Art school, not giving a f*ck, thinking people don't like you, w🍷 and @The Purple Palace
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ก.ค. 2024
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It's Friday Night Red Wine Talks with Shayna, the IT girl of Paris!
my french course: courses.damondominique.com
🍷Segments
1:42 Art school in Paris + What did your friends think when you said you were going to school in Paris
3:05 Not getting stuck in the same project over and over + European taking their time
4:00 How she got to Paris + Au pairing in Paris + How Paris wasn’t in the picture until it was in the picture
6:00 Do you see yourself going back to the USA? + Deciding where to root oneself
10:00 The appreciation of art and culture in society as opposed to money
11:05 Being an artist + Is everyone creative? + Shayna’s Art Documentary
14:42 Parisians that don’t mind their business + They always got something to say!
15:50 Manifestation and the Law of Attraction + Your thoughts become reality
17:19 Self-expression through style + do you feel like you have to turn down your style for elegant French people + Street style in Paris
20:28 Perception of the self and of others + being triggered by people is a reflection of what you see or don’t see in yourself
22:00 Worrying that people don’t like you, then you act weird, and when they don’t like you cuz you were acting weird, and you just self-sabotaged to prove your own theory correct
24:30 Creativity over Profit + is money the ultimate goal?
26:45 Why rich people buy art
27:00 What’s the point of having money but no time?
28:45 The “Walking down the street” analogy
29:00 You only feel envy towards those of the same status of you
31:00 Deleted scenes
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Shayna's channel The Purple Palace ➡ / @thepurplepalace85
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Ahh I had so much fun doing this!! ❤️
We love you
@@Wee.low1 aw ily 2!
You are AMAZING!
Where is that shirt from?! Must be vintage!!! It’s PERFECTION.
you two are my favourite combo
pov : you are a parisian bird eavesdropping on two friends chatting in a park
Omg so cute lol
oh to be that bird!
Omg 100%
I -
omg haha. I am glad people like you exist.
the way you guys make me want to drop everything and move to france
Do it
SAME
right?
Why not
I am moving to France in September. Damon had at least 40% of a role in that decision.
"France is a tiny country"
Disagrees in European.
Ikr just check Italy out
try the uk lol
i agree from Denmark
Agreed from the Netherlands
when she said that I was like ???? FRANCE IS HUGE haha well it is when you are from the uk
can we talk about damon's arms! like okaaaay we see you!
Yeesss I was searching for this comment!! Freaking goals!
YES ARMS YES CHEST
most valuable commentary: wine is like fruit juice
It's a simple, yet true statement.
"France is a tiny country"
*stares in Luxembourg*
I don’t like our American culture’s views on living with parents and the pressure to achieve so much because I’m 27 and disabled with chronic illnesses so I have to live with my parents and can’t work, and I get judgment for it :( Most people I meet don’t know that I physically can’t live without help so they find out I live with my parents and make comments on it or make judgments without considering that there’s a reason.
I feel like there’s too much pressure to be independent and achieve here and that can end up tying in with ableism or discrimination against people who can’t or don’t fit into that mold. However I’ve met a lot of Spanish speakers and they think that living with parents at 30 is normal which has made me question what my culture has taught me is normal and acceptable which I hadn’t done before.
I'm Canadian, however, my parents are from Latin America. In our culture living at home is not a problem (actually preferred) but in Canada living at home at 24 is looked down upon. I had so many friends asking me when I'm going to move out, it's super annoying. I feel like every time I have to justify. If you are not going to pay my rent don't ask! Plenty of us are in the same boat, don't feel the need to justify, genuine people would understand!
bamboolibrary Thank you! I wish american/canadian cultures would come around a bit cuz the judgment is really annoying. Like let me live my life, it’s not hurting or affecting anyone else!
Fion On my way to asia✈️ jk haha but thanks for sharing. I like that asian cultures value family bonds like that. But what happens if someone there never finds marriage?
@@abcxyz4653 I have a couple of relatives who never got married and they are living with one of their siblings or with their parents. As Fion said, living with your parents is not looked down upon, but actually preferred here. I'm from the Philippines btw.
My parents are from Europe (France and Germany). My parents left their parents when they were 18. All of my cousins and I all left our parents in our late teens early 20s and ALL of us could not wait to leave. Even if we were handicapped, we would have left. Parents can be such a pain. All they want to do is lecture you day in and day out. This isn't right, that isn't right, so on and so forth like they know it all. We appreciate their advise but many times the decisions that we made for ourselves was better.
damon starts to look more and more like an ‘02 R&B artist with each red wine talk 😌
BEST COMPLIMENT I'VE EVER RECEIVED!
She’s the incarnation of Luna Lovegood and you can’t tell me otherwise
Right
or jules vaughn
“how would you act if you thought everyone in this place loved you for who you are” i’m going to think of this everyday :)
* people still live with their parents until they are like 30 *
As a European this felt too close to home cause in Greece people live with their parents for so many years, mainly because of the financial instability but even if they have a job they still choose to live with their parents because they think that it is more convenient than living by themselves .
Same here in Italy.. most of the times it's not because we want it (although a lot of people are really close to their family) but because we can't do otherwise.
i swear i watched the whole video right down to the deleted scenes but i somehow missed that - where in the vid is that topic talked about ?
Katie Johns 3:26
same in Brazil
I live in France but in a turkish family, and it’s the same. One of my cousins live with his parents, he’s more than 30, let alone that, he has been married 3 times. Every time, the woman came to the same house. Like wtf!! I could never.
"france is a tiny country"
"living with parents at 30 is a bit too much"
giiiiirl
RIGHT im from croatia and i was like,, a ti-tiny country??
Lol have you seen Russia? Canada ? The states, Brazil, etc... France is soooo tiny compared to those... Depends where you're coming from
Our one state of Texas is the same size as France. It takes 41 hours to drive from New York to Los Angeles, basically across to whole US mainland.
France IS a tiny country compared to the United States where she is from. For example, France is the size of about 3 states in the US. Our maps are so skewed and misleading.
@@nedboase7909
Maybe because I lived in two big countries... From my experience France is really small but ok
major Aquarius energy in this video 😍
yess major air energy
Laughts in a cool way.
The girl probably doesn’t have many planets in fixed signs; she even said she does not stick with the status quo if she feels unfulfilled which is great too, but a lack of follow through can have dire consequences as well.
I absolutely LIVE and BREATHE for this whole conversation. Despite all the travel restrictions, I'm still aching to move to a foreign country. But even at 21 I already feel so tied down by college and my relationships I've made in my hometown. The fact of the matter is that you always have to give up one reality for another.... It's costly.
You just described my situation I’m even 20. Girl let’s go and explore the world 💖
Note to self: don't compare myself to people similar me to avoid envy, only to billionaires
Thank you Shayna for introducing me to the idea that art is not just validated for its technical difficulty. As someone who is trying to rediscover his creative side, with all this new free time (thank you, lockdown?), it's been quite intimidating as I haven't been able to give much time to working on my technical skills. But the comment of "an artist is someone who works at it everyday" is inspiring!
I am in a similar place as you, I feel like this time for me is for relaxation. Creativity will hit me again once it has to. I haven’t been practicing nor improving my skills, everything will happen on its own time.
To me, it's like 15% technicality, 25% patience, and 60% experimentation. That's in the form of music though.
two main Americans of Paris
The Real Housewives of Paris.
@@damondominique hahahahahaha
28 & american. I’m still at home. I decided not to move out until I paid off all of my student loans and saved enough for a downpayment on a condo. Is it a bit weird? Yes, but I have to do what is right for my financial future. I encourage others to do the same. Debt is no fun.
As long as your parents don't care....
Cacilia Why I wouldn’t stay if they did.
It's not weird, it's smart. I'm doing the same thing. My parents gave me comfortable life..so of course I will help them. I'll rather give them money for bills, rather than pay rent, and live paycheck to paycheck, it's expensive to live alone on credit especially in my country.
So don't worry you're doing the smart thing!
It’s not weird at all. It is wise and totally okay. We shouldn’t measure our lives with other people rulers. I’m 19 but I wouldn’t give a shit about having to live at home at 30 if that is what I needed at that time for myself.
I dont like my parents enough for that haha
"You can't not care about what people think about you, but you have to care about something more than that"
"Money is a tool to get where you want to get" THIS!!! I'm reminded of something I learned in class. The more money one has the higher their 0 is. Basically the richer the person, the higher the amount of money they need to keep in order to feel secure. It's the idea of rich people hoarding money that they will not use and how unecessary it can be in the grand scheme of things. Of course, having money can get you places, but at some point, I think it holds you back rather than pushing you forward.
'the richer the person, the higher the amount of money they need to keep in order to feel secure' i'm saving this quote...it's so important! thanks for sharing
Okay so when I was broke and living pay to pay, I would spend money on absolute trash and ridiculous things... Now that I have abit of security I have become the absolute tightest cheapest ass you could ever meet. 🤔
@@breakfastattiffanys741 same, now I’m a penny pincher but I always save for emergencies and special occasions. It feel great to feel secure, but not hoard money to when it becomes a problem.
Damon referring to SUAG as a channel he “used” to have 😭
i was like woah luv dat caught me off guard
I knowww 😔
If he or Jo don't at least mention each other in a video soon i will flip my shit
people grow and move on with their lives, it's sad that damonandjo is over but they created wonderful videos for years and we should be thankful for that and move on with their new ventures as well.
@@stephenng53 oh no I agree but I also can't imagine a world where they're not friends, they went through so many highs and lows together, I think few things should be able to break them apart
Really liked how Shayna mentioned at the end why rich people buy culture! It reminded me of the sociology of culture by Pierre Bourdieu. The highest class are those who have cultural and economic capital.
When he said "some people are three years into medical school and still have six more and say well, I've already done three years" that hit too hard. That is exactly the situation I'm in right now and I have no idea what to do. It feels like I've been floating aimlessly through life and I have no idea if I really enjoy medicine or if there's something out there that I'll enjoy more. but at this point it feels like it's too late to turn back.
Maybe explore other things whilst you're in med school
Gap year girl
I'm the same, but for now I guess I'll just finish the degree and try figure it all out after
Honestly it's never too late to turn back. Maybe do some job shadowing at different jobs that interest you, go to different people's lectures and different kinds of classes for a bit. There are so many options , even if it's taking a gap year or 2 ;) . You can always change courses, find something new you like, drop the courses you're doing or take some time to explore what would be better. Do some research, think about it a bit and try explore by interning/job shadowing or maybe possibly even travelling-but I dont think theres any point in staying in something you dont like, just because you've always been there. That's like eating mac and cheese every night,even if you hate it, just because it's in your fridge. You can always buy new ingredients and make something new :) !
"French always got something to say, especially old ladies they don't mind their own business"
Me, an italian: ....why do I relate so much with them?!
'France is a tiny country' HAHAHA I live in Belgium and we consider ourselves tiny but then there's Luxembourg, Malta,... :P
Didn't expect to see another Belgian here🌸
Hahah exactly & Belgium representtt
europeans taking their time is a thing i appreciate the most about my folks (but lol we germans dont live with our parents til we're 30, most of us move out at 18 to go to uni or at around 20 so when they finished their training bruh we like to be independent xD)
yeah in the Netherlands most people move out before 24
yeah but germans youngens get money from their parents even after leaving home for a while after..
Well, I mean we may move out at 18 but that doesn't mean we're independet lol 🤷🏽♀️😂
@@DavidJapanese yeah if we go to university or some other kind of education there's a law 'forcing' our parents to give us some money to pay rent and food until were 25 or we have a jov :)
@@katrinbeck9743 we like to be doesnt mean we really are 😂
You should start including the name of the wine you are drinking in each episode and maybe the price too! I’m living in France and I still have no idea how to pick good wine 😂
Get the app Vivino!! Wine reviews for those questionable grocery store moments
I think good wine is a myth haha
@@panicatmybrain5933 how dare you!? 😳😂
Shayna is my ideal vibe, such serenity, I loved it. Felt all my anxiety melt away while watching this. Lovely
Yesss I love you two!!
ILY TIFF❤️I love it when my faves watch each other
I was so sure you’d be found in this comment section oml
Needed this, I’m stuck in such a rut I hate my office job (especially my team) it drains me and I cry ALOT but I just don’t even know what my next step is. I’m shy and quite and so scared of anything new 😩
i really hope one day you will have enough courage to come out of your comfort zone and experience new things that will for sure make you happier.
Thanks for being vulnerable! I understand it's hard to not know what you're next step is! You're not alone!! Peace & love :)
Carolina Urbaniak thank you so much 😊🥰
Melissa thank you 🥰
Do it this was a sign
DAMON HAS REALLY BEEN FEEDING US A LOT LATELY. EVERYBODY SAY THANK YOU DAMON
Damon, your talks are therapeutic.
Rich people buy art because it's an investment that can gain value like shares.
and to launder money lol
was gonna mention it is also for tax evasion reasons lol
As someone from the UK, the words “France is a tiny country” sounded so strange 😂
It’s weird because in France we don’t think of ourselves as a big country (at least size wise) I think
who ever yes exactly-it’s just funny 😂
iwilitu it’s weird considering france is the third biggest country in europe
elysian yeah exactly
elysian , first biggest country in the EU though.
"If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us."
I watched the purple palaces’ version as well ! Even drunker and funnier :)
YUP that's cuz she was like...alright let's start my video rn! and i was like...but we JUST finished the entire bottle (and a half). she was like....exactly.
On the topic of creativity, I think everyone is creative when they are children, and that all kids don't let any exterior judgement stop them from expressing how they truly feel. But as we grow older, only a few will be left that have learnt how to keep their fearlessness as a child and free thinking that society tends to try and take away from us. And these people are the artists.
"how would u act if everyone loved u for u are" good advice
Honestly, as a struggling 21-year-old, that bit about acting as if everyone wants the best for you + vulnerability lifted the veil a bit!
been watching for 2 minutes and this girl SCREAMS aquarius
“How dare you play with the game of life.” Straight facts, Damon.✨
"The ultimate richness is the quality of life we're living" 🍷
This setting is so dreamy🤩. Also for some reason i didnt realize she was wearing jeans for the first few minutes, the filter of the video and paint on them (plus I was watching in dim light) made me see them as like some high-waisted purple chiffon trousers
This is video a piece of art to me, it’s inspiring to me mentally and physically.
feltttttttt
These red wine talks really be getting me through quarintine PERIODT
Same 👏👏
i literally drink along and pretend im part of the conversation
Pretty sure the average person in the UK lives at home until they're around 30ish. Housing is just too expensive and not viable for the average person in their early twenties.
People just rent, or at least where I live
good god i love this man in the most platonic way possible
Damon is giving me Libra vibes with his pros and cons about moving #libragang
And shayna is AQUARIOUS vibes
Libra gang!!!
10:28 it's funny that as a european I always thought of this the other way around. When I was in the US everything work / school related seemed way more chill than in Europe. Maybe it's different here in Germany? But my family and everyone I know is definitely very obsessed with money and getting a good job / education as fast as possible! People are even stressing me out right now cause I decided to take a 6 month break before beginning my studies due to the virus.
That’s definitely just a very German thing and not really the rest of Europe. Germany is similar to US culture in that sense. Although maybe more so once out of school.
@@ellemacs Yeah I think you're right! God I hate it, wish it wasn't like that lol
the coloring on this vid was really good for my pre-bedtime eyeballs
I love this!! Also in Australia, 'root' can be used as a synonym for 'fuck' so I giggled at 'deciding where to root oneself'
"the ultimate ideal of wealth is time" yesyesyess
I didn't realise I was creative until I was 27 because I had always been told that I was academic. Realizing our creativity is so much about identity. And I see creativity as purely creating, manifesting into reality which we all do constantly. I believe that no art can ever be measured, it is all infinitely valuable as it is purely creation.
I have learnt so much from these conversations omg. They've totally changed my perspective on art, money, and making it as a creative later on in life. Thank youuu
Can we all just agree this is the BEST collab??
I'm envious of YOU GUYS!!! I am going to live a good life, traveling and gaining culture SPEAKING IT INTO EXISTENCE.
You guys are like my imaginary real life best friends 😂
@ 16:50, what u guys said about how the things u say in the present can influence how things may turn out in the future reminded me of how we say "words become seeds" (말이 씨가 된다) in korea
not like anyone had to know lmao
It’s interesting being born in Canada and being raised by my immigrant Guatemalan parents because I realize how out of touch I am with the “Canadian view” of things. My parents would never have a problem with me or any of my siblings living with them as long as we wanted. We have a very strong sense of family so we always planned to live with our parents and help out with bills and groceries while paying off our student debt. When my Canadian friends realized I didn’t plan to move out for university they told me that I wasn’t living my life to the fullest. I started to feel pressure and question my dreams and if I was just settling or was a bother to my parents until they told me they want me to do whatever makes me happy. My cousins have this “Canadian” perspective as well. Their parents grew up here and went to school here. My cousins are second generation Canadians that don’t speak Spanish and I’m a first generation cause my parents were adults when they came. There’s nothing wrong with that of course but it’s interesting when we get together and talk how differently we think. It’s really fascinating how your environment and language you speak shapes your mentality. Since I always related more to my Guatemalan roots and am fluent in Spanish home life had more of an effect on me.
Elisa Lopez how is it for Latinos in Canada naw I’m trying to move there
@@sam-ix2ug At least in my experience you don't feel out of place cause everybody is from a different country and most embrace their culture. Of course it depends on where you live. The GTA is very multicultural and I have never lived in another province so i can't really tell you much about other areas. Racism always exists obviously especially in specific areas.
Definitely thank you!
I’m a guy from Louisiana and my fiancé is from Paris and he was so angry with all of Damon’s bank stories. Not mad at Damon but mad that the French banks and apartments were treating Damon like that. We had soooooo many conversations about it. We’re both very happy for Damon that the apartment and bank account saga is over.
Wow. That video... just... wow.
12:42 istg when I first discovered Shayna's channel her style reminded me so much of emilia fart. you can reeeeally see the influence
"how would you act if everyone in the room loves you for who you are?" - this might change my life, as someone who doesn't like to show themselves to people, anxiety bla
'i feel like i live in a way that's pretty positive and i'm trying to do good things... and then i'll be at the damn plant market and the lady is like DON'T TOUCH THAT'
why did this kill me 😂
Aww, you two!!! 🥰🎶❤️
i love hearing y'all just talk about creative things. i lack that in my daily life, communication isn't very passionate with the people i talk to but i love this!!
When she said France is a very tiny country, I started laughing so hard. I understand her point of view but since I am from Austria for me France is big!
I have been waiting for this!!!
Thank you for this omg
I love this so much!!!
loved this
I love this
This is amazing!
I NEEDED to hear this, thank you ❤️
I love this so much 🥺
Love this chats 🤩
This was incredible💕
love this video
Lol love the talk and love the cut
amazing video!!!!
Love this series!
I LOVE these videos!!! Never stop
Love this one so much wisdom
This is what I’ve been waiting for ☺️
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS DAMON!!!!!!!
I loved this whole video
i love this series!
i freaking love these videos😍👏
So amazing guys :)
I love this series!!
and then i'll be at the damn plant market and the lady is like "dont touch that"
this just made my day :)
This is the one we were waiting for
Omg, I have been waiting for this for so long, yay!!🎉🎉🎉
I've researched creativity for my thesis on songwriting. Creativity can be defined as making something that has value. Everyone is creative, fixing a problem often is creative. In your youth, we often get told that we can't do something, and we get afraid to express new creative ideas because we are afraid to get critique from peers/parents. Creativity can be re-learned! It needs to happen in a safe environment in which you shouldn't feel afraid to fail. Take creative risks, dare to express yourself
This is really special.
I love you both!!!!!!
Love your red wine talks
I enjoyed this video so much!