Judge Lynn Toler on man's harshness
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ก.พ. 2023
- Judge Lynn Toler speaks to man about his terrible verbal abuse on his wife. #shortsfeed #shortsvideo #shortvideo #shorts #short #like #life #lifestyle #love #trend #trending #trendingshorts #trendingvideo #trendingvideo #share
She's such a beautiful woman, please leave and find someone who will value you. Value urself ma'am
He is so ugly , he is afraid he can't hold her. He makes her feel like nobody
Else want her. He is everything the
Judge say he is. He is a narcissist,
Ignorant, think he is right. Dont like
Himself , he has no selfesteam, being
Violent makes him feel like he is in
Control. She is still young. Run sister!!!
He wont change my dear. 😔😔😔he a
She is beautiful & judge Toler is too. Black is just beautiful.
@@taneyat6_33 indeed they are two beautiful women. Black has nothing to do with it. I mean, it kind of does, but this isn't a situation where that needs to be pointed out. Implies others aren't beautiful and that's just wrong.
@@BetterMe981 You're entitled to your opinion as I am mine. I never said anything about anyone else's race or implied any other race was not beautiful. Why do folks get so mad when the black culture supports each other?? Also if you aren't black I defer back to my first point. Dang, you act like I said something bad. Finally black has everything to do with it. Go troll other comments & get a life.
@@taneyat6_33 unapologetically black and beautiful. No apologies needed. Know your value. Know worth. 💐🍫🌇
Wow, his wife is gorgeous. I hope she left. Mental abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. In some instances, it serves as the precursor.
Yeah this is how a man feels when he meets a woman with a sharp tongue. But NOBODY says anything about that
It sure does.
@@MB-iv4mq take ya anger somewhere else please, there's plenty of podcast for men in these situations smh my Lord 🤦🏽♀️
Very true! I lived it
@@jazlyn4178
Are you the type he's talking about? 😂
That secret smile that she had because someone finally took up for her made my heart melt.
I'm 40yrs old and got shell shocked when the judge started talking like that. That happens x10 behind closed doors
They look on her face said it all. The judge knew how she was feeling and going through behind closed doors 😢😢
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I missed the smile. All I could see were those sad eyes hearing someone else vindicate her experiences
How do you know someone finally took up for her. You know for a fact this is the first time. Wow that’s amazing.
What a powerful woman. There’s no one on television like her.
wow the way she insulted him only to turn it on her using his words. that's master act.
.........and there never will be one as articulate, witty , compassionate & understanding as Honorable Judge Lynn
He uses dark psychology on his wife and realized the judge sees through him and knows the game.
So words are violent now?
It’s psychological abuse.. maybe you do this to your loved ones?
@@yahya4370 oh you mean like females do on males since the first step they took?
Yes she 👀 right thru him.
@@matchbox7811 words provokes and you sitting around here playing 🥴 stop it
What an awful man. My ex used to berate me. I got rid of him, even though I was scared to be a single parent, I did it and we actually flourished without his stupid ass.
Happy for you! Being a single parent is such peace and serenity as opposed to this
Good for you.. never follow a fool up 🤔
Good for you!!! And the young ones.
Thank God for you being a single mom! Because had you not been a mother, you probably would have stayed with that jackass! Being a mom is where you found your strength to get away from him. I'm very happy and very proud of you
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She nailed it verbal and emotional abuse wears you down and leads to severe depression.
What can a man do then? We can’t hit u what else is there explain please..it seems we can’t lash out physically or verbally so what else is there..wait we’re supposed to just sit there and look stupid and get hurt and not respond just taking stabs to the heart and can give no hurt back it’s absolutely heart breaking being a man
He knows what he's doing!
Mental abuse is often normalized. It exists and if your partner is always shredding you… it’s abuse.
DITTO. At least getting 'smacked' or 'punched' goes away, the 'mental' stuff? Not so much...!
@@lewisyaxley Crazy pieces of shyte (domestic violence abusers) always blame their victims. Regardless of gender. Victim blaming is one of their traits. Fix yourself. Seek a well qualified therapist. Your lack of self control… may end you in prison for unaliving the woman you love or your own kids. Happens every day in this world. Some nut job has offed his/her family in anger. Can’t control your anger? You’re the problem. YOU.
Sure is 😢
@@angelasmith7369no, it does not go away. Physical effects the mental. I been there and done that, and it nearly crushed me. Physical is just as bad. It's ADDED mental stress.
Yes, stay away from NARCISSISTS!!!!!
Judge Judy is no match to her when she's in her zone.
Why compare?! That’s ridiculous to do!! TWO DIFFERENT JUDGES!! In EVERY WAY except the word JUDGE!!! Don’t do that, it makes ZERO sense!!!
None at all `
No match period...Judy could NEVER understand these issues and get through to people like judge Lynn
Judge Toler is much more effective than judge Judy. Judge Judy throws insults and does the same thing Judge Toler is talking about.
@@suzanguest9423 She said what she said it’s that simple.
Tell that sister its a brother out there that would appreciate you 💯 🙏
glad bro isnt about his race or my ex hb would never have thrown his new bride to the floor or stomped her head, race got zero to do w it.. The Judge is right. And this young lady needs to love herself enough to leave anyone who would abuse or misuse. God is love +
Break it down Judge Toler!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Emotional abuse is demoralizing.
He tries to justify it through whispering. A whispered insult is still an insult.
Energetically, IMHO it's worse cause you do not sense it coming.
He's sick like of em.
This judge should be an international youth educator. I love her
Same thing I said she would be excellent
Hey Just make SURE U ARE NOT LIKE THIS LADY N MANY OTHERS SO YOU !!! Teach Alll THE BROKEN WOMEN AROUND U 😢N BE THAT TEACHER 😮 BEING U SUGGEST YOU CAN DO IT??? In YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD CHURCH MAKE A DIFFERENCE N CHANGE STARTS W US SHE SPEAKING $$ ALL KIND OF PLACES ❤️🙏🏾DO U👍🏽
Yes!!!😊
How do you know she was broken before she met him?
Make a difference at your neighborhood church or school, if you have time.
We miss you judge. Still got you in my prayers.
So sorry to hear she lost her leg 😭
I left the same kind of man last week. It breaks my heart for this young woman. He is an abuser.
Mental (verbal )abuse most times last longer than physical abuse
Some of my in-laws used to berate me anyway, anytime anywhere even in church....with the excuse that I deserved it.
I even left the church mostly because if them. But what hurts most is the fact that the people that should speak kept mute cos my hubby is a Mama's boy.
VERBAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE...😢 VERY DAMAGING. ONLY GOD can heal the havoc done by some narcissists....
God bless you "TEACHER" judge❤❤
The "smirk" in this bully's eyes says it all.
OH--Smirk indeed 😡
No different, than the seemingly manageable toxicity levels, that draw the attraction of modern day women,to certain Alpha type men. The association seems plausible, until it doesn't..And oftentimes, it is either his choice, of disassociation, or hers. Because, with her leaving, she has grown tired of the rotation,that she willingly, decided on becoming a cast member or she sees that her previously tested and found to be effective, stratagems of conquest, have proven ineffective and the absence for benefit,has all but disappeared.
☝️he gonna get real quiet now.& change? No. he ain't gonna change.😎
He will stalk her too,looks like the type,run pretty lady,hide if you must!! Narcissistic!!!
yep, he thinks he's tricky. What a pos.
We need judge Lynn back on divorce Court.
💯 correct constantly putting someone down does nothing but ruin self esteem 🙄
"You don't have to scream it for it to be violence"
Right Amen.
So I feel that the opposite way so I feel extremely down etc I have a adult son thats extremely sensitive, about anything he told well he's 22yrs and Mmmmmm he's been taking the trash and helping with laundry since he was about 5yrs old and I till have to not only say take the trash but Mmmm that means not just the trash in the kitchen and when washing always gets the kitchen towels as well those are that how many years do I need to say this and yes he nee
ds to go so badly I told him he needs to find a wife.
It is not violence; it is verbal and mental abuse. Violence is the use of physical force to cause harm to people, animals, or property, such as pain, injury, death, damage, or destruction.
By Judge Toler's definition of violence, she just committed violence against the man in this video.
Understand this is the first time I have ever disagreed with this Judge.
@@usunited5756I wonder 🤔 why,, bcz she defended the truth. Oh well it takes someone who's Intellectually strong to to stand up to a Narcissist like him.. I said wht I said I leave in peace Shalom.
@@user-tn2rz7co1j I disagree. Violence is physical, period. Verbal and mental abuse is not violence, it is simply abuse. Neither are good, let me be clear on that. Understand I do not promote Violence unless in the form of self-defense nor do I support Verbal or mental abuse.
LAW
the unlawful exercise of physical force or intimidation by the exhibition of such force.
The thing is she is a beautiful woman. How in the hell did she end up with him
What she saw in him, in this short clip I don't get it.
She has (hopefully had), a low self- esteem, confidence, & most importantly, self-love🩷💚I was there a long time ago!🩵💜🩵
Low self esteem I’m sure of it
That Part.
I just said this. She’s gorgeous and way out of his league 🤧😩😩
My mother did this to me as a child and a juvenile, and into adulthood. I'm 66 and still trying to heal from this emotional violence. SMH
I felt the knife cut deep when she lowered her voice to emphasize the insults.
I just love this woman she is so, so real
Better still leave her alone, and go back to his own. Our black women are damaged enough considering the history these gentile have with our women and believe me they were atrocious to our women ... sisters, please stop this nonesense.
The Realest!
@@azariahyisrael3209 You’re right I wouldn’t take that from my own much less these Caucasian folks.
That happened thousands of years ago,and the black women are still putting up with the same thing in this 20first century.The judge did him in.That is total humiliation,love the Judge.
@@azariahyisrael3209
She’s too good for him and he knows it. He has to tear her down so she doesn’t figure out he’s not good enough for her. CHOOSE YOURSELF, CHOOSE PEACE! Leave him and don’t look back.
She shouldn’t be with a man that wears two braids ANYWAY 🙄🙀😷🤧❤️🩹
How, how is the question.( Peggy)
It's Not even legal in the Sight of The Most High for her to be yoked with him! God by NO MEANS acknowledges that so-called union!!! BE WITH YOUR OWN KIND!!!! Them folk are a mutation and are Not Human!!!!
Got that right. Leave his stupid ass😢😢😢
@@winstonnorton2774 But BM don't want BW.
She explains this so perfectly.
The world needs her so much .. ..
Get him JUDGE!!!
We love using the word violence to shame men. We use it way too much. He s demeaning
You been serve Mr Burger.
He’s not harsh. He’s mean, spiteful and hateful to talk so brutally to someone he supposedly cares about. No one deserves constant put downs
LOOK AT THAT FOOL .... WHO WOULD EVEN BE WITH HIM..........
It’s actually verbally abusive
His personal slave
Ignorance beget ignorance....tell it judge. TRUTH
I love the fact that she understands totally that he's very mean❤
She is such a beautiful woman. I pray she finds someone who would appreciate her.
And he knows it…That’s why he’s trying to make her feel less than..
I pray that she finds herself! When you value yourself you don't allow anyone to devalue!!
Yawl don’t know this woman or this crazy man. They both could be crazy. So what she beautiful.
“But I have to do it like that” was his reply 😮that is sadistic emotional violence. Judge “T” called him out. So sad that anyone experiences this type of abuse😢
She is so good at this job bc she cares about people.
Thank you for saying this, Judge Toler. Abusers need to hear it!
Apart from Judy, Judge Lynn has the biggest heart/brain and fierceness of a lion!
NO JUDGE LYNN IS THE BEST PERIODT.. JUDGE LYNN DOSE NOT PUT PEOPLE DOWN OR TALK DOWN TO THEM FOR RATINGS SHE SPEAKS AND TEACHES WHEN THEY MAY NOT EVER GET CORRECTION OTHERWISE
JUDY NEEDS TO RETIRE AND SIT DOWN PERIODT…!!!!!!!! SHE HAS MADE ENOUGH MONEY AT HER AGE IT IS EMBARRASSING TO SPEAK SO DISRESPECTFUL TO A GROWN PERSON FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND RATINGS SHE DOSE NOT HELP ITS ALL ABOUT HEARING HER OWN VOICE NOT LISTENING JUST INTERRUPTING AND ENTERTAINMENT NOT HELPING…!!!!! SHAME ON YOU THINKING OTHERWISE….!!!!!
I sense that Judge Lynn come from a place of caring . She tries to make the message clear to those who don’t see it , understand it, and even to those who is trying to hurt others and don’t want to see it or understand the pain inflicted by them.
Judge Judy?! Huh???! How she make it into the conversation? Granted I don't watch her much but the episodes I have seen she has never seemed to care about anybody she is never smile she doesn't even give particularly good advice in my opinion, she's not warm, she belittles people for no reason, she is NOTHING like Judge Lynn.
@@i.i.3399 You are so right
The judge just read him. I think this was the best English lesson he has had in a long time. Correction for every man who treats his woman in that fashion.
HOW IN HELL SHE GET HIM LORD HAVE MERCY SHE NEED TO LEAVE DAT DOG OF A MAN
I hope all who needed this speech heard every word, Judge Toler spoke on this video!!!!!❤❤❤
I adore how intelligent, articulate, honorable, and wise this judge is. Such a light in our world.
Absolutely correct! Verbal ,and emotional abuse is damaging !
It is cruel ! ❤️
The idea that he attempted to justify his behavior tells that he believes she is beneath him.!! 🤬.Verbal abuse 🚶🏃🚶♀️, walk away beautiful lady..
I so wish there was someone who stood up for me. Thank you, Judge.
I have so much respect for Judge Toler. I absolutely love women like her, she is down to earth, bold, intelligent, honest, and so much more
And he thinks she's a moron!!! That part.... When you drive off, don't look in your rear view Queen!
exactly...n can call me for the escape to get away
They way she said those insults in that tone gave him all the reason he needed to know that words can be violent even when whispered. I love me some Judge Toler! She sees right through these people and let’s them have it.
This is absolutely right. Mental and emotional abuse is as bad as physical and also more long term damage.
She was like, YES!
IM NOT CRAZY
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He's treating her like the slave master.
Run!!!!
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Yesss! He said he has to do it like that!! 😮My God! Thank Goodness she had this judge to articulate for her and see what is really happening and address it.
If she doesn't do everything to leave, she is an idiot
He's trying to talk over the Judge in her courtroom. Imagine what this lady goes through at home. Clearly, he has NO respect or appreciation for women. I hope this beautiful woman left him high and dry!!!
Are all men respected ? Classic attempt, to implement, a dichotomy of standards.
I'm sitting here wondering what actions have men done for a woman to respect "all men".
You know that she is not an equal at home. And like Louis Farrakhan said.. they didn't bring you here to be equal. So don't be surprised when they want to treat us as and unequal.
She has no business with that man. Where is her father or family. Where the hell she meet him? What is the attraction?
Are u serious right now???
Thank You Judge 😊 ⚖️
This judge set the tone straight just smart, she is meant to be a judge fair and balanced.
Whew! She was definitely talking to my ex husband. Everyone would say “omg but he’s always so calm” like no this man is a monster!
You said it right!
He's got NARCISSIST written all over him. .the dude is shameless. But the judge called it perfectly. Love this judge.
I do adore & admire this beautiful woman! Everything about her radiates truth and sincere passion! Her integrity is evident in her educated words! Best attitude ever!
He needs to be reminded of humanity and no one likes a bully. Shame on all of us for hurting anyone.
Verbal abuse is abuse 😢
That young woman is way too good for that idiot. She deserves so much more. God-bless.
Well said your honor! I've lived being treated this way my entire life. Narcissist can be cruel that way. I'm old enough now to understand I deserve much better. That's not normal or necessary and only I can change it by no longer tolerating ANYONE to speak that way to me. I deserve what I give others and that's love, respect and kindness. I pray your day's are getting a little bit earlier and know the nights may take forever, I'm so sorry for your sadness and loss. Do remember how blessed you were to have love like that beautiful soul. He's right there with you at night, your not even a little bit crazy when you think you feel him. You actually do and he's glad to know that. Much love and abundant blessings 💞🙏 💞
❤🎉❤🎉😊Judge preach! You are awesome. Won't tolerate men demeaning and degrading women.
A woman should NEVER let a man treat her like this.
NEEEEEEEVEEEEEER........
Yes. My Husband did it to me always..
yes self accountability...
😢No woman or man deserve to be abused in any manner whether verbal or physical. Anyone in a relationship like that need to move on.
I wrnt through this with my "former" aunt. I disowned her since. Meaning, I blocked all 3 of her numbers (home, work, and cell). This type of toxicity almost made unalive myself on SEVERAL occasions.
He puts her down to make himself feel good. He's the one that's All those things he says about her. He knows she can do better than his ass.,so he breaks her self esteem to make feel like she doesn't deserve better in order to keep her with his sorry ass. Ain't no way.
She's telling as it is. Unfiltered, straight forward and in simple terms. They got it and so do we ❤❤❤❤
She was directing those negative words RIGHT BACK AT HIM!!!!!!
It is so sad when a beautiful black woman has to settle for so little! Sister, you are wearing a strong hair style. Walk away from that weak oppressive man. You deserve better!
Judge Toler for president!!!!!! Absolutely Golden.She is a 💎💎💎💎.
Oh yeah
She is better than that.
I love her she speaks with such passion and empathy for the person that’s being treated poorly
Judge Toler is my favorite judge!!!!!
The passion in her face and words is everything. I love me some judge Lynn.
I am happy she called it out. Someone consistently insulting you, criticizing you, hiding your property/personal belongings is violence Period. I will NEVER go back or continue a relationship with someone who does this. People who support it are just as guilty.
I pray he listened and we should all treat others the way we want to be treated. Yes!!! I said all of us! Me too!! Live right, love right. ❤
This judge is truly a teacher.
Run for your life you are a beautiful melanated
Lady you don't need this sorry man.
I listen to her daily...in any device she's current or otherwise. She's phenomenal; and I send condolences for the loss of her husband whom she loved and respected immensely. Had to have been a damn great man.
Wow that woman has possibly lived it...knows exactly what she's saying 😊
Thank you ❤❤❤❤. This is a worldwide epidemic destroying lives
It’s crazy to me how much negativity a woman will take from a man that she loves.
That why I love this lady.
Love your delivery Judge, my favorite Judge I might add❤❤❤❤❤👍🏾
YOU GO WOMAN 💯💯💯 I LIVE THE WAY YOU TELL PEOPLE WHAT THEY NEED TO HEAR❤❤❤ I'VE BEEN TREATED LIKE THAT & IT TOOK ME 20 YEARS AND 2 CHILDREN TO GET OUT IF IT!!!! THANKS 🙏🙏🙏 I SURE NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!! YOU'RE EXCELLENT 👌👌👌 KEEP GOING
She keeps it real.
and he sports a real smug self righteous visage. when the judge was saying that litany of insults i immediately thought she was berating him- and I concurred. i well know his vibes. a cruel narcissist lurking behind Heidi innocent braids! the judge was wanting to make him realize how hurtful he was; however, i sensed he felt proud of that. In the end all those adjectives fit him pretty well!
What a powerful woman, thank Judge 🙏🙏
Thank you for words of wisdom 🙏😇
Judge Lynn is so wise and will bring the storm to anyone who needs it.
Amen
Tell it Judge
I'm so sorry Judge Lynn Toler is in a class all her own! Not taking anything from Judge Judy. But I appreciate Judge Toler standing toe to toe with this narcissistic male who told her he had to do it that way! I hope this young woman can see the light and get out of that oppressive relationship!! Right on Judge!!🙌🏽💖🙏🏽
This country needs more judges like her.
Right on. Exactly. Bulls eye. I'm 72 and still dealing with "dummy, you're worthless, you're useless." Those are the ones I haven't gotten over.
She’s such a beautiful woman. Don’t let him break you. Hopefully she gets far away from him.
Absolutely. Psychic violence is pervasive and overlooked b/c generally, we don't think deeply enough about how we treat each other.
I went through that and he screamed it too. Screaming followed by the silent treatment for weeks at a time.
Amen Judge for giving that message to the young beautiful lady 😢❤Amen 🙌 🙏
One of the best judges ever!
Love u judge Toler , she’s gorgeous and smart Rest In Peace to her hubby 🙏🏽💐💕
So true
No one desires that kind of treatment verbally or physically.
Love Judge Lynn, she’s exposing the narcissist 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
He need to get himself a white girl and tell her that
It depends on which white girl he gets because the majority of them aren't putting up with that bs either. Watch snapped if you think I'm lying
No one should be treated like that. Queen should go for the throat!
@@letitiahawkins1880 FACTS sis!! 😂😂😂 All different ages at that.
The color of the skin doesn’t matter when someone is abusing the spirit and soul of a human being. We’re all the same.We’re all born of a woman.
@@bettyhudson979 FACT!
BEAUTIFUL WORDS!
Toler is the best judge for these kind of cases. 👍🏾
Can we please have judges like this for New Zealand and Australia 🥰🙏🥳
I just love when the judge gets down like that, absolutely 💯❤❤❤❤