My last guy broke up with me and tried coming back in a small way but I kept him blocked. A week after, another guy friend came over brought me edibles and paints and brushes for my art 😂❤
I feel like a little sister, I never grew up with a sister and, this was so healing for me since I just spoke with my therapist about how I grew up very insecure, with lots of bullying, and had so much cognitive dissonance when men find me attractive, and try to outwardly flirt with me and how angry/uncomfortable I can get but now I'm in my early 20's and want to be flirty (guys my age), have fun and laugh and feel comfortable while I do it but I don't know, she (therapist) told me it takes time, so I'm just focusing on myself now and not getting myself down! I love myself, and I think that's what I should be focused on now above all else, thank you for this upload very heartwarming for me lol!
Any tips on being transparent? I think ima have to let my fav go bc he wants to be exclusive but he isn’t exclusively paying my bills so I just can’t 😂 any input or advice on being transparent w other ppl I date tho?
@@emperorpalpatine6239 we are talking about consenting adults who communicate they are openly dating. But really I wouldn’t expect someone I’m dating to be only dating me if they haven’t asked me to be in a committed monogamous relationship.
Omg hahaha I can not tell you how accurately you have cracked my feelings I get when I'm getting online breadcrumbs from dudes it's funny cos I'm guilty and you giving me reality check
Always been into polygamy and I don't think it will change even with a Husband idk used to feel horrible about it but I'm naturally wired this way for now ❤
thank you once again for not allowing us as women to lower our own standards anymore. We get too attached to committing to one man before committing to ourselves. Ive done it since I was 18. Now Im 25 finally deciding to not put all my eggs in one basket!!
lol so ur telling me .. as a citizen of earth… you didn’t know strange things happen? you didnt know humans do strange things ?? I think you’re lying if you say no. You’re in a fantasy world if you think YOU have to believe something for it to be true… lmao
If a guy referred to a woman as a flimsy polystyrene basket you would all have a lot to say about that guys character. Let that sink in for a moment 😅😅😅
@prettyhollypolly7553 woman have also said bad stuff, I'm not crying about it that's the difference. It's unfair to box every man into that category. Is it truly the guy or the woman's bad judge of character?
I've had men tell me much worse. Ive had men tell me i'm 'boner draining' ' boring' and all sorts of worse names. To my FACE. Glad I left that idiot behind, but you have no idea the misogynist crap us women have to deal with daily. And men do cry about it, they say horrible things about us on their podcasts too.
That's a made up term the incel/MGTOW community came up with. Women and men view sex completely different. She's not an Elliot Rogers type, no women are. Why? Because it's not in their nature, psychologically.
My last guy broke up with me and tried coming back in a small way but I kept him blocked. A week after, another guy friend came over brought me edibles and paints and brushes for my art 😂❤
I cried for a day by myself 😂😂
Facts. As soon as they are sure that you are stuck on them, they'll flex that power and embarrass you big time.
Just like anyone would. Male, female, straight or gay.
Females do the same shit if not more
Learned the hard way.
Lmao I’ve been called out for 42 mins straight
I feel like a little sister, I never grew up with a sister and, this was so healing for me since I just spoke with my therapist about how I grew up very insecure, with lots of bullying, and had so much cognitive dissonance when men find me attractive, and try to outwardly flirt with me and how angry/uncomfortable I can get but now I'm in my early 20's and want to be flirty (guys my age), have fun and laugh and feel comfortable while I do it but I don't know, she (therapist) told me it takes time, so I'm just focusing on myself now and not getting myself down! I love myself, and I think that's what I should be focused on now above all else, thank you for this upload very heartwarming for me lol!
You're beautiful! You're in control! :)
It’s hard enough to find one guy to date muchless multiple 😅
And true but staying single is better than dating a deadbeat
I do it and am transparent about it. It's exciting and fun and less stressful honestly.
Any tips on being transparent? I think ima have to let my fav go bc he wants to be exclusive but he isn’t exclusively paying my bills so I just can’t 😂 any input or advice on being transparent w other ppl I date tho?
I mean sure..? If you enjoy treating human beings like they’re ice cream at baskin robins, I would imagine it would be less stressful.
@@secretlyclever4062I mean people aren’t ice creams and as long as all parties are consenting and aware then there’s really nothing wrong going on
@@labanhendricks7053The problem is that the majority of people who multi-date don’t give you the benefit of knowing what they are doing.
@@emperorpalpatine6239 we are talking about consenting adults who communicate they are openly dating. But really I wouldn’t expect someone I’m dating to be only dating me if they haven’t asked me to be in a committed monogamous relationship.
14:21 they gon be SICC 🤣 men feel it in their whole chest when we do em how they do other women
The online bread crumbing is sooooo reallll. I used to get a little dopamine boost from that ish. Now I just find it cringey
So excited for this, thank you Chidera! ❤
I had to go back to this to make a decision. Thank you for putting me into the right path queen.
This just changed my life, thank you
Omg hahaha I can not tell you how accurately you have cracked my feelings I get when I'm getting online breadcrumbs from dudes it's funny cos I'm guilty and you giving me reality check
Here for CREATING YOUR WORKFORCE
A fair exchange is no robbery. It's commerce.
I think you turned me into a polygamous person and I never thought I'd be okay with that, but I am actually feeling very okay with it ** thank you
Tightening up my roster as we speak.. 💅🏼🫰🏼
Always been into polygamy and I don't think it will change even with a Husband idk used to feel horrible about it but I'm naturally wired this way for now ❤
I really needed this
What if I want some loving and I’m dating multiple men???
I have an issue I want to be the main girl for multiple men 😢 what do I do
Not enough of you or your time to be the main girl for multiple men. Unless you want to whore around like it's a full time job
You in danger girl😂😂
The whole truth.nothing but the truth🎉
thank you once again for not allowing us as women to lower our own standards anymore. We get too attached to committing to one man before committing to ourselves. Ive done it since I was 18. Now Im 25 finally deciding to not put all my eggs in one basket!!
Damn she didn't waste one second
Idk in what fantasy world guys bring you food on a repeat for you to tell them how your day was.
I wonder🤷
lol so ur telling me .. as a citizen of earth… you didn’t know strange things happen? you didnt know humans do strange things ?? I think you’re lying if you say no. You’re in a fantasy world if you think YOU have to believe something for it to be true… lmao
But there aren’t that many eligible guys let alone meeting them at the same time 🤦🏽♀️
If a guy referred to a woman as a flimsy polystyrene basket you would all have a lot to say about that guys character. Let that sink in for a moment 😅😅😅
Men have said much worse 😂.
@prettyhollypolly7553 woman have also said bad stuff, I'm not crying about it that's the difference. It's unfair to box every man into that category. Is it truly the guy or the woman's bad judge of character?
I've had men tell me much worse. Ive had men tell me i'm 'boner draining' ' boring' and all sorts of worse names. To my FACE. Glad I left that idiot behind, but you have no idea the misogynist crap us women have to deal with daily. And men do cry about it, they say horrible things about us on their podcasts too.
And it’s fun 😂 can’t lie. It’ll help you sieve out the bad ones. How do you think men do it?
FACTSSS
fellas learn the game
📝
Who hurt her this bad? lol
Men, duh. They've even hurt other men, sexually
You sound hurt.
❤
Femcel
That's a made up term the incel/MGTOW community came up with. Women and men view sex completely different. She's not an Elliot Rogers type, no women are. Why? Because it's not in their nature, psychologically.