A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
I’m glad it worked out for you. I was once married. I tried but it always takes two people to fix any problem. And before you can fix it both parties must understand their faults. But I’m glad that you and your wife were able to stay together. That’s a blessing.
Very. They have made society turn them crazy. They are obsessed with ring and a marriage. Ladies if marriage is your goal stopping having babies with these men move in with them and perform wife duties, stay years in and then let men tell the nonsense
Don’t be so quick to judge her. You never know what relationship will humble you and make you do things you said you’d never do (platonic, family or romantic). Most of us have been there at least once. If you haven’t keep on living, but she really wanted her happily ever after not realizing that the foundation wasn’t stable.
Babyyy you're still young and beautiful, please move on. He's not husband material, he'll keep disrespecting you, cheat on you.. if you don't walk out, you'll forever be a doormat.
How about when those kids grow up one day they see their father all alone with no family and they said how could he do this to our mother by cheating on her with other women he is so disgusting
@@gailsmith836i know for the new show curlers court they get all expense paid trip then $500 appearance fee. you don’t have to still be together either, just had to have a legitimate relationship before. witnesses even get $300
Does anyone else do the math and think this is creepy? At 28, with a 13-year-old daughter, he had her at 15 and for the lady, at 29 with a 14 year she had her child at 15 too. Who is letting these KIDS just have kids???
I never understood why these men always get in relationships knowing they not ready or over their ex. Then they treat the ones who love them like shit 🙄
Why are women accepting this? Why is the bar set under the earth’s crust? She had a child super early and then two by him. Always the cart before the horse. Trying to turn a whoremonger into a husband that doesn’t want to be a husband nor is husband material. He barely a man by definition. Women have a choice here. She should have used her “intuition” and never got back with him after high school. It’s amazing that she can be strong and independent at Divorce Court, but a powerless victim at home.
Love her strength and conviction! I hope she continuers to stand firm. She deserves so much better. There is nothing out there in those streets and he will soon discovery it. Those girls will not want him when he is not attached to another person.
She was so aware of what was happening. She is like the person that gives great advice but doesn't take her own advice. I truly hope the best for her and her children. She has all the tools to live a wonderful and healthy life. Just needs to use them.
How tf are you giving the man a benefit of a wife without being one, and then mad that he won't marry you? Sis...that's on you, not him. He a liar too? Yeah girl, you wasted your time on a pookie and now have two kids about to be a single mom. HOLD this L
Some people only feel valuable and valid if they are having sex with many people. And if they can siphon any sense of power from the knowledge that the sex they are having is hurting someone who loves them than it becomes supply to them. In other words him knowing that he is directly causing her pain and agony gives him power.
She knows the answers to her own questions. That is not her “man” because he’s proven hisself to be community property. He keeps hurting her because there aren’t any consequences. Running around town behind this fool. She’s not emotionally done. She’s going to take him back right after the show. Experience is a good teacher. She needs to run and run fast!
Lady you gave that boy child passes to go and behave like your nothing and I hate it when women sees the problems and proofs and the lack off respect these bed hoppers gives and still let them into your space.
He is a KID. Laughing as tho this is a game. He is not ready for a Woman. Go on sister and let him live his life. His EX would gladly take him back. He is a JOKE
Marriage doesn't change a narcissist, nor a cheater, or a clown. He is what he is. He continues to cheat because she continues to forgive. Point blank, simple. We as women have to view ourselves as a priority, and never an option. Instead of him being a notorious cheater? He need to take the time and get those teeth fixed. I hope she holds to her words, and leave this boy, because men don't act this way.
Damaged people will always attract damaged people it’s the law like attracts like there’s no getting away or round it. These people need deep therapy individually for a good few years so they can work through and heal their traumas and damage etc. This is what happens when children don’t grow up in a healthy 2 parent household rather than single mother household. We as a human race need to do much better girls need to stop opening their legs and having babies without being married.
He just said, "I had it just in case something happens." WTH kind of CYAness is that???!!!!!!! He's PLANNING to cheat and he knows it. Believe them the first time they say who they are. He's for the streets!!!
I hope you read these comments because I don't think you called it quits for good. As you were walking out after deciding to leave, he begged for you not to take the kids. He didn't ask you to stay. Please let that and the way he was speaking so casually about the way he deeply hurt you speak volumes.
How you telling him he want to be your husband no he don’t how many times he gone show you. I’m sorry but u are choosing this so just either leave or be quiet about it
How do you have a 14 year old child when you're only 29 and a 13 year old child when you're only 28? They were high school sweethearts, broke up, went and had kids with other people then got back together to continue making babies, Black Americans need to do better this has gotten out of hand.
Stay strong young lady. Notice when you were walking out. He didn't ask you to stay. He mentioned the kids. You can parent without being together 🙏🏿. Your kids will see you as strong and not silly!
Getting married won't change anything.
nope
So True
So True!!!
Marriage doesn't change ANYTHING except your last name
Ma’am. Marriage? Why?
"I'm glad you said Nicolas." 😂😂😂😂
Sound like she was about to say something else.
scared me too - I was like 😬 lol ... Phew! lol😅
I thought she was going to say the same thing the judge thought.😅
Me too
In relationship with narcissists or people with narcissistic tendencies FORGIVENESS is just PERMISSION. And that’s it.
This is very true.. I’m dealing with a narcissist it’s very difficult and mentally draining
He’s not a narcissist he’s just a liar who can’t get over his ex.
Well said!!
This!
@@Reezy12333he's definitely a narcissist to stand there a say its not that serious.
If she was my child I would tell her daughter leave with your self-respect and dignity.
if he was my son i would tell her to move on with her life.
That walk-out was long overdue.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
I’m glad it worked out for you. I was once married. I tried but it always takes two people to fix any problem. And before you can fix it both parties must understand their faults. But I’m glad that you and your wife were able to stay together. That’s a blessing.
No Sis, YOU don’t put your heart first. Don’t keep choosing him!
RUN RUN HE'S NEVER GOING TO STOP LYING
I hope she stuck to her word
I can’t with him. His excuses are pathetic 🙄
She’s a lovely girl. She deserves better. I like her. She just needs to get up off the FLOOR
❤❤
She deserves a better man than a cheating idiot who can’t even get his act right
Under 30 with a 14,13, 12, 3 & 2 year old 😢 I can only image the chaos.
😮😮‼️‼️😩😩
I was just doing the math in my head when I saw your comment 😂😂😂
stop judging...period.
@@TinamDevineChile me too no judging
She only has 3, the 14, 3 & 2 yo
The 13 & 12 yo are his. They share the 3 & 2 yo children
I really like this new baliff. He and Judge Star make a great team!!! Love, love, love Judge Star.❤❤❤
Yes … Love Judge
We teach people how to treat us, and you, M'am, have taught him to mistreat you!
Well said
Girl, run and run fast. He is who he is and marrying him won’t change anything. His integrity is in question.
I can assure you she would be upset if her daughter brought home someone like him. Lead by example.
Oh please he is a liar. He is young n won't change. Young lady run. Real love is out there. Just care of u n your kids
He is incapable of loving her and nothing will change that, not even marriage.
If he’s a liar, why are you so upset about a ring. Will that change it? Some women are so weird
Very. They have made society turn them crazy. They are obsessed with ring and a marriage. Ladies if marriage is your goal stopping having babies with these men move in with them and perform wife duties, stay years in and then let men tell the nonsense
Don’t be so quick to judge her. You never know what relationship will humble you and make you do things you said you’d never do (platonic, family or romantic). Most of us have been there at least once. If you haven’t keep on living, but she really wanted her happily ever after not realizing that the foundation wasn’t stable.
Oh let him go back to the ex,she is more important than n u sis. Run
These women be so strong because I wouldn’t have made it to divorce court with the stories being told. I wouldn’t have been GONE 😂🏃🏽♀️💨
PREACH SIS, I WOULD TOO!👍
Chile take the L and run!!!
Girlfriend getting married to him isn't going to change his behavior. He showed you plenty times who and what he is girl run hard and don't look back.
He doesn’t want you sorry
Babyyy you're still young and beautiful, please move on. He's not husband material, he'll keep disrespecting you, cheat on you.. if you don't walk out, you'll forever be a doormat.
She is not beautiful. She needs therapy and to stay single.
Bet he wiggles his way back in! She isn't done.
He ain’t got to wiggle. She ain’t gone do nothing.
Why do people come to divorce court when they're not even married as if they can't just break up?? 🤦🏾♀️
Another question is why are you going on divorce court to tell stories and you look like a fool and they still stay. You should have been left.
Think about what those kids see. He will continue to do him and hurt you. Sis walk away! Now! 😢
How about when those kids grow up one day they see their father all alone with no family and they said how could he do this to our mother by cheating on her with other women he is so disgusting
I remember this couple from Couples with the Cutler's and they had this same story 🤦🏾😩😂😂
I THOUGHT I'd seen them before!
Do they get paid for appearances?
@gailsmith836 Yes, they get a fee to come on show, hotel, and maybe a meal or 2.
I think they pay for travel and food@@gailsmith836
@@gailsmith836i know for the new show curlers court they get all expense paid trip then $500 appearance fee. you don’t have to still be together either, just had to have a legitimate relationship before. witnesses even get $300
I wish the show gave updates on the litigants.
Don’t marry him please don’t
Why do people stay in unhealthy relationships? Going to divorce court won't change his stripes.
The way he said don’t take my kids away Like u don’t know how to behave
Why is she still with him? He wants his ex back. When someone shows you who they are trust and believe
Keep doing you young man, especially if she not going to leave you. Young Lady, I suggest you run far away from this idiot.
He is not her husband. He thinks it’s funny.
Exactly
This Nick 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂
😂😂😂
Do an update show!!! I want to know what happens after the show
Your way too beautiful for that 🤡!!! Take your children and find your peace of mind you deserve it.
Does anyone else do the math and think this is creepy? At 28, with a 13-year-old daughter, he had her at 15 and for the lady, at 29 with a 14 year she had her child at 15 too. Who is letting these KIDS just have kids???
Way too young for this type of responsibility.
I never understood why these men always get in relationships knowing they not ready or over their ex. Then they treat the ones who love them like shit 🙄
Why are women accepting this? Why is the bar set under the earth’s crust? She had a child super early and then two by him. Always the cart before the horse. Trying to turn a whoremonger into a husband that doesn’t want to be a husband nor is husband material. He barely a man by definition. Women have a choice here. She should have used her “intuition” and never got back with him after high school. It’s amazing that she can be strong and independent at Divorce Court, but a powerless victim at home.
I like that! "Play silly games, win silly prizes!"
She’s not done 😂😂😂
Damnnn bro just became homeless lol
He ain’t even all that
ik 😂
No no no he's not husband material
Love her strength and conviction! I hope she continuers to stand firm. She deserves so much better. There is nothing out there in those streets and he will soon discovery it. Those girls will not want him when he is not attached to another person.
Play silly games and win silly prizes!!
She was so aware of what was happening. She is like the person that gives great advice but doesn't take her own advice. I truly hope the best for her and her children. She has all the tools to live a wonderful and healthy life. Just needs to use them.
18:39 “Play silly games, win silly prizes.”
Love it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Look where silly prizes lead you.
I don't feel bad for her because she keeps taking him back.... she needs to move on... he is a little boy and not a man.
How tf are you giving the man a benefit of a wife without being one, and then mad that he won't marry you? Sis...that's on you, not him. He a liar too? Yeah girl, you wasted your time on a pookie and now have two kids about to be a single mom. HOLD this L
Who would lay down with him
Is he fr?
Girl you better 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ he ain’t worth it don’t marry that fool
Once you go to a funeral that involves yo ex we done my baby ok!!!! He is disgusting
She should’ve been dumped his despicable arse🤮
I hope I'm wrong, but I believe he will eventually talk his way back in.
Some people only feel valuable and valid if they are having sex with many people. And if they can siphon any sense of power from the knowledge that the sex they are having is hurting someone who loves them than it becomes supply to them. In other words him knowing that he is directly causing her pain and agony gives him power.
Don’t be all on here embarrassing us Vaughn’s 🥴😂
He was embarrassing you not us
use that ring money on DENTAL CARE!!!!!!!!
walk out on the show....see you on the way home tho
Giiiiiiiirl let him go. He's not ready he's immature
Girl if you don’t stop all that begging and whining. LEAVE.
Girl, you young and beautiful, leave him! You said it your self; it continues to happen over and over and over again...
WHHHYYYYYYYY is she with him? The kids? Girl you can do bad by yourself!
She’s talking as if he’s a child that doesn’t know any better. He’s a grown ass man that chooses to be a cheater. This is on her being weak!
I agree
She knows the answers to her own questions. That is not her “man” because he’s proven hisself to be community property. He keeps hurting her because there aren’t any consequences. Running around town behind this fool. She’s not emotionally done. She’s going to take him back right after the show. Experience is a good teacher. She needs to run and run fast!
Lady you gave that boy child passes to go and behave like your nothing and I hate it when women sees the problems and proofs and the lack off respect these bed hoppers gives and still let them into your space.
She's beautiful and smart she doesn't need him
No leave his ass
Girl you deserve better with your kids. He ain't no prize n making excuses
She’s too smart for him
That mouth! 😮😳🤬
I miss Robert, but the new guy is growing on me
He is a KID. Laughing as tho this is a game. He is not ready for a Woman. Go on sister and let him live his life. His EX would gladly take him back. He is a JOKE
If you leave a relationship once the same things are probably still there upon the return. My advice don’t return. An ex is an ex for a reason.
Smart Woman!!!
Great episode!! Queen Keep on walking!! 🙏🙏
Marriage doesn't change a narcissist, nor a cheater, or a clown. He is what he is. He continues to cheat because she continues to forgive. Point blank, simple. We as women have to view ourselves as a priority, and never an option. Instead of him being a notorious cheater? He need to take the time and get those teeth fixed. I hope she holds to her words, and leave this boy, because men don't act this way.
Why are we asking about a ring when he is not trustworthy or loyal
He's LYING😮😮😮
He said "please don't take my kids away from me". He's not there for u ma'am or the relationship.
She'll be back.
She ent going nowhere.
Damaged people will always attract damaged people it’s the law like attracts like there’s no getting away or round it. These people need deep therapy individually for a good few years so they can work through and heal their traumas and damage etc. This is what happens when children don’t grow up in a healthy 2 parent household rather than single mother household. We as a human race need to do much better girls need to stop opening their legs and having babies without being married.
He just said, "I had it just in case something happens." WTH kind of CYAness is that???!!!!!!! He's PLANNING to cheat and he knows it. Believe them the first time they say who they are. He's for the streets!!!
GET OUT GIRL!!!!! GOD WILL STOP SENDING YOU SIGNS IF YOU CONTINUE TO IGNORE HIS WARNINGS!!!! 🙏🏿😟
Not gaslighting her at the end talking about, please don't take my kids from me. 🙄😒
But do you love yourself tho?
Hes not worth it she should leave him
Liar,liar pants on
🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥
😆😆
Is he missing a tooth? 😳
Oh no no no
JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF ❤
Pray she doesn’t go back!!!
I hope you read these comments because I don't think you called it quits for good. As you were walking out after deciding to leave, he begged for you not to take the kids. He didn't ask you to stay. Please let that and the way he was speaking so casually about the way he deeply hurt you speak volumes.
How you telling him he want to be your husband no he don’t how many times he gone show you. I’m sorry but u are choosing this so just either leave or be quiet about it
How do you have a 14 year old child when you're only 29 and a 13 year old child when you're only 28? They were high school sweethearts, broke up, went and had kids with other people then got back together to continue making babies, Black Americans need to do better this has gotten out of hand.
Stay strong young lady. Notice when you were walking out. He didn't ask you to stay. He mentioned the kids. You can parent without being together 🙏🏿. Your kids will see you as strong and not silly!
He's talking about NO, don't take my kids away from me. I don't think she's doing that, she's just done with his sorry behind. AT LEAST I HOPE SO.