Thank you for this video! You nailed it on how a wife's concerns are different and how to take into consideration both spouses desires, needs & concerns. Everything you said about women being more detailed oriented and wanting to see the full plan, and going A, B, C, D, etc is EXACTLY what I need from my husband on our R2I plan!
Thanks for your comment @user-bc7pv2rr8n . Sorry but taking the liberty to suggest something here, I think sometime expectations are not clear and reiterating then helps. All the very best to you and family, may god bless your family.
I appreciate your efforts in making such videos where you try your best to explain the topic as simply as possible. Some of your videos literally speak my mind. I can imagine how difficult it must be when one of the partner does not want to Or have strong doubts about moving back to India. In our case, we both were on same page, we had decided to go back from D1. 15 years went by, had decent life in US and materialistically it will be even better going forward , however going back to India is an emotion which can't be measured against materialistic criteria's. I believe one who survive the transition phase can overcome all the numerous parameters later, about which they are worried before executing the decision..... Keep up the good work! Thanks!
@CharmingHennaCreations Thanks for your comment and appreciation. I agree the materialistic gains and comfort make most of us postpone the move. And you are 100% right about the transition phase, that is the tim where most people back out or change plans.
👏Always great content you bring us . Apke videos have motivated us to take the decision to move back closer to parents , life is short . just convincing our 10 year old is 😮Aapne sahi kaha tha insaan ke emotions uske bachoon se Jude hain .Bas bachoon ka doubt aa jaata hai Kabhi Kabhi .
Thanks for being transparent and sharing your experience.Even we are from Bangalore planning to move , may I know which school your kids attend and which community you reside in .Thanks in advance
Some of the things we dont like in India- there is also an opportunity that when someone returns, that they can educate their fellow beings into adopting some of the good practices. If you dont like that people dont smile when you make eye contacts in the lift, why don't you go ahead and still do that.
I agree completely, there are few things I still do and people initially were surprised/ignorant but now it became practice. I still say thank you to maid , helpers , security driver and I smile to strangers in known setting like office , apartment community etc. You can become a change agent and make things better around you.
@@no-oneknows9236 you should also make a video about the logistics. How you handled the bank accounts, 401k. Also if you shipped stuff from USA to India etc etc. That would be very helpful.
😀 It is a slippery slop man, ride carefully. To be honest with you if you partner is not on board with your decision, it will not work out and unnecessary push would ended up in other family issues. Working with life partner and onboarding them on return to India decision is one of the big thing and many bury their emotions about return due to their spouse unwillingness.
@@no-oneknows9236 Yes, , I have known couples who divorced because of this. The women these days want to stay in the foreign sans all the sensibilities, and emotions. So, let them stay there, maybe without their families.
Thank you for being so transparent and open. Very genuine content. Thanks for your time sir
Thank you for this video! You nailed it on how a wife's concerns are different and how to take into consideration both spouses desires, needs & concerns. Everything you said about women being more detailed oriented and wanting to see the full plan, and going A, B, C, D, etc is EXACTLY what I need from my husband on our R2I plan!
Thanks for your comment @user-bc7pv2rr8n .
Sorry but taking the liberty to suggest something here, I think sometime expectations are not clear and reiterating then helps.
All the very best to you and family, may god bless your family.
Just move back, the USA is not your home, dear! India is home!!
I appreciate your efforts in making such videos where you try your best to explain the topic as simply as possible. Some of your videos literally speak my mind. I can imagine how difficult it must be when one of the partner does not want to Or have strong doubts about moving back to India. In our case, we both were on same page, we had decided to go back from D1. 15 years went by, had decent life in US and materialistically it will be even better going forward , however going back to India is an emotion which can't be measured against materialistic criteria's. I believe one who survive the transition phase can overcome all the numerous parameters later, about which they are worried before executing the decision..... Keep up the good work! Thanks!
@CharmingHennaCreations Thanks for your comment and appreciation. I agree the materialistic gains and comfort make most of us postpone the move.
And you are 100% right about the transition phase, that is the tim where most people back out or change plans.
Most of the advice is very much applicable for indians living in India sir...
Relative issues touched very nicely
Thanks Kaushik , Appreciate your comment. All the best.
👏Always great content you bring us . Apke videos have motivated us to take the decision to move back closer to parents , life is short . just convincing our 10 year old is 😮Aapne sahi kaha tha insaan ke emotions uske bachoon se Jude hain .Bas bachoon ka doubt aa jaata hai Kabhi Kabhi .
Thanks appreciate your comment🙏 and all the very best. Please reach out incase you need any help or have questions.
Thanks for being transparent and sharing your experience.Even we are from Bangalore planning to move , may I know which school your kids attend and which community you reside in .Thanks in advance
Some of the things we dont like in India- there is also an opportunity that when someone returns, that they can educate their fellow beings into adopting some of the good practices. If you dont like that people dont smile when you make eye contacts in the lift, why don't you go ahead and still do that.
I agree completely, there are few things I still do and people initially were surprised/ignorant but now it became practice. I still say thank you to maid , helpers , security driver and I smile to strangers in known setting like office , apartment community etc.
You can become a change agent and make things better around you.
Thinking of moving back to India after 15 years in USA/Canada. Your content is extremely helpful.
@scd7812 thanks for your comment and appreciation. All the very best 👍
Please let me know if I can help you with anything else.
@@no-oneknows9236 you should also make a video about the logistics. How you handled the bank accounts, 401k. Also if you shipped stuff from USA to India etc etc. That would be very helpful.
Thanks for your comment, sure I will cover these topics in next video.
Please dont stop making Videos.
Sure @SumEarth I will post a video soon. Thanks appreciate your comment.
Hello Is there a way to connect with you offline 🙏🏻
Can you please have a video with your wife so we hear her experiences in india ? Women experience are different than men in India
Sure
Are you the same guy without mustache? 😅
How did the spouse end up in the USA ? Because of you, so why would she not agree now to comeback to India?
😀 It is a slippery slop man, ride carefully.
To be honest with you if you partner is not on board with your decision, it will not work out and unnecessary push would ended up in other family issues.
Working with life partner and onboarding them on return to India decision is one of the big thing and many bury their emotions about return due to their spouse unwillingness.
@@no-oneknows9236 Yes, , I have known couples who divorced because of this. The women these days want to stay in the foreign sans all the sensibilities, and emotions. So, let them stay there, maybe without their families.
Very well articulated. Please make videos in Hindi, I know you did in the past, looking forward for new videos in hindi
This topic is related to a lot of people all over India and the world. Please allow sir to make it in English.
i would like to keep the videos in English because there are many who don't understand hindi including me