Latest Talks Podcast - Ep #28 | Topics: Parents Struggling With Children | Kesher Nafshi Shabbasim.

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ความคิดเห็น • 87

  • @ShloimeEhrlich
    @ShloimeEhrlich ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Reb Gedalye Miller Shlita
    Is a true Tzadik a hero in klal Yisrael..
    Thank you Latest Talks for hosting this important and much needed topic..

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes yes, and you're definitely welcome Shlome!
      Keep on doing good for the Klal.

  • @anonymous-io6zg
    @anonymous-io6zg ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just finished the episode....!
    A must watch for every parent, grandparent..child!
    Hatzlocha & brucha
    in bringing unity and love between parent & child...!!!

  • @moishy_f
    @moishy_f ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow amazing episode! I enjoyed this the most by far!

  • @Bentzysolomon
    @Bentzysolomon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏 Thanks for the education. I’m proud to become a monthly sponsor.

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're definitely welcome! Tizka L'Mitzvos. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @aarongoldring6831
    @aarongoldring6831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very heart warming what a אמתדיגע איד this was definitely my favorite episode GUYS keep up your good work

  • @Saniweiss
    @Saniweiss ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow wow wow amazing amazing keep up the great work

  • @ratzfert
    @ratzfert ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All it takes is one sentence I love you unconditionally.
    Hashem put love first before orthodoxy.

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍

    • @ratzfert
      @ratzfert ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @36:25

    • @surikatz123
      @surikatz123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      a healthy parent raises a child with a balance of Chesed and Gevurah. if a parent raises a child with compassion and truly caring for their child, their child will feel it. we are partners with Hashem. May He bless us all with healthy children.

    • @Tali5899
      @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unconditional love.That's highly insincere usually and improbable.It's just not the way we humans operate.And kids are not stupid,they sniff it out.

  • @yitzchokroth6168
    @yitzchokroth6168 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow it's a beautiful episode! Keep it coming!

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Will do iyh! 🙏

  • @asherfeldman1689
    @asherfeldman1689 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    best episode so far

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

    • @shrags1
      @shrags1 ปีที่แล้ว

      וועלכע פרשה האט מען דעס ריקארדעט?

  • @melechfrank
    @melechfrank ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow thank you so much for bringing this to the world Keep It Coming guys

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mottypaneth2827
    @mottypaneth2827 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow we need more

  • @josephkwadrat4310
    @josephkwadrat4310 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No words, I’m completely blown away.
    Keep up your good work.

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @eigudr6712
    @eigudr6712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When are you bringing up Ari Samet from Monsey?
    Wouldn’t be a bad idea to relate with his talent of giving אויסגעהאלטענע entertainment

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Bez"h, if he'll be willing to.

  • @shmillyperl2829
    @shmillyperl2829 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so so much!!
    Side question, what can be done beforehand it shouldn't get to this מצב?
    For parents, and for children...

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not sure if it's in our hands, but reach out to the professionals for clarity.
      You're welcome 🙏

    • @shrags1
      @shrags1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You had the expert on for an hour and a half... The answer is it's not always a matter of prevention, some kids and adults do leave and don't return as much as conventional wisdom would like you to believe otherwise.
      This list isn't definitive but off the top of my head: 1) more love and affection without any judgement no matter the circumstances.
      2) improve secular education and make college a viable option for boys and girls so kids who aren't particularly interested in graduating as מורי הוראות should also have what to look forward to...
      3) stop denying sexual abuse exists and protect victims not abusers, and publicly bash the acts, the people who commit them
      4) destigmatize mental health early on and perhaps incorporate it into the curriculum so kids who might go on to engage in narcotics or other dark paths should be fully aware that they're not alone.
      5) maybe lessen the rigidity of religious fundamentalism and literalism and allow chasidis to go back to its roots which there's no denying that the baal shem tov had no intention of creating post war ghettos and trauma as well as extremists ideology that is so pervasive today unfortunately.
      7) allow questioning, don't silence it, start having some accountability and not be on the defense all the time, and if you think it is allowed, allow more.
      Those are some of my suggestions. -a non expert

    • @Gedalia98
      @Gedalia98 ปีที่แล้ว

      Attachment, is the key spend time with your children not money on your children

  • @tzvi3660
    @tzvi3660 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good interviewee

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes yes bh, thanks 🙏

  • @shmayazicherman9158
    @shmayazicherman9158 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing episode❤

  • @sternproductions1
    @sternproductions1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    הייליג הייליג הייליג ❤❤❤

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank You R' Don! #GoodPeople

  • @ratzfert
    @ratzfert ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you please break down your videos by the minute based on the subjects so it's easier to scroll or go back if you want to listen again?! Thanks much would be a bonus for your videos on podcast

  • @anonymous-io6zg
    @anonymous-io6zg ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Y.Y. Jacobson needs to be talking bechlal in the chassidish circles. He is MASSIVE and brilliant. Time to stop the "chassidish only" and then use him when the tzoros come. We need to invite into the frum community anyone capable of helping...not worry if they will corrupt you with their differences. We are all one. We need each other. We are a salad of different colors...each color needed to make the salad taste great!!!

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He actually does

    • @surikatz123
      @surikatz123 ปีที่แล้ว

      he's been speaking for a long time.

    • @Tali5899
      @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      anonymous.
      Y.Y.Jacobson IS chassidish.
      Chabad qualifies.

    • @surikatz123
      @surikatz123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tali5899 actually, Chabad follows the ways of the founder of Chasidim way more than other Chassidishe sects.

    • @Tali5899
      @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@surikatz123
      I hear you.
      And I know that.
      A lot of chassidish ppl think it's the Polish/Hungarian etc Chassidish garb that makes someone 'chassidish'.
      And they are correct,to a point.
      Chabad have their own style that some members of some other sects don't specially realise is Chassidish.
      It was a tongue in cheek comment.

  • @ttee6990
    @ttee6990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not everyone knows takes in their divorced child to live with them at home either.

  • @thedislikebutton7389
    @thedislikebutton7389 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    געוואאאאאלדיגגג!!!!!!

  • @Nana-hi1fk
    @Nana-hi1fk ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you all habibi 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @lulmul516
    @lulmul516 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An interesting thing
    Anyone going off is in pain
    Can't anyone go off without pain?
    And doesn't everyone have pain that they can give as the cause of going off
    It sounds all nice
    But makes no rational

  • @LD-xr4gv
    @LD-xr4gv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    קענסט אפשר ברענגען א לינק צו די פרי הארץ וואס ער זאגט?

    • @Gedalia98
      @Gedalia98 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Look it up, Parhas Sovtim in Pri Huuretz

  • @shrags1
    @shrags1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If everyone speaks and understands English why the need for Yiddish speakers? You're saying everyone speaks and understands a perfect English...

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      There's millions of English podcasts out there, the idea here is to cater for the Yiddish speaking audience.

    • @shrags1
      @shrags1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LatestTalks I'm responding to a point je made about his audience at the events. Not this show...

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shrags1 Ah...
      I think he said it on the podcast, that Mama Lushen is much easier to comprehend.

    • @shrags1
      @shrags1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LatestTalks ya think?

  • @unbelvbl
    @unbelvbl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😢

  • @Hershy_18
    @Hershy_18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @11:27 the over talking / interrupting is annoying

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're right, but it's annoying for 2 seconds out of 1½ hours.

  • @gardenstate235
    @gardenstate235 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    0:43 וואס איך פארשטיי נישט איז, איינער וואס וויל קויפן א הויז פאר די ביליגסטע פרייז גייט צו חיים, איינער וואס וויל פארקויפן פאר די העכסטע פרייז גייט אויך צו חיים, וואס איז מיט די געלט אינצווישן 🤔 עפעס שטימט נישט דא 🤪

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      צוויי אנדערע מארקעטס

    • @music11211
      @music11211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      קאל חיים

  • @ttee6990
    @ttee6990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't think it's fair to say a blanket statement that it's the best thing to keep your child home. Every situation is different. There's no comparison between one case and another. And when it comes to shmiras shabbos kashrus there is a difference. Besides a person going thru divorce isn't related to the same issues. It's irresponsible to put all of the different types of issues and make a blanket statement. Not every parent is able to keep a child like this at home.

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's why Kesher Nafshi was born, to help you and guide you through.

    • @joekay3150
      @joekay3150 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All he was saying was don’t throw ure kid out . Of course every circumstance is different ie divorce etc..

    • @Tali5899
      @Tali5899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can anyone tell me why we never hear from the kids themselves why/what's causing them to leave the straight and narrow? Those kids know very well what's wrong,why don't we ask them then change what we are doing? We seem to have become great at building hospitals under bridges....

    • @mayerkatz2836
      @mayerkatz2836 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Boundaries is always a must

  • @sheilarodriguez2451
    @sheilarodriguez2451 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙂 ᴘʀᴏᴍᴏsᴍ

  • @yf1954
    @yf1954 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a bunch of nonsense. He dismisses all atheism as "being hurt". The guy is clueless

    • @LatestTalks
      @LatestTalks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you specify?

    • @yf1954
      @yf1954 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People leave the community for many different reasons. Not all are bad, not all are good.
      Some are hurt in various ways by family and clergy, some come from dysfunctional families, some were abused in many ways and some simply are too smart for religious belief.
      The idea that there are no atheists is so stupidly bigoted that it has no words.
      I don't expect him to know and understand everything or be able to answer every religious paradox, but if you call yourself an expert, you should at least have the knowledge and understanding that not everything you believe is absolutely correct.
      Religion is a faith based system and not everyone believes in it.

    • @yf1954
      @yf1954 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Also, the way he refers to children who leave the community, almost as if we're dealing with cancer patients: "נעבעך פארמישט אין די פרשה" etc....
      So your kid doesn't wanna be part of the same club as you. I understand that people don't like it and it really pains them, but come on, everyone is entitled to have they own choices in life.

    • @tzvi3660
      @tzvi3660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yf1954 cut the crap, you also believe in God

    • @yf1954
      @yf1954 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tzvi3660 I didn't speak about myself and I have no idea what this has to do with anything I mentioned. So please stick to the topic.