God gave you everything, and God also can take away every thing too, so there always temptation in this world 🌎🌍 so be careful just keep believing in Jesus Christ is the best ok.
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab kawg li os, tus txiv tsev aw peb ua neeg ces yog muaj nyiaj dhau lawm ces lub neej yuav tawg xwb xwb li nawb, hos muaj phooj ywg coob dhau lawm los tsis zoo thiab vim ib tug Hlub koj los yeej muaj ib tug siab phem xav txov koj ib yam. Lub neej tsis tshua muaj muaj hos tsis pluag pluag nyob nruab nrab xwb ob leeg thiaj li sib hlub nawb.
Amen, brother! God is smiling down on you! Please continue with your Faith & love God as nobody will truly love you, but our Heavenly Father! Pray for those blind relatives and hope that oneday they will see the Light.
Toxic people around you will always be 100% jealous of you whether you did the right thing or not. I'm glad you had your wife and her kids back as that's what you call a REAL man. May God continue to bless you both.
The right person will love you and be faithful to you no matter what. If she doubt you or is unfaithful then that already show that she doesn’t love you anymore. A cheater will cheat no matter what and a person who truly loves you will never cheat on you.
I totally agree with you. My husband worked 2 jobs and I never thought to cheat. Even if he was gone 6 days a week, he still spent one day with me and my kids. We still went on trips.
I look at life differently now that I’m older. Friends have their own place in my life. My kids/families and husband have their own place in my life and they’re my first priority and I hope that they feel the same way towards me. Friends, when you need help, they’re nowhere to be there for you but that doesn’t apply to all friends, there are good friends and bad friends. It’s best that she left you earlier, just imagine if she left you when you’re sick and in bed, then there’s no one to take care of you. Everything happened for a reason.
Yes my brother. I've seen that some hmong people are the most negative people in the world. Only wanting to destroy life and ruin lives of people out of jealousy. Family is the ones who will step on you when your down. Fake love you when your up. Hate you when your right and destroy you when you're not on their side. You've learned a hard lesson and I've been in your shoes before. The most important thing in your life now is your new wife, children and your belief. Choose your friends wisely and stop helping people. Go on living and love your new wife and children. Raise them up right and teach them to be smart. Take care of yourself so you can continue loving your new wife and children. Im glad you see the truth behind our culture, family, friends and betrayal. You don't owe anyone anything. Keep doing you. Good luck.
Whether you believe in God or not, nowadays you will only get as much as you give. You have to dedicate time and efforts to relatives for them to help you just like you give 10% of you income and all the time you committed to church.
Txheev leej txheev com txiv neej txhom poj nom txheev com txheev leej poj niam txhom txiv neej yog li no los mas kwv tij hmoob aw ! Yim ped hais tias nyob tab sis yim nrad hais tias mus no cais ua siab swb yim nrad lawd !
Hmong men's live their lives for outside and relatives and their parents or siblings but not their wife and children. Like the old saying goes. You don't know and don't appreciate what you have until it is gone. Then you realized to late and live with regrets and if's.
Brother we Hmong men need to pay attention to your wife and family. We man need to balance our life. Some time you have to spend time with your wife and kids alone. We Hmong men spend to much time outside of the family. Sometime my wife and I go some where our self alone.
Lawb dab yuav tsum tau lawb neej vim dab nyob hauv neeg, neeg muaj dab tswj thiaj ua phem. Qhov tiag ces koj cov kwvtij yog dab xyov txhiaj, tsis yog koj tug pojniam. Peb Hmoob muaj dab vim lawv teev dab.
Yog kawg lawm nawb. Kwv tij ces tsuas nav thwm yus thaum yus lub zog quaj qaws thiab thaum yus muaj nyiaj xwb os. Kwv tij ces ncauj puam suab khawv tes taw tuag zawv xwb. Yus tus niam tsev thiaj yog tus koom ib txoj sia nrog yus, noj qab noj tsuag nrog yus. Kwv tij ces luag tsuas nrog yus thaum yus tseem muaj qhov qab2 noj xwb.
Muaj tseeb kawg li koj hais mas tus kwv Yeej zoo li koj hais kawg os, koj hais yog lawm kuv yeej taug txoj Kev li koj thiab txhob tu siab tag tag thiab. Qhov tseeb yog li no yus yuav tau hlub yus thiab txhob mus . Hlub tus sab nrauv ntau dua nawb mog diav zoo no yog yus tsev neeg poj tub se yuav tsum cub Tau noj thiab hnab tshiab tso mog.
Agree tsuas yog cov neeg g muaj hlwb Es thiaj xav tias nyiaj thiaj yog txhua yam but sometimes love plus little money 💰 are better than alot of money 💰 and no love .pray the lord you found the creation of the universe and human God bless your life
Zoo kawg qhov neb mus ntseeg vajtswv lawm ua li koj ua yog lawm tabsi txhob tso vajtswv tseg nawb kwv tij tsis nyiam neb los cov ntseeg yog neb kwv tij thiab yog neb lub zog nawb
I’m glad u realize that your family comes first. My husband was the same way. he had his major surgery, everyone was scared he was going to call for money. No one visited him, no called to see if he was ok. Alwase put your family 1st. Relatives and friends will not be the 1st one to be by ur side.
Yog kawg, 3 tiam 21 no ces ua neej nrog nyiaj xwb yog thaum yus tsis muaj nyiaj lawm ces kwv tij yug 1 plab los yeej tsis hlub yus. Poj niam thiab txiv neej los nyob ntawm tus siab zoo ces yeej hlub yus
Sorry that happened to you. You sound like a really nice person. You have to understand that Hmong people come from poverty and when you have money, unfortunately some are very jealous like you owed them but at the same time everybody is after wealth and fortune. We all want to be educated, be tall and handsome tall and beautiful, have more than enough money, loved by everyone. I am just glad to be born and have a normal physical appearance, and in good health. Live your life, help others if you want to not because you want something back. Ignored the ney sayers. Life is too short to please others, live for you and your family. Live for love, don't die because of love. Best wishes brother.
This is a lesson to learn in life that money can't buy time, health and love. We lost track of time in peace when we become the benefit of others. People will only need you when you have money but on the long they don't care about you. We have to learn how to love ourselves and do when it's right for others.
These combo's may require the ability to dance and cater to the correct tunes. Otherwise you'll be a clown as an emperor, you'll lose the control of your fief. May you be wise in your decisions and blessed in your ordeal.
When it comes to borrowing money to friends and families you need to be smart. Contract up be cautious. People will take advantage of your kindness. There are more fake friends.
Hmoob txoj kev xav tau phem heev rau cov poj niam uas muaj ib lub neej dhau los tsis txhai tau tias nws yog neeg phem twb yog tsis sib haum xwb los tus txiv tsev neeg pheej ntxub tus niam tsev ntawd npaum li nws mus tseeb lawv tus txiv thiab yog vim li cas
Biggest lesson from this story. Hmong people are the biggest haters. I see it over and over in the Hmong community. It’s what you can do for them, never what they can do for you.
If you really think of it. Friendship comes with alcohol and alcohol will eventually lead to ulcer. Some of our people never really identify why and how it happened. Love yourself first before love others.
These are some of the reasons my husband and I don’t associate with relatives. We focus 99% on our marriage. We figured that relatives only need us when they need something. When they don’t need us, they don’t bother us. We know figured early in life they’re only using us. We don’t live up to others expectations but our own.
One thing I never understand about Hmong people is, wtf do you guys have against divorcee? They didn't steal your man, respect them because you may be the next divorcee. Stop hating on the divorce women.
I have a lot of respect for women and men that have enough courage to walk away from a bad relationship. I believe too many of us stay in worthless marriages simply because we are too fearful of what the Hmong community will say.
You are a good man. The situation sucks, but I'm glad that you were able to see from your ex's point of view, which made you a better husband to your new wife. That's the thing about life, though, right? You live, and you learn. It's amazing how people always want to be in your life when they need something from you (like the thousands of dollars you lent them)...until they don't need you anymore. However, when you need them...they are nowhere to be found. I hate leeches. Proud that you stood your ground and didn't fall for your relatives' words. You are a good man for staying by your wife's side and for doing your step-son's wedding. Not a lot of Hmong men would have the courage to love their step-sons/kids and even stand up to their relatives. Your wife is really lucky to have found you. Though there were some tough moments in this story, it makes me happy to know that there are Hmong men out there with a strong backbone. I wish you and your family the best, and God bless.
Tim koj xwb o tij laug poj niam tam hluas nraug ho g hlub thiab ho xw siab ho tug tsim poj niam ?? Es yog li txiv neej tham hluas nkauj poj niam puas khib thiab ho g xyu siab rau txiv neej no yog vim li cas tiag na cov txiv neej mhoob siab phem aw!!
Brother always know that no one is for you unless it is your wife, children, and parents. Everyone always have a say but no one will be there to support you financially, physically or emotionally. Hmong people will only acknowledge you when they need you. It’s so sad that our Hmong people are like this. My dad use to be involved in a lot of Hmong organizations an d family gathering but when my mom had a stroke everyone disappeared, gone like the wind. The only people at the hospital was us children and grandparents. Love yourself and no one else. Us Hmong people really need to change and support each other. Unconditional love please.
Brother your kindness blinded you to all else. Your so busy helping other's that they're helping themselves to your wife and your kindness. Your wife using and playing guilt at you. Her unfaithfulness is no excuse. Let her go. She'll never be clean again nor will she be loyal or faithful. Divorce her and find a new direction and move on. See all those people that are your friends and families, the minute you do not benefit them they turned their backs and gossip about you. Brother I hope you've learned your lesson. Take care of yourself an your home.
It's sad that Hmoob people/relatives always judging people.Those relatives are hypocrite and only want you when you are benefit them, let's do better. Best wishes to you and thank you for standing up for your wife.
The hate is real. Growing up, families didn’t like us either because we had a lot of siblings, and mostly girls at that. But now that we’re all grown and see those same family members, their tune has changed. They now say my mom is blessed to have a lot of kids and girls at that; jealous that my mom receives a lot of love and attention from her daughters.
Forget your relatives and family they're only caring about themselves. Stop helping them. Distance yourself and stop caring about all those that is isn't important.
Tus phooj ywg hais txog koj tus poj niam qub mas koj g tas ntseeg txog tias koj muab g tau kev hlub nws thiaj nrauj koj no yog nws dag lawm xwb. Hos hais txog kev ntseeg mas tus ua neeb mas haj yam ntev heev Pib neeb ua pib tseev npua g nqes neeb mas g tau mov noj take 3 hrs to wait
me nus aw? tus twg hlub2 yus ces hlub tus ntawv xwb zoo dua os mog tus twb muab yus tsuj2 lawm ces hlub tus ntawv xwb uas yus yuav tau nrog koj nyob thiaj yog koj tus xwb mog. .es leej twg yuav hais li cas los lawv yeej tsis paub yus li .
koj es koj cov phoojyawg tseem tuaj saib koj os kuv niag txiv es kwv tij thiab phooj yawg lawv yeej tsis tuaj saib nws li thaum nws ua tau khwv tau nyiaj mas kwv tij thiab phoojyawg mas lawv paub thiab hu nws tas li xwb
Koj txiav txim siab Yog lawm ! Thov Vajtswv nrog nraim Koj lub neej!
Wow...you do the right things...i praise you in your courage to come to find God, Jesus...
God gave you everything, and God also can take away every thing too, so there always temptation in this world 🌎🌍 so be careful just keep believing in Jesus Christ is the best ok.
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab kawg li os, tus txiv tsev aw peb ua neeg ces yog muaj nyiaj dhau lawm ces lub neej yuav tawg xwb xwb li nawb, hos muaj phooj ywg coob dhau lawm los tsis zoo thiab vim ib tug Hlub koj los yeej muaj ib tug siab phem xav txov koj ib yam. Lub neej tsis tshua muaj muaj hos tsis pluag pluag nyob nruab nrab xwb ob leeg thiaj li sib hlub nawb.
Hmong ces yeej zoo li nos..you did the right thing brother.
Amen, brother! God is smiling down on you! Please continue with your Faith & love God as nobody will truly love you, but our Heavenly Father! Pray for those blind relatives and hope that oneday they will see the Light.
No God baby. Only you and your self.
Quit bringing your god in the mix. Don’t want to here about this coward.
Kv nyiam mloog kj heev li os hais tau zoo heev li
Zoo Siab kawg Ua koj los ntseeg Vajtswv mog .
Peb ua neeg nyob, yuav tau saib tus neeg xav siv koj xwb… nrog koj tu siab… ntawm pojniam yog hnub twg luag txiav txim siab ua phem faib kev hlub rau sab nraud lawm ces txawm koj yuav Phua hlwb rau noj los nws yeej Tsis hlub koj nws thiab txiav txim siab ua phem. Qhov loj yog ntawm kwvtij kev sib hlub, xav kom sib hlub thiab muaj dejsiab…Txhob tu siab tas2 kav tsij rau siab ntso hlub yus pojniam ceevfaj tsam lawv rov ntxias koj rhuav neej…ces neb Tsis muaj neej ua…neeg yeej muaj qhov phem qhov zoo es ua siab koj, nyias muaj nyias ib qhov phem nrog nraim ntawd yus…
Koj txiav txim yog lawm tus me txiv tsev koj yeej hais yog kawg muaj poj niam me nyuam zoo tshaj
you did the right thing brother
hai zookawg li os
Agree
Toxic people around you will always be 100% jealous of you whether you did the right thing or not. I'm glad you had your wife and her kids back as that's what you call a REAL man. May God continue to bless you both.
Koj UA yog lawm nawb. Txhob k k cov tsis k koj
The right person will love you and be faithful to you no matter what. If she doubt you or is unfaithful then that already show that she doesn’t love you anymore. A cheater will cheat no matter what and a person who truly loves you will never cheat on you.
I totally agree with you. My husband worked 2 jobs and I never thought to cheat. Even if he was gone 6 days a week, he still spent one day with me and my kids. We still went on trips.
Tus txiv neej muaj siab ntsw li koj zoo lawm.
Tsev hmoob twg thiab tsev kwv tij twg es tseem pheej hu tus niam nrauj lawm tuaj tas li xwb ces yog cov neeg ruam tshaj ruam lawm
Hais txog koj cov kwv tij tsis paub kev cais dab qhuas zoo thiaj ua rau nej sib tawg koj thiaj mus ntseeg vaj tswv lawm
Ua neeg nyob ces lawv tsuas nav koj thaum koj lub hnab tshos su pauv xwb os.
Thaum koj muaj nyiaj ces lawv vam vam koj. Thaum koj txom nyem, lawv ntshai ntshai koj vim lawv ntshai tsam koj mus vam lawv.
Koj tus niam ntxawm hais yog lus kawg lawm.
I look at life differently now that I’m older. Friends have their own place in my life. My kids/families and husband have their own place in my life and they’re my first priority and I hope that they feel the same way towards me. Friends, when you need help, they’re nowhere to be there for you but that doesn’t apply to all friends, there are good friends and bad friends. It’s best that she left you earlier, just imagine if she left you when you’re sick and in bed, then there’s no one to take care of you. Everything happened for a reason.
Yes my brother. I've seen that some hmong people are the most negative people in the world. Only wanting to destroy life and ruin lives of people out of jealousy. Family is the ones who will step on you when your down. Fake love you when your up. Hate you when your right and destroy you when you're not on their side. You've learned a hard lesson and I've been in your shoes before. The most important thing in your life now is your new wife, children and your belief. Choose your friends wisely and stop helping people. Go on living and love your new wife and children. Raise them up right and teach them to be smart. Take care of yourself so you can continue loving your new wife and children. Im glad you see the truth behind our culture, family, friends and betrayal. You don't owe anyone anything. Keep doing you. Good luck.
Amen!
Agree!!!
You’re a wise man
Whether you believe in God or not, nowadays you will only get as much as you give. You have to dedicate time and efforts to relatives for them to help you just like you give 10% of you income and all the time you committed to church.
Txheev leej txheev com txiv neej txhom poj nom txheev com txheev leej poj niam txhom txiv neej yog li no los mas kwv tij hmoob aw ! Yim ped hais tias nyob tab sis yim nrad hais tias mus no cais ua siab swb yim nrad lawd !
Im happy you chose your own Happiness. Do not let others control your life nor tell you otherwise, for they do not live in your shoes.
Hmong men's live their lives for outside and relatives and their parents or siblings but not their wife and children. Like the old saying goes. You don't know and don't appreciate what you have until it is gone. Then you realized to late and live with regrets and if's.
Such a sad life.
Dab ces yog yus tus kheej xwb. Yog yus tsis yog dab ces yeej tsis muaj dab. We need more men like you
Txiv neej hmoob hlub niam hlub Txiv hlub nkauj hlub muam hlub kwv hlub tij tab sis tsheg nws tus poj niam thiab me nyuam tsis nco lub. Lawv aw yuav tsis nyog lawm os.
Love your story. All Hmong men needs to know that at the end of the day you wife and kids are the only ones that will take care of you.
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That is so nice of you to mention ALL.
Peb ua neej ces hluab tus hlub yus xwb os mog txhob ntseeg2 lwm tus hais thaum yus txom nyem kwv tij zoo2 tab sis lawm Tsi pub tsev yus nyob li os
Dag dhau lawm nawb tus yawg no na. Cov hmong dab Vaj tswv mas yog cov cem cov tsis ntseeg dab vaj Tswv tsaj li nplaws os.
No one’s better than your partner. Spend time with your partner more than any other people.
Only God will shelter you from evil. God bless you.
Brother we Hmong men need to pay attention to your wife and family. We man need to balance our life. Some time you have to spend time with your wife and kids alone. We Hmong men spend to much time outside of the family. Sometime my wife and I go some where our self alone.
Cov kwv tij zoo li koj cov ko ces tu tu siab nro, khiav mus ntseeg peb tus Vajtswv uas muaj siab dawb siab zoo Amen, tus kwv koj txoj kev mob txoj kev poj niam ua siab phem twb yog Vajtswv nriav koj ntag thiab Vajtswv twb xub xaiv koj los ntev lawm ua Vajtswv tsaug Amen.
Lawb dab yuav tsum tau lawb neej vim dab nyob hauv neeg, neeg muaj dab tswj thiaj ua phem. Qhov tiag ces koj cov kwvtij yog dab xyov txhiaj, tsis yog koj tug pojniam. Peb Hmoob muaj dab vim lawv teev dab.
You are truly a good man that stands up for what is right not what other people criticize and demand
Yog kawg lawm nawb. Kwv tij ces tsuas nav thwm yus thaum yus lub zog quaj qaws thiab thaum yus muaj nyiaj xwb os. Kwv tij ces ncauj puam suab khawv tes taw tuag zawv xwb. Yus tus niam tsev thiaj yog tus koom ib txoj sia nrog yus, noj qab noj tsuag nrog yus. Kwv tij ces luag tsuas nrog yus thaum yus tseem muaj qhov qab2 noj xwb.
Muaj tseeb kawg li koj hais mas tus kwv
Yeej zoo li koj hais kawg os, koj hais yog lawm kuv yeej taug txoj Kev li koj thiab txhob tu siab tag tag thiab.
Qhov tseeb yog li no yus yuav tau hlub yus thiab txhob mus .
Hlub tus sab nrauv ntau dua nawb mog diav zoo no yog yus tsev neeg poj tub se yuav tsum cub Tau noj thiab hnab tshiab tso mog.
Agree tsuas yog cov neeg g muaj hlwb Es thiaj xav tias nyiaj thiaj yog txhua yam but sometimes love plus little money 💰 are better than alot of money 💰 and no love .pray the lord you found the creation of the universe and human God bless your life
Zoo kawg qhov neb mus ntseeg vajtswv lawm ua li koj ua yog lawm tabsi txhob tso vajtswv tseg nawb kwv tij tsis nyiam neb los cov ntseeg yog neb kwv tij thiab yog neb lub zog nawb
in tug zoo txiv tsev heev thov qhuas koj txoj kev zoo
Yog lawm hos tus nus
I’m glad u realize that your family comes first. My husband was the same way. he had his major surgery, everyone was scared he was going to call for money. No one visited him, no called to see if he was ok. Alwase put your family 1st. Relatives and friends will not be the 1st one to be by ur side.
May God Bless and your family
Amen brother xaiv tus hlub yus thiab yus kajsiab xwb tau lawm
Yog kawg, 3 tiam 21 no ces ua neej nrog nyiaj xwb yog thaum yus tsis muaj nyiaj lawm ces kwv tij yug 1 plab los yeej tsis hlub yus. Poj niam thiab txiv neej los nyob ntawm tus siab zoo ces yeej hlub yus
Hmoob ces thaum koj zoo lawv khib thiab xav rhuav. Thaum koj txom nyem lawv thuam thiab tsuj koj xwb.
Sorry that happened to you. You sound like a really nice person. You have to understand that Hmong people come from poverty and when you have money, unfortunately some are very jealous like you owed them but at the same time everybody is after wealth and fortune. We all want to be educated, be tall and handsome tall and beautiful, have more than enough money, loved by everyone. I am just glad to be born and have a normal physical appearance, and in good health.
Live your life, help others if you want to not because you want something back. Ignored the ney sayers. Life is too short to please others, live for you and your family. Live for love, don't die because of love. Best wishes brother.
Wow, I'm glad you fight for your wife, ,, happy for you, may our heavenly father God continues to bless your family with love and happiness...
Very good !!! Koj has yog kawg le os tug txivtsev…something that everyone can learn from
Koj ua taus txiv kawg lub neej thiaj tseem nyob ruaj Khov kho li no qhov uas koj ua yog lawm thiab ua tau zoo.Thov qhuas koj 👏
Lesson to all you men out there that is so cocky about themselves and forgot about your own family.
This is a lesson to learn in life that money can't buy time, health and love. We lost track of time in peace when we become the benefit of others. People will only need you when you have money but on the long they don't care about you. We have to learn how to love ourselves and do when it's right for others.
Ham tsi yog li lawv hais lo mas vim koj txom nyem lawm koj lam qhuas kom tau chaw tuag xwb os
The 3 enemies of a man: your wife, your best friend, and your cousin. These are in order. 🧐
Agree
Agreed to the next Galaxy and back
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Absolutely correct. People who will harm you are people closest to you...
These combo's may require the ability to dance and cater to the correct tunes. Otherwise you'll be a clown as an emperor, you'll lose the control of your fief. May you be wise in your decisions and blessed in your ordeal.
When it comes to borrowing money to friends and families you need to be smart. Contract up be cautious. People will take advantage of your kindness. There are more fake friends.
Hmoob txoj kev xav tau phem heev rau cov poj niam uas muaj ib lub neej dhau los tsis txhai tau tias nws yog neeg phem twb yog tsis sib haum xwb los tus txiv tsev neeg pheej ntxub tus niam tsev ntawd npaum li nws mus tseeb lawv tus txiv thiab yog vim li cas
tus xyob txhiaj ces yog tus nrauj lawm ntag lau
Hlub2 thaum muaj2, muaj nyiam xwb, puas yog kev hlub tiag mas???? Hmoob mas tshua hlub yus thaum yus muaj xwb nas
Goode story my guy
ผู้ชายแบบนี้มีน้อยมากเรื่องนี้สอนได้ดีมาก
Muaj cov kwvtij thiab phoojywg zoo li no. Koj tsis need yeebntxuab.
Biggest lesson from this story. Hmong people are the biggest haters. I see it over and over in the Hmong community. It’s what you can do for them, never what they can do for you.
Leej twg tias dab ntswg nyoog , koj lab qhov ncauj ko g txaqj hais lis koj twb coj dab thaub ub thiab sav . Vaj tswv yesus thiaj yog ntswg nyoog ho
Hmoob yeej muaj ib lub siab phem li no. Txhob ntseeg leej twg ntseeg tus hlub koj thiab koj hlub xwb.
Good story, a great lesson to learn....
Congratulations koj kawm tiav lawm , tsis xaiv niam thiab txiv kwv tij ,xaiv poj niam minyuam 👏👏👏
If you really think of it. Friendship comes with alcohol and alcohol will eventually lead to ulcer. Some of our people never really identify why and how it happened. Love yourself first before love others.
These are some of the reasons my husband and I don’t associate with relatives. We focus 99% on our marriage. We figured that relatives only need us when they need something. When they don’t need us, they don’t bother us. We know figured early in life they’re only using us. We don’t live up to others expectations but our own.
One thing I never understand about Hmong people is, wtf do you guys have against divorcee? They didn't steal your man, respect them because you may be the next divorcee. Stop hating on the divorce women.
I have a lot of respect for women and men that have enough courage to walk away from a bad relationship. I believe too many of us stay in worthless marriages simply because we are too fearful of what the Hmong community will say.
I like your pic!!! U look so beautiful 😻
You are a good man. The situation sucks, but I'm glad that you were able to see from your ex's point of view, which made you a better husband to your new wife. That's the thing about life, though, right? You live, and you learn.
It's amazing how people always want to be in your life when they need something from you (like the thousands of dollars you lent them)...until they don't need you anymore. However, when you need them...they are nowhere to be found. I hate leeches.
Proud that you stood your ground and didn't fall for your relatives' words. You are a good man for staying by your wife's side and for doing your step-son's wedding. Not a lot of Hmong men would have the courage to love their step-sons/kids and even stand up to their relatives. Your wife is really lucky to have found you.
Though there were some tough moments in this story, it makes me happy to know that there are Hmong men out there with a strong backbone. I wish you and your family the best, and God bless.
They only want to use your money, that's why your kwv tij n friends were nice to you! Keep that in mind. I hope you learned your lesson!!
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I feel you brother... I'm glad that you share. I've been through the same road.
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Thank you for sharing your story. All men needs to know and hear this because at the end it’s your s/o and kids!!!!
Tim koj xwb o tij laug poj niam tam hluas nraug ho g hlub thiab ho xw siab ho tug tsim poj niam ??
Es yog li txiv neej tham hluas nkauj poj niam puas khib thiab ho g xyu siab rau txiv neej no yog vim li cas tiag na cov txiv neej mhoob siab phem aw!!
Wow! May you look so beautiful in this picture. And it is such a great treat that we get to hear two story in the same day!
Brother always know that no one is for you unless it is your wife, children, and parents. Everyone always have a say but no one will be there to support you financially, physically or emotionally. Hmong people will only acknowledge you when they need you. It’s so sad that our Hmong people are like this. My dad use to be involved in a lot of Hmong organizations an d family gathering but when my mom had a stroke everyone disappeared, gone like the wind. The only people at the hospital was us children and grandparents. Love yourself and no one else. Us Hmong people really need to change and support each other. Unconditional love please.
Yeah only old Hmong ppl...lmao
Cov neeg phem ces hu los txhuam tsis hu los txhaum li
Yog muaj tseeb li koj hais no ces koj cov niag kwv tij ua yuam kev rau qhov lawv tsis pab koj leeg koj tus tub coj los rooj tshoob naj.
Brother your kindness blinded you to all else. Your so busy helping other's that they're helping themselves to your wife and your kindness. Your wife using and playing guilt at you. Her unfaithfulness is no excuse. Let her go. She'll never be clean again nor will she be loyal or faithful. Divorce her and find a new direction and move on. See all those people that are your friends and families, the minute you do not benefit them they turned their backs and gossip about you. Brother I hope you've learned your lesson. Take care of yourself an your home.
Kuv kuj tsis to taub tias cas koj cov kwv tij ho ntxub koj Poj niam es puas yog muaj dabtsi rau lawv ntxub? Los yog lawv khib2 koj Poj niam. Yog nws hlub koj lawm ces kuj zoo xwb
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It's sad that Hmoob people/relatives always judging people.Those relatives are hypocrite and only want you when you are benefit them, let's do better. Best wishes to you and thank you for standing up for your wife.
Muab koj cov khwtig nrauj kiag, txhob khiav lawv lawm os...lawv yeej tsis hlub koj tiag2
Blessed u bro!
There’s more to his story.. his relatives wouldn’t abandon him if it was just his choice of marrying someone they don’t agree with.
The hate is real. Growing up, families didn’t like us either because we had a lot of siblings, and mostly girls at that. But now that we’re all grown and see those same family members, their tune has changed. They now say my mom is blessed to have a lot of kids and girls at that; jealous that my mom receives a lot of love and attention from her daughters.
I agree. I said his story doesn’t make sense. The fact that his family is still calling his ex and they don’t like his new wife is a red flag.
Forget your relatives and family they're only caring about themselves. Stop helping them. Distance yourself and stop caring about all those that is isn't important.
Tus phooj ywg hais txog koj tus poj niam qub mas koj g tas ntseeg txog tias koj muab g tau kev hlub nws thiaj nrauj koj no yog nws dag lawm xwb. Hos hais txog kev ntseeg mas tus ua neeb mas haj yam ntev heev
Pib neeb ua pib tseev npua g nqes neeb mas g tau mov noj take 3 hrs to wait
Muaj tseeb kwv tij nco ntsoov tseg rau qhov tib ob
me nus aw? tus twg hlub2 yus ces hlub tus ntawv xwb zoo dua os mog tus twb muab yus tsuj2 lawm ces hlub tus ntawv xwb uas yus yuav tau nrog koj nyob thiaj yog koj tus xwb mog. .es leej twg yuav hais li cas los lawv yeej tsis paub yus li .
Kuv los twb yuav mus lawb dab thiab lawb neej tib si li koj os tus tij laug. Kwv tij ces lawv vam yus thaum yus muaj nyiaj thiab pab tau lawv xwb.
Amen !!
yog koj ntseeg lawm mas koj txhob hu cov niag coj dab lawm os muaj ab.tsi mas hu cov tom tshawj xwb nawb
Kuv ntseeg hais tias koj yuav kawm tiav 1 qib lawm.
koj es koj cov phoojyawg tseem tuaj saib koj os kuv niag txiv es kwv tij thiab phooj yawg lawv yeej tsis tuaj saib nws li thaum nws ua tau khwv tau nyiaj mas kwv tij thiab phoojyawg mas lawv paub thiab hu nws tas li xwb
Glad you learn your mistakes God is good give you another chance to get it right