are the ones he works with!!
I have no words!!! Exceptional!!
Excellent episode. Avi Fishoff is amazing. I’m in the middle of the book about his father & now look forward to reading Avi’s book as well. His father was also amazing. As they say: The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
If you check out the version of this podcast which was uploaded to the podcast streaming sites, the first 20 minutes of this podcast isn’t on TH-cam and they discuss his father Benny Fishoff A”H and the Artscroll book. Very interesting part of the podcast which isn’t here.
How do I find that first 20 minutes?
Thanks for your feedback ! You can listen to it via our app (meaningful minute) on spotify and apple podcasts
Reb Avi Fishoff is mamesh a tzaddik and is saving generations with his innovative chinuch! Please bring him back for Part 2 and 3!!
Thank you for being part of the MPP community!
Gevald! What a fantastic episode! So much to absorb...
This will be the 1st time that I want to listen to this podcast again.
Thank you! Hatzlacha Raba to all of you for the future!
We're so glad to hear!
Avi Fishoff has saved hundreds of lives.
He's incredible!
Kol Hakavod this may be the most meaningful interview yet. May Hashem bless you and your families with continued success everything good pleasant and plentiful.
Amen! Thank you for the beautiful blessing and thank you for the kind words about the podcast!
Excellent interview, I learned a lot, thank you for this informative interview, we need more Jews like Avi fishoff, hes truly remarkable!!
thank you :)
I truly truly love your podcast. Every guest inspires me to be the best version of myself, to do the best I can in all areas of my life, teaches me something and inspires me to bring light into the world no matter where I am or what I’m doing. Nachi and Momo, you truly are amazing in every interview with all the insightful questions and wonderful guests ❤
Thank you for an amazing and real eye opening episode. Really loved it
I have the book Raising Royalty and I've been learning it for about 5-10 minutes every night with a friend. Loved hearing how Avi started HSH and how he put this book together. Every parent should read this book!
thanks!!
That's so cool to hear!!
When you listen to this you realize that there is always hope to be able to raise your kids to be happy responsible people. Avi is a great guide of how to change your own perspective and become a better person , and by extension teach your family to be better people.
THANK YOU !
great perspective!
Such a great episode! I did listen to this while driving, and I looked up the “Raising Royalty” book cover at a red light :) Avi seems like an amazing person with so much wisdom. I also appreciated the Torah that Avi brought up to discuss his approach. Wonderful content!
thank you for your kind words!
Absolutely fantastic. So on point. Everyone should be following you !!
What a fabulous episode. Thank you!!
Our pleasure! we're glad you enjoyed it!
Going to look up the books right now!!! R Avi is a true inspiration may he be able to continue to have koach to do his helige work!
Important for every parent to watch this to learn how to raise and treat our children - and buy the book Raising Royalty. It's a sefer you will reference over and over again.
I think this is your best podcast yet!!! Im seriously moved by what Avi said!
We need more Avi Fishoff’s in this world! זאין גזונט עון שטארק!
thanks so much :)
Avi is the best. Works against the tide. Gets great results.
He really has proven that his methods work
Wow truly amazing!!! Avi is a real inspiration for how to live a happy life! Loved all the points he made stories he told a breath of fresh air in all that he said!!
PHENOMENAL episode. I have been listening more and more regularly but this one made me stop in my tracks and stop,listen and absorb. Thank you so much for this. Please give a part 2, 3, 4.... 🙏
We are so glad to hear!! We hope you keep listening!
Hi from Israel 😃
Loved this interview with Avi and was very suprised to hear and find out he is such a Mechanech.
Is it possible you got him to talk next time more about his musical years as Mr. 'Solid gold'?!
I mean that is something I believe many would love to hear about from his past years as a composer and music genious.
Thanks for your amazing work with all the beautiful interviews always!
Kobi
Wow, Best episode ever!! There have been many great episodes, but often it's about the meaningful people, their background and upbringing, what prompted them to do things, etc. But this episode, while so enjoyable to listen to, was jam packed with serious, critical information and practical advice on how to raise children today. Avi also has the many years of experience and the stats to prove its success! As the Noviminsker Rebbe zt"l always said when these kinds of issues came to him "Halacha k'Reb Avi"! It's not only a good way to raise children, it's the ONLY way!! And this interview is just a tip-of-the-iceberg insight into what these amazing books are about..
thanks so much for your feedback!!
Amazing. So many important life lessons.
One of my favourite ever episodes... Please do a part 2
Yes hopefully one day in the future!
Wow ! Great episode ! Truly amazing, can't wait to read the book !
thanks! the book is in all jewish book stores and available on line and on AMAZON
Another fabulous. Interview. Thank you
Thank you for being here!
wow just incredible great job nachi for getting such unbelievabe guests
Nachi and Momo are superb hosts !
Thank you!
One very important thing which wasn’t mentioned:
How much does Avi Fishoff charge for his 24/7 support that he gives to the parents under his guidance?
All of Avi’s guidance is FREE of charge. $0!
This includes his training process which takes up many hours and his phone calls for advice and his support groups for the parents under his guidance.
I think the description of this podcast should be updated and this should be inserted
Thank you for mentioning it!
This episode was phenomenal, I sent it to everyone I know!
Thanks so much for sending it around!!
#1 book for every household.
We look forward to reading it!
The version of this podcast which was uploaded to the podcast streaming sites are longer then the version posted here.
Highly recomended to go listen to the beginning of that version of the podcast (the first 20 min aren’t on TH-cam) where they also discuss Avi’s father, Benny Fishoff A”H, who a book from Artscroll was just released about, so much to learn from that part which isn’t the same topics as the rest of this podcast.
They also discuss Avi’s Music side to him and the albums he composed and produced, Solid Gold, and his very famous song “A Shabbos in Mezbish” with the story behind the song and other fascinating parts.
We need a part 2!
BH If HaShem wouldn't have put Avi Fishoff in my way (as for many others) i would not wanted to continue living. BH Ishtabach Shemo Laad. Thank you very much H" and Avi. Kol haKavod. H" should bless him, his dear ones and all in Avodat H with lechaim tobim arukim umetukanim ulshalom to 120 years meatah vead olam. . BH leolam vaed amen ken Yehi Ratzon.
AMAIN! BE WELL AND BE HAPPY!
What a special message for Avi!
BH Todah Rabah H for Avi Fishoff Shelit"a!!!!! :) Ishtabach Shemo Laad!!
BH Cannot wait for Part 2 !! Many are being helped BH : ))
BeEzrat H Amain Ken Yehi Ratzon!! : ))
Incredible episode!
Can we get a part 2!! incredible :)
Thank you for this... I told my son I think today what's lacking is parental honesty. Growing up I also wanted things my parents couldn't afford. Today's parents borrow to buy for kids so חו''ש they won't feel different. Parents are in masses of debt because of their childrens' feelings. My parents couldn't afford & said, ''No. I don't have the money''. I hated not having, but I didn't hate my parents for not giving!
such an interesting perspective to add!
Gotta warn the bookstores!!! I was just there and purchased the last copy.
This was amazing! Will decibel reference back to this episode and plan to buy the book!
Hope you enjoy the book!
Tears 😭
Wow, so inspiring❤
glad you enjoyed!
Great interview, but would have loved to hear about the program itself - what does it involve, and why is it so successful whereas others aren't?
Avi has thousands of hours of content online. Go to his channel and you’ll learn
When can you bring on children who has have parents who went through twisted Parenting?
best episode by far.
We love to hear it!
I am divorced and my teenage daughter was at a younger age staying at her mother's house they didn't get along and now my daughter lives on her own
hi, there is a limit that can be covered in 1 interview. I have many videos on TH-cam that explain things in much greater detail.
How can we sign up to the whatsapp chat? I don't see it in the description box... ty love the interviews!!
Am Yisrael Chai! 😊
Wow. Amazing insight and attitude to help everyone with relating to your fellow Jew
Spoiler: Nurture, but Nature affects certain things
Thank you for highlighting this! Yes there is a bit of a bonus content on the audio version (spotify, apple podcast and our app)
Amazing.
He really is!
it will coming to Israel in a few weeks
Great episode .where can i buy the book in ירושלים?
Amazing tysm really insightful. How can we find more info about the home to apply for someone
To reach Avi please text or Whatsapp 718-902-6666 or email Twistedparenting@aol.com.
By the way nachi, when it comes to nature vs nurture. The thing they don't take into account is the fact that one or more were adopted. Pointing to the core issue in the first place.
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Amazing. Kol hakavod
Appreciate it!
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OK so they were cars but you’re talking about the 30s 40s and 50s and I don’t think fathers both cars at that point for their children. I’m not trying to be a cynic. I’m just trying to make sense of it and I really want to understand what he’s trying to say here I understand that he is saying something that’s contrary to regular belief of not enabling.
Sefer Maseh Ish Volume 1 P. 72
אין למדין מן המעשה. התלמוד והפוסקים הם נר לרגלינו לברר בכל דבר איזה דרך ישכון אור.
Just make it a 6 hour episode everything was skipped.
Can u explain, how is it possible that he is talking about the chazon ish and referring to a father and a son, with the father, buying the sun, a car, even though he was mechalel shabbos. Can he bring a credible source because forgive me for this comment I don’t think there were any cars when the chazon ish was alive
You either know little about cars or little about the Chazon Ish (or both) 😊
The story is brought down in SEFER MASEH ISH. Also Rav Gershon Edelstein ztz"l brings it down many times in his weekly sichos - he knew the story when it happened.
Sefer Maseh Ish Volume 1 P. 72
Once in a while i think about those days in Yeshiva Ateres in the 90's How my life would have looked if they didn't throw me out for wearing sneakers😂
He seems sincere and authentic, but...I don't get it. He does not explain the process he uses with the young Jews he treats. What is revolutionary about his approach? We don't know, because he does not explain. Also, what are his credentials? I am not saying you need an MSW or other psychology degree to help, but it makes me nervous when someone does not ground his practice in some kind of foundation. I mean, would you trust a rav to psokin for you if he didn't have smicha?
If you listened to the podcast you would understand that all of his guidance comes from his dealings with the kids first hand and how he realized that the world didn’t fully understand what these kids are dealing with because they didn’t feel safe to open up, so he took that approach to teach the parents so the kids can have the full effect - a person to trust and a home to return to - which is the most important part.
The best training is what you see first hand. Not what is written in a book or taught in a classroom.
@@hananbenariliveconcert Oy. Why do you assume I did not listen to the podcast? Because I offered a criticism of it? I listened to it, which is why I felt it was "off" in some way. Everybody knows that troubled kids and troubled adults are troubled because they do not feel loved or seen or appreciated for who they are. But I felt that his success stories seemed too pat, too linear, and life does not work that way. And for individuals who have felt unloved their whole lives, it is not going to be easy for them to believe they are loved. So I wanted to know the specifics - how did he make them feel loved, and most importantly, how did he help them continue to feel loved even after they left his place. I felt Momo and Nachi could have pushed him harder here, so we can learn more about his method and practice.
@@roblebo905the keyword you are looking for - and missing in this podcast is 'structure'.
All HSH members had to get a 'job' and obey to the house 'rules and schedule'.
I've had the privilege to place some of those kids into the workforce. Which was one of conditions prior to moving in.
the results I've witnessed was amazing.
@@roblebo905 very delicate subject. As you can see from other replies it is very easy for people to misinterpret and misunderstand Avi’s methodology. All that I would say is that if you are in the Parsha he is THE ADDRESS and he can send you a PDF with Hamlatzos from virtually every Godol in our generation.
@@msfuerst1 Thanks for your reply but I feel like everyone else is either seeing something that I am not seeing or else I am asking basic questions that for some reason no one wants to address. Did I miss something about where he talks about his methodology? As for the hamlatzos from the gedolim, this makes me even more confused, as what are the hamlatzos for? I can understand them vouching for his midos, but for anything else, it seems outside the scope of their expertise. It's like giving hamlatzos for a medication. Ok, but I would rather hear from a pharmacist or the FDA than my rebbe. I will listen to this again because it seems like I heard a different podcast than everyone else on here...
Avi, a great slonimer chossid