Imagine a situation: Mother gave birth to a baby, but after giving birth woman died. Who will take care about a baby? Father, of course! Even fathers can take care of babies!
Just be YOURSELF! You like cooking? Do it! You like repairing cars? Do it! You like both of those things? Sure why not! It's also fine if you enjoy only one of those things. (or neither!) Do whatever makes you happy and have fun with it! There shouldn't be any rules in how to be YOU!
@KFC Man then what you are doing must affect somebody else in a way, shape or form, so glad you are being kept from doing that. As for wanting to wear earrings as a man, that affects no one but yourself, so it is acceptable.
What the video says, it doesn't matter if you wanna have child, cook for them and your husband or if you wanna go to the moon. The important is live your life as you want to! You can cook if you’re a man, and you can play soccer if you’re a woman. Don’t stereotype yourself, and be free. (I’m a no native-speaker, sorry for bad english tho)
That was pretty good English. Some advice though... Instead of saying, “I’m a no native speaker,” say “This is not my native language” or “I’m not a native speaker.” Btw, I agree. People should be what they want to be regardless of gender.
Like Girl with long hair who is short: **acts like a total Karen** Society: I'll ignore it my sweet angel Girl with short hair who is tall: **being the nicest person in the world** Society: "KAREN YOU F**KONG DONKY WANNA SPEAK TO THE MANAGER" *Records**
my mother relies on gender roles so heavily that she got infuriated after I told her I wanted to have a black bedroom wall, something as smal las that! she told me that “it was too boyish” and that girls aren’t supposed to like colours like that. she said she’d support me in every way possible, yet won’t let me have the freedom to paint my wall a colour or wear certain clothes. now I wonder, how much backlash would I have gotten if I was a boy and said I wanted pink? I bet it would’ve been way worse. one day, if I decide to have kids, I hope that I won’t become deluded enough to think like my parents. it’s not the 1950s anymore.
Aww, that sad sweety.......but I hope someday I hope your mother understands you.....now a days not all girls like girly stuff......I myself never liked too much girly stuff......some are ok for me.....I also dont like to show too much emotions to peoples other than my mom and dad.......I dont like to cry infront of outsiders.......even before my friends......and when I was child I never liked to play with barbie dolls etc. Instead me and my cousins like to play fighting games like superman superwomen etc. I am a 90's kid. And am lucky that my parents understand me.......I am lucky to have a family background where gender roles does not matter that much
But, like, the thing is, I am probably quite the stereotypical girl. When I grow up, I actually want to be the wife that stays at home and does the, uh, things housewives/mothers do, you know? I just feel like that's not attractive anymore😂😂
The worst part about gender roles and stereotypes is that they allow double standards to get in the way of how others are treated. For the longest time my mother made me do more housework than my brother because I'm a girl. She always asked me to help with the cooking while my brother got to sit on his ass and play video games. I have pestered my mother to no end and demanded that my brother do more housework as I got older, because the unfair treatment was driving me mad. Now my brother does as much housework as I do and I'm happy with that. When will people realize that cooking and cleaning is a *LIFE SKILL* that everyone should know regardless of gender?! It's even worse when girls go to school to pursue a career, only to end up getting married and stuck being a housewife that is never able to pursue their career because they are stuck at home taking care of the kids while their husband works.
Exactly... Every child on this planet should be given an opportunity to learn play with cars or dolls, play inside or outside, choose between pink or blue, cook, clean, earn money, learn to strong, confident, vulnerable, sensitive, caring and love.... They should be given all these options then allow the child to choose what they like doing 🤷♀️
I hate gender role stereotypes. I was girly because I was pin pointed and shamed by my family when I watch and interested in masculine designed merchandise. My mom expects me to be girly. But, she rages when I came out as a tomboy. And forces me to wear tight and loose dresses even though I am not comfortable with it anymore. My family isn't worthy when I wear masculine clothes even though I am comfortable with it. I spoke to my whole family, they don't agree with my statement and keeps on forcing me to be feminine. I spoke instead to my teacher and principal about it, they supported me. I wanted to buy more boys clothes and sell all of my girls clothes to gain some money for my tuition fee, school supplies, etc. Gays and Lesbians (including me) in my country usually wear what they prefer. plus, we are being shamed, ridiculed, and about it from school to social media. My mom assumes that as a lesbian myself, I am stereotyping my kind of sexual preference. NO I AM NOT STEREOTYPING! I WEAR WHAT I WEAR! My family has religious beliefs. My uncle is very homophobic and shaming me when I wear what I am comfortable in. My uncle shames my sexuality. I hate it when everyone calls me "sexy". I simply prevent any perverts from raping, and molesting me because I was sexually assaulted by wearing oversized shirts/polos, pants, loose long sweats and rubber shoes in public. I would love my family if they show me a little support.
Hey CoolKawaii, thank you for being brave and sharing your story. We're glad to hear that you were able to find some support from your principal and teacher. Are there any LGBTQ+ groups at school that you can join? How have your friends helped you? We can't imagine how hard it is to try to be open to your family and have such negative feedback. We're also so sorry to hear that you've been sexually assaulted. Have you told an adult that you trust about what happened? There's also groups like RAINN.org that can help you in confidence if that is better for you.
You are wrong if you think pink for girls and blue for boys way always a thing since the introduction of gender role stereotypes Beginning around the year 1889 gender specific colors came around in the first country. At the time, the general rule was "pink for boys, blue for girls" and the reason was "Pink being a more decided and stronger color is more suitable for the boys, while blue which is more delicate and dainty is prettier for the girls" according to a 1918 article. But that changed only over a period of around, oh, 100 YEARS OR 1 CENTURY! Yes, that is right, it took almost a whole century to change the idea around the world, and still today, it hasn't been fully changed. During the year 1823 the FIRST country has that as it's rule and still has that rule today! But in 1988, the final country changed the rule, as of today, we still don't know if that will change! Another stereotype is below Cars and people Women: BAD AT DRIVING Men: AMAZING AT IT People in the kitchen Women: GREAT CHEFS Men: FIRE! FIRE! PUT IT OUT!!!!!!!
One of my family members was persistent that i showed how i actually liked cars just because I’m a guy when i never liked or was interested in cars, it’s so sad how stereotypes divided our people when people can have personalities other than stereotyped ones.
"Stop crying." "Man up." "Boys can't wear dresses." "Enjoy your youth." "Get up." "Be a gentleman." "We've begun to raise our daughters more like sons, but few have the courage to raise our sons more like daughters." - Gloria Steinem
I'm a male and everyone except me to like sports and stuff like that but I actually like reading books studying about different things and stuff like that and Everytime I say I don't like sports men look at me strangely
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What I've noticed these days in the media is that when they are trying to make girls good female role models in movies, they just make them manly. Femininity is also strong. Like Queenie from Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them was very feminine, but she was also strong and a good rolemodel.
Hey Patrick Star (love your name btw), we're so sorry to hear that people are bullying you when you just want to express yourself. It's not easy, but with time we hope that you find the confidence AND feel safe enough to dress how you really want to.
This is great and yeah everyone should be accepted, but you know what we shouldn’t be doing: Telling people who like things that happen to follow/line up with traditional gender roles that this isn’t what they like, but something society has told them to like? So many times people tell girls who wear dresses that it’s just the patriarchy’s fault that they like dresses and try to force them to “throw away the gender roles” and force them to do thing/wear things they don’t like. If a guy likes being tough and manly and stuff, sometimes it’s not toxic masculinity, but an actual person who likes those things.
i totally agree! a lot of people say "oh I hate dresses, they're so girly" and reject female stereotypes, but what they're doing, is setting NEW stereotypes. Now, the stereotype for females is becoming that they hate dresses and pink, makeup, and "girly things" Guess what? There's NOTHING wrong with liking dresses, and pink like I do! There's no such thing as a "Girly thing" and I particularly hate when people say "You're either a tomboy or a girly girl." I love dresses, AND casual clothes. I want to be comfortable, AND look nice. They act like liking pink dresses, and wanting to look your best makes you shallow and vain. It doesn't. That's just stereotyping.
Ngl when I was little I liked cars better than dolls. But I was too nervous to ask my parents for cars because of society. Looking back on it my parents would've bought me cars instead of dolls if I asked for them. Gender roles have to stop because that's what it did to my childhood.
Same here. I loved all my Matchbox, Hot Wheels and Tonka trucks growing up. Had no interest in Barbie or Easy Bake Ovens at all. Thing is, cars are for everyone because male or female, we all end up driving one by the age of 16. LOL
The stereotype that plagues me is my height. I’m 6’9” and wear XL because anything lower won’t fit. This has limited me when trying to find clothing I want, and online shopping for clothes of custom proportions often cost a lot. But because I want to project myself as the flaming gay man I am, my size still gets in the way of how I wish to express myself. The only way I can project myself in such a way, is by wearing Black Jeans, I’ve noticed. It’s definitely frustrating.
I remember when i was a kid, everyone expected me to be like all the other girls and like pink and play princess. But I HATE pink and princesses (i though they were weak and prissy.) instead I loved dinosaurs, getting muddy and playing with toy animals. Nobody expected me to act that way and they though I was weird when I would rather play _Wolf Pack_ then princess. But now more people are accepting that I am different.
i'm exactly the same when i wa sa little kid i absolutely HATED the colour pink and dolls and princesses i LOVED trains and i wanted to be a knight and i always loved wrestling
People who were born male were expected to be strong and aggressive not emotional? isn't Aggression or Anger an emotion? I don't understand why people always show someone crying when using the term "Emotional" like only crying means being Emotional.😕😕
Aggression and anger are emotions that anyone can feel. Crying is a response to an emotion someone is feeling. Everyone experiences a range of emotions.
I know what crying means but what i meant is why only Women are called "Emotional" when they cry due to Sadness or Happiness. Why aren't Men called "Emotional" when they get Angry or Aggressive? Isn't Anger an Emotion? Isn't an Angry Man "Emotional"? Why did you use the term "Emotional" only for Women? Why did you say Male were expected to be Strong and Angry or Aggressive, not Emotional? Like Anger is not an Emotion. Shouldn't an Angry Man yelling and a Sad Woman crying both be called "Emotional"?
Growing up, my family told me that I'm not very ladylike. I would try to fake my personality just to please them. I'm 13 rn and a closeted trans nb guy. I've stopped faking and learned to love myself. Luckily, my family stopped pressuring me.
I wouldn’t personally label myself anything until i’m at least fully mature or near the age of 19 because you never know how you will change especially at your age but it is still your choice so be free to either ignore this or use this advice.
I think that's because of nature. males are more strong than females. I'm not saying that a woman cant be stronger than a man. but it kinda just worked with society with the mothers WANTING to stay home with the children and because someone had to work, the man worked. but im not saying you have to be like that
@@myristicina. female here and being able to birth someone has nothing to do with body strength. alot of women die giving birth too so idk what you're talking about. we moan and cry when giving birth too.
@@myristicina. and the men had no role in the birthing? Men have created every luxury you women enjoy, built every society you have lived in, made you safe from predators, hunger, disease, etc., and you're still this ungrateful?
Video: boys aren't supposed to be empathetic, nurturing or vulnerable. Me: *thinks of brock from pokemon* (fyi, brock is a male character who is very nurturing to the point of being very motherly, regularly empethetic, has a passion for cooking, cleaning and generally taking care of others and nearly every episode that involves brock shows him comicly despair because he gets turned down by a girl due to his over the top flirting)
It's ok, i know I have to know how to cook and clean. But my mom always is saying that I need to learn to do it because of my future husband or kids, not for me.
Excuse me but, I'm going through this comment section and I'm seeing just..ridiculous things..I'm writing about this because it's bothering me so much. Ik you all don't give a chicken, but you guys are literally hurting my brain. So, can you all stop with the stereotyping? I don't really care if it's biology or anything like that. It's just annoying. NO, women should not just stay at home all day and do chores and no not all men are aggressive and competitive and crack....okay, I would finish this comment and say what I wanted to but I still have a headache and I can't think 😓
Is it weird that I'm happy as a stereotypical female? I love pink and kittens and dresses and bows and I'm emotional and I'm good at doing chores and stuff Like I actually enjoy being like that (Obviously I dont think men should boss us around and I don't believe in stereotypes)
You actually aren't wrong. If people want to live an androgyne lifestyle, by all means let them. But nonbinary is sort of a want to not have a gender, making it the opposite of a gender.
Cooking and cleaning is something that everyone should know how to do! My dad manages to cook dinner each night, clean alongside my mother, and do wood work in the garage. On the other hand, my mom took care of my brother and I when we were younger (she worked nights, but would be free during the day), has a high paying career that she enjoys, and does the laundry in our house. It's simply a balance of what works best for a family, what an individual's skills are, and what people simply ENJOY doing.
Since I was a kid I never gave importance to this thing of gender roles, even when I was at school other girls made fun of me because I like Lamborghini and super cars. I remember one day I took with me, my Lambo toy Gallardo at school and girls were like "ThAtS fOr gUyS" "yOu'Re a mAn". I never leave that it affects me, even i started to collect some of Lambo toy cars with my brother who also loves these ❤️
its take me so long to understand gender roles. I understand what I means but struggled to place it into context and store within my memory. This was so helpful thank you
Fairness is always better than equality, not everyone has the same privileges and they had to struggle through their own chronic diseases, disability and other complications in their life.
I remember reading somewhere that Wil Wheaton was talking to this woman who had just had a baby, at the time, and she asked him what advice would he give to her daughter. He said that just because someone tells you that something is considered “masculine” or “feminine,” or “nerdy” doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy it. If you love it and it’s yours, then that’s all that really matters. 🥰 And he was right.
My grandma still thinks that because I am a girl I have to do all this extra stuff . She has called my personality and clothes a problem I need to get over .and compared me to other female in my family I have tried talking to her but then she starts to assume I am trans . And now I am confused on if I am or not sometime I just want to say I am so she’ll leave me alone .
This video is trying to say that women has the role of being a house mom. And men have the role of finding a stable job to support the household. I find it very stereotypical to set gender roles when we should have the choice to chose what our life and future should be no matter what gender we are.
Hey, do you think you could start saying "assigned (male/female) at birth" instead of "born a (boy/girl)"? As a trans guy, I'd say it's inaccurate to say I was born a girl. I was born a guy, but I was assigned to the role of a girl based on my biology. It's a small difference but it would mean a lot
Exactly….I was assigned to being poor due to my families bank account being very low, but really I identify as the president of the United States so I’m still waiting on my salary for that to come and they owe me back pay as well….can someone work on that for me
@@Reconquistador2008I think it's bad cuz it restricts people passions. Doesn't always means we should leave these gender norms completely. Everyone should have a choise to fufill any dream regardless of gender.
My friend is a tomboy and she never forget that quote from the mayor that strong men also cry. That's why we do gender equality for men,women and other genders
@bduhny yeah other genders like transgender, non-binary, Genderfluid,or Agender;but it's fine if you don't know them, it happens to some people for not knowing what that is😅
Funny thing, throughout my school years there were boys only activitys and groups and there were girls only activitys and groups, I joined all of them. Boy scouts Girl scouts Baseball team Softball team Things like that, I joined all of them.
I suck at cleaning, and can only cook things that come prepackaged frozen. I would be horrible as a stay at home parent. Though I would love to be a mother, and I am very nurturing. My future wife can stay home, if she wants to, that is.
GherinRuleseverythin one night at Gherin's Castle im sure u look cute in them, dont mind it, thats what i do. i get called sir sometimes but i dont really care anymore.
For the people discussing "men are stronger smth smth". Lets just say men are physically stronger than women in general. Ok? They have the biological advantage. So we can move on because it kinda stresses me out reading those type of comments in like almost all videos about men and women. Most of the time the females getting butt hurt. No hate but I'm a female myself and it just stresses me. And sometimes I think females should be more grateful for what men have done over the years for us. And yes we may be treated unfairly and yes we have contributed but not as much. May be because back then we didn't have much choice due to stereotypes and religion may also play a role? But I can say women have to have higher pain tolerance to be able to give birth. I can hear the hate comment coming. Oh boi. I'm sorry I just needed to get that out my system before I implode.
Women can be strong too, bastard. Women can be muscular if they train everyday. There's nothing to do with genders. It's a training and they can training to be strong too
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Oh I can cook and clean... for myself
Deafpool fan yaaass
I act like a man not a female
I'm a girl an really like boy stuff an have short hair an wear boy clothes an hate girl stuff all girl things
@@imawsomeruler3262 ok ba demande pas a ta femme de faire ton repas et de laver tes chemises
REBEL v there is no such thing a girl and boy stuff
Women belong in the kitchen.
Men belong in the kitchen.
The kitchen has food.
I BELONG IN THE KITCHEN!😂😂
Hell yeah food is awesome-
And knives.... 🤘 (It’s a joke)
Best place to go when you have a crush and they reject u
Everyone belongs in the kitchen and the food belongs in my mouth
HA HA HA HA HA HAAAAA HA HA HA
Sorry did I scare you
Note: pink used to be a masculine colour because it was more "solid" than blue!
and because it was similar to red which was perceived as an extremely masculine colour for whatever reason
And blue was more of a calm and peaceful color and delicate
And girls can be solid too?
Giving genders to colors is definitely one of the dumbest things our ancestors have done.
@@SherXP YES
I love how this included girls AND boys
Yeah I feel like boys stereotypes aren't talked about enough, both should be talked about because both are pretty bad
@@Limei_Dreams w h a t .
@@MeltyNote ,,what
@@MeltyNote what?
@@Limei_Dreams n
As a male myself, I had never understood as to why being emotional is a bad thing.
Being emotional is a humane thing. Showing your emotions makes you stronger as a person. It’s should’ve of never been made fun of in the first place
If a woman cry evrybody is going to ask her whats wrong,
But if a man cry evrybody is going to tell him to be a "man".
Ppl rly say washing ur ass is gay these days ajfhhfbf
IT'S NOT
@@nvrrungji LMAOOO-
Imagine a situation:
Mother gave birth to a baby, but after giving birth woman died. Who will take care about a baby? Father, of course! Even fathers can take care of babies!
yup!
@Spooky Kid do you often ask stupid questions?
@Spooky Kid Then the not dead mom.
@@alman8908 he’s not asking stupid questions, he is asking The REAL questions here
@Stranger Kid The living mom
“Women belong in the kitchen”
Me: I belong on the couch.”
I belong to my bed uwu
Wow how quirky you are you are so special and how hilarious you are 10/10 joke i laffed a lot
Why you don't wanna belong to the kitchen .
They have food
Pfp Gacha Life, your joke isn't valid
Lol
gender "norms" should not exist. Men can wear dresses, women can propose. So what?
With the exceptions if it involves biology.
@gamegamer9523 .-__.-
@@gamegamer9523Bro
Just be YOURSELF!
You like cooking? Do it!
You like repairing cars? Do it!
You like both of those things? Sure why not!
It's also fine if you enjoy only one of those things. (or neither!)
Do whatever makes you happy and have fun with it!
There shouldn't be any rules in how to be YOU!
@@maroonmaroonmaroon2985 Being yourself has nothing to do with being a man. This applies to everyone.
@KFC Man then what you are doing must affect somebody else in a way, shape or form, so glad you are being kept from doing that. As for wanting to wear earrings as a man, that affects no one but yourself, so it is acceptable.
Thanks, I agree
you dont need to say this we watched the video
I agree, and I am unaware of any man who said you must not cook or you must fix cars. But you MUST be the provider and head of your house
What the video says, it doesn't matter if you wanna have child, cook for them and your husband or if you wanna go to the moon. The important is live your life as you want to! You can cook if you’re a man, and you can play soccer if you’re a woman. Don’t stereotype yourself, and be free.
(I’m a no native-speaker, sorry for bad english tho)
I wanna cook on the moon, maybe there I could actually cook and be successful in life.
That was pretty good English. Some advice though... Instead of saying, “I’m a no native speaker,” say “This is not my native language” or “I’m not a native speaker.” Btw, I agree. People should be what they want to be regardless of gender.
@@FatallyParasocial ok.. Do it
I hate stereotypes 😶
with you on this one.
Godzilla approves
Like
Girl with long hair who is short: **acts like a total Karen**
Society: I'll ignore it my sweet angel
Girl with short hair who is tall: **being the nicest person in the world**
Society: "KAREN YOU F**KONG DONKY WANNA SPEAK TO THE MANAGER" *Records**
same
Me too, anyone can express their feelings and pick what jobs they want
Girls should be : Barbie Dolls
Boys should be : Ken dolls
I should be : the person to set the dream house on fire
*YES*
LFMAOOOOO
Same gurl same
lmfao yes
Me to im a girl and my parents thought im girlish hunny i like seeing my dolls set on fire :)
my mother relies on gender roles so heavily that she got infuriated after I told her I wanted to have a black bedroom wall, something as smal las that! she told me that “it was too boyish” and that girls aren’t supposed to like colours like that. she said she’d support me in every way possible, yet won’t let me have the freedom to paint my wall a colour or wear certain clothes. now I wonder, how much backlash would I have gotten if I was a boy and said I wanted pink? I bet it would’ve been way worse. one day, if I decide to have kids, I hope that I won’t become deluded enough to think like my parents. it’s not the 1950s anymore.
Aww, that sad sweety.......but I hope someday I hope your mother understands you.....now a days not all girls like girly stuff......I myself never liked too much girly stuff......some are ok for me.....I also dont like to show too much emotions to peoples other than my mom and dad.......I dont like to cry infront of outsiders.......even before my friends......and when I was child I never liked to play with barbie dolls etc. Instead me and my cousins like to play fighting games like superman superwomen etc. I am a 90's kid. And am lucky that my parents understand me.......I am lucky to have a family background where gender roles does not matter that much
SMOKING FEMALE PACK+CRY ABOUT IT
I’m so sorry we all should be able to do what we want
lol i wouldnt get a wall painted something different because my parents thought it was too much work
I agree with your mom she is a huge W🗿🍷
But, like, the thing is, I am probably quite the stereotypical girl. When I grow up, I actually want to be the wife that stays at home and does the, uh, things housewives/mothers do, you know? I just feel like that's not attractive anymore😂😂
me too!
@@stm7810 I know, thank you!!^-^
That's ok too
I think you should be able to do whatever you wanna do. Don’t listen to peer pressure.
Just gonna say traditional women are a rare breed and are something special in today's world
The worst part about gender roles and stereotypes is that they allow double standards to get in the way of how others are treated. For the longest time my mother made me do more housework than my brother because I'm a girl. She always asked me to help with the cooking while my brother got to sit on his ass and play video games. I have pestered my mother to no end and demanded that my brother do more housework as I got older, because the unfair treatment was driving me mad. Now my brother does as much housework as I do and I'm happy with that. When will people realize that cooking and cleaning is a *LIFE SKILL* that everyone should know regardless of gender?! It's even worse when girls go to school to pursue a career, only to end up getting married and stuck being a housewife that is never able to pursue their career because they are stuck at home taking care of the kids while their husband works.
Women belong in the kitchen.
Men belong in the kitchen.
The kitchen has the food
@@crab5862 but what if I ate the kitchen?
@@FatallyParasocialThen you are the kitchen.
@@FatallyParasocial no no pls don't eat the kitchen 😭😭
Everyone should be taught how to cook and clean. As a kid everyone I knew was.
Exactly! That’s needed just for maintaining a home and it is needed regardless of your gender.
Exactly... Every child on this planet should be given an opportunity to learn play with cars or dolls, play inside or outside, choose between pink or blue, cook, clean, earn money, learn to strong, confident, vulnerable, sensitive, caring and love.... They should be given all these options then allow the child to choose what they like doing 🤷♀️
fr you gotta learn everything when you live on ur own
Exactly at age 8 my mom taught me how to use a stove, and had me cooking for months.
Cooking and cleaning is a basic way to live no matter who you are. It’s fact. But you can do what you want in your relationship.
Girls aren’t supposed to show anger?
Well I’ve messed up somewhere-
Same here. I Bang my desk for at least 10 times a day. Lmao
Lmao, my sister literally doesn’t care if I’m mad, I’m a female (if you ask), even tho being mad makes you sick, and you might even die!
Lmao i get so aggressive when doing math homework i bang my head on the wall lol
I hate gender role stereotypes. I was girly because I was pin pointed and shamed by my family when I watch and interested in masculine designed merchandise. My mom expects me to be girly. But, she rages when I came out as a tomboy. And forces me to wear tight and loose dresses even though I am not comfortable with it anymore. My family isn't worthy when I wear masculine clothes even though I am comfortable with it. I spoke to my whole family, they don't agree with my statement and keeps on forcing me to be feminine. I spoke instead to my teacher and principal about it, they supported me. I wanted to buy more boys clothes and sell all of my girls clothes to gain some money for my tuition fee, school supplies, etc. Gays and Lesbians (including me) in my country usually wear what they prefer. plus, we are being shamed, ridiculed, and about it from school to social media. My mom assumes that as a lesbian myself, I am stereotyping my kind of sexual preference. NO I AM NOT STEREOTYPING! I WEAR WHAT I WEAR! My family has religious beliefs. My uncle is very homophobic and shaming me when I wear what I am comfortable in. My uncle shames my sexuality. I hate it when everyone calls me "sexy". I simply prevent any perverts from raping, and molesting me because I was sexually assaulted by wearing oversized shirts/polos, pants, loose long sweats and rubber shoes in public. I would love my family if they show me a little support.
Hey CoolKawaii, thank you for being brave and sharing your story. We're glad to hear that you were able to find some support from your principal and teacher. Are there any LGBTQ+ groups at school that you can join? How have your friends helped you? We can't imagine how hard it is to try to be open to your family and have such negative feedback. We're also so sorry to hear that you've been sexually assaulted. Have you told an adult that you trust about what happened? There's also groups like RAINN.org that can help you in confidence if that is better for you.
You are wrong if you think pink for girls and blue for boys way always a thing since the introduction of gender role stereotypes
Beginning around the year 1889 gender specific colors came around in the first country. At the time, the general rule was "pink for boys, blue for girls" and the reason was "Pink being a more decided and stronger color is more suitable for the boys, while blue which is more delicate and dainty is prettier for the girls" according to a 1918 article. But that changed only over a period of around, oh, 100 YEARS OR 1 CENTURY! Yes, that is right, it took almost a whole century to change the idea around the world, and still today, it hasn't been fully changed. During the year 1823 the FIRST country has that as it's rule and still has that rule today! But in 1988, the final country changed the rule, as of today, we still don't know if that will change!
Another stereotype is below
Cars and people
Women: BAD AT DRIVING
Men: AMAZING AT IT
People in the kitchen
Women: GREAT CHEFS
Men: FIRE! FIRE! PUT IT OUT!!!!!!!
One of my family members was persistent that i showed how i actually liked cars just because I’m a guy when i never liked or was interested in cars, it’s so sad how stereotypes divided our people when people can have personalities other than stereotyped ones.
This. I agree with your comment.
"Stop crying."
"Man up."
"Boys can't wear dresses."
"Enjoy your youth."
"Get up."
"Be a gentleman."
"We've begun to raise our daughters more like sons, but few have the courage to raise our sons more like daughters."
- Gloria Steinem
I don't get why men apparently can't cry crying isn't a sign of weakness it's just showing that you're unhappy Society doesn't make sense
I’m happy the way I am
@@POETIE_CORE when you control your emotions... You can plan ahead
I'm a male and everyone except me to like sports and stuff like that but I actually like reading books studying about different things and stuff like that and Everytime I say I don't like sports men look at me strangely
I don't like sports either, hell I would trade sports in for a book or a video game any day because that junk is just so boring to me.
@@coolcosmic4351 I agree
thats still man like most famous people who study and read books are men
Exercises are very important just as reading about nutrients can help with your dietaries consumption.
Even those who fight for gender equality, are sometimes guilty of sexism.
What?
Everyone is guilty of something all the time.
so according to gender stereotypes, everyone's a sociopath.
IEverything was good untill.....
*Tik tok*
Ikr
True as heck
Huh?
How does this relate to the video fuktard
Mochi Cloud and then it all went to hell
Hello! It's me again! Everything is better now! My friends accept me. And my Ex-Girlfriend is now my best friend! I'm happy that I took your advice and used it to help me! Thank you very much! So so much!
- Rose/ Heather / Camila
What I've noticed these days in the media is that when they are trying to make girls good female role models in movies, they just make them manly. Femininity is also strong. Like Queenie from Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them was very feminine, but she was also strong and a good rolemodel.
When I go shoping (I'm a boy)
I always cry because I know I will get bullied if I buy what I want
Hey Patrick Star (love your name btw), we're so sorry to hear that people are bullying you when you just want to express yourself. It's not easy, but with time we hope that you find the confidence AND feel safe enough to dress how you really want to.
@@amazeorg thank you yhat means much to me
@@hladetinofobia1453 you do you boo💞🌈🥺
@@onlyhuman5669 omg lol a long time passed since then but if you want an update im going to ny first pride today
@@hladetinofobia1453 yayy I'm happy for ya💞💜
This is great and yeah everyone should be accepted, but you know what we shouldn’t be doing:
Telling people who like things that happen to follow/line up with traditional gender roles that this isn’t what they like, but something society has told them to like?
So many times people tell girls who wear dresses that it’s just the patriarchy’s fault that they like dresses and try to force them to “throw away the gender roles” and force them to do thing/wear things they don’t like.
If a guy likes being tough and manly and stuff, sometimes it’s not toxic masculinity, but an actual person who likes those things.
i totally agree! a lot of people say "oh I hate dresses, they're so girly" and reject female stereotypes, but what they're doing, is setting NEW stereotypes.
Now, the stereotype for females is becoming that they hate dresses and pink, makeup, and "girly things"
Guess what? There's NOTHING wrong with liking dresses, and pink like I do! There's no such thing as a "Girly thing" and I particularly hate when people say
"You're either a tomboy or a girly girl."
I love dresses, AND casual clothes. I want to be comfortable, AND look nice. They act like liking pink dresses, and wanting to look your best makes you shallow and vain.
It doesn't. That's just stereotyping.
@@randompersonprobably4688 Exactly. Setting stereotypes of any kind for men and women is the very thing society needs to stop doing
@@randompersonprobably4688what about girly boy/Tomgirl
Ngl when I was little I liked cars better than dolls. But I was too nervous to ask my parents for cars because of society. Looking back on it my parents would've bought me cars instead of dolls if I asked for them. Gender roles have to stop because that's what it did to my childhood.
Same here. I loved all my Matchbox, Hot Wheels and Tonka trucks growing up. Had no interest in Barbie or Easy Bake Ovens at all. Thing is, cars are for everyone because male or female, we all end up driving one by the age of 16. LOL
“Men are supposed to love sports”
Me: *The fact that im doing nothing, shows my resolve*
I don't mind cooking it's just...if you want the kitchen burned down be ready
The stereotype that plagues me is my height. I’m 6’9” and wear XL because anything lower won’t fit. This has limited me when trying to find clothing I want, and online shopping for clothes of custom proportions often cost a lot. But because I want to project myself as the flaming gay man I am, my size still gets in the way of how I wish to express myself. The only way I can project myself in such a way, is by wearing Black Jeans, I’ve noticed. It’s definitely frustrating.
Please give me some of the inches of your height, I'm just 5'5😭
I remember when i was a kid, everyone expected me to be like all the other girls and like pink and play princess. But I HATE pink and princesses (i though they were weak and prissy.) instead I loved dinosaurs, getting muddy and playing with toy animals. Nobody expected me to act that way and they though I was weird when I would rather play _Wolf Pack_ then princess. But now more people are accepting that I am different.
i'm exactly the same when i wa sa little kid i absolutely HATED the colour pink and dolls and princesses i LOVED trains and i wanted to be a knight and i always loved wrestling
Pink and princesses aren't weak. And there's nothing wrong with liking them and there's nothing wrong with disliking them.
Besides you're not different
@@jakeystarsuperI like the way you are thinking! 🤭
Men should not be emotional so that's why I'm depressed!
Stereotypes are horrible.
Amaze org: society sees boys as liking sports
My introverted self: interest
I hate stereotypes
People who were born male were expected to be strong and aggressive not emotional? isn't Aggression or Anger an emotion? I don't understand why people always show someone crying when using the term "Emotional" like only crying means being Emotional.😕😕
Aggression and anger are emotions that anyone can feel. Crying is a response to an emotion someone is feeling. Everyone experiences a range of emotions.
I know what crying means but what i meant is why only Women are called "Emotional" when they cry due to Sadness or Happiness. Why aren't Men called "Emotional" when they get Angry or Aggressive? Isn't Anger an Emotion? Isn't an Angry Man "Emotional"? Why did you use the term "Emotional" only for Women? Why did you say Male were expected to be Strong and Angry or Aggressive, not Emotional? Like Anger is not an Emotion. Shouldn't an Angry Man yelling and a Sad Woman crying both be called "Emotional"?
Growing up, my family told me that I'm not very ladylike. I would try to fake my personality just to please them.
I'm 13 rn and a closeted trans nb guy. I've stopped faking and learned to love myself. Luckily, my family stopped pressuring me.
I wouldn’t personally label myself anything until i’m at least fully mature or near the age of 19 because you never know how you will change especially at your age but it is still your choice so be free to either ignore this or use this advice.
You are 13 and already calling yourself a "trans"?? Yikes 😳
How can you be nb and a guy?
I think that's because of nature. males are more strong than females. I'm not saying that a woman cant be stronger than a man. but it kinda just worked with society with the mothers WANTING to stay home with the children and because someone had to work, the man worked. but im not saying you have to be like that
Quaking but we literally birthed you but ok
@@myristicina. what does that have to do with anything? They weren't trashing women.
@@myristicina.
female here and being able to birth someone has nothing to do with body strength. alot of women die giving birth too so idk what you're talking about. we moan and cry when giving birth too.
@@myristicina. and the men had no role in the birthing? Men have created every luxury you women enjoy, built every society you have lived in, made you safe from predators, hunger, disease, etc., and you're still this ungrateful?
@@myristicina. you know you're designed to do that, right?
Video: boys aren't supposed to be empathetic, nurturing or vulnerable.
Me: *thinks of brock from pokemon*
(fyi, brock is a male character who is very nurturing to the point of being very motherly, regularly empethetic, has a passion for cooking, cleaning and generally taking care of others and nearly every episode that involves brock shows him comicly despair because he gets turned down by a girl due to his over the top flirting)
Why do gender stereotypes make me so mad
Because arm cookies are expected to be stupid when they are actually the smartest things in the world
It's ok, i know I have to know how to cook and clean. But my mom always is saying that I need to learn to do it because of my future husband or kids, not for me.
I hate when my parent's say that
Bru i would attack my parents for that like bsssszh wha. I aint cooking for some dand duch bag
girls: be nice
boys: be tough
me: *death glaring my friends*
me as a girl: *be tough*
@@urlocal_muslimah me as a boy: be nice
"Men were meant to be not emotional"
At their mother's death 💀
Laughing 🤣
Excuse me but, I'm going through this comment section and I'm seeing just..ridiculous things..I'm writing about this because it's bothering me so much. Ik you all don't give a chicken, but you guys are literally hurting my brain. So, can you all stop with the stereotyping? I don't really care if it's biology or anything like that. It's just annoying. NO, women should not just stay at home all day and do chores and no not all men are aggressive and competitive and crack....okay, I would finish this comment and say what I wanted to but I still have a headache and I can't think 😓
TheLastFlame 162 yeah, it’s crazy how many people out there that are still believing in our supposed “gender roles”
Nina: at least you’re not playing a tree
Me: *memories from 10 years ago*
*10 years ago at the movie theatre* : We ThReE tReEs FrOm YoNdEr GlEn
Is it weird that I'm happy as a stereotypical female?
I love pink and kittens and dresses and bows and I'm emotional and I'm good at doing chores and stuff
Like I actually enjoy being like that
(Obviously I dont think men should boss us around and I don't believe in stereotypes)
nah, it's okay to like whatever you want
Of course! Its all about embracing who you are.
It’s ok. We should not try to annihilate the current gender stereotyped, we should just acknowledge the other options
it's not weird at all if that's what you like go for it!
Of course. It's about being who you really are. This is not about being, "different"
i have major anger issues and guys usually says it a turn off and I'm like ?? why would i care, my gf doesn't
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I-
Nonbinary isn't a gender.
CHANGE MY MIND
You actually aren't wrong. If people want to live an androgyne lifestyle, by all means let them. But nonbinary is sort of a want to not have a gender, making it the opposite of a gender.
@@stm7810 sources?
Non binary is a gender identity. It’s not rocket science 😱
I hate Stereostypes so much.
Same.
Same
Me: A nice guy
My grandmother: You’re a man act like one
Me: Go get me a beer woman
My grandmother: >:(
0:00 she sounds alittle like Connie from Steven Universe
Cooking and cleaning is something that everyone should know how to do! My dad manages to cook dinner each night, clean alongside my mother, and do wood work in the garage. On the other hand, my mom took care of my brother and I when we were younger (she worked nights, but would be free during the day), has a high paying career that she enjoys, and does the laundry in our house.
It's simply a balance of what works best for a family, what an individual's skills are, and what people simply ENJOY doing.
Well, if you are a single man, yes, you should know how to cook, but in a marriage it is the wife's duty.
@@patrickhamilton7849it's boths duty. thats how it should always be
how is it cool to be a tomboy but lame to be a femboy
Because society perceives feminine as bad.
im so honry
because Society just thinks being a female or acting like a female is shown as weakness even though it's not
@@callumgallagher9470 what does this have to do with that no one asked
THATS SEXIST
Edit: Stereotypes are
*You can pry my emotional and hot headed emotions out of your cold dead hands*
Since I was a kid I never gave importance to this thing of gender roles, even when I was at school other girls made fun of me because I like Lamborghini and super cars. I remember one day I took with me, my Lambo toy Gallardo at school and girls were like "ThAtS fOr gUyS" "yOu'Re a mAn". I never leave that it affects me, even i started to collect some of Lambo toy cars with my brother who also loves these ❤️
So if you are seeing a guy you have no problem paying for dinner since the first date as expected and demanded from guys, right?
@@laylalayla6630 POV: you think everybody of the same sexuality race gender and ethnicities are the same
@@POETIE_CORE I am talking about what usually happens when a guy and a girl goes out in western culture.
its take me so long to understand gender roles. I understand what I means but struggled to place it into context and store within my memory. This was so helpful thank you
Hey Gemma, we're happy to help shed light on stereotypes. Just remember, that you do not have to act any certain way based on your identity!
We must adore chess. Breaking gender stereotypes, the queen moves anywhere she wants while the king only moves 1 space per turn
Am I a bad person for liking sports, working out together in a gym for personal fitness and having my Girlfriend cook for us?
I dunno. Your just a living stereotype.
no .. maybe who knows but your just may be doing your role
@@msanjavier01 the hell-
no, if you both like it its fine. everyone should do what they love and have the freedom of choice
my only question
does she like cooking?
very good video everyone should be equal;
Fairness is always better than equality, not everyone has the same privileges and they had to struggle through their own chronic diseases, disability and other complications in their life.
I am a guy and I love being masculine.
Same, why are they telling us it’s bad? Who else is gonna fight the wars bro
@@isaac82124FR
@@isaac82124it’s not bad, the point of this video is showing us how stereotypes affects us
@@isaac82124 fr
@@isaac82124because weak men are easier for tyrants to control.
I remember reading somewhere that Wil Wheaton was talking to this woman who had just had a baby, at the time, and she asked him what advice would he give to her daughter. He said that just because someone tells you that something is considered “masculine” or “feminine,” or “nerdy” doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy it. If you love it and it’s yours, then that’s all that really matters. 🥰 And he was right.
My grandma still thinks that because I am a girl I have to do all this extra stuff . She has called my personality and clothes a problem I need to get over .and compared me to other female in my family I have tried talking to her but then she starts to assume I am trans . And now I am confused on if I am or not sometime I just want to say I am so she’ll leave me alone .
Wattpad. Then look up LGBTQ+
I'm a girl and I like hanging out with my friends that are boys and I kids act like one but I'm not trans and I get made fun of for it
I'm gay
unapologetically.
Gender roles suck, I just be myself
Same I want to be myself
i'm a girl...
but i love dragonball!
my sister too
thats normal
ur not "not like other girls".
@@bewilderment8735 ;-)
Its not like anyone is saying dbz, dbs dbh is only for boys thats normal
That’s normal
1:12 AAAAHHH......OH SHE'S SWEET BUT PSYCHO
lol who thinked of that
Still figuring out my gender
Take your time!
I got an advert from this channel before the video, this channel is really good at making people understand certain issues,
Well, sometimes, I act like both, boy and a girl. I love to hangout with boys at my school.
Everytime I see the plastic surgery part, I freak out because I don't want that. 😧
This video is trying to say that women has the role of being a house mom. And men have the role of finding a stable job to support the household. I find it very stereotypical to set gender roles when we should have the choice to chose what our life and future should be no matter what gender we are.
Yes! great video!
Agree
OK girls are not supposed to show anger is wrong, when mom is mad no one’s happy!
Y'all say stop stereotyping and yet you believe in tomboy and girly girl. -_-
Are you a boy or a girl?
Me: Neither, I'm a toaster
Brave little toaster
Yes.
Hey, do you think you could start saying "assigned (male/female) at birth" instead of "born a (boy/girl)"? As a trans guy, I'd say it's inaccurate to say I was born a girl. I was born a guy, but I was assigned to the role of a girl based on my biology. It's a small difference but it would mean a lot
Thank you for the suggestion!
Exactly….I was assigned to being poor due to my families bank account being very low, but really I identify as the president of the United States so I’m still waiting on my salary for that to come and they owe me back pay as well….can someone work on that for me
no one is talking to specifically you bozo XD
People say I’m a girl
But I identify as a couch potato
You are so right. Gender roles are destroying humanity. Gender roles are not respected both genders
No, that's not destroying us, it's idiots who thinks they're bad
@@Reconquistador2008I think it's bad cuz it restricts people passions. Doesn't always means we should leave these gender norms completely. Everyone should have a choise to fufill any dream regardless of gender.
so what she's saying is that we shouldn't try and improve ourselves and men shouldn't be strong and be aggressive. that's bs
no. thats NOT what's being said here. they're saying that not EVERY man needs be exactly like that if they don't want to be
My friend is a tomboy and she never forget that quote from the mayor that strong men also cry. That's why we do gender equality for men,women and other genders
other genders?
@bduhny yeah other genders like transgender, non-binary, Genderfluid,or Agender;but it's fine if you don't know them, it happens to some people for not knowing what that is😅
oh ok@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp
There are only 2 genders. Moving from one to the other is an impossibility. Cry about it.
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp A woman can be a tomboy without being domiannt over men
Of course men cry, no one said otherwise, but it depends on the reason.
Boys: Aggressive, Strong, Video Games, Weight Lifting, Sports, Independent
Girls: Nurturing, Make-Up, Emotional, Domestic, Nail Polish, Talkative
That's not true. Boys and girls can have the opposite personality too. Stop being so sexist
Me as a Woman: Calm, Strong, Intelligent, Scoentific, Independent, Working, Successful, Creative, Fishing, Motorcycles, Hunting, Books, Pets, Quiet. 😊
People keep calling me a girl, I am clearly a spaghetti.
It makes sense now, your name!
I ONLY JUST REALISED THAT WE WATCHED THIS IN SCHOOL
Food belongs in the kitchen,not women
anyone who wants as well
And who makes the food?
whos here just searching for answer in Google and just clicked this video
*I'm being a animater not a house wife*
nightmare horse game Neko
You mean
Being in school because your future 20 year old dumbass can’t spell?
Funny thing, throughout my school years there were boys only activitys and groups and there were girls only activitys and groups, I joined all of them.
Boy scouts
Girl scouts
Baseball team
Softball team
Things like that, I joined all of them.
It hasn’t changed. I was born a girl only to act a boy and get made fun of
I suck at cleaning, and can only cook things that come prepackaged frozen. I would be horrible as a stay at home parent. Though I would love to be a mother, and I am very nurturing. My future wife can stay home, if she wants to, that is.
oof i dress in masculine clothing and dont shave but im fine with being a female (im cis). anyone else like this lol
Yes but im the other way around.
Wanna wear feminine clothing but im a boy and people wont let me
GherinRuleseverythin one night at Gherin's Castle im sure u look cute in them, dont mind it, thats what i do. i get called sir sometimes but i dont really care anymore.
@@mamagherbear7082
@A. B 129
-I ship you two-
Bruh people are like [insert unpog voice] women belong in the kitchen but spend half there time staring at the fridge
I'm a girl and I get triggered all the time
hey guys people who do fit into gender roles are valid too
For the people discussing "men are stronger smth smth". Lets just say men are physically stronger than women in general. Ok? They have the biological advantage. So we can move on because it kinda stresses me out reading those type of comments in like almost all videos about men and women. Most of the time the females getting butt hurt. No hate but I'm a female myself and it just stresses me. And sometimes I think females should be more grateful for what men have done over the years for us. And yes we may be treated unfairly and yes we have contributed but not as much. May be because back then we didn't have much choice due to stereotypes and religion may also play a role? But I can say women have to have higher pain tolerance to be able to give birth. I can hear the hate comment coming. Oh boi. I'm sorry I just needed to get that out my system before I implode.
OMG SAME
Women can be strong too, bastard. Women can be muscular if they train everyday. There's nothing to do with genders. It's a training and they can training to be strong too
Not-so-fun fact: You have thought about whether or not not fitting those roles makes you unattractive.
It doesn't.