Sean continually stated that when he began the relationship with this young man’s mother she was already 6 1/2 months in her pregnancy. No one listened to him but the DNA proved his truth.
And his wife told what he wasn’t admitting. Which is, he was a virgin when he met his wife. Which means he never had sex with Brandon’s mom. I don’t understand why Shawn didn’t at least tell that part.
The mother is never present. It’s really shameful that he had to find out this way. She humiliated her son on national television because she wanted to keep up a lie smh.
She never should have let him go on that show. That's embarrassing. She should have said there was a possibility he wasn't if she didn't want to own up to it.
I feel like when people come out to respond, they need to have the chance to respond. He knew he wasn't his father but still tried to embrace him. Then got chewed out for trying to do the right thing.
As a mother! I would have done the same thing as this man mother did. The kid do have strong facial features and body mold as this man, he even have a soft, but manly voice as this man. But in the end he don’t have this man blood 🩸 nor saliva, but he had a grandma’s Royal Loyal 💜 free heart with honor, which is better than a blood ❤ heart mandated by law to pay child support , that cause resentment issues and hardship on the the paying parent. There should be a law that requires all women and men to submit a dna upon the birth of every child. 😊the woman should have to pay half of what ever the state mandates the cost of child support for every child.
That's why you should get test at birth and avoid all this.Wear condoms and pick your mates more wiser.Don't lay down with someone cause they are easy.Stop kids from being hurt.They are the real victims.
@@glorialesure1906 Mothers shouldn’t lie to their children and blame other men knowing that they’re not the father this woman was 6mo pregnant when he met her, he knew this was not his son but the son didn’t want to hear it.
These women consistently lie to their children about who their fathers are. DNA test should be mandatory at birth. These children grow up hating men, All based on their mom's lies.
That’s what he did after learning the truth. He’s definitely gonna take it out on his mother. He said that she brought up absolutely nobody but Sean. He wouldn’t have known any better
I love Shawn's composure.he has always maintained he is not .he alone knows better and this is the out come.people should stop running their mouth.shawn,you are a real man.
I agree! It's sad that Shawn has suppressed the childhood trauma inflicted by his mother who is truly messy. He made every effort to maintain respect for his mother and Brandon. He's a decent man.
@@ritaseay2811I hope he takes Karamo’s advice. Shawn said at one point in his life he was a ward of the state. I wonder why his mom lost custody of him. I suspect the answer to that question is what Shawn is trying to suppress and not deal with. I really wish Mentally Health services were more affordable. If he doesn’t deal with that pain he will still be affected by it.
Shawn was calm and composed. His demeanor said it all, he was not defensive just calmly stating, "I know the truth of the matter" and he was right. It's unfortunate that Brandon totally believed his mother, who obviously misled him. However, he should have handled the situation cautiously because Shawn had previously wanted a DNA meaning, he wanted Brandon to know the truth at that point.
I disagree. Brandon’s mom lied to him and he thought that this man just didn’t want to be in his life. He didn’t fully understand the dynamics of his pass. He’s never seen him face to face so on this taping he wanted to get it all out.
Wowww this is why u can't go at people so matter of fact because people LIE!!!! Obviously his mother lied to him...and this man was right the whole time. Prayers that Brandon finds his father. 🙏🏽
No he does not look like Shaun. I'm sorry different nose. & he doesn't look like the mother either. She ws already 6 mths. pregnant when they got😲 together. Come on make it make sense already.
that is so hard and I understand because my mother made me believe someone else was my father to a point I hated him because he never claimed me, later to find out she doesn't know who my father is
True there was a lot of disrespect but he truly believed that was his father from what information he had… and if it had turned out to have been his father the disrespect would have been well deserved being he was not there for him ! Also, he was man enough to apologize in the end
This was sad. This young man put a lot of energy into this matter which could potentially not been his father. His mother is accountable at the end of the day. And he's gearing his anger towards the wrong person. Very sad. 😢
I know it looks bad that he is annoyed with his mother. The truth is. Not all mothers are good mothers and that’s why you get this relationship. I have been there.
What Brandon doesn’t understand is, he can’t ask a question and get mad that Shawn’s not answering if he doesn’t stop talking long enough for him to respond. Also if his mom was 6 mos pregnant when they met, there’s no way Shawn’s the father.
@TheMilanW THANK YOU!💪🏽❤️✊🏼 I could have SWORN I was the ONLY ONE who peeped that! The ONLY THING they have in common IS their size, AND HOW COULD YOU EVER FORGET ABOUT THOSE TOTALLY AWESOME LOOKING, MATCHING SHIRTS THEY HAVE ON THAT THE “POTENTIAL”FATHER JUST BOUGHT HIS FROM SAKS FIFTH AVENUE, AND he spared NO EXPENSE on buying his “POTENTIAL” son that BOMB 🔥 SHIRT AND PANTS from Bloomingdale’s. Oh, and Sean even bought BOTH of them those BADASS SHOES they have on from Lord & Taylor because he caught a BIG TIME deal! Homeboy got BOTH OF THEM TWO PAIR APIECE of the shoes for buy one pair and get half off the second pair.🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😂😅😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I feel so sorry for Brandon. I could see his pain in his body language. I pray that his mom tells him the truth & he finds his real father to gain closure. God bless him 🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am having trouble feeling sorry because he's A BIG MOUTH talking over top of Shaun CONSTANTLY. Shaun's mother is an interfering so and so. She's taking the word of a random stranger over her own son. NO WONDER Shaun says she's messy.
My advice for Brandon is to put his DNA on "Ancestry" or "My Heritage," for example. It will link him to his maternal and paternal relatives. He might even discover who his natural father is or was. That's how I was linked to my father through a paternal half-sibling and scores of paternal family members. My father died before I found out his identity, but at least I now know the truth.
The Grandma, I suspect is looking for a ‘new ‘ family as there’s clearly very serious tension with Shaun. And Brandon was a replacement son. It was implied that Shaun’s grandmother raised him become his Mother must have done something when he was a kid. She’s probably lonely …and I’m glad Shaun has turned into the rational adult he is. Karamo has a Hallmark view of family and that’s great but just sometimes family are related by blood and nothing else….its that simple. You can actively not get on and dislike each other. Ps…they didn’t look alike at all.
He might really end up being a father to him and filling that role now that the truth is out. It's beautiful that he's making himself available to the son figure. "Love" not "blood" determines family. 💜💪🏾💜
I don’t care for Brandon. He thinks he’s right about everything and he over talks everyone. No one can’t get a word in edgewise. Shawn held himself very well. His Mother is messy , just because someone calls saying grandma doesn’t mean you go off and say yup, that’s true for sure. I feel bad for Shawn. Brandon is rude and disrespectful for someone wanting to know if he’s his father. Brandon owes Shawn a huge apology and so does his Messy mother. His mother should’ve been a Mother and listened to her son when he said Shawn isn’t mine. Please let me take care of it and she couldn’t even do that, that’s not love. Shawn’s still trying to protect his mother by not exposing everything she’s done and she’s not hearing what he’s saying. I can see why he says she doesn’t put Shawn first. I’m not huge on cutting a parent off because my mother passed when I was 5, but he needs to distance himself from her. She’s toxic.
@@Mrscarricom I think you’re wrong on that one. He could have been messy and exposed his mother, but protected her and didn’t try to paint her in a bad light. Did his mother protect him and put his feelings first and respect them? No. She painted him in a bad light. He’s very emotionally intelligent and that’s more than I can say for his mother. He held back and he didn’t have too
@CassandraV-kl4hq I agree with you.. His mother hurt him, he doesn't know his father and was being a surrogate father to Brandon. Ms.Ursula is messy and has her own mess to deal with. She is still hurting her son at this age. Hope she reads these comments.
Definitely lead him on. He should not have sent him pictures of his child saying this is your sister. That's just playing games. A simple no I'm not your dad would've done. Brandon's mum should be ashamed of herself. All them years knowing that he wasn't his dad. Wicked
I believe he was still trying to be a father figure since he was with the mom while the mom was 6 months pregnant with Brandon and was with Brandon mother as a small child he was trying to welcome him in envy family are like family to him even though he knows he is not his father he remembers that is a child he was the one who was around Brandon until the mother broke up with him so I'm sure he felt like the reason Brandon was reaching out is because he still had never found his real father so he was just going to step up and be like a father figure and again be like family that Brandon doesn't have basically just being a good guy😊
I would always listen to my mom.and if she’s wrong the truth will come out, and then she would know. I LOVE MY MOM EVEN THO SHE NOT HERE PHYSICALLY, SHE LIVES IN MY HEART AND IN MY LIFE.
Why did he not tell this young man in the beginning? if his mom was 6 months pregnant no DNA test was needed and there is no way I would have said you have a sister and then send pictures. The whole situation was crazy but the Mom bears the weight of this situation if she was actually six months pregnant when she met that man.
He said he tried to tell him but all he got was disrespect but on the same accord he said he showed the picture of the sister so he can feel he can have a father in his life if that makes sense
Nothing to be sorry about. Both men need therapy due to the decisions and actions of their mothers. Karamo tried to get Shawn to talk about his trauma but I suspect he was afraid of the pain he would have to face if he talked about it.
He wants a father influence in his life. So why can’t he receive counseling and hopefully with his mothers help sense she caused his hurt and pain will find his biological father .
Hey I'm still dealing with the situation today I'm reading the comments but people don't understand it's TV they didn't know what was said before the camera came on
His Mother never told him who his father is, this is why she was so insistent on find out rather or not the other young man was her son's son, and really her own grandson or not. Her son loves his mother so much, he can't bring himself to making his mother accountable as to who his own father is. Calling his mother messy is as close as he can come to making her address the real issues regarding his own father. How sad!
And I don't think the grandmother is messy because I was in the same situation where my grandma was told about me and my dad denied it she didn't pursue me to find out or do a DNA test the way this grandmother did once they got the DNA test my dad found out I was his and still let all the time go by
How would you want a DNA if his mother was already six months pregnant🤷🏽 then the man should have never said to Brandon here is a picture of your sister 🤷🏽.
Can you believe ANYTHING out the mouth of that mouthy, rude, disrespectful young man ? He prates on and on AND ON about Shaun being disrespectful but GOOD GRIEF he is as rude and disrespectful as it gets. Can't keep his mouth closed for 5 minutes to allow Shaun to answer ANY question.
My heart breaks for both Brandon and Shawn. I admire Shawn for trying to step up and be there for Brandon b/c he knew what it was like without a father, but it will take Brandon some time to let go of the anger and pain that he can no longer dump on Shawn. I hope his mom is honest with him (although I doubt she will be), and I hope that Shawn can go to therapy to unpack the pain he feels from Ursala's neglect, gaslighting, and narcissism.
Y’all saying grandma needs to mind her business but this been going on for YEARRSSS he is now 34 years old . WHAT WAS THE HOLD UP he could of stopped all suspicion of him being the potential dad years ago .
Honestly, the bottomline is all of this could've been avoided if Brandon's mom never lied and said Shawn was his father knowing she was already pregnant.
SHAWN'S MOTHER IS MESSY LIKE HE SAID. HER OWN MOTHER TOLD HER THAT BRANDON'S MOTHER WAS ALREADY PREGNANT. HER SON HAS TOLD HER AND SHE STILL STEPPED IN.
So mad Karamo didnt let that man talk. He was being disrespected and it was let go. Wheres the heat for his mom not an innocent man. He full of it he treated that man like trash and all of a sudden hes like oh its ok I dont need to know. So he cant keep that heat for the real dad. 🤷♂️ Ending. Damn Shawn is a good man he tried to be a help. Wish him and his fam well.
I suspect that when he learned the results he lost trust in his mother. I don’t know that he trusts that she will tell him the truth and he doesn’t want to experience the pain he’s currently experiencing twice.
Brandon was rude beyond toleration, he wasn't even sure the man fathered him yet he was being obnoxious to him and to his wife. I am happy for Shawn that Brandon turned out not his son, a contrary outcome would have been a pain in his life with Brandon's anger and possible mental ill-health.
He felt certain that was his father. After he took the truth with grace, he doesn’t deserve to be slammed. Other people on here have acted like the results were lies. He didn’t. He probably thought Sean was a deadbeat and felt a lot of pain towards him. Now he’s gonna end up trusting his mother less. I really hope he doesn’t continue bottling these emotions up. It’ll eat at him. He’s even too scared now to receive love from Sean after being offered. I feel bad for him
I know it's for ratings and make good TV, but the results should be read first so all that unnecessary anger towards a person who is not you parent won't happen. The only person MESSY in this situation is Brandon's mother. She knew that wasn't his father. Got her son out here embarrassed for no reason
I know it's for ratings and make good TV, but the results should be read first so all that unnecessary anger towards a person who is not you parent won't happen. The only person MESSY in this situation is Brandon's mother. She knew that wasn't his father. Got her son out here embarrassed for no reason
I dont mean to sound like a male chauvinist, but men need to be very very careful in their dealings or relationships with the opposite sex! It is a woman who is indeed in a position to know who is the father of her baby or who was responsible for her pregnancy! Period! I really respect this gentleman called Shawn. He is a good man, but the young man who is very rude probably growing up in a dysfunctional home is a huge disappointment! I am glad that he is not the man's son! Such a hotheaded rude guy would create problems for that man's family . Truth be told . He does not resemble or look like the man at all!
Karamo is great at what he does but he needs to stop pushing people to disclose deep and personal pain in front of an audience. Had they been is a closed door session, I'm sure Shawn would have opened up. His pain is not our business!
Thank you. He is clearly holding back and that was not the time nor setting for him to open up about his personal feelings. He came on the show to confirm paternity. That doesn't automatically mean he's going to open up about his life. Instead Karamo should have offered resources to Sean
Be a great therapist making 6 figures. Then get a show and get 8 figures and TRY NOT to ask your clients to expose themselves on YOUR SHOW! LOL. It happens to ALL the great therapist 😢😢😢😢
Karamo God Bless you my brother for doing a great job, Your 100 percent, to ask questions GodBless you, dont stop doing what God has called you, In this platform... The are lot of people, specialist who can help shawn and his mom or whoever, Karamo has contact or connection to do that, Mrs, Mr judge go and fixyour broken relationships with your family, Your bitter not in this platform
Brandon was hurt by his statement of "when you were a baby I loved you" but all it took was me to get angry and you quickly exit my life stage left. Regardless of DNA if you loved me it wouldn't have been that easy to walk away from me. He was done after that because he had the answer he needed of "will you be here through thick and thin" like parents are supposed to, love me.
Assumption is the mother of all screw ups and indeed humbles those who choose to learn from such. It’s bad to assume anything in this life, it’s wise to always double,triple check & verify before going all out about things. I hope the mom & son learnt a golden lesson.
Hey I'm still dealing with the situation today I'm reading the comments but people don't understand it's TV they didn't know what was said before the camera came on
So sad! The child is the only one that gets hurt in the end and I say the child because the inner child in that man never got closure… it’s like my phrase “who is going to cry for the little boy that cries inside of me”
Well..... I knew he is not his biological father 😮😮😮😮 They don't look alike 😮😮😮😮not at all from head, four head, ears ect.... I cant blame the young man, He desire and long to have his daddy, He believed his mom like when a child believe everything his mom told him, He is broken man, bitter n he was awaiting for that moment to get a positive DNA results, Shawn s mom was supportive, as a granny i will support my grandson until truth is revealed, God bless his mom most times it happens that man hides such truth
He was trying to tell Brandon in a nice way he wasn't his father but he didn't want to hear it. I'm glad he was man enough to apologize.
His mom lied to him. I hope he finds out who is his dad.
Brandon is hurting, he's hurt, I pray he finds answers and starts healing
Sean continually stated that when he began the relationship with this young man’s mother she was already 6 1/2 months in her pregnancy. No one listened to him but the DNA proved his truth.
And his wife told what he wasn’t admitting. Which is, he was a virgin when he met his wife. Which means he never had sex with Brandon’s mom. I don’t understand why Shawn didn’t at least tell that part.
He mentioned an ex wife and child. That threw me off because I'm thinking his current wife was his first wife. @@shanterriajefferson1022
Oh my god that's hurts
Exactly
Exactly!
The mother is never present. It’s really shameful that he had to find out this way. She humiliated her son on national television because she wanted to keep up a lie smh.
Exactly !!! So true
Where is his mother?
She needed to know if she is the grandmother.. I know I would
Cos she knew the truth all along, that's why
It was crazy y'all like it's been a year since the show and I'm still dealing with this 😢
Brandon’s mother knew the truth, and that’s why she did not bring her lying behind to the show.
That's so true.
lol
Exactly
She never should have let him go on that show. That's embarrassing. She should have said there was a possibility he wasn't if she didn't want to own up to it.
I feel like when people come out to respond, they need to have the chance to respond. He knew he wasn't his father but still tried to embrace him. Then got chewed out for trying to do the right thing.
that part
As a mother! I would have done the same thing as this man mother did. The kid do have strong facial features and body mold as this man, he even have a soft, but manly voice as this man. But in the end he don’t have this man blood 🩸 nor saliva, but he had a grandma’s Royal Loyal 💜 free heart with honor, which is better than a blood ❤ heart mandated by law to pay child support , that cause resentment issues and hardship on the the paying parent. There should be a law that requires all women and men to submit a dna upon the birth of every child. 😊the woman should have to pay half of what ever the state mandates the cost of child support for every child.
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Agreed
His mother needs to tell him the truth
Shawn doesn’t seem like the kind of man that would walk away from his responsibilities.
That's why you should get test at birth and avoid all this.Wear condoms and pick your mates more wiser.Don't lay down with someone cause they are easy.Stop kids from being hurt.They are the real victims.
@@glorialesure1906 Mothers shouldn’t lie to their children and blame other men knowing that they’re not the father this woman was 6mo pregnant when he met her, he knew this was not his son but the son didn’t want to hear it.
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the audience clapping at this man's nonsense made me so stressed out like
@@glorialesure1906he never needed it she was 6 months when he was a virgin 😕
Poor Sean. They were all trying to throw this man under the bus, but his wife got him, and she is there to life him up after all of the shenanigans.
Salute to Shawn for keeping his composure as these people tried to clown him.
EXACTLY!!!
These women consistently lie to their children about who their fathers are. DNA test should be mandatory at birth. These children grow up hating men, All based on their mom's lies.
It’s so heartbreaking but that man is a good dude. He tried but it’s not his son
So very sad!
Blame ur mom boy don't get angry with that man
That’s what he did after learning the truth. He’s definitely gonna take it out on his mother. He said that she brought up absolutely nobody but Sean. He wouldn’t have known any better
😮I am so dashed confused
Mother should shut up, and stop making the young man confused.
The young man should wait for the test but not bud your nose to that family problem
He's not his son it's up to Sean if he wants to except him as his but people are trying to .make him more confuse and make him more angry.
I love Shawn's composure.he has always maintained he is not .he alone knows better and this is the out come.people should stop running their mouth.shawn,you are a real man.
I agree! It's sad that Shawn has suppressed the childhood trauma inflicted by his mother who is truly messy. He made every effort to maintain respect for his mother and Brandon. He's a decent man.
@@ritaseay2811I hope he takes Karamo’s advice. Shawn said at one point in his life he was a ward of the state. I wonder why his mom lost custody of him. I suspect the answer to that question is what Shawn is trying to suppress and not deal with. I really wish Mentally Health services were more affordable. If he doesn’t deal with that pain he will still be affected by it.
The son needs to clam down a little because he doesn't know for sure.
I feel his pain because it's not easy to grow up not knowing who your father is.
Grandma you should of listen to your son.
I like his wife. She is such a supportive woman. When she gave Koramo a thumbs up, without saying a word at the end.......that was true
Shawn was calm and composed. His demeanor said it all, he was not defensive just calmly stating, "I know the truth of the matter" and he was right. It's unfortunate that Brandon totally believed his mother, who obviously misled him. However, he should have handled the situation cautiously because Shawn had previously wanted a DNA meaning, he wanted Brandon to know the truth at that point.
Mother know best ? Not😅
Brandon don’t need a Dad. He needs counseling. Any man that he think is his Dad, he’s going to take his anger & pain out on that person.
I disagree. Brandon’s mom lied to him and he thought that this man just didn’t want to be in his life. He didn’t fully understand the dynamics of his pass. He’s never seen him face to face so on this taping he wanted to get it all out.
I told y’all! That man kept saying it and i believed him ! He had no reason to lie 🤷🏾
I believed him the instance he said it!
I don’t think that Saun was being heard in this situation and he handled himself well and stuck to his guns.
He handle it very well especially when they wasn't giving him a chance to speak
Those two men are so hurt... Praying for their healing
Wowww this is why u can't go at people so matter of fact because people LIE!!!! Obviously his mother lied to him...and this man was right the whole time. Prayers that Brandon finds his father. 🙏🏽
No he does not look like Shaun. I'm sorry different nose. & he doesn't look like the mother either. She ws already 6 mths. pregnant when they got😲 together. Come on make it make sense already.
that is so hard and I understand because my mother made me believe someone else was my father to a point I hated him because he never claimed me, later to find out she doesn't know who my father is
First time I’ve ever wanted a man to not be the father 😩 this young man was too much, the disrespect was crazy
Too much
True there was a lot of disrespect but he truly believed that was his father from what information he had… and if it had turned out to have been his father the disrespect would have been well deserved being he was not there for him ! Also, he was man enough to apologize in the end
I said the exact same thing.
I so agree with you. Brandon is such a disrespectful young man. I'm glad Sean is not his dad.
The man tried to be a stepfather to the kid... but the truth needed to be exposed
This was sad. This young man put a lot of energy into this matter which could potentially not been his father. His mother is accountable at the end of the day. And he's gearing his anger towards the wrong person. Very sad. 😢
DNA at birth no matter what the status of your relationship.
I agree
Agreed 👍🏾 👍🏾👍🏾 That would solve many of the issues people encounter later in life.
@@gorickrealtyearly DNA prevents all the back and forth with paternity issues.
In this situation that was not needed He didn't need a DNA test because he already knew it wasn't his child😮😮😮
And mandatory child support. Both would be fair
28:05 You already know he ain't the pappy 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
This why people need to mind their own business and stay in they lane. Family is always doing this foolishness like they were in the room
Brandon sending a picture of his child to Shaun saying "this is ur sister" is sending mixed messages. Why even tell that man that?
SHAWN SENT A PICTURE TO BRANDON.
I know it looks bad that he is annoyed with his mother. The truth is. Not all mothers are good mothers and that’s why you get this relationship. I have been there.
Both mothers are problematic
What Brandon doesn’t understand is, he can’t ask a question and get mad that Shawn’s not answering if he doesn’t stop talking long enough for him to respond. Also if his mom was 6 mos pregnant when they met, there’s no way Shawn’s the father.
Honestly they don't look alike. They just two big guys. Different complexions, nose, lips, hairline, heights, etc.
Thank you! They DNT favor at all
Most males don’t resemble their fathers
@TheMilanW THANK YOU!💪🏽❤️✊🏼 I could have SWORN I was the ONLY ONE who peeped that! The ONLY THING they have in common IS their size, AND HOW COULD YOU EVER FORGET ABOUT THOSE TOTALLY AWESOME LOOKING, MATCHING SHIRTS THEY HAVE ON THAT THE “POTENTIAL”FATHER JUST BOUGHT HIS FROM SAKS FIFTH AVENUE, AND he spared NO EXPENSE on buying his “POTENTIAL” son that BOMB 🔥 SHIRT AND PANTS from Bloomingdale’s. Oh, and Sean even bought BOTH of them those BADASS SHOES they have on from Lord & Taylor because he caught a BIG TIME deal! Homeboy got BOTH OF THEM TWO PAIR APIECE of the shoes for buy one pair and get half off the second pair.🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😂😅😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you I said from the start...they do not look alike at all
😂 they look similar to me before I read the comments I thought he was going to be the father and that's just my opinion😂😂
Not his mama talking bout "oh my god" ma'am you should have minded your damn business
Ms. Ursula was a mess. I got a feeling she was and still is a piece of work.
Exactly, like girl stay in your lane!!
😅😅😅😂😂😢😢😮
I feel so sorry for Brandon. I could see his pain in his body language. I pray that his mom tells him the truth & he finds his real father to gain closure. God bless him 🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am having trouble feeling sorry because he's A BIG MOUTH talking over top of Shaun CONSTANTLY. Shaun's mother is an interfering so and so. She's taking the word of a random stranger over her own son. NO WONDER Shaun says she's messy.
My advice for Brandon is to put his DNA on "Ancestry" or "My Heritage," for example. It will link him to his maternal and paternal relatives. He might even discover who his natural father is or was. That's how I was linked to my father through a paternal half-sibling and scores of paternal family members. My father died before I found out his identity, but at least I now know the truth.
That young man is so hurt by his mom lieing that hes in no mood to listen to any reasoning
Why would his mother let him go through all this. Just tell the truth.
Allow the man to speak. He was willing to love this young man knowing fully well he wasn't the dad. This young man is a poor listener.
The Grandma, I suspect is looking for a ‘new ‘ family as there’s clearly very serious tension with Shaun. And Brandon was a replacement son. It was implied that Shaun’s grandmother raised him become his Mother must have done something when he was a kid. She’s probably lonely …and I’m glad Shaun has turned into the rational adult he is.
Karamo has a Hallmark view of family and that’s great but just sometimes family are related by blood and nothing else….its that simple. You can actively not get on and dislike each other.
Ps…they didn’t look alike at all.
Shawn, at that time, was trying to be that man for Brandon's Mother and him but she broke up with him according to Shawn.
Riiiiiiight.
This was so heartbreaking 💔
Its so many broken families besides mine. 💔 askingbgod to heal my hurt that comes from other ppl hurt and pain.
He might really end up being a father to him and filling that role now that the truth is out. It's beautiful that he's making himself available to the son figure. "Love" not "blood" determines family. 💜💪🏾💜
Anytime they come out all hostile and the alleged father makes sense..I know they not the dad
Him and his mother need to talk. His mother has some 304 secrets. The truth shall always prevail.
I don’t care for Brandon. He thinks he’s right about everything and he over talks everyone. No one can’t get a word in edgewise. Shawn held himself very well. His Mother is messy , just because someone calls saying grandma doesn’t mean you go off and say yup, that’s true for sure. I feel bad for Shawn. Brandon is rude and disrespectful for someone wanting to know if he’s his father. Brandon owes Shawn a huge apology and so does his Messy mother. His mother should’ve been a Mother and listened to her son when he said Shawn isn’t mine. Please let me take care of it and she couldn’t even do that, that’s not love. Shawn’s still trying to protect his mother by not exposing everything she’s done and she’s not hearing what he’s saying. I can see why he says she doesn’t put Shawn first. I’m not huge on cutting a parent off because my mother passed when I was 5, but he needs to distance himself from her. She’s toxic.
The problem is that he is now the male version of his mother. He will mess up every relationship he gets in
Exactly
@@Mrscarricom I think you’re wrong on that one. He could have been messy and exposed his mother, but protected her and didn’t try to paint her in a bad light. Did his mother protect him and put his feelings first and respect them? No. She painted him in a bad light. He’s very emotionally intelligent and that’s more than I can say for his mother. He held back and he didn’t have too
@CassandraV-kl4hq I agree with you.. His mother hurt him, he doesn't know his father and was being a surrogate father to Brandon. Ms.Ursula is messy and has her own mess to deal with. She is still hurting her son at this age. Hope she reads these comments.
Brandon not letting him talk if he wants answers he needs to let him speak. But dude did lead him on
Definitely lead him on. He should not have sent him pictures of his child saying this is your sister. That's just playing games. A simple no I'm not your dad would've done. Brandon's mum should be ashamed of herself. All them years knowing that he wasn't his dad. Wicked
I believe he was still trying to be a father figure since he was with the mom while the mom was 6 months pregnant with Brandon and was with Brandon mother as a small child he was trying to welcome him in envy family are like family to him even though he knows he is not his father he remembers that is a child he was the one who was around Brandon until the mother broke up with him so I'm sure he felt like the reason Brandon was reaching out is because he still had never found his real father so he was just going to step up and be like a father figure and again be like family that Brandon doesn't have basically just being a good guy😊
He called his mother messy. He didn't say mom you being messy. He got to play close attention to what he said.
Brandon had the right attitude at the end…salute 🫡
I would always listen to my mom.and if she’s wrong the truth will come out, and then she would know. I LOVE MY MOM EVEN THO SHE NOT HERE PHYSICALLY, SHE LIVES IN MY HEART AND IN MY LIFE.
My heart aches for both if them.
I love Karamo 💗 He's passionate about what he does ❤
Why did he not tell this young man in the beginning? if his mom was 6 months pregnant no DNA test was needed and there is no way I would have said you have a sister and then send pictures. The whole situation was crazy but the Mom bears the weight of this situation if she was actually six months pregnant when she met that man.
He said he tried to tell him but all he got was disrespect but on the same accord he said he showed the picture of the sister so he can feel he can have a father in his life if that makes sense
Shawn should have grabbed Brandon and gave him a hug of assurance. He really needed it and didnt even know it. May the best come to the both of them.
I see all the pain in Brandon for not being raised by a father.
I'm sorry, but Brandon needs some serious therapy
Nothing to be sorry about. Both men need therapy due to the decisions and actions of their mothers. Karamo tried to get Shawn to talk about his trauma but I suspect he was afraid of the pain he would have to face if he talked about it.
YES he does
They really tried to make him a dead beat. Mom went along with Brandon without a DNA test. He knows his Mother.
You gotta gotta go on and get ya an Ancestry DNA test, 23 & me, or My Heritage or whatever one. Hell get em all and find ya father. 🤦🏾♀️
He wants a father influence in his life. So why can’t he receive counseling and hopefully with his mothers help sense she caused his hurt and pain will find his biological father .
Would like to see updates on this sad matter. Brandon now has to deal with his own mother and how she didn't tell him the truth about Shawn.
Hey I'm still dealing with the situation today I'm reading the comments but people don't understand it's TV they didn't know what was said before the camera came on
His Mother never told him who his father is, this is why she was so insistent on find out rather or not the other young man was her son's son, and really her own grandson or not.
Her son loves his mother so much, he can't bring himself to making his mother accountable as to who his own father is.
Calling his mother messy is as close as he can come to making her address the real issues regarding his own father.
How sad!
And I don't think the grandmother is messy because I was in the same situation where my grandma was told about me and my dad denied it she didn't pursue me to find out or do a DNA test the way this grandmother did once they got the DNA test my dad found out I was his and still let all the time go by
He said straight up she was 6 months pregnant I believed it
How would you want a DNA if his mother was already six months pregnant🤷🏽 then the man should have never said to Brandon here is a picture of your sister 🤷🏽.
Exactly, grandma cause everything anyhow Brandon will find his father hope Karama will help him
Can you believe ANYTHING out the mouth of that mouthy, rude, disrespectful young man ? He prates on and on AND ON about Shaun being disrespectful but GOOD GRIEF he is as rude and disrespectful as it gets. Can't keep his mouth closed for 5 minutes to allow Shaun to answer ANY question.
For the sake of the boy who had been lied to by his mother, and a grandmother who confused the boy
That boy have no manners
Brandon was hurt and angry fueled by grandma Ursela and half truths of his mom
The boy has manners
However is normal when a person is in pain,
If the judge from #paternitycourt #laurenlakes would’ve heard this case…she would’ve made sure the father took the blame
I'm glad Sean is not the father, Brandon is loud and unreasonable.
They do not look alike sorry
They sure don’t paused at 2:45 nothing looks alike
I agree
They Look alike to me
I take back my last comment they don’t look alike 😂😂😂
At Df All Lol.
The mother probably doesn't care for her daughter-in-law. The mother is nosey. She probably chased her son's father away.
I'm sorry but the possible son is very unapproachable to me. I'm 10 minutes in and he's obviously not the father
Brandon and ursela could of just did a DNA without shawn..
My heart breaks for both Brandon and Shawn. I admire Shawn for trying to step up and be there for Brandon b/c he knew what it was like without a father, but it will take Brandon some time to let go of the anger and pain that he can no longer dump on Shawn. I hope his mom is honest with him (although I doubt she will be), and I hope that Shawn can go to therapy to unpack the pain he feels from Ursala's neglect, gaslighting, and narcissism.
Brandon wouldnt let him speak at all… I feel sorry for him as he is hurting with all of this
Where is Brendons mother?
Y’all saying grandma needs to mind her business but this been going on for YEARRSSS he is now 34 years old . WHAT WAS THE HOLD UP he could of stopped all suspicion of him being the potential dad years ago .
Thank you!!! This is the comment I was looking for because I smell the mess that is Shawn.
Honestly, the bottomline is all of this could've been avoided if Brandon's mom never lied and said Shawn was his father knowing she was already pregnant.
The mother could have stopped it by not lying to her son. She knew he wasn't that boys father and sent her son to embarrass himself on national TV
Yes exactly! 💯💯👏👏
@@jasm760same here and his wife felt off to me too.
Brandon had a right to know if Shawn was his father! The grandmother is a caring person💜
SHAWN'S MOTHER IS MESSY LIKE HE SAID. HER OWN MOTHER TOLD HER THAT BRANDON'S MOTHER WAS ALREADY PREGNANT. HER SON HAS TOLD HER AND SHE STILL STEPPED IN.
So mad Karamo didnt let that man talk. He was being disrespected and it was let go. Wheres the heat for his mom not an innocent man. He full of it he treated that man like trash and all of a sudden hes like oh its ok I dont need to know. So he cant keep that heat for the real dad. 🤷♂️
Ending. Damn Shawn is a good man he tried to be a help. Wish him and his fam well.
I suspect that when he learned the results he lost trust in his mother. I don’t know that he trusts that she will tell him the truth and he doesn’t want to experience the pain he’s currently experiencing twice.
Karamo be on BS sometimes
Brandon was rude beyond toleration, he wasn't even sure the man fathered him yet he was being obnoxious to him and to his wife. I am happy for Shawn that Brandon turned out not his son, a contrary outcome would have been a pain in his life with Brandon's anger and possible mental ill-health.
I feel it bc he felt in a way yes this can be my dad
YES!!!
He felt certain that was his father. After he took the truth with grace, he doesn’t deserve to be slammed. Other people on here have acted like the results were lies. He didn’t. He probably thought Sean was a deadbeat and felt a lot of pain towards him. Now he’s gonna end up trusting his mother less. I really hope he doesn’t continue bottling these emotions up. It’ll eat at him. He’s even too scared now to receive love from Sean after being offered. I feel bad for him
I know it's for ratings and make good TV, but the results should be read first so all that unnecessary anger towards a person who is not you parent won't happen. The only person MESSY in this situation is Brandon's mother. She knew that wasn't his father. Got her son out here embarrassed for no reason
I know it's for ratings and make good TV, but the results should be read first so all that unnecessary anger towards a person who is not you parent won't happen. The only person MESSY in this situation is Brandon's mother. She knew that wasn't his father. Got her son out here embarrassed for no reason
Why DNA if the father met the mom when she was 6 months pregnant
because sometimes
people forget
how things really happened
Brandon needed the DNA test. He would’ve never moved on
I dont mean to sound like a male chauvinist, but men need to be very very careful in their dealings or relationships with the opposite sex!
It is a woman who is indeed in a position to know who is the father of her baby or who was responsible for her pregnancy!
Period!
I really respect this gentleman called Shawn. He is a good man, but the young man who is very rude probably growing up in a dysfunctional home is a huge disappointment!
I am glad that he is not the man's son!
Such a hotheaded rude guy would create problems for that man's family .
Truth be told .
He does not resemble or look like the man at all!
Karamo is great at what he does but he needs to stop pushing people to disclose deep and personal pain in front of an audience.
Had they been is a closed door session, I'm sure Shawn would have opened up. His pain is not our business!
Thank you. He is clearly holding back and that was not the time nor setting for him to open up about his personal feelings. He came on the show to confirm paternity. That doesn't automatically mean he's going to open up about his life. Instead Karamo should have offered resources to Sean
Be a great therapist making 6 figures. Then get a show and get 8 figures and TRY NOT to ask your clients to expose themselves on YOUR SHOW! LOL. It happens to ALL the great therapist 😢😢😢😢
Karamo God Bless you my brother for doing a great job,
Your 100 percent, to ask questions GodBless you, dont stop doing what God has called you,
In this platform...
The are lot of people, specialist who can help shawn and his mom or whoever,
Karamo has contact or connection to do that,
Mrs, Mr judge go and fixyour broken relationships with your family,
Your bitter not in this platform
The man said the lady was already pregnant.
He is disrespectful if he was my son I wouldn’t deal with him
Momma was a rolling Rock 😂😂
I don’t see no resemblance poor 34 yr old still got the boy that wants a Dad
You already knew that he was not your son but he didn’t know.
This alleged son was very disrespectful and does not give anybody a chance to speak, he definitely has daddy issues.
The crowd claps for anything
Brandon was hurt by his statement of "when you were a baby I loved you" but all it took was me to get angry and you quickly exit my life stage left. Regardless of DNA if you loved me it wouldn't have been that easy to walk away from me. He was done after that because he had the answer he needed of "will you be here through thick and thin" like parents are supposed to, love me.
That brandon soooooo disrespectful and mannerless hmmm
You don't understand Brandon is hurt
Assumption is the mother of all screw ups and indeed humbles those who choose to learn from such. It’s bad to assume anything in this life, it’s wise to always double,triple check & verify before going all out about things. I hope the mom & son learnt a golden lesson.
Heal Brandon ❤❤ you are not alone ❤
Hey I'm still dealing with the situation today I'm reading the comments but people don't understand it's TV they didn't know what was said before the camera came on
Lot of Pain
Shaun was confident that he wasn’t going to be the one apologizing.
He does look just like him!!😮
So sad! The child is the only one that gets hurt in the end and I say the child because the inner child in that man never got closure… it’s like my phrase “who is going to cry for the little boy that cries inside of me”
Two people can look alike and be absolutely no kin!!!!, That's why their is DNA, Paternity Test.Favoring doesn't mean you kin folks!!!!!🥴😕😥🙌☹️
He met Rhonda on the streets 😂
Well..... I knew he is not his biological father 😮😮😮😮
They don't look alike 😮😮😮😮not at all from head, four head, ears ect....
I cant blame the young man, He desire and long to have his daddy, He believed his mom like when a child believe everything his mom told him,
He is broken man, bitter n he was awaiting for that moment to get a positive DNA results,
Shawn s mom was supportive, as a granny i will support my grandson until truth is revealed, God bless his mom most times it happens that man hides such truth
Great Show so full of excitement!!
Brandon came out very angry. He didn’t want to allow anyone else to talk. He seem very angry