STORY TIME: HAVE YOU EVER CHEATED ON ME? | Confessing The Truth | The Red Hot Seat! |

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  • Tea is served! We’re on the red hot seat!
    It's story time and finally we confess the truth - Have you cheated on me?
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ความคิดเห็น • 665

  • @RegoDise
    @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    Hey Fam Bam,
    It was really tough filming this video. We shed some tears as we had to re-live those past experiences. Thankfully we got to shoot the video and shared our truth. 🥺💔
    Hopefully this will show that our relationship has never been perfect but we worked through it.
    We hope this will encourage many of you to always consider forgiveness to those who have done you wrong by cheating on you. That doesn’t mean you have to give them a second chance. Just forgive them for your sanity and peace sake.
    Much love. 🖤
    #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nthabindala
    @nthabindala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    This is so real. Thank you for removing the veil of perfection and showing the other side of being human. You didn't have to do this but you did and may we all learn what we need to from it.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nthabi Ndala It’s one of the ways that we can prove to the world that we’re not perfect but rather imperfectly perfect for one another. 👫🏽♥️
      Our love journey has not been laid with a rose petals. We’ve been through the fires 🔥 but God. 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @nyeletistarnn9390
      @nyeletistarnn9390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My cuz luv 💟 well said

    • @reececentre6265
      @reececentre6265 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whats real about this nonsense!?

    • @nthabindala
      @nthabindala ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reececentre6265 ask yourself in the mirror and leave me out of it. That’s a you problem

  • @ThandekaMalinga
    @ThandekaMalinga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I always say I'd never be with someone who cheated on me but as Pastor Steven Furtick once said "life has a way of challenging your concept of never." This was such a powerful video #regodise

    • @chroniclesandbeyond.1285
      @chroniclesandbeyond.1285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I remember this message so well heay

    • @ThandekaMalinga
      @ThandekaMalinga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chronicles and Beyond. Powerful stuff from him, as always!!!

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thandeka Malinga So powerful 🥺🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @thokongezile5259
      @thokongezile5259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would also like to check the message

    • @ThandekaMalinga
      @ThandekaMalinga 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelamokhabela175 I really don't remember the title of it 🙉 I'm so sorry, he just has so many good ones it's hard to keep track sometimes 😅

  • @THEKOENAS
    @THEKOENAS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Woah FamBam! You went there. Such an honest reflection and a must hear!
    Look, cheating really has the power to make or break any relationship.
    Some people come from it, stronger and more determined to make things work and others don’t. So the only difference between the two, is choice.
    Trust is a work in progress, but may you faith in one another, remain unwavering. May you have a childlike faith for each other and that’s what will keep you.
    May you continue to choose each other through and through. Thank you for sharing, you’re really allowing us to all reflect.
    #TheKoenas

    • @MissMK-d6p
      @MissMK-d6p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heyyy Bubah, You ready?
      Hello Gatorgang, I love you guys.

  • @melbabele6889
    @melbabele6889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I highly doubt that a cheater considers their significant others feelings when cheating 😞 in that moment, it’s all about them and their selfish reasons.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Melba Bele True...🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @keletsokgari5768
    @keletsokgari5768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    *Where there is forgiveness, there's hope for the future* 🤞🏾

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keletso Kgari Amen 🙏🏽🥺
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @maramsaer
    @maramsaer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm ipressed by how each of you is taking full ownership without blaming the other, well done and all the best guys. You are great.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Siyanda Sithole Thank you Siyanda 🥺 At the end of the day, the mirror never lies.
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @tshepangmashike4852
    @tshepangmashike4852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This video just emphasized this scripture: "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will." There's grace for every situation 🙌

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen 🙏🏽
      Well summarized Tshepang. 🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @rufaropraise1362
    @rufaropraise1362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Cheating 💔💔💔
    I have a very bad experience. My ex boyfriend and I dated for 3 years (2015-2018). The guy started cheating on me 2 months after we started dating and I really wanted to let him go because I hadn’t been attached to him much. He promised me he was going to change. He continued to cheat during the process and eventually I left Zimbabwe to go and study abroad and when I came back he told me we can’t be anymore only for me to find out that he had been having a relationship with some girl for months. I was so broken and I almost lost it because I gave him so many chances, stayed when everyone told me to leave but I held on to his promises and only for him to drop them just like that. It was so hard because I really believed this guy and as a person with a prominent position in church I didn’t think he would be that unfair. I think my biggest lesson was that, it doesn’t matter how much someone seems so spiritual, what is really important is having someone with a good character. The Bible says in John 17, you shall know them by their fruits. What is this fruit? Love, joy, peace, gentleness, loyalty, self-control... Doesn’t matter whether he is too religious or not. Their fruits matter!
    Thank you for this video. It blessed my evening 🥰🥰I love you both and God bless you...

    • @ma_ncube
      @ma_ncube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rufaro Mapungwana ❤️❤️

    • @unesisaksibanda3540
      @unesisaksibanda3540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for sharing 💗💗💗 . I really needed to hear this

    • @kaybermo
      @kaybermo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. Good character supersedes everything. Be careful of dudes in church.. especially those who claim to be “spiritual” or who appear to be very religious. Get a man who loves God and who respects you. Respect him too.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rufaro Mapungwana Amen 🙏🏽
      You’re welcome Rufaro ♥️ We hope our truth and your truth will encourage others to trust in God and place their relationship on Jesus 🙏🏽
      We love you too ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @S.Abbigael
      @S.Abbigael 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had a similar experience And I haven't moved on, I don't want to.... "5" years And he just left without looking back **

  • @manthobajudithrammutlanyan529
    @manthobajudithrammutlanyan529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    There’s so much perfection on TH-cam.. thank you for this❤️❤️ thank you for serving us with reality❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome 🙏🏽🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @blackwoman_015
    @blackwoman_015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Eish this topic though😔😔
    Lemme just say I lost a good man by cheating I still find it hard to forgive myself...never done it again never will 😟
    Now lemme watch...

    • @samukelisiwendlovu4507
      @samukelisiwendlovu4507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hope Lufuno forgive yourself sis, if you knew better you would have done better. Hope you find true love soon

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@samukelisiwendlovu4507 Thank you dear your words mean alot to me

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hope Lufuno We’re sorry to hear that Hope 🥺🖤 We hope you will/have forgiven yourself for it and have chosen to move on and embrace life. ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @thokongezile5259
      @thokongezile5259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same story with me

    • @wanderingcucamber7082
      @wanderingcucamber7082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Forgive yourself sis, you have healed a lot by acknowledging your past mistakes already ✅✅✅✅

  • @MrsD_2022
    @MrsD_2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the TRANSPARENCY & HONESTY

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏽♥️

  • @karabonhlengetwa1108
    @karabonhlengetwa1108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    We hit the "like" button before even watching 😀

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karabo Nhlengetwa Fam Bam! 🤗🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @nonhlanhlaposwa7491
      @nonhlanhlaposwa7491 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's me

  • @khanyisilem5948
    @khanyisilem5948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yhooo 😭😭 The maturity in this video 🙌🏽💜. Love does not keep records of wrongs. I'm glad that y'all kept it together cause y'all guys are giving us sooo much hope and confidence... And you'll are serving us the realities that even though we are Christians there will be short comings but when we go back to him(God) he gives maturity and wisdom on how to handle our pits... ❤

  • @wendyrampagane5799
    @wendyrampagane5799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Forgiving a cheating partner is easy when it happened when you were both young and at early stages of the r/shp not when you know you have built something concrete with a person bagithi......
    Anyway this video was so emotional and so worth watching fam bam.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wendy Rampagane We agree. During early stages it’s easier. As the relationship grows... it will definitely be much harder. 🥺🖤
      You’re welcome Wendy. ♥️
      #RegoDise#FamBam

  • @edunewsinmzansi
    @edunewsinmzansi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I like the wisdom God gave you in dealing with that challenge... You are an inspiration to many. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jane Matata Praise God 🙏🏽
      May God bless you too ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nwabisatimana4392
    @nwabisatimana4392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “Guilty as charged” I felt that 😩. One must consider themselves lucky if they were never cheated on whether physically or emotionally

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      nwabisa timana 🥺🙏🏽🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @lizetrichter1374
    @lizetrichter1374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Never say never whn it comes to cheating in the future.rather say with God's help

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      God richter Indeed 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @lizetrichter1374
      @lizetrichter1374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im from Namibia and and just started watching fam bam when the lockdown started which was on the 28 of March.the both of you are so interesting.so far i enjoy watching fam bam.Dise i love your teeth smile

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      God richter Thank you for your support 🙏🏽

    • @KMM178
      @KMM178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      God’s help 😂😂😂

  • @silindelegantsho6257
    @silindelegantsho6257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was honestly so educational. We learnt a lot from this. I am very thankful. Your videos are very fruitful. Thank you Regodise. 🙏❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Silindele Gee You’re welcome Silindele🤗♥️ All glory to God 🙌🏽
      We hope many will now know that we are not perfect but imperfectly perfect for one another. 👫🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @motshedusimojanaga8501
    @motshedusimojanaga8501 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your honesty and openess to one another. You really got a good foundation. God bless you more ❤

  • @Shesh452
    @Shesh452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This was so precious. Your journey is a lot like mine. Forgiveness always wins. Thanks for this

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sungit Diaries Amen 🙏🏽
      We need to always consider forgiveness for our own sake! 🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @user-ed7zp7ep8s
    @user-ed7zp7ep8s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I honestly having been fighting with myself about watching this video ever since it was up , because in my mind I was like “them cheat on each other , nah it’s a prank” but I guess we really start somewhere as people and it’s our choice to dwell on the things we’ve done or move on.... I love love 🥺 have a happy marriage I love you 💞

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are all human and we all have a past. 🥺 We either choose to stay in our anger or forgive and move on.
      Thank you for your well wishes for our marriage. God willing our marriage will always be full of love ♥️🥰
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nompilopatience1393
    @nompilopatience1393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When Dise said “Your knight and shining armor will present himself” I felt that😭😭

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nompilo Patience 🥺🙏🏽🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @sibongilemarokoane600
    @sibongilemarokoane600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is powerful, I was ones in that situation , my husband & I cheated on each other, hey life happened, temptations happened but nevertheless we made it by God’s grace and faithfulness, we forgave each other because we learned that no1 is perfect and as they say “ its better to stay with the devil that u know than the one you don’t know”🙈, now we’ve been together for 24yrs, married for 16yrs and we still going strong and we hv 3 beautiful kids, all thanks to the Almighty God, I’m proud of you 2 it takes soo much courage to talk about such thing, I love you Regodise😘😘

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sibongile Marokoane Wow! 🥺 God is great 🙏🏽 Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your experience. Your lives are testimonies to the concept of forgiveness and laying your relationship in God’s hands.
      May He continue to bless you and your husband and prosper you two in Jesus’ name. 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @manthobajudithrammutlanyan529
    @manthobajudithrammutlanyan529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love you guys more for this Fam Bam❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m gonna suggest your channel to everyone i meet🙌

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We love you too Fam Bam ♥️
      Thank you for your love and support 💐
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @thoby-leetalks3705
      @thoby-leetalks3705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also love them more after this

  • @mukundimashitoa905
    @mukundimashitoa905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Love is not just a word to be thrown around. It has weight and depth." 😍😍😍😍those words touched me deeply.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @mokgethoamapheto2204
    @mokgethoamapheto2204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm not even halfway the video but all I can say is "Two imperfect human beings ❤️ ". Thank you for sharing this with us ♥️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome 🥰🙏🏽♥️

  • @mosajoshua3685
    @mosajoshua3685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow I literally just learned soo much from you guys...... The level of honesty is just out of this world..... I adore your fighting spirit and I love the fact that you fought for your relationship together and never forgot to call unto the almighty God..... I love you guys keep going forward and giving us hope❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙏🏽
      Thanks Mosa. We hope to inspire hope for other couples and those seeking to enter into godly relationships 🙏🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @siphelelepekula9755
    @siphelelepekula9755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been with you for a while now but never commented, but this right here!😢❤ You guys are great...❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Siphelele Pekula Thank you for your comment Siohelele🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @palesankondlo1395
    @palesankondlo1395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “If we not serving each other than what are we doing?”...shuu🔥

  • @giselleumi
    @giselleumi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so emotional. I was triggered on so many levels. But key fact, forgiveness.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gisele Kura Forgiveness is so important 🥺🖤🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @thandisomagaca6624
    @thandisomagaca6624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the perfection people run away from, knowing what you want and being able to forgive the person you love. Thank you for the content may God guide your love, hearts and journey to forever ❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thandi Somagaca You’re welcome Thandi 🥺🙏🏽 We must all realize that we are human and have faults. We need forgiveness and we must also offer forgiveness. ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nonjabulombanjwa4960
    @nonjabulombanjwa4960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As the Lord’s Prayer says “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us”... We cannot expect God to forgive us yet we struggle to forgive others. There a sense of peace that comes with forgiving a person. God’s mercies are new for us everyday, which means new beginnings and starting afresh everyday! Now this video is a beautiful testimony showing exactly that and also showing that broken crayons still colour ( you guys didn’t throw your relationship away but worked together to create this beautiful relationship you now have and become the best partners to one another). 🙌🏾

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nonjabulo Mbanjwa Amen 🙏🏽 🥺🖤
      Forgiveness is necessary if we are to live victorious lives in Christ Jesus. 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @precious2280
    @precious2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can't thank you both enough for allowing us into your space, being vulnerable w us. I have been single for four years and I have always viewed you guys like the perfect couple, they can't make mistakes. That's a dangerous way to think because I'd prolly have that mentality when/if I entered into a relationship myself..there is no such thing as perfection and I thank God that you shook me out of that naivety. You literally just shed some light that relationships aren't perfect as they seem.. it's hard work. It's a commitment and it's loving someone when they are hard to love. And not just in good times. And when you mentioned God as being the centre of your relationship, that is something I had to jot down mentally. God first. Thank you so much. May God bless you both. ❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      All glory to God 🙏🏽🥺
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @themagongwas9850
    @themagongwas9850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😭 💔 No relationship is perfect, thank you for being so open and real

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lique paige Indeed 🥺🙏🏽
      You’re welcome Lique💐
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @Royal-Lala
    @Royal-Lala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanx for your honesty power couple..everything beautiful is worth fighting for.. keep it strong
    One love😍
    And Regos response to the why did you choose to stay after finding out...it's said from deep within by a proverbs 31 woman..

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Laone🖤
      We hope our truth will help others open up and face their challenges regarding cheating. Forgiveness is key! 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise#FamBam

  • @phumimthiyane289
    @phumimthiyane289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What we cover God uncovers, what we uncover God covers...thank you so much for being human, most of us can relate to that.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true 🥺🙏🏽
      You’re welcome Phumi ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @kgarisma
    @kgarisma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for being REAL, even at the expense of reliving such emotions of the past.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome Thee🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @Tashas_Travels
    @Tashas_Travels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I absolutely love the honesty . We’ve probably all cheated even without knowing it.
    Mostly emotionally than sexually.
    Mara u conquered it all with LOVE. That’s why God emphasized on it.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome Tash💐
      Indeed we may have all cheated in some way or another but love must always prevail and forgiveness is key 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @naomiwanjiku9994
    @naomiwanjiku9994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Forgiveness reveals the better person in someone beyond the imperfections. ...
    I thank God for your step to forgiveness .this moved me so much
    Rego and dise you are my inspiration 💖💖❤
    I pray that God might bless and increase you in His glory

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naomi Wanjiku Amen 🙏🏽
      Thank you Naomi ♥️ Forgiveness is so vital in all forms of relationships in life and we must choose to do right to the next in order to heal ourselves. 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @naomiwanjiku9994
      @naomiwanjiku9994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RegoDise
      I agree ......thankyou for your reply
      And keep on fighting the good fight of faith👩💪

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Naomi Wanjiku Amen 🙏🏽
      You’re welcome ♥️

  • @molokotheron7886
    @molokotheron7886 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Real and honesty 🎉❤may God bless your union ❤forever and always

  • @nolofatsotshwene7533
    @nolofatsotshwene7533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This whole video got me feeling otherwise. Cheating is something else, it surely ruins a part of the one being cheated on, whether a huge or tiny part.. It does leave a negative impact on a person.
    There was a point in the video, where abuti Dise stated his part of why he did it (as well as the moment his face changed because of the whole topic), i got so emotional. I believe not only the one being cheated on gets negatively impacted, but also the cheater - only if the relationship and the person their involved with, matters to them.
    The part where sis Rego mentioned God being between them, and them having a mandate to fulfill, which was the reason why she stayed in the relationship... Yooooh!! That had me. 😭😭🤞🏽. Thank you so much for remembering why God placed you both together and deciding to march on through his will. He will surely reward you for that!
    I love the fact you were both real throughout the video, you allowed yourselves to feel the emotions you felt before, during that specific time.. It showed that there was no pretending taking place. Le re tsetse matsapa! I love you both so much. I continue to learn a lot from y'all. Stay in God! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nolofatso Tshwene 🥺🥺🖤🖤
      It wasn’t easy to share our truth but we’re glad we did. Even if it is to motivate one person to always consider forgiveness and to never give up on love. ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @keamokamo3873
    @keamokamo3873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video just made me emotional especially when Rego talks there. But then at the end you were together here you are got each other😭❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keamo Kamo Praise God forgiveness in Christ Jesus 🙏🏽🥺 We are blessed to have each other 👫🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @onicamatidze5547
    @onicamatidze5547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The devil is a liar,prove them wrong,u two shall never ever cheat on each other,God forbid

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Onica Matidze in Jesus’ name, amen! 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @bongiwelanga1706
      @bongiwelanga1706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen! I love this so much

  • @ZenandeTukute
    @ZenandeTukute 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so amazed at how amazing God is...I am literally going through the same thing right now. Listening to you guys is so inspiring . It’s giving me such a broad perspective on what Love is.......I am so grateful for what God is doing in your lives ,the amount of growth and wisdom is so amazing ❤️.......Thank you for sharing this

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zenande Tukute All glory to God 🙏🏽
      We truly hope your will make a wise decision as to what direction you want to take with your relationship. Above all we encourage you to forgive even when there isn’t an apology. Just be clear with your decision to either stay or move on. ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nomusamsweli9355
    @nomusamsweli9355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was so real,you guys are 100% genuine ,not only have you showed us the great side about your relationship but also the painful past moments that will never ever happen again but honestly RegoDise is such a wonderful union and inspiring too.More prosperity to you guys

  • @Kelebogilem02
    @Kelebogilem02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am I the only one who shared tears 😭. Such love is amazing

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Kelel🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @rebeccadabwara2179
    @rebeccadabwara2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is sobering, real life issues🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️ , thank you RegoDise from this video I have learnt that one of the keys to a successful relationship is forgiveness, thank you once again

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed 🥺 Forgiveness is key 🙏🏽♥️👫🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG😭 this episode touched I wonder how was the energy after filming the episode did you guys even wow like continue the conversation off screen cause wow I’m yeah

  • @NoloS994
    @NoloS994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The realness and openness from the parents😁🙌 Wow guys
    This was a deep video and it really shows that you've genuinely forgiven each other which is important when you choose to continue with the relationship.
    My boyfriend cheated on me also during the early stages of our relationship and it really crushed me. I honestly didn't expect that considering how long we took to get yo know each other, pray about the relationship before we even got into it. AND for that to happen yoh 💔. And Rego has a point, I remember talking to our pastor about it and he told me to break up with him as that will result in him hurting me again.
    Yoh guys.so what happened was I was too quick to say I forgive you without really going through the stages of forgiveness and now that lead to me also getting emotionally attached to someone 💔. Which really broke his hurt and something I am not proud of. The whole situation taught me forgiveness and understanding that you have to allow yourself to feel the pain. Would I do it again? No. We've worked so much on our relationship and have grown and that has to be seen.
    Thank you Fam Bam for the video. It was really deep and insightful. Boyfiie and I will make it a point that we serve each other and ensure we don't hurt each other again.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tshenolo Sithole Sorry for the pain you went though Tshenolo🥺 You’re a brave young woman now and know better. Forgiveness is always required and we must goose to give it as much as we demand it. 🙏🏽♥️
      Much love. 💐
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nanackymuremi
    @nanackymuremi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t know But I got emotional 😭 watching this. Yo so forgiveness is the key 🔑. #RegoDise#

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nanakie Florence M Forgiveness is definitely the key to a healthier you ♥️🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @nanackymuremi
      @nanackymuremi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      RegoDise Noted❤️

  • @nonkululekondamase6270
    @nonkululekondamase6270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankful for sharing your truth. I've struggled so much about being cheated on that has affected my present so badly. I needed to see this,there's surely light at the end of the tunnel🙏

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise God 🙏🏽🥺
      We hope that you will not give up on love but give it a chance again ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @reitumetseresegofadicoetha4914
    @reitumetseresegofadicoetha4914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I literally had to sit and actually concentrate on this and hear, which it ended being eye opening and educational in a way, also reminded me of so much that I went through being cheated on while I was going through the most in my life which somehow made me feel not good enough for him... Trust went away, walls were put up almost gave up on love took me over 4 years to be able to be open to loving again which it can't be easy especially when you got cheated on more then 3 times by the same man you keep forgiving just found myself in a new relationship with a friend and I'm still terrified and scared but I knew in my heart I had to take the risk....
    So thank you for this video and I love you both

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reitumetse Resegofadicoe Thabane You’re Welcome Tumi🥺🙏🏽
      We hope you will allow yourself to love fully again without fear or allowing your past relationship traumatize you. Be open about your concerns with your partner upfront and mention your history so that he will have a clear picture of what you’ve went through and with that in mind you will be able to identify how he reacts towards the subject. Just don’t give up on love. ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @londiwemasikane1381
    @londiwemasikane1381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "When it happens consult..."
    "Cinderella!" 😂
    Thanks #Regodise for the honesty and vulnerability of this video 🤗 #fambam #notificationgang

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Londiwe Masikane You’re welcome Londiwe 🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @kagisomokoena209
    @kagisomokoena209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is beautiful. I think background music is doing justice to this story.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏽🥺🖤
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @veiikaa9003
    @veiikaa9003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of The reasons y i love you guys. Pure love,can see it through your years. Forgiveness wins always 💯

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Veii🥺♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @kgarisma
    @kgarisma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for being REAL, even at the expense of reliving all those emotions.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome 🥺🖤🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nosisamohlakore5455
    @nosisamohlakore5455 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this is true love may God continue to strengthen you marriage. Forgiveness and moving forward.

  • @omphemetsemontoedi1845
    @omphemetsemontoedi1845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finding myself in a situation similar to this. This video couldn't have possibly came at a right time Thanks Rego and Dise. I can now confidently say I'll fight for it all thanks to you

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If it’s worth fighting for... FIGHT! 🥺🖤
      You’re welcome Omphemetse 💐
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @phuthegolechelele7053
    @phuthegolechelele7053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you sooo much for this fam Bam😭😭😭😭
    Long distance is hard 💔😢I'm always fight with my boyfriend

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Phuthego Bervely It’s tough hey... 🥺 We pray that you and your partner will be figure things out and understand that you both need to work at maintaining the love ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @lebohangdamane3775
      @lebohangdamane3775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's too much

  • @zebrayo1
    @zebrayo1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rego is a preacher! You learn so much from her advise

  • @lefentsemothiba3976
    @lefentsemothiba3976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Cheating” concept can be very much difficult to talk about so thank you sooo much for opening up to us Fambam after all we’re all human with imperfections ❤️❤️❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lefentse Mothiba A very tough topic and issue but it’s real and needs to be dealt with. 🥺🥺
      Indeed we are all human and have our flaws... but God. 🙏🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @mmatjiemakgamatha6073
    @mmatjiemakgamatha6073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are REAL. Learning alot from U guys. Thank You

  • @friedashifotoka6556
    @friedashifotoka6556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    not many people would discuss this, it shows that people make mistakes and we need to forgive each other

  • @bokanangtsatsi9523
    @bokanangtsatsi9523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just love how Dise look at Rego hle, you guys are cute my God,🤩🤩🤩i just want to be like when i grow up☺️☺️

    • @tshireletsomothomogolo4629
      @tshireletsomothomogolo4629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Role model indeed👌❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Boky Tsatsi 🥰🥰
      We’re truly humbled 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @esethumagalela1604
    @esethumagalela1604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciated this realness. It was something I needed to hear. Thank you guys ❤️ I love your honest love. God bless xx

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome Esethu 🖤
      That was our truth and we hope it will encourage others to always seek forgiveness and maturity when dealing with such a tough ordeal. 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @vusumzingceke6518
    @vusumzingceke6518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All I can say is that I love you guys. Funny I was talking to someone about the fact that it's mainly uncomfortable conversations strengthen a relationship.

  • @That_lady_sharon
    @That_lady_sharon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two really make me happy.
    Cheating is something else but a forgiving heart is necessary especially if you feel that you were destined to be with your partner. Not easy though...
    I love you two!!!!!!!!!!

  • @phelisamjekula9564
    @phelisamjekula9564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Rego I can't beleive you're okay with Dise wearing that hat😂👒

    • @lunga4876
      @lunga4876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha 😂😂 Please leave Dise alone, Rego is allowing him to be his own individual..nBut deep down I was thinking it.

    • @KIMTEVIN
      @KIMTEVIN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      On the floor🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @rethabilelotlhare5742
      @rethabilelotlhare5742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂 am also here looking at it. But it's not bad. Sometimes you just have to let your men be🤣

    • @rethabilelotlhare5742
      @rethabilelotlhare5742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just after typing the hat was gone 🤣🤣🤣 he heard us

  • @mphorakhajane5563
    @mphorakhajane5563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can i please have the couch before i even watch the video fully, Rego my sweetheart ereng marital glow mo mosading wa Dise, iyooo moghel o motle hle. I love you guys whole heartedly

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mpho rakhajane lol.. 🥰 Come get it!😁
      Thanks doll 💁🏽‍♀️💕
      We love you too!🤗♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @sibongilenusa7921
    @sibongilenusa7921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so deep and very emotional. Imagine the time both of you found out about the whole cheating thing😭😭

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥺💔🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @gwendolinjankie8948
    @gwendolinjankie8948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Just when you're getting prepared for marriage and God decides to bless you with such a wonderful pair. To share such honest experiences with. We're learning a lot. And we thank God for you guys. ❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gwendolin Jankie Praise God 🙏🏽
      It’s imperative that couples deal with these issues before marriage. Clean out your closets and make sure you start your marriage on a clean slate and conscious. 👫🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @KeoratileDitsele
    @KeoratileDitsele 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So real and authentic. Thank you for telling us your truth 🙌🏽

  • @zeldamassozi6079
    @zeldamassozi6079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lol wht a intro😅... I love you guy's man!!!! 😁❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zelda Massozi 🥰🙈
      We love you too Zelda!♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @ntumisenglengolo5066
    @ntumisenglengolo5066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Cheating is something else, also lost my significant other over that💔

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ntumiseng Lengolo So sorry to hear that Ntumiseng 🥺🙏🏽 May you never give up on love ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @alifewithhope6175
    @alifewithhope6175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I admire your honesty between you guys, that's beautiful❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome 🙏🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @dudusthoughts1773
    @dudusthoughts1773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was tough and very deep. I'm glad you guys overcame it. I'm happy for you. GOD is definitely in the centre of your relationship and marriage.

  • @luciasebopelo3207
    @luciasebopelo3207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After watching so many of your videos I couldn't believe this was true😭😭😭I literally cried throughout the video😭😭but I appreciate you both for being so real,truthful,raw and honest😭😭I absolutely love you guys😭😭❤❤

  • @floziem3816
    @floziem3816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The winezz❤😂😂😂😂Rego is soo beautiful

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Flozie Marumo It was needed.. 🍷🍷
      Thanks doll 🥰♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @MahateForever
    @MahateForever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was very informative and honestly weighs heavy on the heart because it’s such a sensitive topic. Thank you though 🙏🏾♥️😩 Forgivenesses is everything

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thulisile Zulu Indeed it’s a sensitive topic 🥺 You’re welcome Thuli ♥️ Forgiveness is everything 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @candyphillipchipopa7879
    @candyphillipchipopa7879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am learning so much from you..... thanks so much

  • @kutlo_ano612
    @kutlo_ano612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just wondering how many people lost out on true love because of unforgiveness. Glad you saw potential in each other. It's always important to discern the mind of God in such situations, God enables us to truly forgive and start afresh ❤.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏🏽🥺
      Forgiveness is paramount in all relationships ♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @nanikimothiba515
    @nanikimothiba515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you guys always talk about God..especially Rego..❤
    A praying woman is a strong woman..
    I pray I get to such level in my relationship and love God as much as you guys do😣😣
    I Love You guys ❤

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God is the centre of our lives and marriage. 🙏🏽 May you find what you’re desiring as you actively work on drawing closer to God 👫🏽
      We love you too Fam Bam♥️
      #RegoDise

  • @fikilemohau3409
    @fikilemohau3409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This really hit me but we deal with cheating in a different way I stayed because I loved him and they future I prayed about it. Today we laughing about it

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Each to their own, however forgiveness is key 🙏🏽 Praise God for your relationship 👫🏽♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @oarabilemotsemme7017
    @oarabilemotsemme7017 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love how real and genuine you guys have been with us. Love and light your way ❤🇧🇼

  • @SylvieSij2506
    @SylvieSij2506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It´s so hard for me to stay with a cheating partner. I was cheated on and when i found out. I ended it. I will forgive you but i am going out of your cheating life. I just can´t give room into my life to someone who has no respect for our relationship. No No No! i´d rather be alone than stay in a relationship where I don´t trust you anymore.

    • @papocollin6367
      @papocollin6367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even though your philosophy about cheating is different from RegoDise, I think you still deserve a love like from them...I respect your stand and theirs too, both are viable decisions.

  • @mscharmaine5415
    @mscharmaine5415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Am A Guy" Shuuuuuuuu I couldn't process that.
    Though thank you for letting us in on both takes.

  • @katlego_mukwevho
    @katlego_mukwevho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yoh, a very sensitive and difficult conversation ever.
    #Forgiveness

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      katlego mukwevho Indeed 🥺🖤🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @sheilahmmabontlebakwena7203
    @sheilahmmabontlebakwena7203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've learnt so much
    Many at times we run away from relationships without forgiving
    I've learnt that forgiveness on its own can lead to a happily ever after
    Thank you guys 😢😍

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sheilah Mmabontle Bakwena Indeed forgives is key 🥺🙏🏽 You’re welcome ♥️ Amen 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @PatriciaSem
    @PatriciaSem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FAM BAM !!!! I learn something new every day from you two. Esto es hermoso !!

  • @lamehappykgotlaetsile5235
    @lamehappykgotlaetsile5235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This felt very real, honest and relatable. Thank you guys for giving us such a video may God continue to strengthen your union that we may learn from it. with love from Botswana

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome Lame ♥️
      May God bless you 🙏🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @naomimxego336
    @naomimxego336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the openness here I applauded u two for being this vounarable....

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome Naomi♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @frankieclo9841
    @frankieclo9841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!!!!! Thank you guys for sharing!!!! Love the transparency!
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome Fam Bam!🙏🏽🥺
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @Hildah_2020
    @Hildah_2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Regos words😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hil Dah 🥺🥺🥺
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @rethabilemokgatle4881
    @rethabilemokgatle4881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I got the topic right🥳🥳💃💃

  • @yvonnebuluma
    @yvonnebuluma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a new fan from Kenya but i have become loyal jeeeeeezzzz you guys are so awesome.May God bless your union.....this is so nice

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Yvonne,
      Thank you for your love and support 🤗 We love you too♥️
      #RegoDise #FamBam

    • @marygitonga7406
      @marygitonga7406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kenya well represented 😊😊🇰🇪🇰🇪you guys are loved 💞💞 # fam bam

    • @yvonnebuluma
      @yvonnebuluma 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marygitonga7406 yeeessss with love and good vibes from the +254🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @thandekambatha7151
    @thandekambatha7151 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are real . I like that you dont show us the perfect life only.

  • @donttouchmyhairdtmh1173
    @donttouchmyhairdtmh1173 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow , this must have been so hard of a conversation to have- but the honesty is so refreshing.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Rego and Dise,
    This was a lovely topic and thanks for giving us your real life story and experience. I don't know if I would stay or walk away as I've not been in that situation. I know I'd expect my partner to forgive me, but I don't know if I would forgive him should he do that to me. We are human and we have fallen short of his glory, and I also believe that as a couple, challenging as it may be, it's important to not allow any gaps between the two. In my own personal experience, I've learnt to understand that leaving a gap is an opportunity for the devil to do his work and destroy families.
    I'm glad you guys worked through it and were mature in the way you handled things and I truly applaud you for that.
    May God truly bless your union.
    I love the quote that says, "marriage is a gift from God to man, the quality of marriage is our gift to God."
    May we present to God beautiful marriages that involve Him in the center of it all.
    Love you guys.

    • @RegoDise
      @RegoDise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen 🙏🏽
      Thank you Masabata. 🖤 We has our fair share of tough times in our relationship... but God. 🙌🏽
      #RegoDise #FamBam

  • @hudunghabila6770
    @hudunghabila6770 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! This is bold and i love it. I learn alot from you two, thank you for sharing.