@@sweetgabrown7062 So what don't allow what someone else does to change you into a mean cold hearted thoughtless women. Unless you were already that of course.
The judge was married for twenty plus years until heat husband passed. She's giving the couples wisdom....she's given this man motherly and wisdom advice.
Quickly trying to shut him down to manipulate him into thinking he is the issue. Men are going to run through her use her up and she'll become bitter and jaded in years to come talking about all men are bad.
She got some nerves to be upset at the man, because he say he’s gonna reevaluate himself and shoot for the stars that burnt her up inside when you say that😩😩😂😂😂😂😂
Narcissistic people will never take accountability for their actions and one partner will never be enough. They need to have their supply lined up when the current one is discarded.
We all know what a real man is more than most men!!!! It’s instinct. However this culture grew up without a good father so many young adults HAVE ZERO idea. She Should have been Honest & broke up with him instead of cheat
@@hawaiigirl8089I'm sorry but your statement sounds ridiculous, if a woman didn't grow up with a father in the home I doubt she knows what the actions of a man is unless she consciously took heed and learned their actions. And even if she did grow up with a father, different men have different personalities. Let's focus on being women and not try to emasculate men.
Most of them learned what they know about men from Hollywood, music lyrics, and pop culture!!! Basically, a figment of their own imagination, as inspired by the entertainment industry!!?
@@omokaroojiire, You hit the nail on the head!!!! I’m Annoyed with females listening to music or watching stuff on television then trying to apply it to their lives. Reality shows have them Delusional
Sometimes people don't know what they have is good until they lose them. Let her learn from that. And be with someone who respects you, help mate and speak life. I have a son and I want the best for him. She ain't it... run.
Please don’t go back to her he looks like he’ll allow himself get reeled right back in by her. Your betta than that. Love yourself enough to leave her right where she is. She’ll be single again sooner than she thinks.
@@1960pylThis is an old episode. Recently, women like men with finer feelings. Women, in my opinion, are less interested in the masc heterosexual typical men. The toxicity has become off putting. This guy now have a better chance of finding women who will appreciate him.
I met her she is definitely a genuine woman at heart and gives people great advice based on insight and her visual evaluation and how she assesses a relationship or situation is awesome. She definitely calls it how she sees an individual treat another. ❤
@@djinomack357 You might be right, it's so stupid and not in their best interests, Thank goodness we can be blessed not having her if she that type, for it's not all, but a lot.
Judge Toler, this is your healing of losing a wonderful husband. Teach the broken hearts they can Achieve a good marriage like you have experienced in your life. Much luv Judge
He did everything for his wife and she didn't even say thank you) OMG that man is so awesome and sweet and caring and he knows how to treat a woman with respect and loving and care most definitely)
Women who are in this mindset, don't know what they want, thay get bored really fast, and a thug type of guy who does nothing for you, and is insensitive to feelings for you,he gets the key to the house and the car, women are disillusion and men are logical 😮😮
I love this judge ! When you are right you are right !And when you are wrong you are wrong . This young man seems so lady sweet and just knows how to treat a lady . He’s a keeper for life .
He's too good for her it's not just all about looks, and that really eratating she needs those niggers that beet her and cheet I guess that's acting like a man
Cheating is thee ultimate sign of disrespect. I got cheated on by a girlfriend back in senior high school and when I found out I was angry to the point that I never said anything else to her. I have no respect for cheating at all and for those who do that is a sign to not make commitments if a person isn't going to be faithful to girlfriend or boyfriend. This brotha got tired of her attitude plus being cheated on was the straw that broke the camel's back. I hope and pray that brotha man finds a good woman that will be in his corner and down for him. There are way too many people these days that are cheating on someone and don't care to think of thee effects and consequences that happens from that. Ever since that day I kept single. I never wanted to experience that ever again. Plus I enjoy being single. I hope that her attitude about romantic relationships change for the better and not treat another man like that because the way she was talking about him talking down on him will leave her single for a very long time until she changes her perception and attitude about romantic relationships.
We all know what she is. She told on herself with the, "He's not being a man" excuse, after cheating on him. She'll regret it when it's her turn.🤦🏼♂️🤦🏾♀️🤦
She gonna learn that the man that she cheating with ain't gonna want her when she's divorced cause he's watching how she moves and he knows in the back of his mind she ain't shit. Then when she meets someone and they ask what happened in her last relationship she's gonna say it was toxic and he was a narcissist
THERE IS NO SHORTAGE OF PEOPLE WITH "SELF CENTERED" AGENDA. I JUST LOVE HOW MISCHIEVIOUS MEN & WOMEN FLIP EVERY SITUATION TO BE WITHOUT FAULTS. ♠️THE VANITY ADDICT♠️
To leave her is not your "failure" it is you going forward without a liar and a cheater. The Lord will send you a lady worthy of your love and trust. ❤
Whenever I find the love of my life I would never break that person down, degrade them, or make them feel less than I will only uplift and honor them as long as I live ❤😢😮
I hate that phrase "play the victim" it's almost always used by narcissistic individuals whose forté is manipulating others..it's the worst form of defence.
Girls like that aren't ready for a sweet man who loves them, because they think they have all the time in the world to play . Five, or six years from now, when she's all usedup, she 'll be looking for you when she wants to settled down !!! Righy now, all she wants to do is play with the bad boys!!! Listen to the judge. Keep developing yourself and the right woman who is worthy will come into your life!!!
@@ricohall6124 You're coming across as damaged. There's billions that are and there's billions that agree that he should run. The comment section represents the ones that agress he should run. If you chose to focus on the negatives one thats your choice. If it's healing that you need I hope you do so. 🙏
HE DESERVES BETTER! SHE IS AND NOT WORTH IT!!!!!! THERE'S SOMEONE ELSE THAT WILL BE BETTER! UNTIL THEN, DO YOU!!!!!! ALL RHE HAPPINESS AND PEACE!!!!!!!
Fellas anytime a woman you are in a relationship with starts pointing out everything you are now not, whether it be your body, your personality, etc...chances are she's cheating on you or already has. Because she's now comparing you to the guy she's messing around with. When she starts throwing aroung questions like "Why don't you do this?" Or "Why are you not like that". Those should be all the red flags you need. Call her out right then and there. "Who are you messing around with and who are you comparing me to? Guaranteed, you ask the right questions she'll tell on herself, by what she says OR what she refuses to say. The best thing for you to do at that point is leave because YOU deserve better.
Unbelievable she cheats then she turns the table around to blame him. 🤦🏼♀️
THIS IS WHAT YIU CALL A NARCISSISTIC DEMON! THEY REDIRECT THE PROBLEM BACK ONTO THE VICTIM!
Men do it all the time 😢. Now we see how rotten the behavior is 😢
@@sweetgabrown7062 So what don't allow what someone else does to change you into a mean cold hearted thoughtless women. Unless you were already that of course.
That's what you call a narcissist
That's what cheaters do they find an excuse to belittle you by saying you are not this or that that's what made me do the cheating
That was an elegant way of telling her she's trash
Yes
ON ME❤😅
Straight jezebel trash!! 😂😂
Judge Toler has such good insight and advice!!
Amen and amen same here 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 👏 ♥️ ☺️
👁 👁
👄 Most of what Judge Toler says is common sense 🤔 protect your self and your health dump that THOT 👀
The judge was married for twenty plus years until heat husband passed. She's giving the couples wisdom....she's given this man motherly and wisdom advice.
You know what they say.. Hindsight is always 20/20 lol.. but she does have an amazing way of communicating with people.. 💯🤙🏾
Amen 🙏🏼
The power of walking away is his best choice 🎤
If they cant appreciate your presence...then make them respect your absence!
Amen
Every single muthasuckin time ! 💪
Ohhh, that's going in the memory bank!
@@afrolatina2811 that philosophy can be passed down for generations!
I Stand with you on that my brother yes i do.This b loves freestyle than to be choosen. and i am a female seeing wrong being done to this brother.
It takes a grown wommin to neutralize a foolish self entitled Jezebel. 😊
I love juge Judy and juge madalen and juge Matthes
As soon as she interjected it was clear who was the problem
Right, with her ignit a$$. She’s the purest definition of the “silly woman”.
Quickly trying to shut him down to manipulate him into thinking he is the issue. Men are going to run through her use her up and she'll become bitter and jaded in years to come talking about all men are bad.
Clearly
Wait until she tell the side dude thats she's free now and try to get him to take up the main dude relationship responsibilities. Outta there!😂😂😂
Lmao I tell chicks all the time once you and your man break up I gone too ✌🏾 😂😂
Uh, yeah. If you cheated on him, you'll cheat on me. You can't be trusted.
Hit tha bricks 😂
That's right judge.....CALL HER OUT!!!!
Ain't even ways he time on her 😮🎉
Beau men❤❤
She got some nerves to be upset at the man, because he say he’s gonna reevaluate himself and shoot for the stars that burnt her up inside when you say that😩😩😂😂😂😂😂
Misery likes company!
Ok nb ever heard of narcissism🙄
Its women like her that make it hard for the rest of us.
She gone miss him when he gone, especially when she see him happy with another woman. Facts.
Nah she'll be neck deep in sausage
Yup and when the manly man she left him for starts manhandling her! She gon learn!!
Judge Toler gave this young man the best advice I pray 🙏🏾 he finds someone who really loves and cares about him
I hope he heals fast. She'll regret her foolish ways. He look drained 😢
She is not sick. She is strong, independent, 304. Look at her smile.
The man is weak.
I doubt she'll regret it..she looks ready to go out and make more irresponsible and questionable decisions before she starts to reflect
Totally agree.He should run fast
No she won’t
@@victormuhammad2678 😔
Narcissistic people will never take accountability for their actions and one partner will never be enough. They need to have their supply lined up when the current one is discarded.
Yesss.
I love Judge Toler! The judge is so real!💖🙌🏽
My favorite Judge is back!! You just made my day Judge, with your beautiful self… I am so happy for you…
Instead of her admitting she isn't interested any longer her attempt to tear him down is disgusting....Walk my brother, better awaits you..😊😊
U mean Run 🏃♂️
Run brother run and don’t look back.🏃🏿♂️
Lord she treating him like the man she is cheating with going to treat her. I pray he finds better and leaving is a start.
I love the way you said that!
@@irritism1227
Me Too😅
Toler is the shix and she puts the real truth down!!! I truly love u judge!! ❤
Brother needs ruuuuuuuun fast and find someone that really will love and respect him 😊
Good luck 🍀 this is a C Screwed up hook up culture
Which is nobody😂 they for the streets
@@Lifeizriggedso are y’all.
He needs to stay away from that woman. She don't care about him. He can find someone else.
She's not a man what does she know about being a man
We all know what a real man is more than most men!!!! It’s instinct. However this culture grew up without a good father so many young adults HAVE ZERO idea.
She Should have been Honest & broke up with him instead of cheat
@@hawaiigirl8089I'm sorry but your statement sounds ridiculous, if a woman didn't grow up with a father in the home I doubt she knows what the actions of a man is unless she consciously took heed and learned their actions. And even if she did grow up with a father, different men have different personalities. Let's focus on being women and not try to emasculate men.
Most of them learned what they know about men from Hollywood, music lyrics, and pop culture!!! Basically, a figment of their own imagination, as inspired by the entertainment industry!!?
@@omokaroojiire, You hit the nail on the head!!!! I’m Annoyed with females listening to music or watching stuff on television then trying to apply it to their lives. Reality shows have them Delusional
@inkagold547 yes think you for everything you just said 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Judge you are a true judge, out for the truth. God bless you!
She belongs to the streets, that's not wife material at all. Run as fast as your feet can carry you.
Get in a car and get away FASTER than your feet can carry you!
Sometimes people don't know what they have is good until they lose them. Let her learn from that. And be with someone who respects you, help mate and speak life. I have a son and I want the best for him. She ain't it... run.
Too many single women to deal with a cheater.
Men cheat
Women cheat
@@markhicks7171 y’all cheat more
We need more Judges like Lynn Toler.
SAY IT LOUDER JUDGE!!..YEAH WALK AWAY..WHEN THERES ANY FORM OF CHEATING..😒😒😒😒
Amen and amen same here 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 👏 😊😢😢😢😢😢😢
💯💯💯
Single for over 20 years,how time flies when your having fun.
Please don’t go back to her he looks like he’ll allow himself get reeled right back in by her. Your betta than that. Love yourself enough to leave her right where she is. She’ll be single again sooner than she thinks.
A Thug, is what is wanted, not a man, that have been raised in the home, and not on the streets!
@@1960pylThis is an old episode. Recently, women like men with finer feelings. Women, in my opinion, are less interested in the masc heterosexual typical men. The toxicity has become off putting. This guy now have a better chance of finding women who will appreciate him.
She wants and need someone just like her. They are NOT a match.
She is too damn cheeky she is the one cheating on him and tries to make him look like he the bad guy how dare she?
@@goodasgoing I hear ya!
Tell It like it is Judge Toler👍🏽 You're Always Speaking wisdom, Love & Many Blessings 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
I ❤ this judge! So classy at calling one out wo calling them what they are 😂
I met her she is definitely a genuine woman at heart and gives people great advice based on insight and her visual evaluation and how she assesses a relationship or situation is awesome. She definitely calls it how she sees an individual treat another. ❤
Some women don't respect NICE men! They will cheat on you with the dude who don't want them .
Best gift is to move on don't look back and live your best life and let the guy have her full time and he doesn't want her.
@rodneyshannon5759 women logic is so weird at this point I'm convinced it's embedded in their DNA.
@@djinomack357 You might be right, it's so stupid and not in their best interests, Thank goodness we can be blessed not having her if she that type, for it's not all, but a lot.
And then has the audacity to say he's playing victim. Unbelievable.
Judge Toler, this is your healing of losing a wonderful husband. Teach the broken hearts they can Achieve a good marriage like you have experienced in your life. Much luv Judge
Any woman would be lucky to have him as a husband most definitely)
Like me
Tell him JUDGE the way it is; She don't want him . DUCES!
I haven't heard this kind of talk of a woman telling other like it is since my grandmother passed. This is refreshing
Next stop Paternity Court. Run young man.
Judge Toler keeps it real!!! ❤❤❤
He did everything for his wife and she didn't even say thank you) OMG that man is so awesome and sweet and caring and he knows how to treat a woman with respect and loving and care most definitely)
Now he needs to leave, heal and be ready for a WIFE that GOD has for him!!!💯
Women who are in this mindset, don't know what they want, thay get bored really fast, and a thug type of guy who does nothing for you, and is insensitive to feelings for you,he gets the key to the house and the car, women are disillusion and men are logical 😮😮
I hope he find someone that love him
Passport
Big facts your honor it was best for you brother. God bless you.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you Judge Tolbert for telling it like it is.
I love this judge ! When you are right you are right !And when you are wrong you are wrong . This young man seems so lady sweet and just knows how to treat a lady . He’s a keeper for life .
My Brotha and King, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!
Say that again ###Fast ❤❤❤❤
I love this lady, so real ❤❤❤
Then she's putting him down!!
He's too good for her it's not just all about looks, and that really eratating she needs those niggers that beet her and cheet I guess that's acting like a man
She blame him for not being a man,and then say that:s why. she turned to cheating. Man she's cheap for that.She is for the corners.
Good advice Judge
That was the best advice and conformation that could've been given to this young man. SALUTE!
Cheating is thee ultimate sign of disrespect. I got cheated on by a girlfriend back in senior high school and when I found out I was angry to the point that I never said anything else to her. I have no respect for cheating at all and for those who do that is a sign to not make commitments if a person isn't going to be faithful to girlfriend or boyfriend. This brotha got tired of her attitude plus being cheated on was the straw that broke the camel's back. I hope and pray that brotha man finds a good woman that will be in his corner and down for him. There are way too many people these days that are cheating on someone and don't care to think of thee effects and consequences that happens from that. Ever since that day I kept single. I never wanted to experience that ever again. Plus I enjoy being single. I hope that her attitude about romantic relationships change for the better and not treat another man like that because the way she was talking about him talking down on him will leave her single for a very long time until she changes her perception and attitude about romantic relationships.
Get counselling!
We all know what she is. She told on herself with the, "He's not being a man" excuse, after cheating on him.
She'll regret it when it's her turn.🤦🏼♂️🤦🏾♀️🤦
She gonna learn that the man that she cheating with ain't gonna want her when she's divorced cause he's watching how she moves and he knows in the back of his mind she ain't shit. Then when she meets someone and they ask what happened in her last relationship she's gonna say it was toxic and he was a narcissist
Deflection deflection deflection smh 😂 she's a piece of work
That’s right…keep stepping
Its amazing how women see how men break them, but dont see how they break men.
SAD SITUATION 😔
THERE IS NO SHORTAGE OF PEOPLE WITH
"SELF CENTERED" AGENDA.
I JUST LOVE HOW MISCHIEVIOUS
MEN & WOMEN FLIP EVERY SITUATION
TO BE WITHOUT FAULTS.
♠️THE VANITY ADDICT♠️
Thats the raw truth Judge Toler.Real advice in such a situation
Did she say he was not asking like man? So she cheated, there is karma coming for her
To leave her is not your "failure" it is you going forward without a liar and a cheater. The Lord will send you a lady worthy of your love and trust. ❤
She’s the kind of person that needs to feel something, until then, she will continue to in her devious ways..
Sadly common, too much indulged in games and self entertainment
He seems like a sweetheart.
They dont see themselves as the problem until proven.😂 woa😂
DAMN, TRUE TALK ❤️💯🎉
Whenever I find the love of my life I would never break that person down, degrade them, or make them feel less than I will only uplift and honor them as long as I live ❤😢😮
I hate that phrase "play the victim" it's almost always used by narcissistic individuals whose forté is manipulating others..it's the worst form of defence.
Girls like that aren't ready for a sweet man who loves them, because they think they have all the time in the world to play . Five, or six years from now, when she's all usedup, she 'll be looking for you when she wants to settled down !!! Righy now, all she wants to do is play with the bad boys!!! Listen to the judge. Keep developing yourself and the right woman who is worthy will come into your life!!!
Excellent advice, run forest run and never ever go back to her. She's not worthy of you sir.
Run dude run. You will find someone who is worth your time. Someone out there is waiting for you.
304’s always F around and find out the new guy gone dog her out
I wish my man was like him. FAITHFULL
😮 Really 😮 Damn
If she doesn't want you because you're an good man, then somebody else will. I can guarantee you on that.
As soon as I find out you dealing with someone intimately or emotionally it's over...no talking
She said he's so emotional like we not supposed to have feelings too. Hopefully, she doesn't get someone who beats her.
Accountability is modern women's kryptonite
Okay 👍 judge on point ☝️🤷🏾😅
It doesn't matter if a woman is in trouble or cause trouble. Another woman will always Be there to have their back and bail them out😂😂
The judge is a women who told sir to run
@@marquitapetty9685mam that is one woman out of billions who are on the woman's side. So stop the BS please.
You know damn well what he said is rite.
@@ricohall6124 idk what comment section you're reading because majority of the women on this thread is encouraging that man to run as he should.
@@marquitapetty9685 did I say anything about a comment section? NO. But we all know what i said is true.
@@ricohall6124 You're coming across as damaged. There's billions that are and there's billions that agree that he should run. The comment section represents the ones that agress he should run. If you chose to focus on the negatives one thats your choice. If it's healing that you need I hope you do so. 🙏
He said mouthful re-evaluate myself and shoot for the stars. Lesson learned he will be better and get better 💯
Ain.,t she special!!!!!!!!!!!
HE DESERVES BETTER! SHE IS AND NOT WORTH IT!!!!!! THERE'S SOMEONE ELSE THAT WILL BE BETTER! UNTIL THEN, DO YOU!!!!!! ALL RHE HAPPINESS AND PEACE!!!!!!!
If you are paying attention, look at the judge winks at the defendant. As she gets on her, you cant make this sh!t up
It's her fake eyelash .. bothering her
Ok and
Her karma will be, never meeting another guy with his ❤️ smh 🚮
Judge Toller always keeps it 💯 I❤it!!!!
She spoke facts fr 💯💯💯
Judge is exactly right. RUN🏃♂️
Thank you for that one judge. I love you ❤.
This Judge is really wonderful!!
I'm Really Diggin This Judge, SHE'S SO ON POINT!! PLEASE KEEP ON PREACHING TO THIS YOUNG GOOD LOOKIN BROTHA, HE CAN FO'SHO' DO BETTER!!!!
I don't leave with them so I'm not gonna judge them, life is short ya'll get it together!!
I like this woman, always on point
Absolutely... Judge Toler set him on the right path! 💡
She made him a victim then said he's good at playing the victim 😂
Fellas anytime a woman you are in a relationship with starts pointing out everything you are now not, whether it be your body, your personality, etc...chances are she's cheating on you or already has. Because she's now comparing you to the guy she's messing around with.
When she starts throwing aroung questions like "Why don't you do this?" Or "Why are you not like that". Those should be all the red flags you need. Call her out right then and there. "Who are you messing around with and who are you comparing me to?
Guaranteed, you ask the right questions she'll tell on herself, by what she says OR what she refuses to say. The best thing for you to do at that point is leave because YOU deserve better.
Amazing she nailed it! I have been through the same thing. He has a RIGHT to protect his health.
Run brother Run !!!! There is someone that will appreciate You !!!!
Somebody give this Judge her round of applause times 10000 this definitely goes for women who cheat too thank you ❤❤💯🙌🏽
Judge Lynn Toler u are just the best u say it the way it is straight on.
Judge Toler is giving him some Very wise advice!!
He's looking forward not backward. He really sounds as if he WILL leave! Good..
I love the way yhe judge slick read her for filth while uplifting him with some great advice‼️
I can say that Judge Toler doesn't let these women walk away clean...She lets them have it!!!!