Codemaster At 13: Realities Of Growing Up As A Gifted Teen

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  • @Biskwyy
    @Biskwyy ปีที่แล้ว +7382

    Nobody talks about how gigachad Dehan is though for speaking up for his classmate

    • @chunazre3905
      @chunazre3905 ปีที่แล้ว +563

      Beyond just speaking up, he actually bothers to enter Seth's world in hopes of fully embracing him. Real gigachads-

    • @yuji3034
      @yuji3034 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Facts W Dehan

    • @Shut_Up
      @Shut_Up ปีที่แล้ว +44

      He also look like hamza a little bit

    • @edandoesart
      @edandoesart ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Shut_Up he doesn’t look like hamza tho 👀

    • @Shut_Up
      @Shut_Up ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@edandoesart Dehan is his Indian looking friend no?
      If yes he look a little like hamza like when he wad young if i saw

  • @joshxzy
    @joshxzy ปีที่แล้ว +1284

    I have a "seth" in my school actually, He usually finishes his work in class then side tracks playing games in my school, that was 1 year ago and now hes my friend

    • @schadenfreude6274
      @schadenfreude6274 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Good for you, i'm so proud of you. Your mother must be very proud of you too. :)

    • @tommymerelte4399
      @tommymerelte4399 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just made me smile ❤

    • @spline5243
      @spline5243 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      im not gonna lie i think that's just a normal student

    • @tgo007
      @tgo007 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know someone who has a genius IQ. He went the creative path in life working on music/art/movies/special effects. Lives a pretty average life which is fine. I just thought he was gonna do some big things when we were in school.

    • @kiyoponnn
      @kiyoponnn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spline5243 I get the same impression from seth

  • @MJsaBitterLemon
    @MJsaBitterLemon ปีที่แล้ว +769

    I have autism, and honestly it sounds like he might have it as well. Growing up, I was also described as "living in my own world" and being content with not interacting with peers. People like us often are very gifted, but struggle to communicate and join the rest of our peers in tasks that many others find easier, like staying engaged with tasks that don't specifically align with our interests.

    • @בעלזבוב-ס6ע
      @בעלזבוב-ס6ע ปีที่แล้ว +28

      he has for sure

    • @MJsaBitterLemon
      @MJsaBitterLemon ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @Fearless Joy my IQ is in the 95th percentile, my dude (yes this was tested professionally and not online. I don't like to boast but you seem like you want to argue about my intelligence). I agree that "gifted" is a broad term, and honestly IQ still gets overruled by many things. I am gifted, but my learning disabilities/autism causes me to learn information slower than others despite having higher than average accuracy when I regurgitate the information, which causes me to do poorly on exams.
      So, yes, I know there's a lot more to it than being classified as "gifted," and I do not see myself as better than others for sure. And I definitely see the world differently than neurotypicals, like you said. But, I don't know why you felt the need to bring me down just because I was stating the fact that autistic people have different strengths and weaknesses than others. I did not mean to make it seem like we are better than anyone. Just different.
      Also, you do seem to have some held stereotypes held about autistic people. I'd encourage you to learn more and let go of those. I'm passionate about getting rid of autistic stigma!

    • @MJsaBitterLemon
      @MJsaBitterLemon ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @Fearless Joy also, I think there needs to be a mindset change here. Personally my issues aren't with paying attention to details, but with other difficulties in communicating like a neurotypical. I can see and empathize with their point of view just fine (autistic people do not lack empathy! That is a stereotype), but the way I communicate seems odd to them. Unfortunately, while people can teach me to become a better communicator, it will never come naturally. This is why neurotypicals also have a job of understanding those who are different and exercising patience when listening to them. Humans as a whole should be responsible for learning to talk to those who aren't like them, neurotypical or not. I've spent a lot of time studying how to talk to neurotypicals. I think you should spend some time learning to empathize with those who are different from you, too.

    • @bbamethyst1
      @bbamethyst1 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Asperger is what I think of when I see him.

    • @lienphalchung
      @lienphalchung ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MJsaBitterLemon My 4 year old nephew who is also autistic still doesn't talk.been in an ongoing therapy for like a year now..diagnosed as "moderately severe".will he be.........?

  • @toni-kaku
    @toni-kaku ปีที่แล้ว +609

    Hes got a nice friend

  • @RB-rp6ud
    @RB-rp6ud ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It would be sad if Seth is not given an opportunity to develop his talents something that many normal schools cannot provide for.

  • @Taayjus
    @Taayjus ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hey Seth, I was in the same shoe as you (I started coding when I was 10). I don't know if you'll read this, but I faced some of the same challenges, and it's something that affects me to this day, but it's all worth it! Funnily enough I also started making games in Unity, and then I started making web apps. What I would say to my younger self is I wish I had just picked a passion that interests me and then applied the tool of programming. I got stuck using programming for the sake of programming and honing that skill rather than realizing it's a tool. I knew like 7 languages, but I never made a successful app as a kid even though I kept dreaming about it because I focused on the programming part, not the impact part, not the helping others part, and definitely not the what I find fun part. It's confusing because I found programming fun in itself, but applying it towards a particular goal will give you a lot of rewards long term :)

  • @eggytoasty_
    @eggytoasty_ ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm someone like this too, who doesn't need other people's company, but I've learned that working in a group or team always needs a specific ally. If I ever end up actually working with others, I should always at least try and do my part well as team member.
    This inspiring story GL for Seith and family!

  • @mya.6286
    @mya.6286 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Well Seth I think you’re extremely cool and that you shouldn’t feel the need to conform to others just because they’re projecting their insecurities on you! Trust that you’ll find more and more people you can connect with :-) a community is always important in any situation whether you’re smart or not

  • @baconbundle22
    @baconbundle22 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I actually went to the same school as Seth here (ended up moving last year to the school hes coincidently trying out for this year), he was in the seal class two years below me. Even though I never really noticed it was THE SETH that I saw on TH-cam years prior, I’m sure he seems like a nice guy. People at that school aren’t generally very nice when they see someone who’s suddenly smarter than everyone else and that’s just the harsh reality of life at Australian high schools. I hope he gets into jmss though (I’m sure he will) because the community there is much more welcoming and friendly. Good luck! :D

  • @rubrixexpert4453
    @rubrixexpert4453 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    This is literally what everyone goes through during a big change from primary school to secondary school. I used to be like him but people didn't like me. So, sometimes, u have to control yourself. I remember in secondary 1 and 2, every year in my report book it will be written something like "{Name} has a aptitude for learning. However, he has learn self-control and not speak out of turn". I have changed that now and it is better for me.
    EDIT: thanks so much for the likes :D

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahah. It is normal. Just like an adult don't pick your nose in front of everyone. It is actually how to get older process.
      If u able to differentiate getting older and getting mature with your interest, it would be nice. Tq.

    • @vortexturtoise
      @vortexturtoise ปีที่แล้ว

      No. Don't just say 'literally' out of nowhere. I'm 12, and during the change from primary to secondary I didn't get any backlash, and I'm from Singapore AND I'm in a fully-international school. Anyway, I am just saying that the cause of every change being grim is from the people around you. If many the people around you accept you or are okay with you while some people never act inapropriately in ways that make you feel sad and emotional, the change turns to be minimum. Therefore if some people around you don't accept you and aren't okay with you and say stuff to you inappropriately and don't care if they don't like it or not, the change turns out to be grim. Why, you may ask? Because of bullying. Usually, some schools take action very well circumstances such as these, but this school? Seriously, they're letting someone who is about the same age of some of my classmates just speak out about the bullying in their school is like? Appalling, if you ask me. This might even damage the schools reputation if I'm being honest.

    • @rubrixexpert4453
      @rubrixexpert4453 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vortexturtoise relax bro. So you are telling me that speaking up for yourself is wrong.

    • @MillionaireMindsetClipsYT
      @MillionaireMindsetClipsYT ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vortexturtoisewhy should you care what others think of you? If you are being bullied then report it or stand up for yourself.

    • @Berrygirl6784
      @Berrygirl6784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MillionaireMindsetClipsYT ya its easy to say but thing is even when we go work people will bully us

  • @valleyofthedolls
    @valleyofthedolls ปีที่แล้ว +15

    he has a nice friend and a great, understanding parents. that's all we need ♡

  • @omramchandrajieducational
    @omramchandrajieducational ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I faced a problem like this in elementary school. Oviously not even close to as smart as Seth, I wanted to design guns and military planes, so I started learning to code, cad design, and 3d print. By 3rd grade I was making rc planes, and did very well in science fair. My school grades were completely different. I hated school so much as It was worthless to me, so I never submitted homework. However, after middle school, I made a close knit group of nerds like me, and I'm fortunate that I found them. Otherwise, online I always see stories of nerds being isolated, and having no friends.

  • @indreamluo1981
    @indreamluo1981 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I bless him. I was also ‘gifted’ to start programming at 9. I cannot be more successful because what’s blocking me is from internal.
    Back to the day people understood my gifted outcome but my special demand. Nor myself. I now need to spend a lot effort to find my own native happiness back.

  • @peachesbunny
    @peachesbunny ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Life is never fair. Even the best will suffer from obstacles that life throws at them. Hopefully he overcomes all difficulties with the support of family 💓

  • @AlexseN1996
    @AlexseN1996 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a Dehan in my life, and it's such a wonderful thing. Props to that kid

  • @DJ-mb3en
    @DJ-mb3en ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love his supportive parents.. its positive and in a caring way just focusing on their child as a normal human being. Love it.

  • @K9Megahertz
    @K9Megahertz ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I started programming at 12. It's not all that difficult if you find you have a passion for it. Certainly wouldn't say that makes one gifted. Lots of folks find what they're good at early on. Some are good at singing, some more athletic, some are good at math, piano, acting, art, etc.. you get the idea. Everybody has different strengths.

    • @DucklengUgly
      @DucklengUgly ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The difficulty for a lot of people in anything is sticking to something they started at 12, or really any age.

    • @nothing_
      @nothing_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DucklengUgly well thats just a discipline problem which is kinda irrelevant in this case

    • @ericpeterson6822
      @ericpeterson6822 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But are you gifted?

    • @IdeationGeek
      @IdeationGeek ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our organisms start programming (=planning) movements, when we are age

  • @SalihVeseli
    @SalihVeseli ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Seth is really gifted. I guess there is not much I can say about it other than that he is really amazing. Incredible parents too. From the way they speak, you can tell they are really educated themselves and they are not pushing hard on him to do things the way they want.
    His brain is wired completely different from us who are average. I really hope Seth lives a happy life.

  • @BosEriko
    @BosEriko ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dehan doesn't talk his age. He's like a grandma who knows everything. Good for seth for meeting dehan.

  • @rolypoly1689
    @rolypoly1689 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    he got nice friend. quality over quantity

  • @Streamchecked
    @Streamchecked 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In 2020, I learnt that the inky way to understand science (a subject i hated the most) was to force yourself to love it. I now love it so much, and it has grown my editing career

  • @lsb0119
    @lsb0119 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i felt like with kids like this, it's really important to also be physically healthy and strong, it's good for mental health, confidence, and power to fight back if necessary

    • @matsu820
      @matsu820 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hard agree. Just taking it and being peaceful gets you no where. Become strong so that you can afford being peaceful. Talking as someone who severely lack any backbone this far.

  • @soapylicious76
    @soapylicious76 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this family is very inspirational!

  • @hellfire5738
    @hellfire5738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woah I didn't expect to see Seth again, it's been a while.

    • @xtdycxtfuv9353
      @xtdycxtfuv9353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. Back when I watched this video I didn’t want to end my life.

  • @Alpine3
    @Alpine3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He looks like from happy boy to mastermind villain. Waiting for the right time to show his color.

  • @beatpirate8
    @beatpirate8 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what a good friend! im so moved!

  • @chrislife1101
    @chrislife1101 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good luck Seth! Hope you pass your exams this year!

  • @astrospeedcuber
    @astrospeedcuber 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is why we have a vast range of academically selective high schools in Sydney. There are plenty of spots for gifted students to learn in where they are properly challenged and where the atmosphere, teachers, peers, supplies caters to their needs.

  • @Renthlei_Jr
    @Renthlei_Jr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking forward to his future achievements

  • @sdedy379
    @sdedy379 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's really a difference between gifted person and extremely gifted person. Your usual gifted person is what society want from this kid where they are smart and can play by the rules. But extremely gifted often even fall off because they can be depressed or have other mental illness just because they need to follow norm and rules.
    The best way to handle them is to get a suitable environment to make them grow like crazy as much as they want to. Do say things like "he really need to learn communication with other" when other here is like 10 stage below him. It's just same as you say to an adult to go hangout with these babies.
    It's just amazing that he still not break down from all of this. If one thing that he so excel at crumble in from of him most of the time they tend to have anxiety and insecurities later even develop to bad thoughts. I hope he can be successful later down the road.

  • @thinkpadx60
    @thinkpadx60 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep going Seth and Dehan enjoy school and your friendships.

  • @teevee1782
    @teevee1782 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dehan is such a real one

  • @genocidist2602
    @genocidist2602 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In reality in australia, everyone in class are playing games and no one cares about whatever knowledge, and this is how it is through all 6 years in high school, having that smart kid carrying us is good when teacher ask questions and he be the one to carry by answering them all while we all sit back relax on games

  • @joshau2346
    @joshau2346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The parents’ experience reveals how stifling and hindering Singapore’s education is against intellectual children

    • @shaneethan523
      @shaneethan523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am a student currently with intellectual disability and I agree with you.

  • @Octiligon
    @Octiligon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The gym. He can be cured if he starts going to the gym.

    • @Psi141
      @Psi141 ปีที่แล้ว

      LMFAO

  • @BackpackeRom
    @BackpackeRom ปีที่แล้ว

    let’s appreciate how he still could pull conversations in front of cameras

  • @abandonedpicnic
    @abandonedpicnic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's ok Seth. There are many kind intelligent people at the top waiting for you.

  • @super-social-saltyfish
    @super-social-saltyfish 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i only have computer when i am 12, third world country crying

    • @pixelzebra8440
      @pixelzebra8440 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry 😭😭

  • @hinata6757
    @hinata6757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Meanwhile in our country, the gifted is the famous one, attracts a lot of friends who wants to learn.

  • @sciencetoday3629
    @sciencetoday3629 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's the flaw of Education system, Education institution teach you what they want , not what you really wanted to be . It kills compassion and creativity of the student .

  • @pilau
    @pilau 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that hit home when he said "its so hard to make friends"... but i didnt skip any grades, my ass got held back lol... stoopid

  • @Ryyza7
    @Ryyza7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    His father is actually software engineer, so he buy good pc and do also advocate seth to become programmer. Seth need to go to learn how to mingle with people (sports day, playing games with friends, etc).

  • @Baekdukitty
    @Baekdukitty 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Seth does it in one minute”
    Meanwhile me: Takes 1 hour to do 5 questions of sec 2 math😭😭😭

  • @maxc9432
    @maxc9432 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hats off to Dehan, he's a real man

  • @truongtuanthanh7744
    @truongtuanthanh7744 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Aren't there any elite schools in Singapore?!?

    • @kuancs1
      @kuancs1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, but they think the curriculum is too strict

    • @eevawyt7565
      @eevawyt7565 ปีที่แล้ว

      that means ppl in singapore should move to australia to study

    • @rayngmelb
      @rayngmelb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not about the rankings of the schools, it’s about the way the kids are taught, in fact those schools that Seth went to in Australia are quite average schools but they were able to build up his talents and to make the best out of them.

  • @manasandmohit
    @manasandmohit ปีที่แล้ว

    Dehan is friend everyone needs

  • @chiragkumar9060
    @chiragkumar9060 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is literally any jee aspirant in India at the back of the class.

  • @isakeriksen1862
    @isakeriksen1862 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought that i was cool to start unity when i was 13 years old but this kid is on a whole diffrent level

  • @chensoonteo
    @chensoonteo ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I wonder how they are preparing him to return to serve NS

    • @slaiyfershin
      @slaiyfershin ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maybe he'll just escape overseas like the other Yee.

  • @toruramen4853
    @toruramen4853 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg It’s look like he is going through his emo phase😢 hope he have a good friend, just a few people who genuinely accept who he is and playing together messing around like every usual day in school ❤

    • @xtdycxtfuv9353
      @xtdycxtfuv9353 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s called growing up. When you are a kid, you have no concept of the limitations imposed on your life.

  • @Geodendronitrian
    @Geodendronitrian ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope these kids get ahead in life.

  • @andrecheongavocadojudo2114
    @andrecheongavocadojudo2114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nobody:
    Employers: We are looking for a 13 y/o college fresh grad with 10 years of experience....
    Seth: I don't think you've played enough Minecraft to know that.

  • @kawaleocode
    @kawaleocode ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 13 and I'm going through the same thing, except the friends part isn't a big issue for me, because I code things to help my friends, like extensions or just utility things in general. I've been programming since I was 6, and I know JavaScript, Python, C, Some Java, NodeJS, Swift (for iOS dev), a little SQL, and I am learning Rust. I'm not as nerdy as some of you might imagine, I think the media portrays being smart as some curse, but I really like it

  • @parkonnjoon4926
    @parkonnjoon4926 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How about CNA bring him to compare with our homegrown talent Nathanael. Which was screened a month ago. Who is better?

  • @anthienvo
    @anthienvo ปีที่แล้ว

    "I can't tell. That's the whole point" Yes, it will be like that... And sometimes, I hope, he would not have to find out why....

  • @pixelchu
    @pixelchu ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks like he's making a bullet hell game similar to Touhou or Danmaku. That's cool.
    Despite the challenges, I wish him the best in his career and life.

  • @DwijeshDookraz
    @DwijeshDookraz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry but when he said people call him Jeff instead of Seth, I laughed 😂

  • @heavyx8
    @heavyx8 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks buddy, hope we can see a game from you someday

  • @wfe2891
    @wfe2891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a chemistry major, this guy needs to go into CS

  • @moonootoo
    @moonootoo ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wonder why the parents didn't let Seth go into the GEP in primary school and then into NUS School of Math and Science, and had to go all the way to Oz? It would be probably a good fit as he would have so many friends who will understand him.

    • @MaxJoseph999
      @MaxJoseph999 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Part of me feels like they didn’t want to face the possibility of Seth not qualifying for GEP. It would devastate them and invalidate all that they have thought of their kid. I mean he was 8 when the family moved. It would have been just a year more to taking the GEP tests.

    • @alvinkuo
      @alvinkuo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@MaxJoseph999 no offence to the family but it could be a possibility. Have seen many families putting through their kids in those GEP prep class with the belief that their kids are one up above others. The reality is that these classes can only do that much.

    • @seedricc
      @seedricc ปีที่แล้ว

      The GEP is not in primary schools anymore. i think they changed the syllabus a decade back if i remember correctly.

    • @MaxJoseph999
      @MaxJoseph999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@seedricc I think you may have remembered wrongly 😉

    • @seedricc
      @seedricc ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MaxJoseph999 yeah I probably did

  • @johana.1513
    @johana.1513 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's such a cool guy. Role model material.

  • @footytube9500
    @footytube9500 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Instead of celebrating a smart boy, the teachers feedback that this bright kid is distracting other kids because he is way ahead of the curriculum.
    Singapore lost is Australias gain.

  • @volentezzetnelov3793
    @volentezzetnelov3793 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Children can be so cruel at this age.
    Misunderstanding, jealousy, bullying, insecurity.
    They pick on someone they think doesn't fit in.
    Regrettably it is very common behaviour.

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is very common in human, be it children or an adult.

    • @renticat
      @renticat ปีที่แล้ว

      Isn't that what society is always push the odds one out

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว

      The society is not pretty it self.
      The scenario of a child.
      1. You are fat
      2. You are ugly
      3. You don't have a daddy or mum. You don't have iphone.
      The scenario of an adult
      1. You are not thin enough
      2. You are not pretty enough
      3. You are not qualified enough. You don't have the brand I have or the paper qualification.
      From my opinion, Learn the true society before able to assist gifted people around the world. 👍. I guess this video proof how society doesn't understand or accept what a gifted one would normally behave in the society or to behave differently in the first place.
      If the society wants them able to so into society, it means making them to be as normal as possible externally and to train them silently to behave gifted internally. To become 2 personality at the same time. Hahahah.

  • @wypimentel
    @wypimentel ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember there was a kid that talked like him in my school in Brazil, today he went to Russia and is a Linux expert, something like that. He talks fast because he thinks fast.

  • @深夜-l9f
    @深夜-l9f ปีที่แล้ว +2

    gifted people can only managed by other gifted people

  • @Miro-_
    @Miro-_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When he finally enters the workforce, everyone’s gonna want to be his friend

  • @Guangatron
    @Guangatron ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WHY DO GIFTED PEOPLE ALL HOLD PENS LIKE THAT!!!!

  • @k.p.2706
    @k.p.2706 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For all of America's flaws, (and believe me there are many!), we at least have the option to homeschool here in every single state.
    While I agree that Seth needs to learn how to work well with others, this is clearly not the environment for him. What I see is a broken child whose light has been stolen.
    Bullying does not build character, it Inflicts trauma. It is a distraction from learning. There is a high school in America called Thomas Jefferson where the kids have to test for enrollment. Essentially, all of the children there are advanced learners. Smarts are celebrated. I took my child there for a visit to their Robotics Fair when he was in first grade just to show him what an environment of talented students looked like.
    The students were all kind. " Mini professionals" is what I would call them. Because of the school's reputation, it is overwhelmingly populated with South and East Asian immigrants. I can't help but to think how much Seth would thrive in such an environment.
    I don't want to blame Seth's parents, but simply stress the power we have in protecting our children's light-- he would be better off homeschooled.
    Gifted children do NOT belong among the general population. They belong among each other so that they can feed off one other's energy and not be held back. And not be bored out of their minds.

  • @huidezhu7566
    @huidezhu7566 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Dehan is gonna live a more fulfulling and joyful life then Seth... He is just so positive

    • @xtdycxtfuv9353
      @xtdycxtfuv9353 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s NT. Oh and he’s better looking than Seth.

  • @andrescallejas3114
    @andrescallejas3114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This kid has to collab with Michael reeves. That would be amazing

  • @jinny6069
    @jinny6069 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    smart and dumb at the same time

    • @linhwang6651
      @linhwang6651 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, a person can be both.

  • @snowlinesandra3668
    @snowlinesandra3668 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man is really good......
    He reminds me a bit of the indian mathematician Ramanujan......

  • @Tan92lfc
    @Tan92lfc ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I was in school, I read Newspaper all the time, in middle of teaching

    • @Utube1024
      @Utube1024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dog Times...LOL

  • @lordcamkai3807
    @lordcamkai3807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im strugglin to learn the basics of python and this legend knows 3 languages 😂

  • @netest517
    @netest517 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alright that’s cool but what’s that pen grip bro

    • @aM-vi8wq
      @aM-vi8wq ปีที่แล้ว

      yea who tf holds their pen like that

  • @onetwobits7558
    @onetwobits7558 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could not think of an individual more qualified to make bullet hells.

  • @nofurtherwest3474
    @nofurtherwest3474 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It kind of makes me sad that the parents don't value social or emotional intelligence, and also do not value athletics and physical movement which is important for health, especially in young bodies.
    Sure, it's cool that he is so advanced in particular areas, but clearly that could be detrimental in other ways.

  • @aminshafiq2576
    @aminshafiq2576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when school is still on factory settings

  • @Arachisage
    @Arachisage ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't imagine the 2 years down the drain when NS swings by.

    • @parkonnjoon4926
      @parkonnjoon4926 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think he aussie. His family shld be aussie already.

  • @sumridhitiwari9637
    @sumridhitiwari9637 ปีที่แล้ว

    My life is similar to his I too skipped some grades enrolled early and lack friends wish we could be friends

  • @retarded1651
    @retarded1651 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He looks tired

  • @ivantan5690
    @ivantan5690 ปีที่แล้ว +4484

    You don't need a lot of friends.... You just need that 1 or 2 who is willing to stick with you thru thick and thin, people who genuinely accepts you for who you are.

    • @fukunaga-kane
      @fukunaga-kane ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Even so, most child have a lot of childhood, middle school, highschool friends and a lot of people have good school memories because of it. Nobody’s going to reminisce the time they learn maths in HS.

    • @tedlovejesus
      @tedlovejesus ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Honestly genius people dont need much advice from normal people,
      but normal people do otherwise
      Normal people cant control their lives and future but still they want to "teach” the genius "things”
      Its pure absurdity

    • @Maya-sv1pz
      @Maya-sv1pz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes, and you need to invest in that 1-2 friends as well. mental health is no joke. I hope Seth slow down on some days and invest in making long lasting friendship as well

    • @Maya-sv1pz
      @Maya-sv1pz ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@tedlovejesus it's absurd for you to think like that. Genius are not genius in everything. They definitely don't need advice on what to do with their lives and expertise. But more often than not, geniuses do need human touch and advices on social interraction because the world is filled with normal people, and geniuses need to learn to vibe with majority, if he can't communicate with the general pleb, he's going to have a hard time and turn supervillain or worse, depressed loner. Read, the Curse of Genius.

    • @zitronentee
      @zitronentee ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tedlovejesus Some people need the sense of camaraderie and togetherness, not just close friends. It's a shame that teamwork is a soft skill that's seen as unnecessary at school.
      Just because a person is knowledgeable, doesn't mean he/she is wise or having insight.

  • @gusfring96
    @gusfring96 ปีที่แล้ว +4281

    He's so blessed to have such healthy, responsible and smart parents who doesn't force him to do what they want like most Asian parents. Seth really needs help outside his intellectual pursuits and academic life and his parents seem to know what they're doing. Such a breath of fresh air. Other children as gifted as Seth would have been wasted just having your typical Asian parents.

    • @H_Is_One
      @H_Is_One ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Comparing footage from when he was 8 with his bright smiles, you can really tell he has been hurt a lot by his peers and probably from the limits of the school system. I would agree that he has good parents, but I don't think they realize the damage trying to fit someone gifted in the container called school.
      He should be given the ability to have more freedom to expand and grow out in what he enjoys doing, but you can see that is not nearly the case.
      Hopefully by the time he reaches a learning institution that is suitable to him, he wouldn't be mentally destroyed by the inept of the education system.

    • @krazymeanie
      @krazymeanie ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@H_Is_One I get where you're coming from but I think school is still a good experience for him. Time and time again we see what happens with children that don't experience school and what it does to their "social structure". School isn't just a container of a wack educational system". It's an experience that the majority of youths undergo that shapes their social thinking and gives them a sense of normality. I think that's why his parents still decided for him to go to school. It's definitely a double edge sword.

    • @shxrdz9628
      @shxrdz9628 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THASTS JUST RACIST

    • @Hue_Sam
      @Hue_Sam ปีที่แล้ว

      Bullying is so widespread in secondary level education that many victims of it typically think they don’t belong there. Bullying only robs them of their self worth.
      This is one of the top factors resulting in school shootings that happen worldwide.
      However, I really don’t have to tell you all, but restricting guns all because of this only makes it worse. It’s like trying to ban alcohol a second time.

    • @favouronwuchekwa
      @favouronwuchekwa ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@shxrdz9628 How do you know he isn't Asian ?

  • @rbvp45
    @rbvp45 ปีที่แล้ว +3075

    Gifted kids need extra support in other areas of life, and it's really important they receive it. As Dr. K says, gifted kids are special needs.

    • @furrosama
      @furrosama ปีที่แล้ว +105

      YAAA a fellow healthy gamer

    • @linhwang6651
      @linhwang6651 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Yes, they may be inadequate or stupid in other areas of life.

    • @securebrowser1479
      @securebrowser1479 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@linhwang6651 good one...

    • @Blessupph777
      @Blessupph777 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      a fellow healthy gamer

    • @meh6513
      @meh6513 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@linhwang6651 almost every kid had the same amount of time to improve themselves like adults.. when some kids are learning hands eye coordination and balance and learning survival skills playing in the forest or playgrounds while some kids are forced to leave playground early to practice piano... every child with around 100 IQ has a lot of time and if taught efficiently can learn skills to high level...i am really good at discovering and mastering some odd skills but socializing and lack of experience in literally talking and being in social environments (since i practice my skills alone) have developed my social anxiety to a near crippling state in taking calls, meeting out with friends or just asking a teacher about things i don't understand to the point that i was failing and barely passing classes despite me being very skilled/gifted in other aspects of life...

  • @zyrob3435
    @zyrob3435 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    Seth is amazing but in this episode I was more impressed with Dehan. That kid's got maturity and EQ better than many adults (including myself). The way he handles Seth's temperament, humbly learns from Seth's strength and sees his brilliant side instead of just his "weirdness". He even had the guts to approach his humanities teacher to speak up about people bullying Seth. I know I wouldn't have been able to do that at 13 years old. I think Dehan's parents really brought him up well.

  • @zem0ku605
    @zem0ku605 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    That's a W friend right there. Whatever happens in the future, hope they stick together or at least stay connected

  • @kuancs1
    @kuancs1 ปีที่แล้ว +1627

    Quite illuminating that someone so smart can face the same insecurities and struggles that us normal people do

    • @valcrist7428
      @valcrist7428 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I thkn he is just AHEAD.. he is not that SMART.... but let's see..

    • @rayngmelb
      @rayngmelb ปีที่แล้ว +144

      @@valcrist7428If you had watched his last video, you would know that he is truly gifted in IQ as well.

    • @hippo1503
      @hippo1503 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      well he is human

    • @PanikNT
      @PanikNT ปีที่แล้ว +162

      @@valcrist7428 He learned Arduino, Java and Python.... at the age of Eight, I was picking boogers at that age bruh.

    • @fukunaga-kane
      @fukunaga-kane ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@PanikNT if you get the right tools , and the right parents when you were 8 I’d argue you, or anyone could be atleast half as good as him. He doesn’t look the type to be a super genius enrolling Harvard at the age of 8.

  • @DancingMomochine
    @DancingMomochine ปีที่แล้ว +789

    I think the comments here are really sad, this young teenager is obviously a gifted child (also watched his 2018 video back then). Singapore is too strict in terms of education for him, he’s miles ahead of his peers! It's not fair for people here to say that he'll never survive in the real world because he can't communicate with others, I believe he is also trying, but it'll be hard to find someone on the same wavelength as him in terms of intellect I suppose. Let us all wish him and his parents all the best, all of them are trying their best to bring the best out of him.

    • @hannesRSA
      @hannesRSA ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He'll be fine after the Australian school. The environment is pretty good despite his problems, it can be much worse. Not sure about skipping a year.. what's the point? To add 1 year to your working life? Why? Should rather be with peers your own age.

    • @tedlovejesus
      @tedlovejesus ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No… just treat him like a normal human being,
      You sound like just wanting extract every bit and ounce of utility out of gifted kids,
      that’s a dangerous idea tbh
      It’s not democratic and dictatorship at its finest

    • @Maya-sv1pz
      @Maya-sv1pz ปีที่แล้ว +37

      gifted prodigies often grow up as underachievers. Because they are so used to being miles ahead they don't have the resilient to risk and survive as an adult where being right and precise isn't the answer to most problems.

    • @linhwang6651
      @linhwang6651 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Consultation with a child psychologist will be useful. Personality plays an important part on the behaviour of a child.

    • @roastyou666
      @roastyou666 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      he'll be fine. at least they know he's gifted, instead of torturing his enthusiasm for computer science with constant competitions that often disqualify people who aren't as good as those with master degrees like they do in Taiwan.

  • @axbowf4924
    @axbowf4924 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Every one need a friend like that. Very well done Dehan.

    • @kennethdaniels3000
      @kennethdaniels3000 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not just a friend. But an ambitious, and at the same time, supportive parents.

  • @summertech2014
    @summertech2014 ปีที่แล้ว +1329

    The right thing to do for a gifted child is to put him in an environment in which his peers are equally gifted. Gifted children feel bored and are often isolated by others in a normal school.
    I'm not familiar with Australia, but I am with the US and also Singapore. There are many programs in the US and Singapore to develop gifted children. These students are very motivated when they grow up with peers of equal talents and given the opportunities to explore the world that excites them.

    • @holaestas7561
      @holaestas7561 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they have selective schools

    • @alui5362
      @alui5362 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      yup, can consider Xavier's School for Gifted Youngsters. heard it is not bad.

    • @hannesRSA
      @hannesRSA ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not gonna be in 1 of 2 groups so the same issue persists. Best would be to learn to integrate at the school. Skipping a year isn't a solution, it's part of the problem.

    • @holaestas7561
      @holaestas7561 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hannesRSA thats what selective schools do

    • @hannesRSA
      @hannesRSA ปีที่แล้ว

      @@holaestas7561 no that's the opposite of what they do

  • @Illusion_____
    @Illusion_____ ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Imagine being labeled as gifted by not only your parents but the media.. poor kid. That just puts unnecessary pressure and expectations on the kid to do well. A lot of gifted kids have mental health troubles later on in life because of it. Seth please seek help one day if you feel the need to

    • @SW-fy8pq
      @SW-fy8pq ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Parents are usually the root of the problem. Many push their kids to the limit from very young. These parents seek after glory and pride of having an academically advanced kid. I have watched many documentaries of young genius on TH-cam, unfortunately many of these so called gifted kids did not have a good ending, some ended as sex worker, McD staff, etc. I just hope Seth’s parents and others will stop praising Seth for being smart and intelligent, they should compliment Seth’s hardwork and perseverance instead.

    • @Utube1024
      @Utube1024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If really a genius then will be ok. If not more stressful just because he can code more than other child.

  • @franciscoandreatta5803
    @franciscoandreatta5803 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I think he's got very good parents.
    One thing I find important to realize is we can't say he's superior to others. He just learned discipline in a loving way from an earlier age, that's something many many parents can't achieve.

    • @cinnamuwu
      @cinnamuwu ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i just had this conversation with my dad today. and thats immediately what i thought when i saw this. he is very smart in the things he likes to do just like everyone else who spends all day doing something not taking anything away from this amazing guy. but if i were introduced, for example to chess at 8 and became obsessed with it id also be a prodigy i think we will see more stories like this in the future with the abundance of information there will be more kids picking up things and thriving. thank you for this post

    • @inconnn
      @inconnn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i think it's just cause he was exposed at a young age to it. and he's probably actually interested in the stuff he learns. i am kinda similar and i knew many programming languages since i was young but i suck at discipline. and i understand stuff quickly but don't do homework.
      not as young as him tho, i probably learned my first language when i was 8 (scratch, if you count that, which i do). then i started learning other stuff like js, lua thru roblox, c++, rust, etc.

    • @1414-i4g
      @1414-i4g ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The word prodigy is innately comparative but I can't get why we need to use prodigies as geniuses will just be another smart adult amongst hundreds of others

    • @nofurtherwest3474
      @nofurtherwest3474 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't like that the parents think its ok for him to be alone so much. They should help him foster social skills as that is a part of life. Otherwise he'll get bullied a lot and also what if his parents pass away, then he won't have them to guide him and who knows what would happen then. Everyone needs some basic social skills and to be able to build rapport and form relationships.

  • @rayngmelb
    @rayngmelb ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Like Seth my son was also an outstanding coder at a very young age, he then went to one of the top selective schools in Melbourne and now at a Go8 University studying Aerospace Engineering, he is also an engineer for the University’s Rocketry team. The sky really isn’t the limit for kids in Australia. They can truly reach for the stars.

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just keep track what he has learnt and have solve every month in a diary or notebook. Or what else he want to solve every month. Else the speed of learning would jeopardize his own speed. Just don't assume he has the same speed or capacity like a robot as we are actually dealing with human dna changes, growth, hormone and cell replacement. My 2 sen.

    • @auspicious8415
      @auspicious8415 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's great man, while I'm here struggling to study topics of my own level.

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@auspicious8415 curious of your topic.

    • @auspicious8415
      @auspicious8415 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@stevenchan7537 basic level things, i'm kinda below avg

    • @linhwang6651
      @linhwang6651 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My nephew wrote computer programmes and composed music after school. After graduation from the university, he worked for Microsoft. In his 40, he retired and has no interest to work any more. Guess he has a burnout, like many programmers.

  • @Dandelion_flight
    @Dandelion_flight ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Feel sorry for Seth. Hope that he will find some really reliable loyal friends and be a beautiful contribution to this world. 🙏🏻

  • @retiredspykid9381
    @retiredspykid9381 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    A lot of child prodigies have trouble socializing and just in general seeming normal because they are so smart. Intelligence is very difficult to mask. It is much easier to just avoid people than dumb down at that level. I'm speaking from experience. I really relate to him. What made me thrive socially was not the fact that I felt like I needed to fit in but truly understanding other emotions. I studied people the same way I studied any other topic then I tested what I learned in real life. Like a social experiment. Now instead of feeling like I don't understand people I realize even most quote normal people don't even understand people and just learning to except them the way they are. The only thing is I expect the same from them. If they can't give me that mutual respect I cut them out of my life. Times were I ignored this rule ended very badly. However, I learned from them now I'm surrounded by very supportive people. Who at the very least respect me even if they don't necessarily like me.

    • @crix_h3eadshotgg992
      @crix_h3eadshotgg992 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I should try this. Thank you.

    • @Brian-lf8nw
      @Brian-lf8nw ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kind of comforting that I'm not the only one who treats socializing as a topic.

    • @davyroger3773
      @davyroger3773 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paragraphs my friend.

    • @torashi._
      @torashi._ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did this too.

    • @rocklerock495
      @rocklerock495 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like you still have a lot to learn. To understand others, you'll need to understand yourself first. Sometimes it's through life experiences or it can be through material arts, meditation, relationships (any relationships) or at work. Observe and listen to yourself when you're around others.

  • @Happy_coffee01
    @Happy_coffee01 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Aww I hope the best for Seth. Kids at that age can be douchey, I really hope he doesn’t let them get to him :( if anything their actions reflects more about their personality! It’s good that he’s not easily peer pressured and he has a friend and supportive teachers at school. Just keep being you (and not mean) & you will attract the right people ^^

  • @tsunderes_were_a_mistake
    @tsunderes_were_a_mistake ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I think that his dad getting him interested in science and programming at an young age really helped him. I grew up without the internet and schools here just focused on rote memorization, parents didn't do much to help so studying was boring for me but once I had access to internet there were videos that made every subject interesting (unfortunately I was already out of school at that time). I'm not nearly as gifted or intelligent as Seth though.

  • @FrozenHonors
    @FrozenHonors ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not saying this out of jealousy, but the brightest candles burn the fastest. He seems to have some deficits in social and communication, despite being “academically gifted”. What kind of quality of life can you have, if you are smart but unable to live?

  • @minjosof
    @minjosof ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I also skipped a year and was immediately pulled out by my mum a year later for similar reasons. I wonder what a difference it would have made if I was placed in a suitable environment, instead of being placed in an equally boring classroom with kids nearly two years older than me. I’m seeing some of that in Seth’s story, too.

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hahaha. Skipping years is just the education system able to provide it. It is boring though, but with today's technology, just updates your skill or perhaps know as your interest. Finding your own frens that keeps you energetic. Cheers.

    • @minjosof
      @minjosof ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@stevenchan7537 Yes, that's true that there are more options for self-directed learning now. But it was a little different when I was seven years old, hahaha

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@minjosof ok. I hope everyone could live a better life with their own definition of comfort zone. A child life would be so boring to live with those adult who is lost or lack of memory of how it is to be a child when they are child before.

    • @yuulb.alwright4333
      @yuulb.alwright4333 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm 14 and in 11th grade, i'm doing just fine.

    • @minjosof
      @minjosof ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yuulb.alwright4333 I was in primary school back then, so the social development differences were pretty stark. Glad to hear you're doing well after skipping grades though!

  • @adibahmed10
    @adibahmed10 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Bro I feel bad for the kids who don't realize how much they could learn from him.
    Those kids who do realize it, will truly value him for the person he is.