Kyra From OkBaby DID NOT SAY WHAT SHE SAID!? HOLY MOLY!

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  • @SoniaRamirez05
    @SoniaRamirez05 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    “I can not believe what’s coming out of this women’s forehead”🤣🤣🤣💀 I was laughing so hard 😂😭

  • @user-jw3sn1sg6p
    @user-jw3sn1sg6p ปีที่แล้ว +497

    Would she still agree with her statement if it were to happen to one of her daughters? Can you imagine telling your daughter that? 😢

    • @_ash54
      @_ash54 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I was just about to comment this.
      Imagine one of her kids coming to her and telling her that they were taken advantage of and she’s just like “you’re just crying wolf. You were probably all over him and lead him on” 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @user-jw3sn1sg6p
      @user-jw3sn1sg6p ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@_ash54 exactly! Those poor children to grow up being taught that mentality. What is also so sad is this is a WOMAN saying this! Maybe it was without even thinking BUT excuse me what?!?

    • @ivymarie.
      @ivymarie. ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's emotional abuse..

    • @madim9734
      @madim9734 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      literally. and sometimes people who are sa-ed don’t even drink more than 1 drink… but something is slipped in that drink to make them blackout… so ignorant.

    • @krickster82
      @krickster82 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Kid: "mom, someone took advantage of me after a night drinking."
      Kyra: "did you give him the signs and touch his ___ like 50 times and then black out? Why are you so dumb, it is your own fault."
      She can completely and fully eff the eff off!

  • @brieshaefer4828
    @brieshaefer4828 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    The irony that Kyra thinks shes knows what consent is while she uses her children online without their consent

    • @helloworld7944
      @helloworld7944 ปีที่แล้ว

      literally. When her kids grow up and say they didnt consent bc they were kids shed be like “well you said it was ok when you were 2!!”

  • @sofiaf2763
    @sofiaf2763 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    I think a compilation of kyra being a red flag is an amazing idea! Maybe Oscar would even see it and wake up

    • @JeonLife93
      @JeonLife93 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes! Josh please make that video!

    • @SideCharacter12303
      @SideCharacter12303 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg yes!!
      I don’t know if Oscar would see it, it would be a plus if he did but it would be super entertaining at the very least 😂 maybe Kyra would see it and sort herself out!! Wishful thinking, I know

    • @kyla2423
      @kyla2423 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Great idea. Not just for a Oscar, but everyone who struggle to see manipulation in their partners!

    • @jordiflower
      @jordiflower ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES

    • @lucillerenaud8114
      @lucillerenaud8114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If I could like this comment twice I'd do it.

  • @peachypenny472
    @peachypenny472 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    When I was 18, my older sister took me to Cabos San Lucas and I blacked out. The waiter followed me into the bathroom and R’ed me. I told my sister the next day and she said, “well I shouldn’t have been flirting with him”
    Exactly what Kyra said now watching this, hearing Josh defend the girls makes me feel defended and makes me feel validated that, that was wrong. Thank you so much for this video Josh! I needed to hear this. 🙏🏼💕

    • @Sunnyside55
      @Sunnyside55 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's so terrible from your own sister! I'm so so so sorry you had to go through that. ❤️

    • @Sofiabr1
      @Sofiabr1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      please, please, please DO NOT listen to yr sister, this experience is already horrible and hard enough on its own, but please don’t tell yrself the same thing as ur sister. You are valid, yr emotions are valid, i hope yr doing well now. ❤

    • @ashleysmith9660
      @ashleysmith9660 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Im so sorry you went through this. Your own sister saying that is so fucked up! It was NOT your fault. My heart breaks reading this 💔

    • @GonkBoy66
      @GonkBoy66 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so sorry your own sister said that you! That is truly awful and it was NOT your fault! 💜✨💜

    • @ThisIsLindsayWalden
      @ThisIsLindsayWalden ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nothing was your fault I’m glad this is helping but do not believe what your sister says

  • @lbocc809
    @lbocc809 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I find it interesting that kyra made fun of Oscar for hanging out with his mom… seems like she’s projecting her insecurities of having a bad relationship with her mom onto him. Having a great relationship and even friendship with your mom as an adult is an awesome thing. She should have been happy for him.

  • @CharletteG
    @CharletteG ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Hispanics are very family oriented so yeah Kyra being with your mommy on your birthday is happiness

    • @kaykay2622
      @kaykay2622 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Her treating him like crap over seeing his family pissed me off. Family is everything to me.

  • @emilyjoan2844
    @emilyjoan2844 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    “SIGNS DO NOT EQUAL CONSENT” thank you!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
    You should put that on a shirt I would buy it in every color and size

  • @annmarieries8672
    @annmarieries8672 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Josh, she wants to open a daycare!!! How can Utah allow this when she is stating this craziness? She has to be stopped!

  • @lorna5285
    @lorna5285 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    It does concern me that this is what she’s gonna teach her daughters but it terrifies me that this is what she’s gonna teach her son…

    • @BellaBella284
      @BellaBella284 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      1 million percent this!

    • @alexisstrother
      @alexisstrother ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a mother of 3 boys… hard agree

    • @CalmInTheMidstOfChaos
      @CalmInTheMidstOfChaos ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She literally posted a video where AURA said she doesn't like something and she looks at her and says "I think you're a liar, I think you make things up" 🥴

  • @lilevex7861
    @lilevex7861 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Kyra being so jealous Oscar has a close relationship with his mom that she never had with her own😬

  • @kyleedoucet4085
    @kyleedoucet4085 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    Lowkey want more Oscar and Hannah content

    • @kaykay2622
      @kaykay2622 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I know! They were so cute together. She is way more beautiful then Kyra.

    • @livinglifeforward4560
      @livinglifeforward4560 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hoscar!

    • @Sara-og5xe
      @Sara-og5xe ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​@@kaykay2622 Anyone is more beautiful than Kyra 🤣

    • @nicolekalasuva9812
      @nicolekalasuva9812 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      But Kyra isn’t it even pretty like AT ALL I don’t even know how she got Oscar to begin with he’s out of her league looks wise

    • @abhisangel
      @abhisangel ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kaykay2622 exactly what I was thinking! Hannah is so gorgeous and I’ve always thought Oscar was way too handsome for Kyra. Normally I wouldn’t say something like that, I know it sounds shallow but knowing what we know about Kyra, I think I’ll make an exception this time!

  • @ThisIsLindsayWalden
    @ThisIsLindsayWalden ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Wow she’s literally blaming the victim 😢

  • @bootsnmascara9038
    @bootsnmascara9038 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "Can't believe what's coming out of this woman's forehead"
    😂😂 that is the best 🔥burn🔥

  • @callyjosephine1118
    @callyjosephine1118 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    She’s constantly disrespecting him. It’s so hard to watch. Poor Oscar.

    • @MarlanaPolis
      @MarlanaPolis ปีที่แล้ว

      Oscar is a total catch and she’s a POS lol. She is disrespectful and childish. It wasn’t cute in middle school and it’s still not cute now, grow up

    • @cass12234
      @cass12234 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      And he does nothing but respect her when she doesn't deserve it

    • @ivymarie.
      @ivymarie. ปีที่แล้ว

      Yasss!!!!!

    • @stephanieburgess8217
      @stephanieburgess8217 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oscar needs to file for full custody.

  • @Msyn318
    @Msyn318 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    If i found these videos of my mother on the internet I would be mortified.

  • @alexisreads
    @alexisreads ปีที่แล้ว +83

    DRUNK. PEOPLE. CANNOT. CONSENT. If a woman is drunk, it doesn’t matter if she’s all over a guy, it’s the guy’s responsibility to exercise respect and restraint. Not take advantage of her. My dog has more restraint than that.

    • @Momtingz
      @Momtingz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m sorry no. It’s not the guys job to know if a girl is drunk or not. It’s called taking responsibility for your own actions. If you get to a point where you get wasted and all over guys maybe don’t drink.

    • @abbyhoneywaffles
      @abbyhoneywaffles ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Momtings What an insensitive pos you are. You're exactly why this mindset of "well how much did you have to drink, what were you wearing" will continue on. How about just don't have sex with a person who's falling down drunk & doesn't even know what they're doing? It's not that difficult. & your username has "mom" in it, yikes, hope you don't raise girls who think it's their fault if God forbid they experience something like that or a son who thinks it's fine to do something like that!

    • @Momtingz
      @Momtingz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@abbyhoneywaffles I never once made the comment of well how much did you drink insinuating someone deserves assault from drinking. My comment is it should never be the guys or anyone else’s for that matter to stop you from hooking up with anyone when you’re drunk. Take care of yourself and your own actions.
      That’s like saying oh I’m going to leave my car door open with keys in it but it’s everyone else’s responsibility to not take my car. It’s common sense.

    • @Momtingz
      @Momtingz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@abbyhoneywaffles also her statement is drunk people cannot consent is what I was replying to. So any guy that is drunk and a girl has sex with them means SA??? People are idiots

    • @abbyhoneywaffles
      @abbyhoneywaffles ปีที่แล้ว

      @Momtings How exactly is it not the guy's responsibility? He holds no responsibility in the decision he makes on who he has sex with & when? Like guys are just mindless robots who must have sex with whatever is available in front of them & hold no accountability for it? That's ridiculous & gross.

  • @MariaGonzalez-ok5zy
    @MariaGonzalez-ok5zy ปีที่แล้ว +65

    When I seen Hannah in his vlog, I thought of you instantly and wondered what your thoughts were and you definitely didn’t disappoint 😂

  • @Ari-wc7el
    @Ari-wc7el ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “ I can’t believe what’s coming out of her forehead “ 😂😂😂

  • @makennasund8461
    @makennasund8461 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Not only did Oscar not want cats…I believe he’s actually allergic to cats.

    • @jjslivia40
      @jjslivia40 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Right & it was her plan to get rid of him. So she didn't care if he approved or not. Crazy!!

    • @pamelacunningham7668
      @pamelacunningham7668 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@jjslivia40EXACTLY!! She wanted him to get mad and leave her so she wasn't the bad guy! Unfortunately Hannah was with her on that!

  • @savannahlauren2
    @savannahlauren2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    If you are drunk enough to black out… I don’t care how much she seemed into it, at that point she did not have to mental capacity to consent and the guy should have stopped, noticed her inebriated state and stopped. Maybe gotten her some water and a blanket to sleep it off. By herself.

    • @raerae15xo
      @raerae15xo ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How do you know when someone’s black out drunk. I never know when my friends are black out drunk. However I don’t agree with Kira either

    • @savannahlauren2
      @savannahlauren2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@raerae15xo that’s where it gets tricky. If someone has been drinking all night it’s probably better to assume they don’t have all their faculties about them and not continue. If you can’t tell if they are black out drunk you shouldn’t be going any further, it should be pretty clear. If someone is drunk they cannot properly consent.
      Edit- an incorrect word

    • @allymarkwell891
      @allymarkwell891 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's tough because you can't usually tell when someone is "black out drunk" and honestly, girls still want drunk sex. So just saying don't sleep with them if they have been drinking a lot doesn't really work either.

    • @savannahlauren2
      @savannahlauren2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@allymarkwell891 actually it does work. It’s pretty simple, if you notice someone is not sober enough to make good decisions…. Don’t continue. It’s as simple as that. Where it gets tricky is when everyone is too drunk and no one is making good decisions… but if you are able to tell “this person is drunk and probably cannot consent” then you most definitely should stop and it’s actually pretty simple.

    • @savannahlauren2
      @savannahlauren2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@allymarkwell891 yes, girls want drunk sex but just because they want it when they are drunk doesn’t mean they will in the morning. Better to just not engage if you aren’t sure.

  • @hannahl3891
    @hannahl3891 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Is kyra making fun of Oscar wanting to see his family cause she doesn’t have family that wants to be around her? I would totally believe that.

  • @Mini_EclipseJuly16
    @Mini_EclipseJuly16 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    This is exactly why Oscar needs to take her to court. I can’t imagine if something like that happened to her daughters or son & she says “well it’s your fault” 😳😳

    • @2306lipex
      @2306lipex ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love Oscar and I support him but he doesn't have a backbone. He still looks for validation in her. I doubt he would ever take her to court BUT he definitely should!

    • @pamelacunningham7668
      @pamelacunningham7668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't trust that the courts would see in his favor. Therefore she would punish him to no end!

  • @MastermindElizabeth
    @MastermindElizabeth ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Male or Female, it does not matter if you are drunk or sober. It is never okay for another person to sexually assault you. Saying you deserved it or you were asking for it says more about the person than the victim. I was sexually assaulted from age 5 to 13. It's never a person's fault. No matter what you wear, drink, drugs, dance, or the words you speak. A monster is a monster. they did it, not you.

  • @kathleenwatson6933
    @kathleenwatson6933 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Kira is such a “pick me girl”.

    • @racheld6001
      @racheld6001 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly! She needs male validation to feel worthy. The Internalized misogyny is just oozing from her.

  • @Steppedupmom93
    @Steppedupmom93 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’m so glad Oscar is doing his thing! Also, Hannah looks and seems like such a sweet wonderful woman, even if they are just friends it’s cool to see Oscar and her hanging out.

  • @Ecox51719
    @Ecox51719 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I enjoy drunk sex, but I'm also a consenting adult, married, and I hardly ever drink.

    • @sarahbornhorst7072
      @sarahbornhorst7072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I feel like the first time having sex should never be when you are drunk. It needs to be talked about sober first

    • @Ecox51719
      @Ecox51719 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sarahbornhorst7072 oh 100% should never make that huge decision, when your mind is altered by any substance.

  • @JacquelineCornejo
    @JacquelineCornejo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    6:11 “I cannot believe what is coming out of this woman’s forehead” 💀😂😂

  • @ayceleijae
    @ayceleijae ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ‘I can’t believe what is coming out of this woman’s forehead’ ahhhhahahaha omg that made me laugh 😂

  • @dtkells5920
    @dtkells5920 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Wow, I’m disgusted! I’ve seen a similar situation in my life. If the girl is drunk to the point of blacking out, how can she consent? Kyra sucks and this should have cancelled her. She’s raising 3 girls with these screwed up mentality, and a son who could end up thinking that this is okay? Wtf.

    • @Maiju86
      @Maiju86 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly! What the heck Kyra?! 🤯

    • @Em22-wtf
      @Em22-wtf ปีที่แล้ว

      She said black out.... Not pass out or unconscious. Big difference. As much I can't stand her, Josh never drank and he's not understanding what she's saying. I've been completely blacked out, but friends didn't even know I was that wasted and I've done things where they'll say You don't REMEMBER??! And I don't. At all. And I was dancing on the bar (fully clothed) at a friend's bar, doing coyote ugly nonsense, lol, I'm glad I DON'T remember because I'd never have done it sober. I can absolutely understand what she's saying and I hate that, lol but I've done stupid things I don't remember and KNOW I wouldn't have done it was I not drinking. THAT is a black out. And the guy may not even KNOW she's that wasted. Some women hide it well. My very very close friends would know I've had a few, but rarely would they know I was THAT bad, I was basically the same if I had 2 drinks or 4. Lol, my limit these days is 2. 😉😁

  • @theprojectmom
    @theprojectmom ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Josh makes you feel like family. I swear. ❤ I’m glad Josh is educating people.

  • @brandy4177
    @brandy4177 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    The scary part is she is raising kids!!! So when her girls are grown and they black out/pass out drunk she will be ok with them being SA?

    • @jessicajessica8690
      @jessicajessica8690 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely not.... She'll use it to exploit their trauma on the internet!

  • @marissataylorproductions2425
    @marissataylorproductions2425 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    HOW has she not been cancelled over this???? “You weren’t assaulted unless you said no” I’m enraged, she has a young son and THREE daughters, dear God I hope Oscar teaches them better… and she’s talking about people in her life who have “cried wolf” like what a stand up friend, of course she’s the type of person to defend men instead of supporting her friends, why am I even surprised… not even 5 minutes in I’m just so pissed I had to pause & type this out

  • @hayleyj.
    @hayleyj. ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “The hills are alive with the sound of foreheads” 😂😂

  • @em_chris
    @em_chris ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you, Josh. I’ve learned so much from you. Not just on the family channels but being a good parent in general. We appreciate you!!

  • @TheIndigo1child
    @TheIndigo1child ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm sorry but I think many people, including Josh are misunderstanding what "blacked out" means. As someone who was with a bad alcoholic for years, blacked out does not mean passed out at all. It simply means loss of memory retention. My ex would blackout all the time and there was no way to know they were blacking out or not. They were coherent and verbal, talking,laughing etc. but talking the next day they had no memory of certain periods of time. I'm sure that's what she meant. Not passed out. Blacked out drunk is not unconscious.

    • @sadiecooper4477
      @sadiecooper4477 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s not the same at all.

    • @TheIndigo1child
      @TheIndigo1child ปีที่แล้ว

      @Malika Rainey If having sex with someone who is intoxicated equals r@pe then 90% of people on the planet. Male and female are r@pists. Including basically every college student. If someone is sober and sleeps with someone who is clearly extremely intoxicated then you could make a case but two drunk people having messy drunk sex does not equal assault to me unless they are both guilty. Why isn't she guilty of assault for sleeping with the drunk guy?

    • @nickialaskanyogi
      @nickialaskanyogi ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, I’ve known people who’ve been blacked out drunk walking around sloppy as hell, totally unaware of their actions and don’t remember shit.

  • @2306lipex
    @2306lipex ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Kyra is literally so disgusting. The fact that she has a following blows my fucking mind. She exploits her children but keeps her life private and personal.. what kind of mother would do that? Preston is not here to stay.. he will leave and Kyra is going to end up alone. She doesn't see that yet but she will.

  • @brooklynmassey2502
    @brooklynmassey2502 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oh wow this showed so much of kyras true colours 😮

  • @heatherlent331
    @heatherlent331 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Blackout is not passed out. Blackout is when you can’t remember parts of the night because of alcohol.

  • @krisdawnsimpson-voss
    @krisdawnsimpson-voss ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Literally I only watch your content. Proud of how far you’ve come.

  • @sadie1999
    @sadie1999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “I can’t believe what is coming out of this woman’s forehead” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 always the forehead jokes lmao

  • @AZTEC-TWOSTEP
    @AZTEC-TWOSTEP ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is a mother with 3 DAUGHTERS! OMG!

  • @charlottesinclair9354
    @charlottesinclair9354 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I am terrified for her kids' futures. Her girls are going to think that if this happens to them it was their fault, and her son is going to grow up thinking that consent is an implied, one-off thing that then makes it fine to do whatever you want. I really hope Oscar is working to promote better values for the kids

  • @methegirls7079
    @methegirls7079 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Josh…Being unconscious/passing out and blacking out are two different things. You can be conscious and “blacked out”. This is why, I think, drinking to this level is just unnecessary. Because how is one to know if someone is blacked out? Everything gets real messy.

    • @marieclark9925
      @marieclark9925 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This! Everyone is missing the difference between blacked out drunk and passed out drunk

    • @ashleylancaster1562
      @ashleylancaster1562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow I didn’t know this! 😮

    • @lovejennanicole
      @lovejennanicole ปีที่แล้ว +3

      be for real, you can absolutely tell when someone is black out drunk, there are signs that a person is too drunk to make rational decisions.

    • @BhappyD
      @BhappyD ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, I think there needs to be more accountability on both sides. Getting blackout drunk is a choice (obviously only when it is done on ones own terms), and it’s not a good one. That bad choice then brings additional repercussions.
      While I NEVER agree that some should be r***d, and that lack of consent is r***, getting blackout drunk and telling a guy yes, and then not remembering what happened in the morning and saying you were r***d when in reality you can’t remeber telling that person you wanted to have sex, isn’t okay to me, especially when the guy was also drunk, which is most often the case. I don’t agree with a guys life being destroyed and him being labeled a rapist for the rest of his life is right in that kind of a scenario. I just don’t.
      It’s a completely different story if you never actually gave consent though.
      Additionally, you can’t always tell when someone is blackout drunk. Some people seem relatively fine and normal, carrying on with normal conversation and seem to be present, when in reality they are so drunk that they won’t remember a single thing the next day. Some people just handle intoxication better than others when it comes to how their body presents that intoxication outwardly and behaviorally.
      Obviously if it’s really obvious that someone is that drunk, that’s just a flat out no, as at that point it is clear that that person is not even able to consent. But what about the times when that’s not obvious and the person seems relatively fine and cognizant, acting in a way that someone would reasonably think consent was possible? How is it the man’s fault in that situation if the girl gave consent and seemed alert and aware enough to make that decision, when in reality she was blackout drunk and then doesn’t remember the next day? Guys aren’t mind readers or psychics, even more so when they are also drunk themselves. How does all of that blame shift to the man and make him a rapist in that scenario?
      At the end of the day, more accountability needs to be taken for bad choices, and that goes for men and women. But these days, women seem to be treated as if our bad choices mean nothing and don’t matter, and that we are mindless creatures with no capacity to act voluntarily or make our own decisions. All of that responsibility is shifted onto the man, and it’s all about his bad choices, when in reality it’s a mixture of both in many of these situations (obviously not all, r*** still very much happens and should be treated seriously).
      Women need to start stepping up and making better choices for themselves, and stop putting all the blame on men for bad outcomes. When you chose to get yourself blackout drunk, you are making the choice to not have any recollection of the things that happened to you or the things that you willingly agreed to during that period of time. The same goes for men.
      I don’t drink and never will. I’ve seen the devastation and evil that alcohol brings, and I make the choice to not have any part of it. Same goes for “casual” sex. Both of those things on their own are dangerous and reckless, but both of them combined is catastrophic. But they are both still choices, and people need to take accountability for that. It’s not at all difficult to not get yourself blackout drunk.
      It’s also not difficult to not sleep with any random person you meet. And it’s also not hard to not sleep with drunk people.
      The entire situation revolves around bad decisions on BOTH ends in so many cases. And the sooner we all recognize that and stop pretending that women have zero faults and can make any choice they want with the expectation for good outcomes, the sooner we can put an end to things like this happening.

    • @BhappyD
      @BhappyD ปีที่แล้ว

      Again, I do not condone r***. It is never okay when that is truly the case and consent was never given. But in our current society, men are being labeled and charged as r**ists for sleeping with a girl who actually did give consent, but later can’t remmeber giving that consent so claims it didn’t happen. At that point it’s his word against hers, and the default is believing the woman in so many cases. I don’t agree with that. I just don’t.

  • @AndiSchneider
    @AndiSchneider ปีที่แล้ว +61

    As a survivor of SA her statement infuriated me. What kind of person thinks it’s okay to continue to have wed with someone when they are passed out. No means no and silence doesn’t mean yes. If that happened to her daughter would she tell her that it was her fault or she shouldn’t feel violated because she made out before she passed out? I hope that Oscar has the sense to teach his girls what’s right. I just can’t believe she said that. She is just not a good human.

    • @elizabethhood7209
      @elizabethhood7209 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m also a survivor and just wanted to say I’m sorry that happened to you. What she is saying is disgusting.

    • @leah_amy
      @leah_amy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I’m so sorry, I was raped when an acquaintance KNEW I was doped on medication.. and couldn’t fight him off… despite saying no also. But even so if someone is incapacitated… due to drugs or alcohol.. it’s pretty low. In a relationship you should even have an understanding of what is acceptable when drinking or taking medication or any drug. Damn everyone should teach young people mutual respect and responsibility not this rubbish… so sorry for anyone who saw that and still has a lot of pain or trauma from their past..

    • @shannonbolton6005
      @shannonbolton6005 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree! Honestly TH-cam is at fault too… for giving this moron a platform!

  • @mckennarichards3890
    @mckennarichards3890 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    In the state I live in, if you are under the influence you cannot give consent so even if you say yes it's not consent.

    • @zayzay802
      @zayzay802 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup! Us too
      Qc

  • @pinklotus2443
    @pinklotus2443 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Blacking out is not passing out. The other person would not even know, ur still awake etc, u just don't remember it the next day.

  • @aprilmay5123
    @aprilmay5123 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I never called what happened to me the "R" word, because I blamed myself for getting so intoxicated. It took me over a decade to finally realize that it was not my fault. Shame on her.

    • @bipOlArPlusMe
      @bipOlArPlusMe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😢 she has no idea the damage she’s causing.

    • @mamacass7967
      @mamacass7967 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. I never called mine the r word for years because even though I did say no multiple times before, as it was happening I didn't say stop and I wasn't fighting him off.

    • @helloworld7944
      @helloworld7944 ปีที่แล้ว

      same. it took me 2ish years. And my mom blamed me

  • @LoLoLifeinFlorida
    @LoLoLifeinFlorida ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I'm obsessed with this emoji.. Need a home wrecker emoji for Kyra

    • @valentinaorange
      @valentinaorange ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂 she is probably makes money from her emoji 🙄🙈

    • @helenhellsbells3170
      @helenhellsbells3170 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you get it lol

  • @sarahkeller4360
    @sarahkeller4360 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “ I can’t believe what is coming out of this women’s forehead “ 😂😂😂😂

  • @kellyturner4571
    @kellyturner4571 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Josh, thanks for voicing your thoughts on consent. 👏🏻

  • @Funny_Muffler
    @Funny_Muffler ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Bro I’m SCREAMING along with you. I’m legit screaming “WHAT”. Especially if the man is sober and you black out? Oh my god kyra what? Saying this to a WOMAN WHO SHE ADMITS HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS HERSELF? AHHHHHH

  • @kayzzzasmr6612
    @kayzzzasmr6612 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I used to watch OKBaby cause I lived nearby them and I was also a young parent, but now that I think about it I watched for Oscar and the kids, Kyra always gave off weird vibes 😳

  • @ashesj6120
    @ashesj6120 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She has three young daughters. Wow. This is so eye-opening.

  • @DoctorJoanieTool
    @DoctorJoanieTool ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you SO MUCH for being vocal about what is SA. Anyone - male or female - who is unconscious - cannot give consent and if anyone assaults them that is what it is. jail. SA. I cannot believe anyone A especially a mother - would speak, let alone think this fallacy.

  • @mmeadows1014
    @mmeadows1014 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was a victim of this as a minor and I still have ptsd from it. There is NO consent if you’re not conscious! This is disgusting 😢

  • @Savehumanity85
    @Savehumanity85 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    The whole podcast was about telling Hannah what she did with Preston while Hannah was asleep in her house

    • @jennifer8115
      @jennifer8115 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      What she did with preston while hannah was babysitting

    • @Cantfindme2121
      @Cantfindme2121 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude I was saying the same thing in my head haha.

    • @Savehumanity85
      @Savehumanity85 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s a boyfriend stealer, she got Oscar the same way

  • @hayleymonroe7866
    @hayleymonroe7866 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Blacked out" just means that you don't remember what happened or some things that happened. It doesn't mean that the person is passed out unresponsive. They are still completely awake and seem cognizant. Like, I've said things that I don't remember saying or doing at all, but no one else would've been able to tell that I wouldn't remember it.

    • @stephanieburgess8217
      @stephanieburgess8217 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s obvious when someone is drunk. No excuses period!

  • @madisonrose1576
    @madisonrose1576 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Hannah is so much hotter than Kyra

    • @sandraabrahamsson6677
      @sandraabrahamsson6677 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes 👍🏻

    • @LMarie_
      @LMarie_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A duck vs. a Disney princess. No comparison.

    • @nicolekalasuva9812
      @nicolekalasuva9812 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LMarie_ the funny thing is that Kyra actually looks like some type of duck or bird 😂 she has a HUGE nose I call it a beak

  • @Sweetpete2889
    @Sweetpete2889 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg yes! Everything you said to her is 100% true thank you! Thank you for sticking up for women and anyone. OMG the more she speaks the more she needs to shut up.

  • @nicolehookano9050
    @nicolehookano9050 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow!!! WTF Kyra!! She needs some education on how consent works?!?!?! And I love how she talks about this subject like she is the law, like she is RIGHT!

    • @ems4915
      @ems4915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is always so confidently wrong😭

  • @DreamerLuna1995
    @DreamerLuna1995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you said, “shut your forehead” I lost it 😂

  • @priscilla6440
    @priscilla6440 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know what? I just realized josh is the only chanel I dont fast forward through the intro. I actually like how he changes it and the music he incorporates give good vibes.. most chanels dont switch up intros or evolve.. it should be appreciated honestly👌

  • @Hypnowise
    @Hypnowise ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Signs do not equal consent" - This needs to be understood more!

  • @gloria.
    @gloria. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kyra is kyrazy

  • @MydogTilly
    @MydogTilly ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She is so immature!

  • @e14eodell
    @e14eodell ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kyra and Jessandfam would be the best of friends. They act the same.

  • @caitlynnduggan1851
    @caitlynnduggan1851 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This infuriates me 🤬 Consent can be given and withdrawn at ANY TIME PERIOD! Does she NOT realize that consent is unable to be given if someone is underage or under the INFLUENCE!?!? Why do people not understand that they say if you're under the influence you aren't capable of consent?? Whether it is drugs or alcohol; it actually changes the way your brain processes things and effects decision making! I got so furious the other day at work because a mom came in with her teenage daughter and niece and was talking about a woman can't claim she was assaulted if she willingly goes to a hotel room with her boyfriend. I was about to correct her when her daughter popped in and saved the day to educate her on ongoing consent for either person.

  • @krystin0004
    @krystin0004 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Even if someone was giving consent for sex before blacking out, once they are so drunk that they black out, they are no longer in their right mind to give consent. That's SA. I really can't believe that as a woman, she would even be making this argument. That blows my mind.

    • @mmbkay0758
      @mmbkay0758 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can’t believe the women in these comments saying there’s a difference between being blacked out and unconscious 🤬

    • @mmbkay0758
      @mmbkay0758 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AshleyCamden physically maybe, but they’re BOTH forms of incapacitation and BOTH forms you’re unable to give consent or continue to give consent.

  • @curlyv3180
    @curlyv3180 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kyra is jealous bc she didn’t have a healthy relationship with her mom..she’s projecting

  • @allymarkwell891
    @allymarkwell891 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't believe I am going to say this because I don't want to be defending Kyra, but I can't help but wonder if she means "blackout" in the sense that the person does not remember the next morning, NOT that they are "passed out." Because personally, I use the term black out as in the person doesn't remember but they were still awake, talking, doing things, etc.

  • @TwinMama-jv3zb
    @TwinMama-jv3zb ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He is so much better than her. She is disgusting, especially towards him. I hope he finds an amazing woman who likes things he likes so he can be happy. I want her to be alone because I wouldn't wish her on any man.

  • @MicRami
    @MicRami ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My forehead feels attacked, LOL!

  • @ejfontana2748
    @ejfontana2748 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The way I clicked on the notification so fast 😂😂

  • @kawell2539
    @kawell2539 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “I can’t believe what is coming out of her forehead” I’m CACKLINGGGGG

  • @Oyimtalkingtoyou
    @Oyimtalkingtoyou ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blacked out is a completely different meaning to passed out. I don't like the video you're watching but the comments are not what you're saying

  • @donnamarie-
    @donnamarie- ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like it when you say your old fashioned as I am too! I cannot for the life of me imagine being a teen or early 20's right now with all this social media that's out there! I'm proud to be an 80's kid 😂😂 Her putting all this shit out there for her kids to see is beyond wild to me!! I really think these ppl don't truly believe that what's on the internet is.....FOREVER! And by the way, I'm still shook with yesterday video of your stalker! Stay safe and I hope justice will be served!

  • @Glambutfirstcoffee
    @Glambutfirstcoffee ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hannah is a nice girl! :) I think it is better for her not to date Oscar but someone far away from that crazy Kyra. She deserves it. You can see she is a great woman!

  • @aussiej
    @aussiej ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kyra does not understand consent in ANY form. 🤬

  • @sarahl4914
    @sarahl4914 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is it bad that whenever I see Kyra, I think she looks like one of the bad guys off the Wrong Turn movies…

  • @lilacgirl867
    @lilacgirl867 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    And she is raising children…way to say “I’m not a safe person to come to” without saying “I’m not a safe person to come to” 😢

  • @Gabiz-c5k
    @Gabiz-c5k ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Blacked out means loss of memory from drinking too much not passed unconscious. Men and women due crazy shit consensually that they don’t remember doing from drinking too much.

  • @abbyhoneywaffles
    @abbyhoneywaffles ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She really called him useless & worthless because he hung out with his mom on his BD like she's insufferable

  • @HerBusyHands
    @HerBusyHands ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think you’re confused about the term blacked out. You can be blacked out and still awake, just so intoxicated that you cannot remember anything after

  • @shelbykleismit5306
    @shelbykleismit5306 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She has zero clue of the real world

  • @pattywieder3268
    @pattywieder3268 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Josh...it sounds like you're using "blacked out" and "passed out" interchangeably. You can be blacked out drunk and still be wide awake, interacting, actively participating in things. "Blacked out" just means you don't form new memories during that time... So the next day it's like that period of time is "blacked out." So, although it's still scummy to sleep with a girl in that state what she said isn't AS bad as you're thinking.

  • @HeyItsKayJayBae
    @HeyItsKayJayBae ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oscars baby brother who’s a whole newborn:
    Josh: that kids like TWO 😂

  • @ItsyourgirlRoswell
    @ItsyourgirlRoswell ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Josh I have so much Respect for you. ❤️Thank you so much for being you!!

  • @greenqueen8323
    @greenqueen8323 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kyra is probably going to reach a dead end and will beg Oscar to take her back.

    • @jaime4890
      @jaime4890 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. Once she realizes she f’ed up she will come crawling back. Hopefully Oscar is in a good head space and wants nothing to do with her.

    • @pamelacunningham7668
      @pamelacunningham7668 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope she doesn't beg Oscar to take her back because I think with my whole heart he would. Even if he had someone else.

  • @scrollingfroggy
    @scrollingfroggy ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Doing this when someone is drunk is another example of INFORMED CONSENT!!!

  • @thedonzification
    @thedonzification ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do you not find it coincidental that Kyra, starts talking about and showing Preston a little in the vlogs, then Oscar puts Hannah in his. 😂 hmmm love the comeback Oscar

  • @Shoot4AlarmFire
    @Shoot4AlarmFire ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Consent is so much bigger a conversation than at least 95% of people realize! As you said, it is ongoing thing. You can give it and rescind it, you can give consent for one thing and not another, so on and so on. That said, someone who is inebriated in any way CAN'T consent! Psychology and neuroscience say that they are not cognizant enough, like a child unable to grasp consequences and the future. Even if you feel fine, even if you're not THAT drunk and you never pass out, still no. Even in a relationship, a committed, monogamous, consenting relationship, you cannot make the decision while drunk or high or anything else. It is ALWAYS r*pe, even if both parties verbalize consent. This needs to be talked about more! So many people, men and women and non-binary/genderfluid, have woken up sober and regretful, and did not know how to verbalize what had happened or why it felt wrong. Because no one ever told them or their partner what to do in a situation like that. It's so scary.

  • @livelovelaughx315
    @livelovelaughx315 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you get me everytime with the forehead comments lmfao

  • @priscilla6440
    @priscilla6440 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She belittles him

  • @HollieAndApollo
    @HollieAndApollo ปีที่แล้ว

    As a survivor of r*pe and SA myself, thank you for making this video!! 👏👏👏👏

  • @lilevex7861
    @lilevex7861 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omfg Kyra being so cringe in the footage of Oscar’s old bday video 🥲🥲🥲

  • @xoxDCMxox
    @xoxDCMxox ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She ended things to “find herself” just to get in another relationship? How dumb does she think everyone is?

  • @hannahortiz1629
    @hannahortiz1629 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my goodness now I feel so bad for her daughters 😭

  • @megan807
    @megan807 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Black out is not passed out. Just a side note.

  • @meganmcneil7677
    @meganmcneil7677 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yaaaaaay Kyras life is an absolute dumpster fire.