Here are some hints for foreigners to ponder upon being in the Philippines to be safe with as follows: 1)set limitations when counting on friends,say hi to whom you meet,and that’s it,nothing more beyond.Be choosey to whom you really consider true friends. 2)Privacy at home is very important and that must be dealt with your Filipino wife to beware of having her family members or worst,relatives into your home.Your wife can be the best but relatives always end up the worst to be with. 3)Security is foremost living here,do not allow people inside home,have a lot of dogs on cage to be freed nighttime only. 4)Refrain from local investments,it will cause you trouble soon as it succeeds.Thats it for now,have a wonderful stay in these tropical islands.
I'm a Westerner (Brit) living in Philippines (Palawan) and these are helpful tips - especially the getting up early&siesta and the motorbike ones. We do nearly all our shopping with just the motorbike (grocery shopping for a family of four) and don't own any other vehicle. We rent a 2nd motorbike if we want to go away somewhere for a couple of days as a family.
Great videos Ned. I have been married to a filipina from Gingoog Mindanao for 8 years now and I can tell you we are both very happy. Even with a 25 year age difference it has never been a problem or issue. It took a whole year to process the visa for her to come here. I was thinking about moving to PH in a few months and asked her what she thought about it and was surprised when she said absolutely positively no way. Looks like I will have to settle for a vacation there once in a while. I will be checking out your website now. Hope you are both will be as happy as we are.
You 2 look good together. The ups and downs are what makes a relationship stronger. I wish you only the best on your journey through life. Thanks for the advice
Yet again thank you so much for your advice. I think I would not have understood what you said if it hadn't been for the fact that I had already made some of the mistakes myself during my visits to Dumaguete and hopefully learnt from them. As far as relationships are concerned, I too have had my fingers burnt, as many of your subscribers will all too readily understand from their own experiences. I am fortunately now in a good place.
I was just about to tell you about burrisfilms. It was actually that blog which made me follow certain foreigners staying in the philippines . can't wait for the next upload Ned and Michelle.
I am FULLY aware of all these. So many of us made the same mistakes. So don't beat yourself up too much. Being aware of it is actually half the battle, and you can make changes. Re: scuba.. Luckily I was able to get my scuba card replaced and it came in the mail just before my last trip back here. So, I am looking forward to trying the diving here! Take care!
I know a bunch of expats in Davao, and it's fine. The mayor is also VERY strict about crime (like Walking Tall strict...) and no smoking is allowed in the city.
When I was researching places in the Philippines, they mostly said that Mindanao is not a safe place because of bandits in the countryside locations. I have been to Davao 3 times so far and I have never had any issues, but my gf'ds brothers used to travel to sell books and they have ran into check points set up by locals that didn't sound great. When I stayed in the city, I never had any issues other than in clubs the staff would run a table service and in the process add another 50% onto the cost of drinks. They also tried to charge us 6k to sit at a table in one club. I was smoking often and I never had any issues. Davao is a really nice Island and the city is ok but if I do move to the Philippines, I will be looking for somewhere near to Cebu or at the least on the same Island. Keep us posted on what happens and what you decide :-)
There is an expat in Davao named Mindanao Bob. You can find him on Facebook. He may have a website too. He can help you with anything about Davao and knows a lot about the Philippines in general.
Hi Ned please ramble all you want. I'm just guessing of course but most of the people who watch you videos are people who love the Philippines and are planning on longer or short time stay so every tidbit of info is welcome.. and lets face it you are funny ;-) Thank guys for sharing and all the work you put into the blog and the videos. Love you guys ... Greetings from Denmark, Europe
Burris has the best videos on the Philippines but it's from a young man's perspective. His videos of all his travels are quite good especially those from Eastern Europe and Morocco. I hope to see his videos if he ever comes back to Cebu. Your place is nice. It seems peaceful and quiet. Michell is very affectionate. Treat her well Ned, a bird in hand...
nice video, can you comment on what items that you should bring from the States? I plan on selling my house in the USA since I am on social security disability pension. I been to Dumaguete and it's a nice place.
Nice video ..... what city are you near? I am a certified scuba but REALLY liked your advice about not getting truck/car etc...until see if we need one and the other great ideas you shared. Thank you....
Ok, so after eight months here in the Philippines, I decided to document some of the mistakes that I have made in my day to day decision making. Some of them are more blatant misadventures than others - I leave it to you do decide which ones. :)
Just remember Ned, there will come a time when you reach that fork in the road and you will have to make a decision..living with a Filipina I think you know what I mean..Good luck brother :)
Very true about waking up early. I'm expat in Paris, France and kept a standard, written diary and noted expenditures my first year here. I ended up selling the diary as literature, years later. When I've had American visitors, I've urged them to go to bed early and take the siesta, too, and to get up around 5 am, which is actually very French. This is not generally a night country. Good video, thanks! I subscribed. I like expat channels and have little interest in Asia, but a good channel is way cool. There is an interview of me up on the TravelAuteurs channel people might like.
Thanks for your honesty.A lot of great points here. I'd love to see more tips on finding accommodation in The Philippines. Things to be aware of - use agents or not, any scams etc.
I understand that VRBO is a good option for short term stays. A couple of days to a couple of months. Any good condo locations in Manila that you could recommend?
What can I bring in my suitcase ? Is it the same as balikbayan box ? Like can I put say a blender or frying pan or something like that in my suitcase .
Ned, have you visited Cebu City, or Bantanyan Island yet? I highly recommend both of them, for albeit very different reasons. My personal experience includes 2 months in Cebu City on 2 separate visits, and 2 months in Pagadian City on 2 separate visits.
+Michael Osborne I am not a fan of Cebu City - only reasons to go there are women, immigration, shopping and the airport. I visited Pagadian City but there were constant brownouts and too many people staring.
Philippine Dreams yeah i know what you mean. I was 29 on my first visit there in 2011 and everyone thought I was some kind of celebrity or movie star. I am neither but all the staring and pointing and everyone saying Hey Joe was definitely interesting. The constant brownouts were frustrating. Mindanao is known for them
Life is so easy in Philippines.. Ah..when I bring the first friend from sirbia..his lucky he never spend his own money..I accommodate him everything.. Bad is he never say thank you to me after..I bring him to baquio city ..up to sagada mountain province..
As much as I enjoy Lifebeyondthesea videos (Henry is so mellow), your videos about the Philippines are now the most informative of any currently on the internet, at least for me. I've been to the Philippines lots of times, but I am just getting around to moving there in the near future. Loved your comment about not using your truck. I've been wondering whether I need one or not, but will definitely hold off. By the way....there is a Craigslist in the Philippines, with plenty of ads for housing. I doubt it is as good a way as driving around neighborhoods to find a house or an apartment however. I'm learning something new each time I watch one of your videos. Keep em coming!
Thanks, Al. Henry can do something that I can't - he can cogently and concisely discuss a topic without having to refer to scrip and can do it in just one take. I don't have the cognitive ability to do that. I think all the Philippine Expat channels bring something different to the mix. The craigslist here isn't developed at all - there is more stuff in the Manila and Cebu areas, but outlying cities and towns get very little coverage/ads.
Philippine Dreams You state in your videos that it would be a good idea to start a video blog. It would be, but both your and Henry's cognitive abilities put mine to shame. His calmness is admirable. He is the polar opposite of me in that regard. I have way too much ADHD to do anywhere near as well as either of you do. Your videos are great. Craigslist is big in Cebu and Manila, where i have spent the majority of my time. It is growing in Dumaguete from what I can gather. After seeing that a decent 1 bedroom condo in either Manila or Cebu costing at least 45K a month, I'm thinking more and more about Dumaguete being the place I settle down at in a few months. Keep up the great work. Allan
Just recently found your channel and you have very interesting insights, so I subbed. Michell seems a very smart young lady. Tell her i said "kumusta", I was born in Carcar city, raised in Cebu city until I left there in 1983. After 26 yrs, I went back there in 2009 for the first time on a 2-week vacation with my family. I would love to retire there someday, although my husband is not too keen about that option so is my daughter. For now I can only watch other people's vlog to remind me of the Philippines...
Nice video. I am coming to visit my fiancée from Palawan in September. Unfortunately, moving there is going to be down the road when I retire from the Postal Service. Trying to get her over here right now. I am enjoying all your videos very much!
Subscribed to ya, my wife and I have been catching some of your videos here and there. She is from Bacolod and has been here in the states for a year now. I am 52 and thinking maybe one day after I retire, we may go live there for a while so I can experience their culture and give her a nice chance to get back to her roots again = )
Hi Ned and Michelle. I'm Eric from Northern California , love your videos thank you, I am a single guy planning to move there soon and start a new life. Your videos are helping me. Thank you. .
Some very good advice there Ned.. I can relate to alot of it.. Only been here for about 15 months, and already I have experienced alot of what you talk about, especially about the over-spending and vices... SOOO easy to just go out for a nice steak dinner at a european/american place and just not think about the cost.. Then, if you do that almost every day... It get's expensive! Wish you the best of luck! And thanks to Henry Velez (Reekay) for directing me to your channel!
BTW... I also bought an SUV. But I actually love having it. I don't drive it all the time of course. Gas is expensive, but also it really takes longer to do errands because of traffic and lack of parking. But, don't you find having your truck useful for day trips? I take my Expedition to Manila from time to time. If I end up moving down to the Visayas, I was going to use it for day trips. And lastly, when it's the rainy season, you really kind of need a car to get through all that.
I have a friend who works for a big American airlines, so I get buddy passes - one way, first class/business elite costs around $400. It's good to have a friend like that. :)
What fun would an adventure be if it was just another walk in the park? When faced with adversity punch him in the face and keep going! Your doing great and you both seem happy.....keep it up! Wish you the best and hope to see you both soon.
Love your videos Ned and Michelle, is it advisable to take the oral typhoid vaccine before traveling to the Philippines ? Just curious to know did you before traveling there.
+Garry Lewis I would take anything and everything on the US CDC list for the Philippines. Make SURE you have the Hep A and B vaccine. wwwnc.cdc.gov/travel/destinations/traveler/none/philippines
Another great clip, bud--always love your stuff! I however, do not agree with #10. Writing end-of-day notes in a journal would be more appropriate. People should never film everything when first settling into new surroundings. Sure, some clips are okay. But if they are too busy worrying about constantly grabbing the cam, having the cam, charging the cam....etc--they will most certainly miss out on their biggest moments. They need to be IN the action, not always trying to capture it. It's a whole different perspective with separate flavors, man ;)
Very interesting story and your video . You should be thankful that meet someone that her parent are not very strict at all not like my parent cannot go out for a date unless there is chaperon. You pretty lucky I hope you both be happy and good luck the Phil. Dream. and God bless..
+Philippine Dreams we did quite a bit. My wife's family is from Bantayan Island.. They have a place near the new mall in Cebu and a home and lot on the ocean on Bantayan Island. Stayed on Bantayan for about 6 nights and in cebu for about 5 nights. Checked out the Virgin Island and snorkeled.. Went to Oslob and snorkeled with the whale sharks. Great experience. If you haven't done that yet you should try it. I'll post a video of it soon.
Note that you said fuel is more expensive than in the west. Correction: It's the same price as eastern parts of Europe and much cheaper than Western/Northern Europe. It's only cheaper than the US since the US doesn't really tax fuel much.
The part about dating filipinas is correct. They are not like American woman. I have had 2 filipina gf's in USA and made some mistakes with them because I did not understand their culture and upbringing. I assumed they were like american woman and I was wrong. I found out about tampo and could never understand why one moment all is fine and the next I dont exist. From watching your videos and henry's and others, I realized this is almost a standard trait for filipinas. If I knew ahead of time, maybe I could of avoided alot of the headaches I caused myself and her. Looking back, I think filipinas get something in their head and it isnt going away. Once they make up their mind, that is it. I am sure after a long relationship that tends to fade away. Filipinas are great woman. I never felt so comfortable talking to a woman than a filipina. They are so easy to talk to, open, honest about feelings and very emotional and romantic and sensitive. Basically everything a man looks for in a good woman. Those good qualities definitely out-weigh the bad. Thanks for all the sharing you both do, I have learned much and look forward to coming to the Philippines later this year.
+greatheart52 As long as you know how to say, "I am sorry." And letting her know that you care and let her know that you really dislike arguments/fight because it is not healthy in a relationship. If there are some discussions, discuss this in a nice constructive way like going for a nice romantic date and say it nicely with all the respect. Yes, that is how we are but we can also change and be much better. Tampo is not a good thing.
thanks to these videos and your own unique, sparkling personalities, you two are part of my dream, for sure gonna look you up and treat you kids to lunch or dinner or whatever-a picnic at the beach works for me!
Since I'm new to your channel, I've missed a lot and will probably be playing catch-up for the next few weeks, Is there any particular order your videos should be viewed? I've caught myself just bouncing from one vid to another and although they're all great, I started to wonder if I'd get more from your experience if I watched them chronologically. Thanks. Keep it up. I love your vids.
Please elaborate on the difficulties and misunderstanding in the relationship that you mentioned (12:13) if you have already made a video to cover this kind of thing, please let me know. I have only seen this video so far but it was good enough for me to have queued up another. Thanks for the information thus far and have a great day :-)
Hey Ned, have you ever been to Panglao island? It's close to you and it has some very nice lay back beaches. I wish I could remember the name of the one I was at. Ahh it was Alona Beach. Very nice. I will be visiting Batanes in late October. Looks very laid back and non-touristy. Just the way me and my girlfriend want it this time :)
I was "attacked" by sea urchins in December, and I heard Alona has a bunch of em. Henry over at Lifebeyondthesea lived right near there for a long time. I will eventually be traveling to Bohol to check it out.
I enjoy your videos and please keep rambling. I have a question. Have you traveled before? A lot of what you list on this video appears to me to be obvious and what is learned when you set out on your own. i wonder if most of your life was work.
Greetings. I was fortunate to find your video blog and very much enjoyed the first two viewings. We will plan to find number one and watch them all. For now I will simply agree that no one should miss the sunrise in the Philippines, it is probably only second to the sunset over Manila bay. My "job" ends at 4:00AM. when the New York and Chicago markets close. Grind coffee beans and brew up a fresh pot, watch the sunrise to end each work day. If it was a very good week, treat myself to a great cigar to complement the the cup of caffeine.
Hi Ted! I'm liking your videos. I have a question for you, and maybe you've answered it already in one of your previous videos, are you staying there on a visa? If so, how does all of that work? Explain if you can. Thank you!
Thanks. I've been here in Thailand right now, but this advice works in both places. I made the mistake of moving a place and buying things for it, only to discover shortly after that the internet access was go worse as more tenants moved in the condo, And across the golf course it's on there's a very load disco 1 km away that's loud, and also a stadium of some kind with the same issue in the morning !
Hello Ned & Michelle, great videos! My husband and I are your avid followers particularly my husband, he has been trying to hang-on on his very stressful job, but I think sometimes your videos makes him loose his grips and just wants to jump in the plane and leave :) I have to keep reminding him, he will be living the dream soon. See, we have few things to take care of before leaving the States but he's just burned out with work politics and exhausting competitive routine. I am a Filipina and I appreciate Michelle's simplicity and honest opinion on things and to you Ned, thank you for putting things in perspective by showing the good and bad side of Philippines with your experiences. We are moving back to the Philippines pretty soon to raise our daughters there. More power to you and Michelle and God bless!
Michell always seems to be very affectionate toward you in the videos. My girlfriend, although I only see here once or twice a year, is very affectionate and I love it because I am too. But I get lonely the rest of the year. So I need to move there as soon as I can!
+Clifford White Friend of mine here in Australia selling her 8bedroom 5 bathroom property in Cebu, fully furnished. PLease let me know if your interested. australis.australia@gmail.com. Trying to help her coz shes old and has suffered 2 strokes and has no idea how to sell her property.
I'd be curious if there ever was a study done to determine what percentage of Filipinas would even consider marrying a foreigner that would live in the RP permanently. Of those willing, what percentage are motivated more for financial security vs. the percentage who are tired of how Filipinos have treated them and see a better chance of happiness with a foreigner. I have been married to and dated Asian women (not from the Philippines) who often volunteered their dislike of their male counterparts when casually asked. I've wondered if this is a common stock answer they know white guys want to hear or are they like us who feel compelled to try something different since the status quo has not worked for them either? Is there a chance Michell would share some insight in general terms from what she has seen and heard from female peers and relatives on this topic?
I am still a relative noob, so I have no idea. I do know that Filipinos seem to be VERY family oriented and would think any Filipina moving overseas would miss them dearly. I asked Michell, and she said it's up to the individual, which makes sense. We will be addressing relationship stuff in a later video.
Stupid question about the truck that you have. Is it a requirement in The Philippines that vehicles (In guess your bikes too) have insurance as here in 'Merica? I'm just curious. Thank you :)
Hi Ned. Recently found your site and watched a bunch of your videos the past couple of days, all informative. I have tried unsuccessfully three times using different browsers as you suggested to watch this one about your mistakes but to no avail. The audio is too low. The intro music is fine but once you start to speak I can barely hear you. Guess I'll have to skip this one and continue on.
Awesome! Loved watching and listening to what your experiences have been...coming to Manila in December to meet a woman that I have fallen in love with through Facebook..weird how love works sometime! :)
What you don't have the social skills to meet someone face to face? You have to travel to the other side of the world to meet a filipina who is desperate to leave the place. Your just another sexual creep who is about to be taken for a ride. Funny how love works hey.
I usually don't comment a lot, because when i first time see your channel i said yeh he is a show off person regard to your body shape.( you looks like a fighter). but when see you talking...oh man i believe there are peoples naturally leaders. thanks a lot.
Love the vids. I have been married to a filipina for 26 years. Livig here in the US. Would like to semi retire in Philippines. Regarding imigration you can get a "green card" to live in the Philippines I think for 21 months. Go to the PHILIPPINE Consulate check out you local Philippine community center where the Consulate comes there
Is it easy to get your hands on livestock over there? When I go, I want to buy some meat rabbits, chickens, ducks, and goats. Do they have something like a farmers market?
Yes I am American too living near Cebu... I have been here 12 years... My Pinay wife is a dream for me...smart and kind....I avoided the bars and the 18 year olds...whew...smart on that one.!..my wife is an .Accounting manager....I am an Engineer...all I do I now is consult ESL...check out our new little house video..I have a million thing I want to say and share...my bad is that.I can be negative...and I will try my best, but sometimes ya just have to call it straight as it you see it. I enjoyed your videos. Keep on making them....starting my chapter of the BBQ Boys soon...watch for the video!
Your videos are informative. I think if you got in the habit of putting your camera 50% closer to yourself you then will be making more compelling videos.
Is it common now that two are living together unmarried? Back in 19 forgotten when I met my wife that was not going to happen. She was a teacher at the time. I remember she told me, if we would have done it mothers would have refused to send their children to her class. She would have lost her job.
Here are some hints for foreigners to ponder upon being in the Philippines to be safe with as follows: 1)set limitations when counting on friends,say hi to whom you meet,and that’s it,nothing more beyond.Be choosey to whom you really consider true friends. 2)Privacy at home is very important and that must be dealt with your Filipino wife to beware of having her family members or worst,relatives into your home.Your wife can be the best but relatives always end up the worst to be with. 3)Security is foremost living here,do not allow people inside home,have a lot of dogs on cage to be freed nighttime only. 4)Refrain from local investments,it will cause you trouble soon as it succeeds.Thats it for now,have a wonderful stay in these tropical islands.
I'm a Westerner (Brit) living in Philippines (Palawan) and these are helpful tips - especially the getting up early&siesta and the motorbike ones. We do nearly all our shopping with just the motorbike (grocery shopping for a family of four) and don't own any other vehicle. We rent a 2nd motorbike if we want to go away somewhere for a couple of days as a family.
gruff5 Palawan is a very beautiful place with the cleanest environment.fresh air as well.it is a dream destination for most filipinos...
Great videos Ned.
I have been married to a filipina from Gingoog Mindanao for 8 years now and I can tell you we are both very happy.
Even with a 25 year age difference it has never been a problem or issue.
It took a whole year to process the visa for her to come here.
I was thinking about moving to PH in a few months and asked her what she thought about it and
was surprised when she said absolutely positively no way.
Looks like I will have to settle for a vacation there once in a while.
I will be checking out your website now.
Hope you are both will be as happy as we are.
beautifull backyard how much did u spend on the house and how big is it my friend, I might wanna come and move there
Thanks for your honesty Ned. Honesty is the beginning of wisdom and give us the chance to benefit from it.
Another great video. I love your attitude.
I must say I really enjoy all your videos, learning so much. What a great life you made for yourself and your girl there. Really sweet.........
just me We both working hard, appreciating the present and looking to the future. Kind of like everyone else, I guess... :)
You 2 look good together. The ups and downs are what makes a relationship stronger. I wish you only the best on your journey through life. Thanks for the advice
Salamat Po!
this is very helpful information! I will in Dumaguete city in February but will be mostly in Ayungon
Yet again thank you so much for your advice. I think I would not have understood what you said if it hadn't been for the fact that I had already made some of the mistakes myself during my visits to Dumaguete and hopefully learnt from them. As far as relationships are concerned, I too have had my fingers burnt, as many of your subscribers will all too readily understand from their own experiences. I am fortunately now in a good place.
I was just about to tell you about burrisfilms. It was actually that blog which made me follow certain foreigners staying in the philippines . can't wait for the next upload Ned and Michelle.
Yeah, he's pretty awesome. This is the first video he did after arriving in Mactan. America To The Philippines and First Impressions
I am FULLY aware of all these. So many of us made the same mistakes. So don't beat yourself up too much. Being aware of it is actually half the battle, and you can make changes.
Re: scuba.. Luckily I was able to get my scuba card replaced and it came in the mail just before my last trip back here. So, I am looking forward to trying the diving here! Take care!
Very interesting video.I love it.I hope you can show how the gymn looks like there..
myrna mangsat Here's the gym I go to in Dumaguete, Myrna: th-cam.com/video/One8B_WNX_I/w-d-xo.html
Im leaning towards Davao city, but I noticed expats dont touch mindanao with a 10 feet pole. Any opinions?
I know a bunch of expats in Davao, and it's fine. The mayor is also VERY strict about crime (like Walking Tall strict...) and no smoking is allowed in the city.
great
When I was researching places in the Philippines, they mostly said that Mindanao is not a safe place because of bandits in the countryside locations. I have been to Davao 3 times so far and I have never had any issues, but my gf'ds brothers used to travel to sell books and they have ran into check points set up by locals that didn't sound great.
When I stayed in the city, I never had any issues other than in clubs the staff would run a table service and in the process add another 50% onto the cost of drinks. They also tried to charge us 6k to sit at a table in one club. I was smoking often and I never had any issues.
Davao is a really nice Island and the city is ok but if I do move to the Philippines, I will be looking for somewhere near to Cebu or at the least on the same Island. Keep us posted on what happens and what you decide :-)
Axischilled83 Yeah, everyone is saying if you stay in the city, it should be ok
There is an expat in Davao named Mindanao Bob. You can find him on Facebook. He may have a website too. He can help you with anything about Davao and knows a lot about the Philippines in general.
Hi! there kuya i moved to Mindanao in 2012 and married 2013 and we now live on island of Samal Toril babak..where r you?
Hi Ned please ramble all you want. I'm just guessing of course but most of the people who watch you videos are people who love the Philippines and are planning on longer or short time stay so every tidbit of info is welcome.. and lets face it you are funny ;-)
Thank guys for sharing and all the work you put into the blog and the videos.
Love you guys ... Greetings from Denmark, Europe
Tom Køster Thanks Tom!!
I am allergic to smoke and react violently to 2nd/3rd hand smoke. Should I worry about this? Are all the rentals and hotels heavily smoked in?
how big is your Lot Area in sqm?that´s pretty nice space you got there.
Burris has the best videos on the Philippines but it's from a young man's perspective. His videos of all his travels are quite good especially those from Eastern Europe and Morocco. I hope to see his videos if he ever comes back to Cebu.
Your place is nice. It seems peaceful and quiet. Michell is very affectionate. Treat her well Ned, a bird in hand...
nice video, can you comment on what items that you should bring from the States? I plan on selling my house in the USA since I am on social security disability pension. I been to Dumaguete and it's a nice place.
Steve E Check out our balikbayan box videos for some ideas. Our new website is also going up soon, and I will have a section just for that.
Nice video ..... what city are you near? I am a certified scuba but REALLY liked your advice about not getting truck/car etc...until see if we need one and the other great ideas you shared.
Thank you....
Great list. The vices and getting up early were really good points.
Ok, so after eight months here in the Philippines, I decided to document some of the mistakes that I have made in my day to day decision making. Some of them are more blatant misadventures than others - I leave it to you do decide which ones. :)
Just remember Ned, there will come a time when you reach that fork in the road and you will have to make a decision..living with a Filipina I think you know what I mean..Good luck brother :)
ah yes #8 the freedom of a motorbike
The Freedom of the Motorbike in Philippines Traffic
Another very informative vid Ned!
Nice one, Bush. Yeah, if you were in a car/SUV, you'd still be stuck in that traffic!
Yeah, I do know what ya mean, and it's something I think about a lot. :)
Very true about waking up early. I'm expat in Paris, France and kept a standard, written diary and noted expenditures my first year here. I ended up selling the diary as literature, years later. When I've had American visitors, I've urged them to go to bed early and take the siesta, too, and to get up around 5 am, which is actually very French. This is not generally a night country. Good video, thanks! I subscribed. I like expat channels and have little interest in Asia, but a good channel is way cool. There is an interview of me up on the TravelAuteurs channel people might like.
Thanks for your honesty.A lot of great points here. I'd love to see more tips on finding accommodation in The Philippines. Things to be aware of - use agents or not, any scams etc.
Great share ! Thank You.
Always great info Ned . Glad that your getting more subs . Can't wait to see your up coming videos . Later bro
Yeah, it's pretty crazy, but it's slowing down now. More vids on the way!
I understand that VRBO is a good option for short term stays. A couple of days to a couple of months. Any good condo locations in Manila that you could recommend?
What can I bring in my suitcase ? Is it the same as balikbayan box ? Like can I put say a blender or frying pan or something like that in my suitcase .
Ned, have you visited Cebu City, or Bantanyan Island yet? I highly recommend both of them, for albeit very different reasons.
My personal experience includes 2 months in Cebu City on 2 separate visits, and 2 months in Pagadian City on 2 separate visits.
+Michael Osborne I am not a fan of Cebu City - only reasons to go there are women, immigration, shopping and the airport. I visited Pagadian City but there were constant brownouts and too many people staring.
Philippine Dreams yeah i know what you mean. I was 29 on my first visit there in 2011 and everyone thought I was some kind of celebrity or movie star. I am neither but all the staring and pointing and everyone saying Hey Joe was definitely interesting. The constant brownouts were frustrating. Mindanao is known for them
+Philippine Dreams What do u expect? ur a white boy there...
Life is so easy in Philippines.. Ah..when I bring the first friend from sirbia..his lucky he never spend his own money..I accommodate him everything.. Bad is he never say thank you to me after..I bring him to baquio city ..up to sagada mountain province..
As much as I enjoy Lifebeyondthesea videos (Henry is so mellow), your videos about the Philippines are now the most informative of any currently on the internet, at least for me.
I've been to the Philippines lots of times, but I am just getting around to moving there in the near future.
Loved your comment about not using your truck. I've been wondering whether I need one or not, but will definitely hold off.
By the way....there is a Craigslist in the Philippines, with plenty of ads for housing. I doubt it is as good a way as driving around neighborhoods to find a house or an apartment however.
I'm learning something new each time I watch one of your videos. Keep em coming!
Thanks, Al. Henry can do something that I can't - he can cogently and concisely discuss a topic without having to refer to scrip and can do it in just one take. I don't have the cognitive ability to do that. I think all the Philippine Expat channels bring something different to the mix. The craigslist here isn't developed at all - there is more stuff in the Manila and Cebu areas, but outlying cities and towns get very little coverage/ads.
Philippine Dreams You state in your videos that it would be a good idea to start a video blog. It would be, but both your and Henry's cognitive abilities put mine to shame. His calmness is admirable. He is the polar opposite of me in that regard. I have way too much ADHD to do anywhere near as well as either of you do. Your videos are great.
Craigslist is big in Cebu and Manila, where i have spent the majority of my time. It is growing in Dumaguete from what I can gather. After seeing that a decent 1 bedroom condo in either Manila or Cebu costing at least 45K a month, I'm thinking more and more about Dumaguete being the place I settle down at in a few months.
Keep up the great work.
Allan
hey thanks for sharing your experience,more vedios please about more experience! thanks
Just recently found your channel and you have very interesting insights, so I subbed. Michell seems a very smart young lady. Tell her i said "kumusta", I was born in Carcar city, raised in Cebu city until I left there in 1983. After 26 yrs, I went back there in 2009 for the first time on a 2-week vacation with my family. I would love to retire there someday, although my husband is not too keen about that option so is my daughter. For now I can only watch other people's vlog to remind me of the Philippines...
Nice video. I am coming to visit my fiancée from Palawan in September. Unfortunately, moving there is going to be down the road when I retire from the Postal Service. Trying to get her over here right now. I am enjoying all your videos very much!
Thanks Frank. I am going to be in Palawan (hopefully) in December to meet up with some friends from the states. It look gorgeous!
Hi Frank, lucky you to visit Palawan, its a very beautiful place, lots of white sand beaches. Good luck on your lady love.
Subscribed to ya, my wife and I have been catching some of your videos here and there. She is from Bacolod and has been here in the states for a year now. I am 52 and thinking maybe one day after I retire, we may go live there for a while so I can experience their culture and give her a nice chance to get back to her roots again = )
+Tennessee Jim It's an adventure!
Hi Ned and Michelle. I'm Eric from Northern California , love your videos thank you, I am a single guy planning to move there soon and start a new life. Your videos are helping me. Thank you. .
Your garden and wall surrounding looks nice for space and security.
Some very good advice there Ned.. I can relate to alot of it.. Only been here for about 15 months, and already I have experienced alot of what you talk about, especially about the over-spending and vices... SOOO easy to just go out for a nice steak dinner at a european/american place and just not think about the cost.. Then, if you do that almost every day... It get's expensive! Wish you the best of luck! And thanks to Henry Velez (Reekay) for directing me to your channel!
Rune Lilleeng Nice steaks? You must be in Cebu or Manila. :)
Lapu-Lapu Mactan :)
BTW... I also bought an SUV. But I actually love having it. I don't drive it all the time of course. Gas is expensive, but also it really takes longer to do errands because of traffic and lack of parking. But, don't you find having your truck useful for day trips? I take my Expedition to Manila from time to time. If I end up moving down to the Visayas, I was going to use it for day trips. And lastly, when it's the rainy season, you really kind of need a car to get through all that.
how do I set up a blog can you help me? I want to blog about Jasaan Miimis Oriental when I visit my gf there
Great video, question how did you go about buying your airfare to the Philippines?
I have a friend who works for a big American airlines, so I get buddy passes - one way, first class/business elite costs around $400. It's good to have a friend like that. :)
Another great video. Thanks
ned...i watched all your videos and i enjoyed .. i like your attitude...keep up the good work..
+Glynda Castillo Thank you for that, Glynda - much appreciated!
Great advice, thanks.
Thanks for the useful hints and tips.
What fun would an adventure be if it was just another walk in the park? When faced with adversity punch him in the face and keep going! Your doing great and you both seem happy.....keep it up! Wish you the best and hope to see you both soon.
Thanks Cory. It's not literally paradise but most days it seems like it is. :)
Love your videos Ned and Michelle, is it advisable to take the oral typhoid vaccine before traveling to the Philippines ? Just curious to know did you before traveling there.
+Garry Lewis I would take anything and everything on the US CDC list for the Philippines. Make SURE you have the Hep A and B vaccine.
wwwnc.cdc.gov/travel/destinations/traveler/none/philippines
Did you get the Typhoid pills or shot ? I got A and B vaccines
Thanks again for your time, love your videos
Another great clip, bud--always love your stuff! I however, do not agree with #10. Writing end-of-day notes in a journal would be more appropriate. People should never film everything when first settling into new surroundings. Sure, some clips are okay. But if they are too busy worrying about constantly grabbing the cam, having the cam, charging the cam....etc--they will most certainly miss out on their biggest moments. They need to be IN the action, not always trying to capture it. It's a whole different perspective with separate flavors, man ;)
I'm straining to hear you my friend.... Great vids, you're living the dream.
acorn sucks Still haven't figured out a better way to do audio. We are looking into options.
it is good you make these video's I wish I did been living in Philippines 18 years now.
Very interesting story and your video . You should be thankful that meet someone that her parent are not very strict at all not like my parent cannot go out for a date unless there is chaperon. You pretty lucky I hope you both be happy and good luck the Phil. Dream. and God bless..
Luzviminda R. Pew Thanks Ms. Pew! It all has it's ups and downs, but when all is said and done, I am loving the Philippines!
Just got back last wk from my first visit to PI. I went to Cebu area. Great experience.
+Phillip Ott Were you just in the city or did you go out exploring?
+Philippine Dreams we did quite a bit. My wife's family is from Bantayan Island.. They have a place near the new mall in Cebu and a home and lot on the ocean on Bantayan Island. Stayed on Bantayan for about 6 nights and in cebu for about 5 nights. Checked out the Virgin Island and snorkeled.. Went to Oslob and snorkeled with the whale sharks. Great experience. If you haven't done that yet you should try it. I'll post a video of it soon.
Keep up the great work. I hope to visit sometime next year. My first time.
ricardo avelino It'll be an eye opener to a whole new world!
Burrisfilms doesn’t come up in a search on you tube. Can you post a link
Damn, you are right. I can't find him anywhere. Hope he is OK.
Thk for sharing those Experiences,Ned
I like your vidoes about th Philippines. May i suggest a video about your background and how you deciced to take this adventure.
Is it my equipment or is there no audio?
Note that you said fuel is more expensive than in the west. Correction: It's the same price as eastern parts of Europe and much cheaper than Western/Northern Europe. It's only cheaper than the US since the US doesn't really tax fuel much.
Hi there Ned do you still have your dogs or did you take on the one outside ?
just wondered ??
The dogs we had before came with the house in Dauin. We don't have a dog now - we just borrow the neighbors to use as a garbage disposal. :)
The part about dating filipinas is correct. They are not like American woman. I have had 2 filipina gf's in USA and made some mistakes with them because I did not understand their culture and upbringing. I assumed they were like american woman and I was wrong. I found out about tampo and could never understand why one moment all is fine and the next I dont exist. From watching your videos and henry's and others, I realized this is almost a standard trait for filipinas. If I knew ahead of time, maybe I could of avoided alot of the headaches I caused myself and her. Looking back, I think filipinas get something in their head and it isnt going away. Once they make up their mind, that is it. I am sure after a long relationship that tends to fade away. Filipinas are great woman. I never felt so comfortable talking to a woman than a filipina. They are so easy to talk to, open, honest about feelings and very emotional and romantic and sensitive. Basically everything a man looks for in a good woman. Those good qualities definitely out-weigh the bad. Thanks for all the sharing you both do, I have learned much and look forward to coming to the Philippines later this year.
+greatheart52 As long as you know how to say, "I am sorry." And letting her know that you care and let her know that you really dislike arguments/fight because it is not healthy in a relationship. If there are some discussions, discuss this in a nice constructive way like going for a nice romantic date and say it nicely with all the respect. Yes, that is how we are but we can also change and be much better. Tampo is not a good thing.
thanks to these videos and your own unique, sparkling personalities, you two are part of my dream, for sure gonna look you up and treat you kids to lunch or dinner or whatever-a picnic at the beach works for me!
Hey, we are always up for a free meal!! Salamat!
my pleasure!!! :-)
Thanks for your good advice.
Since I'm new to your channel, I've missed a lot and will probably be playing catch-up for the next few weeks, Is there any particular order your videos should be viewed? I've caught myself just bouncing from one vid to another and although they're all great, I started to wonder if I'd get more from your experience if I watched them chronologically. Thanks. Keep it up. I love your vids.
Steve W You can watch them any way you want. I don't think there is a right way or a wrong way. Thanks for the kind words, Steve!
Please elaborate on the difficulties and misunderstanding in the relationship that you mentioned (12:13) if you have already made a video to cover this kind of thing, please let me know. I have only seen this video so far but it was good enough for me to have queued up another. Thanks for the information thus far and have a great day :-)
Axischilled83 Jealousy, things said and unsaid, things lost in translation - basically all the things that make relationships a challenge.
Hey Ned, have you ever been to Panglao island? It's close to you and it has some very nice lay back beaches. I wish I could remember the name of the one I was at. Ahh it was Alona Beach. Very nice. I will be visiting Batanes in late October. Looks very laid back and non-touristy. Just the way me and my girlfriend want it this time :)
I was "attacked" by sea urchins in December, and I heard Alona has a bunch of em. Henry over at Lifebeyondthesea lived right near there for a long time. I will eventually be traveling to Bohol to check it out.
Great looking Couple. How long have you two been together in the philippines?
Nearly four years now. :)
I enjoy your videos and please keep rambling. I have a question. Have you traveled before? A lot of what you list on this video appears to me to be obvious and what is learned when you set out on your own. i wonder if most of your life was work.
Greetings. I was fortunate to find your video blog and very much enjoyed the first two viewings. We will plan to find number one and watch them all. For now I will simply agree that no one should miss the sunrise in the Philippines, it is probably only second to the sunset over Manila bay. My "job" ends at 4:00AM. when the New York and Chicago markets close. Grind coffee beans and brew up a fresh pot, watch the sunrise to end each work day. If it was a very good week, treat myself to a great cigar to complement the the cup of caffeine.
NewHampshire Jack Yep, the sunrises are simply spectacular here.
So true about the motorcycle setting the pace on the road.
Which part of BOSTON r u from? Where did u grow up?
Hi Ted! I'm liking your videos. I have a question for you, and maybe you've answered it already in one of your previous videos, are you staying there on a visa? If so, how does all of that work? Explain if you can. Thank you!
Thanks. I've been here in Thailand right now, but this advice works in both places. I made the mistake of moving a place and buying things for it, only to discover shortly after that the internet access was go worse as more tenants moved in the condo, And across the golf course it's on there's a very load disco 1 km away that's loud, and also a stadium of some kind with the same issue in the morning !
Hello Ned & Michelle, great videos! My husband and I are your avid followers particularly my husband, he has been trying to hang-on on his very stressful job, but I think sometimes your videos makes him loose his grips and just wants to jump in the plane and leave :) I have to keep reminding him, he will be living the dream soon. See, we have few things to take care of before leaving the States but he's just burned out with work politics and exhausting competitive routine. I am a Filipina and I appreciate Michelle's simplicity and honest opinion on things and to you Ned, thank you for putting things in perspective by showing the good and bad side of Philippines with your experiences. We are moving back to the Philippines pretty soon to raise our daughters there. More power to you and Michelle and God bless!
Hi guys,I just seen this one, let me say thanks to you both for doing these videos they are full of good info for someone looking over there :)
matt hajas Thanks, Matt. We appreciate it.
Michell always seems to be very affectionate toward you in the videos. My girlfriend, although I only see here once or twice a year, is very affectionate and I love it because I am too. But I get lonely the rest of the year. So I need to move there as soon as I can!
Well, at least you have something to look forward to!
Good info today.
Thanks, Shawn.
I cant here video when get 0:11 just silent
Hie there thanks for the video, I am planning to move to the Philippines in July this year, I am South Africa,
+Clifford White Thanks for watching, Clifford and have fun!
+Clifford White Friend of mine here in Australia selling her 8bedroom 5 bathroom property in Cebu, fully furnished. PLease let me know if your interested. australis.australia@gmail.com. Trying to help her coz shes old and has suffered 2 strokes and has no idea how to sell her property.
I'd be curious if there ever was a study done to determine what percentage of Filipinas would even consider marrying a foreigner that would live in the RP permanently. Of those willing, what percentage are motivated more for financial security vs. the percentage who are tired of how Filipinos have treated them and see a better chance of happiness with a foreigner.
I have been married to and dated Asian women (not from the Philippines) who often volunteered their dislike of their male counterparts when casually asked. I've wondered if this is a common stock answer they know white guys want to hear or are they like us who feel compelled to try something different since the status quo has not worked for them either?
Is there a chance Michell would share some insight in general terms from what she has seen and heard from female peers and relatives on this topic?
I am still a relative noob, so I have no idea. I do know that Filipinos seem to be VERY family oriented and would think any Filipina moving overseas would miss them dearly. I asked Michell, and she said it's up to the individual, which makes sense. We will be addressing relationship stuff in a later video.
Stupid question about the truck that you have. Is it a requirement in The Philippines that vehicles (In guess your bikes too) have insurance as here in 'Merica? I'm just curious. Thank you :)
+I_H8_Unknown_Callers Yep. Gotta have insurance.
I’m trying to get my visa atm and I am having trouble to schedule a appointment with the embassy anyone able to walk me thru for philippines
Excellent fireside chat Ned. Salamat.
Fireside chat ;)
Thanks Nils. gr8 stuff.
Just subbed, cant do otherwise, golden reminders, grazie....
morning in the Philippines always a cool breeze until 8:00 am at leased
Petrol may be expensive compared to the States. But compared to New Zealand its cheap as. NZ$1.57 in the Phils compared to NZ$2.12 as of 17/11/17.
Hi Ned. Recently found your site and watched a bunch of your videos the past couple of days, all informative. I have tried unsuccessfully three times using different browsers as you suggested to watch this one about your mistakes but to no avail. The audio is too low. The intro music is fine but once you start to speak I can barely hear you. Guess I'll have to skip this one and continue on.
Jon M Yeah, the audio on this is pretty low. Sorry man - I am still learning the ins and outs (mostly outs, it seems) of putting together videos.
the best thing you will do as a foreigner in the phils. is to have a local freind to guide you in your life here.
Lady boys help
Awesome! Loved watching and listening to what your experiences have been...coming to Manila in December to meet a woman that I have fallen in love with through Facebook..weird how love works sometime! :)
After a day or two I hope to document what I experience too.
Ryan Bell Start on the first day!!! You won't regret it.
What you don't have the social skills to meet someone face to face? You have to travel to the other side of the world to meet a filipina who is desperate to leave the place. Your just another sexual creep who is about to be taken for a ride. Funny how love works hey.
lol - you funny. :P
I usually don't comment a lot, because when i first time see your channel i said yeh he is a show off person regard to your body shape.( you looks like a fighter). but when see you talking...oh man i believe there are peoples naturally leaders. thanks a lot.
LOLZ. Truth is, I could't fight my way out of the proverbial wet paper sack. Thanks, blue.
come on captain -get on the bike and show me some more waterfalls beaches etc,introduce us to a few of the locals
Love the vids. I have been married to a filipina for 26 years. Livig here in the US. Would like to semi retire in Philippines. Regarding imigration you can get a "green card" to live in the Philippines I think for 21 months. Go to the PHILIPPINE Consulate check out you local Philippine community center where the Consulate comes there
Is it easy to get your hands on livestock over there?
When I go, I want to buy some meat rabbits, chickens, ducks, and goats. Do they have something like a farmers market?
Yes I am American too living near Cebu... I have been here 12 years... My Pinay wife is a dream for me...smart and kind....I avoided the bars and the 18 year olds...whew...smart on that one.!..my wife is an .Accounting manager....I am an Engineer...all I do I now is consult ESL...check out our new little house video..I have a million thing I want to say and share...my bad is that.I can be negative...and I will try my best, but sometimes ya just have to call it straight as it you see it. I enjoyed your videos. Keep on making them....starting my chapter of the BBQ Boys soon...watch for the video!
@Tascam, Ned and I are not married and I don't have a twin sister, but I do have a younger sister that is still available. :)
hmmm i bet you will learn many things over there things you never expected just my feeiing
Your videos are informative. I think if you got in the habit of putting your camera 50% closer to yourself you then will be making more compelling videos.
thanks for the vids brada.
LOV-U Tanang Thanks for watching!
Is it common now that two are living together unmarried? Back in 19 forgotten when I met my wife that was not going to happen. She was a teacher at the time. I remember she told me, if we would have done it mothers would have refused to send their children to her class. She would have lost her job.
Michell says that until recently, teachers were not allowed to live outside of wedlock just for the reasons that you mentioned.
I found the springs apartment down thown but I am still looking for a place to live in the area?