stella I WAS WAITING TO SEE WHO WOULD REALIZE! 😂🤣 Actually the first 3 were actually red lights and the last 3 were filters. Don’t worry - my official RED LIGHT comes in the mail next week.
we should make a "red wine talks bingo". we fill the blank spaces with: damon quoted an article on quora; his guest said something deep and damon made a joke about it; ex-mentions; compliments to the the guest's appeaerance (cof cof raida) and/or personality; complaints about french people; complaints about society and old-fashioned morals; complaints about indiana; fancy words; etc..
I wish these videos (this one more than the others) were longer and went into more depth. I feel like these were great introductions to conversations but that nothing was really said. The very first wine talk was the perfect length and held so much nuance. None the less, this was a great video and I love watching all of your interactions with your friends.
12:34 to about 13:10 I think about shit like that all the time and it can be so overwhelming for me I’ve recently had to learn how to pause that sometimes because it really be making me feel anxious af because none of those things have like.... actual concrete answers So I got you when you say that it can be scary to think about ♡
reading "call me by your name" in the title had me SHOOK name one other video on yt covers such a diverse array of important topics how is it possible that these red wine talks are getting even BETTER EACH TIME??
First of all, I love these types of videos sooo much! It's always super refreshing to see genuine conversations on TH-cam. I'm a black girl living in a small-ish city in Germany (born and raised) and I remember being so shocked by how diverse cities like London and Berlin are. I loved seeing all types of people from all walks of life living side by side. However, that for sure isn't the norm for the rest of Europe. It's 2020 and I STILL get looks of disbelief and confusion when I walk down the street. To be fair, it has gotten better but damn, we still have a long ass way to go. It was super interesting to see Dominique's perspective on this though.
I fell off but I’m back here watching now...I’ve missed you🥺 I love how in these videos it feels like I’m listening to friends talk and I’m just there indulging in the conversations...does that make any sense?😅🤣
I was trying to not finish every red wine talks but im comin to an end,, damon we need more!!!!!!
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totally agree about the emotions part -- it's not a bad thing to feel sad !! we're human ! feel it, honor it and move on/let it go. love your perspectives
I’m the editor of my school’s newspaper and this is about to be the second deadline I spend by myself in the lab editing this issue all evening while listening to friday night wine talks thanks for keeping me company guys ily
Unrelated but though I would share that from watching yours and Jo’s channels has motivated me to be independent as a traveller and just in general.I’ve met so many cool ppl thanks to your inspiration and learned a few langages along the way .Merci Damon je serai s’installer à Londres cette année xxx
This is honestly my favourite series on youtube! I love being able to hear you talk about such diverse and interesting topics in such a relaxed way. Please keep making them. Bisous!
What you guys were saying about acknowledging your emotions and that it’s a good thing to be able to have a range of emotions - I don’t know if you ever read Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, it’s a fantastic book. One of the things he talks about is when you’re feeling upset or down or sad or anything like that, it’s really important to recognize that emotion. To acknowledge it. Because once you acknowledge it, you’re actually able to separate yourself from that emotion and start to move on. I thought it related a little bit to what you guys were saying
I’m pretty young and never been in a relationship, and call me by your name really touched me because I feel like I relate to elio (in the book his inner dialogue is so well articulated it’s amazing to read his thought processes, highly recommend the book to anyone who has only seen the movie) but I don’t think I’ll ever experience something like that and I guess that’s why I cherish it so much. the story is just such a beautiful portrait of a boy in italy during the summer in the 80s like it’s so romantic even outside the love aspect - it romanticizes nature and family and art and music and intellect and all of it just comes together beautifully. I could talk about call me by your name forever
I'm in Barcelona right now on the phone with my travel best friend planning a trip to Milan and I said to her "Where is Damon Dominique? He needs to see me shut up and going!" and you posted this. Ugh! I'm so happy
love this series sooo much!!! And wouldn't mind if they were even longer! I don't think you have to edit them this short and 'quick', they can be more in-depth. I think most of us love hearing you talking!!
Damon, I am the exact same way with touch. My friends all have a joke that I’d melt them if they touch me lol. I blame it on being a Libra and having physical touch be very intense for me and my risk of literally falling in love with anyone
OMG YESSSSS finally a new episode. Found your channel through Ashley’s (bestdressed) episode. And honestly bin ged so many of your latest video uploads. Think you are super super interesting. Love the whole Country/ city discussions and analysis. I haves lived in London for 2 months and I am moving back there this year from Hamburg to study culture, criticism and curation / art history there (when it all works out) And I just love these diverse and open conversations and seeing so many people and their different perspectives.
the beginning with you saying that Dominique is still living in New York was HILARIOUS im not sure why but it had me laughing my ass off!! great video!!
I love this series so much. Everything feels always so deep and genuine like you can tell you've been friends enough to feel comfortable around each other. Also, shot out to the people on your ig that have the best suggestions tbh 😂you have such a lovely community supporting you! 💖
I have a lot of deja vu. Sometimes i get scared by deja vu of places I'm visiting for the first time. This is officially my fave series on youtube, sending love from Italy
Damon, I'm so relieved we share unpopular opinions. My issue is not quite the interruption by a child or a cute animal, it's the interruption itself. Or should I say the end of a deep conversation due to someone's inability to admit they are not informed enough to formulate an opinion or a counter argument to yours. Maybe it's all parents, but many African parents would rather shut up, end a discussion, and leave the situation than admit they don't know something, or that it's moving into some sensitive area they are not comfortable elaborating on!
I love your topics. And the topic of our existence is totally underrated. And its great that you talked about it. It can be scary to think and talk about it but it doesn't really have to be a taboo. Your brainzies is awesome and yes "Quora" reader here too😂
I think this series would make a great podcast (or just longer videos). I would love to listen to you guys go more in-depth with some of these topics, especially since your guests have such different backgrounds and perspectives.
Recently discovered your channel and am so smitten with your content. It is incredibly interesting to hear these conversations as someone who grew up with plural nationalities, having a multilingual upbringing and mixed-culture background. Bet many people identify with it. I happen to be French/Dutch with Indonesian roots. Absolutely adore your content. Tous les sujets que vous abordez sont si enrichissants et intéressants, car j'ai rarement l'occasion d'avoir des conversations similaires avec qui que ce soit. J'ai l'impression de faire partie du cercle de discussion. Continuez à créer, vous êtes absolument fantastique. Much love, from the Netherlands.
I sooooo wanna be seating in that couch with that vampire lighting with you two... I wanted to comment on how Spain is still miles behind on the whole "white isn't the only race". I'm arab and, it's so true, there are two extremes, they either project on me all their very wrong and racist stereotypes or overcompensate with extreme niceness till the point of making it awkward. I'm sick of people starting sentences with the words "I'm not a racist but....[insert racist comment]". And I notice a huge difference between Madrid and smaller cities, no one cares about my race in madrid since I culturaly blend, but where I live (smaller city) I find myself continuously explaining why I don't fit into their bullshit idea about what an Arab girl looks like....
also what you guys were saying about touchiness with friends rllt struck a cord with me. When I traveled to Egypt last summer to see some family I noticed how non romantic touchiness was so common amongst friends. In the States, amongst my male friends its considered rlly weird to sit close together or anything like that. Since I've grown up in North America I'm not used to non-romantic touchiness but when it does happen I realize how touch starved I am
As a person also from Indiana I could not relate more when you were talking about the stealing and someone asking if they were black, but then turning around to say they aren't racist.
yo Damon 13:00 it's actually the most terrifying feeling/thought. like legitimately another level of scary. i have never been able to explain it quite right but they're thoughts that have been in my head since i was like 4 y/o. i used to get so scared from zooming out and wondering wtfffff is it like someone else's game of monopoly?
YES HER NAME IS DOMINIQUE AND MY NAME IS DAMON DOMINIQUE AND YES IT'S DAMON AND DOMINIQUE!
ICONIC!
MY name is Dominique and I want to be your friend so I guess I'm next. See you in Paris in October
*A little louder honey, I don’t think they heard you in the back 😂*
Damon you’re the best! I absolutely adore you! Manda um beijo!
Gasp!
Wait so this whole time it was a filter not a red light lighting yall
stella I WAS WAITING TO SEE WHO WOULD REALIZE! 😂🤣 Actually the first 3 were actually red lights and the last 3 were filters. Don’t worry - my official RED LIGHT comes in the mail next week.
shes so funny!! also i love how she's a fan of timothee chalamet like...... she made several points!!
she reminds me of... me!😂
we should make a "red wine talks bingo". we fill the blank spaces with: damon quoted an article on quora; his guest said something deep and damon made a joke about it; ex-mentions; compliments to the the guest's appeaerance (cof cof raida) and/or personality; complaints about french people; complaints about society and old-fashioned morals; complaints about indiana; fancy words; etc..
I would win every time!
Iiii mu
@@damondominique if it was drinking game we’d be dead 🥴
When she did the scene from cmbyn ❤️😭
"LIKE DAMN OLIVER!"
No, but for real, she can literally recite each scene word-for-word.
Damon Dominique honestly same. I can never get tired of that movie.
“He... he doesn’t like girls... I do- I don’t understand, it does not compute.”
Answer: There is no solution.
@@damondominique " The limit does not exist" (Mean Girls)
I wish these videos (this one more than the others) were longer and went into more depth. I feel like these were great introductions to conversations but that nothing was really said. The very first wine talk was the perfect length and held so much nuance. None the less, this was a great video and I love watching all of your interactions with your friends.
Ebony Second this
third
Its a portion size video. If you get it supersized you will become bored at one point. The portion satisfies you yet makes you crave for more.
I agree with the first! I like the wide range of topics but I want to hear more about just a few things
THIS
but like, why is this literally the most at ease video i’ve ever seen?
That's 10 years of friendship right there!
“Why do we hate ourselves so much?” Damn. That hit different. We need to talk about that more.
I’m so with Dom on not being a crier yet being emotionally destroyed by cmbyn 😂👋🏻
12:34 to about 13:10
I think about shit like that all the time and it can be so overwhelming for me I’ve recently had to learn how to pause that sometimes because it really be making me feel anxious af because none of those things have like.... actual concrete answers
So I got you when you say that it can be scary to think about ♡
Lmao “I read this really interestingquoraarticle....” 👀
😂😂😂😂
my god i wanna be friends with her she literally is so cool
When you automatically come unnecessarily classy when Damon posts a video.i feel like a rich Victorian woman 😅😅😅
Right?? I always feel like I'm about to become more cultured and spiritually elevated
@@theundefinedphotographer So true
reading "call me by your name" in the title had me SHOOK
name one other video on yt covers such a diverse array of important topics
how is it possible that these red wine talks are getting even BETTER EACH TIME??
Robert because they age like fine wine haha
SAME ! Omfg
2:27 "you can't get away from yourself by moving from one place to another." Hemingway
when Dominiqe said "if i have to try even harder to project im not gonna talk at all" I FELT THAT IN MY SOUL
First of all, I love these types of videos sooo much! It's always super refreshing to see genuine conversations on TH-cam.
I'm a black girl living in a small-ish city in Germany (born and raised) and I remember being so shocked by how diverse cities like London and Berlin are. I loved seeing all types of people from all walks of life living side by side.
However, that for sure isn't the norm for the rest of Europe. It's 2020 and I STILL get looks of disbelief and confusion when I walk down the street. To be fair, it has gotten better but damn, we still have a long ass way to go.
It was super interesting to see Dominique's perspective on this though.
london is a looooot more diverse than berlin but love berlin too
omg when she started talking ab CMBYN and Timothee Chalamet..... i felt that...... i'm that one friend....... lol
Literally the conversations I wish I had with my friends!!
I’m watching this drunk waiting for my bus to home, and honesltly you guys seem like such cool people, I loved this video!!
That is exactly how I would want you to watch this series. I just hope you got home safely. 😂
I fell off but I’m back here watching now...I’ve missed you🥺 I love how in these videos it feels like I’m listening to friends talk and I’m just there indulging in the conversations...does that make any sense?😅🤣
That moment when I was in the mood to rewatch one of these and then I see this🥵
Sydney Brewer bruh why we basically got the same name I- I need to know where you’re from I’m curious LMAO. I’m from New York
Sydney Brewster Lmaoo that’s crazy I’m from Maryland
Damon: it’s almost like WE are animals
Us: are literally animals
damon's red wine talks are so comforting i love themmmm
Call me by your name is the best movie ever! I watch it whenever I'm sad or just... at any time
When Dominique was about to cry over cmbyn really felt that
"When you feel it honor it and move on" "how do we know this is real and why does it matter" great discussion 💛
I was trying to not finish every red wine talks but im comin to an end,, damon we need more!!!!!!
totally agree about the emotions part -- it's not a bad thing to feel sad !! we're human ! feel it, honor it and move on/let it go. love your perspectives
So funny! Such chemistry! I was thoroughly entertained by this
Dominique has such a banging personality!!! *Chef’s kiss* What a beautiful video! Love this segment!
she is so funny!!!! also I love how cool she is about being a quiet person in groups, it's shows so much confidence
When she started quoting the “I just wanted to be with you” scene from cmbyn..........same
Fave red wine talk! Dom is EVERYTHING!
I’m the editor of my school’s newspaper and this is about to be the second deadline I spend by myself in the lab editing this issue all evening while listening to friday night wine talks thanks for keeping me company guys ily
Let’s talk about: When Damon will do a meetup up in Paris next 🤪
yes !!
hope ASAP because I'm going to Paris in 10 days and ngl I would be salty af if I missed it
more like a meetup in NYC cause I'll be there next week 🤔
Yes! In May please!!
I’m a human, I saw CMBYN : i clicked..
this is probably my favorite episode. y'alls vibes are so good
“It’s the couch, it’s really squishy!” 😭 😂
the topics that these videos cover are so deep and existential and i love them so much T_T T_T T_T T_T
Unrelated but though I would share that from watching yours and Jo’s channels has motivated me to be independent as a traveller and just in general.I’ve met so many cool ppl thanks to your inspiration and learned a few langages along the way .Merci Damon je serai s’installer à Londres cette année xxx
This is honestly my favourite series on youtube! I love being able to hear you talk about such diverse and interesting topics in such a relaxed way. Please keep making them. Bisous!
I laughed so many times throughout this vid, one of my fav episodes !
this is m favourite red wine talks purely bc of the number of times call me by your name was brought up 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
it's good to know that there is someone that love 'call me by your name' as much as I do
What you guys were saying about acknowledging your emotions and that it’s a good thing to be able to have a range of emotions - I don’t know if you ever read Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, it’s a fantastic book. One of the things he talks about is when you’re feeling upset or down or sad or anything like that, it’s really important to recognize that emotion. To acknowledge it. Because once you acknowledge it, you’re actually able to separate yourself from that emotion and start to move on. I thought it related a little bit to what you guys were saying
I’m pretty young and never been in a relationship, and call me by your name really touched me because I feel like I relate to elio (in the book his inner dialogue is so well articulated it’s amazing to read his thought processes, highly recommend the book to anyone who has only seen the movie) but I don’t think I’ll ever experience something like that and I guess that’s why I cherish it so much. the story is just such a beautiful portrait of a boy in italy during the summer in the 80s like it’s so romantic even outside the love aspect - it romanticizes nature and family and art and music and intellect and all of it just comes together beautifully. I could talk about call me by your name forever
I'm in Barcelona right now on the phone with my travel best friend planning a trip to Milan and I said to her "Where is Damon Dominique? He needs to see me shut up and going!" and you posted this. Ugh! I'm so happy
Love love the style of these ❤️
love this series sooo much!!! And wouldn't mind if they were even longer! I don't think you have to edit them this short and 'quick', they can be more in-depth. I think most of us love hearing you talking!!
this is my fav red wine talks i love dominique 😭💖
Damon drop that Quora profile, those articles sound quite interesting
Damon, I am the exact same way with touch. My friends all have a joke that I’d melt them if they touch me lol. I blame it on being a Libra and having physical touch be very intense for me and my risk of literally falling in love with anyone
I really wanted sis to have her moment and talk about call me by your name some more cus its such a beautiful work of art...damn
I love her personality and your friendship omg
OMG YESSSSS finally a new episode. Found your channel through Ashley’s (bestdressed) episode. And honestly bin ged so many of your latest video uploads.
Think you are super super interesting. Love the whole Country/ city discussions and analysis.
I haves lived in London for 2 months and I am moving back there this year from Hamburg to study culture, criticism and curation / art history there (when it all works out) And I just love these diverse and open conversations and seeing so many people and their different perspectives.
Please talk to Dominique all the time because I love her.
OMG!! WE NEED DOMINIQUE BACK ON RED WINE TALKS.
clicked as soon as I saw it, one of the best series on youtube!!
I fucking love Dominique!! So funny, harbours the same emotional scarring from cmbyn and still hasn’t gotten over it? Same sis- a queen.
I have the same internal conflict about Azealia Banks. I don't know, though, I'm still gonna listen to her music.
Taeuna Æolyn 212 still slaps tho
11:02 “it's the couch it's really smooshyyyy” hhahahahaha omg I feel the same intense way about CMBYN ❤️😭
i luv dese talks these give me warm butterflies for some reason
the beginning with you saying that Dominique is still living in New York was HILARIOUS im not sure why but it had me laughing my ass off!! great video!!
im obsessed with this serie of videos omg
Please never let this series come to an end 🙏
damon's comments about growing up in the midwest are SO reLatAblE IT HURTS MY HEART
Gosh I LOVE her energyyy
I love this series so much. Everything feels always so deep and genuine like you can tell you've been friends enough to feel comfortable around each other. Also, shot out to the people on your ig that have the best suggestions tbh 😂you have such a lovely community supporting you! 💖
“Give me one thing you like about New York” followed by the clearing of the throat!!! Literally me
I totally get the "what even is the point" of what I am doing when I zoom out way far.
I have a lot of deja vu. Sometimes i get scared by deja vu of places I'm visiting for the first time. This is officially my fave series on youtube, sending love from Italy
Damon, I'm so relieved we share unpopular opinions. My issue is not quite the interruption by a child or a cute animal, it's the interruption itself. Or should I say the end of a deep conversation due to someone's inability to admit they are not informed enough to formulate an opinion or a counter argument to yours. Maybe it's all parents, but many African parents would rather shut up, end a discussion, and leave the situation than admit they don't know something, or that it's moving into some sensitive area they are not comfortable elaborating on!
literally no series I love more than this!!!
I feel the same with the baby/dog thing. ik they're cute, but i sometimes force interest so i don't come across as a sociopath
Both of y’all are so glamours
I love your topics. And the topic of our existence is totally underrated. And its great that you talked about it. It can be scary to think and talk about it but it doesn't really have to be a taboo.
Your brainzies is awesome and yes "Quora" reader here too😂
I think this series would make a great podcast (or just longer videos). I would love to listen to you guys go more in-depth with some of these topics, especially since your guests have such different backgrounds and perspectives.
Recently discovered your channel and am so smitten with your content. It is incredibly interesting to hear these conversations as someone who grew up with plural nationalities, having a multilingual upbringing and mixed-culture background. Bet many people identify with it. I happen to be French/Dutch with Indonesian roots. Absolutely adore your content.
Tous les sujets que vous abordez sont si enrichissants et intéressants, car j'ai rarement l'occasion d'avoir des conversations similaires avec qui que ce soit. J'ai l'impression de faire partie du cercle de discussion. Continuez à créer, vous êtes absolument fantastique. Much love, from the Netherlands.
i love hearing you talk, this is like a podcast but aesthetique
Love these red wine talks !! Am I the only one genuinely laughing with them and wanting to be friends?! Ill move to Paris in a heartbeat I swear 😂😂
Thank you because I decided to watch "call me by your name" thanks to you...and I don't regret it!
All of your friends seem so deep and insightful. I love it. I always look forward to watching these even if I'm always a few days late in doing so😀🧡
I feel so intellectual when i watch these tysm for this series! 💘💝💗💓💖💞💖💞💖💞💓💞💖💝
I love getting a picture of your social group
I sooooo wanna be seating in that couch with that vampire lighting with you two...
I wanted to comment on how Spain is still miles behind on the whole "white isn't the only race". I'm arab and, it's so true, there are two extremes, they either project on me all their very wrong and racist stereotypes or overcompensate with extreme niceness till the point of making it awkward. I'm sick of people starting sentences with the words "I'm not a racist but....[insert racist comment]". And I notice a huge difference between Madrid and smaller cities, no one cares about my race in madrid since I culturaly blend, but where I live (smaller city) I find myself continuously explaining why I don't fit into their bullshit idea about what an Arab girl looks like....
Ps, call me by your name is life.
this is the 4th video of red wine talks of Damon that i've watched today straight. haha what? the deadlines on nov. 4!
Loved the discussion of masculinity! Would really love it if "alternative" masculinities were actually not so alt
Dominique is such a queen
Besides being an absolutely insightful pair , you two were HILARIOUS! SOOO much love from S.A! ♥️🌻🌻🌻🦌
That coloring change in the outro, waking me up from the haze of this series 🙌🏼
the coloring change was sooo good! hope he keeps it
ah, just what i needed for a friday afternoon after school 😌 PLS NEVER STOP THIS SERIES
also what you guys were saying about touchiness with friends rllt struck a cord with me. When I traveled to Egypt last summer to see some family I noticed how non romantic touchiness was so common amongst friends. In the States, amongst my male friends its considered rlly weird to sit close together or anything like that. Since I've grown up in North America I'm not used to non-romantic touchiness but when it does happen I realize how touch starved I am
As a person also from Indiana I could not relate more when you were talking about the stealing and someone asking if they were black, but then turning around to say they aren't racist.
Damon I consider you a celebrity role model while simultaneously being a close friend. Crazy!
her voice is so soothing
*Hears noise*
“Imma bout to get a knife” 😂😂😂 meee
Oh my goodness ,I love you girl🧚🏽♀️of course Damon 🧚🏻♂️always love you
yo Damon 13:00 it's actually the most terrifying feeling/thought. like legitimately another level of scary. i have never been able to explain it quite right but they're thoughts that have been in my head since i was like 4 y/o. i used to get so scared from zooming out and wondering wtfffff is it like someone else's game of monopoly?
yesss my favorite series on yt!!!!
These talks warm my heart.💜Thank you.☺️