I Shared My Home With A Stranger For 1.5 Years | Housing the Homeless

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  • @taekrevenge
    @taekrevenge ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    Bless Mr Clifford, we only knew him as a counselor at school, but we didnt know that he was also going above and beyond outside of it!

    • @WhoTao-nm1uw
      @WhoTao-nm1uw ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I had no idea he was doing this.

    • @heavyx8
      @heavyx8 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WhoTao-nm1uw dam

  • @nataliarufusdevainthran5489
    @nataliarufusdevainthran5489 ปีที่แล้ว +727

    I am very grateful that Clifford didn't sugar coat things and was very honest about his feelings. Atleast he is very direct about house rules and stuff like that. And all the best for Dev and his future. Hope you achieve all the success that you want. We need more people like Clifford in this world

    • @Founderschannel123
      @Founderschannel123 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      His considered very lucky since my grandmother sister sold her flat all because the friend convinced her to sell it like peer pressure and became homeless after that with no one to take care of

    • @Founderschannel123
      @Founderschannel123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also she works at little india where the flower shops are and she annoying asf

  • @salbenrosli707
    @salbenrosli707 ปีที่แล้ว +1066

    Respect Clifford.... not many people like him to suddenly take in someone's boy to care

  • @endi4654
    @endi4654 ปีที่แล้ว +698

    So wholesome to see strangers of different races living together where one is helping the other. Bless both of them.

    • @jessicaregina1956
      @jessicaregina1956 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So disgusting

    • @endi4654
      @endi4654 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jessicaregina1956 I think you have a problem. Your heart need to be fixed. Seek therapy or something.

    • @romeo89281
      @romeo89281 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@jessicaregina1956 Why????

    • @rpgdreamer8690
      @rpgdreamer8690 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      They are both asian. India is in Asia and i'm guessing that's the ethnicity of the boy.

    • @endi4654
      @endi4654 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@rpgdreamer8690 Indian is a race, Chinese is a race, Uighur is a race. Asian is a collective title for people within the continent of Asia.
      So are you telling me if you meet a Balkan, Scandinavian and an Italian, they're of the same race since they're Europeans?

  • @michelleleo2505
    @michelleleo2505 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    Clifford is an absolute gem and I really feel for Dev. I hope things will work out for him:).

  • @JJboy4Flower
    @JJboy4Flower ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Apart from the both of them.
    We should also thanks the social worker who are handling this case. He/she really done well, often time social workers are been forgotten in such a video. Without them, there won’t be such a happy news. Nonetheless, I’m happy for them! 😊😊

  • @calvinchua9131
    @calvinchua9131 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    Clifford is an amazing individual. I salute to you! Dev is equally as amazing. It’s never easy being a young boy without a home. Kudos to the both of you. Both of you are an inspiration to me.

    • @heavyx8
      @heavyx8 ปีที่แล้ว

      very kind

  • @echelontimepieces22
    @echelontimepieces22 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    This man deserves all the good fortune in the world! An example for all of us to strive towards!

    • @jessicaregina1956
      @jessicaregina1956 ปีที่แล้ว

      This man deserves all the calamity in the world!

    • @GeeWhizzzz
      @GeeWhizzzz ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes...
      Clifford Lam is
      something else
      👍👍👍👍

  • @whitedancer5866
    @whitedancer5866 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    What an amazing human being.

  • @Flaoe
    @Flaoe ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Mr Clifford is the best thing that could've happened to me, he gave me so much helpful advice, always cheering me up when i wasn't in the right head space. THANK YOU MR CLIFFORD YOU ARE THE COOLEST PERSON EVER!!

  • @evannewu
    @evannewu ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Poor boy. So glad this is a happy story.

    • @lucylee3743
      @lucylee3743 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea many more positive coming

  • @jaydenplayz001
    @jaydenplayz001 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Hi Mr Clifford! Our school councellor! I like how you are so positive, whether on TV or when you are addressing the school in morning reflection

  • @WhoTao-nm1uw
    @WhoTao-nm1uw ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Mr clifford was my counsellor back then, I was surprised to see that he was kind enough to let a stranger live in his own house

    • @ignorethepain.4296
      @ignorethepain.4296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is he a good councilor?

    • @WhoTao-nm1uw
      @WhoTao-nm1uw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ignorethepain.4296 he’s definitely gentle

  • @esmediamarketingldn
    @esmediamarketingldn ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "I don't believe it can't be worked out" that's family 💪🏽

  • @AznMami4u
    @AznMami4u ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Such a beautiful story, kudos to Clifford who look beyond race to help. This is what Singapore should always practice kindness without bias.

  • @sweetsweet3753
    @sweetsweet3753 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Dev - you sound like a very neat grounded young person with a good sense of humour and positive character. Wishing you good luck as you navigate life. Nice work Clifford!!

  • @DK3n70
    @DK3n70 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Clifford is so commendable. Really made a difference in someones elses life

  • @tommyliangwei3724
    @tommyliangwei3724 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So blessing adoptive father and adoptive son

  • @tammytilley6051
    @tammytilley6051 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a blessing you are to this young man ,, he will always look back on this as a blessing

  • @nathanmalik1697
    @nathanmalik1697 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was quite emotional to watch. God bless you both. Love from Lagos, 🇳🇬

  • @Val_kyriee
    @Val_kyriee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Above and beyond. I am just impressed beyond words. Dev is a lucky person and should make the most of it. I wish I had someone like clifford when I was younger and going through my struggles.

  • @haREZZAA
    @haREZZAA ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Uncle Clifford is what everyone needs in life..

  • @TheFangGirl
    @TheFangGirl ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is a wonderful story. hats off to Clifford for opening his heart and home, as well as Devaraj for turning out to be such a good kid

  • @TheAcizgirl
    @TheAcizgirl ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Deveraj, look far and positive surround yourself with positive people. Wish you all the best :)

    • @lucylee3743
      @lucylee3743 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This man is heart of Gold, May God bless him abundantly

  • @changmark
    @changmark ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Mr. Clifford, you are a real jewel 💎 of a person. God bless you

  • @ayekai7506
    @ayekai7506 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    happy for them... wishing dav the best in his life forward!

  • @lucylee3743
    @lucylee3743 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This world need more of this kind of man/people help people with pure intentions

  • @Kathakathan11
    @Kathakathan11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These lovely people make this life worth celebrating. Bless you both with lots of love. I learned in geeta that compassion is foundation of righteousness. These guys know it already. Great simply great.

  • @donoui101
    @donoui101 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God bless u Dev, I can tell u r good person who will help others in future. And thank u Clifford, Singapore is a better place becos there’s people like u. God bless both of u. This CNA story really made my day.

  • @fazrayyy
    @fazrayyy ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God bless u Clifford. Man is selfless. How many of us would open our home to a total stranger and share whatever we have with someone in need?

  • @gnoek
    @gnoek ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never thought there will be such arrangement in Singapore except overseas. Thanks CNA for this excellent video.

  • @brendatyler-ku3so
    @brendatyler-ku3so ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clifford is an absolute gem and I really feel for Dev. I hope things will work out for hi

  • @virtualworldofcraps2237
    @virtualworldofcraps2237 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They both opened up to each other. Tht is a blessing.

  • @waikitteo3058
    @waikitteo3058 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome. I think people should know both kindness and hurt both gets passed along in society. I'm glad that among all the violence and hate that we see in society today, there's another side where people pass kindness forward, and keeps kindness in motion.

  • @azfarz7698
    @azfarz7698 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    respect to both of you. dev i hope you find peace and comfort in the future and have a better relationship with ur family. try your best and you will definitely succeed in whatever you do. all the best for your future endeavours 😇

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's awesome clifford
    Rarely we have people in sg show such hospitality and warmth!!

  • @infj4w511
    @infj4w511 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:07 It's so cool to hear him say 'I've been blessed so much, and I also want to bless him' as he'd then just got out of a divorce

  • @rleeusaraga77
    @rleeusaraga77 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Clifford thank you for everything you do to this young man. ❤️

  • @thatone8085
    @thatone8085 ปีที่แล้ว

    This young guy is a smart and a survivor in the world. He will go far maybe an MP one day to help others too.His parents will regret.
    God please bless this super kind and nice man. Singaporean with a big heart.

  • @evama6348
    @evama6348 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'd love an update on Dev! Who else wants one too?!

  • @chloethea25
    @chloethea25 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amazing to see these stories! And I love how real their relationships is. Respect!

  • @jenniferlim2941
    @jenniferlim2941 ปีที่แล้ว

    talk the talk and walk the walk. definitely a role model. Thank You Mr Clifford

  • @dengarmuzikbukankritikartis
    @dengarmuzikbukankritikartis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Semoga En. Clifford sentiasa diberikan rezeki yang luas, dan En. Dev dimudahkan perjalanan dalam kerjaya dan kehidupan.

  • @ivygeorgeho
    @ivygeorgeho ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clifford is truly God sent to young Dev , a heart of love and kindness . Having a stranger living with him is not easy , i'm sure Dev is grateful to clifford for allowing him to shelter him for 1.5 yrs is a pretty long period.
    Bless your soul Clifford for being encouraging and spending time guiding him .
    Yes we need more councilor , social worker and volunteer like clifford .
    As for Dev you're indeed very bless to have a comfortable roof over your head ,and is a blessing for you to meet Clifford .
    I wish you all the best of success and happiness in the near future dev . Study and work hard dev , believe in yourself that you can have a great and bright future ahead .God Bless you both !!

  • @Thehonestruth
    @Thehonestruth ปีที่แล้ว

    Good on you Mr Clifford I Hope you both stay in touch and have keep having a prosperous lovely relationship

  • @2CSM-w2o
    @2CSM-w2o ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bless your heart uncle Clifford.

  • @fya1963
    @fya1963 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so heartwarming. Bless them both

  • @cmanish93
    @cmanish93 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Clifford, god bless you man.

  • @rhuyisia8163
    @rhuyisia8163 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Such a kind soul! Bless them both! 👍

  • @user-oh6wb5rj2q
    @user-oh6wb5rj2q ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The world is much better with people like him

  • @TheAlvinsoh37
    @TheAlvinsoh37 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Clifford is an angel

  • @michaelseet9320
    @michaelseet9320 ปีที่แล้ว

    good chemistry!!! well done both!! May you both be blessed with peace love and happiness.

  • @safia07
    @safia07 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s so heart warming! Made my day better!

  • @sysy2685
    @sysy2685 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    this uncle Clifford is such a saint la. How come cannot get gf ? omg with a heart like tt whats there not to love😢

  • @kklum6998
    @kklum6998 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very touching story. Fate brings them together.

  • @somaticasia
    @somaticasia ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Clifford. Dev, hope you are doing well now.

  • @M15Guys
    @M15Guys ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uncle Clifford looks the same age as Dev !!!! Brilliant man ! xx

  • @tenga3tango
    @tenga3tango ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The biggest satisfaction for Uncle Clifford is to See Davaraj bloom into an independent young man in the future .

  • @alfiedj
    @alfiedj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you Mr Clifford 🤲

  • @khadijah3519
    @khadijah3519 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless You Mr. Clifford & Dev! You both will continue prosper. Mr. Clifford would you do this again with another youth? Thanks for being great humans gentlemen.🌺

  • @zAlaska
    @zAlaska ปีที่แล้ว

    Not everybody can stand or wants to. I have helped several homeless, success for some, others not so much. It's nice having someone around when you're living by yourself.

  • @mahen77
    @mahen77 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God bless Clifford❤

  • @nicholasbolas
    @nicholasbolas ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Always look around you. Despite the poor climate we're in right now (war, disease, economy), there are angels among us.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 ปีที่แล้ว

      From their accents I think they from Singapore, their no war or disease in Singapore, they might have economic issues but they in better position then many other countries

  • @jacuz6581
    @jacuz6581 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone needs a Clifford in their lives

  • @PulunganHadee
    @PulunganHadee ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate & grateful of my childhood upbringing.

  • @saiwahng9611
    @saiwahng9611 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true human, meaning that he understand the way to be thankful to God,

  • @raziazee4907
    @raziazee4907 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This kind of person diffcult to find n i think Dev is really bless to have met Mr Clifford ❤️👍

  • @agneschua1289
    @agneschua1289 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All the best to Dev!

  • @gsatchu111
    @gsatchu111 ปีที่แล้ว

    clifford awsome guy,god bless you.Hope the kid learn values from you.Wish both of you guys well

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kindness is precious

  • @teslasoul
    @teslasoul ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing both have blessful days onwards

  • @vaisravana2092
    @vaisravana2092 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Who rubbed onions in my eyes?
    I AM NOT CRYING!! YOU ARE CRYING!!!
    Jokes aside...so very glad for the young man.
    Spent a part of my youth on the streets myself.
    And with young folks like that you never know.
    There might be traumata, there might be abuse and and and...Just taking in a stranger is not so easy, taking in a kid with potentially a lot of issues...it is not that simple. Taking the risk, going the way...
    I can not express how much that means.
    For people like that, having someone who can serve as an example, who shows them what discipline is but also shows compassion nd kindness and maybe tells them that they re not worthless and useless...it can have such a huge impact.
    I myself in the end made it off of the streets, but the precious few friends I had back in those days did not.
    They were no saints, none of us were.
    But they were very good natured people at their core that had been dealt some very bad cards.
    Honest, loyal, incredibly hard working, striving for a better future.
    A few of them certainly more intelligent than me as well.
    They just didn't have that last bit of luck.
    Having any sort of helping structure or someone reaching out to you in such a situation can really change a life for the better.
    But as I said, I fully acknowledge it is not an easy thing to do.
    Only thing I can say is - God bless those two.
    Wish them nothing but the very best.
    Thank you for sharing their story.

  • @mystery_murmurs
    @mystery_murmurs ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Very nice of him

  • @thomaswilke6312
    @thomaswilke6312 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless Mr Clifford. I hope Dev all the very best in his future endeavors

  • @bhavin1100
    @bhavin1100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless Clifford. What a absolute gem

  • @bahshiking8018
    @bahshiking8018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone needs a daddy

  • @tigercoke
    @tigercoke ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lucky of dev to plan to move out like this! i’m the same age as you and i don’t have the same opportunity.

  • @jsc5423
    @jsc5423 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It was so good of this man opening his home to a stranger. It works both ways too that people need to follow rules when someone has invited them in to their space. If someone opened their home to me I would do my best to respect their wishes. Especially where sleep is concerned. Most of us want to have a good night sleep and it can affect our performance if we don't so he should have respected his host in that but hopefully he has learnt from this as he grows into a young adult. Blessings to this good man for opening up his home." Give and it shall be given to you..." Luke 6:38

  • @jornalistarenatarosa4205
    @jornalistarenatarosa4205 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so touching! God bless you for so much kindness!

  • @RCCARZAUTOMOTIVE
    @RCCARZAUTOMOTIVE ปีที่แล้ว

    such a good person. two thumbs up

  • @positivity20
    @positivity20 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    May be this video will open new opportunities for Mr Clifford.. 👍

  • @wendelynlee8544
    @wendelynlee8544 ปีที่แล้ว

    GOD Bless U ~ CLIFFORD on your big heart &
    All the Very Best to both of U . 😘

  • @kongsweelean8613
    @kongsweelean8613 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so kind!

  • @TheSunMoon
    @TheSunMoon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing story! Glad it all worked out!

  • @agneschua1289
    @agneschua1289 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is so heartwarming to know people like Clifford exist! Salute you, Clifford!

  • @kenziesoon5228
    @kenziesoon5228 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    shoutout to mr clifford from montfort secondary school 🎉

  • @Zoids-bf6op
    @Zoids-bf6op ปีที่แล้ว +1

    they actually do look like father and son!

  • @perfectlyimperfect4585
    @perfectlyimperfect4585 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so sweet

  • @moltenvanilla
    @moltenvanilla ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank God for Clifford, you are a role model for many people :)

  • @mattyming5962
    @mattyming5962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So heartwarming

  • @boonluitang7727
    @boonluitang7727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless both of you 🤗

  • @ak4472
    @ak4472 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect Clifford

  • @marylee2732
    @marylee2732 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great idea!!! Divorced man with foster son.

  • @tt260
    @tt260 ปีที่แล้ว

    very frank sharing, good qualtiy documentary

  • @KironManuelCards
    @KironManuelCards ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Certainly a good story to hear .I was in Singapore for five years but all were materialistic.

  • @MsRockzz
    @MsRockzz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you both!

  • @5kplamse
    @5kplamse ปีที่แล้ว +3

    correct. thats becos the govt is totally hands off in helping the homeless. luckily we have kind citizens who step up to help.

  • @suhasinih9879
    @suhasinih9879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dev, have you ever thought about traveling to India? It will give you new energy, hope, and may be direction in life. My best wishes to you. Mr Clifford is a gem 💎 Besh wishes to both!

  • @deadsetondreams1988
    @deadsetondreams1988 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is very lucky that this went the way that it did. We had a family friend who did the EXACT same thing as this man did. He opened up his house to a man who was homeless and in need. The homeless man, instead, of being grateful as this child has been. Ended up murdering him because he wanted to take over the entire house instead of sharing it with anyone. While this seems to be a particularly heartwarming story, it doesn't always turn out as wholesome as this one has. Please be careful when letting others into your homes; not everyone is as emotionally stable or grateful as this young man.

    • @SMAnthonyW
      @SMAnthonyW ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s horrible. I’m so sorry to hear that. However, I think this story is different… Dev was not a grown man but a kid that had been in the foster care system that was supervised by a social worker. And Clifford stated that he had extensive and ongoing conversations with Dev’s biological father and social worker(s) that were caring for him prior and during the initial months of his stay. So while it isn’t exactly adoption, it’s sort of like an unconventional adoption. Your family friend’s case is absolutely tragic and terrible, but it sounds like the person he let in was just a random homeless man from the streets without any identification. So while the cautionary tale is important, I don’t think it’s apples to apples here.

  • @banana649
    @banana649 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WAIT MR CLIFFORD?!???!?!? Dude was the guy that made me go to counselling, chill dude tho