@@SocialConfidenceMastery actually really hard. I went through a breakup a few months ago with a guy I started dating right after I went to college and I just realized I actually don't have any friends because I was always hanging out with him and his friends. now the entire college just seems so big and it's so lonely like I just wish the relationship didn't end in the first place and it's affecting my studies as well. But your video helped so I hope I'll be able to create a social life soon enough😊 Thank you so much for actually asking
Educate yourself on social life stuff 2 Therapy 3 set Ur social goal 4 avoid isolating activities 5 touch base with old friends 6 meet Ur neighbor 6 connect with people at work or school 7 volunteer opportunities 8 keep an open mind 9 makes friend online 10 host more events 11 maintain Ur friendship 12 don't assume when they don't return call or text
I am 24 and have a social life for like 8 months now. I had to kick my ass often to go out and join stuff but it is absolutely worth it! When life gives you opportunities, use them! That might sound cringe but the „love“ you recieve from nice people you get to know is better then having fun in videogames or watching stuff alone. It is the case that such a young social life isnt that big as others social life who having it for like 15 years I am feeling a bit alien sometimes but I think the best thing to do to also reach this level is to just keep socialize. For me starting studying was the way I reached the goal to accomplish a social life.
@@SocialConfidenceMastery It hasn't improved much. I really want to get in a state where I can do almost every weekend something nice with people I know. My goal is also to get a girlfriend not only because of the girlfriend itself but also because it will probably enhance my social life greatly. But easier said than done..
Well I’m not an outgoing person I’m the opposite and I preferably. Like to be alone then being with others, but I admit it I do feel lonely from time to time other that I enjoy my own company. I would just like to make genuine close friends not just friends for the sake of having friends.
@@SocialConfidenceMastery asking for introductions and hosting events are such important things I'd just never have thought to do myself. The fact the video is so well edited and kept concise really is massively better than most others great work man😁👍👏
@@SocialConfidenceMastery It been alright im still learning tho how to become my old self it just quarantine and covid has made me forgot how to socialize
Hey bro....im very happy to see you again.....and one thing i wanted to have help with is....that as you said that go to your neighbour and introduce yourself....actaully i can Introduce myself and I'll be very Comfortable If They are comfortable If they are uncomfortable than i also become awkward...Okay anyway the thing i want to say is can you please make a video About this issue because it will help me alot....For example Im very comfortable when socializing with people....but im very Shy and awkward infront of the people I want to impress...I think this is due to anxiety....so can you please help me with that ( so its in my control...and even if i want to appear that way it Will be IN MY CONTROL ) also Im so scared To go out and show up at somebody home....LIKE entering To parties ...entering to school....entering to wedding hall....Anything that Requires you to enter...is just so scary for me..... I know its a long comment...i woukd really appreciate if you would read All this lol... ❤👍
@@SocialConfidenceMastery a friend of mine and i the other day played games or at least watched funny videos relating to it. I personally would go to an actual local gaming store where they got tables and people can trade cards or just hang out, talk about upcoming conventions and game trading events. But i am aware of people who just play games by themselves in their room instead of interacting with other players or meeting like minded people.
I wanted to create a social life but deeply inside I just don't want to feel lonely, I don't really care about anyone else anymore and since I cannot control people it makes me feel I lose control if I welcome them in my life. Selfish? Well, maybe that is the issue. I hate that this reality basically tortures you for not doing something that technically you don't need anymore to survive. This is real slavery.
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Your videos really helped me so much....You talk staight to the point...You give example You Talk Too...but it makes sense.....Which is a great conversation skill....lol one request if you could make A video about how Yo improve communications skills, that will make you seem attractive and polite....and Like how to listen well...how to focus and what to say in return....PLUS How to know when to stop...ALSO how to not give a damn what People Think of you.....also How to Create A positive impression on them ( actaully im pretty positive person but sometimes If people are Fucking rude then i cannot help but be rude to them but then again Its Not the BEST way to deal with people.....) lol i don't know what happened to me Like Why im writing These long Ass comments.....anyways i love you so much....
Watch this other video to help you have a better social life: 👉 How to have a social life and not feel so lonely: th-cam.com/video/99Z3bp5T8p0/w-d-xo.html
I love how this shows that creating a social life requires your effort and its an important aspect of life to work on.
You're so right!
How are things on your end Maya?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery actually really hard. I went through a breakup a few months ago with a guy I started dating right after I went to college and I just realized I actually don't have any friends because I was always hanging out with him and his friends. now the entire college just seems so big and it's so lonely like I just wish the relationship didn't end in the first place and it's affecting my studies as well.
But your video helped so I hope I'll be able to create a social life soon enough😊
Thank you so much for actually asking
@@maya511 I'm sorry to hear that! Have you seen my video on how to have a social life after a breakup?
@@maya511 I think you'll find that video very helpful since it is specific to your situation.
Educate yourself on social life stuff
2 Therapy
3 set Ur social goal
4 avoid isolating activities
5 touch base with old friends
6 meet Ur neighbor
6 connect with people at work or school
7 volunteer opportunities
8 keep an open mind
9 makes friend online
10 host more events
11 maintain Ur friendship
12 don't assume when they don't return call or text
Volunteering is such an awesome way to both meet people and have a sense of fulfillment! Thanks for the video!
Couldn't agree more!
Powerful actionable tips. I'll start with 'Setting social goals'
Thank you! I am very introverted and struggle with my social life. This was very helpful.
You're so welcome!
Volunteering is such an underrated activity- love that you brought it up!
Totally agree!
I am 24 and have a social life for like 8 months now. I had to kick my ass often to go out and join stuff but it is absolutely worth it! When life gives you opportunities, use them! That might sound cringe but the „love“ you recieve from nice people you get to know is better then having fun in videogames or watching stuff alone. It is the case that such a young social life isnt that big as others social life who having it for like 15 years I am feeling a bit alien sometimes but I think the best thing to do to also reach this level is to just keep socialize. For me starting studying was the way I reached the goal to accomplish a social life.
Look at you go!
I'm so happy for you!
How are things going so far?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery It hasn't improved much. I really want to get in a state where I can do almost every weekend something nice with people I know. My goal is also to get a girlfriend not only because of the girlfriend itself but also because it will probably enhance my social life greatly. But easier said than done..
Thank you I needed this, as a ambivert I don't know wtf is wrong with me
Have you taken a personality test yet?
I love your videos - always packed with practical tips straight to the point!thank you!
I do my best!
I am confident
That's awesome!
Oh my god!! I am in exact situation as you described.
That's great to hear!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
Well I’m not an outgoing person I’m the opposite and I preferably. Like to be alone then being with others, but I admit it I do feel lonely from time to time other that I enjoy my own company. I would just like to make genuine close friends not just friends for the sake of having friends.
This is actually a brilliant video. Very very well done, thank you
You're so welcome!
Which tip did you like the most?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery asking for introductions and hosting events are such important things I'd just never have thought to do myself. The fact the video is so well edited and kept concise really is massively better than most others great work man😁👍👏
Can you recommend podcasts about having a social life please
Of course!
There are hundreds of episodes here on creating meaningful relationships open.spotify.com/show/5EZGsSnLBPTFLFRHvqt9cC
Would love to hear your thoughts!
Great tips
Means a lot!
Which tip resonated with you the most?
I don't even have old friends, what do I do to improve my social life?
Have you seen my other videos on improving your social life?
Nice job man!
I appreciate that!
Thank you needed this. I been becoming a shell of my former self this year 💀
I'm glad you're here!
How are things socially on your end?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery It been alright im still learning tho how to become my old self it just quarantine and covid has made me forgot how to socialize
@@mrnoob918 I totally get that!
@@mrnoob918 Make sure you ease yourself back into the swing of things so prevent yourself from feeling overwhelmed!
Super useful. I am a fan.
I appreciate that!
Hey bro....im very happy to see you again.....and one thing i wanted to have help with is....that as you said that go to your neighbour and introduce yourself....actaully i can Introduce myself and I'll be very Comfortable If They are comfortable If they are uncomfortable than i also become awkward...Okay anyway the thing i want to say is can you please make a video About this issue because it will help me alot....For example Im very comfortable when socializing with people....but im very Shy and awkward infront of the people I want to impress...I think this is due to anxiety....so can you please help me with that ( so its in my control...and even if i want to appear that way it Will be IN MY CONTROL ) also Im so scared To go out and show up at somebody home....LIKE entering To parties ...entering to school....entering to wedding hall....Anything that Requires you to enter...is just so scary for me.....
I know its a long comment...i woukd really appreciate if you would read All this lol...
❤👍
I have another video on how to deal with social anxiety!
“You can go out with friends on the weekend” I DONT HAVE ANY. Nor do they contact me when they go out, no invites, nothing.
Sorry to hear that Ryan!
What have you tried so far when it comes to meeting new people?
the man!!
I miss you!
How do you start a conversation?
I have another video on how to make small talk with strangers!
Just be like hey what’s up I’m “lesasandra”
I volunteer♡.
Hii *Myke Macapinlac* 💗
Hello to you too!
unless the video game is multiplayer and you actually have real life people playing with you, in your house
That's a good point!
Is that what you do?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery a friend of mine and i the other day played games or at least watched funny videos relating to it. I personally would go to an actual local gaming store where they got tables and people can trade cards or just hang out, talk about upcoming conventions and game trading events. But i am aware of people who just play games by themselves in their room instead of interacting with other players or meeting like minded people.
Do you have any book recommendations for improving confidence and social life?
I have detailed blog posts about those topics.
Would you like me to send them to you?
Satanic Bible by Anton Lavey
I wanted to create a social life but deeply inside I just don't want to feel lonely, I don't really care about anyone else anymore and since I cannot control people it makes me feel I lose control if I welcome them in my life. Selfish? Well, maybe that is the issue.
I hate that this reality basically tortures you for not doing something that technically you don't need anymore to survive. This is real slavery.
So what are you going to do about it now?
Hi bro
What's up Naveed!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Your videos really helped me so much....You talk staight to the point...You give example You Talk Too...but it makes sense.....Which is a great conversation skill....lol one request if you could make A video about how Yo improve communications skills, that will make you seem attractive and polite....and Like how to listen well...how to focus and what to say in return....PLUS How to know when to stop...ALSO how to not give a damn what People Think of you.....also How to Create A positive impression on them ( actaully im pretty positive person but sometimes If people are Fucking rude then i cannot help but be rude to them but then again Its Not the BEST way to deal with people.....) lol i don't know what happened to me Like Why im writing These long Ass comments.....anyways i love you so much....
@@naveedjogezai2049 Thanks for the support!
@@naveedjogezai2049 I have another video on my channel on how to never run out of things to say!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery oh thanks I'll check it out
Watch this other video to help you have a better social life:
👉 How to have a social life and not feel so lonely: th-cam.com/video/99Z3bp5T8p0/w-d-xo.html