stella I WAS WAITING TO SEE WHO WOULD REALIZE! 😂🤣 Actually the first 3 were actually red lights and the last 3 were filters. Don’t worry - my official RED LIGHT comes in the mail next week.
we should make a "red wine talks bingo". we fill the blank spaces with: damon quoted an article on quora; his guest said something deep and damon made a joke about it; ex-mentions; compliments to the the guest's appeaerance (cof cof raida) and/or personality; complaints about french people; complaints about society and old-fashioned morals; complaints about indiana; fancy words; etc..
12:34 to about 13:10 I think about shit like that all the time and it can be so overwhelming for me I’ve recently had to learn how to pause that sometimes because it really be making me feel anxious af because none of those things have like.... actual concrete answers So I got you when you say that it can be scary to think about ♡
I wish these videos (this one more than the others) were longer and went into more depth. I feel like these were great introductions to conversations but that nothing was really said. The very first wine talk was the perfect length and held so much nuance. None the less, this was a great video and I love watching all of your interactions with your friends.
reading "call me by your name" in the title had me SHOOK name one other video on yt covers such a diverse array of important topics how is it possible that these red wine talks are getting even BETTER EACH TIME??
That real New Yorker moment when she said “I’m about to go grab a knife” I felt that 2 nights ago when my roommate left windows cracked open and I inspected my whole apartment with a pair of scissors.
First of all, I love these types of videos sooo much! It's always super refreshing to see genuine conversations on TH-cam. I'm a black girl living in a small-ish city in Germany (born and raised) and I remember being so shocked by how diverse cities like London and Berlin are. I loved seeing all types of people from all walks of life living side by side. However, that for sure isn't the norm for the rest of Europe. It's 2020 and I STILL get looks of disbelief and confusion when I walk down the street. To be fair, it has gotten better but damn, we still have a long ass way to go. It was super interesting to see Dominique's perspective on this though.
yo Damon 13:00 it's actually the most terrifying feeling/thought. like legitimately another level of scary. i have never been able to explain it quite right but they're thoughts that have been in my head since i was like 4 y/o. i used to get so scared from zooming out and wondering wtfffff is it like someone else's game of monopoly?
I'm in Barcelona right now on the phone with my travel best friend planning a trip to Milan and I said to her "Where is Damon Dominique? He needs to see me shut up and going!" and you posted this. Ugh! I'm so happy
This is honestly my favourite series on youtube! I love being able to hear you talk about such diverse and interesting topics in such a relaxed way. Please keep making them. Bisous!
I love this series so much. Everything feels always so deep and genuine like you can tell you've been friends enough to feel comfortable around each other. Also, shot out to the people on your ig that have the best suggestions tbh 😂you have such a lovely community supporting you! 💖
love this series sooo much!!! And wouldn't mind if they were even longer! I don't think you have to edit them this short and 'quick', they can be more in-depth. I think most of us love hearing you talking!!
Damon, I'm so relieved we share unpopular opinions. My issue is not quite the interruption by a child or a cute animal, it's the interruption itself. Or should I say the end of a deep conversation due to someone's inability to admit they are not informed enough to formulate an opinion or a counter argument to yours. Maybe it's all parents, but many African parents would rather shut up, end a discussion, and leave the situation than admit they don't know something, or that it's moving into some sensitive area they are not comfortable elaborating on!
What you guys were saying about acknowledging your emotions and that it’s a good thing to be able to have a range of emotions - I don’t know if you ever read Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, it’s a fantastic book. One of the things he talks about is when you’re feeling upset or down or sad or anything like that, it’s really important to recognize that emotion. To acknowledge it. Because once you acknowledge it, you’re actually able to separate yourself from that emotion and start to move on. I thought it related a little bit to what you guys were saying
OMG YESSSSS finally a new episode. Found your channel through Ashley’s (bestdressed) episode. And honestly bin ged so many of your latest video uploads. Think you are super super interesting. Love the whole Country/ city discussions and analysis. I haves lived in London for 2 months and I am moving back there this year from Hamburg to study culture, criticism and curation / art history there (when it all works out) And I just love these diverse and open conversations and seeing so many people and their different perspectives.
I have a lot of deja vu. Sometimes i get scared by deja vu of places I'm visiting for the first time. This is officially my fave series on youtube, sending love from Italy
the beginning with you saying that Dominique is still living in New York was HILARIOUS im not sure why but it had me laughing my ass off!! great video!!
I sooooo wanna be seating in that couch with that vampire lighting with you two... I wanted to comment on how Spain is still miles behind on the whole "white isn't the only race". I'm arab and, it's so true, there are two extremes, they either project on me all their very wrong and racist stereotypes or overcompensate with extreme niceness till the point of making it awkward. I'm sick of people starting sentences with the words "I'm not a racist but....[insert racist comment]". And I notice a huge difference between Madrid and smaller cities, no one cares about my race in madrid since I culturaly blend, but where I live (smaller city) I find myself continuously explaining why I don't fit into their bullshit idea about what an Arab girl looks like....
Yesterday I was playing that board game Life with my friend K, her 7 and 9 year old niece and nephew, and our other friend J. While we were playing, K was talking to me and J about our other friend M about how he and his boyfriend broke up. Her niece goes, "M has a girlfriend?" K says, "No, a boyfriend." "Boys can have boyfriends?" I said "Yes, I'm one of those boys." It made me feel happy because she really didn't care at all and we continued playing. Later on in the game I get married, and she places a pink player piece in my car and says, "Here's your wife!" I ask her, "Can I have a husband instead?" and all she does is giggle and we move on.
As a person also from Indiana I could not relate more when you were talking about the stealing and someone asking if they were black, but then turning around to say they aren't racist.
i think this is the most i've laughed in a red wine talk video LMAO! i loved it! also i FELT that when dominique was talking about call me by your name BYEEEE
My niece lived in Paris during her first year of college. She is a black girl. She loved Paris itself but didn't care for the people. She found a lot of them rude and even disrespectful.
We're all just humans on earth floating in space , we can just ALL value each other and be understanding towards eachother, anywayyy much love . Love these topics
I totally think there is life on other planets. They always think that organisms need what life on earth needs. Maybe some other life live in other climates and stuff. Idk I just ranted. But I love these videos, so calming and interesting. It’s like we are friends and I’m having a conversation with you guys 😂😂
Recently discovered your channel and am so smitten with your content. It is incredibly interesting to hear these conversations as someone who grew up with plural nationalities, having a multilingual upbringing and mixed-culture background. Bet many people identify with it. I happen to be French/Dutch with Indonesian roots. Absolutely adore your content. Tous les sujets que vous abordez sont si enrichissants et intéressants, car j'ai rarement l'occasion d'avoir des conversations similaires avec qui que ce soit. J'ai l'impression de faire partie du cercle de discussion. Continuez à créer, vous êtes absolument fantastique. Much love, from the Netherlands.
also what you guys were saying about touchiness with friends rllt struck a cord with me. When I traveled to Egypt last summer to see some family I noticed how non romantic touchiness was so common amongst friends. In the States, amongst my male friends its considered rlly weird to sit close together or anything like that. Since I've grown up in North America I'm not used to non-romantic touchiness but when it does happen I realize how touch starved I am
I was going to comment after I finish watching the whole video but im halfway through it and i just needed to comment now about how much i LOVE laughing with you and your friends when im watching your videos. It's honestly one of the most heartwarming feelings. I bursted out laughing the same time you guys did at 11:14 and i just needed to say you guys are so fucking funny. Love.
I love your topics. And the topic of our existence is totally underrated. And its great that you talked about it. It can be scary to think and talk about it but it doesn't really have to be a taboo. Your brainzies is awesome and yes "Quora" reader here too😂
dominique bringing up timothee chalamet or cmbyn at any available moment is me also very assuring when she answered questions about being black in paris! my family and i are going to paris this year and my dad and i are both black (i chose paris because of you btw!!)
Hi I am French and Black live in Paris. We are plenty here and yes there is racism here just like anywhere in Europe or America.... so don't be suprised if you feel it. But at the same time if you only come for vacations you might not encounter it at all. Most people focus on them and wont care plus France, especially Paris is very diverse wit many North African called "magrebin" here, Black from central/east/west/south Africa, from the French Caribbean Islands, or from Frenh african pacific Island, Asians from China India Vietnam Laos... And of course other people from all over the world so you and your family won't stand out at all.
So I liked Dominique at first... but then I saw she was obsessed with CMBYN and then I instantly loved her! Dom if you're reading this, can we screen it and cry together? I'd love that!
damn. the way dom pointed her finger at someone then turned it back on herself- that's what it is anytime you point out something "bad" in someone else, you are really just pointing at yourself. this goes for anything, whatever you can see in someone else is what you can see in yourself. so accepting others means accepting yourself completely, & accepting yourself means accepting others completely.
YES HER NAME IS DOMINIQUE AND MY NAME IS DAMON DOMINIQUE AND YES IT'S DAMON AND DOMINIQUE!
ICONIC!
MY name is Dominique and I want to be your friend so I guess I'm next. See you in Paris in October
*A little louder honey, I don’t think they heard you in the back 😂*
Damon you’re the best! I absolutely adore you! Manda um beijo!
Gasp!
Wait so this whole time it was a filter not a red light lighting yall
stella I WAS WAITING TO SEE WHO WOULD REALIZE! 😂🤣 Actually the first 3 were actually red lights and the last 3 were filters. Don’t worry - my official RED LIGHT comes in the mail next week.
we should make a "red wine talks bingo". we fill the blank spaces with: damon quoted an article on quora; his guest said something deep and damon made a joke about it; ex-mentions; compliments to the the guest's appeaerance (cof cof raida) and/or personality; complaints about french people; complaints about society and old-fashioned morals; complaints about indiana; fancy words; etc..
I would win every time!
Iiii mu
@@damondominique if it was drinking game we’d be dead 🥴
“Why do we hate ourselves so much?” Damn. That hit different. We need to talk about that more.
When she did the scene from cmbyn ❤️😭
"LIKE DAMN OLIVER!"
No, but for real, she can literally recite each scene word-for-word.
Damon Dominique honestly same. I can never get tired of that movie.
I’m so with Dom on not being a crier yet being emotionally destroyed by cmbyn 😂👋🏻
12:34 to about 13:10
I think about shit like that all the time and it can be so overwhelming for me I’ve recently had to learn how to pause that sometimes because it really be making me feel anxious af because none of those things have like.... actual concrete answers
So I got you when you say that it can be scary to think about ♡
Lmao “I read this really interestingquoraarticle....” 👀
😂😂😂😂
I wish these videos (this one more than the others) were longer and went into more depth. I feel like these were great introductions to conversations but that nothing was really said. The very first wine talk was the perfect length and held so much nuance. None the less, this was a great video and I love watching all of your interactions with your friends.
Ebony Second this
third
Its a portion size video. If you get it supersized you will become bored at one point. The portion satisfies you yet makes you crave for more.
I agree with the first! I like the wide range of topics but I want to hear more about just a few things
THIS
reading "call me by your name" in the title had me SHOOK
name one other video on yt covers such a diverse array of important topics
how is it possible that these red wine talks are getting even BETTER EACH TIME??
Robert because they age like fine wine haha
SAME ! Omfg
That real New Yorker moment when she said “I’m about to go grab a knife” I felt that 2 nights ago when my roommate left windows cracked open and I inspected my whole apartment with a pair of scissors.
When you automatically come unnecessarily classy when Damon posts a video.i feel like a rich Victorian woman 😅😅😅
Right?? I always feel like I'm about to become more cultured and spiritually elevated
@@theundefinedphotographer So true
my god i wanna be friends with her she literally is so cool
when Dominiqe said "if i have to try even harder to project im not gonna talk at all" I FELT THAT IN MY SOUL
First of all, I love these types of videos sooo much! It's always super refreshing to see genuine conversations on TH-cam.
I'm a black girl living in a small-ish city in Germany (born and raised) and I remember being so shocked by how diverse cities like London and Berlin are. I loved seeing all types of people from all walks of life living side by side.
However, that for sure isn't the norm for the rest of Europe. It's 2020 and I STILL get looks of disbelief and confusion when I walk down the street. To be fair, it has gotten better but damn, we still have a long ass way to go.
It was super interesting to see Dominique's perspective on this though.
london is a looooot more diverse than berlin but love berlin too
Damon: it’s almost like WE are animals
Us: are literally animals
2:27 "you can't get away from yourself by moving from one place to another." Hemingway
Literally the conversations I wish I had with my friends!!
I’m watching this drunk waiting for my bus to home, and honesltly you guys seem like such cool people, I loved this video!!
That is exactly how I would want you to watch this series. I just hope you got home safely. 😂
When Dominique was about to cry over cmbyn really felt that
That moment when I was in the mood to rewatch one of these and then I see this🥵
Sydney Brewer bruh why we basically got the same name I- I need to know where you’re from I’m curious LMAO. I’m from New York
Sydney Brewster Lmaoo that’s crazy I’m from Maryland
"When you feel it honor it and move on" "how do we know this is real and why does it matter" great discussion 💛
Dominique has such a banging personality!!! *Chef’s kiss* What a beautiful video! Love this segment!
I’m a human, I saw CMBYN : i clicked..
she is so funny!!!! also I love how cool she is about being a quiet person in groups, it's shows so much confidence
damon's red wine talks are so comforting i love themmmm
I was trying to not finish every red wine talks but im comin to an end,, damon we need more!!!!!!
the topics that these videos cover are so deep and existential and i love them so much T_T T_T T_T T_T
yo Damon 13:00 it's actually the most terrifying feeling/thought. like legitimately another level of scary. i have never been able to explain it quite right but they're thoughts that have been in my head since i was like 4 y/o. i used to get so scared from zooming out and wondering wtfffff is it like someone else's game of monopoly?
I'm in Barcelona right now on the phone with my travel best friend planning a trip to Milan and I said to her "Where is Damon Dominique? He needs to see me shut up and going!" and you posted this. Ugh! I'm so happy
When she started quoting the “I just wanted to be with you” scene from cmbyn..........same
This is honestly my favourite series on youtube! I love being able to hear you talk about such diverse and interesting topics in such a relaxed way. Please keep making them. Bisous!
i clicked as soon as i saw nyc and call be my your name
I feel the same with the baby/dog thing. ik they're cute, but i sometimes force interest so i don't come across as a sociopath
this is probably my favorite episode. y'alls vibes are so good
I fucking love Dominique!! So funny, harbours the same emotional scarring from cmbyn and still hasn’t gotten over it? Same sis- a queen.
I really wanted sis to have her moment and talk about call me by your name some more cus its such a beautiful work of art...damn
So funny! Such chemistry! I was thoroughly entertained by this
I laughed so many times throughout this vid, one of my fav episodes !
I love this series so much. Everything feels always so deep and genuine like you can tell you've been friends enough to feel comfortable around each other. Also, shot out to the people on your ig that have the best suggestions tbh 😂you have such a lovely community supporting you! 💖
Fave red wine talk! Dom is EVERYTHING!
this is the 4th video of red wine talks of Damon that i've watched today straight. haha what? the deadlines on nov. 4!
i swear introverts are the funniest people prove me wrong
love this series sooo much!!! And wouldn't mind if they were even longer! I don't think you have to edit them this short and 'quick', they can be more in-depth. I think most of us love hearing you talking!!
Love love the style of these ❤️
damon's comments about growing up in the midwest are SO reLatAblE IT HURTS MY HEART
Damon, I'm so relieved we share unpopular opinions. My issue is not quite the interruption by a child or a cute animal, it's the interruption itself. Or should I say the end of a deep conversation due to someone's inability to admit they are not informed enough to formulate an opinion or a counter argument to yours. Maybe it's all parents, but many African parents would rather shut up, end a discussion, and leave the situation than admit they don't know something, or that it's moving into some sensitive area they are not comfortable elaborating on!
What you guys were saying about acknowledging your emotions and that it’s a good thing to be able to have a range of emotions - I don’t know if you ever read Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, it’s a fantastic book. One of the things he talks about is when you’re feeling upset or down or sad or anything like that, it’s really important to recognize that emotion. To acknowledge it. Because once you acknowledge it, you’re actually able to separate yourself from that emotion and start to move on. I thought it related a little bit to what you guys were saying
OMG YESSSSS finally a new episode. Found your channel through Ashley’s (bestdressed) episode. And honestly bin ged so many of your latest video uploads.
Think you are super super interesting. Love the whole Country/ city discussions and analysis.
I haves lived in London for 2 months and I am moving back there this year from Hamburg to study culture, criticism and curation / art history there (when it all works out) And I just love these diverse and open conversations and seeing so many people and their different perspectives.
this is m favourite red wine talks purely bc of the number of times call me by your name was brought up 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
I have a lot of deja vu. Sometimes i get scared by deja vu of places I'm visiting for the first time. This is officially my fave series on youtube, sending love from Italy
the beginning with you saying that Dominique is still living in New York was HILARIOUS im not sure why but it had me laughing my ass off!! great video!!
“Give me one thing you like about New York” followed by the clearing of the throat!!! Literally me
I sooooo wanna be seating in that couch with that vampire lighting with you two...
I wanted to comment on how Spain is still miles behind on the whole "white isn't the only race". I'm arab and, it's so true, there are two extremes, they either project on me all their very wrong and racist stereotypes or overcompensate with extreme niceness till the point of making it awkward. I'm sick of people starting sentences with the words "I'm not a racist but....[insert racist comment]". And I notice a huge difference between Madrid and smaller cities, no one cares about my race in madrid since I culturaly blend, but where I live (smaller city) I find myself continuously explaining why I don't fit into their bullshit idea about what an Arab girl looks like....
Ps, call me by your name is life.
I feel so intellectual when i watch these tysm for this series! 💘💝💗💓💖💞💖💞💖💞💓💞💖💝
11:02 “it's the couch it's really smooshyyyy” hhahahahaha omg I feel the same intense way about CMBYN ❤️😭
Damon I consider you a celebrity role model while simultaneously being a close friend. Crazy!
Yesterday I was playing that board game Life with my friend K, her 7 and 9 year old niece and nephew, and our other friend J. While we were playing, K was talking to me and J about our other friend M about how he and his boyfriend broke up. Her niece goes, "M has a girlfriend?" K says, "No, a boyfriend." "Boys can have boyfriends?" I said "Yes, I'm one of those boys." It made me feel happy because she really didn't care at all and we continued playing. Later on in the game I get married, and she places a pink player piece in my car and says, "Here's your wife!" I ask her, "Can I have a husband instead?" and all she does is giggle and we move on.
As a person also from Indiana I could not relate more when you were talking about the stealing and someone asking if they were black, but then turning around to say they aren't racist.
i think this is the most i've laughed in a red wine talk video LMAO! i loved it! also i FELT that when dominique was talking about call me by your name BYEEEE
Please talk to Dominique all the time because I love her.
*Hears noise*
“Imma bout to get a knife” 😂😂😂 meee
I totally get the "what even is the point" of what I am doing when I zoom out way far.
Damon drop that Quora profile, those articles sound quite interesting
Loved the discussion of masculinity! Would really love it if "alternative" masculinities were actually not so alt
Oh my goodness ,I love you girl🧚🏽♀️of course Damon 🧚🏻♂️always love you
My niece lived in Paris during her first year of college. She is a black girl. She loved Paris itself but didn't care for the people. She found a lot of them rude and even disrespectful.
literally no series I love more than this!!!
We're all just humans on earth floating in space , we can just ALL value each other and be understanding towards eachother, anywayyy much love . Love these topics
I totally think there is life on other planets. They always think that organisms need what life on earth needs. Maybe some other life live in other climates and stuff. Idk I just ranted. But I love these videos, so calming and interesting. It’s like we are friends and I’m having a conversation with you guys 😂😂
That coloring change in the outro, waking me up from the haze of this series 🙌🏼
the coloring change was sooo good! hope he keeps it
i love hearing you talk, this is like a podcast but aesthetique
I love getting a picture of your social group
Recently discovered your channel and am so smitten with your content. It is incredibly interesting to hear these conversations as someone who grew up with plural nationalities, having a multilingual upbringing and mixed-culture background. Bet many people identify with it. I happen to be French/Dutch with Indonesian roots. Absolutely adore your content.
Tous les sujets que vous abordez sont si enrichissants et intéressants, car j'ai rarement l'occasion d'avoir des conversations similaires avec qui que ce soit. J'ai l'impression de faire partie du cercle de discussion. Continuez à créer, vous êtes absolument fantastique. Much love, from the Netherlands.
I LOVE HER 😍😭🥺
I literally love these videos so much. Lying in bed with my cat listening to Damon blow my mind
Both of y’all are so glamours
All of your friends seem so deep and insightful. I love it. I always look forward to watching these even if I'm always a few days late in doing so😀🧡
also what you guys were saying about touchiness with friends rllt struck a cord with me. When I traveled to Egypt last summer to see some family I noticed how non romantic touchiness was so common amongst friends. In the States, amongst my male friends its considered rlly weird to sit close together or anything like that. Since I've grown up in North America I'm not used to non-romantic touchiness but when it does happen I realize how touch starved I am
Dominique is such a queen
WE WANT MORE DOMINIQUE!!!
i luv dese talks these give me warm butterflies for some reason
I was going to comment after I finish watching the whole video but im halfway through it and i just needed to comment now about how much i LOVE laughing with you and your friends when im watching your videos. It's honestly one of the most heartwarming feelings. I bursted out laughing the same time you guys did at 11:14 and i just needed to say you guys are so fucking funny. Love.
Her obsession with cmbyn and timothee is cute lol I have no choice but to stan
THIS SERIES IS FOREVER MY FAVORITEEEE
Lolol I thought I was a heartless alien walking around secretly never caring about babies passing me by
DOMINIQUE IS SO FUNNY OML I love her
clicked as soon as I saw it, one of the best series on youtube!!
I have the same internal conflict about Azealia Banks. I don't know, though, I'm still gonna listen to her music.
Taeuna Æolyn 212 still slaps tho
This made me laugh so much lmaoo yall are so fucking great wtf
I love your topics. And the topic of our existence is totally underrated. And its great that you talked about it. It can be scary to think and talk about it but it doesn't really have to be a taboo.
Your brainzies is awesome and yes "Quora" reader here too😂
I live for RED TALKS
dominique bringing up timothee chalamet or cmbyn at any available moment is me
also very assuring when she answered questions about being black in paris! my family and i are going to paris this year and my dad and i are both black (i chose paris because of you btw!!)
Hi I am French and Black live in Paris. We are plenty here and yes there is racism here just like anywhere in Europe or America.... so don't be suprised if you feel it. But at the same time if you only come for vacations you might not encounter it at all. Most people focus on them and wont care plus France, especially Paris is very diverse wit many North African called "magrebin" here, Black from central/east/west/south Africa, from the French Caribbean Islands, or from Frenh african pacific Island, Asians from China India Vietnam Laos... And of course other people from all over the world so you and your family won't stand out at all.
She so fucking funny!!! I laughed so much during this and my brother stared at me but whatever😂😂
So I liked Dominique at first... but then I saw she was obsessed with CMBYN and then I instantly loved her! Dom if you're reading this, can we screen it and cry together? I'd love that!
damn. the way dom pointed her finger at someone then turned it back on herself- that's what it is anytime you point out something "bad" in someone else, you are really just pointing at yourself. this goes for anything, whatever you can see in someone else is what you can see in yourself. so accepting others means accepting yourself completely, & accepting yourself means accepting others completely.
I like how y’all are like we don’t have to hold on to emotions for that long and I’m like yeah that’s me but I also have BPD so
16:22 "When you point one finger you have three pointing back at yourself." Learned that one in elementary school lol 😂
I had to wait til I was in the right mood to watch this. 🍷 Love these chats
this series is one of the best things to happen on youtube wowow
When she said "that's all I wanted" I felt that
omg her voice ✨