You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are... OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups. OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women. OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups. OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world. OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people. OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves. OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves. OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people. OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own. OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation. OBSESSED with being colorblind. OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements. OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology. OBSESSED with everything that is non-black. Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people? I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
I'm not Christian, but the undercurrent of their shared faith is important. At the end of the day, what matters is a sense of kinship and shared vision on how a couple wants to live life. And the fact they have a connection fostered in their faith makes it easier to bridge any kinds of gaps as opposed to being complete polar opposites. Been there, done that, it rarely works. As my late father used to say, "as a man son, no matter WHAT KIND OF WOMAN you pick, you're gonna have some stress! Just make sure it's the stress of your choosing." I never forgot that. Continued success to the two of them.
It’s so satisfying hearing the Jesus element in your relationship that I hope more persons could listen. My grandmother black woman was married to a white Irish man that’s in the 1930s but in my country it wasn’t a big issue instead a privilege
@@dannywaldroup3311because during that time period alot of the foreigners were pagan and not good so the Israelites had to stay within each other - times have changed On the judgment day truly only god can judge
@@dannywaldroup3311 I didnt know this but also old testament and new testament has different laws and requirements for salvation too after Jesus death the way to salvation and everlasting life was thru faith in Jesus Christ as our lord and savior
Nicky you are WONDERFUL !!!!!!!!! Of COURSE Jeff is ALSO (smile) ! I'm a black woman. I dated a white fellow and one day we went to the movies when a deaf-mute white woman came to where we were waiting in line and separated us with her hands and and did a "shame, shame" finger-rubbing gesture ! HOW SAD was that gesture when she had OTHER problems in her life !
@@sandalschurchtv Black males WORLDWIDE practice INTRA-racism and colorism against their their own of black women. White women are clueless about this. When you see a black male with a white woman, the white woman is in the relationship because she doesn't care about skin color. The black make is in the relationship BECAUSE he cares about her skin color. Get it? Black males think that their own race of women are ugly.
What a wonderful expression of who we are in Christ. Above all we are people who come out of a variety of backgrounds. The beauty is in seeing each other's value and not the racial barriers that the enemy (the devil) or the world tries to infect us with. Blessings on you and your beautiful family
This is what happens when race is not honestly talked about in churches. So many churches are so unwilling to talk about this and it ended up killing or severely hurting relationships that could be saved if we actually listened. As a black woman, I can say it gets tiring when the church is willing to talk about abortion, LGBTQ matters, politics but when it comes to race we all of a sudden shut black folks, Mexican folks native folks down then use a token person of color to justify it. I am glad you guys made this video because so many churches are too cowardly to address this. Props to you guys 🙏🏾
When I was studying how God addressed interracial marriage, I was naturally drawn to Num 12. At that time, I just read that God punished Miriam’s racism by giving her leprosy and then healing her in a week. I didn’t realize the severity; my mind perceived it as she got sick and then was healed. It’s only recently that I realized that God sentenced her to a slow and painful death (unlike being struck by lightning where death is instantaneous) for her racism.
It wasn't racism that she was being punished for. It was for speaking against God's servant. If you read that story in full, God had actually instructed His people to not marry foreigners (not because God had something against interracial marriage but because these foreigners worshipped man-made gods & idols). So Miriam felt her brother was being a hypocritical leader by choosing a black woman (foreigner) as a wife despite having delivered God's message against it. God was basically letting Miriam know that He would deal with Moses Himself if He wanted to & she had no business assassinating his character over that marriage.
How do turned a so called 1681 white person white with leprosy Make that make sense please Noah 3 sons was all the same race and the same nationality Through sin and disobedience leprosy came about There is no real thing as a 1681 white person in the bible
it has change our lives some, but things did change at time when we moved south here in the state of Georgia, we been together for close to 12 years and we are older couple too in our 60+ years now lived up north upstate new York for about 3 years and wanted to move south near but not far from where I was born married 2 years now and yes there was looks of all kinds I"m black and she' white Germany/Isiah, things started to change the long we stay our church, friends and family's and some of our neb's????,but we are older couple now like I said and it's working out just fine thanks
I thank God Almighty for your interview. You both articulated your situation extremely well. I do believe that the Lord has blessed you both to meet and marry. Continue the good work and educating people concerning equality as it pertains to race. May God continue to bless you and your family as you strive to see Jesus christ.
Wonderful self-awareness! I appreciate Jeff's wife and Jeff's sister for helping her to understand and his wife's Black best friend. Keeping Jesus in the heart will help navigate those lenses. 'Cause heaven has no Black or White side! Read the book of Revelation! God bless.
So, I'm not religious (which is another story) and I started watching this very skeptical and have been pleasantly surprised at how light this conversation is going. Not sure if that's good or bad but I stayed and finished the video.
In scripture God told the children of Israel not to mingle with the nations and their gods now some may say that's talking about intermarriage with other people it's not
You two like so many others are paying the price now in some sense to show what it is to be conformed into the image of Christ. The middle wall of partition has been broken down by Jesus Christ on the cross. There's no jew or Gentile, I believe spiritually speaking in the eyes of God, there's no black or white. We are just one in Christ. Since we are going to be one in heaven, Jesus said " thy kingdom come", we are one in the kingdom right here and right now. Some people are slow to get it even among believers, but the Holy Spirit is working in us. God knew he could trust both of you to show case what heaven is like, I am proud of you.
@@goldenrule8706 well good thing is that we just love destroying people like you and guess what, we don't care how you feel. Just stop stalking and harassing people
I don't think its nearly the adjustment for Black people as it is White people. We grow up learning and interacting with Whites. A lot of White people can go through life not having to learn our culture and have very little interaction with us.
That was beautiful ! God created each and everyone of us in his image and likeness so we are one no matter what color our skin is, I am West Indian from Trinidad, and my wife is Russian. She’s the most beautiful person you could ever meet up on the face of this earth ,she will do anything for you, and so is her family. I love her so much very understanding we were basically brought up the same way seem morals. We didn’t know anything about discrimination until we got to this country of America, so it’s time for us to change the way we think and look at each other no matter what color our skin, we should learn how to get along with each other and understand each other. Hey life is short and we need to get along with each other so we can enjoy the short time that we have upon this earth! Thanks! 🙏👍👏👏👏
Like I don't understand God made both black and he didn't make any mistake and love seeing black and white marriages keep your eyes on God you all are one hand made.
As a black dude, I had to keep checking my girl about talking to African people. Even the body language has to change. There is a way to talk to get respect back.
Learning to understand a particular race and discard prejudices that is inherent in someone's subjective opinion is not an easy process.It takes time.In marriage once you take that step of interracial courting you should be prepared against fierce headwinds.Its not easy.Dont ever assume that you are taken by surprise. If you do ...you are a naive person.The keys...high self esteem assertive high IQ and sense of ingenuity above average.Anything less than that you are boundv to get drowned.
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are... OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups. OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women. OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups. OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world. OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people. OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves. OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves. OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people. OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own. OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation. OBSESSED with being colorblind. OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements. OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology. OBSESSED with everything that is non-black. Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people? I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
This world is filled with colours like flowers. why would anyone single themselve to dating one race. I find this hard to believe. Do people not understand what they are missing out on? Same goes to friends we keep.
I respect though the thing is there is no such thing as “races” only the human race. Pastor and leader just need to teach that we are all one the human race. Or even better believer and unbelievers.
I'm never against interracial marriage & interracial friendship I hate to hear marry your own race to me it sounds immature & low self-esteem. Certain people I refused to talk about interracial marriage because some people against it
I'm going to be real I'm black & I don't mind having interracial friends white people can be friends with me whenever They like same with Asian, Latino, Polynesian, Caribbean, African, Jewish , Arabian. I don't mind being in a interracial relationship if I marry an white guy He gotta be handsome, friendly, tall, have abs have relationship with God also He have to be courteous, fun also support me & my dreams hairstyle Pompadour or Undercut / Fade Haircut doesn't matter what color his eyes
@ I'm being real with everyone my guy type tall under 7"0 handsome, charming with abs shorter haircut good guy very intelligent. Bad guys not my type . I don't like mean / bossy people I don't like talking politics & religious because people think They know Everything which makes me mad. I don't like arguing with people to be real . I don't want no negative comments about me I have problems with people I want to avoid negative so lets be positive & have a good day 😊 God Bless you
Is it me, like how many times is she going to say "he's not angry or militant" as if to suggest that if he spoke up or resisted societal norms of racism or discrimination that he is militant.....another way of saying he's not like those other black men. I've tamed him and he has assimilated and therefore "not militant or anything". Damn girl, he's a brotha. Let him live.
White women are more boldly courageous in living joyously, passionately, fearlessly and won't hold back in fulfilling their holy desire for procreating with the ideal man/
Of course, the number of wm bf couples may be several times smaller than the number of bm wf couples, or maybe 10 times smaller The reason is that most WMs prefer Asian women after WW, but not black women Also, successful black men prefer white women, and 25% of black men marry white women And in general, it is said that mixed-black people in wm bf are relatively more friendly with white people than mixed-black people in bm wf
She said something mean and disrespectful to his mother and sister in that passive-aggressive way white females do. Then she cried her fake white female tears. She knew exactly what she was doing, she is very unattractive and lashed out like they always do. Typical white female bs.
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are... OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups. OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women. OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups. OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world. OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people. OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves. OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves. OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people. OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own. OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation. OBSESSED with being colorblind. OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements. OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology. OBSESSED with everything that is non-black. Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people? I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
you are right John. Praise God we dont live there now. However we still have a ways to go. I am going to spend my mind doing what Phil 4:8 says. Have my mind focused on the positive!
Great couple. I would like to ad that we are a Black & White couples as well, however, most of the racial angst we have encountered are from Black people. Mostly black women. I fear that too much is focused on how us Black people feel, and not our White counter parts. Consider the recent discourse with Candace Owen's & Cardi B. There is an erroneous movement advocating that blacks "can't" be rascist, as if slavery negated that. Even Black people have told our daughter that she can't discuss Black issues cause she's not Black enough. If we are to be fair, as my mother said, we should also hear what White people go thru as well. That would be an honest conversation.
I'm Black and my husband is White. We've been harassed by black males when we are living our lives. My husband has had to defend us a few times against angry militant black male aggression during our 15 year marriage. It was terrible to experience. Luckily we rarely encounter black males.
So sick and tired of people talking about different races when that does not exist! Mankind is ONE with many variations/flavors. Reprogram your minds people...get off the cabal educational system and open your eyes. Enough already!
So true! There is only one race. The human race. It is ethnicity that makes up our differences. As well as many other factors. I wish we didnt have to talk about it. However it is a real thing. I am trying to talk about it in a way, so that we talk about it less. Thanks Marie!
My ?s would be, how do they deal with race issues such as the the justice system ( police brutality)? Racism in general? Her racist family? Her calling him the N word when she gets mad? Her threatening to call 911 when an argument happens? Sounds dangerous to me.
Your 3rd and 4th questions are stereotypical fears people have of interracial relationships. For decades I dated in and out of my "race" and have known and been close to several interracial couples. In my experiences with friends, family, and my own personal relationships, it never happened. I must say if ANYONE is in an interracial relationship and their partner out of anger calls them a racial or cultural epithet in anger or not in anger... end the relationship because they DO NOT respect you. And if YOU do it... you don't respect your partner.
@@tonycurry5545 I can agree with that( someone being disrespectful). So what about the race talk? I’m sure it has to be some cultural difference when it comes to the justice system.
@@JudahTribe-lt3ur A lot of that is opinion based and varies by individual. For example, my wife, who is White believes as I do about the disparities in the justice system. And for the record many of the in-laws I have close relationships with feel the same about the disparities now that they know it exists. We've learned quite a bit from each other over the years we've been together. And much like the couple in this interview, it is all about the "safe space". Without regard to race EVERY couple should have that safe space and much more so in every interracial relationship. As a Black man I learned from my wife's family and from her that many things such as reconstruction, redlining, Juneteenth, and many other things simply weren't taught in White suburban schools. We jokingly say they were cheated out of their K-12 education on American History. Knowledge of individuals such as York, Crispus Attucks, Frederick Douglas, and more were lost on them. The simplicity of why many Black people in the U.S. have the last name of Washington and Jackson they didn't understand until recently. For most of my life I thought White people KNEW the issues, were educated on our shared history. It has been an experience to learn of their (my in-laws) ignorance and see how enlightenment has changed their outlook on life.
@@tonycurry5545 One more ? Back in the 80’s, my uncle dated a whyt chick, and he said he hated the stares( we are from back east.. Baltimore). Did you deal with that?
It is just a matter of the most grotesque ignorance this world has ever experienced. A demon made person has decided to discriminate against some while uplifting some others, making this world of people a caste society with presumably insurmountable barriers. Unfortunately, the so-called civilised people have become the fiercest defenders of this caste system. And they are capable of speaking at the top of their lungs that they are believers of a God Who created everything and made us from the same and only one person. There is no greater shame in proceeding in this way. Thank you, my sister, for saying that "we believe in building bridges and bringing people together and unifying, and I feel like our marriage is a picture of that..." God has never said that this nonsense of racial supremacy is good stuff.
I so much appreciate the wife's perspective and honesty!
I have nothing agaisnt interracial relationships or marriages as long as everyone's happy and safe that's all that matters
May the LORD bless you more, keep that LOVE burning through JESUS CHRIST, AMEN.
Thank you for sharing. I really enjoyed listening to the story of your relationship, marriage and family. God bless you, Nicky and Jeff.
Thank you so much!
Thanks so much Knights4U
When God is in it , everything is beautiful
Amen!
Amen to that
PERFECT 🥰 LORD GOD ALMIGHTY
absolutely
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are...
OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups.
OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women.
OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups.
OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world.
OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own.
OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation.
OBSESSED with being colorblind.
OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements.
OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology.
OBSESSED with everything that is non-black.
Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people?
I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
I'm not Christian, but the undercurrent of their shared faith is important. At the end of the day, what matters is a sense of kinship and shared vision on how a couple wants to live life. And the fact they have a connection fostered in their faith makes it easier to bridge any kinds of gaps as opposed to being complete polar opposites. Been there, done that, it rarely works. As my late father used to say, "as a man son, no matter WHAT KIND OF WOMAN you pick, you're gonna have some stress! Just make sure it's the stress of your choosing." I never forgot that. Continued success to the two of them.
AMEN!
It’s so satisfying hearing the Jesus element in your relationship that I hope more persons could listen. My grandmother black woman was married to a white Irish man that’s in the 1930s but in my country it wasn’t a big issue instead a privilege
They are an absolutely beautiful couple, God bless them both ❤❤
The wife really opened my eyes. I thank her.
Thank you for watching Skott!
What a great voice for radio!
A church that is racist or embraces racism is not church of Christ. It's that simple!
Period🙏❤ God would not want us to hate others for their skin colour
Checkmate
In the Bible God tells the 12 tribes of Israel to stay with their own tribe.
@@dannywaldroup3311because during that time period alot of the foreigners were pagan and not good so the Israelites had to stay within each other - times have changed
On the judgment day truly only god can judge
@@dannywaldroup3311 I didnt know this but also old testament and new testament has different laws and requirements for salvation too after Jesus death the way to salvation and everlasting life was thru faith in Jesus Christ as our lord and savior
Thanks for sharing this! I can really relate. Race was never an issue!
Nicky you are WONDERFUL !!!!!!!!! Of COURSE Jeff is ALSO (smile) ! I'm a black woman. I dated a white fellow and one day we went to the movies when a deaf-mute white woman came to where we were waiting in line and separated us with her hands and and did a "shame, shame" finger-rubbing gesture ! HOW SAD was that gesture when she had OTHER problems in her life !
Thank you for watching Deborah! We're sorry you had to experience that act!
Love love love this! Thanks Deborah for your AMAZING and encouraging words!!!!! And yes, so sad for that experience.
Should have Middle finger 🖕 her. She’s understood that!
@@sandalschurchtv
Black males WORLDWIDE practice INTRA-racism and colorism against their their own of black women.
White women are clueless about this.
When you see a black male with a white woman, the white woman is in the relationship because she doesn't care about skin color.
The black make is in the relationship BECAUSE he cares about her skin color.
Get it?
Black males think that their own race of women are ugly.
What a wonderful expression of who we are in Christ. Above all we are people who come out of a variety of backgrounds. The beauty is in seeing each other's value and not the racial barriers that the enemy (the devil) or the world tries to infect us with. Blessings on you and your beautiful family
YES, YES, YES AND AMEN!
That story was so beautiful
Amen!
My Family members are Interracial Couples. My Friends are in interracial couples. I love interracial couples.
i love this, thanks for sharing
This is what happens when race is not honestly talked about in churches. So many churches are so unwilling to talk about this and it ended up killing or severely hurting relationships that could be saved if we actually listened. As a black woman, I can say it gets tiring when the church is willing to talk about abortion, LGBTQ matters, politics but when it comes to race we all of a sudden shut black folks, Mexican folks native folks down then use a token person of color to justify it. I am glad you guys made this video because so many churches are too cowardly to address this. Props to you guys 🙏🏾
AMEN & AAAAAMEN!!!
Beautiful!
Was very moved. There's hope in America.
Thanks for watching Sam!
there's hope all because of Interracial Marriage, huh?
that's the ONLY thing that will change everything??
A beautiful family
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story 👌🏿😘
When I was studying how God addressed interracial marriage, I was naturally drawn to Num 12. At that time, I just read that God punished Miriam’s racism by giving her leprosy and then healing her in a week. I didn’t realize the severity; my mind perceived it as she got sick and then was healed. It’s only recently that I realized that God sentenced her to a slow and painful death (unlike being struck by lightning where death is instantaneous) for her racism.
It wasn't racism that she was being punished for. It was for speaking against God's servant. If you read that story in full, God had actually instructed His people to not marry foreigners (not because God had something against interracial marriage but because these foreigners worshipped man-made gods & idols). So Miriam felt her brother was being a hypocritical leader by choosing a black woman (foreigner) as a wife despite having delivered God's message against it. God was basically letting Miriam know that He would deal with Moses Himself if He wanted to & she had no business assassinating his character over that marriage.
How do turned a so called 1681 white person white with leprosy
Make that make sense please
Noah 3 sons was all the same race and the same nationality
Through sin and disobedience leprosy came about
There is no real thing as a 1681 white person in the bible
@@hummingbird4335 An ism is an ism is an ism/ Every ism is a sin/ Life is theological, not ideological/
Christians have murdered millions and millions and millions and...
love it; that was beautiful to see and listen too.
Just a beautiful couple 💑
Love this
Great Couple 🌹💍 💓
Lovely!
I loved this.
Go to jail
@@qualalampFOOBOOairpillowsvolun you first troll 🧌
it has change our lives some, but things did change at time when we moved south here in the state of Georgia, we been together for close to 12 years and we are older couple too in our 60+ years now lived up north upstate new York for about 3 years and wanted to move south near but not far from where I was born married 2 years now and yes there was looks of all kinds I"m black and she' white Germany/Isiah, things started to change the long we stay our church, friends and family's and some of our neb's????,but we are older couple now like I said and it's working out just fine thanks
Thanks for watching Robert! We're praying for you and for your marriage to continue to grow!
I thank God Almighty for your interview. You both articulated your situation extremely well. I do believe that the Lord has blessed you both to meet and marry. Continue the good work and educating people concerning equality as it pertains to race. May God continue to bless you and your family as you strive to see Jesus christ.
Thanks for watching!
Thanks for sharing! I can relate. I’m from Columbia, MD too. Race was not an issue!
I grew up in the 60s so back during the time when something like this wasn't taboo
Very nice and lovely couple!
This is what I'm talking about. Christian interracial couples. How often would you see this.
Wonderful self-awareness! I appreciate Jeff's wife and Jeff's sister for helping her to understand and his wife's Black best friend. Keeping Jesus in the heart will help navigate those lenses. 'Cause heaven has no Black or White side! Read the book of Revelation! God bless.
Beautiful story from beautiful People, God bless you
So, I'm not religious (which is another story) and I started watching this very skeptical and have been pleasantly surprised at how light this conversation is going. Not sure if that's good or bad but I stayed and finished the video.
Thank you for watching with us Rae!
I also attended Anderson University where I met my husband.
I love this.
Christ king! These two described me and my wife and family almost identical.
A good love story of black and white ❤️❤️.
Good for you two keep loving keep giving👍👍
In scripture God told the children of Israel not to mingle with the nations and their gods now some may say that's talking about intermarriage with other people it's not
It's always nice to have a safe space :))) !
Great interview.
Interactional is a beautiful thing... And rare. Some people stick to the own and some are afraid of what other people think mainly family members.
Theres nothing beautiful about it. I find it disgusting
@@iaintmadatcha well you stay inside your box while others go outside their box.
@@divinedeva84 hey i love my box hunny 💋
@@iaintmadatcha Good thing too because no-one else does.
@@ebakindeji5941 plenty people do chuck
You two like so many others are paying the price now in some sense to show what it is to be conformed into the image of Christ. The middle wall of partition has been broken down by Jesus Christ on the cross. There's no jew or Gentile, I believe spiritually speaking in the eyes of God, there's no black or white. We are just one in Christ. Since we are going to be one in heaven, Jesus said " thy kingdom come", we are one in the kingdom right here and right now. Some people are slow to get it even among believers, but the Holy Spirit is working in us.
God knew he could trust both of you to show case what heaven is like, I am proud of you.
We will never destroy racism. This will always be there and we cannot perish it. Unfortunately
But I think We should improve ourself about these anacronics conception.
Good. It's natural and that means it's based and good
@@goldenrule8706 well good thing is that we just love destroying people like you and guess what, we don't care how you feel. Just stop stalking and harassing people
How sad 😔
I don't think its nearly the adjustment for Black people as it is White people. We grow up learning and interacting with Whites. A lot of White people can go through life not having to learn our culture and have very little interaction with us.
Agreed
@@localone1597 we don’t want your kind.
its nice when religion can bring people together
They look like a beautiful couple. I hope they grow old together:)
would the same still be said if they were a White Couple??
That was beautiful ! God created each and everyone of us in his image and likeness so we are one no matter what color our skin is, I am West Indian from Trinidad, and my wife is Russian. She’s the most beautiful person you could ever meet up on the face of this earth ,she will do anything for you, and so is her family. I love her so much very understanding we were basically brought up the same way seem morals. We didn’t know anything about discrimination until we got to this country of America, so it’s time for us to change the way we think and look at each other no matter what color our skin, we should learn how to get along with each other and understand each other. Hey life is short and we need to get along with each other so we can enjoy the short time that we have upon this earth! Thanks! 🙏👍👏👏👏
We all love interracial dating and marriage
No we dont
Not me I don't maybe you do
@@mk1mcqueen277 God said he said he don't care about no color
I do #teaminterracial
This is not okay
Damn she’s pretty in and out.
Jeff..long time no see😊. Enjoyed the video.
Very beautiful conservative family. God bless them
Like I don't understand God made both black and he didn't make any mistake and love seeing black and white marriages keep your eyes on God you all are one hand made.
Jeff hopped out of a time machine straight from 1984.
I met my husband at Anderson University. Enjoyed hearing from you
Thanks for watching Carol! Praying for you this week.
Thats Awesome! Blessings!
As a black dude, I had to keep checking my girl about talking to African people. Even the body language has to change. There is a way to talk to get respect back.
what an intelligent all weather woman Jeff!.. you shot a Parrot!!
I dont even know what that means. I hope its good ;o). haha!
This is beautiful how a black man and a white women came together to become one.
i agree
Theres nothing beautiful about it
@@iaintmadatcha why not
It really is, that brother has a lovely godly wife!
Go to jail
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I love interracial dating
I dont
@Dan Osanu sad
@@hakunamatata-w3873 happy
I love it too.
I don’t like or dislike interracial dating or marriage, people should be with who they want full stop!
He has a handsome masculine voice. Above all its God, Love, and Gospel.
Learning to understand a particular race and discard prejudices that is inherent in someone's subjective opinion is not an easy process.It takes time.In marriage once you take that step of interracial courting you should be prepared against fierce headwinds.Its not easy.Dont ever assume that you are taken by surprise. If you do ...you are a naive person.The keys...high self esteem assertive high IQ and sense of ingenuity above average.Anything less than that you are boundv to get drowned.
Beautiful couple
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are...
OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups.
OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women.
OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups.
OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world.
OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own.
OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation.
OBSESSED with being colorblind.
OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements.
OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology.
OBSESSED with everything that is non-black.
Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people?
I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
Not at all
@@jamessmith4287 Your opinion
@@brooklynguy8744 Fact
@user-he3by8ut3mwe exist and we can go and live anywhere we want
Deuteronomy 7-4
Ezra 10:10-11
I believe and love Black and White and interracial married couples. It is ashamed racist people are against it.
This world is filled with colours like flowers. why would anyone single themselve to dating one race. I find this hard to believe. Do people not understand what they are missing out on? Same goes to friends we keep.
you mean why would you change the race of these flowers that god created
Props. People
Linda historia el amor todo lo puede
I respect though the thing is there is no such thing as “races” only the human race. Pastor and leader just need to teach that we are all one the human race. Or even better believer and unbelievers.
I'm never against interracial marriage & interracial friendship I hate to hear marry your own race to me it sounds immature & low self-esteem. Certain people I refused to talk about interracial marriage because some people against it
Sticking to your own sounds immature? Wtf smh you have been westernised to say something so stupid. PRESERVE YOUR HERITAGE AND CULTURE!
I bet u are a black American woman. Only a black American woman would say that.
@@iaintmadatcha MUH IDENTITY MUH HERITAGE MUH RACE MUH COMMUNITY MUH GENETICS MUH BACCCKKKGROUUNNDDD WAAAAAHHHHHHH
@@iaintmadatchaI have a white gal for you !!
@@peterbrown3944 no thanks keep her for yourself
I'm going to be real I'm black & I don't mind having interracial friends white people can be friends with me whenever They like same with Asian, Latino, Polynesian, Caribbean, African, Jewish , Arabian. I don't mind being in a interracial relationship if I marry an white guy He gotta be handsome, friendly, tall, have abs have relationship with God also He have to be courteous, fun also support me & my dreams hairstyle Pompadour or Undercut / Fade Haircut doesn't matter what color his eyes
@ I'm being real with everyone my guy type tall under 7"0 handsome, charming with abs shorter haircut good guy very intelligent. Bad guys not my type . I don't like mean / bossy people I don't like talking politics & religious because people think They know Everything which makes me mad. I don't like arguing with people to be real . I don't want no negative comments about me I have problems with people I want to avoid negative so lets be positive & have a good day 😊 God Bless you
Lol I'm an African american millennial all I've gotta say is I'm grateful for the times I live in.
@user-he3by8ut3mwrong again. Your opinion is duely noted
Is it me, like how many times is she going to say "he's not angry or militant" as if to suggest that if he spoke up or resisted societal norms of racism or discrimination that he is militant.....another way of saying he's not like those other black men. I've tamed him and he has assimilated and therefore "not militant or anything". Damn girl, he's a brotha. Let him live.
It's just you.!
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The man's voice!!!
What is wrong with his voice ??
I am asian we love our own heritage
Can't believe they let you here! You have some gall! & you gave you the likes? Scary!
Asian girls don't date Asian guys I feel sorry for yall
I don't understand. Why is this an issue?
That is funny, Indiana.
If it is a diverse church then it is a multicultural church and not a black church.
BM/WF is fairly common and more acceptable than WM/BF couples are, generally speaking.
We're hoping these kind of conversations can help shift those social feelings 🙏🏼
White women are more boldly courageous in living joyously, passionately, fearlessly and won't hold back in fulfilling their holy desire for procreating with the ideal man/
@@FabzRoma-is3sq still unnatural and immoral
Of course, the number of wm bf couples may be several times smaller than the number of bm wf couples, or maybe 10 times smaller
The reason is that most WMs prefer Asian women after WW, but not black women
Also, successful black men prefer white women, and 25% of black men marry white women
And in general, it is said that mixed-black people in wm bf are relatively more friendly with white people than mixed-black people in bm wf
@@The_Noble_Lucifer Still unnatural and immoral, judging from the Masonic symbol you have says alot of why you seem to support it I assume.
i would love to know what the comment was...sounds like things got blown way out of proportion
She said something mean and disrespectful to his mother and sister in that passive-aggressive way white females do. Then she cried her fake white female tears. She knew exactly what she was doing, she is very unattractive and lashed out like they always do. Typical white female bs.
Everybody could date someone out they race
Not me, i stick to my beautiful black women
Nope I'm white and I'm sticking with my white womans.
@Jerry Valderramos but some Latino men date white girls
Go to jail
@@iaintmadatcha that's fine with me I'm black man I love white women and Asian women so stfu with your annoying ass
AMEN 🙏
On a positive note, predudice has no significant amount of hatred in God's world, Numbers 12 in the Bible is a prime example, love is the key. 🙏🙏😅
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are...
OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups.
OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women.
OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups.
OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world.
OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own.
OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation.
OBSESSED with being colorblind.
OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements.
OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology.
OBSESSED with everything that is non-black.
Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people?
I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
*Prejudice*
and black people are the most Prejudice out of everyone.
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Down south 50 60s yrs ago this wouldn't have been accepted
Why must you live in the past????
Why must you take down statues, which are part of our Nation's heritage? Obama lengthened the racial divide!
you are right John. Praise God we dont live there now. However we still have a ways to go. I am going to spend my mind doing what Phil 4:8 says. Have my mind focused on the positive!
Still isn't in some circles
Great couple. I would like to ad that we are a Black & White couples as well, however, most of the racial angst we have encountered are from Black people. Mostly black women. I fear that too much is focused on how us Black people feel, and not our White counter parts. Consider the recent discourse with Candace Owen's & Cardi B. There is an erroneous movement advocating that blacks "can't" be rascist, as if slavery negated that. Even Black people have told our daughter that she can't discuss Black issues cause she's not Black enough. If we are to be fair, as my mother said, we should also hear what White people go thru as well. That would be an honest conversation.
I'm Black and my husband is White. We've been harassed by black males when we are living our lives. My husband has had to defend us a few times against angry militant black male aggression during our 15 year marriage. It was terrible to experience. Luckily we rarely encounter black males.
Start by saying no such thing as different RACES
So sick and tired of people talking about different races when that does not exist! Mankind is ONE with many variations/flavors. Reprogram your minds people...get off the cabal educational system and open your eyes. Enough already!
AMEN! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are right
So true! There is only one race. The human race. It is ethnicity that makes up our differences. As well as many other factors. I wish we didnt have to talk about it. However it is a real thing. I am trying to talk about it in a way, so that we talk about it less. Thanks Marie!
My ?s would be, how do they deal with race issues such as the the justice system ( police brutality)?
Racism in general?
Her racist family?
Her calling him the N word when she gets mad?
Her threatening to call 911 when an argument happens?
Sounds dangerous to me.
Your 3rd and 4th questions are stereotypical fears people have of interracial relationships. For decades I dated in and out of my "race" and have known and been close to several interracial couples. In my experiences with friends, family, and my own personal relationships, it never happened. I must say if ANYONE is in an interracial relationship and their partner out of anger calls them a racial or cultural epithet in anger or not in anger... end the relationship because they DO NOT respect you. And if YOU do it... you don't respect your partner.
@@tonycurry5545 I can agree with that( someone being disrespectful). So what about the race talk? I’m sure it has to be some cultural difference when it comes to the justice system.
@@JudahTribe-lt3ur A lot of that is opinion based and varies by individual. For example, my wife, who is White believes as I do about the disparities in the justice system. And for the record many of the in-laws I have close relationships with feel the same about the disparities now that they know it exists.
We've learned quite a bit from each other over the years we've been together. And much like the couple in this interview, it is all about the "safe space". Without regard to race EVERY couple should have that safe space and much more so in every interracial relationship.
As a Black man I learned from my wife's family and from her that many things such as reconstruction, redlining, Juneteenth, and many other things simply weren't taught in White suburban schools. We jokingly say they were cheated out of their K-12 education on American History. Knowledge of individuals such as York, Crispus Attucks, Frederick Douglas, and more were lost on them. The simplicity of why many Black people in the U.S. have the last name of Washington and Jackson they didn't understand until recently.
For most of my life I thought White people KNEW the issues, were educated on our shared history. It has been an experience to learn of their (my in-laws) ignorance and see how enlightenment has changed their outlook on life.
@@tonycurry5545 I appreciate your comment
@@tonycurry5545 One more ?
Back in the 80’s, my uncle dated a whyt chick, and he said he hated the stares( we are from back east.. Baltimore). Did you deal with that?
cute couples!
Dr Umar entered the building 🤣😂
I love see whites lady’s married whith Mexicans cause Mexicans men’s work hard
It is just a matter of the most grotesque ignorance this world has ever experienced. A demon made person has decided to discriminate against some while uplifting some others, making this world of people a caste society with presumably insurmountable barriers.
Unfortunately, the so-called civilised people have become the fiercest defenders of this caste system. And they are capable of speaking at the top of their lungs that they are believers of a God Who created everything and made us from the same and only one person. There is no greater shame in proceeding in this way.
Thank you, my sister, for saying that "we believe in building bridges and bringing people together and unifying, and I feel like our marriage is a picture of that..." God has never said that this nonsense of racial supremacy is good stuff.
Owg am single
What a peoples of color means?