I spent my inheritance money on a married man, my regrets and life lessons | LNN
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- When Lynn received the news she would be inheriting her late father’s land, she was too young and could not possibly make some wise decisions . And when she fell in love with a man she thought loved her, she started “lending “ him money, would buy him gifts to take to his wife and made a lot of bad moves
So where is she now and what has journey taught her?
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Thank you so much for watching🙏
Good morning 🌞 sister Lynn and team Lnn.
Happy happy new month ☺️☺️☺️💖
Lynn, please consider putting subtitles when using Swahili, though I understand Swahili but for the sake of other audiences around the world.
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Dear @Lynn, Im late as always. Please consider some translation notes for the sake of your audience who don't understand Swahili. I believe latest technology can help you do the needful. We love you 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Mambo vipi dada Lynn mimi niko poa naomba utuwekee maneno ya kiswahili kwa sisi tusiojua lugha ya wazungu
Getting involved with a married person can lead to emotional and financial complications. It's essential to prioritize self-care and make decisions that align with your long-term well-being
But you can't blame her, they are married and they are meant to look out for each other even financially
Regardless its always better to apply wisdom to everything you do in a married in every aspect. Investing of the inheritance with the help of an advisor is better
Absolutely. Investing with a financial advisor could help you make better use of the remaining inheritance and recover some of the lost funds
indeed, most people downplay the roles of financial planners until burnt by there mistakes.
Productivity is optimized and keeping up to date strategies and analysis makes it more lucrative.
I've been able to navigate the volatilities and scaled up 790k from 220k from my inheritance with professional
Please could you guide me on how to get in touch with your consultant? My funds are being eroded by inflation and I seek a more lucrative investment strategy to effectively utilize before I consider retirement
She’s refreshing!! She doesn’t blame life and people, she isn’t a victim. She’ll go far and be successful
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Ladies, I repeat myself over and over, if a man asks you for money, run as fast as you can.
I wish I read this one year ago. I paid a trip to dubai for a man he was to refund but wapi. He was flying from 🇰🇪 and I was flying from another country to meet in dubai. He came with no cash and I mean zero. I financed the whole thing. I will never mix love and money
They are worst than lady gold diggers.
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Thank you
Mimi mwanamume aniombe pesa that's a turn off
If Lynn ngugi thinks I will sit here and watch a 1hr, 37mins video on being love-scammed; SHES ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! I'm watching non-stop.....
😂😂same too
Aki you my people 😂😂😂
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I agree
Not me wanting to call u pundaaa🤣🤣🤣 ETI just because you started like "if Lynn thinks"🤦🏽♀️
I’m South African and we’ve been a whole lot of these stories. It surely is a swindler season. Fellow ladies, in looking for love let’s always be sober and vigilant. Take care ❤
I am maasai, I have gone through hell in the hands of a man I called my husband. How he convinced me to take a loan tununue property,,,kimila ni kitu mbaya. I gave him all the money only for him to go and use on women,,,it got worst,,,left my marriage with 2 kids,,, hustled God opened doors and gave me another chance,,,am now abroad working and schooling my kids.
What an amazing episode. I found the guest to be articulate, beautiful, humerous and pretty intelligent. She has tons of potential and I hope she gets to realize it to the fullest.
This story is really educative especially to us women who sometimes are taken by granted by these ungrateful men
Sorry about your past experiences with your men, just note that some are really good but it is up to you to do your due diligence.
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Likes za kuwa number one kindly 😅
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Uko na shida wewe
@@mercynjoki8618 mpatie like acha kuwa mgumu hadi wa like
@@mercynjoki8618Heri wewe umeweka shida chini .
Niombe shida ziniondokee ,kama wewe, badala ya kunicheka.
LORD OF MERCY !
I loved this statement,"if a marriage and business fails its the one that failed not me"👌
Talking like Karen nyamu who else agree with m🙋♀️
Optimistic with life and doesn't blame anyone.
The vibe, the energy.
This lady is real and doesn't hide her "shame" or put a blame on someone...we have a few lessons to learn from such stories
One thing i told myself is, i will always be in my good girl era..I will never date a married man nor entertain any...i believe everyone get their own...Learning alot from Lynn
Good for you👏👏
Wueh that's me,,that is one thing i cant imagine myself doing,,, I love it so much when "they" learn through the hard way..
Lot of ladies say how ndio wanabakisha
I'm encouraged ...i went through this with a wrong man ..built him and yet he was a married man😢. Let me pick up ny broken pieces and rebuild myself and my love life.
Things will fall into place 😊trust God
It happens huku nje watu ni nguo zimetufunika tuhadithie tunayopitia wwngi hawawzi amini
Never too late🙏
Hugs darling sister God will bless you again and strengthens you
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This woman is amazing. As a 28 year old in a life that's moving too fast I'm encouraged.Blessings to you Lynn and Lynn...nipewe huyu as a friend aki❤❤❤
I wish all my 20 side chicks wa the man who married me come en watch this .....😢😢wamenitenda Hadi nkapelekwa single room but am alive en have good health na my three kids
You have been keeping count?
One day I will my story
@@Carolynmurungikamakunesema kuletewa kwa hao
Jipende haki. 20 sidechicks? You married your enemy.
Love yourself so so so much to a point that you are full of yourself.
I learnt that 20 Yrs ago.
When your a good person, you don't loose people, they loose you.
She's going far.
is she a good person? we have to admit that both of them have a part to play. she is not totally innocent in all of this.
Lyn I don't like your hair 😅
My sister did this mistake but I thank God she is collecting her pieces and building her life back
This is a life lesson. Lynn you have done well for yourself, you dusted yourself and lifted yourself up. Being a yes person can be so draining, I have had a yes syndrome for many years and I decided to start thinking of myself. Now people say that I am bad simply because I cannot say yes to everyone even if I suffer. It took me time to get used to saying no and not feel bad but am there and am loving it. Getting involved with a scammer is the worst thing that can happen to any woman, you lost so much money but at least you have your life. Continue shining, you are very beautiful and brave. I just love your spirit. Go Go girl.
My age mate am so proud of her achievements more grace
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Wah I can relate this is bad 😞
A rare occurrence.
Lynn meets Lynn 🙂😀
Life lesson
Me i think am very stingy i can’t give my money to any man 👨 once he ask for money i call it a breakup 😂😂😂
😂😂 that's me it turns me off
😂😂 this is me too
She's such a beautiful soul. So gracious.All the best Lynn in your rebuilding.God give you much more than you've lost,He restores.
Lynn yours is not just a show ni lessons you are educating gal child in a big way God bless you
I knew this girl when she was I think 12 or 13yrs back in arusha,shes all grown lady with a tough experience,woi your aunty seela will remain my role model,she was the first person to take me for a disco at sabasaba,may her soul dance with angel,gal you are a strong gal,just like your mum sialo, keep the fire burning...am happy you have shined your eyes now.cheers
Who else noticed that both Lynns look alike? Beautiful duo in the house❤❤❤
❤I am not a failure,its my business that has failed.Start Again and Again.Learned a lot.Thanks.
This is sad.. I hope ladies taking notes any man asking a lady money and is not your husband, please 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ for your life.
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Murifeeee😂😂😂
Even if he is my husband. He should ask for what he gives me.
One of the best interviews I have watched so far. This young lady is so mature.
I was looking for this comment. Maturity top notch and she is not 30yrs old yet. After this experience, the sky is the limit.
Heh. 😂 I have laughed coz I went thru character development. People can lie out here. Women, if your instincts are telling you something, never ignore.
*I'm with my wife coz of my kids* If a man says those words to you just run as far as your legs can take you.
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😄😄😄😅 tu Kemboi
🤣🤣🤣🤣 very true
Or I have kids the wife went and even got married to another man. Ruuuun.
Lynnnnnnn !!!!!! I am so proud of you babe, for being bold enough to open up about the past. You are a beautiful human being in and out. You deserve everything nice. We all have a story to tell, we just don't have the courage. Love and Light!!!!!
Im so encouraged by Lynn's story. She's a strong girl. Go Lynn
Yes she is and beautiful too
Hata mimi
Hi Lynn (Guest). First of i am so sorry for what you went through. We are almost the same age, I'd call you my big sister but i can relate on what being clueless with life is.
Remember me? Scola wa chama, the freezer and Tv chama? I actually wrote it off. I understand what 2021 was, it was equalky worse for me. And i think we have to move past it. We all if not most of us have debts, i still do to date.
I hope that one day we will sit down and laugh it off. Last Christmas you made us some nice pilau, don't know if you remember. I was going through depression that time.
I am glad youre doing better.
I am rooting for you and hoping for the best for you and us young girls, only children. We are doing thos life with no manual.
Love and light to you.
Lynn this lesson is not just for young girls..but us as women in general..especially single mothers should never be too quick to love without giving in time
they took advantage of one another as she knew he was married. But normally such relationships don't last, so what happened shouldn't be a surprise. Cut losses and do things right next time
Such a strong woman. . Best interview so far. . It will encourage so many women out there. .
Lynn (guest) is so real, pragmatic & doesn't mince words 🎉. You'll go far. May God bless you & guide you ❤
The truth is your past was your teacher, today is your opportunity and tomorrow will be your testimony. More grace to you Lynn for living your purpose, you are a blessing to many 🙏
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”
― Maya Angelou
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Her destiny is so bright. She gas a heart of Gold. She is going far. The moment you discover yourself, your light shines day by day girl.😅
That lady is very real and honest. She has opened my eyes and am happy good people only suffer for a while then they bounce back. She is young and going very far. Success, Success Success!!
Wow!what a strong lady you are..we fall,arise and move on wiser
I feel you girl I've been there and still made it just not giving up and staying kind regardless. The abundance mindset is healing. 💚
Your guest is a strong person. I love her positive outlook on any event in her life. wishing her well.
Lynne thankyou you have encouraged me to start again , I have talked to you over the phone and you have advised me , you have a beautiful heart you are going far thankyou for sharing your story .
Happy new month team lynn.99% of married men normally they go back to their families.but a few can decide to make mpango wa kando as their second wives of which again 99%they regret later .so the best thing to do is to stay away from this married men and learn to start your own family.its better to start from scratch than going for a married man whom has already build his life with his family.
Very profound 🙏 Thanks for sharing and telling the truth.
I have been discouraging young girls from getting into relationship with married .Some girls think that lam outdated and conservative.
At 57 yrs old l have seen a lot 🙏🙏
It never ends well.
Its actually 99.99% who go back🙏🏽
Na hao wanawake hawajali sabubu ya magonjwa sabubu mimi bwana yangu akitoka nje l cant take him back
Correct
Lynn, you are amazing and thanks for openly talking about your story. God bless you!
This story is really a lesson... I cannot stop listening to her . LYNN is a strong lady. Thanks for good lessons LYNN HOST❤
You were naive Lynn, I'm happy to hear you've grown and are moving on to greater heights.
Am really encouraged by Lynn's story coz since 2021 up to now those landlords texts keeps my pressure at 210 hopefully one day God will remember me too!..😢😢...It's scaring out here!...😢
The Bible says in Micah 7:8, Do not rejoice over me, my enemy, When I fall, I Will arise; When I sit in darkness,vThe Lord will be a light to me.
Lynn, you will rise up again in Jesus name Amen 🙏
...the minute she says the so called bf was aware of her fortunes, then she mentions brokers and deals ..... instinctively any Kenyan knows, it's about to go down😂
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It's about to go down 😂
Brokers walikulia,from lands to a car .
I know,I also asked myself why she told someone she's just met about her inheritance progress.Even if they hadn't just met some things you just keep hidden
@@jackiekaki9026She was only 19 or 20 at most. She was naive
It really hurts so much for the people that we take to be our friends to turn against us during the times of trials but on the other hand it’s good because during that time we get to know our real friends.
What a story, glad she picked up 😊 You shall conquer girl
Good morning 🌞 LNN community. Here with my 📝 to learn
You have handled things well. You will make it. Holding on things hurts more - let go and you will pick up again
Lynn, the atmosphere and ambience around that room with a mixture of colours blending with the yellow seats illuminates peace and tranquillity. The twins Lynns look absolutely amazing. Lynn host, by the way, your affirmation to Lynn, the guest guest, is positive. She is great, beautiful, and a blonde of sorts. I, too, affirm you two.
Wow, 1995 born is at her prime and at the right point in the trajectory of life - Confident, purposeful, and self driven.
Lynn, in May 2016, all the revelations you made to a stranger are what made him learn that you were young and naive. Conmen are often smart and ingenious when dealing with someone who is vulnerable. He discovered all your weak points and started manipulating you. Very sad, Lynn, but that is already in your past. Everyone goes through some experiences that are part of life. Often, when you find yourself in a situation like Lynn's, interrogate your conscience. When your intuition communicates something that is unusual, stop, hold, and review. Lynn's experiences are a premonition to all of us that you need to take caution when dealing with individuals that take you for a right. There is nothing as bad as a friend that plays around with your mind.
"Wewe ulikuwa in love kweli..."Lynn 1 😅."Wewe ngojea..." Lynn 2
Lynn 2(guest) my simple advise is, your past is gone, you have come full circle and at this point you know who you are. Pick up the pieces and move on. But this time, walk with caution. You have your values intact. Do not allow any man to take you for a ride. You are far much better than that.
Indeed, he really messed you up, but Mungu ni nani?. As long as you are still alive and already you are as sharp upstairs as any focused person. Let it go. Money comes, and money can disappear with the wind. I pray for you to move a head with wisdom and grace, for God's grace is often sufficient.
Lynn fans, especially women, please note that we men are not what you see or hear. It's important that you apply your sixth sense, wisdom and by guided by your values. The moment you know your worth, your values, refuse to be misused by men. I feel for this lady, but all is in the past. Lynn, treat your past challenges as an experience and move on. You can also go for counselling if you need self-care and a reason to live in peace. A life coach and / or financial consultant can add more value to your life.
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Thank you:)
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Thanks
@MshauriPeter such great insight and wonderful advice for all especially for women and youth stepping into dating world. Seek counsel before engaging in matters dating and finance worlds.
I went trough the same some years back and took time watching this till 11pm but i still think i haven't healed and maybe still doing the same. OOh God come for me too
she is honest to herself and shes honest to the world things happen for a reason one day at a time each day is a lesson learnt
Aki betrayal and being taken advantage of can mess up with your whole being
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Can wait to watch this in a new month ❤ lynn your hair style is giving 😊
Wow!! What an inspiration!! If "dust yourself off and try again" had a face!! Kudos Lynne and Lynn.❤❤❤
I love her composure and honesty, I wish you well in your business and may God see you through, thank you ngugi for hosting her baraka tele❤
her attitude about everything iko top notch
Asante
She is beautiful.we learn from mistakes..start again.all the best Lynn..
This is me when i was early 20’s . I wish i can pour out my side . But i thank God everyday am learning better and accepting myself . 😊😊 Kudos Lynn wa Narok
Lynn I know you by seeing you in this town of ours, I didn't know your story, you've been through a lot but thank God you came out strong.you have a big heart
This girl has a heart of gold.. as long you have your two hands, you are destined for greatness..keep on keeping on.....
1.33.00 Lynn almost shed the tears... She reminded me why i was so hooked to those days at tuko. My queen one day told me to come and watch this girl who cries with her interviewees. From that day, i got hooked to the host who is so empathetic. She almost said, lets finish with a word of prayer hehehe
Hey love
I am so glad to listen to your story which is true.
I am encouraged and it's life.
We should face it as it is
This lady has made my day people out here are going thru same thing,am almost going the same thing but a little different
Me liking, the video when it's pops out, am happy I was able to run away from this kind of situation before it went too far
Today class number one here we're ready to learn ....thank you Lynn and your team hapa ndio sisi ucome kuponea more Grace our gal
Thank you so much:)
Means a lot❤
Lynn you inspire me everyday, the guests you have hosted in your show are fantastic...keep going girl.
MY MONEY + MEN = This is my biggest DEAL BREAKER in a Relationship. SIWEZANI 🙌🏽
Me too..any man who asks you for money and especially during dating ISSA NO!.if you show a man you can then you've set yourself for disaster
So mature interview tha can motivate someone to the next level….you don’t give up hata mimi Nairobi ilinikataa,I tried all the ways but nayo ikasinya….And the mistake we do we keep on rotating the same point,,,,kana mji unekusinya kanyaga kubwa kubwa uwezi jua Nyota yako itang’aria wapi….actually when I moved to Germany my Heart is at Peace…hata sijawahi need any Therapy sijui Depression ilijitoa ikaishia wapi juu things start changing,I started finding myself and started noticing and begun building Confidence of myself
Lynn, LYNN is a strong woman,thou amepitia a lot what a story...she's beautiful n smart...she has shown me life is full of ups n dwn n ur nt supposed give up...thanx fr that story
I enjoyed the story, it's good when we learn from our past and decide to change for better. best wishes from here CA.
Thanks Lynn for your honesty...this are life lessons that are tho sad very important towards shaping your destiny. Think big always and plan big you will get there.
A beautiful lady with a golden heart
I appreciate her truthfulness, and owning her story these are the things which will make you change because experience has tought you real life lessons....
Being a good person,doesn't get you loved, it gets you used!
Nairobis character development hopefully will end one day otherwise, we will have future generations with a normalised twisted view of love and relationships.
Glad she's taken her experience as a learning lesson and has a positive outlook for the present and future.
So true, when a man asks for money from a lady it's a red flag.
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I love the zeal Lynne has, you are blessed gal. All is bygone let God take first priority in your life
Good morning Lynn, here for another episode of learning
She is gorgeous,Hi Lynn and members of this family.Tuned in for the lessons ❤❤❤
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What's an inspiration story,a very strong lady i see listening to this story,keep sharing
I Love her energy , living moving forward, without any regrets..
Personally, let me appreciate the lady for being truthful and open to share her story to be a lesson to anybody in life. This is a challenge to parents Who have properties but are not involving children directly in management or even having them near to it to observe what is being done. Before embarking on a certain path, do your due diligence first because it will save you. The fact that she didn't censor anything, that is the first stage of healing and moving on. She is now a strong woman for business you could ever meet and good things are on the way coming. I am really happy because you didn't fall and sleep. You are still on the course of your purpose. To men, let us be good managers to any family we want or need to raise. We will need them in the future which is never too far. Don't let the phrase "too late" catch up with you.
That's true
So inspirational:men can lie weuh : starting from having a family and now doing this "business"
Take home: know exactly what your person does whether married or not coz weuh, you will be wanted for the unknown
Congratulations Nchoe,,,have loved your story Keep on pressing pal,, everything happens for a reason,, hope you've learned from your past have learned so many lessons from your story big up gurl💪💪
I was in love with a married man but I refused to sleep with him, he kept pressuring me for sex but salvation rescued me. Get born again and remember focusing your mind on pleasing God can influence your decisions. On matters land, you should have sold and bought another piece of land.
Wowww.
You are brave.
Continue to live for christ
Men can leave you in the desert without water
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But he was someone's husband,he wasn't meant to stay anyway 😅
@@elizabethwachira7884 true 😅😅😅
Facts
This is the true meaning of love is blind 💔💔💔💔💔..... hope "my man" is watching this
Blessed is he who will get this lady. With all this experience she must be genuinly awesome
Go go Lynn squared...🎉🎉 focus and keep going. Life is full of lessons, we learn and move on better people❤
She's such a vibe ☺️❤️God bless her
She is gorgeous, good-hearted,, Lynn CEO ambia Lynn-our guest, tukienda kununua vitu kwake asitupeleke mbio,
Telling her right now dear🙏🙏😂
Thank you soo much!!siwezi wapeleka mbio..discount to all LNN subscribers...❤❤
Lynne did the best with the knowledge she had that time 😊Its so much inspiring indeed