@@13sprintuser Thank you. To be fully transparent, I was initially devestated but it was ALL my fault. My regular binge drinking lead to me being dishonest and that in turn led to me being dismissed. I sent one lengthy email to her acknowledging what I did, didn't receive a physical response, I cleaned up my act as well as my behavior and moved on. If you're going through a breakup remember that things will get better and to reach out to friends and family. Spend time with them and meet new people, do new things because in the end everything will turn out just fine for you.
@@mahdman3 Thanks brother! I messed up as well and have had guilt/shame over my failures. But that's in the past. All I can do now is level up. I don't have any family nearby but I'm trying to grow my social circle little by little, although it's hard these days since many people are anti-social. It's been 4.5 months since the breakup and I'll try the dating apps soon. Have been working out 6 days per week tho!
My ex calls me after 5 months. I started cutting calls short and telling her to hmu if she had some free time. We went the longest we ever had without talking. She finally called and told me I’m hurting her feelings… lol I said “I told you I’m not your friend. I love to hear from you but I’m not your little buddy. Call me if you have free time for me.” She sent me a few memes, I ignored and she finally called me one morning before work wanting hang out (bang). I told her I had to work but let’s try this weekend :) it doesn’t mean she’s back, but she’s interested. I never use to do this. 3 years together. The only wrong was that I loved her sooo much. I got it in check and cautiously forging on. This is one of Corey’s best videos. If you’re here take this shit seriously. Been getting jerked around for 3 years. One subtle shift in frame has changed so much already. Even if it doesn’t work out
@@mahdman3 hang in there. Stay strong and mind yourself. She gave me some more hot and cold. I started no contact for another 2 weeks and now she’s back to how she use to be. I’ve been playing things very properly though. She’s extremely difficult, this is not luck.
What I’ve learned the hard way is sometimes relationships just run it’s course.. when you try to establish something that fell off again it’s never as easy as the first time. Is it possible? Maybe but your game has too be so on point that even knowing how tight your game has to be ruins your game mentality.. it’s not natural anymore.
You have to have an internal shift to even be able to apply the things in the book. You can have the knowledge, but not have the self control to do what the book teaches. These guys do not have the self control.
Fact, the reason you should read the book 10-15 times is not to "retain all the knowledge", its to adopt the mindset. If you've got the mindset right, it doesn't matter if you remember what Corey said you should do in the exact situation, because you will know what to do.
If she's left you already, it's to late. Even if you were able to get her back it would never be as good as it could be with another woman who's truly into you.
@@KS-yj4pt Most of the time she's not a flake, you just fucked up. And the truth is, once you fucked up, there is no recovering. It's time to move on, learn from your mistakes and use the pain as motivation to adopt a better mindset. I think that most of the guys watching Corey are looking for "the secret trick" or "best strategy" to make a woman like you, when in reality there isn't one. What Corey teaches is at the core a mindset, most people will get that by the time they read the book 10-15 times, that is why he preaches it. You can play your cards perfectly with a girl. You can know the book backwards and forwards. But if your mindset is still that of a weak little bitch, IT WILL SLIP OUT. It's unavoidable.
divorced two months ago (we planned it about a year ago), she basically lost attraction/respect about 3 years ago… we share 3 kids and for the most part we get along fine… she started seeing this dude about a month ago (im better looking and make more $, shes also struggling keeping up w the house bills) she does feel guilt splitting our family apart… ive made real changes and she’s noticed, however from now on what should my attitude be towards her, i want to NOT have hopes to get back w her because i don’t want to get burned. Update (2/20/2024) : doing a LOT better haha. Definitely not getting back w her, and All is good 🤙
Sorry to hear about your divorce man. Just keep doing what you have to do to move yourself forward if that means dating other women, taking care of your body, excelling at work. Hey just treat her with respect but treat her like how you would treat every Woman as the coach says she is after all the mother of your three children. If she's the one that wanted to divorce then she has to work to get you back, but it all depends on what you want. Maybe you don't want to get back with her maybe you want friends with benefits only you can decide. All the best.
In the words of Eren Yeager, "Keep Moving Forward." She is okay leaving you and finding another dude let's you know she is okay moving on and you should do the same. I have been married and had strong hopes me and her would get back together. We hadn't talked from 2017-2020. When we did talk we were so peaceful and doing good and she just ghosted me out of no where and all of that feelings of anxiety came back from what I thought I was healed from. We talked on and off until I finally ended it in 2022 and moved on with my life. I left on my terms while she is struggling to find happiness with her new man and wants me back but I am happier without her... However if we are both single I might get a free booty call from time to time. You can and will find someone better. Just do as the coach says. Go out and have fun. You can't meet new women feeling sorry for yourself at home. I go out with friends and have fun and have girl come up to me and hit on me in front of my girlfriend. If I can do it so can you. Don't have no regrets on your past. Just Keep Moving Forward.
@@pedrojuarez6258 Who says the new guy she is seeing is a dirt bag, he could be a great guy for all you know. And he said she lost respect for him, so maybe it wasn't about the grass being greater on the other side, maybe he changed over the years and became a weak man she could no longer respect. Maybe he had some responsibility in the relationship failing too.
@@haselbasil2488 absolutely. It was my fault, i ignored her for a long time, she didn’t feel listened and understood…. Ive changed quite a bit actually, and she (kind of) knows it… question is if it’s enough to build some attraction over time. I have to find a way to make her fall for me again
After doing everything wrong like begging and pleading and sending flowers to her house and reaching out over the course of 2 months, i finally told her to reach back out if she changes her mind today and implementing NC.
Should of done that along as time ago. No Contact isn’t some make believe, its the only way. Can’t force someone to love you. They have to want it themselves.
You’re a 100 percent about red pill guys. The love of my life became so angry and snapping at me and would never apologize or show any remorse or caring and I kept asking if he hated me and he denied it, but I felt like he deeply hated me and I got more and more scared as his anger escalated. It took me forever to figure out what was going on and then I noticed him saying weird words and phrases on repeat and well I started googling the words and phrases and I watched video after video of angry red pill podcasters and then I knew he had been completely brainwashed. I’m glad to be safe and sound and not with him anymore. I seriously felt he was going to kill me towards the end.
I love this. Sorry for the dudes getting roasted but this is good stuff. He’s setting you in your place and doesn’t mess around. I like he’s not making excuses for the red pill community. This will help dudes get their game back on track
I completely understand where these guys are coming from. However, even though it's what they might not want, they need to move on. It's not an easy thing to walk away forever but it's the best way.
Truth is, if she has overwhelming attraction, butterflies and honeymoon vibes with the new guy, all you can possible do is let her ride it out. Your no contact won’t make a blind bit of difference until those feelings for the other guy end or subside. Everyone’s different though and a 2 year relationship is gonna be a lot different than a 20 year marriage.
Exactly, if she actually likes the new guy and is in the honeymoon phase, experiencing limerence, ecc. You have no chances at the moment. Go no contact anyways, 'cause that's better than begging, but don't expect it to work as it would if she was with someone she didn't like as much. The only thing on your side is time. After six months, a year, maybe a year and a half those intense feelings between them two will start to subside, the idealization will fade, the first serious arguments will come up, she will start to remember you and compare him to you...and that's when she will probably start reaching out.
@@scorpiocurse7969I’m going through this now, she’s in limerence with the new guy. It’s been about 2.5 months right after the breakup (probably lined up before breaking up with me) I gave her the breakup and didn’t beg or plead at all, and went right into no contact after she picked her belongings up a week later. We texted a couple weeks ago, I foolishly broke no contact after 2 months, and we had some playful banter, I asked her to a date and she said yea maybe next week, but then she would never commit to a day and time then ended up leaving me on delivered a few days later when I asked one more time. So I’ve gone back into no contact. I can tell she is still open to reconnecting if she’s emotionally cheating on her rebound already with me lol, but she’s clearly distracted with the new guy. So you think by like 6 months it should start entering the real stage of the relationship and honeymoon fog will start clearing? I’m waiting for that first big argument lol. I would never take her back seriously but def would for FWB. Should I just never reach out again? Or maybe reach out at the 6 month mark?
I was with her for 2 years. She ended the relationship abruptly. I wanted to stay in good terms, she just yelled at me, didnt give a chance to speak, I left by slamming the door. She blocked me everywhere. How are you supposed to move on without closure and ending the relationship with a fight with the person you love the most in the world.
Corey Wayne bulked like 5 years ago, but before that (roughly 11 years ago) he was lean and super cocky face mannerisms. Now he’s reached a nice Yoda-like Zen space.
Give them their space. When they contact they can come to your place... say something like "wear something sexy and have a bottle of wine in your hand" this way you have options on what you do with your ex🤷♂️
Coach Any chance you can dive into women who “come out” in a long term relationship. My Exfiance came out as bi and separated after 7 yrs then moved on to a chick within 2 months. Don’t know how to go about it
Basically you fucked up and now she is experience new things and try woman out, that must hurt but yeah read the book 10-15 times, improve yourself and date othet woman
She left him after three years and then a few days later after breaking up she’s with another dude? in his car?? Yeah, she already had something going on with Chad. He needs to man up and move on! She already had a guy lined up. No matter how long they were together, she already had her mind made up, way before the break up. We all know the guy in the car has read the book 15-20 times.
Not necessarily. All it takes is to act like a man more than her current partner. Woman typically warn you before they leave "unexpectedly." They slowly check out and most are blind to it. His book teaches this in the section of gauging her attraction.... Get the book and read it, you won't regret it.
I do not feel free. I am currently in a deep fake imprisonment made by my silly immature ex. I do not have to fix a darn thing. He is the cheater. Not me. Nothing to fix anyway. I don't like this one. Bad advice.
Coach way too many ads in your video I can’t even watch these things anymore I got 20 ads in one video no thanks unless someone is paying my ass I cannot keep watching these videos
I looked at coaching, but being disabled makes that hard. I've been in a 3-4 month relationship. started simple. best sex I've ever had. after spending about 6 days at her house she started getting freaked about minor differences. but I was like take it or leave it. she took 5 d!ys and then she came to me to try again. then she mentioned I should surprise her. it'd be so cool if... I got out of car and she met me at door. very Luke warm reception. but maybe she's just tired. the next day she worked. after she got home I rode to pick up her son. I asked if I should keep keys this time. she said no. I was like wtf do you want me to go?? yea maybe. so I left in tears. the first time was me but then she did it and I'm really hurting. not just a reaction for being dumped thus time - I realized I had some sig feelings. sh2 kept saying sorry over e r and over. so I wrote a note that I'll post after. she wanted to be friends. kidding I said "special friends"? I had tickets to concert I was going to take her to. I mentioned how passionate sex with her was and that maybe we can bouncy-bouncy. she mentioned her ge/ing hotel for night of concert. so FWB basically. I know I shouldn't say but I had love for her. I said I'm sorry we can't be friends like Corey says.itd be too painful. I messaged that this would be la as t message and I loved her. she said she loves me too even if I don't believe it. so we are now radio silence. do I fo for fwb and hope it restarts with few er lab we ls or stick to guns on the ..this is my last msg thing. ? I really need help. "I truly love you. I am proud that your doing the gymn for you. I've always tried to get you to do you. it seems you are. proud of you for that. You got through multiple times in my man cave. The germ thing was there , but the spirit of compromise was there. I also encouraged you to do stuff nice and think about yourself not in the last place, at least some of the time. I am going to really miss you, but I've tried to be a friend. I just can't revisit the pain. So this will be the last time I speak with you. I am hurt, but maybe in time I can stuff it. I really was looking forward to that concert. but I am in love with you. that'd always be there. I'll wait to hear from you in December.(she has something of mine) If you ever want to revisit "us" just text me, call me, etc. love always,
I never EVER thought I'd be watching a video about getting my ex back yet here I am.
so... did she come back?
@13sprintuser Hahaa nope and guess what? I DON'T CARE! I have other prospects.
@@mahdman3 awesome dude! level up!
@@13sprintuser Thank you. To be fully transparent, I was initially devestated but it was ALL my fault. My regular binge drinking lead to me being dishonest and that in turn led to me being dismissed. I sent one lengthy email to her acknowledging what I did, didn't receive a physical response, I cleaned up my act as well as my behavior and moved on. If you're going through a breakup remember that things will get better and to reach out to friends and family. Spend time with them and meet new people, do new things because in the end everything will turn out just fine for you.
@@mahdman3 Thanks brother! I messed up as well and have had guilt/shame over my failures. But that's in the past. All I can do now is level up. I don't have any family nearby but I'm trying to grow my social circle little by little, although it's hard these days since many people are anti-social. It's been 4.5 months since the breakup and I'll try the dating apps soon. Have been working out 6 days per week tho!
My ex calls me after 5 months. I started cutting calls short and telling her to hmu if she had some free time. We went the longest we ever had without talking. She finally called and told me I’m hurting her feelings… lol I said “I told you I’m not your friend. I love to hear from you but I’m not your little buddy. Call me if you have free time for me.” She sent me a few memes, I ignored and she finally called me one morning before work wanting hang out (bang). I told her I had to work but let’s try this weekend :) it doesn’t mean she’s back, but she’s interested.
I never use to do this. 3 years together. The only wrong was that I loved her sooo much. I got it in check and cautiously forging on. This is one of Corey’s best videos. If you’re here take this shit seriously. Been getting jerked around for 3 years. One subtle shift in frame has changed so much already. Even if it doesn’t work out
Great story dude thanks
Great job brother!
Fantastic story! Thank you for helping me out by sharing it.
@@mahdman3 hang in there. Stay strong and mind yourself. She gave me some more hot and cold. I started no contact for another 2 weeks and now she’s back to how she use to be. I’ve been playing things very properly though. She’s extremely difficult, this is not luck.
@@ink_stain525is it worth the effort? How are things going now?
Do not go back- move on. You learned what you had to through that experience. You need new experiences.
What I’ve learned the hard way is sometimes relationships just run it’s course.. when you try to establish something that fell off again it’s never as easy as the first time. Is it possible? Maybe but your game has too be so on point that even knowing how tight your game has to be ruins your game mentality.. it’s not natural anymore.
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Coach, you are a bright beacon in a very dark world when it comes on to dealing with females. Thank you
You have to have an internal shift to even be able to apply the things in the book. You can have the knowledge, but not have the self control to do what the book teaches. These guys do not have the self control.
Very true
Fact, the reason you should read the book 10-15 times is not to "retain all the knowledge", its to adopt the mindset. If you've got the mindset right, it doesn't matter if you remember what Corey said you should do in the exact situation, because you will know what to do.
And if it's not in your nature then you can truly damage your mental health.
If she's left you already, it's to late. Even if you were able to get her back it would never be as good as it could be with another woman who's truly into you.
❤
Been there, done that. Absolutely true
💯
The issue is these guys are demonstrating behaviour that will see the same pattern repeat over and over.
@@KS-yj4pt Most of the time she's not a flake, you just fucked up. And the truth is, once you fucked up, there is no recovering. It's time to move on, learn from your mistakes and use the pain as motivation to adopt a better mindset.
I think that most of the guys watching Corey are looking for "the secret trick" or "best strategy" to make a woman like you, when in reality there isn't one. What Corey teaches is at the core a mindset, most people will get that by the time they read the book 10-15 times, that is why he preaches it.
You can play your cards perfectly with a girl. You can know the book backwards and forwards. But if your mindset is still that of a weak little bitch, IT WILL SLIP OUT. It's unavoidable.
Nobody should be bothering to get their ex back. Move on to something better you deserve it.
Boys please: Stop. If they don't want you forget about them.
divorced two months ago (we planned it about a year ago), she basically lost attraction/respect about 3 years ago… we share 3 kids and for the most part we get along fine… she started seeing this dude about a month ago (im better looking and make more $, shes also struggling keeping up w the house bills) she does feel guilt splitting our family apart… ive made real changes and she’s noticed, however from now on what should my attitude be towards her, i want to NOT have hopes to get back w her because i don’t want to get burned.
Update (2/20/2024) : doing a LOT better haha. Definitely not getting back w her, and All is good 🤙
Sorry to hear about your divorce man. Just keep doing what you have to do to move yourself forward if that means dating other women, taking care of your body, excelling at work. Hey just treat her with respect but treat her like how you would treat every Woman as the coach says she is after all the mother of your three children. If she's the one that wanted to divorce then she has to work to get you back, but it all depends on what you want. Maybe you don't want to get back with her maybe you want friends with benefits only you can decide. All the best.
In the words of Eren Yeager, "Keep Moving Forward."
She is okay leaving you and finding another dude let's you know she is okay moving on and you should do the same.
I have been married and had strong hopes me and her would get back together. We hadn't talked from 2017-2020. When we did talk we were so peaceful and doing good and she just ghosted me out of no where and all of that feelings of anxiety came back from what I thought I was healed from. We talked on and off until I finally ended it in 2022 and moved on with my life.
I left on my terms while she is struggling to find happiness with her new man and wants me back but I am happier without her...
However if we are both single I might get a free booty call from time to time.
You can and will find someone better. Just do as the coach says. Go out and have fun. You can't meet new women feeling sorry for yourself at home.
I go out with friends and have fun and have girl come up to me and hit on me in front of my girlfriend.
If I can do it so can you. Don't have no regrets on your past. Just Keep Moving Forward.
@@pedrojuarez6258 Who says the new guy she is seeing is a dirt bag, he could be a great guy for all you know. And he said she lost respect for him, so maybe it wasn't about the grass being greater on the other side, maybe he changed over the years and became a weak man she could no longer respect. Maybe he had some responsibility in the relationship failing too.
@@haselbasil2488 absolutely. It was my fault, i ignored her for a long time, she didn’t feel listened and understood…. Ive changed quite a bit actually, and she (kind of) knows it… question is if it’s enough to build some attraction over time. I have to find a way to make her fall for me again
Women destroying families left and right these days. Pitiful.
Never go back
The brutal honesty in this video is unreal. I love it.
Come on guys read the book!! On my 11th read currently (and in my first ever healthy relationship) 💪
After doing everything wrong like begging and pleading and sending flowers to her house and reaching out over the course of 2 months, i finally told her to reach back out if she changes her mind today and implementing NC.
Should of done that along as time ago. No Contact isn’t some make believe, its the only way. Can’t force someone to love you. They have to want it themselves.
You’re a 100 percent about red pill guys. The love of my life became so angry and snapping at me and would never apologize or show any remorse or caring and I kept asking if he hated me and he denied it, but I felt like he deeply hated me and I got more and more scared as his anger escalated. It took me forever to figure out what was going on and then I noticed him saying weird words and phrases on repeat and well I started googling the words and phrases and I watched video after video of angry red pill podcasters and then I knew he had been completely brainwashed. I’m glad to be safe and sound and not with him anymore. I seriously felt he was going to kill me towards the end.
They are your ex for a reason. Keep moving forward.
The more i listen to Corey the more he teaches about life
I love this. Sorry for the dudes getting roasted but this is good stuff. He’s setting you in your place and doesn’t mess around. I like he’s not making excuses for the red pill community. This will help dudes get their game back on track
I completely understand where these guys are coming from. However, even though it's what they might not want, they need to move on. It's not an easy thing to walk away forever but it's the best way.
No fluff, to the point. Good stuff coach
Anytime a chick says she’s confused, there is certainly another dude in the picture.
Coach Corey Wayne does it again. Great content.
Truth is, if she has overwhelming attraction, butterflies and honeymoon vibes with the new guy, all you can possible do is let her ride it out. Your no contact won’t make a blind bit of difference until those feelings for the other guy end or subside.
Everyone’s different though and a 2 year relationship is gonna be a lot different than a 20 year marriage.
Exactly, if she actually likes the new guy and is in the honeymoon phase, experiencing limerence, ecc. You have no chances at the moment. Go no contact anyways, 'cause that's better than begging, but don't expect it to work as it would if she was with someone she didn't like as much.
The only thing on your side is time. After six months, a year, maybe a year and a half those intense feelings between them two will start to subside, the idealization will fade, the first serious arguments will come up, she will start to remember you and compare him to you...and that's when she will probably start reaching out.
@@scorpiocurse7969I’m going through this now, she’s in limerence with the new guy. It’s been about 2.5 months right after the breakup (probably lined up before breaking up with me) I gave her the breakup and didn’t beg or plead at all, and went right into no contact after she picked her belongings up a week later. We texted a couple weeks ago, I foolishly broke no contact after 2 months, and we had some playful banter, I asked her to a date and she said yea maybe next week, but then she would never commit to a day and time then ended up leaving me on delivered a few days later when I asked one more time. So I’ve gone back into no contact. I can tell she is still open to reconnecting if she’s emotionally cheating on her rebound already with me lol, but she’s clearly distracted with the new guy. So you think by like 6 months it should start entering the real stage of the relationship and honeymoon fog will start clearing? I’m waiting for that first big argument lol. I would never take her back seriously but def would for FWB. Should I just never reach out again? Or maybe reach out at the 6 month mark?
Words of wisdom, Coach. 💪🏾💪🏾
Preach it coach you're the man 👍🏾
I love your videos. I ordered your book, as well. I am crying laughing at your comments you make. hahaha wow!
She Belongs to the THUNDER !!
My Nigga. We know this is real talk. But how you present it . 10/10 My brother. You are my friend . But we never met❤
A dentist appointment on a Sunday. Lol, that's not BS.
Exactly what I thought tbh
Love watching these videos with a bottle of good port
Chad thundercock is ALWAYS hanging around! 😂😂
I was with her for 2 years. She ended the relationship abruptly. I wanted to stay in good terms, she just yelled at me, didnt give a chance to speak, I left by slamming the door. She blocked me everywhere. How are you supposed to move on without closure and ending the relationship with a fight with the person you love the most in the world.
Her not wanting to be with you is closure
@@ItSpooling_exactly what I tell people. Them leaving you is your closure
Love yourself more than anyone else. She dont matter no more
22:38 this is true affff. my friends always have excuses
Corey Wayne bulked like 5 years ago, but before that (roughly 11 years ago) he was lean and super cocky face mannerisms.
Now he’s reached a nice Yoda-like Zen space.
Good lesson Corey
Give them their space. When they contact they can come to your place... say something like "wear something sexy and have a bottle of wine in your hand" this way you have options on what you do with your ex🤷♂️
Yup!
Hearing Coach say Oy Ve literally made me laugh. Not that I blame him.
Coach
Any chance you can dive into women who “come out” in a long term relationship. My Exfiance came out as bi and separated after 7 yrs then moved on to a chick within 2 months. Don’t know how to go about it
@@dontassumemyfender9866 Amen
Basically you fucked up and now she is experience new things and try woman out, that must hurt but yeah read the book 10-15 times, improve yourself and date othet woman
She left him after three years and then a few days later after breaking up she’s with another dude? in his car?? Yeah, she already had something going on with Chad. He needs to man up and move on! She already had a guy lined up. No matter how long they were together, she already had her mind made up, way before the break up. We all know the guy in the car has read the book 15-20 times.
Not necessarily. All it takes is to act like a man more than her current partner. Woman typically warn you before they leave "unexpectedly." They slowly check out and most are blind to it. His book teaches this in the section of gauging her attraction.... Get the book and read it, you won't regret it.
Oh man coach is tough on some of these knuckleheads 🤣 my goodness 😅
You never take your ex back...
This guy is funny asf 😂
Get a woman who isn't chasing feelings.
Most of them are chasing feelings
Could you please elaborate?
That would be a man sire
I cheated on my gf several time after we came exclusive. No she broke up w me. I love her I want her bk, I don’t know how’s that gonna happen
You deserve to be broken up with lol. And you really dont love her
Plough her strawberry fields 😂😂😂
Both me and my ex don't cook... Maybe have uber eats together? lol
Thanks Corey
Damn you Chad Thundercock!
I do not feel free. I am currently in a deep fake imprisonment made by my silly immature ex. I do not have to fix a darn thing. He is the cheater. Not me. Nothing to fix anyway. I don't like this one. Bad advice.
I asked for space because she was being rude and asked her to apologize, she laughed, i had already apologized, she blocked me. 😂😂😂 Fu##@$ ego.
Chad Thundercock 😂😂
Come on man.
Sorry once a chick steps out its over no coming bck from that
I love these redpill comments 🤣🤣🤟🤟
First!
You’re funny
Coach way too many ads in your video I can’t even watch these things anymore I got 20 ads in one video no thanks unless someone is paying my ass I cannot keep watching these videos
This isnt an airport you dont have to announce your departure haha
@@dasani383 LMAO !! this isn't a comedy club you don't have to announce your jokes :)
TH-cam Premium is worth the cost
Go premium dude irs like 10 bucks or something.
Should I unfollow my ex on Instagram?
Nahh, it will show you're phased by it.
@@philcourtyGreat advice!
I would
Definitely. Peace for the mind is guaranteed then.
I looked at coaching, but being disabled makes that hard. I've been in a 3-4 month relationship. started simple. best sex I've ever had. after spending about 6 days at her house she started getting freaked about minor differences. but I was like take it or leave it. she took 5 d!ys and then she came to me to try again. then she mentioned I should surprise her. it'd be so cool if... I got out of car and she met me at door. very Luke warm reception. but maybe she's just tired. the next day she worked. after she got home I rode to pick up her son. I asked if I should keep keys this time. she said no. I was like wtf do you want me to go?? yea maybe. so I left in tears. the first time was me but then she did it and I'm really hurting. not just a reaction for being dumped thus time - I realized I had some sig feelings. sh2 kept saying sorry over e r and over. so I wrote a note that I'll post after. she wanted to be friends. kidding I said "special friends"? I had tickets to concert I was going to take her to. I mentioned how passionate sex with her was and that maybe we can bouncy-bouncy. she mentioned her ge/ing hotel for night of concert. so FWB basically. I know I shouldn't say but I had love for her. I said I'm sorry we can't be friends like Corey says.itd be too painful. I messaged that this would be la as t message and I loved her. she said she loves me too even if I don't believe it. so we are now radio silence. do I fo for fwb and hope it restarts with few er lab we ls or stick to guns on the ..this is my last msg thing. ? I really need help.
"I truly love you. I am proud that your doing the gymn for you. I've always tried to get you to do you. it seems you are. proud of you for that. You got through multiple times in my man cave. The germ thing was there , but the spirit of compromise was there. I also encouraged you to do stuff nice and think about yourself not in the last place, at least some of the time.
I am going to really miss you, but I've tried to be a friend. I just can't revisit the pain. So this will be the last time I speak with you. I am hurt, but maybe in time I can stuff it. I really was looking forward to that concert. but I am in love with you. that'd always be there. I'll wait to hear from you in December.(she has something of mine) If you ever want to revisit "us" just text me, call me, etc.
love always,
Uncle I never had