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When someone don't love you nomore leave. Don't force a person to love you when they no longer have any love for you. Make yourself better and live your life to the fullest. Don't be wasting your time with someone who doesn't love you. Show him that you can do better without him. He know that you are willing to take him back he will keep doing it until he get old and you will have to take care of him cause no one else will do it. Don't be stupid and put yourself in the dark hole. This world still have many more stiff to do.
Stop chasing after someone who don’t love you:( these ladies don’t know how to love themselves.
Woman like this is very annoying too. If he doesn't love you anymore why continue to stay and complain. Love change. Move on. You think you're strong but you are stupid. If he doesn't love you get out. You're more annoying by forcing yourself on him.
Yog kawg!
Exactly no one to blame but herself for staying
Yeap. No sympathy from me.
Some OG ladies are scared to have a divorced name, so they rather stay and be miserable 🤦🏻♀️
@@saLLy0608 yes and they can’t live without a man ! Idk why when there plenty of dildos out here and all sizes and colors too. 😂
This is the reason why our hmong husband does not respect us women. They treated us this way because we allowed it. Take care of yourself, love yourself first and know your worth. We won't die being alone but we will be stress-free and much happier.
It's not just hmong husband but the evil in mankind repent or end in hell.
Agree! Your man or husband treat you how you allow him to periodt!
Ruam tshaj qhov ruam! Vwm tshaj qhov vwm! Muab nws lawb kiag, yus nyob yus ib leeg kaj siab lug. Tsis muaj tus los tsim yus. Zoo li ko ces yeej meej nyob rau koj tus txiv tsim koj. Mag tsis tau txaus.
Five minutes into the story and I’m done listening.
Sister Txhob dag koj tus kheej tias koj nyob vim koj tej me nyuam xwb. Koj tej me nyuam yuav kaj siab tshaj niaj hnub no yog koj hlub koj tus kheej es txhob cia tus txiv neej uas twb tsis hlub koj lawm tsim koj lub siab. Txhob tsim koj tus kheej siab ntsws tsam mob stroke ces haj yam tsis muaj tus hlub koj mog.
Hai tau mob siab kawg zoo heev os
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This lady is too desperate for the husband's love even though she knows that he doesn't love her. Poor lady, can't feel sorry for her because she's doing this to herself! And why is she still talking to him about his kid with the other lady?
She is the prime example of groomed, doormat. She's not ignorant. She's just plain stupid stubborn. She love being mistreated and abused. She should kicked him out and divorce his sorry ass.
@@myprecious6751 so true
Caum kj lawm o pab kv rov qab thiab o
Dear lady, you are causing yourself your own pain. tsis tau mob txaus koj thiaj li tseem nyob. Kavtsij nyob uv mas....
mob siab nrog koj
Nrog koj tu Siab os tus sister. This is why cov txiv neej hmoob saib tsis taus peb cov poj niam vim siab muag dhau lawm
yes she do the same as me too
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Pab koj tu siab kawg o koj niam aw.. lub ntuj muab pob zeb puab txiv neej lub siab los cas tsis paub hlub yus li o
Wow this lady is so dedicated to him and he doesn’t deserve her love at all.
If you’re not old enough yet, move on and forget him. A guy like him does not deserve a lady like yours love. You should find your own happiness without him in it.
Good luck to you os tus viv ncaws aws.
Txiv neej tag lawm es kav tsij uv os mog niam aw
Cov poj niam hmoob yeej muaj tus cooj pwm tsuam li no. Tos cov txiv neej hmoob thiaj li tsim cov poj niam hmoob tag npaum li no ntag.
Hlub koj tus pojniam nawb tus kwvtij. Tsam ib hnub twg koj xav txog lig. Ua siab ntev hlub nws kom ntau tshaj qhov nws hlub nws tus kheej. Yawm saub yuav muab pauj kev zoo rov rau koj
Oyo, desperate wife. You can’t make a person love you.
Leave him before he takes half of everything u work so hard for.
lub siab zoo yeej lub siab phem
Ib tug txiv tsev lwj Liam qias neeg li tus no ncaws tawm hauv lub neej mus zoo dua UV nws ntxiv tsis muaj dab tsi zoo lawm mog CIA nws ua dev thawj thiab thiaj yog txoj kev kaj siab mog
Kuv los zoo ib yam li koj e xob tus siab e yus siav thiaj ntev os
Niam laus aw..hlub koj tus kheej ma. Koj yuav rau txim rau koj tus kheej ntev npaum cas? Txiv neej siab phem npaum no tsis tsim nyog hlub os.
WOW, this father/husband is evil and has no moral. I feel bad for his wife and kids. A good father/husband will never hurt his wife and kids. After I listened to this story, I think the wife is part of the problems. If a man or woman doesn’t love you anymore, let him/her go and find someone new who will love you for who your are...Don’t just wait around and feel misery. 🤠
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Txhob nkim sij hawm mloog tej tug maum dev kaus no. Nws saib txiv neej tuag tas lawm.
Ua cas yuav ntshaw koj txoj kev hlub ua luaj.
Kuv mas tu siab nrog koj me niam laus
Hlub koj tus kheej hos mog
Peb cov poj tshua 2 tus puas leej nqa ntawv txiv laus thiab tab sis peb siab zoo xwb txhob tu siab mog
Sister, mloog mus mloog los zoo li koj tsis muaj siab ntsws txawj tu siab. Koj tus txiv zoo npaum cas es koj ho yuav tseg tsis taus nws li. No wonder your husband does not love and respect you, you don’t even love yourself. You allow him to treat you badly.
Don’t force him to stay and love you when he no longer love you. Know your worth. There are other men out there who deserves your love. You don’t have to remarry. You can be happy being single instead of torturing yourself over this man who isn’t worth it.
Ntiaj teb no txiv neej tas lawm los cas koj yuav tsim txom koj tus kheej rau tus txiv neej twb tsis tsim nyog tau txais koj txoj kev hlub.
Plenty of fishes in the ocean for her to catch but she refused to let go of the “diseased” rainbow fish she caught bc she’s scared she won’t be able to find another rainbow fish like this one.
Ruam li pog no ces ntiaj teb no txiv zoo nraug siab phem tsuas muaj nws ib leeg xb tsam pog ho ntshaw2 txiv ces ho tsi muaj txiv yv nws lm kuj txhb tias mob2 siab no mas kuv yog tus txiv mas coj kiag ib tug lo ua rau saib kiag xb
If I were her - would never get jealous of that evil man at all. I rather divorce him and enjoy life while loving | taking care of myself without being a slave to man. I can go travel all over the world till my last breath. Evil man like him isn’t worth my tears, time and energy at all. He can go on having many children with his second wife till he become rotten. That is.
Koj yuav tsum tso nws mus koj uv tiag koj yuav tuag.koj tuag koj cov menyuam txom nyem thaum nws tsis hlub koj lawm txhob tsim koj lub siab nws tsim nyog koj tuag rau
Guess he’s the last man on this planet
That's a toxic relationship right there. Once the cheating starts, that's the time to let it go. It's not worth your life and especially when you sit in jail for taking someone else's life because of jealousy. You both are bad examples for your children, it's time to stop making excuses and let this toxic relationship go. Lady, you don't need a man to survive, stop wasting time on a dead end street. You are missing out by not letting this toxic relationship go. You say you love him, let him go since he no longer wants to be with you. Let him suffer because oftentimes the grass isn't greener on the other side.
อยากคน!
Very well said!
Wow you are a strong woman with a very good heart. I need me a woman like you lol. I feel so bad for your son. I would hate my father for life if he was to do that to me. That’s so sad. How can a man do that to his son. Your husband is evil
Uv tiag kom tuag
I disagree with y'all. Women, you do you. Don't matter what anyone says. If that is what makes you happy stay with him...but do not complain. For his part, he deserves it. This is what men do to women. You keep him tied to you. If no one support you, I WILL SUPPORT YOU! He was a coward when he married you, he saw you, thought you pretty so he agreed to marry you, it was easier to marry you than go out and look for a girlfriend all on his own, and he is a coward now, cuz he can't divorce you, so you do you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
Tus poj no yog ib tug maum dev tsis muaj siab ntsws nws thiaj tsis tiv thaiv nws cov menyuam. Yog muaj siab ntsws ces yeej muab niaj ntsej muag tuag coj mus faus nyoos lawm.
Wow so frustrating with these kinds of women.
Oyo cov niag poj niam coj niag xim xoo zoo li mas dhuav dhuav neeg li kuv yog tus txiv los kuv haj yam khiav Deb
Niamtais aw... koj siab dev lo siab neeg. Cas koj tsis paub tu siab ncaim ntawm koj niag txiv dev mus nas. Muab nws nrauj es yus nrog yus cov me nyob xwb. Cia nws ciaj dev mas.
Tsis txob us li koj os. Nws Tsis xav hlub Tus ces cia yus mus ntxawm mus Tom ntej Tsis yuav txiv los tshuav Tsis mag tsim los ntawv nws.
Yug yeem yug lawm ces uv twb ywm. Nyob twb ywm es uv kev mob siab kom mob stroke.
Thov qhuas koj tus niam tsev aw!!! Koj thiaj yog ib tug niam tsev zoo tiag 2 li nawb nyob lub ntiaj teb no Tseem tshuav cov niam tsev zoo 2 li koj nyob lub ntuj no Tseem yuav kaj nrig thiab peb cov txiv neej tseem xav ua neeg nyob thiab
OMG!!!! Ler this man go already!!!
Coj li ko tseem qhia koj lub siab rau koj tus txiv thiab ces cia koj tus txiv kav tsij loos tiag loos tiag ntxiv rau xwb. Ua neeg yuav tsum muaj ciaj ciam thaiv yus tus kheej thiab luag thiaj saib taus thiab saib yus muaj nqe
Hais yog kawg li thaum yus chim tuaj ces kawg yus yuav ua neeg phem xwb tiag me Viv ncaus Zoo as
Peb cov me nkauj fa mas thiaj txawj tsim lwm tus poj niam tiag tiag li os yom, peb cov me niam nkauj fa mas nws muab nws tus txiv nrauj lawm es ua cas tsis mus tham cov tsis muaj poj niam ho tseem mus txeeb luag niag txiv thiab xiam tshaj plaws.
ow cag yuav raug kiag kuv li os. tsi tu siab qhov lawv tso yug tab sis tu siab qhov yus tso tsi tau lawv xwb
Ca koj ho tsis hlub koj tu kheej ma hlub luag tab sis ca muab yus tu kheej rau txim koj hai tia koj hlub nw no tab sis nw twb tsi hlub koj es koj hlub nw muaj nuj nqis dab tsis koj txawm tag nqis rau nw lawm lo koj yeej muaj nqis rau lwm tu lo sav
Sister I'll pray for you and your children. May God open your eye's before it is too late. You can survive without a man in your life. You can live peacefully, happily, without stress in your life. Love yourself and respect yourself and centered your love on your children. Do not used your children to keep you binding to your husband. A man will love you as long as you attract him. To him the grass is always greener on the other side. Hmong man only care about their needs and wants. When you are of no used to them and they've used you up and broken you completely down they'll leave you and abandoned you. They'll make life a living hell for you. They're abusive and narcissists and controlling and manipulative.
You are the fool. You are the one who's turning a blind eye and playing ignorant to all your husband's doing. You're willingness to keep living in misery to appeased your husband who doesn't love you nor want you. He's mentally, emotionally, physically, verbally abusive to you. HOW MUCH OF A DOORMAT ARE YOU GOING TO CONTINUED.
WTF IS WRONG WITH YOUR BRAIN? ARE YOU GOING TO KEEP LETTING HIM TO CONTINUED MISTREATING YOU LIKE SHIT? YOU ARE WILLING TO DIE CHASING AND TAKING THE ABUSED? SMFH
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Well said!!! I couldn't have said it any better!
Unfortunately, alot of our hmong women has this mindset. Makes me angry as well. No man or woman is worth losing your peace, sanity and dignity. I'd rather be alone than to deal with these kind of men. If you're in a toxic abusive relationship, leave!!! The sooner the better.
@@moody_mochi_cat exactly. They're so afraid to have the attached of being called a "DIVORCEE " that they're willing to stand and continue to be a doormat to these so called husband. It is the 21st century and you all live in the United States of America. Here you have equal rights as a man. You can survive and live without a man. You can support yourself and your children without a man. You can stand on your own two feet. If you need help there are programs out there to help you.
When my father passed away Jan 2000, my mother stood her ground and did not remarried nor did she allowed the relatives force her into being a 2nd wife to my uncle. She took cared of all of us. All 22 siblings and herself. Me being the oldest, it wasn't anything new for I was of age and have been taking cared of my siblings my whole life along with my parents. Between my mother and myself we raised all my brothers and sisters up. There are good and bad in every family. Children will be children. All my brother's are married and living good lives. Two sisters married to Mexican, one sister married to a Latino, one sister is in prison because she cannot stay away from drugs. Two sister's I haven't seen nor spoken to since our mother passed away 8 years ago. I myself have been divorced for over 35 years and I'm doing absolutely just Great. I come and go as I pleased, I eat whatever I want, I can sleep as late or do what pleases me. I travel all over the world. I'm at peace with myself, I absolutely love my life. I enjoy my peace of mind. I'm stress free. I do not have someone dictating my every move or what I said or can or cannot do. My son and daughter are grown and have their own families. They're doing good in their lives. I built myself. No man helped me nor did a man supported me. Everything I have I earned it on my own. I'm 52 years old but I looked and feel like I'm 21 years old. I can even passed for 19 years old. I pick and choose if I want to date. I'm not looking to raised someone else's children. I'm damn sure not anyone's sugar momma! I'm not any man's mother either.
Ohoooo cas es, kuv yuav laj laj mloog cov niag Neej neeg pojniam Hmoob RUAM RUAM li os....
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Tu niam tsev ..koj ma tsis muaj siab tiag tiag ..zoo ib yam tu aub lawv ua phem lo nws nyob nws...koj g muaj lwb ..koj tu txiv thiaj muaj khoov xwb ...pog nraug twb g kam tham
Tus me niam tsev koj cov lus puas muaj tseem yog muaj tseem lis koj Hais cas ho tsi yog los nrib cov txiv siab zoo muaj cov txiv tsev siab los yeej raug rim txom lis koj thiab es txob tusiab mog.koj tus txiv ntawm kos yuav phov siav kom txug hlub nws txoj sia tus mam tag xwb ma.
Lub neej no txiv neej ua hluas nraug mas ntxub tshaj plaws...
Koj saib dev
Zaj neej neeg zoo li no g tas coj los tham li o mloog tau ceeb txob heev li ruam heev me niam laus
phov2 thaum kawg tsov log thov txim. tsov log ntshiav chaw tuag tsw txog twg niag laug npaum kom. Cov niag poj laib yees loj li loj koj niag thaub roob tsw pov lawv yeeg
On behalf of tus txiv dev dig muag, ua tsaug rau tus niam tsev siab zoo. Coob tus txiv neej los yog txiv tsev tsis tau hnov lo lus “kuv hlub koj hos me koj txiv ua hais tawm ntawm tus niam tsev” li koj os me koj niam. Me koj niam.. yeej meem ua siab ntev mog. Vim ua siab ntev muaj peev xwm haub tau nom tswv/los yog vaj ntxwv. Lo lus mos lus muag muaj peev xwm lov tau pob txha. Me koj niam koj twb yeej thiab tau txhua yam tag lawm hos mog.. koj tsuas tos nws tsa chij dawb lawm xwb os me koj niam tus siab zoo. Note: he is teaching you not just to overcome of your suffer but to enjoy every moment along the way of your progressive.
Ruam tiag2 li os kj tus txiv twb tsis hlub kj lawm es pheej tos nws ua dab tsi na. Move on!!!
Koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub koj nws twv muaj tus tshiab nyob rau huav nws lub neej lawm es koj pheej tseem nyob ua dabtsi. Peb cov txiv neej txog thawm peb ua hluas tsis zais lawm ces peb yeej tsis ntshai lub neej puas li lawm.
I’m listened couple minutes at the beginning and the end of the story.
It’s women like her that are allowing these men to do what to do. If we women all stand up for ourselves and stand our ground for no tolerance than eventually men will change themselves bc they know we will leave once this happens. In the end, I hope she gets the love she deserves bc everyone woman deserve to be treated with love and respect.
The lies that you believe about not being able to find someone who will really love you, not worth being loved, not beautiful just bc u have had children, etc smh. You’re better off alone than with a deadbeat like that.
Seriously?! She think that low of herself like she can't do any better but to let her husband cheat on her. This lady is ridiculous..... she hang on to her cheating man in desperation that just seeing him makes her happy even if he does not love her and is with someone smh
Oh zoo li niam ntsuab teeb hais dab neeg dhau lawm es vwm lawm. Hais tom ntej tom qab tsis make sense sometime
Sister aw twb tsi yog koj tsi hlub koj tus kheej xwb koj twb tsi nco qab hlub koj cov me nyuam lawm thiab ua ib siab hlub koj tus kheej thiab koj cov me nyuam os mog tso nws mus zoo tshaj lawm os
So proud of you, kuv yeej pomzoo li koj hais thiab tsis pub nws yuav niam yau kiag
koj lub suab zookawg li niam laus
Ua cas tseem yuav thov kom nws hlub koj na. Kuv twb hais tias koj hlub nws no ne. Koj daim ntawv mas muaj nws tab sis nws daim teb tsis muaj. Nws thiaj hlub koj tab sis vim koj hlub ntau dhaus heev lawm xwb ces cia koj ua tus hlub nws es tsis txhob thov22 koj nws nws koj os.
may koj puas tau hais kuv txoj dab neeg tu siab txhog kev sib hlub os .koj qhia kuv paub os .kuv yog phauj may vaj nawb.
Tus nyiam ntsev no nws hlub nws tus ntxiv hneev es nws thiaj li Nyob tos nws tus ntxiv xwb. She truly loves him, unfortunately it’s not being reciprocated. Sad.
I'll pray for you and for your children. May have strength and let this man go. You don't need to be anyone's doormat. You are allowing yourself to be his doormat. That's why he keeps doing what he's doing to you and you're hurting so much.
Zsj no yog muaj litus niam hais tiag no mas yog txiv siab phem tsam yog nyob tsis qhia neeg tuag tsis qhia dab es koj ua niam zoo tsis txaus koj tus txiv thiaj yuav niam yau peb txivneej txog txij yuav niam yau yeej yoog tsis tag tus txiv lubsiab tab sis kuv thaum me2 txog yuav pj nm muab cog cia nruab siab txawm laus dab2 tuag yej tsis hloov siab tas lub neeg thiaj tsis thab plaub rau yus tiam neeg
I kept saying exactly what this woman said about saub (fortune tellers). They're fortune tellers how come they're so poor. If they know the future so well like they claimed, how come their lives are so pathethic? Hmong's saub (fortune tellers) are just like other fortune tellers, scamming people for money.
Smh. This lady does not know self worth, self love. Nws tsis muaj peevxwm. Lady, you can pretend to love him all u want, but he treats u bad. Cas koj Tsis Txawj hlub koj tus kheej? Please respect yourself.
Lub neej ko yog ib lub neej mob hlwb heev li os sister aw Cas koj thiab kuv wb lub neej zoo tsis sib txawv li os
This story is a headache. This is why this type of man get away with cheating. She needs to love herself and let him go. Why stay with a man who don't love you and leave you to go be with another woman. Pab tsis tau this type of woman. Have some self respect for yourself and save yourself. Just because u have kids with him is not an excuse to stay. Anyone can start over again.
Tus niam tsev koj yeej coj zoo kawg lawm raws li koj hais. Koj tus txiv tsi zoo 6 koj xwb os
Cov niag ntsej muag txiv Neej hmoob Siab phem siab dub quav Dev tshob Cuab Nov mas qias neeg tshaj plaws li...thaum nws lub lub siab phem lawm mas ntxim Ntxub tshaj plaws li
Ruam tshaj ruam
No wonder men look down, step all over, and disrespect us women because women like you, sister. Divorce him and let him go!! He does not and no longer love you and your children!!!
I feel bad for his son ruined his wedding day. What kind of father that do that to their kid?
Pojruam, tham kev ruam xwb es tham tau qab hau dabtsi. Ruam tiag. Yus thov npaum cas los tus txiv twb tsis hlub yus lawm. Koj xav tias cia May Vang thov rau koj seb paus pab no los?
Poj ruam ces yog tus no
I know it's harder to do than said but this woman needs to know the limits of tolerating a person who hurts you multiple times. And I agree with her about accepting another child from another woman. Yes if i married him and knowing that he already have kids from the prev marriage then yes ill love them as much as mine but knowing that he's my husband but turn around and stabbed me in the heart then have another child with another woman, nope.. sorry but i cant accept that child cause everytime i look at that child face i see the pain that his mother and father caused me... Aside from that, question to all them homewrecker, women and men... how thick can your face gets, knowing that person already has a wife or a husband... yes it takes 2 to tangled but why lower yourself to that person level. Even if their marriage was already falling apart you have no rights to get in between so what makes you think you're better then their wife or husband 🤔
Cas ho tsis hais li ntawd rau koj niag txiv liam ntawd mloog es ho pheej coj tuaj piav rau ntiaj teb mloog mas. Tim koj ua tsis tau niam es nws thiaj mus nrhiav tus tshiab ne.
You don’t know your worth lady! The minute he seek someone else, the minute he no longer love you! Let him go if you’re unhappy with his cheating ways, why waste your life away with this loser husband of yours?! Obviously, you’re still not over him that’s why you can’t let go of him. I’d be long gone if I were you.
When u love someone so much n just seeing makes u happy, it's easier said than done.. I've been in her position n knows how hard it is. I cut my ties by changing my numbers n he changed his numbers too. Thank god for giving me my current husband.
@@nkaujhmoobvwj It is not worth it fighting for a man who no longer love you, simple as that it’s common knowledge common sense. A man who truly love his wife & kids will not be like this husband of her’s.
@@YajMorey81 agree! We can’t force someone to love us once they no longer do and don’t hope for them to change back to love you.
This old lady is annoying and crying victim when she did this to herself . She need to wake up and don’t waste her time on her 3 inches . Haha
@@bosslady8498 She has no heart. No lungs. No liver. No brain. She has no feelings.
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When you love someone more than they love you, they will not respect nor love you like you love them. They will walk all over you because you allowed that. Ib yam li peb Hmoob los lus hais os xum tuag hmos no los cia tagkis mam tuag. Ntshe yuav xum tuag tagkis mog. I doubt he will ever love you the same way again. It’s time for you to move on and love yourself first and let yourself be your #1 ☝️.
Cov neej neeg ruam ruam li no tsis xav nloog
Why are you letting a person hurt you like this. You’re worth more than this. Please don’t let a person that doesn’t even love you hurt you this much, because you deserve more. If he doesn’t love you than you need to love yourself.
Sister aw koj thiab kuv wb ces rau ib txhais khau xwb o tiam no yuav nkim tas ib sim neej lawm o txhob xaav tias yuav muaj txiv lawm
Sister, go to church ,
God truly love you . God don’t believe in cheating .
are you serious???...the bible promotes polygamy, and domination over females...if u dont understand go reas the bible, hence why mormons can marry multiple wives....
Vuag!! Koj tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws li los? Nws twb tsis hlub koj los ntev lawm, ua cas koj pheej tseem yuav hais tias koj los pem ntuj los koj yeej nqa daim ntawv los hlub nws es tseem yuav niaj hnub tos seb nws puas yuav rov hlub koj dua. Thov kom peb cov viv ncaus Hmoob tsis txhob ruam ruam li no. Please love yourself and know that IT’S OK to live without a husband.
I am so sorry to hear u can’t seem to let ur txiv dev go. Some pple have been there in ur shoes. It is so hard to let a person go when ur heart is so stubborn to see the ugliest thing ur partner did to hurt you and when he/she doesn’t love u anymore. The hardest part is being emotionally abuse by him/her. I hope someday u find the way to stop loving him and let him go on ur own term. That day will be the day u see ur self worth. Good luck to you sister.
Cannot be sorry for someone who is an idiot who refuses to leave or divorce his sorry ass
My precious- its not easy. If u r not in her shoes don’t assume its easy.
@@thedark-_-lord8285 believe me I've seen enough of these Hmong relationships/marriages...I was a fool once but I'm not an idiot to stayed with my abuser. Though i feel her pain and her sentiment and reasoning behind it. However I'm glad that she didn't allowed him to married the girlfriend nor bring her into her home. I do not blame her for not caring nor wanting to help him raised the kid either. That is his bastard with his ex girlfriend. He didn't help her with all of their children's nor did he so much as treated his children like he's done for this child. It's his fukn problem therefore he needs to take care of his own problem. If she's smart she'll kicked them both out. It's never too late to move forward to better pastures.
My daughter's dad is just like this sob. Only difference is he's not Hmong. But doesn't make him less if an asshole either nor any less if an abuser man. I was fortunate that I never married him. He was such a charming man that blinded me to all his nasty habits and evilness. He was a liar, a cheater and abusive in all ways. His first time laying his hands on me almost cost him his life. However it did cost him his manhood. He was cheating and his b*tch called paged him at 2am. I turned off his pager. Nxt day he came home and asked me if his pager went off or did I touch his pager? I told him tht it kept going off so I turned it off. I guessed she told him tht I had called her and cussed her out and called her all kinds of names and threatened her. Now keep in mind I turned it off I didn't call anyone. I didn't evn get a chance to respond whn he slapped me and busted my lips. But thn my survival skills n military kicked in and I punched and kicked him automatically in self defense and before I evn realized I had shot him. Yes I shot hit balls off. I warned him but he was advancing on me. That was the end of our relationship and engagement. I kicked him out while he was still in the hospital. Got a restraining order against him, still do to this day. We hv a daughter together. It was a living hell wth him. He was mentally, emotionally, physically, verbally, spiritually abusive. He was cheating the whole time I was pregnant evn before tht. Our whole 5 year relationship was based on lies and cheating. While I was in the hospital giving birth he was busy screwing his girlfriend. He nvr once took cared or help me with our daughter in any capacity. I raised my daughter by myself. No he didn't contribute in and form or shapes. I've married a Hmong man thru arranged marriage when I was only 15 yrs old. He was 25 years old. He was controlling, manipulative and very verbally abusive. I wouldn't allowed him to touch me. I couldn't stand him. I hated his whole fukn family. Especially his mother and father. His dad told him to rape me and his mother hated me and etc. I ran away and threatened to turned his ass to the police if he try forcing me. His mother would yelled at me and cussed me out and hit me but I'm not one to not hit bck. So when she hit me I would hit her back. Lol man whn I think about it now it cracks me up.
@@thedark-_-lord8285 it easier said than done , I agree but don’t stay and cry victim when he mistreated you and you know damn well he don’t love you anymore . 😂 Js
Once your man cheats, time to let him go!!!! He is no longer love you and your children in his life that is why he cheats!!! Let him GO!!!!!