I love your energy, it was so great to learn something new about you. I love that nowadays, people accept that taking care of yourself first is going to make you a better person/parent/partner/friends, colleague etc. I can see how my grandparents saw this as selfish, my parents don't see it as selfish but they also don't see it as important as it is. I see it as very important. I am very grateful that I live in this time and I understand the value of taking care of myself.
Haha, you’re hilarious! Subscribing eagerly 😂 there’s a funny typo on 00:44 - discover their BETS selves 😂 yeah, we all have to figure out our bets ourselves 😅 great one!
Love how you dug deep into your childhood upbringing to describe how you developed your approach to self-love/self-care, which brought you to where you are now! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story!! Matthew 22:39 "Love your neighbor as yourself." We are instructed to love ourselves. Somewhere along the way we see this as a selfish act but I believe God intended it to be a natural outpouring of who we are.
I love the way you express your self telling stories and teaching us about self-love. I am now happy because of self-love, I can give more because I am not any more broken.
Thank you for sharing your story!! ♥ I'm very sensitive too, and it's amazing how we can be so focused on how others are loving us but we don't love ourselves well.
Hey Van, loved your story. You are right. "Help yourself 1st before you help others". Especially after a breakup; we need to heal and "self-love is not selfish". You need to learn to love yourself, learn your likes and dislikes while preparing yourself for the next adventure.
Van you are amazingggg! So happy I found your channel. New subscriber here and loving all of your videos! The topic of self-love is so important, especially for HSPs, thank you for sharing this ❤️❤️
I adore you and thrilled to support your channel! The entire planet is learning self love yet it’s the women of the world like you & me awakening to our hearts and choosing new ways to honour ourselves and put an end (or lessening) to all the self hatred, dislike patterns & stories we’ve played out for Centuries as a human race on our Spiritual journey! I love referring to it as SELFING! Never selfish.. we are caring for ourself 1st, like the oxygen mask on airplanes prior to landing. You have a new subscriber!
Wow, love the story. I can really resonate with what you say about learning about self-love. It’s easy to lose yourself and give up parts of you are in work or with your relationships with others. Remembering to honor and show up for ourselves is key for happiness and fulfillment. We cannot be at our peak state and really give to others unless we are filled up and thriving in our own lives. Blessings!
Hey Van I agree with your comments regarding spending more time in nature when it comes to starting on your journey towards self-love. Great video. Thanks for sharing.
Yes, we need to be strong and loving ourselves in order to help others, totally agree. And reconnect with nature is a great way find that inner strength.
P.S. Your editing is great 👍 and also, I’m amazed that you have an IT background and worked in Accenture! We did a consultancy job for Accenture several years ago 🙂
Hey i love how youre able to do what you do because of all this but i seriously want to be relieved of all societal pressure and only live for myself, i’m 17, feel less understood, an hsp, with very small interests and i just want to guide myself through life accepting what i need to accept and not taking more than that
New subbie here and i really love your channel because it is very inspiring..i pray that this channel gets noticed..proud to be part of this family officially..can we be youtube friends?
I love the energy you're projecting in this video! Thanks for your story, I learned a lot
I love your energy, it was so great to learn something new about you. I love that nowadays, people accept that taking care of yourself first is going to make you a better person/parent/partner/friends, colleague etc. I can see how my grandparents saw this as selfish, my parents don't see it as selfish but they also don't see it as important as it is. I see it as very important. I am very grateful that I live in this time and I understand the value of taking care of myself.
This is great Van!
This is so brave of you! Thanks for sharing :)
Haha, you’re hilarious! Subscribing eagerly 😂 there’s a funny typo on 00:44 - discover their BETS selves 😂 yeah, we all have to figure out our bets ourselves 😅 great one!
Love how you dug deep into your childhood upbringing to describe how you developed your approach to self-love/self-care, which brought you to where you are now! ❤️
Physical and mental space is so important, I always resort back to that when I get overwhelmed and start feeling stressed. Loved all your tips! :)
Loved this self-love journey! Thanks for sharing your story Van :)
Thank you for being raw and vulnerable on this one. Sharing your journey to self-love and healing is definitely empowering. You're inspiring girl
Love your presence. Glad you were able to pick yourself up after the heartbreak.
Thank you for sharing your story!! Matthew 22:39 "Love your neighbor as yourself." We are instructed to love ourselves. Somewhere along the way we see this as a selfish act but I believe God intended it to be a natural outpouring of who we are.
Love the energy and excitement of this video! I appreciate the vulnerability, especially on a site like TH-cam. Props to you!
Words have power! This is a good topic and I'm glad more people can talk about it.
I love the way you express your self telling stories and teaching us about self-love.
I am now happy because of self-love, I can give more because I am not any more broken.
I loved your story! Self love 💗 is extremely important. You need to take care of you before you can be present for others. 💕
Thank you for sharing your story!! ♥ I'm very sensitive too, and it's amazing how we can be so focused on how others are loving us but we don't love ourselves well.
Hey Van, loved your story. You are right. "Help yourself 1st before you help others". Especially after a breakup; we need to heal and "self-love is not selfish". You need to learn to love yourself, learn your likes and dislikes while preparing yourself for the next adventure.
Self love is so so important!!
Very!
Your videos are very visually entertaining! Way to go girlfriend! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Self love = selfish. So true. We are brought up with that belief and it truly impacts our relationships! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Van you are amazingggg! So happy I found your channel. New subscriber here and loving all of your videos! The topic of self-love is so important, especially for HSPs, thank you for sharing this ❤️❤️
Love your story! thank you for being brave and share it.
I love your energy, and thanks for opening up in front of the camera, it's not an easy thing to do ❤❤
this is amazing, thanks for sharing this one :)
Love the energy you bring and how you emphasize the importance of physical and mental space thanks for sharing :)
I love that you took yourself on dates! Your authenticity int his video is beautiful! Already subbed!
When I feel overwhelmed or I have lots of stress I go hiking 🥾 and out to nature. Love video
This is so inspiring! Thank you, Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us.
I adore you and thrilled to support your channel! The entire planet is learning self love yet it’s the women of the world like you & me awakening to our hearts and choosing new ways to honour ourselves and put an end (or lessening) to all the self hatred, dislike patterns & stories we’ve played out for Centuries as a human race on our Spiritual journey! I love referring to it as SELFING! Never selfish.. we are caring for ourself 1st, like the oxygen mask on airplanes prior to landing. You have a new subscriber!
This video is super powerful and inspiring! I loved the definition of self-love and the way you went back to your childhood ! Loved the visuals !
Such an information packed video! Thanks so much for sharing and can’t wait for your next video
This video is awesome. I love how you edit, how you own your personality. Keep doing what your doing Van!
Wow, love the story. I can really resonate with what you say about learning about self-love. It’s easy to lose yourself and give up parts of you are in work or with your relationships with others. Remembering to honor and show up for ourselves is key for happiness and fulfillment. We cannot be at our peak state and really give to others unless we are filled up and thriving in our own lives. Blessings!
great energy. Keep it Up. Stay blessed and connected
Aww thanks!
I love a good story time! Yaaaas! ❤️❤️❤️✅✅✅
I didn't realize it but I also considered self love as selfish and only over the last year have been really making a shift! Great video
I looooove your vibe!!! Beautiful soul♥️♥️♥️ such an amazing video on self love and love the bible references 😘
Love your liveliness and thanks for sharing your story ❤️
Hey Van I agree with your comments regarding spending more time in nature when it comes to starting on your journey towards self-love. Great video. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for this interesting story! Self-Love is very important!
Great editing ! How many hours you spend to edit it? And very important topic, I can relate in many ways
I love this!!! I’m all about self love ❤️
Thanks for sharing on your self-love journey. Great story telling and good suggestions.
Thank you for this Van, you've given me a lot to think about! xo
aaaaaw.... im glad you’re heal. i hope we can both travel just the two of us... i love yaaaah my fave sister. 😘😘
Very nice content, keep up the good work and the great vibe
Omg am so senstive, i needed this
This was great, I like the energy I got from you 👌🏽
Love this and the way you helped your journey by working on you :)
Yes, we need to be strong and loving ourselves in order to help others, totally agree. And reconnect with nature is a great way find that inner strength.
Awesome video Van! :) Spending time in nature has definitely been a big one for me
Great topic! I listen to music and go on drives when I’m feeling stressed.
Your energy is phenomenal! Yaaas! Let me get my matcha kombucha tea ready! Lol 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼🔥
thanks for sharing your story
Congrats on 8th video Van! Just subscribed!
Excellent video! I met you through Sunny and YTFB You have def gained a new subscriber! Excellent content for me! Keep up the good work!
P.S. Your editing is great 👍 and also, I’m amazed that you have an IT background and worked in Accenture! We did a consultancy job for Accenture several years ago 🙂
Hey i love how youre able to do what you do because of all this but i seriously want to be relieved of all societal pressure and only live for myself, i’m 17, feel less understood, an hsp, with very small interests and i just want to guide myself through life accepting what i need to accept and not taking more than that
I love how you found yourself and happiness for yourself. You do You A++ #teamsunny#youtubeforbosses
Quite the story you have of your boyfriend. Sorry to hear that. Glad you kept going on and sounds like Hawaii was a great new beginning
Great video and story. Self-love is so important - too funny about the slap on the face. I was raised in Rome...the mecca of Catholic. I hear you.
Hello my name is Danielle and I'm an empath!!
Has me thinking 🤔 I didn't realize self love is selfish to some people.
Self-love is definitely not selfish. The left and right cheek bit sometimes gets taken too far and out of context.
really love it friend, dikitan tayo, uunahan na kita, pang uno singko tres ako, hintayin kita ah.
New subbie here and i really love your channel because it is very inspiring..i pray that this channel gets noticed..proud to be part of this family officially..can we be youtube friends?
8th video...yahoo!!