I don't understand why you don't say that LOVE, is the first and primary reason why you went to the Philippines??? That is the "major" reason why Expats go there. Living in the western world, you realize soon that once you hit 45+ , your chances of finding a young, slim woman are slim to none. Most are divorced, overweight, with 1-2 kids, and also come with the "new feminist attitudes" that a lot of guys are just fed up with. LOVE- and friendly people are really lacking here in North America. I think you'll see huge amounts of baby boomers who are now about 45-60 yrs old, going there to find love and a new purpose in life. My situation is much like the sentiment you expressed so well in your video here Ned. You can't be happy just with nice houses and fancy cars--after you've had them, their no big deal anymore, and you want some real meaning and purpose in your life--be it a nice woman, or starting a family, which is available there in the Phils-- and not in North America. It's really a chance at a second life in a way--and guys are throwing all the money, career aside, and going there looking for real meaning in life. I'll say a very good, down to earth video Ned, and you covered a lot of very good informative information on the Phils here. I enjoyed it very much, but I do think--"it's the availability of women that is the # 1 driving force" for all the Expats going there, and you should be very upfront on this issue, as it's the reason why your there, and so many others like you as well. North America is a good place to make money-- but it can't buy you happiness. Look forward to more good videos from you--saw yours off Henry's site. regards-Grant ( in Canada) I'll likely be going there myself!!!!
Grant Bedard Actually, I am not here for the women - I just needed something new and different from what I had. An adventure, if you will. And you are right - a lot of guys are here for that, but again, that wasn't my personal reason. It's just icing on the rather yummy cake that is the Philippines.
Philippine Dreams - I guess everyone's reasons are different, some for warm weather, others for low cost to live etc. Good luck with your adventure Ned--your very similar to Henry out in the Phils. Be interesting to meet you guys there.
I agree with you 100% Problem with him saying anything else other than women is that I don't see any other reason as to why white women don't move to the country for the climate or cheap costs etc. Instead there's just an influx of old white men moving into the country
John Primrose I see lots of "white women" every day here in Dumaguete - students, wives, retirees, young women working remotely, etc. etc. There are a large amount of "old white men" who have moved to the country and started families, and yeah, I think they would be the majority of foreigners in the country. But I also know a LOT of young foreigners who are here working remotely and taking advantage of working for USD/Euros and spending Pesos. I think it's peoples perception that the RP is a haven for old sexpats, which isn't actually the case.
Philippine Dreams At least we agree that the majority of foreigners in the Philippines are old white men and that's what I was trying to get at. Of course there would be white women and other young foreigners in the country but they are the minority and I've never doubted that. But if the Philippines' climate is so good and cheap cost of living why do we not see an equal amount of male and female foreigners in the country? What? Don't female foreigners not want all those things? Instead, its like I said, just droves of old white men moving to the country. To me what Grant Bedard said is true. Females can pretty much get a partner anywhere they live but for older males in the west its going to be a lot harder. And asian women are the ones more open to dating old white men because of the fact they are white and we still have that racial inferiority mentality in the Philippines and would want to see our children marry into white families despite anything else (age) as oppose to black people for example.
+jack c There's a lot of roosters here. And barking dogs. They don't bother me, but maybe I am just lucky. They do seem to bother some people. My only beef with the Philippines is the unrelenting heat on sunny days in urban areas. Then again, we have a metal roof, no shade and concrete walls. Well, at least we don't need an oven.
Philippine Dreams The hot summer season normally start in the months of March through May then June start the wet season. During the hot season months night time is very uncomfortable because of the heat. Living in a metal roof and concrete walls are terribles because concrete absorbs suns heat during the day and release the heat at night. Metal roofing also acts like an oven and stores heat in the attic and radiates heat inside the attic at all times. Proper ventilation of the the attic would help ease the storing of heat trapped in the attic like installing a vent fan with thermostat control set at a desired temperature to activate the vent fan and automatically shut of when temperature cools down. There are solar power roof ventilators you could install if they are locally available.
I am planning on moving to Tanza in 2 years to marry my girlfriend. I choosed to move out the states and start a new life there. I know all the ups ad down of living there as I think Im ready for the new start I just hope my family here can understand
I’m also a retired teacher from Boston . I can relate . I do 4 months there and 6 in USA . I find our list of 10 is the same . When I’m here in America I keep getting pulled back your way. . However, bilocation can be expensive. Truly enjoyed your video
I spent some time in PI, in my youth. I've always dreamed about going back. Now, that I'm retired, (Military and police), I can afford to easily live there. I'm 46 now, haven't been over for 25+ years! I keep dreaming of a small Island in the Leyte Gulf where I stayed for months. I don't know you guys. This is the first video I have seen of yours. You nailed it as to where I am in life: Itchy feet. Burned out with the West. In a comfort zone. It's time to make a change! I have subscribed. Thank you so much for this video.
i happened to came across your blog,its nice to hear what your saying about our country, although many of pilipinos are poor, it is still a good place to live here, kudos
Great video..all the reasons are good. The Philippines is a special place to me and many others. The main issue with foreigners that don't do well in the Philippines is their inability to adapt. Do NOT expect the Philippines to be a poor version of your country...it is something altogether different. But honestly, besides my gf, the best thing about the Philippines is the people. The friendliest people I have ever met...and the most amazingly beautiful, loving, caring, and supportive women.
I'm in the process of selling off what I don't need, and after I have everything sold, I'm returning home to the Philippines, my second country, I already have my choices of where I want to live out my life. My goal is to be back in the Philippines by the Month of October, 2017 before I turn 64.
Thanks guys so much for your help. I was wondering because her family would really like me to move there, and honestly if my health were better I'd already be there. But I know it could be impossible for me to get around as I am also heavy, hence the power chair. She is willing to move here, we were just trying to appease her family. Again thanks for taking the time and effort to answer my question. Wish you both the best, and blessings on you, your house, and all who enter there.
L wallace you should try el nido islands or maybe try visiting the enchanted river in Mindanao rather than staying in manila ^_^ you'd love el nido or enchanted river i assure you.
Philippines is nice until the money runs out. I hate the rat race in California but I must wait until I collect my pension at 55 two years from now. I thought about moving to the Phil 14 years ago but my better judgement told me to wait. I am glad that I wait. Philippines is hell if you are short on money. If you get serious ill without enough money then you die. I have paid for med, lab test, surgery and check up for my girlfriend mom. It is not cheap at all. Med is more expensive than in the USA. It is a very risky move to Phil without steady income like pension. Quite a few expat have die because they cannot pay for the medical treatment. Some expat become homeless when the money runs out. I have been to Phil 5 times. There are many paradise in Phil but...they all cost money. I am not preaching here. I share with you the reality of living in the Phil. Enough said.
Well said. Yep, the Philippines (or anyplace for that matter) is a bad place to be if you don't have any money. Medical care is (much) cheaper here but meds are more expensive (insurance doesn't cover them). The Phils is also a bad place to be if you are an alcoholic.
I don't even know why I ended watching your TH-cam, but it looks like you are happy and you have a supportive loving wife. Life is wonderful when you're leaving your Philippine dream. Tyler below is just jealous and negative because he probably met the wrong type of woman.
Well said my friend. Glad everything is going well for you! Hey I sent you a message over on facebook. I figured you wouldn't check it very often, but go read it.
Nice video! Your lucky the gf allows you to partake in her videos :) Visiting the Philippines in December, perhaps we will cross paths. Stay healthy & safe!
Ned thanks for sharing about your life. I'm the opposite of you I moved to USA when I was 8 and still have lots of family in Socal and friends. I sometimes miss home but I enjoy my job, the modern conveniences, the nice packed freeway systems. Also the great weather in Socal...the beaches are nice but not as nice as the Philippines and the water is much colder in California. It took awhile to really, really learn the english language and be able to read and write effectively. Maybe one day I will retire once my 2 little girls are grown and move to Buhi which I think is south of Manila where my grandma's house sits empty since she passed away 20 years ago. Took me awhile to get used to the fast food like hamburgers and tacos as well as pizzas. They didn't have those type of foods back home in the 70's. Watching these youtube videos it's amazing on how much the Philippines has grown with lots of different American food. Keep up the awesome job that your doing. Your videos are so informative and I enjoy seeing how things have changed drastically.:)
Socal can be pretty awesome and I do miss conveniences that we have in the US. There are a lot of fast food places here now, which might account for the burgeoning waistlines in some Filipinos. :) Glad we can do videos so you can see your home country.
Ned and Michell. Great Video again. I will be visiting in late Dec 2015 to mid Jan 2016 to see friends. You have given me insight into what i may expect. Your Beautiful Honey and the way she reacts to your words with shy eyes. or loving hugs or bumping into you, her expressions are to die for. adds a great amount of humor to your Videos. She shows a get amount of care for you,, She is a Good Treasure! Keep up the good work,, you said that you were going to go on a vacation on your last monthly wrap up. I am looking forward to seeing that Video too.
You did not need to convince my wife and I about living in The Philippines but your video strengthened our resolve. Our desire is to create a team of people helping us with things in our business for the same amount of money it would cost to hire one person in the US. We are planning to live in both the US and the Philippines but we have to figure out how to make that work with legal and tax issues.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I will be in Cebu within a week. Did you get that butterfly feeling in you stomach. But I'm taking the plunge, I dreamt every single day of living in the Philippines.
Butterflies the size of turkey vultures! Do yourself a favor and get a blog on blogger.com to document your initial experiences. If you have a laptop, take a little video each day documenting your thoughts and feelings. You won't regret it. And wait til you see the malls in Cebu!!!!
Thanks for quelling my curiosity on why you moved to the RP. My top ten would include Asian women as a motivation because I've have found them as a whole to have a genuine sweetness that many men have difficulty finding in the states.
excellent video, @ Philippine Dreams, the reason why the barking of the dogs and noises from those roosters doesn't bother you is because of the love you shared with your wife has turned those noises into an awsome tune....lol,,,,,,and also the reason why those white women going there in PI, is that they are running after these handsome white men who wanted to be Orientalize...imagine running out of white men in their country....lolol....just trying to make humor guys...but I'm not sure if my humor will work....I'm just trying to do something about the serious conversation here...lol ...have a blessed Sunday everyone....
I was stationed in the Philippines for three years in the early 80s. I got to the point I didn't even hear the roosters, the tricycles or the barking dogs after awhile. It was all white noise to me. When I got back to the States I was very restless, couldn't sleep and didn't know why. An old Chief told me I was missing the background noise of the Philippines. I started sleeping with the radio on, and it worked; I could sleep again. I still sleep with the TV on to this day.
Hi, First of all >>> compliments for this video. Secondly, what a recognizable story. Not all the 10 points, but at least 5 of them. Anyway, I come here already since middle '90's. At that time twice a year holiday for three weeks. The beginning was strange for me. In Europe you have a certain way of living, but what I discovered here, it was completely different. After a few times back and forward, I noticed that I was missing the Phill's, the moment I was back home. So I decided, after retired, start living there. And that's what I did. In between I was hoping to get "used" to >> fall in line, fill out these papers, doing everything two or three times, before something happened etc. On the other hand, the people are friendly, helpful , prices are half, as what I spend before,and last but not least, eventually I found my wife here. So in short, I'm happy. Yes, you're right, sometimes the temperature getting too much hi ( like last week ), almost 40 degrees C. But after two thunderstorms, it went down. Funny to see that >> people , especially the children, taking shower on the street. Staying now for a couple of years and in fact I don't want to go back anymore. My country changes a lot, the last 15 years, but not in a positive way; on the contrary. All in all , like I mentioned, I feel happy here and I hope, that you and your wife feeling the same thing. Grtz from Biñan.
Philippine Dreams when i was there i found it hard to tell the age of the filapinas...a 20 year old women will look 12 i swear...i had a fun time there loved it.and no i was not there chasing women.i went for the history and beautiful country.
My wife is 30 years younger than me and we have had 10 years of total bliss together. I did have to meet many 100's of Filipina's (not bar girls), before I met an honest one who was also good looking!
Subscribed to your channel... Looking forward to watch all your videos... Thanks.. I'd be moving there someday soon... Can't take thus cold Chicago weather no more...
Michelle is absolutely adorable!! I have a Philippine partner as well. I'm 47 she's 21 similar situation. I enjoy watching your videos good luck to you guys!!
This video of yours persuaded me to subscribe. We seem to have a few things in common. Like a love for seafood, sandy beaches, being in the company of people who smile easily. And, from a previous video, your love of reading. (Given that you taught for a while at a Philippines University, maybe we have that in common. I was an Econ prof at a US university for 33 years--now retired). The one big difference between us: you took the big plunge and found fulfilment in a drastically new setting. I chickened out. So now I do the next best thing and live vicariously through the experiences of people like you.
Love your videos. I've got a filippina girlfriend, her name is Dyndel, she's from Tabango in Leyte. She's the most awesome woman I've ever known, a breath of fresh air. I've known her for 3 years now. I'm from New Zealand, I've got an ex wife, she epitomized everything about western woman, that I've come to dislike. But Dyndel's attitudes and outlooks are so different. I managed to visit her last year, it was only for a week, I didn't want to spend longer I case of rejection. But she held my hand from the moment we'd physically met, we had talked on skype, but in person was so much better. And from then on, I knew how much she loved me, and it made me love her more. So when I got back, I started saving for my second trip, because I knew I wanted to marry her. But then Typhoon Yolanda hit, and I supported her thru that instead of saving for my next trip. But, the downside was her family, putting pressure on her to ask me for money beyond my means. This the downside, and it almost caused us to break up, but it wasn't her, it was the pressure of her family. Then at my job my hours got reduced to part time, and my means of living stayed the same. But this isn't a sob story. I've managed to change my mean of living, and am able to save, for my next trip, and support her. It'll be slow going, but I'll get there, she is worth it. Though the biggest challenge now is the lack of communication, because we're texting, and network connections, can be bad at times, but I know all of this can make us stronger in the long run. Anyway thanks for listening. I'd love to bring her to NZL, eventually, but if that didn't work out, I'd want to be living where he is. So ill keep watching your videos for advice. Though I have a question, what kind of work can foreigners do in the Philippines? My background, is the warehouse and stores work, folk hoist driving etc, I know I probably, wouldn't be able to get that kind of work, just wanting to know what options exist.
Hey Ned well just watched your lasted video here, and yes it was a good one, Shows alot about you and how you are there, i wish to go there also in maybe 6 months, But you know you let us down as Americans when your still afraid to open up to her with your heart to your lady ... She seems so special and preciousness too.... you need to let her know that sometimes , People there will think we are all cold like you, with our feelings locked away (living in a cold climate does that to people I know...... I lived in N Y 10 years and I have shoveled my last driveway in this lifetime ) ..... so relax and enjoy your life.... your woman and your world..... and be open to her before its to late ......mmmmm just suggestion... The videos are great your both great too and the expressions on your lady's face have me laughing all the time so tell her thanks
I did this but not on my last nickel. Listen at 60 yr old I am invisible in America. Walk anywhere and any women you pass will not look at you. I walk anywhere in the Phil. everyone looks at me. I exist, it's great.
Pretty cool video. I'm an American and can see where you are coming from. It's very hard here in the states, so expensive and so much pressure. Seems like the key is taking responsibility for yourself and having some order in your life. After that, if you are fortunate enough to meet a nice honest girl then you can start a good life. It must still seem to be a lot of work but more rewarding than here in the states. The clean environment must also play a part in it. Having a family is good but must be very well planned. Husband and wife must work together at all times. No secrets or distractions. True commitment from husband and wife and always looking for opportunity for the children.
Rooster (cock) noise, I just can't get used to them. They are non-stop 24/7 there, aren't they? Do you think this is a problem to move there to live? Thanks.
good topics and i want to thank you for your intelligent coverage. of topics so dear to me. i myself am from Tucson Arizona and every body use to say hello to people on the streets total strangers i for got how much i missed it.. Zachary
Ned , Michelle already replied and told me that you almost did . So not that time Haha. She has a lot of patience just by watching her listen to you talk . You two take care . Aloha
I run a charity called Youth freedom fund I help kids in the Philippines from serious trouble. I want to live there full time and provide full time jobs there. Can you think of any Businesses to open there or any good Ideas?
MyTurn I know a few guys running businesses here. They report mixed success with running a biz here. Beyond that, I don't know enough to comment further....
A very informative video. I am an aussie who plans to visit for the first in 2015. Meeting a lady from Christianfilipina site & really wanting to turn my life around with a nice filipina. You are one lucky bloke. I can see by the look in your wifes eyes how much she loves you. All the best & maybe we can catch up one day for a chat cheers Rusty
Those are awesome reasons to move to the Philippines and I am sure mine are almost the same as yours. My wife is from the North in Luzon and we have property up there, but your location looks pretty nice. We might have to check it out to see if that's where we want to move once we sell our home in the States. Thanks for the videos.
No problem, Kev. I think it would be hard to find a place in the Philippines that isn't pretty. Even in Manila, you can take a drive out of the capital and see some pretty amazing places!
I will be visiting a beautiful Filipina on the 8th of next month. ..this will be my first time going there. .to claveria. .I have faced a lot of opposition here in the USA from people who only think the girls overseas are scams..I'm sticking my neck out and going anyway. Despite the loss of some friends..I'm really enjoyed your informative video! .also living in Massachusetts at this time..
There are lots of nice ladies in the Philippines. But be careful. And not because you might meet a gold digger, but....as in my case, if you don't find someone who's at least at the same education level as you, and isn't into a lot of the same things you like, you'll find down the road that your relationship will suffer. Everything from lifestyle, diet, past times, education, all matter.
Brian Barberg Well, I am not an Adviser by any means but you have to be careful when anyone travel to any foreign land period. I was there a few months ago to see the Pope. Philippines has change since I was a teenager is not good as it used to be and that is my opinion. Be prepared and Careful !!!
You're from New England? I'm originally from New York City (Go Yankees). I'm presently in Wethersfield Connecticut. God, I'm so sick and tired of the winters here. I LOVE the heat, and humidity doesn't really bother me. Looking forward to coming back to the Phils.
Thank you Ned and Michell. I, too, am from Massachusetts and have had my fill of the brutal winters and cold people here. Maybe the Philippines is the place to go. In another video you mentioned the driving etiquette and how they don't use turn signals and cut you off in traffic. I'm trying to understand how that is different from Boston?? Good luck in your new home. I'll send you some snow in a couple months :o).
William Morse Boston drivers are wimps compared to driving here. It's crazy and takes a while to get used to the flow with no stop signs or street lights. I could use the snow - it's been very hot here the past four days or so. :(
Always a pleasure to view you guys, I really enjoy how you incorporate your gf into your videos. What part of the philippines is michele from, it seems as though she came from good up bringing.....................hehe
I think that you need to have microphone closer to you in your videos. I have my sound turned up as high as it can go and I can barely hear you. I am interested in what you have to say. I really like your videos. Keep up the good work.
Hi Ned, I just happened across your channel today, not sure how I have missed you since I watch Henry's and others vids daily. Nice to meet ya, and look forward to meeting up with you when we make it over. We're planning to settle in the San Carlos City area initially close to my wife's family. I would be particularly interested in your long term plans regarding immigration. We plan to move there, and I'm still unclear on how to navigate the VISA's and such for staying there long term to indefinite. Thanks! GG
If you are married to a Filipina citizen and you enter the country with her, you are eligible for a free "balikbayan visa." which is good for one year. The details are noted at www.philippineconsulate.com.au/balikbayan-one-year-visa-free-stay.html That is actually the Australian consulate but it applies to all foreigners coming into the country with a Filipina/Filipino spouse. You both would have to leave the country every year (quick trip up to Malaysia or somewhere with a cheap flight) to renew it on the way back into the country. Short, international flights are cheap, so the BB visa is actually the best.
Nice video my friend, we would certainly be able to philosophize a lot it we meet. I understand your notes about the "smile and body language". I noticed a lot of similar on my first visit to the Philippines in 1993-94. - Thanks for a great video and best regards from Stockholm Sweden
Really enjoyed the video, I just want to know are you a citizen there or not? I was thinking about staying there with my wife while processing her visa, but i don't know much about the passport limitations on staying abroad more than a month.
I have been wanting to move to the phillipines all my life. My uncle married a Philipino woman and she is my favorite aunt. I love the food,peoples kindness and want to have a simpliar life....any ideas
Hi Ned and Michell. I’ve been living in South America for the past 10 years, and I’m retiring permanently to the Philippines. I fly to Cebu on August 8th, looking for a car to buy. I’d like to find a Mitsubishi Pajero or something similar. I’ll also be looking for a house or an apartment to rent near the beach, where it’s relatively quiet and not too hot, possibly Mactan, Cebu, Bohol, Dumaguete, Iloilo, Bacolod, Davao, or Dauin. Please let me know if you have any suggestions for me. Mark Cohen
ICAPPA All I can say is take your time. All those areas are close together, so you can spend a few weeks here and a few weeks there. You might be put off by Cebu as it is really crowded and congested, but it does have nice malls and conveniences like that.
howdy Michelle and Ned (notice I put the boss`s name first) HA. Love you videos. I was in Dumaguete last October for 3 weeks. Was totally awesome. I will be in Dumaguete October of this year but I am staying 3 months this time. Thanks for all the work you do. I learn something new every video that you post so keep up the great work.
I would appreciate videos on "How To Get ALL of Your US mail forwarded to you in the Philippines" and banking topics (e.g. Can I have my US bank transfer a certain amount of money each month to a bank account in the Philippines w/o fear of loss of money?)
Have you experienced Typhoons yet. Unfortunately, Weng and I were in Tacloban when Yolanda came through and that is the only experience so far in the Phils I don't care to repeat..
I hope to God above that I never have to experience anything like that. I can't even begin to imagine what you experienced with the entire city's destruction.
I've watched a few of your videos and they are great. I'm thinking of moving there from Los Angeles for business. I've been wanting to start doing business in Asia and friends of mine are starting in the Philippines. It sounds good but of course, moving to a whole nother country can be daunting. But I love business and I think this is a viable way to live there. We are in the Rice production and trading biz...
Economy is not a valid reason to pick up and move to another country. If you don't love the country and its people...they you will get frustrated by alien languages, customs and way and sink into depression and chronic complaining...love is the reason and filipinos are worthy of it...
Thanks for doing these videos. I think I am following in your footsteps; and I'm heading out to the Philippines in January for the it's time to check it out. But I pretty much decided already to make a life out there with my partner. Feel like I've done the whole western thing, of .... Job....flash car....house.... Latest iphone.... And now I'm happy for a much simpler life based on " living " :-)
Cheers. What I plan to do is visit January for a two weeks holiday . To meet my love .... Check out where I'd be living ( as her mother is kindly letting me live there) but also check out some things, like test my money system etc ) and also get a SIM card registered / set up. Then if all goes well .... Back to the UK for 8/9 months to wrap things up. Ive been planning and planning - I think I'm all planned out. lol. :-)
I am a Fil AM and now living in bay area, south of San Francisco. I have been following your channel back when you guys just started. I know in a matter of time that your viewers/followers will soon pick up due to your entertaining and informative videos. I, too like many others here is considering of going back to Phils to retire.
Philippine Dreams I know, the rent in this area is quite expensive. Staying here after I retire doesn't make sense. I could use the money in the Philippines and live comfortably over there. Until then, all I can do is watch you guys and be envious ha! For now I have to work and bust myself off. By the way, I am an RN here and working 2 jobs! I am not complaining though...just saying :)
Ned, you make superb videos. I am fond of viewing your ventures in and around Dumaguete because that is the place where I was born. My family emigrated to the States when I was only 2 years old but I have been back to visit two times with the family and two times as a solo traveler. During my last visit, I explored Robinsons Mall, Rizal Boulevard, Hayahay restaurant, Mang Inasal, Jollibee, and a dive resort in Dauin. The combination of a college town atmosphere tucked within the beautiful tropical countryside got me to think about making Dumaguete my place of retirement during my latest sojourn. But when I saw your videos and Ricky's videos on LifeBeyondTheSea, my mind has been made up and I am currently making plans to move to 'The City of Gentle People' in January 2020 when I retire from my government job. I am just curious on how you are able to learn Cebuano so well. My parents did not speak to me and my brothers in Cebuano when we were growing up, so I have very limited knowledge of this dialect. But, in the 8 or 9 months that you have been there, I think I heard or saw written over 40 Cebuano words in your videos. That is more than I know, for sure. But, I hope when I start living there permanently, I can pick up the dialect as well as you have. Please continue these videos, it is both information and also an inspiration so that I can continue working in my 'gubmint' job until the day I am eligible to retire with a 'gubmint' pension. Thanks for your efforts in putting the videos together.
Dang - thanks a lot, man. Cebuano/bisaya is actually more difficult to learn than I thought. I am pretty good with Spanish but the local grammar is all over the place. I actually know enough to be dangerous now - I can get the gist of a conversation but not the specifics which can lead to misinterpretations. I actually need to put more effort into it, as I plan on staying in the Visayas for a good long time. Thanks again Joel and stay tuned for more updates.
Nice, thanks for sharing. To my eyes, and ears I see a lovely relationship, and 2 people growing together, now I fully realize why Henry gave you a plug, as I am sure he saw the same.
do you live in a city? if so, do people have fruit trees growing in their yards in the neighborhoods? also, are there wild fruit trees growing in the cities or in the forests outside of the city???
Filipinos are family oriented people..and the sweetest people in the world. The good thing is,most of them are good english speakers and are talented.. That's why they hire many Filipinos to work in different countries.. I live in Dubai and always see pinoy bands here.. Don't know why some people hate Filipinos/Phillipines! Godbless... If many hate them, don't hire Filipinos in your country. Make sense??? Haha
Cool vid guys , I`ve been wanting a change too. I kinda feel like it would be good for my 2 boys also , They would learn a second language and get a better education then here in the states . My wife is from siquijor and speaks 3 languages and I am lucky i can count to 10 . lol . The low cost of living is definitely plus . Seafood here is so pricy . My wife misses all the seafood there . You guys would have beautiful children . I have to beautiful Phi-am boys . Another great video . Later
Thanks Mags. I don't know anything about bringing Western here and I can only assume it has it pluses and minuses. Siquior is nice and we will be visiting there/doing video soon, as our last trip there wasn't much of a success (got lost a lot).
I enjoyed your videos a lot and you seem like a very happy couple :) Thanks for the videos. I'm from Dumaguete City. Got many friends from different countries asking me about Dumaguete City and what it offers. I will share to them your channel. Good luck on both of you :)
Yes Philippines good to live.Cheap foods , fresh meat, fish and vegetables, Beaches good, I live in Pagudpud Ilocos Norte, Always go to Hannah's Beach Resorts during my hollidays.
Ned and Michell - another great video. Thank you so much...again. I appreciate all your hard work. Ned mentioned the issue of having a job in the Philippines which I know is always a precarious issue for expats. I've seen Henry's thoughts on working over there but would appreciate your take on the ease of finding the online opportunity you spoke about and whether it was essential for you. If this is too lengthy a discussion for your comment board, let me know how I can contact you via email and we can communicate that way. Thank you again - Jim
I usually just write content for a few buddies of mine back in the States. It's not a lot of money, but enough to get by on here. I also have some savings for emergencies or whatnot.....
I can't wait to move there(Davao City). Unfortunately my career pays well here (California) but not to well in The Philippines. I guess I will be waiting until I can use my 401k and ssi(if it is still available lol).I have been there eight times and really enjoy life there with my wifes family.
Oh how i know and understand "Burnout." I work as a security guard at a High Profile Embassy here in Switzerland and well..., have had enough of that. Just wondering if you would., and you can tell, " D.B.S.F.N." Dont Be So Flamin Nosey! How old are you Ned?
Just so you know Ned. When a man reaches 40years of age., he actually stops there and starts to revert and get younger. For instance., im 34 years old........, " AGAIN!"
I am 1/2 Filipino and have never gone back to the PI. I've always wanted to go and visit Cebu an Baguio City, which my lola is from. But my lola and my mom would always tell me that I would be kidnapped if I went back because I look 'Too American'. Then some people I have talked to, who are native filipinos here in the states have told me the same thing, kidnapping is like a sport there. I recently watched the movie, Metro Manila, which made me even more nervous. This all has me wondering-- will I be safe if I go back? As an American living in PI, what is your perspective? My want to experience where my family is from still over shadows my fear, but curious to know what you think on that matter. I really enjoy your channel and the gratitude that you have. All the best to you!!!
cher hukill Kidnapping is for financial gain. It happens, but mostly down around Zamboanga peninsula. I have never not felt safe here - which is more that I can say for living in the inner city.
cher hukill ii am filipino and i think you should check out this video and the uploader's (kyle) website and find out why finding a filipina lover is not first on his list for coming to the philippines. watch all his vids. you'll enjoy them....good times!
I'm glad that you found the courage to find something new.. is what I need to do for myself since, I'm still in the same place and same 0'l old status.. Enjoy my birth place bro ! you got about 7.000 islands.. Thanks for posting bring back lots a memories.
Philippine Dreams Right! I still remember that when I was growing up in Marikina way back in the late 1977. when it rains, it pours unless it's a typhoon that can cover an entire island no power, no running water, rations were low and just an out house next to a bamboo shack. The whole shack creeks the entire morning while, we were trying to ride out the powerful wind.. Man! those were some real hard times..
@@PhilippineDreams i too, would throw up when i started with durian, and im pinoy..but i persevered and got hooked.. there are always two sides of a coin..for all you know, the other side would be better..
Awesome couple!!! Thanks. Always enjoyed watching your videos. My life long dream to live there someday ! Yes, seafood , beautiful beaches and tropical fruits!!!!!
Quick comment ! That scowl look you see in my face is technically a smile, my face muscles are ascending upwards and with great difficulty trying to sustain its trending movement. In the near future, I will be working on my grimace with teeth. Ned, Thank you. Michell also known as the Pagadian princess of Mindanao, Thank you for befriending my buddy from New England. Who gives a new meaning to the Queens English .
Philippine Dreams Doing all the right things, and yet I've come to the realization that I too will soon be an economic refugee seeking greener pastures abroad. As soon as baby boomers come to a full retirement age, I foresee an influx of boomers going overseas. Some will continue to work because they cannot afford to retire. Wall street crash of 2008 ate up their retirement nest egg. I am still crunching the numbers, doing the research...arming myself with knowledge. Truth be told, I am so tired of being taxed without representation. Dealing with a do nothing congress who are bought and paid for by greedy corporations. Rant stops here>....
Ned, I love the videos. I’m married to a Filipino and live in New Mexico. We own a condo in Cebu City, land in the mountains and we are building a house in Dalaguete, Cebu. I am 4 years away from Social Security, I don’t have a lot a money stashed away, but on SS I will receive over $2000 a month. Do you think that is enough for a family to live comfortably. I work 70 to 80 hours a week and I’m tired. Bee
john doe ii am filipino and i think you should check out this video and the uploader's (kyle) website and find out why finding a filipina lover is not first on his list for coming to the philippines. watch all his vids. yuo'll enjoy them....good times!
I'm feeling very similar dude at age 51. Please tell me about how to make that retirement gap between when you can still be young and strong enough to live but must wait ten to fifteen more years before you can apply for US social security. Suppose I could sell all my stuff here and arrive there with say 10m pesos in the bank. Could I really enjoy life instead of the daily work grind here in the cold? Thanks.
I don't understand why you don't say that LOVE, is the first and
primary reason why you went to the Philippines??? That is the
"major" reason why Expats go there. Living in the western world,
you realize soon that once you hit 45+ , your chances of finding a
young, slim woman are slim to none. Most are divorced, overweight,
with 1-2 kids, and also come with the "new feminist attitudes" that a
lot of guys are just fed up with. LOVE- and friendly people are really
lacking here in North America. I think you'll see huge amounts of baby
boomers who are now about 45-60 yrs old, going there to find love and
a new purpose in life. My situation is much like the sentiment you expressed
so well in your video here Ned. You can't be happy just with nice houses
and fancy cars--after you've had them, their no big deal anymore, and you
want some real meaning and purpose in your life--be it a nice woman, or
starting a family, which is available there in the Phils-- and not in North America.
It's really a chance at a second life in a way--and guys are throwing all the
money, career aside, and going there looking for real meaning in life.
I'll say a very good, down to earth video Ned, and you covered a lot of
very good informative information on the Phils here. I enjoyed it very much,
but I do think--"it's the availability of women that is the # 1 driving force" for
all the Expats going there, and you should be very upfront on this issue, as
it's the reason why your there, and so many others like you as well. North
America is a good place to make money-- but it can't buy you happiness.
Look forward to more good videos from you--saw yours off Henry's site.
regards-Grant ( in Canada)
I'll likely be going there myself!!!!
Grant Bedard Actually, I am not here for the women - I just needed something new and different from what I had. An adventure, if you will. And you are right - a lot of guys are here for that, but again, that wasn't my personal reason. It's just icing on the rather yummy cake that is the Philippines.
Philippine Dreams - I guess everyone's reasons are different, some
for warm weather, others for low cost to live etc. Good luck with your
adventure Ned--your very similar to Henry out in the Phils. Be interesting
to meet you guys there.
I agree with you 100% Problem with him saying anything else other than women is that I don't see any other reason as to why white women don't move to the country for the climate or cheap costs etc. Instead there's just an influx of old white men moving into the country
John Primrose I see lots of "white women" every day here in Dumaguete - students, wives, retirees, young women working remotely, etc. etc. There are a large amount of "old white men" who have moved to the country and started families, and yeah, I think they would be the majority of foreigners in the country. But I also know a LOT of young foreigners who are here working remotely and taking advantage of working for USD/Euros and spending Pesos. I think it's peoples perception that the RP is a haven for old sexpats, which isn't actually the case.
Philippine Dreams At least we agree that the majority of foreigners in the Philippines are old white men and that's what I was trying to get at. Of course there would be white women and other young foreigners in the country but they are the minority and I've never doubted that. But if the Philippines' climate is so good and cheap cost of living why do we not see an equal amount of male and female foreigners in the country? What? Don't female foreigners not want all those things? Instead, its like I said, just droves of old white men moving to the country.
To me what Grant Bedard said is true. Females can pretty much get a partner anywhere they live but for older males in the west its going to be a lot harder. And asian women are the ones more open to dating old white men because of the fact they are white and we still have that racial inferiority mentality in the Philippines and would want to see our children marry into white families despite anything else (age) as oppose to black people for example.
A few subscribers were asking why I decided to move to the Philippines. In this video, I try to lay out the top 10 (11!) reasons why.
+jack c There's a lot of roosters here. And barking dogs. They don't bother me, but maybe I am just lucky. They do seem to bother some people. My only beef with the Philippines is the unrelenting heat on sunny days in urban areas. Then again, we have a metal roof, no shade and concrete walls. Well, at least we don't need an oven.
Philippine Dreams The hot summer season normally start in the months of March through May then June start the wet season. During the hot season months night time is very uncomfortable because of the heat. Living in a metal roof and concrete walls are terribles because concrete absorbs suns heat during the day and release the heat at night. Metal roofing also acts like an oven and stores heat in the attic and radiates heat inside the attic at all times. Proper ventilation of the the attic would help ease the storing of heat trapped in the attic like installing a vent fan with thermostat control set at a desired temperature to activate the vent fan and automatically shut of when temperature cools down. There are solar power roof ventilators you could install if they are locally available.
I am planning on moving to Tanza in 2 years to marry my girlfriend. I choosed to move out the states and start a new life there. I know all the ups ad down of living there as I think Im ready for the new start I just hope my family here can understand
Christopher hopefully you got prenupt and you're not moving back to your country. she will take your money and run once she get what she wants.
+Tyler Davis Ulu otin remark.
American and Filipino couple are really meant for each other! Nice story man!
I’m also a retired teacher from Boston . I can relate . I do 4 months there and 6 in USA . I find our list of 10 is the same . When I’m here in America I keep getting pulled back your way. . However, bilocation can be expensive. Truly enjoyed your video
I spent some time in PI, in my youth. I've always dreamed about going back. Now, that I'm retired, (Military and police), I can afford to easily live there. I'm 46 now, haven't been over for 25+ years! I keep dreaming of a small Island in the Leyte Gulf where I stayed for months.
I don't know you guys. This is the first video I have seen of yours. You nailed it as to where I am in life: Itchy feet. Burned out with the West. In a comfort zone. It's time to make a change!
I have subscribed. Thank you so much for this video.
Another good vid! Lots of thought provoking things. I could not help but make my list also, inspired by yours.
i happened to came across your blog,its nice to hear what your saying about our country, although many of pilipinos are poor, it is still a good place to live here, kudos
number 12 reason is to sit beside a beautiful girl, lol
april8329 I think that was 11....
Great video..all the reasons are good. The Philippines is a special place to me and many others. The main issue with foreigners that don't do well in the Philippines is their inability to adapt. Do NOT expect the Philippines to be a poor version of your country...it is something altogether different. But honestly, besides my gf, the best thing about the Philippines is the people. The friendliest people I have ever met...and the most amazingly beautiful, loving, caring, and supportive women.
I'm in the process of selling off what I don't need, and after I
have everything sold, I'm returning home to the Philippines, my
second country, I already have my choices of where I want to
live out my life. My goal is to be back in the Philippines by the
Month of October, 2017 before I turn 64.
Christopher O'Rourke how did u process ur papers bfore u move to Philippines...any information that u can tell me.hve a good day..
Thank.u.
Ye ye ye, the 10 reasons you are in Ph. Is that cute little princess sitting next to you, be honest and admit.
Thanks guys so much for your help. I was wondering because her family would really like me to move there, and honestly if my health were better I'd already be there. But I know it could be impossible for me to get around as I am also heavy, hence the power chair. She is willing to move here, we were just trying to appease her family. Again thanks for taking the time and effort to answer my question. Wish you both the best, and blessings on you, your house, and all who enter there.
Beautiful wife beautiful life enjoy your life.
Frank Priv What happen if you found those wife an ugly one ? what would you do w/ it ? Thanks just curious..
Every woman has beauty does not have to be looks
Luzviminda R. Pew You know what you talk about. Smart man ka inday.
Good choice, philippines. Me and my wife are soooo ready to go back. Get back to the tastiest food and the simple life.
A lot to be said for both. What island were you on?
My wife is from Davao City but we stayed in Manila.
L wallace you should try el nido islands or maybe try visiting the enchanted river in Mindanao rather than staying in manila ^_^ you'd love el nido or enchanted river i assure you.
Ok thanks for the info.
np
Philippines is nice until the money runs out. I hate the rat race in California but I must wait until I collect my pension at 55 two years from now. I thought about moving to the Phil 14 years ago but my better judgement told me to wait. I am glad that I wait. Philippines is hell if you are short on money. If you get serious ill without enough money then you die. I have paid for med, lab test, surgery and check up for my girlfriend mom. It is not cheap at all. Med is more expensive than in the USA. It is a very risky move to Phil without steady income like pension. Quite a few expat have die because they cannot pay for the medical treatment. Some expat become homeless when the money runs out. I have been to Phil 5 times. There are many paradise in Phil but...they all cost money. I am not preaching here. I share with you the reality of living in the Phil. Enough said.
Well said. Yep, the Philippines (or anyplace for that matter) is a bad place to be if you don't have any money. Medical care is (much) cheaper here but meds are more expensive (insurance doesn't cover them). The Phils is also a bad place to be if you are an alcoholic.
I don't even know why I ended watching your TH-cam, but it looks like you are happy and you have a supportive loving wife. Life is wonderful when you're leaving your Philippine dream. Tyler below is just jealous and negative because he probably met the wrong type of woman.
I love the place dumaguete especially the coaster area amlan. Such a peaceful place for retirement
The cost of living, beautiful beaches, friendly people and strong family values is what did it for me!
Well said my friend. Glad everything is going well for you! Hey I sent you a message over on facebook. I figured you wouldn't check it very often, but go read it.
I love how Michelle prompts you on your points... Alzheimer's starts early! :-)
+David Diaz lol
+David Diaz You notice how good her memory is? It amazes me how well filipinas remember everything u say or do, with dates. lol
Nice video! Your lucky the gf allows you to partake in her videos :) Visiting the Philippines in December, perhaps we will cross paths. Stay healthy & safe!
Yeah, she lets me play around with the camera every now and then. Until I break it.....
Ned thanks for sharing about your life. I'm the opposite of you I moved to USA when I was 8 and still have lots of family in Socal and friends. I sometimes miss home but I enjoy my job, the modern conveniences, the nice packed freeway systems. Also the great weather in Socal...the beaches are nice but not as nice as the Philippines and the water is much colder in California. It took awhile to really, really learn the english language and be able to read and write effectively. Maybe one day I will retire once my 2 little girls are grown and move to Buhi which I think is south of Manila where my grandma's house sits empty since she passed away 20 years ago. Took me awhile to get used to the fast food like hamburgers and tacos as well as pizzas. They didn't have those type of foods back home in the 70's. Watching these youtube videos it's amazing on how much the Philippines has grown with lots of different American food. Keep up the awesome job that your doing. Your videos are so informative and I enjoy seeing how things have changed drastically.:)
Socal can be pretty awesome and I do miss conveniences that we have in the US. There are a lot of fast food places here now, which might account for the burgeoning waistlines in some Filipinos. :) Glad we can do videos so you can see your home country.
Great video! Also, your relationship and her inclusion in your videos really brings forth your happiness.
Ned and Michell. Great Video again. I will be visiting in late Dec 2015 to mid Jan 2016 to see friends.
You have given me insight into what i may expect. Your Beautiful Honey and the way she reacts to your words with shy eyes. or loving hugs or bumping into you, her expressions are to die for. adds a great amount of humor to your Videos. She shows a get amount of care for you,, She is a Good Treasure! Keep up the good work,, you said that you were going to go on a vacation on your last monthly wrap up. I am looking forward to seeing that Video too.
You did not need to convince my wife and I about living in The Philippines but your video strengthened our resolve. Our desire is to create a team of people helping us with things in our business for the same amount of money it would cost to hire one person in the US. We are planning to live in both the US and the Philippines but we have to figure out how to make that work with legal and tax issues.
Great video, nice details. You can tell that she is really in love with you. I would love to meet someone from there.
8 people dont like a key hanging on the wall.
I totally understand... it is a country with super beautiful people... who understand what is important in life.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I will be in Cebu within a week. Did you get that butterfly feeling in you stomach. But I'm taking the plunge, I dreamt every single day of living in the Philippines.
Butterflies the size of turkey vultures! Do yourself a favor and get a blog on blogger.com to document your initial experiences. If you have a laptop, take a little video each day documenting your thoughts and feelings. You won't regret it. And wait til you see the malls in Cebu!!!!
Thanks for quelling my curiosity on why you moved to the RP. My top ten would include Asian women as a motivation because I've have found them as a whole to have a genuine sweetness that many men have difficulty finding in the states.
Hi Ned & michell.i love your show. I think you are a lovely couples.
Hubby and I are moving there soon... burnouts and lack of family issues... financial another... and we just need new and friendly ppl.
excellent video, @ Philippine Dreams, the reason why the barking of the dogs and noises from those roosters doesn't bother you is because of the love you shared with your wife has turned those noises into an awsome tune....lol,,,,,,and also the reason why those white women going there in PI, is that they are running after these handsome white men who wanted to be Orientalize...imagine running out of white men in their country....lolol....just trying to make humor guys...but I'm not sure if my humor will work....I'm just trying to do something about the serious conversation here...lol ...have a blessed Sunday everyone....
nonette46 Thanks, nonette. :)
I was stationed in the Philippines for three years in the early 80s. I got to the point I didn't even hear the roosters, the tricycles or the barking dogs after awhile. It was all white noise to me. When I got back to the States I was very restless, couldn't sleep and didn't know why. An old Chief told me I was missing the background noise of the Philippines. I started sleeping with the radio on, and it worked; I could sleep again. I still sleep with the TV on to this day.
William McNeil lol
Hi, First of all >>> compliments for this video. Secondly, what a recognizable story. Not all the 10 points, but at least 5 of them. Anyway, I come here already since middle '90's. At that time twice a year holiday for three weeks. The beginning was strange for me. In Europe you have a certain way of living, but what I discovered here, it was completely different. After a few times back and forward, I noticed that I was missing the Phill's, the moment I was back home. So I decided, after retired, start living there. And that's what I did. In between I was hoping to get "used" to >> fall in line, fill out these papers, doing everything two or three times, before something happened etc. On the other hand, the people are friendly, helpful , prices are half, as what I spend before,and last but not least, eventually I found my wife here. So in short, I'm happy. Yes, you're right, sometimes the temperature getting too much hi ( like last week ), almost 40 degrees C. But after two thunderstorms, it went down. Funny to see that >> people , especially the children, taking shower on the street. Staying now for a couple of years and in fact I don't want to go back anymore. My country changes a lot, the last 15 years, but not in a positive way; on the contrary. All in all , like I mentioned, I feel happy here and I hope, that you and your wife feeling the same thing. Grtz from Biñan.
U got to be honest bro u got your self a 18 yr hot Mama and that was the reason.
She's actually 27, but you're right - her skin temperature is ridiculously high.
Philippine Dreams when i was there i found it hard to tell the age of the filapinas...a 20 year old women will look 12 i swear...i had a fun time there loved it.and no i was not there chasing women.i went for the history and beautiful country.
My wife is 30 years younger than me and we have had 10 years of total bliss together. I did have to meet many 100's of Filipina's (not bar girls), before I met an honest one who was also good looking!
Nice going! I hope by now you put a bun in that oven!
Subscribed to your channel... Looking forward to watch all your videos... Thanks.. I'd be moving there someday soon... Can't take thus cold Chicago weather no more...
Michelle is absolutely adorable!! I have a Philippine partner as well. I'm 47 she's 21 similar situation. I enjoy watching your videos good luck to you guys!!
This video of yours persuaded me to subscribe. We seem to have a few things in common. Like a love for seafood, sandy beaches, being in the company of people who smile easily. And, from a previous video, your love of reading. (Given that you taught for a while at a Philippines University, maybe we have that in common. I was an Econ prof at a US university for 33 years--now retired). The one big difference between us: you took the big plunge and found fulfilment in a drastically new setting. I chickened out. So now I do the next best thing and live vicariously through the experiences of people like you.
Love your videos. I've got a filippina girlfriend, her name is Dyndel, she's from Tabango in Leyte. She's the most awesome woman I've ever known, a breath of fresh air. I've known her for 3 years now. I'm from New Zealand, I've got an ex wife, she epitomized everything about western woman, that I've come to dislike. But Dyndel's attitudes and outlooks are so different.
I managed to visit her last year, it was only for a week, I didn't want to spend longer I case of rejection. But she held my hand from the moment we'd physically met, we had talked on skype, but in person was so much better. And from then on, I knew how much she loved me, and it made me love her more. So when I got back, I started saving for my second trip, because I knew I wanted to marry her. But then Typhoon Yolanda hit, and I supported her thru that instead of saving for my next trip. But, the downside was her family, putting pressure on her to ask me for money beyond my means. This the downside, and it almost caused us to break up, but it wasn't her, it was the pressure of her family. Then at my job my hours got reduced to part time, and my means of living stayed the same. But this isn't a sob story. I've managed to change my mean of living, and am able to save, for my next trip, and support her. It'll be slow going, but I'll get there, she is worth it. Though the biggest challenge now is the lack of communication, because we're texting, and network connections, can be bad at times, but I know all of this can make us stronger in the long run.
Anyway thanks for listening. I'd love to bring her to NZL, eventually, but if that didn't work out, I'd want to be living where he is.
So ill keep watching your videos for advice. Though I have a question, what kind of work can foreigners do in the Philippines? My background, is the warehouse and stores work, folk hoist driving etc, I know I probably, wouldn't be able to get that kind of work, just wanting to know what options exist.
Hey Ned well just watched your lasted video here, and yes it was a good one, Shows alot about you and how you are there, i wish to go there also in maybe 6 months, But you know you let us down as Americans when your still afraid to open up to her with your heart to your lady ... She seems so special and preciousness too.... you need to let her know that sometimes , People there will think we are all cold like you, with our feelings locked away (living in a cold climate does that to people I know...... I lived in N Y 10 years and I have shoveled my last driveway in this lifetime ) ..... so relax and enjoy your life.... your woman and your world..... and be open to her before its to late ......mmmmm just suggestion... The videos are great your both great too and the expressions on your lady's face have me laughing all the time so tell her thanks
Thanks, Kevin. Yeah, I have to tell her those things more often.
I did this but not on my last nickel. Listen at 60 yr old I am invisible in America. Walk anywhere and any women you pass will not look at you. I walk anywhere in the Phil. everyone looks at me. I exist, it's great.
Pretty cool video. I'm an American and can see where you are coming from. It's very hard here in the states, so expensive and so much pressure. Seems like the key is taking responsibility for yourself and having some order in your life. After that, if you are fortunate enough to meet a nice honest girl then you can start a good life. It must still seem to be a lot of work but more rewarding than here in the states. The clean environment must also play a part in it. Having a family is good but must be very well planned. Husband and wife must work together at all times. No secrets or distractions. True commitment from husband and wife and always looking for opportunity for the children.
Rooster (cock) noise, I just can't get used to them. They are non-stop 24/7 there, aren't they? Do you think this is a problem to move there to live? Thanks.
good topics and i want to thank you for your intelligent coverage. of topics so dear to me. i myself am from Tucson Arizona and every body use to say hello to people on the streets total strangers i for got how much i missed it.. Zachary
Ned , Michelle already replied and told me that you almost did . So not that time Haha. She has a lot of patience just by watching her listen to you talk . You two take care . Aloha
I run a charity called Youth freedom fund I help kids in the Philippines from serious trouble. I want to live there full time and provide full time jobs there. Can you think of any Businesses to open there or any good Ideas?
If I were you I would do something in tourism, I know the phillipines are a very popular tourist spot.
MyTurn I know a few guys running businesses here. They report mixed success with running a biz here. Beyond that, I don't know enough to comment further....
A very informative video.
I am an aussie who plans to visit for the first in 2015. Meeting a lady from Christianfilipina site & really wanting to turn my life around with a nice filipina.
You are one lucky bloke. I can see by the look in your wifes eyes how much she loves you.
All the best & maybe we can catch up one day for a chat
cheers
Rusty
Russell Sutton Thanks a lot, Russell and good luck on your adventure!
Those are awesome reasons to move to the Philippines and I am sure mine are almost the same as yours. My wife is from the North in Luzon and we have property up there, but your location looks pretty nice. We might have to check it out to see if that's where we want to move once we sell our home in the States. Thanks for the videos.
No problem, Kev. I think it would be hard to find a place in the Philippines that isn't pretty. Even in Manila, you can take a drive out of the capital and see some pretty amazing places!
she's a cutie! someday…i'll be living the dream too...
You would be lost with out Michell, lol. You are a lucky man to have such a good life and girl.
I will be visiting a beautiful Filipina on the 8th of next month. ..this will be my first time going there. .to claveria. .I have faced a lot of opposition here in the USA from people who only think the girls overseas are scams..I'm sticking my neck out and going anyway. Despite the loss of some friends..I'm really enjoyed your informative video! .also living in Massachusetts at this time..
See u soon bby:) i love u....
There are lots of nice ladies in the Philippines. But be careful. And not because you might meet a gold digger, but....as in my case, if you don't find someone who's at least at the same education level as you, and isn't into a lot of the same things you like, you'll find down the road that your relationship will suffer. Everything from lifestyle, diet, past times, education, all matter.
Becareful and don't get all your hopes up.
Brian Barberg Well, I am not an Adviser by any means but you have to be careful when anyone travel to any foreign land period. I was there a few months ago to see the Pope. Philippines has change since I was a teenager is not good as it used to be and that is my opinion. Be prepared and Careful !!!
Rex Racer They ALL want money
You're from New England? I'm originally from New York City (Go Yankees). I'm presently in Wethersfield Connecticut. God, I'm so sick and tired of the winters here. I LOVE the heat, and humidity doesn't really bother me. Looking forward to coming back to the Phils.
Barry Jackson I don't know about that - I am no fan of NE winters, either but the relentless summer heat can get a bit much.....
Thank you Ned and Michell. I, too, am from Massachusetts and have had my fill of the brutal winters and cold people here. Maybe the Philippines is the place to go. In another video you mentioned the driving etiquette and how they don't use turn signals and cut you off in traffic. I'm trying to understand how that is different from Boston?? Good luck in your new home. I'll send you some snow in a couple months :o).
William Morse Boston drivers are wimps compared to driving here. It's crazy and takes a while to get used to the flow with no stop signs or street lights. I could use the snow - it's been very hot here the past four days or so. :(
Always a pleasure to view you guys, I really enjoy how you incorporate your gf into your videos. What part of the philippines is michele from, it seems as though she came from good up bringing.....................hehe
She comes from a good family and is originally from Mindanao. Hey, shoot me a PM and I will send you my phone number for when you get here in August.
Zamboanga del Sur to be particular. And me and Ned would love to hang out with you when you get here. :)
You guys are going to make me cry.......ok let me figure out this pm thing and i will send it.
I think that you need to have microphone closer to you in your videos. I have my sound turned up as high as it can go and I can barely hear you. I am interested in what you have to say. I really like your videos. Keep up the good work.
Thanks. The GoPro microphone isn't that great. I should have boosted the audio during editing.
Hi Ned, I just happened across your channel today, not sure how I have missed you since I watch Henry's and others vids daily. Nice to meet ya, and look forward to meeting up with you when we make it over. We're planning to settle in the San Carlos City area initially close to my wife's family.
I would be particularly interested in your long term plans regarding immigration. We plan to move there, and I'm still unclear on how to navigate the VISA's and such for staying there long term to indefinite.
Thanks!
GG
If you are married to a Filipina citizen and you enter the country with her, you are eligible for a free "balikbayan visa." which is good for one year. The details are noted at www.philippineconsulate.com.au/balikbayan-one-year-visa-free-stay.html That is actually the Australian consulate but it applies to all foreigners coming into the country with a Filipina/Filipino spouse. You both would have to leave the country every year (quick trip up to Malaysia or somewhere with a cheap flight) to renew it on the way back into the country. Short, international flights are cheap, so the BB visa is actually the best.
Nice video my friend, we would certainly be able to philosophize a lot it we meet. I understand your notes about the "smile and body language". I noticed a lot of similar on my first visit to the Philippines in 1993-94. - Thanks for a great video and best regards from Stockholm Sweden
Thanks, Tommy.
Really enjoyed the video, I just want to know are you a citizen there or not? I was thinking about staying there with my wife while processing her visa, but i don't know much about the passport limitations on staying abroad more than a month.
+Nathan Williams traveltips.usatoday.com/visa-us-citizen-travel-philippines-60608.html
Yeah she is a good girl...she is pretty too
I have been wanting to move to the phillipines all my life. My uncle married a Philipino woman and she is my favorite aunt. I love the food,peoples kindness and want to have a simpliar life....any ideas
Don't know the two of you too much, other than your videos and some emails, But I want to think of you guys as my friends...Thanks for the insight ♥
Thanks Mike and stay tuned for more updates.
Hi Ned and Michell. I’ve been living in South America for the past 10 years, and I’m retiring permanently to the Philippines. I fly to Cebu on August 8th, looking for a car to buy. I’d like to find a Mitsubishi Pajero or something similar. I’ll also be looking for a house or an apartment to rent near the beach, where it’s relatively quiet and not too hot, possibly Mactan, Cebu, Bohol, Dumaguete, Iloilo, Bacolod, Davao, or Dauin. Please let me know if you have any suggestions for me. Mark Cohen
ICAPPA All I can say is take your time. All those areas are close together, so you can spend a few weeks here and a few weeks there. You might be put off by Cebu as it is really crowded and congested, but it does have nice malls and conveniences like that.
howdy Michelle and Ned (notice I put the boss`s name first) HA. Love you videos. I was in Dumaguete last October for 3 weeks. Was totally awesome. I will be in Dumaguete October of this year but I am staying 3 months this time. Thanks for all the work you do. I learn something new every video that you post so keep up the great work.
Thanks man!
I would appreciate videos on "How To Get ALL of Your US mail forwarded to you in the Philippines" and banking topics (e.g. Can I have my US bank transfer a certain amount of money each month to a bank account in the Philippines w/o fear of loss of money?)
David Bratt yes its possible..Philippines has also a good banking system!
Have you experienced Typhoons yet. Unfortunately, Weng and I were in Tacloban when Yolanda came through and that is the only experience so far in the Phils I don't care to repeat..
I hope to God above that I never have to experience anything like that. I can't even begin to imagine what you experienced with the entire city's destruction.
good luck out there. The Philippines is a great place to be just and the people are great! just keep an open mind.
Thanks, Bert. And yes, the people are the countries greatest asset.
Maybe I can just be a woman there...
Great video! Thanks for posting! 😊
I just subscribed to you guys and you are a breath of fresh air. I am so glad to find an American that took the plunge.
I've watched a few of your videos and they are great. I'm thinking of moving there from Los Angeles for business. I've been wanting to start doing business in Asia and friends of mine are starting in the Philippines. It sounds good but of course, moving to a whole nother country can be daunting. But I love business and I think this is a viable way to live there. We are in the Rice production and trading biz...
Economy is not a valid reason to pick up and move to another country. If you don't love the country and its people...they you will get frustrated by alien languages, customs and way and sink into depression and chronic complaining...love is the reason and filipinos are worthy of it...
Thanks for doing these videos. I think I am following in your footsteps; and I'm heading out to the Philippines in January for the it's time to check it out. But I pretty much decided already to make a life out there with my partner. Feel like I've done the whole western thing, of .... Job....flash car....house.... Latest iphone.... And now I'm happy for a much simpler life based on " living " :-)
Poppy Picanto Thanks, Poppy. Visit first or have an excellent contingency plan if you find the RP isn't for you. And get your iPhone unlocked. :)
Good luck and have a remarkable experience in my homeland:)
Cheers. What I plan to do is visit January for a two weeks holiday . To meet my love .... Check out where I'd be living ( as her mother is kindly letting me live there) but also check out some things, like test my money system etc ) and also get a SIM card registered / set up. Then if all goes well .... Back to the UK for 8/9 months to wrap things up. Ive been planning and planning - I think I'm all planned out. lol. :-)
I am a Fil AM and now living in bay area, south of San Francisco. I have been following your channel back when you guys just started. I know in a matter of time that your viewers/followers will soon pick up due to your entertaining and informative videos. I, too like many others here is considering of going back to Phils to retire.
Thanks!! And I think you, of all folks living in the Bay Area as you are, can appreciate the difference in rents between here and there!
Philippine Dreams I know, the rent in this area is quite expensive. Staying here after I retire doesn't make sense. I could use the money in the Philippines and live comfortably over there. Until then, all I can do is watch you guys and be envious ha! For now I have to work and bust myself off. By the way, I am an RN here and working 2 jobs! I am not complaining though...just saying :)
My girl in in the Philippines how do I find a sponsor so she can come to Portland Maine USA?
Micheal Bonner I have no idea, Michael. I would recommend talking to someone who knows more about that before you make any big decisions.
living the dream
Ned, you make superb videos. I am fond of viewing your ventures in and around Dumaguete because that is the place where I was born. My family emigrated to the States when I was only 2 years old but I have been back to visit two times with the family and two times as a solo traveler. During my last visit, I explored Robinsons Mall, Rizal Boulevard, Hayahay restaurant, Mang Inasal, Jollibee, and a dive resort in Dauin. The combination of a college town atmosphere tucked within the beautiful tropical countryside got me to think about making Dumaguete my place of retirement during my latest sojourn. But when I saw your videos and Ricky's videos on LifeBeyondTheSea, my mind has been made up and I am currently making plans to move to 'The City of Gentle People' in January 2020 when I retire from my government job. I am just curious on how you are able to learn Cebuano so well. My parents did not speak to me and my brothers in Cebuano when we were growing up, so I have very limited knowledge of this dialect. But, in the 8 or 9 months that you have been there, I think I heard or saw written over 40 Cebuano words in your videos. That is more than I know, for sure. But, I hope when I start living there permanently, I can pick up the dialect as well as you have. Please continue these videos, it is both information and also an inspiration so that I can continue working in my 'gubmint' job until the day I am eligible to retire with a 'gubmint' pension. Thanks for your efforts in putting the videos together.
Dang - thanks a lot, man. Cebuano/bisaya is actually more difficult to learn than I thought. I am pretty good with Spanish but the local grammar is all over the place. I actually know enough to be dangerous now - I can get the gist of a conversation but not the specifics which can lead to misinterpretations. I actually need to put more effort into it, as I plan on staying in the Visayas for a good long time. Thanks again Joel and stay tuned for more updates.
I'll be moving to Zambales in a month. I've watched a lot of your videos, thanks for your tips!
Nice, thanks for sharing. To my eyes, and ears I see a lovely relationship, and 2 people growing together, now I fully realize why Henry gave you a plug, as I am sure he saw the same.
Thanks, man. We have our ups and downs like any other couple, but overall, it is pretty frikken wonderful.
do you live in a city? if so, do people have fruit trees growing in their yards in the neighborhoods? also, are there wild fruit trees growing in the cities or in the forests outside of the city???
Filipinos are family oriented people..and the sweetest people in the world. The good thing is,most of them are good english speakers and are talented.. That's why they hire many Filipinos to work in different countries.. I live in Dubai and always see pinoy bands here..
Don't know why some people hate Filipinos/Phillipines! Godbless... If many hate them, don't hire Filipinos in your country. Make sense??? Haha
Cathy Michael That attitude may come from marrying a bar girl.
Cool vid guys , I`ve been wanting a change too. I kinda feel like it would be good for my 2 boys also , They would learn a second language and get a better education then here in the states . My wife is from siquijor and speaks 3 languages and I am lucky i can count to 10 . lol . The low cost of living is definitely plus . Seafood here is so pricy . My wife misses all the seafood there . You guys would have beautiful children . I have to beautiful Phi-am boys . Another great video . Later
Thanks Mags. I don't know anything about bringing Western here and I can only assume it has it pluses and minuses. Siquior is nice and we will be visiting there/doing video soon, as our last trip there wasn't much of a success (got lost a lot).
Philippine Dreams i know i'm going there in august fiesta there 16 and 17 all was fiesta somewhere lol
i mean nov i stand corrected lol
Love has no age bro glad your enjoy your life you only have one life and you are living it not like most of us very happy for you guys.:))
I enjoyed your videos a lot and you seem like a very happy couple :) Thanks for the videos. I'm from Dumaguete City. Got many friends from different countries asking me about Dumaguete City and what it offers. I will share to them your channel. Good luck on both of you :)
at video bro! Great to here a nice, happy and optimistic view! Bless you both!
Yes Philippines good to live.Cheap foods , fresh meat, fish and vegetables, Beaches good, I live in Pagudpud Ilocos Norte, Always go to Hannah's Beach Resorts during my hollidays.
Ned and Michell - another great video. Thank you so much...again. I appreciate all your hard work. Ned mentioned the issue of having a job in the Philippines which I know is always a precarious issue for expats. I've seen Henry's thoughts on working over there but would appreciate your take on the ease of finding the online opportunity you spoke about and whether it was essential for you. If this is too lengthy a discussion for your comment board, let me know how I can contact you via email and we can communicate that way. Thank you again - Jim
I usually just write content for a few buddies of mine back in the States. It's not a lot of money, but enough to get by on here. I also have some savings for emergencies or whatnot.....
I can't wait to move there(Davao City). Unfortunately my career pays well here (California) but not to well in The Philippines. I guess I will be waiting until I can use my 401k and ssi(if it is still available lol).I have been there eight times and really enjoy life there with my wifes family.
I love the Philippines...visited Boracay 5 years ago and fell in love...wish i could move there :-(
Oh how i know and understand "Burnout." I work as a security guard at a High Profile Embassy here in Switzerland and well..., have had enough of that.
Just wondering if you would., and you can tell, " D.B.S.F.N." Dont Be So Flamin Nosey!
How old are you Ned?
Jason Pearson Late 40's.
Just so you know Ned. When a man reaches 40years of age., he actually stops there and starts to revert and get younger. For instance., im 34 years old........, " AGAIN!"
Jason Pearson lol
I am 1/2 Filipino and have never gone back to the PI. I've always wanted to go and visit Cebu an Baguio City, which my lola is from. But my lola and my mom would always tell me that I would be kidnapped if I went back because I look 'Too American'. Then some people I have talked to, who are native filipinos here in the states have told me the same thing, kidnapping is like a sport there. I recently watched the movie, Metro Manila, which made me even more nervous. This all has me wondering-- will I be safe if I go back? As an American living in PI, what is your perspective? My want to experience where my family is from still over shadows my fear, but curious to know what you think on that matter. I really enjoy your channel and the gratitude that you have. All the best to you!!!
cher hukill Kidnapping is for financial gain. It happens, but mostly down around Zamboanga peninsula. I have never not felt safe here - which is more that I can say for living in the inner city.
Thank you for answering that for me!! Wonderful to know!!
cher hukill ii am filipino and i think you should check out this video and the uploader's (kyle) website and find out why finding a filipina lover is not first on his list for coming to the philippines. watch all his vids. you'll enjoy them....good times!
I'm glad that you found the courage to find something new.. is what I need to do for myself since, I'm still in the same place and same 0'l old status.. Enjoy my birth place bro ! you got about 7.000 islands.. Thanks for posting bring back lots a memories.
GlassLegend40 Salamat, kuya/dong. Yeah, got a lot more islands to check out. That is, if this rain ever decides to break..... :( Thanks, again.
Philippine Dreams Right! I still remember that when I was growing up in Marikina way back in the late 1977. when it rains, it pours unless it's a typhoon that can cover an entire island no power, no running water, rations were low and just an out house next to a bamboo shack. The whole shack creeks the entire morning while, we were trying to ride out the powerful wind.. Man! those were some real hard times..
Philippine Dreams this might help you explore places! www.becomingfilipino.com/
Canadian Guy living in CDO too !
its more fun in the Philippines.. more videos please..
did you try to eat durian and balot?
I have tried durian and didn't like it. Haven't tried the balut yet. Need to fortify myself with lots of Red Horse before I head down that road.
@@PhilippineDreams i too, would throw up when i started with durian, and im pinoy..but i persevered and got hooked.. there are always two sides of a coin..for all you know, the other side would be better..
Awesome couple!!! Thanks. Always enjoyed watching your videos. My life long dream to live there someday ! Yes, seafood , beautiful beaches and tropical fruits!!!!!
Your fortunate that Michelle is so attentive to detail. Obviously she should have been your number one reason, lol. thanks for sharing
Hi you guys , Hey Ned did you get scoldings for that one Haha. Thanks again Aloha
I always get scoldings....... :(
Philippine Dreams Hunny bunny?
Quick comment ! That scowl look you see in my face is technically a smile, my face muscles are ascending upwards and with great difficulty trying to sustain its trending movement. In the near future, I will be working on my grimace with teeth. Ned, Thank you. Michell also known as the Pagadian princess of Mindanao, Thank you for befriending my buddy from New England. Who gives a new meaning to the Queens English .
Yep - my smile comes a lot more naturally now - but it took a lot of practice. Luckily, this is the place to be to get that practice.
Philippine Dreams Doing all the right things, and yet I've come to the realization that I too will soon be an economic refugee seeking greener pastures abroad. As soon as baby boomers come to a full retirement age, I foresee an influx of boomers going overseas. Some will continue to work because they cannot afford to retire. Wall street crash of 2008 ate up their retirement nest egg. I am still crunching the numbers, doing the research...arming myself with knowledge. Truth be told, I am so tired of being taxed without representation. Dealing with a do nothing congress who are bought and paid for by greedy corporations. Rant stops here>....
Ned, I love the videos. I’m married to a Filipino and live in New Mexico. We own a condo in Cebu City, land in the mountains and we are building a house in Dalaguete, Cebu. I am 4 years away from Social Security, I don’t have a lot a money stashed away, but on SS I will receive over $2000 a month. Do you think that is enough for a family to live comfortably. I work 70 to 80 hours a week and I’m tired.
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Nice vid, my fiance want to move here in phils also..
they are very upbeat and put me in good mood watching their vidios keep up the good work guys
john doe Thank you, Mr. Doe.
john doe ii am filipino and i think you should check out this video and the uploader's (kyle) website and find out why finding a filipina lover is not first on his list for coming to the philippines. watch all his vids. yuo'll enjoy them....good times!
I'm feeling very similar dude at age 51. Please tell me about how to make that retirement gap between when you can still be young and strong enough to live but must wait ten to fifteen more years before you can apply for US social security. Suppose I could sell all my stuff here and arrive there with say 10m pesos in the bank. Could I really enjoy life instead of the daily work grind here in the cold? Thanks.