Let SS stay with his mom or dad. He's not your kid. He wants the fantasy of his bio parents together. Neither one wants or loves him. He needs to figure that out. I don't know why the exes didn't just stay together. Now they can be together and aren't. What was the mom's end game?
They're both selfish flakes. They've never been parents to their kids and SD seems to want as little as possible to do with either of them. SS is younger and his parents' influence over him has damaged him greatly. I really hope he can get better. The mom is a homewrecker and floozy. She ain't worth all the trouble of being around or having anything to do with her.
SS probably already figured it out, but he doesn't want to face the facts that his parents will never come back together. it sucks for him, but when he faces that reality he'll be better off and maybe apologize to OP
Wow, the moment you walked in and found them having a "family dinner" in your house must have been incredibly shocking. You handled the situation with strength by kicking them out. Stay strong and keep putting yourself first!
My step dad was only 12 years older than me (I was 12 when he was 24 and started dating my mom) and he was (prior to his passing) my best friend, my mentor and my primary parent after he got his sea legs about being a parent. I still mourn him.
Story 1: it’s crazy to me how he goes from “Im glad u didn’t get pregnant cuz you’d be a horrible mom” to “I don’t want a divorce. Let’s go to marriage counseling”
OP should have forced both the stepkids parents to pay her child support and babysitting cost. In the end, they are not her children and she needs to put herself first. Like others said, tell the kids they are welcome over to your house and spend time with you, but their parents are not allowed to step foot on your property and they need to understand what their parents did was not okay and something their own partners when they are older should do. Edit to add that OP is depent upon others for happiness. She needs to take a step back and leaen to love herself first. Get a pet and then check the dating scene.
Story 1 op needs to let go she need major therapy before she takes care of others is pathetic her ex in kids sounds like a rebound for her lost and that ain't gud
ST1 "My stepson and stepdaughter were neglected.” Proceeds to then say husband and their mother aren’t bad parents, er if the kids were neglected they certainly weren’t good parents. Tell stepdaughter that she’ll always be welcome in your life especially when she transitions into adulthood and that your door will always be open to her.
Story 2...., it's weird the second you HONESTLY explain where you two first met, can't change my mind. Not to mention what this "weird" situation could do to his career as a teacher. Oh yeah, Mr. So-n-so married and is having kids with a former student of his. Put that on the wedding invite.
OP has problems with codependency. She's unable to be alone, and that is going to keep hurting her. It's unhealthy for her to have so much emotional dependence on SD. She's a kid who's hurting and it really irked that SD was promising to keep her parents away. That is not her responsibility! OP and the bio parents have all done harm to the kids by having them so enmeshed in adult problems. Kids should not be emotional crutches or human shields in an adult conflict. Kids in these situations end up putting their own feelings on the backburner because their too busy trying to help their parents get through their emotional problems. I don't think OP is a bad person, but I do think she needs to see a therapist and figure out how to make healthy bonds and not trauma bonds or codepent bonds.
Let SS stay with his mom or dad. He's not your kid. He wants the fantasy of his bio parents together. Neither one wants or loves him. He needs to figure that out. I don't know why the exes didn't just stay together. Now they can be together and aren't. What was the mom's end game?
They're both selfish flakes. They've never been parents to their kids and SD seems to want as little as possible to do with either of them. SS is younger and his parents' influence over him has damaged him greatly. I really hope he can get better. The mom is a homewrecker and floozy. She ain't worth all the trouble of being around or having anything to do with her.
SS probably already figured it out, but he doesn't want to face the facts that his parents will never come back together. it sucks for him, but when he faces that reality he'll be better off and maybe apologize to OP
Wow, the moment you walked in and found them having a "family dinner" in your house must have been incredibly shocking. You handled the situation with strength by kicking them out. Stay strong and keep putting yourself first!
men and women should be careful with partners with kids. op seems to continue to take financial responsibility for the kids
Yeah no they not her kids and it mess up that the dad and bio mom being like the yeah he can kick rock
My step dad was only 12 years older than me (I was 12 when he was 24 and started dating my mom) and he was (prior to his passing) my best friend, my mentor and my primary parent after he got his sea legs about being a parent. I still mourn him.
Story 1: it’s crazy to me how he goes from “Im glad u didn’t get pregnant cuz you’d be a horrible mom” to “I don’t want a divorce. Let’s go to marriage counseling”
How about "you'd make a horrible mother. Take my kid"
OP should have forced both the stepkids parents to pay her child support and babysitting cost. In the end, they are not her children and she needs to put herself first. Like others said, tell the kids they are welcome over to your house and spend time with you, but their parents are not allowed to step foot on your property and they need to understand what their parents did was not okay and something their own partners when they are older should do.
Edit to add that OP is depent upon others for happiness. She needs to take a step back and leaen to love herself first. Get a pet and then check the dating scene.
Everyone is, to some extent, dependent upon others for happiness. Humans need each other to stay sane.
Story 1 op needs to let go she need major therapy before she takes care of others is pathetic her ex in kids sounds like a rebound for her lost and that ain't gud
I had a stroke trying to read this
ST1
"My stepson and stepdaughter were neglected.”
Proceeds to then say husband and their mother aren’t bad parents, er if the kids were neglected they certainly weren’t good parents.
Tell stepdaughter that she’ll always be welcome in your life especially when she transitions into adulthood and that your door will always be open to her.
Story 2...., it's weird the second you HONESTLY explain where you two first met, can't change my mind. Not to mention what this "weird" situation could do to his career as a teacher. Oh yeah, Mr. So-n-so married and is having kids with a former student of his. Put that on the wedding invite.
Have the kids meet their parents somewhere other then your home & change the locks.
OP has problems with codependency. She's unable to be alone, and that is going to keep hurting her. It's unhealthy for her to have so much emotional dependence on SD. She's a kid who's hurting and it really irked that SD was promising to keep her parents away. That is not her responsibility! OP and the bio parents have all done harm to the kids by having them so enmeshed in adult problems. Kids should not be emotional crutches or human shields in an adult conflict. Kids in these situations end up putting their own feelings on the backburner because their too busy trying to help their parents get through their emotional problems. I don't think OP is a bad person, but I do think she needs to see a therapist and figure out how to make healthy bonds and not trauma bonds or codepent bonds.
Kinda a garbage take ngl
I'm waiting to see the story of the daughter revealing to her mother about her father's betrayal, be ready.
It was the first story? The stepdaughter told her step mom she found her father and mother together in the parents room?
These arent her step kids anymore, ex telling her to do better by her step kids when they are in the process of divorcing.
Last story...she's living her school girl.dreams...wont last
Yeah naughty girl she's having sex in the no-no place without describing it 😂
Bruhh i can't focus into the story because how frequently he died in Minecraft make me laugh 😂
How many times did he die???
😂😂😂
Story 1 "the relationship is still new and im treading carefully" she says while knocked up with the new bfs kid 😂
to be fair to op, she got pregnant while they were using protection.
@@guestact still not taking it slow though lol
Story one: why are these kids still in your house???
She loves them
Op is a mess she should have kicked them kids out. Lol
Patented?
Parented I think.
10:54 Dude got spawn camped!
Yo story 2 weird ash lmao
100th Like.
I hate this ai voice channels