I remember when my now ex husband used to cheat left and right, walk in the house at 8am and when I complained he’d say “I’m a good man because I provide”. Providing is not nearly enough to keep a marriage together. He learned that the hard way.
Amen..Marriage or Relationships have many aspects and if the main aspect of it is lacking which has to do with respecting & valuing one's partner, the provisions being referred to, won't be enjoyed because the connection or balance that should form a united bond, is lacking. Thus paving the way for the relationship to feel like a waste of time. The victim will eventually feel unloved & will still have that desire to experience that which will make them wholesome.
That 5 minute for play all day works I did it with my ex all the time unfortunately both of us being disabled made the relationship almost impossible I miss her every day if there was something I could change to fix it I would because I really loved her
MnMs002 she mentioned her hair once. She uses an “olive oil perm” that she buys at the drugstore for about 8 dollars, and uses it on her hair at home to make her hair less frizzy. The rest is just good haircut and a good stylist that the show presumably provides.
@@tryp_da_ghost I don't disagree he's doing a good thing but it's not worth loosing yourself and family in doing so. When you think of your family is it wealth you think of or moments together. My cousin was like him he had the wealth. A 5 storey house with a mote. Luxury cars and his long time fiancee. He would tell me of the wedding she will get. He was killed for his wealth. Moral of the story working hard is good. I've done so since I was 17. Now almost 40 I hear my husband complain about time to together. So my friend you must learn to balance everything.
@@phyllisb-chronicles3358 hey at the end of the day what else do you got we do not have the cultural structure to fight for a better system. If he thinks money cures it all it might. But you are not wearing 5,000$ weave either sister. Would she stay if that all stops and he comes home. More
No such thing as work life balance when a man is on his purpose. Most women don't understand a man's grind, and hustle. They want ALL your time. If you're not; then you cheating or you neglecting your duties. He's NOT responsible for managing her insecurities. Its unrealistic and unhealthy. This is why it is imperative for men who want to become the best them they can be to remain uncommitted (NO MARRIAGE)!! Marriage before he got to where he wanted to be in life will be his demise. She will ruin him in divorce court. Feel sorry for this brotha. They want a man whose successful, but then complain when he out grinding to get that success. She's ungrateful.
To much late night activity he as a young black man should want to be at home during those late night hours because many young black men get arrested beaten harassed or killed by the police at that time of night. He could be cheating she should hire a detective with that hair money.
She would not have had to tell me to stay. I would know this. And I would sexy up more into his world & agenda bringing him back to me. Now...I understand choose your battle, this one I’ll fight.
Stop thinking of it emotionally and think of it in terms of family and future not how she feels Just answer this how many men are gonna take a divorced single mom seriously enough to marry her again? Then think about how many successful men would marry a divorced single mom? Probability wise she ain’t finding another dude like him and she already has kids with him and he takes care of them well if you really think you’d find a better situation than that go ahead be my guest and go try out the streets and die alone like a lot of women who want it all have to find out you can’t have a successful man attractive man who has the same traits as an average guy why would a man kill himself working this much to be limited sexually that’s ridiculous maybe an average guy won’t cheat but if you want the diamonds and 500 hair that comes with cheating but everything else in your life is taken care of
Me either. Who calls a man's house about a braclet? Please!!!! and he left to deliver it? Nope old boy is cheating....and another thing why is he gettint kudos because he works and takes care of the kids...ISN'T THAT HIS JOB AS THE PROVIDER AND SO-CALLED HEAD OF THE HOUSE?
@@sandrasmith6430 She a nurse, I made six figures as a nurse. Some of my colleagues worked two jobs and surpassed me. I'm not working six or seven days a week. So I don't want to hear he's providing for her. She probably is carrying the medical insurance and death benefits through her employment.
b2sdva Campbell home needs to pull there part. He put her through school. That will last a lifetime what has she done for him that would last a lifetime in a positive way
@@jamesjohnson5145 cheating on your wife leaves scars (and maybe diseases and mistresses babies) that also last a lifetime. If he can't be faithful, he is missing the most fundamental part of being a loving husband and no amount of money will make up for that pain Period
I don't think she will because she is too terrified of losing both him and the lifestyle he provides her but she should file for divorce though because she as we all do realize his ass is cheating and using work alot of time as an excuse WAKE UP PRETTY LADY!!!!
Just cz you're are striving to be successful that don't give you the greenlight to entertain the opposite sex. This goes for. Men and women. Money comes and goes but your family is there for richer or poor.
@@Mudoh415 mothers worry about their offspring. They need to know they're able to feed them tomorrow. Even the animals do that. It's natural that men are hunters and women are gathers.
@@Mudoh415 . Why is a womans lifestyle a man's responsibility? They want to be equal right? So let them go out and provide for their own lifestyle like men do. They always talking about equality until its time to pay up.
But that's all it was, allegations. She never offered any definitive evidence. Although, I know those barbershop groupies are real. Those girls do THE most. Lol
@Secret Encounter I mean, i get that he might have to make a bracelet in a certain amount of time, but does he really need to deliver it the same night he makes it? This couple needs to go on Couples Court.
Because he could have delivered the bracelet in the morning, or at the guy’s job since he was giving them to a colleague, not his significant other. The guy was giving it to a co-worker, he could have given it the following day.
@@bbryant1731 or she could leave? Revenge cheating is such a childish mindset and she can put herself at risk for STDs. He will just keep cheating regardless because he clearly doesn't care. He he did, he wouldn't have cheated in the first place. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
He says, "I'm not Perfect; I've made mistakes!" That's the code for, "I'm a Cheater!" Yes, it's GREAT that he's a Provider, Ambitious and Extremely Driven, but is it so hard to add FAITHFUL to the Re'sume'? There has to be mutual RESPECT in a marriage. If he doesn't MAKE time for his wife and kids; she'll get the wanted/needed attention and affection outside of their home and it's all downhill from there. When 1 spouse is making it known that they're feeling neglected and less important to the other, and NOTHING is being done for improvement.....Cheating almost ALWAYS follow. Yes, he's a catch, but so is SHE.
@ I'm NOT disagreeing with you; Valid points but should she still accept his indiscretions? He's holding down his family financially and that's what he's SUPPOSED to do as a man and husband. He doesn't get an award for that or a pass to cheat. Ijs
@@MikeBNumba6 Oh no having a lil job or 2 don't make you "king" and able to do the THE MOST VILE THING you can to your loving wife! Keep it IN YOUR PANTS IF YOU TAKE VOWS, That is the ONLY way to be a good husband.
Some men act like they can't walk and chew gum at the same time, but women are suppose to be everything and anything to their man.....like damn we require the same things sir!🙄🙄🙄😂😂😂
@@dkutie4real Well Said. These men want a medal and a freaking parade for doing wtf they are supposed to do. You signed up to be the protector and provider when you said " I do". Just like we sign up to take care of our man and his day to day physical, mental,.and emotional needs. As well as doing the same for the children. We sacrifice our lives to bring them into this world. Completely ruin our beautiful bodies to give life to the next generation. Walk through the fires of hell to get them here. We are the chef, the maid, the doctor, the nurse, the counselor, the chauffeur, the accountant and many other hats we wear. Some of us bear the children and get back to business. We hold the fort down. And make it pretty and comfortable. And do it 24/7-365/366 on the leap year. Do it without complaining. Sometimes without a break. Sometimes without eating. Do a damn good job at all of it... And still manage to look damn good while doing it. We get no recognition most of the time. Besides one day a freaking year ( Definitely not enough). We don't get no medals or parades or cookies. Hell by the time we get everyone showered and dressed, we don't even get any hot water. We all have a role to play in a union. And when you make that choice to marry and become one... A unit. You sign on for all that shit. That's basic shit you're supposed to do. So no.... Neither one of ya deserves any special treatment or recognition for doing what you volunteered to do. Your recognition is appreciating each other. Staying loyal and doing right by one another. Even through the storms. That's what is important in a marriage to me.
Do you really think the standard for men is low? What is the wife doing in this relationship? 800 dollar weaves? Expensive vacations? Fine jewelry? All, (probably) mostly on his dime. I'm waiting on the episode where the wife is an entrepreneur trying to secure her family's future and dishing out expensive gifts to her husband, and all the while he's complaining about not getting enough time (BTW, I think her complaint was legitimate), and we talk about the low standards for HER!!!!!!!!!!
@@hangtyme765 I didn't say nothing about money. I said he real suspect with his clients and the picking up of the kids. Also he worked to put her through nursing school and now she make good money and he's perusing his dreams. I think that's great..I don't know the ends and out of their finances. When my husband and I got together I made way more money. We have always put our money together. 13 years, 4 kids, 4 and counting aways growing business latter We pretty much just buy whatever we want it's the same money, but I know everyone's relationship is different. I know for a lot of women it's his money is our money and my money is mine so I get what you're saying but that's not what I was saying.
@@hangtyme765 How about taking care of the kids when he's not around....dinner, homework, bath time, stories, answering questions about where's dad? until you have and care for children ...have several stadium seats....sure he is buying epensive gifts and vacations....guilty people do those sort of things......and because she complains.....she is spoiled....GTFOH !
Judge Lynn you're soooo very wrong, a wife deserves to feel loved. He makes time for everyone but her. She has a demanding job, he's a barber who makes beaded bracelets. A wife needs to feel loved, and it takes more than paying the bills. He doesn't provide the attention she needs. His interest is every where but on her. I'm glad she knows that she's a catch as well because you might as well told her a piece of man is better than no man.
Most of the time judge me absolutely on point but I know this it be a few episodes that I've seen that I thought like why would she tell her that but no one is perfect but I think she still gives great advice
Converting from a boy to a man does not mean you are obligated to mess up and then attempt to use the, "I was young" excuse. Same goes for the" I'm not perfect" excuse. Uncontrollable actions is what gives one the right to use that excuse which is how mistakes are made and he's trying to make it seem like he has some type of impulse disorder which is so not the case. If you know right from wrong and simply don't care, it was not a mistake it was a choice that you made. So what he meant to say was, "I'm not loyal and lack accountability for my actions."
@Enrico Hall omg you again🙄 I said what I said, don’t like it oh well. Because last time I checked, asking/ receiving nudes is not an act of faithfulness.
He's not being totally honest. In all that hustling he's including pleasure with business. Even if he doesn't equate flirting with cheating. He needs to make better use of his family time, and their time together. I agree with Judge Lynn though.
Some of yall in these comments are talking about how her man is cheating because he doesnt want to pay for her hair....She clearly said she has a job and makes good money and so did he. Her AND is problem is that HE is a damn dog with no respect for his wife or the sanctity of their marriage. Dont defend this man because he's actually working unlike most the trash that comes on divorce court. Just because he works and she enjoys luxuries like getting her hair done and she WORKS doesnt excuse/justify him putting 0 effort into the relationship.
Exactly men set such a low bar for themselves, and women have been momming, working, and doing all the emotional work in a relationship and get 0 credit. Like it's just expected for women to be tough and held together, while men can dog around and do zero for the relationship and still get praised!
He just ran his whole day down to us and the wife ain’t even mentioned in his day 🤦🏽♀️ Now I hope he watched a recording of this to see how FD up that really sounded
They both need to make a slight tweak to their daily lives. She needs to praise and encourage him for his hard work and he needs to give her more attention. Just a little and I’m sure both will go a long way. If he’s done with her then he’s done and vice versa but I hope not because they are beautiful and have a great story and he supported her dream.
He also needs to stop cheating. No man is staying out doing housecalls cutting hair at women's houses until 1 unless they're cheating. Doesn't make sense given he says he gets off at 8pm. He was happy as hell making those bracelets, knowing damn well where he was coming from.
He needs to be out. There is no satisfying most women LIKE THIS. Spends time with his kids, supports his family, gives her whatever she wants and she cuts him down, complaining about all his businesses while she rocks 800.00 a week hairdos. Be serious. Only 31 acting like she's 65. Stop it.
@@asiandod325 Nothing wrong with how I phrased it. I meant exactly what I wrote. Read it again without adding your own spin. No barber is taking house calls at 1 and 2 AM to cut a little boy's hair. That just isn't happening. It's illogical and a blatant lie. He stated that he gets off at 8PM and takes one or two house calls afterwards until 11pm. That doesn't even make with what he said before. If he stops house calls at 11pm, why is he getting home at 2 after taking a house call at 1 at someone's mom's house? No barber's appointment needs 3 hours. Make it make sense. It doesn't. I didnt say anything about what you typed out- at all.
I wish the judge would’ve gotten on him more about his interactions with other women. That whole nude text situation wasn’t cool. Idc how much money and success the man is bringing in!
His work ethic is very attractive because I'm an ambitious person as well. Please work it out guys, you deserve to be happy and create generational wealth for your family.
@@alyssag.5758 your so right she needs to nagging Brother maybe that why he entertain thoughts with with thirsty women the wife and u Alyssa stop whining
April I never said she didn’t need affection... but don’t complain if dude is taking care of business and she is fussing about it give brother some credit she wanted to work he paid for schooling it’s a two way street they both have take responsibility on that.
If he disrespecting you cheating on you step you deserve better he don't Respect you or the relationship leave before he bring you back some type of disease that cannot cure
It’s rather sad that there are so many people (including Judge Toler who I love) think that a working man and who also picks up his kids from school is a catch and not to let him go. Why shouldn’t a woman expect a man to work, pick up his kids AND stay faithful!?!
@@KhemistryIBMOR You have no idea what you are talking about. If you want to side with old boy that's fine but do not put his bullshit cheating ass ways on her!!!
Judge Tole? Who cares how much some brother earns, when he has already cheated, 'admits mistakes', and his wife doesn't know what's in the bank accounts? She should be grateful for a working husband who pretzels for customers while his wife gets more attention from men at the grocery store? The dude is young now. Wait till he can't fit it all in. Do you think his wife and family won't get shorted? He already has his game down. I think you are just burning out at the rate of marriage dysfunction. Btw: I agree with 95+% of your analysis of couples, and you do a super job dispensing wisdom most never get before marriage. Thank you. You are also a gorgeous woman. You have a spark that never quits.
I'm not with the judge all the way on this on. He needs to spend more time with family. The judge talking about he snatch-up -able...yes he has cheated on her so we know that. I don't think anyone would be a fool to let a cheater go IMO.
That's my thing when is it a done deal to know someone is messing around on you after they have another baby outside of the marriage it's too damn late at that point Judge Lynn be tripping people have a feeling when things just are not right learn to trust their instincts because nobody is stupid ain't that much working in the world He is both lying and cheating without question!!!!
Nah most people don't see this, but they both said they didn't have good examples. She didn't know how to be a wife. Hint hint she is a nurse rather than raising her kids, and she didn't support him, but want him to stop working? I bet this is the reason why he cheated. He is working to be great to better himself and she isn't.
I agree for the first time that Judge Toler missed the mark on this one. She never held him accountable for his cheating and time management with his wife. I think he left out feeling vindicated and she was left feeling empty and unheard.
Judge is so beautiful 😩 gorgeous woman !! & the advice she gave him about “5 min foreplay all day “ is the truth !! To have a healthy relationship you need at least 5 positive interactions to 1 negative.
He’s full of excuses.. main bulls**t is “I’m not perfect”.. I make mistakes ..telling a woman a “ so called client” to send nudes after she asked for his is not a mistake.. that’s borderline cheating ..why do these women have his personal number? I think the judge skirted her issues .. she must have concerns if she wants him audited his face when it was mentioned looked ghastly .. just because he’s working and providing doesn’t mean he’s not being unfaithful using said time to cheat..the judge only saw $$$$$ when he rallied off his business.. he maybe a good provider but is he a good husband.. if he was why is his wife bringing him to court.. he tried lying and the judge called him out on it..
Dwahn Denson I agree , sometimes staying together for the kids is not a good thing, then what happens 3-4 children in and he’s still borderline cheating .. should of told him clean up his act, be home more ,not condone him putting earnings $$$ for most , recipe for infidelity especially with these women texting wanting nudes from him and him saying send yours instead, that’s a no from me .. better to separate at 1 child than 3-4 in..
@@ck.5218 Im not a woman but if I were I would never try hanging on to something I knew was a lost cause my kids would just have to understand. why continue to invest time into a dead unromantic relationship stop attempting to live into yesterday there is nothing wrong with starting over stop with the being so damn afraid before he brings you home AIDS!!!!
I'm usually with judge Lynn. But she was wrong in this one. Having a man means more than him keeping a job. The judge basically told her to settle with having no time with her husband.
Well, your comment is why alot of successful black men date white women. Alot of black women are too emotionally needy, and too near sighted to look toward the future, hence why generational wealth in the black community is rare. Women are only thinking about what they need right now, and let's be honest , our community is ran by women. Talk to your home girls for emotional support, cuz most of the time men dont want to hear what u have to say anyway..." my boss this, my coworker that, my nails, my hair, did u hear what so and so did" THEY DONT CARE!!! He does need to balance a little more, but don't throw the baby out with the bath water, she'll end up manifesting a man who is ALWAYS there and will luv her unconditionally with his broke unmotivated a**!!
The judge has ALL the lines! When she told that man how to do the 5 minutes throughout the day, I was ‘bout ready to call my hubs and tell him to come on home 🤣🤣🤣
She's seeking attention, and she's bound to cheat on him 👦sooner or later, it's going to take for one guy 🚹that she's going to find remotely attractive to say 🗣she's beautiful and she's going to drop them draws.
I don’t think she’s wrong for asking for a more attentive husband. Older people have this idea that all a man should do to be a good man is pay the bills. I don’t typically get the vibe that the judge believes that but it seems like it here. A modern day marriage is more than paying bills and keeping house. Women know how to balance that and so would men if we didn’t make excuses for them.
ABlackSkye THANK YOU! I’ve been screaming at these comments claiming it’s unrealistic when it’s not! Women do it all the time! She’s a nurse, taking care of the kids and the household. He’s just not prioritizing time with his wife the way he should be. He also knows he’s wrong because he was caught in his lies multiple times🙄
If this was the other way around, she was working all kind of hours and he's complaining about her not spending anytime with him, everyone will be telling him to find something to do .
Agreed! I have a rule. If I’m going to spend x amount for foolishness, I must put the same amount in my savings! It’s cut down on a lot of foolishness 😂
I remember doing the same, with less frequency. It’s pure foolishness. It all stems from self love.. grew my own hair out, and pocket that cash monthly! It’s amazing how much money I’ve saved. Just on my hair alone.
@GodLoveFreedom well I tell you so listen.... she blames him for her unhappiness if dude working taking of her and family her hair diamond rings home paid her way in nursing school and she still mouthing off about him flirting with women but I dont see her say nothing good about dude for all we know she be flirting with Men at her job.
I hate when the judge goes on the rant about how her father wasn’t involved but paid for college. Not everyone is like this and needs attention. Your mother didn’t work so you had that. Not everyone does. Mrs. toler was also divorced by 26… so…
She should definitely divorce him. Not only is he not spending anytime with her, he is also cheating on her and making excuses for it. The only thing he brings to the table is money. Money is never enough. She better leave him or she will cheat on him and that will be worse, besides the chances that he will get another woman pregnant soon or have even gotten another woman pregnant is high.
The Beautiful Judge Lynn been siding with the husbands too much lately! I’m getting jealous. 🤣🤣🤷🏽♀️ Come on judge less of that in 2020. The reason Adam and Eve got kicked out of the Garden is because Adam wasn’t paying enough attention to Eve. It opened up doors for the enemy to get in Eve’s ear. 🥶
There comes a time that you say the words that "I love you, you look beautiful, etc." Those are words you have to show the mean something with action. Saying them is less showing her that you care or showing affection.
He cheated but they been together since they were 15-16!!! I'm a busy woman with a busy man & we don't get to see each other often - that's what happens when you're working hard, living life. Judge is right - she's a fool to let him go! Some women seem to want a man who works hard, gets money, helps with the kids, but still gives them 24/7 attention!! Get a hobby ladies!
Cheating in the past, cheating in the present, still cheated! Putting her through school and pulling his weight financially doesn't mean a woman should just sit up and let him cheat. 🤦🏾♀️ There's tons of men who will pull their weight financially and emotionally and won't cheat, so why should women have to settle for less?
Be great full for what you have it’s a lot of ppl with no love no hustle about themselves & selfish... WHO WOULDNT WANT A WOMAN THIS BEAUTIFUL that’s a nurse And WHO WOULDNT WANT A HANDSOME FAMILY ORIENTED MAN????
He can't be in 2 places at one time.. She's going to cheat with a dude with no job, no car and no real place to live because he has "time" to be in her face.. My husband works 6 days a week 10-12 hours a day.
She is going to learn the hard way. This man is working and providing for her and their family. Yes he needs to grow up with regards to relationship skills and there is definitely no excuse for cheating. She had no complaints when she admitted to spending nearly $1,000 on her hair! She wants all the luxuries but doesn't want him to work to provide the luxuries. The judge was correct, plenty of women will definitely try to take him off her hands since he seems to be a problem for her!!
@@samoea19 STD's mean everything! At no point did I excuse him cheating! I stated as well that he needs to grow up, especially with his relationship skills as well as stating that there was No excuse for cheating!
@@destiny7190 then why does she need to learn something or worry about who would snatch him up???? I dont care if you put 2 million in my hand....all that providing and work means nothing if you gamble with my health. If another woman wants him go on and take that cheater. I'm just not for ppl excusing cheating by saying the person is a hard worker and provides because that's how alot of boys (not men) manipulate their significant other and since that was what the vast majority of your post was about that's what it seems like you are doing.
Reading comments he said he had no one to show him how to do this they just need to learn how to balance and they have been together since teenage years I'm sure there's a lot they need to work on I think with counseling they would be better
She better wise up ... he’s tall handsome hardworking and lovable many ladies wants a man like that ... and you get it you wanna lose it ... be wise lady
@@Rooted_Locs Sure, she could let him go...then what? Is that gonna make her happier? She will be a single parent and he will have more broads than he can handle. And it will definitely make those "groupies" happy, though.
@@KhemistryIBMOR he's already focused on making the groupies happier than his wife anyways so is it really that much of a loss if he leaves? He can bring home an incurable STD and who wants to live with that just because he makes a good amount of money?
I think the message is LOUD and CLEAR when he asked her to send him a nude picture. And I disagreed with judge Toler, Luther says it better " A house is not a home when there's no one there to hold and no one there you can kiss goodnight".
Been together from he was 16? He might want to be single. Leave him. If it's meant to be he will come back. But then again she's not leaving that good life.
I remember when my now ex husband used to cheat left and right, walk in the house at 8am and when I complained he’d say “I’m a good man because I provide”. Providing is not nearly enough to keep a marriage together. He learned that the hard way.
FACTS! No woman in her right mind wants to be with a loose man.
Amen..Marriage or Relationships have many aspects and if the main aspect of it is lacking which has to do with respecting & valuing one's partner, the provisions being referred to, won't be enjoyed because the connection or balance that should form a united bond, is lacking. Thus paving the way for the relationship to feel like a waste of time. The victim will eventually feel unloved & will still have that desire to experience that which will make them wholesome.
Providing is good enough to keep a marriage together since MOST women tend to marry men based on what they can provide.
That 5 minute for play all day works I did it with my ex all the time unfortunately both of us being disabled made the relationship almost impossible I miss her every day if there was something I could change to fix it I would because I really loved her
@@BrokeTruckerGyal haha a loose man with community dick (not my phrase) 😂🤣👏
Judge Lyn’s five-minute hairdo looks like a million dollars.
She looks like she is wearing a wig...No way with that black of skin is she going to have hair that fine it just don't work that way...
MnMs002 she mentioned her hair once. She uses an “olive oil perm” that she buys at the drugstore for about 8 dollars, and uses it on her hair at home to make her hair less frizzy. The rest is just good haircut and a good stylist that the show presumably provides.
When she turned to look at the pic it was clear to see that those are her real hair
@@MnMs002 The color of your skin does not dictate the texture of your hair.
@@mrslisha0385 Bull crap...
He needs to learn worklife balance
Really so she a slave to a job and he wants to create generational wealth this is why or society is dying
@@tryp_da_ghost I don't disagree he's doing a good thing but it's not worth loosing yourself and family in doing so. When you think of your family is it wealth you think of or moments together. My cousin was like him he had the wealth. A 5 storey house with a mote. Luxury cars and his long time fiancee. He would tell me of the wedding she will get. He was killed for his wealth. Moral of the story working hard is good. I've done so since I was 17. Now almost 40 I hear my husband complain about time to together. So my friend you must learn to balance everything.
@@phyllisb-chronicles3358 hey at the end of the day what else do you got we do not have the cultural structure to fight for a better system. If he thinks money cures it all it might. But you are not wearing 5,000$ weave either sister. Would she stay if that all stops and he comes home. More
No such thing as work life balance when a man is on his purpose. Most women don't understand a man's grind, and hustle. They want ALL your time. If you're not; then you cheating or you neglecting your duties. He's NOT responsible for managing her insecurities. Its unrealistic and unhealthy. This is why it is imperative for men who want to become the best them they can be to remain uncommitted (NO MARRIAGE)!! Marriage before he got to where he wanted to be in life will be his demise. She will ruin him in divorce court. Feel sorry for this brotha. They want a man whose successful, but then complain when he out grinding to get that success. She's ungrateful.
Amen!
Just because a man works and provides doesn’t excuse him from flirting and/or cheating periodttt‼️
He is cheating
I don't think that he is cheating.
I'm not sure I completely agree with the judge on this one.
@@gwenettethacker9533 Men love women like u, "Stupid" "Naive" and the ole hand n hand Gullible and in D E N I A L!!!
@@gwenettethacker9533 He pretty much admit it multiple times that it was something he did in the past. "I've made mistakes"
Just because you sacrifice don’t mean you can go out a disrespect the marriage smh men smh
I AGREE
Enrico Hall but we talking about the man in this video I’ll shake my head at it all male of female
“Men?” Lol...in the word of many around the world women...”DoN’t
GenEralizE Us” Lol
How do we know she didn't entertain when dudes flirt with her when she getting gas or going shopping?
@@shaym754 no this about the couple dude put his wife through school I didn't hear a thank you from her so you need stop ur man bashing
i hope this woman realized her worth and left. him saying “i’m not perfect, i make mistakes” gave it all away. he cheated & still does.
Left him and go to who? Why do women think men are just gonna take divorced single moms like their a great deal 💀
@@drejaquez Exactly
@@drejaquez so why should she stay in a miserable situation just because you say other men would not want to be with her?
@@drejaquez Being single is not a death sentence.
@@drejaquez easy answer: because they do all the time.
Lol, so because he's working and providing, it makes it ok for him to cheat on her? Judge Lynn missed the mark on this one.
To much late night activity he as a young black man should want to be at home during those late night hours because many young black men get arrested beaten harassed or killed by the police at that time of night. He could be cheating she should hire a detective with that hair money.
She would not have had to tell me to stay. I would know this. And I would sexy up more into his world & agenda bringing him back to me. Now...I understand choose your battle, this one I’ll fight.
She missed it big time
Stop thinking of it emotionally and think of it in terms of family and future not how she feels
Just answer this how many men are gonna take a divorced single mom seriously enough to marry her again? Then think about how many successful men would marry a divorced single mom? Probability wise she ain’t finding another dude like him and she already has kids with him and he takes care of them well if you really think you’d find a better situation than that go ahead be my guest and go try out the streets and die alone like a lot of women who want it all have to find out you can’t have a successful man attractive man who has the same traits as an average guy why would a man kill himself working this much to be limited sexually that’s ridiculous maybe an average guy won’t cheat but if you want the diamonds and 500 hair that comes with cheating but everything else in your life is taken care of
@@drejaquez I stand by what I said.
Sharon sweetheart he is delivering a lot more than Jewelry!!!!
Why do you think so? He's a hardworking man kudos to him.
His JEWEL!
Private investor
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Yea like potential STDs and possible children outside the marriage....
I'm sorry but I don't know ANYBODY needing a braclet delivered at 1am in the morning. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
Me either. Who calls a man's house about a braclet? Please!!!! and he left to deliver it? Nope old boy is cheating....and another thing why is he gettint kudos because he works and takes care of the kids...ISN'T THAT HIS JOB AS THE PROVIDER AND SO-CALLED HEAD OF THE HOUSE?
@@sandrasmith6430
She a nurse, I made six figures as a nurse. Some of my colleagues worked two jobs and surpassed me. I'm not working six or seven days a week. So I don't want to hear he's providing for her. She probably is carrying the medical insurance and death benefits through her employment.
I think the judge is right he’s a great provider however, if he’s neglecting home he’s creating room for the devil to creep in....
And all those free radical women only want that hard earn money
If you're cheating on your wife and asking women to send you nudes its a problem. You can't just provide. You have to be loyal.
b2sdva Campbell 👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽
b2sdva Campbell home needs to pull there part. He put her through school. That will last a lifetime what has she done for him that would last a lifetime in a positive way
@@jamesjohnson5145 cheating on your wife leaves scars (and maybe diseases and mistresses babies) that also last a lifetime. If he can't be faithful, he is missing the most fundamental part of being a loving husband and no amount of money will make up for that pain Period
She's gonna cheat, because she believes he's not giving her the attention she deserves.
I don't think she will because she is too terrified of losing both him and the lifestyle he provides her but she should file for divorce though because she as we all do realize his ass is cheating and using work alot of time as an excuse WAKE UP PRETTY LADY!!!!
I would cheat on him too 😂
She already cheated...
That usually happens
Yep
Just cz you're are striving to be successful that don't give you the greenlight to entertain the opposite sex. This goes for. Men and women. Money comes and goes but your family is there for richer or poor.
I so agree!!!
Women are not there for richer or poorer. They might look out a little bit, but if you drag a woman’s lifestyle down she will certainly leave.
@@Mudoh415 mothers worry about their offspring. They need to know they're able to feed them tomorrow. Even the animals do that. It's natural that men are hunters and women are gathers.
@@Mudoh415 . Why is a womans lifestyle a man's responsibility? They want to be equal right? So let them go out and provide for their own lifestyle like men do. They always talking about equality until its time to pay up.
@@piplyf exactly
Judge is right but I think she should’ve spoke on his allegations on cheating....
And spending more time with his wife
@@morenikeogunsusi9579 q
But that's all it was, allegations. She never offered any definitive evidence. Although, I know those barbershop groupies are real. Those girls do THE most. Lol
There was no proff of cheating.
@@4bfam right on that they are thirsty woman or thouts willing to cook dude dinner so the wife need to recognize dude for what he does for her
He's cheating on her...who makes and delivers bracelets at 1am in the morning, and to a guy?
@Secret Encounter I mean, i get that he might have to make a bracelet in a certain amount of time, but does he really need to deliver it the same night he makes it? This couple needs to go on Couples Court.
Oh we would have went together!
idevourbooks yep cause I want a lie detector!
Because he could have delivered the bracelet in the morning, or at the guy’s job since he was giving them to a colleague, not his significant other. The guy was giving it to a co-worker, he could have given it the following day.
@@bbryant1731 IKR
But he's cheating... definitely still cheating
Absolutely
She's probably cheating as well.
and it probably won't stop she better cheat back now that's balance lol
@@bbryant1731 or she could leave? Revenge cheating is such a childish mindset and she can put herself at risk for STDs. He will just keep cheating regardless because he clearly doesn't care. He he did, he wouldn't have cheated in the first place. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
@@prncessbaby16 yea but it damn sure makes it even and she's already at risk with him being a cheater
He says, "I'm not Perfect; I've made mistakes!" That's the code for, "I'm a Cheater!" Yes, it's GREAT that he's a Provider, Ambitious and Extremely Driven, but is it so hard to add FAITHFUL to the Re'sume'? There has to be mutual RESPECT in a marriage. If he doesn't MAKE time for his wife and kids; she'll get the wanted/needed attention and affection outside of their home and it's all downhill from there. When 1 spouse is making it known that they're feeling neglected and less important to the other, and NOTHING is being done for improvement.....Cheating almost ALWAYS follow. Yes, he's a catch, but so is SHE.
@ I'm NOT disagreeing with you; Valid points but should she still accept his indiscretions? He's holding down his family financially and that's what he's SUPPOSED to do as a man and husband. He doesn't get an award for that or a pass to cheat. Ijs
@@MikeBNumba6 Oh no having a lil job or 2 don't make you "king" and able to do the THE MOST VILE THING you can to your loving wife! Keep it IN YOUR PANTS IF YOU TAKE VOWS, That is the ONLY way to be a good husband.
Well Said!!
Some men act like they can't walk and chew gum at the same time, but women are suppose to be everything and anything to their man.....like damn we require the same things sir!🙄🙄🙄😂😂😂
@@dkutie4real Well Said. These men want a medal and a freaking parade for doing wtf they are supposed to do. You signed up to be the protector and provider when you said " I do". Just like we sign up to take care of our man and his day to day physical, mental,.and emotional needs. As well as doing the same for the children. We sacrifice our lives to bring them into this world. Completely ruin our beautiful bodies to give life to the next generation. Walk through the fires of hell to get them here. We are the chef, the maid, the doctor, the nurse, the counselor, the chauffeur, the accountant and many other hats we wear. Some of us bear the children and get back to business. We hold the fort down. And make it pretty and comfortable. And do it 24/7-365/366 on the leap year. Do it without complaining. Sometimes without a break. Sometimes without eating. Do a damn good job at all of it... And still manage to look damn good while doing it. We get no recognition most of the time. Besides one day a freaking year ( Definitely not enough). We don't get no medals or parades or cookies. Hell by the time we get everyone showered and dressed, we don't even get any hot water. We all have a role to play in a union. And when you make that choice to marry and become one... A unit. You sign on for all that shit. That's basic shit you're supposed to do. So no.... Neither one of ya deserves any special treatment or recognition for doing what you volunteered to do. Your recognition is appreciating each other. Staying loyal and doing right by one another. Even through the storms. That's what is important in a marriage to me.
I think the standard for men is so low .. because he works and picks up his kid's.... But he is being real suspect with his clients
They literally only have to do the bare minimum 🤦🏽♀️
@@janeeneemarienee right!
Do you really think the standard for men is low? What is the wife doing in this relationship? 800 dollar weaves? Expensive vacations? Fine jewelry? All, (probably) mostly on his dime. I'm waiting on the episode where the wife is an entrepreneur trying to secure her family's future and dishing out expensive gifts to her husband, and all the while he's complaining about not getting enough time (BTW, I think her complaint was legitimate), and we talk about the low standards for HER!!!!!!!!!!
@@hangtyme765 I didn't say nothing about money. I said he real suspect with his clients and the picking up of the kids. Also he worked to put her through nursing school and now she make good money and he's perusing his dreams. I think that's great..I don't know the ends and out of their finances. When my husband and I got together I made way more money. We have always put our money together. 13 years, 4 kids, 4 and counting aways growing business latter We pretty much just buy whatever we want it's the same money, but I know everyone's relationship is different. I know for a lot of women it's his money is our money and my money is mine so I get what you're saying but that's not what I was saying.
@@hangtyme765 How about taking care of the kids when he's not around....dinner, homework, bath time, stories, answering questions about where's dad? until you have and care for children ...have several stadium seats....sure he is buying epensive gifts and vacations....guilty people do those sort of things......and because she complains.....she is spoiled....GTFOH !
That sucks, she deserves love!!!
Judge Lynn you're soooo very wrong, a wife deserves to feel loved. He makes time for everyone but her. She has a demanding job, he's a barber who makes beaded bracelets. A wife needs to feel loved, and it takes more than paying the bills. He doesn't provide the attention she needs. His interest is every where but on her. I'm glad she knows that she's a catch as well because you might as well told her a piece of man is better than no man.
I totally agree. She missed the boat on this one!
Did y'all missed the part she's telling him to take time to tell her "she looks good" and "I missed you today "🤔
I agree, judge this time wrong.
Most of the time judge me absolutely on point but I know this it be a few episodes that I've seen that I thought like why would she tell her that but no one is perfect but I think she still gives great advice
As soon as she said he has a barbershop, 🤦🏽♀️. Definitely a cheater! IJS 🤷🏽♀️
Then why wife is entertaining flirts from other dudes?
Yep!
Don’t be a fool? He’s cheating and has lost interest in her. He doesn’t like her like that anymore.
He ain't a good one. He's a cheater wtf judge.
Converting from a boy to a man does not mean you are obligated to mess up and then attempt to use the, "I was young" excuse. Same goes for the" I'm not perfect" excuse. Uncontrollable actions is what gives one the right to use that excuse which is how mistakes are made and he's trying to make it seem like he has some type of impulse disorder which is so not the case. If you know right from wrong and simply don't care, it was not a mistake it was a choice that you made. So what he meant to say was, "I'm not loyal and lack accountability for my actions."
@Enrico Hall omg you again🙄
I said what I said, don’t like it oh well. Because last time I checked, asking/ receiving nudes is not an act of faithfulness.
@@bambidaydreamer3 ☝️This❣👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Where are all the faithful men at🤷♀️
Lmao 😂
When she said barbershop...me screaming at the screen: ooooh lordt he cheating!
The wife is cute i still like her
Right!! 😂😂😂😂
Yup add him being an attractive barber and boom cheating lol
He's not being totally honest. In all that hustling he's including pleasure with business. Even if he doesn't equate flirting with cheating. He needs to make better use of his family time, and their time together. I agree with Judge Lynn though.
Judge Toler giving men game, listen up fellas.
Judge Toler is the best lol The way she wants all the tea while keeping it professional. She asks the right questions the right time 😂😂
Some of yall in these comments are talking about how her man is cheating because he doesnt want to pay for her hair....She clearly said she has a job and makes good money and so did he. Her AND is problem is that HE is a damn dog with no respect for his wife or the sanctity of their marriage. Dont defend this man because he's actually working unlike most the trash that comes on divorce court. Just because he works and she enjoys luxuries like getting her hair done and she WORKS doesnt excuse/justify him putting 0 effort into the relationship.
Exactly! PLUS on the update it does say they’re dong better because he’s paying more attention to it.
Exactly men set such a low bar for themselves, and women have been momming, working, and doing all the emotional work in a relationship and get 0 credit. Like it's just expected for women to be tough and held together, while men can dog around and do zero for the relationship and still get praised!
U ain't lying! U gotta provide AND not cheat on ur woman to have it going on for me!
Spuddds RandomOpinion don’t give her a right to neglecting the kids because she wants to work .
He just ran his whole day down to us and the wife ain’t even mentioned in his day 🤦🏽♀️ Now I hope he watched a recording of this to see how FD up that really sounded
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Great point
Truth!
divorce court back then had all the advice
, but now she just lets them talk and send them home.
Gifted Visionary Mannnn, if this ain’t the truth!😂
She has producers. Ppl telling her how they want the show to go
They both need to make a slight tweak to their daily lives. She needs to praise and encourage him for his hard work and he needs to give her more attention. Just a little and I’m sure both will go a long way. If he’s done with her then he’s done and vice versa but I hope not because they are beautiful and have a great story and he supported her dream.
The girl just needs to stop being a 16 year old
He also needs to stop cheating. No man is staying out doing housecalls cutting hair at women's houses until 1 unless they're cheating. Doesn't make sense given he says he gets off at 8pm. He was happy as hell making those bracelets, knowing damn well where he was coming from.
He needs to be out. There is no satisfying most women LIKE THIS. Spends time with his kids, supports his family, gives her whatever she wants and she cuts him down, complaining about all his businesses while she rocks 800.00 a week hairdos. Be serious. Only 31 acting like she's 65. Stop it.
@@lonnie4827 The way you phrase it is weird, do you mean it's weird to take extra jobs and small gigs and working until late?
@@asiandod325 Nothing wrong with how I phrased it. I meant exactly what I wrote. Read it again without adding your own spin.
No barber is taking house calls at 1 and 2 AM to cut a little boy's hair.
That just isn't happening.
It's illogical and a blatant lie.
He stated that he gets off at 8PM and takes one or two house calls afterwards until 11pm. That doesn't even make with what he said before.
If he stops house calls at 11pm, why is he getting home at 2 after taking a house call at 1 at someone's mom's house?
No barber's appointment needs 3 hours.
Make it make sense.
It doesn't.
I didnt say anything about what you typed out- at all.
After that ruling I bet he went home and cheated his ass off
I think he was doing what she thinks he was doing.
Just because he's successful ain't always the answer.
I wish the judge would’ve gotten on him more about his interactions with other women. That whole nude text situation wasn’t cool. Idc how much money and success the man is bringing in!
His work ethic is very attractive because I'm an ambitious person as well. Please work it out guys, you deserve to be happy and create generational wealth for your family.
I couldn't stay with a cheater. Providing is not enough. You have to be loyal to your spouse.
@@alyssag.5758 your so right she needs to nagging Brother maybe that why he entertain thoughts with with thirsty women the wife and u Alyssa stop whining
@@eternal1blue women need more than just money. we need attention and affection. so STFU.
April I never said she didn’t need affection... but don’t complain if dude is taking care of business and she is fussing about it give brother some credit she wanted to work he paid for schooling it’s a two way street they both have take responsibility on that.
@@eternal1blue that doesn't mean he can go and cheat and spend 0 time with her and the kids.
he’s a big entrepreneur motivation. Got me pumped to put in the work I need to
Facts 💯💯
If he disrespecting you cheating on you step you deserve better he don't Respect you or the relationship leave before he bring you back some type of disease that cannot cure
I remember this case lol
We need more realistic and less dramatic episodes like this one. Because these last couple of seasons ... o boy😬
beautyfyewitAlaina B I agree, it’s getting ridiculous.
Yess cause it's been crazy 😩
agreed
"I love you , I work for you , I married you, what's your problem?"
Damn words of wisdom right there
Smh why are they so clueless sometimes
It’s rather sad that there are so many people (including Judge Toler who I love) think that a working man and who also picks up his kids from school is a catch and not to let him go. Why shouldn’t a woman expect a man to work, pick up his kids AND stay faithful!?!
Judge Lynn never made that statement 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🧐👀👀
@@beb5407 right…🤦🏾♀️😂😅
Ladies here is game:
LEARN TO SPEAK TO THE HERO IN YOUR MAN AND NOT THE ZERO! He needs that also!
* Chuckle * She is much too angry, sassy and prideful for that...the very flower of the ABW.
@@KhemistryIBMOR You have no idea what you are talking about. If you want to side with old boy that's fine but do not put his bullshit cheating ass ways on her!!!
Judge Tole? Who cares how much some brother earns, when he has already cheated, 'admits mistakes', and his wife doesn't know what's in the bank accounts?
She should be grateful for a working husband who pretzels for customers while his wife gets more attention from men at the grocery store?
The dude is young now. Wait till he can't fit it all in. Do you think his wife and family won't get shorted? He already has his game down.
I think you are just burning out at the rate of marriage dysfunction.
Btw: I agree with 95+% of your analysis of couples, and you do a super job dispensing wisdom most never get before marriage.
Thank you.
You are also a gorgeous woman. You have a spark that never quits.
I'm not with the judge all the way on this on. He needs to spend more time with family. The judge talking about he snatch-up -able...yes he has cheated on her so we know that. I don't think anyone would be a fool to let a cheater go IMO.
And the judge know better than YOU
That's my thing when is it a done deal to know someone is messing around on you after they have another baby outside of the marriage it's too damn late at that point Judge Lynn be tripping people have a feeling when things just are not right learn to trust their instincts because nobody is stupid ain't that much working in the world He is both lying and cheating without question!!!!
Jenni M 💯
Tryp Juug Gang The Judge can’t make a blanket statement like that covers every situation. Kick a cheater to the curb.
They out grew each other
Nah most people don't see this, but they both said they didn't have good examples. She didn't know how to be a wife. Hint hint she is a nurse rather than raising her kids, and she didn't support him, but want him to stop working? I bet this is the reason why he cheated. He is working to be great to better himself and she isn't.
I agree for the first time that Judge Toler missed the mark on this one. She never held him accountable for his cheating and time management with his wife. I think he left out feeling vindicated and she was left feeling empty and unheard.
Hmm, he's obviously lying my dear.
NO EXCUSES...When u love someone u learn how to do these things just like u learn how to do things u want to do
Buts he's a cheater smh
Judge is so beautiful 😩 gorgeous woman !! & the advice she gave him about “5 min foreplay all day “ is the truth !! To have a healthy relationship you need at least 5 positive interactions to 1 negative.
she reminds me of a young loretta devine
He’s full of excuses.. main bulls**t is “I’m not perfect”.. I make mistakes ..telling a woman a “ so called client” to send nudes after she asked for his is not a mistake.. that’s borderline cheating ..why do these women have his personal number?
I think the judge skirted her issues .. she must have concerns if she wants him audited his face when it was mentioned looked ghastly .. just because he’s working and providing doesn’t mean he’s not being unfaithful using said time to cheat..the judge only saw $$$$$ when he rallied off his business.. he maybe a good provider but is he a good husband.. if he was why is his wife bringing him to court.. he tried lying and the judge called him out on it..
Dwahn Denson I agree , sometimes staying together for the kids is not a good thing, then what happens 3-4 children in and he’s still borderline cheating .. should of told him clean up his act, be home more ,not condone him putting earnings $$$ for most , recipe for infidelity especially with these women texting wanting nudes from him and him saying send yours instead, that’s a no from me .. better to separate at 1 child than 3-4 in..
@@ck.5218 Im not a woman but if I were I would never try hanging on to something I knew was a lost cause my kids would just have to understand. why continue to invest time into a dead unromantic relationship stop attempting to live into yesterday there is nothing wrong with starting over stop with the being so damn afraid before he brings you home AIDS!!!!
Kathy Marie he is planning his exit. She is a nurse and probably holds down majority of the finances, he don’t want to lose that.
I'm usually with judge Lynn. But she was wrong in this one. Having a man means more than him keeping a job. The judge basically told her to settle with having no time with her husband.
He got a business not a job slave minded you are.
Well, your comment is why alot of successful black men date white women. Alot of black women are too emotionally needy, and too near sighted to look toward the future, hence why generational wealth in the black community is rare. Women are only thinking about what they need right now, and let's be honest , our community is ran by women. Talk to your home girls for emotional support, cuz most of the time men dont want to hear what u have to say anyway..." my boss this, my coworker that, my nails, my hair, did u hear what so and so did" THEY DONT CARE!!! He does need to balance a little more, but don't throw the baby out with the bath water, she'll end up manifesting a man who is ALWAYS there and will luv her unconditionally with his broke unmotivated a**!!
@@tryp_da_ghost so very right and insightful!!
@@goddessofthetsc5699 wow, you wrote a bunch of BS.
@@TruValidity ... thanks for the intellectual response. You actually just proved my point, your response was emotional and must have hit a nerve.
The judge has ALL the lines! When she told that man how to do the 5 minutes throughout the day, I was ‘bout ready to call my hubs and tell him to come on home 🤣🤣🤣
What a cute couple! I hope he stops cheating and they stay together.
She shouldnt stay with a cheater no matter how cute they look
I love the Classic Episodes. The new set and couples are 🗑.
My ex!!! WORKED HARD BEING A CHEATER 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's seeking attention, and she's bound to cheat on him 👦sooner or later, it's going to take for one guy 🚹that she's going to find remotely attractive to say 🗣she's beautiful and she's going to drop them draws.
But he is delivering bracelets at 1am to a guy and he's not cheating??????
So u saying she’s the problem?
@@sandrasmith6430 Man 👨will do what he has to do to generate money no matter what time ⌚it is
@@monicab.7189 Yeah 😄 she's the problem
She’s laying out the groundwork and reasoning to cheat if she isn’t already they need to realize the nuclear family is so important
I don’t think she’s wrong for asking for a more attentive husband. Older people have this idea that all a man should do to be a good man is pay the bills. I don’t typically get the vibe that the judge believes that but it seems like it here. A modern day marriage is more than paying bills and keeping house. Women know how to balance that and so would men if we didn’t make excuses for them.
ABlackSkye THANK YOU! I’ve been screaming at these comments claiming it’s unrealistic when it’s not! Women do it all the time! She’s a nurse, taking care of the kids and the household. He’s just not prioritizing time with his wife the way he should be. He also knows he’s wrong because he was caught in his lies multiple times🙄
$700+ on weave! Nah I'm good!
They're a powerhouse couple with their finances!
There are so many beautiful black women on this episode 🍫🍫😍
Listen to that chorus line at 3:32.
Lol DAMN! They on point!
He needs to have business hours. No client calls/text/emails or deliveries before or after a certain time.
The judge was weak on this one.
If this was the other way around, she was working all kind of hours and he's complaining about her not spending anytime with him, everyone will be telling him to find something to do .
Hell yeah exactly
Did she say bracelet groupies? 😂😂😂
Right😂😂
He has hella kind of groupies for each business
What we need as man is to read between the line when or woman is coming with complain sometime it's only her way to ask for attention
The lady is crazy to spend around 800 to put hair on her head.
Agreed! I have a rule. If I’m going to spend x amount for foolishness, I must put the same amount in my savings! It’s cut down on a lot of foolishness 😂
She works too and that's why you work to spend money on things you work for ....RIGHT???
Not really if you got it why not
5000000 divorce court “groupies” are waiting for this man now!
Judge said a quart low on estrogen 😂😂
Almost $1000 on hair...that last a month or so? That's a used car. Wow.
And he said she does that every week.
I remember doing the same, with less frequency. It’s pure foolishness. It all stems from self love.. grew my own hair out, and pocket that cash monthly! It’s amazing how much money I’ve saved. Just on my hair alone.
@@mobutter2879 Glad to hear that. I love that natural hair. It says something about you when you rock it.
@GodLoveFreedom well I tell you so listen.... she blames him for her unhappiness if dude working taking of her and family her hair diamond rings home paid her way in nursing school and she still mouthing off about him flirting with women but I dont see her say nothing good about dude for all we know she be flirting with Men at her job.
@GodLoveFreedom stop your whining and crying and change you diaper because u full of poop.
1 am in the morning.... when you said am we knew it was morning. Cute couple... hope judge can get them together.
If you're not home, you'll never be where you need to be as a man.
Amen.
Yess I can't pay that kinda money on hair 🤷🏾♀️
I hate when the judge goes on the rant about how her father wasn’t involved but paid for college. Not everyone is like this and needs attention. Your mother didn’t work so you had that. Not everyone does. Mrs. toler was also divorced by 26… so…
She should definitely divorce him. Not only is he not spending anytime with her, he is also cheating on her and making excuses for it. The only thing he brings to the table is money. Money is never enough. She better leave him or she will cheat on him and that will be worse, besides the chances that he will get another woman pregnant soon or have even gotten another woman pregnant is high.
beautifulsweet hrt he sent her to school what are you talking about
Damn bro. When did you sleep?
‘What a great day in Divorce Court’ 😂😂😂😂
My grandma told me u either want a busy man or a broke man. But u can't have both
The Beautiful Judge Lynn been siding with the husbands too much lately! I’m getting jealous. 🤣🤣🤷🏽♀️ Come on judge less of that in 2020. The reason Adam and Eve got kicked out of the Garden is because Adam wasn’t paying enough attention to Eve. It opened up doors for the enemy to get in Eve’s ear. 🥶
See guys? Just because you KNOW you love your woman, doesn't mean she don't need to HEAR you say it.
They are a BEAUTIFUL couple!
There comes a time that you say the words that "I love you, you look beautiful, etc." Those are words you have to show the mean something with action. Saying them is less showing her that you care or showing affection.
"She dont know how to stroke that ego " IM DEAD :D :D :D that was cringy and hilarious ASF
He cheated but they been together since they were 15-16!!! I'm a busy woman with a busy man & we don't get to see each other often - that's what happens when you're working hard, living life. Judge is right - she's a fool to let him go! Some women seem to want a man who works hard, gets money, helps with the kids, but still gives them 24/7 attention!! Get a hobby ladies!
Cheating in the past, cheating in the present, still cheated! Putting her through school and pulling his weight financially doesn't mean a woman should just sit up and let him cheat. 🤦🏾♀️ There's tons of men who will pull their weight financially and emotionally and won't cheat, so why should women have to settle for less?
Know your worth, ladies. :)
agreed! he's a gaslighter and textbook narcissist. he's using money as a form of manipulation to get her to stay whilst he cheats his ass off.
Be great full for what you have it’s a lot of ppl with no love no hustle about themselves & selfish... WHO WOULDNT WANT A WOMAN THIS BEAUTIFUL that’s a nurse And WHO WOULDNT WANT A HANDSOME FAMILY ORIENTED MAN????
They look good as a unit may God bless this couple 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He can't be in 2 places at one time.. She's going to cheat with a dude with no job, no car and no real place to live because he has "time" to be in her face.. My husband works 6 days a week 10-12 hours a day.
I hate how Judge Toler undermined her feelings.
Yea she was dead wrong. I felt bad for this lady. Judge is so focused on money it clouts her judgment
Me too, she left so empty
She is going to learn the hard way. This man is working and providing for her and their family. Yes he needs to grow up with regards to relationship skills and there is definitely no excuse for cheating. She had no complaints when she admitted to spending nearly $1,000 on her hair! She wants all the luxuries but doesn't want him to work to provide the luxuries. The judge was correct, plenty of women will definitely try to take him off her hands since he seems to be a problem for her!!
So STDs mean nothing.....ok
@@samoea19 STD's mean everything! At no point did I excuse him cheating! I stated as well that he needs to grow up, especially with his relationship skills as well as stating that there was No excuse for cheating!
@@destiny7190 then why does she need to learn something or worry about who would snatch him up???? I dont care if you put 2 million in my hand....all that providing and work means nothing if you gamble with my health. If another woman wants him go on and take that cheater. I'm just not for ppl excusing cheating by saying the person is a hard worker and provides because that's how alot of boys (not men) manipulate their significant other and since that was what the vast majority of your post was about that's what it seems like you are doing.
brwnbutterfly beautifully said
He's cheating on her..... I hope she divorces him quick ! It's men out here that can provide and stay faithful
Reading comments he said he had no one to show him how to do this they just need to learn how to balance and they have been together since teenage years I'm sure there's a lot they need to work on I think with counseling they would be better
She better wise up ... he’s tall handsome hardworking and lovable many ladies wants a man like that ... and you get it you wanna lose it ... be wise lady
He's all that AND a cheater! You left that part out...
She not losing nothing cuz he a cheater which mean he lies to her every night no sanctity in that marriage!
miniimufin lmao exactly, why don’t guys understand that once they cheat all that other stuff doesn’t even matter anymore
@@Rooted_Locs
Sure, she could let him go...then what? Is that gonna make her happier? She will be a single parent and he will have more broads than he can handle. And it will definitely make those "groupies" happy, though.
@@KhemistryIBMOR he's already focused on making the groupies happier than his wife anyways so is it really that much of a loss if he leaves? He can bring home an incurable STD and who wants to live with that just because he makes a good amount of money?
Handsome man too. Y’all stay together now!’
There are "mistakes" and there are "choices". I'm so sick of that "I'm not perfect" crap!
It’s the truth we’re not perfect it’s not an excuse on why it happened but humans do make mistakes
He is cheating
Yeah, asking the woman to send him nudes was a big giveaway.
I don’t know if he cheating or not but he solid and wants to do better.
He asked a woman to send him nudes. That's disrespectful to his wife.
I think the message is LOUD and CLEAR when he asked her to send
him a nude picture. And I disagreed with judge Toler, Luther says it
better " A house is not a home when there's no one there to hold and
no one there you can kiss goodnight".
Cotica#4902 I’m saying I don’t know because I’m thinking if she really considered that cheating she would have left him.
I’m guilty of acting like her and being mad over my husbands work hours 😭if definitely looks different seeing it played out on tv.
This judge is even more beautiful in 2020 than in this old episode 😍😍😍
Been together from he was 16? He might want to be single.
Leave him. If it's meant to be he will come back. But then again she's not leaving that good life.