Thank you Theo for sharing your experience with forgiving your Mother. I really like your example of how Forgiveness shows strength, not weakness. That a little bit of trauma can be a lifetime of misery and anger. I too found Jesse Lee Peterson, but after my mother had died. So, was not able to Forgive her face-to-face. Getting to know myself and realizing that I am, but not so much anymore, like my mother. Forgiving my mother has taken the resentment I had for my Father away. I heard you on Jesse's show this morning (8/24/2020). Glad I checked out your channel. Looking forward to watching more of your videos. Thank you.
Biblically this could be explained for generational curses. Another way to put it, the giants your parents didn't face you will have to confront. Also forgiveness is key to keeping your heart pure. Making peace that our parents did the best they could with what they had helps me. Unforgiveness is drinking poison and expecting it to harm the other person. Glad you've made peace. I'm enjoying your videos. Found you from Cole. I'm inspired by your journey. Think I need to just do some intermittent fasting, then keep widening the window, then jump into the snake diet. Your video on pizza totally convicted me. I'm grateful for that. :) God bless you and your continued health and healing journey.
Thank you! That really made me think about my mom. She passed away 7 years ago, and in my memory she was only good. I forgave my dad for the things he tought me wrong or did get to teach me. But with my mom, I never stopped to think what she maybe has tought me wrong, which I carry still with me because of my love to her. I have to see what might be there, but maybe there is some more forgiving due, that I haven't noticed.
You're on point. I'm 32 and still (re)learning the law of forgiveness. Once we let go completely, life becomes easier and the universe opens up to us. Keep making these videos, please! You're helping a lot of people. Var välsignad, bror, och får ljuset välsigna dig.
Great on you bro! Came here after you called in on Jesse Lee Peterson’s show. I have forgiven my mom over and over on my own, but it has not lifted the anger and resentment. I think that it’s important to go in person and forgive to see the spiritual stronghold break. I’m sure if I go in person, she will not understand and be emotional but it has to be done.
Hello and welcome! Yes when the option is there one should do it face to face. It doesn't matter if she understands or not, this is about *you* forgiving *her*. Good luck man 👍
Amazin my story is very similar I feel yah me and my dad were close as kids then big momma, projected her insecurities unto me, dat went beta couldn’t protect me from her
I'm 45 and have no kids but have raised a stepdaughter and I have been saying the same thing lately there has to be a better way of getting thru to kids than yelling at them
saw you on JLP and came to check out your channel...what i see so far very nice..im training for ages with no serious gains...will definetly check your content more...i saw two or three videos and I wonder one thing....Are you the only person in Sweden ??? :-) :-)
You do whatever you want but holding on to resentment will make you unable to ever achieve inner peace. Forgiving someone is not the same as saying what they did to you was okay. Forgiveness is acknowleding someone wronged you but letting go of hate and resentment. It is not easy and it does not happen in an instant but this is the way to inner peace. Good luck and have a good weekend
Good video bro, what a common pattern these days of the controlling mother and the father that is weak and does not protect his son. Very interesting to me, I want to understand more about the psychology of this family dynamic, And How did it come to happen this way?
Forgiveness is about understanding why the person acted the way they did, not saying that it was okay but accepting it as a thing of the past you went through that shaped you and let go of the hate, anger and resentment. It's a gradual process my friend
@@UncommonSense I will because i noticed my anger and depression seems to stem from my past. I get angry when i think of things our father did. I will pray God delivers me i will continue to forgive
I think that "forgiveness" is too broad of a word. In one sense, you can forgive someone because you feel that they have made amends somehow (e.g. they apologized, or did something to show their remorse, or demonstrated that they understood the wrongness of their actions). And after this forgiveness, you can treat them as if they did nothing to you, or at lease give them another chance. In another sense, you can forgive someone by simply letting go of the anger and the debt that you feel you're owed. It's as if someone owes you money and they didn't pay you back for a long time, and there's no good reason that they didn't pay you back, but it's going to simplify your life if you just let it go. So you stop asking for the money and wipe the slate clean. The second version of forgiveness is practical and necessary for one's own mental health for the exact reason you explained (i.e. you'll waste your time and energy if you don't), but it's a lesser version of forgiveness. It's more like a legal or financial forgiveness. It has nothing to do with heart and soul. This distinction is important because in the second version of forgiveness, even though you've forgiven them, you should probably approach any further interactions with that person very cautiously, or perhaps avoid them altogether.
Thank you Theo for sharing your experience with forgiving your Mother. I really like your example of how Forgiveness shows strength, not weakness. That a little bit of trauma can be a lifetime of misery and anger. I too found Jesse Lee Peterson, but after my mother had died. So, was not able to Forgive her face-to-face. Getting to know myself and realizing that I am, but not so much anymore, like my mother. Forgiving my mother has taken the resentment I had for my Father away.
I heard you on Jesse's show this morning (8/24/2020). Glad I checked out your channel. Looking forward to watching more of your videos. Thank you.
You're welcome Jimmy and thank you for your input! Glad to hear you've returned to your father 👊
Biblically this could be explained for generational curses. Another way to put it, the giants your parents didn't face you will have to confront. Also forgiveness is key to keeping your heart pure. Making peace that our parents did the best they could with what they had helps me. Unforgiveness is drinking poison and expecting it to harm the other person. Glad you've made peace. I'm enjoying your videos. Found you from Cole. I'm inspired by your journey. Think I need to just do some intermittent fasting, then keep widening the window, then jump into the snake diet. Your video on pizza totally convicted me. I'm grateful for that. :) God bless you and your continued health and healing journey.
Thank you so much for that!
Thank you! That really made me think about my mom. She passed away 7 years ago, and in my memory she was only good. I forgave my dad for the things he tought me wrong or did get to teach me. But with my mom, I never stopped to think what she maybe has tought me wrong, which I carry still with me because of my love to her. I have to see what might be there, but maybe there is some more forgiving due, that I haven't noticed.
You're on point. I'm 32 and still (re)learning the law of forgiveness. Once we let go completely, life becomes easier and the universe opens up to us. Keep making these videos, please! You're helping a lot of people.
Var välsignad, bror, och får ljuset välsigna dig.
Word! Thank you so much for that! God bless you too
how can you completely let go?
Hey dude, TH-cam algorithm sent me this today. This is my fav video I've seen of yours, great info.
Hey, glad you like this old one. Been thinking about making a new similar one
Its like listening to my own story! Forgiveness is a tough one, but im working on it. Thannks for this video 🎉
@@oljaaaaaaa you're welcome! After forgiveness comes fitness 😄: th-cam.com/video/Ru0RItH8H5A/w-d-xo.html
@UncommonSense fitness i can do..forgiveness is a little harder 😅
Great on you bro! Came here after you called in on Jesse Lee Peterson’s show. I have forgiven my mom over and over on my own, but it has not lifted the anger and resentment. I think that it’s important to go in person and forgive to see the spiritual stronghold break. I’m sure if I go in person, she will not understand and be emotional but it has to be done.
Hello and welcome! Yes when the option is there one should do it face to face. It doesn't matter if she understands or not, this is about *you* forgiving *her*. Good luck man 👍
Uncommon Sense Thanks you brother. I agree with you. It’s time to be free of this.
Happened to come across you on Coles new video comments, glad you made a channel because I had deleted my Instagram while I was following you there.
Good to see my whoring for subs on Cole's videos is working 🤣 welcome to the channel!
You are incredibly wise and articulate. Thank you for sharing your experiences! I’m so glad I discovered your channel. 😊
Thank you so much for those words, appreciate it a ton 🤗
Amazin my story is very similar I feel yah me and my dad were close as kids then big momma, projected her insecurities unto me, dat went beta couldn’t protect me from her
It's always big momma huh 🤣
Yes lol 😂 she was ticked when I forgave her it was AMAZINNNN
@@yungsteazythat’s ammmazing
Thank you so much! 🙏
Such wise words man, truly an underrated channel. Keep up the good work brother.
Just the video I needed to watch.
Väldigt känslosamt och mäktigt, starkt av dig att konfrontera och gå vidare! Bra för dig 🙌
I'm 45 and have no kids but have raised a stepdaughter and I have been saying the same thing lately there has to be a better way of getting thru to kids than yelling at them
Its awesome what your doing..
Thanks man!
saw you on JLP and came to check out your channel...what i see so far very nice..im training for ages with no serious gains...will definetly check your content more...i saw two or three videos and I wonder one thing....Are you the only person in Sweden ??? :-) :-)
Cool I appreciate that! Haha yeah people keep saying that, I am good at not running into people huh 😄 welcome to the channel man!
No. I don't need to forgive them, and that is okay. I don't have to forgive to move on, and me being unforgiving is okay.
You do whatever you want but holding on to resentment will make you unable to ever achieve inner peace. Forgiving someone is not the same as saying what they did to you was okay. Forgiveness is acknowleding someone wronged you but letting go of hate and resentment. It is not easy and it does not happen in an instant but this is the way to inner peace. Good luck and have a good weekend
@@UncommonSense I'm not going to hold on to hate because its not good for me, I'm simply not going to use forgiveness as a way of moving on
@@christmastree6817 I think it's a question of semantics at this point but you do whatever you feel like
Good video bro, what a common pattern these days of the controlling mother and the father that is weak and does not protect his son. Very interesting to me, I want to understand more about the psychology of this family dynamic, And How did it come to happen this way?
Just heard you on Jesse. Look forward to watching this episode.
Cheers! Hope you enjoy it!
Great video👍
Thanks man 🤜💥🤛
i have a hard time forgiving my father. My mom died when i was a kid and our father was abusive
Forgiveness is about understanding why the person acted the way they did, not saying that it was okay but accepting it as a thing of the past you went through that shaped you and let go of the hate, anger and resentment. It's a gradual process my friend
@@UncommonSense I will because i noticed my anger and depression seems to stem from my past. I get angry when i think of things our father did. I will pray God delivers me i will continue to forgive
I think that "forgiveness" is too broad of a word. In one sense, you can forgive someone because you feel that they have made amends somehow (e.g. they apologized, or did something to show their remorse, or demonstrated that they understood the wrongness of their actions). And after this forgiveness, you can treat them as if they did nothing to you, or at lease give them another chance.
In another sense, you can forgive someone by simply letting go of the anger and the debt that you feel you're owed. It's as if someone owes you money and they didn't pay you back for a long time, and there's no good reason that they didn't pay you back, but it's going to simplify your life if you just let it go. So you stop asking for the money and wipe the slate clean.
The second version of forgiveness is practical and necessary for one's own mental health for the exact reason you explained (i.e. you'll waste your time and energy if you don't), but it's a lesser version of forgiveness. It's more like a legal or financial forgiveness. It has nothing to do with heart and soul. This distinction is important because in the second version of forgiveness, even though you've forgiven them, you should probably approach any further interactions with that person very cautiously, or perhaps avoid them altogether.
Jesse brought me to your channel
Väldigt bra video som bevisar att du förtjänar mycket fler följare än du har just nu 😄
Tack så mycket för de orden kompis 🤗 kan bara hålla med 😉😄 #stayhumble