Story time | Losing my 9 months old baby in a car accident | how to handle grief pain and loss

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  • @matshepomawela
    @matshepomawela ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always thought I was a strong woman until I met U. Since I started following you in 2022, I realised that I am weak and you took my hand, picked me up and helped revive my self esteem slowly day by day. I love U sisters❤❤️

  • @gadifelelecholo9759
    @gadifelelecholo9759 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oooh madam 😢😢we share the same pain, i lost my one year old in a car accident last year February just after he turned 1. I literally picked him up after the accident happened i held him at the scene when he took his final breathe im the one hu declared him dead bcos i could feel him turning cold😢😢😢may God heal us.

  • @siziphiwemtiya8090
    @siziphiwemtiya8090 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Soo Triggered by this😭😭😭
    I lost my bby boy Lutendo 2018 at 3 months and I wish one day I can be able to talk about it.. He died on my arms, I watched his soul leaving his tiny body, there was nothing I could do other blowing his nose just to keep him alive.. but anyway thanks for sharing your story ❤

  • @nomsatorcida9612
    @nomsatorcida9612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wasn't sure if I was ready to watch this video.. The pain of losing a child can never be compared. I lost mine in 2019 and I'm still healing. I Thank God for blessing me with another son.

  • @pulanetheo7826
    @pulanetheo7826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a total as a Christian. After the worst 4 yrs of my life . I didn’t want to consult anyone or anything for me to have a tattoo. I needed pain to take away my pain . I am sorry for your loss 😢.

  • @ms.kayzondwa3176
    @ms.kayzondwa3176 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love, light and healing to you Madam. I can't imagine the pain you've lived with all these years. Sending warm hugs.

  • @mamikiphalane7977
    @mamikiphalane7977 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing ur storie ....i can relate i lost my second born when he was 1 year 6 months ....small coffins are the heaviest to carry 😭😭...love and light to you❤

  • @itanimathoma2584
    @itanimathoma2584 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. I lost my 2 month old 2 years ago. God gave me another son 9 months later but yoh. I really am struggling with missing my first born 💔💔💔

  • @Ownnarrativepodcast
    @Ownnarrativepodcast ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please this is heartbreaking.. deeply sorry for this experience 🥺❤️

  • @lahjashikuma7971
    @lahjashikuma7971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A tiny coffin is the heaviest. Sending you love and light mama.

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so sorry, I cried because I can’t even loosing any of my kids😢

  • @PhindiXolo
    @PhindiXolo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You mentioned the psychological part, i agree with you. Its impossible to address it in terms of healing psychologically

  • @tshiamomahape292
    @tshiamomahape292 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love and light mummy, sorry that you went through such a painful experience its even unimaginable its something that one can fully understand and comprehend with when they have went through it themselves

  • @zaneleluhabe8863
    @zaneleluhabe8863 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing your story;I can relate.Went through a similar experience with my late daughter.Sorry about your your loss sisi.May her beautiful soul continue to rest in eternal peace.Love&light to you Queen 🕯 ♥

  • @tshiamomahape292
    @tshiamomahape292 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for sharing your story, and opening up to us

  • @Therapistyakagaza
    @Therapistyakagaza ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ooh a tiny coffin 😢😢May our babies rest in peace

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 ปีที่แล้ว

    You did so well in telling the story Mama, I was so emotional opening it

  • @lady_germ_stone1517
    @lady_germ_stone1517 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yooo the truth in all your Videos 👌👌👌💯💯💯💯

  • @tebellomotabaaletta9988
    @tebellomotabaaletta9988 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love & light Mummy ! ❤️❤️💕

  • @Peaceful_17
    @Peaceful_17 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I lost mine at 3months, depressed n mourned her 4 years was only comforted whn my son was born after 7yrs. But i stil feel da pain of losing her, hv accepted but pain stil da.

  • @becomingwz
    @becomingwz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The tattoo chat is so liberating. I myself have a few pieces and have since been contemplating getting more work because of the bible’s outlook on it - However, I too have found that tattoos have aided me alot in my healing processes in the past. Im definitely getting another piece. Thank you for sharing sesi. 🤍🫂

  • @mythoughts9245
    @mythoughts9245 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think the tatto is giving u the psychological talk therapy u needed bcz ppl are asking u about it, and you are talking about it. Talking is important, and admitting pain is a path to healing. Its a journey, cathu cathu kancane kancane babes

  • @ramaselaviolet2993
    @ramaselaviolet2993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ijoooo 😭, sorry to hear that 🤗🥰

  • @prisca2blessedxoli662
    @prisca2blessedxoli662 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sis wam it is well iNkosi iyazi!Love and strength ❤️🙏

  • @mgosinomagatsheni6696
    @mgosinomagatsheni6696 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love and light lovy❤❤

  • @nangasikade2992
    @nangasikade2992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm sorry Sis💔😓

  • @TraciLebo
    @TraciLebo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After Tshiamiso, the other child is ? I only got Entle at the end.. Beautiful Setswana names.

  • @chunnis05-bk2mt
    @chunnis05-bk2mt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love and light❤❤

  • @xolileradebe8022
    @xolileradebe8022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waiting patiently 😌

  • @humbelanimbonzhe1971
    @humbelanimbonzhe1971 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lolove and light to you mommy ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kgomotsotakadi2617
    @kgomotsotakadi2617 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @mpumelelomtombothi9941
    @mpumelelomtombothi9941 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, I needed this :)

  • @londiwemakhubo9034
    @londiwemakhubo9034 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing my speaker 😭😭

  • @tumimukhola2174
    @tumimukhola2174 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry dear🌸🌸

  • @Paballo_Afrika
    @Paballo_Afrika ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot wait. The suspense is killing me, next time please premier earlier 🙈

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol I’m sorry! I’ll do morning premiers sometimes

  • @noziphoshongwe9523
    @noziphoshongwe9523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My comment is unrelated to the content. Sis I just want to compliment your hair❤❤❤❤. Straight hair is the one for you my darling.

  • @cathymakoma8964
    @cathymakoma8964 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eish vhathu,sorry nwana hashu.Mudzimu vhamu fholise.

  • @Noko_Masholoane
    @Noko_Masholoane ปีที่แล้ว

    Deep down I want to watch this, but I am scared. I have never lost a baby. But I’m scared to watch

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m already crying at 4 minutes

  • @queenmbedzi7633
    @queenmbedzi7633 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you neh?🥰

  • @nelzg5819
    @nelzg5819 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was never ready for this painful experience even if its another woman's story. The sadness and the pain is tremendous.
    Wow. At a loss for words indeed. Love and light always

  • @zanele3374
    @zanele3374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ke eng mozalwane za za za?

    • @masingitashelly2270
      @masingitashelly2270 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meaning she's an undiluted Christian, a typical Christian, she's not mixing it with anything, akere some ppl are Christians but still go consult sangomas.

  • @humbulanimulaudzi6459
    @humbulanimulaudzi6459 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so u would understand if your husband dont forgive you?

  • @lesley_lezley
    @lesley_lezley ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @minnydinga1074
    @minnydinga1074 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @kwenamokgokong8291
    @kwenamokgokong8291 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤍✨🤍

  • @zandymkwanazi9070
    @zandymkwanazi9070 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️

  • @MmusiRadipabe
    @MmusiRadipabe ปีที่แล้ว

    Askies...🌻❤‍🩹

  • @janetcrowe7572
    @janetcrowe7572 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sin comes from the heart. Getting a tattoo is a sin like over eating is. For ALL have sinned and come short of the glory of God. We can not, ever, be sinless on this side of Heaven. Getting a tattoo should be the least thing one needs to repent over. Plus many people get their favorite Bible verses tattooed. Also speak it, claim it kinds of faiths aren't biblical. Jesus said "in this life you will have tribulations." That means we will go through very hard things. Never let anyone down you using the false saying " God doesn't put more on us than we can handle." People have mental breaks every day over pain and grief. Our minds are flesh and flesh breaks. What I can promise is we have a God who grieves with us. He knows what it feels like to watch a child die. He watched his only begotten son die a horrible death he didn't have to go through to save mankind. The comfort we have is in knowing our precious little ones are in his hands in paradise and if we put our faith in Christ we will see them again. God sees death from the other side so we just have to lean on him. Thanks for sharing this most intimate experience with us. Be blessed

  • @humbulanimulaudzi6459
    @humbulanimulaudzi6459 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you should have peed -